How A Woman Who Was Abused By Her Father Can Find Meaning From Her Suffering
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Dr. Phil tells a woman who is overcoming a traumatic childhood that it’s important to create meaning from her suffering. And, Life Coach Mike Bayer offers advice for how she can turn her life into her best life.
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She is one of the strongest woman alive.... bless your heart. YOU ARE A MIRACLE
yes I'm crying it's breaks m6 heart to see this
dr phil sent her to the ranch
AMEN 🙏
She looks like Sandra Bullock.
She seems so well put together... No one would blame her ifshe fell apart
Thank you Dr. Phil for helping this abused woman...it's one of the worst I ever heard of.
How did he help her
@@toastylemon913 a lot of women stay silent over their trauma and by him accepting her onto the show finally gives her the time to not stay silent
@@toastylemon913 he sent her to the ranch
@@toastylemon913 and validated her publicly, that means a lot to abused women
Bless her heart 1,000 times..I’m just happy she’s finally free and escaped her evil fathers grasp.
Every time she look at her children that’s a reminder of everything. Prayers for her 🙏🏾
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You have no idea how strong and beautiful you are. You went nationwide with this experience, which means you are so strong! I wish you healing and love and blessings and a great future. You are amazing.
Worldwide,she went worldwide. I'm from South Africa. She really is a strong woman.
She’s strong enough to cope .. not a lot of people can do that without using drugs or anything that will violate your body.
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse her story personally touched my heart and I wish I could hold this woman in my arms look at her in the eyes and say “ you’re no longer child of fear, you are a survivor of fear, the things you’ve Conquered would drive many to either insanity or suicide but for you to suffer so long and to come out alive to seek recovery shows extreme amounts of strength and I pray for your long journey to mental&emotional recovery, may you find peace one day”
Ameen
Amen
God bless you
I TOTALLY AGREE, She is a strong woman, especially because she HAS TO TAKE CARE OF THE 3 CHILDREN. My two older sisters were sexual abused by my Father, one committed suicide at age 33, and the older became mentally ill, tho both of them had very HIGH I.Q's. I Pray for You and your children, because your Father's sin has long term effects.
With all due respect, I think with all of her trauma she needs to have a female life coach.
I have ptsd and a lot of trauma from my past and some people like female life coach or male just like with there therapist and psychiatrists I think it's all about that persons choice 😊
that doesn't exactly mean everything. maybe having a male life coach will help her trust men again of what her father did to her. it depends on the course and him of course.
With all due respect, I think it should be the victim’s choice, not the choice of a viewer’s.
I'm sure she'll telll Dr. Phil if so. I reckon she's probably just grateful for such an amazing opportunity!
Sometimes female therapists/coaches actually feed the victimization and focus too much on "empowerment" and surface confidence without getting to the deeper issues.
It's amazing how well spoken & well adjusted she appears. I am sure I would act like a zombie. Bless this woman!!! I hope she reaches out to other victims so she knows she is not alone. I have severe anxiety from tons
Self awareness can really help, a third person pov is really clarifying
This woman is incredibly resilient. A Warrior
I cannot stop crying, how can a father do such things to his child🥲
Pure love to you and your children. You are indescribably a treasure.
Bless this woman she is so strong, please help her, she needs to heal.
Probably would have been better to give her a women life coach to walk "shoulder to shoulder" rather than a man. She would have had her guard down with a women better than a man.
I'm not saying you're wrong
But I don't necessarily think that's true
I hope they will empower her by asking her who she'd want to work with. Trained clinicians should ask. Having a male therapist could help to restore trust in men again and be able to give her a different perspective on healthy relationships with men. The hope would be for her to transfer what she is learning to real life situations. Her children need to be in some form of intense counseling as well. If the monster abused his daughter, he'd certainly abuse his other children/grandchild. I hope the cycle of violence ends with this generation.
In this episode it hasn't been decided yet who her coach is.
Her children will need help, also.
I feel so bad for this women not right what her father did. She is really brave. 😭😞🥺
Im not sure I can even imagine the strength and the resilience that resides in this woman.
But I know its there, just by looking it her.
She carried a burden 100x heavier than most of us ever will in life, and
SHE. IS. STILL. HERE.
Thank you for sharing your story. Such a brave women. I hope her children are doing well.
This woman is amazing!
Can't image going through all of that and being so beautiful inside and out and full of grace.
Poor lady... my God... please help her and her children. Sending love and light
Mans search from meaning.. hands down the best book you will ever read! God love this poor lady
She is beautiful I love her heart 💚💚💚💚
I would give anything to spend a week at onsite but it’s 5900 - a horrific struggle continues every day + I will continue to survive through self study until then
Me too my friend. There are so many free alternatives online. I could never afford this type of help.. I hope you're being kind to yourself x
You will transfom this suffering and pain. Your heart will soar. Wishing you everything, everything, everything ....
The mother knew full well but IGNORED
She’s beauuutiful!!! She will do just fine. She’s not only a survivor. She’s a winner!!! 🙌
What a strong beautiful and humble woman❤
I don’t see how any let alone a parent can hurt their child like that. The thought of any hurting my daughters make me Homicidal.
I think they should've assigned female coaches to this woman.
Maybe in her case they assigned someone who dealt with similar cases, she also will have to learn how to talk to other men in her life. I believe if she didn't feel comfortable she can ask for a female coach. Either way I wish her all the best in life.
I don't think the guy at the end is actually assigned to her. I think he is there as an example.
i don't knoe what is happening with the comments but this is beyond disgusting im soo sorry for her
The best book one could ever read is the Word Of God. It’s beyond great she’s no longer with her abusive father. Truly by the grace and mercy of God she’s still here. She’s a miracle.
This woman is so strong
Wow what a very powerful testimony
I like Dr Phill so much because the way he is helping the people is the best way to help people. I don’t call it help the way Oprah or Ellen is doing, giving car away or money away, I call it show off, and it makes me angry 😡.
I was abused and later raped too
From a young age, as old as 6
I'll never get over it.. This pain will go to my grave 😢
You’re a strong person for sharing your experience ! I know personally how hard it is to open up about this kind of trauma but we are survivors !!! There is free online therapy available and try TAO, which you do pay for but I promise you it’s such a rewarding experience ! It’s helped me personally tremendously.
This pain will go soon with the God's help. And will help you
Just pray god will help heal your pain
I’m so happy for her getting this help. What I wouldn’t give to get to go to this place and get the help I’ve tried to get on my own thru counseling and EMDR for years. I’ve been drawn to horses and saw them in this video. I’m 48 and have have been diagnosed with RA, Sjogrens, Fibromyalgia, chronic anxiety, depression, adhd, quite possibly lupus and MCTD. I’m a survivor of childhood trauma and sexual abuse from a close relative that was idolized by everyone in our family.
I am so tired. Still working (from home with approval), but everyday takes more than I have to give. My mother went to a Stress Center when I was around 8. She came back so much healthier. I just sometimes think the only way I can make it thru another day is to be in a hospital where all I have to do is rest and learn new ways to heal.
I’m asking for help, but not sure this will be read…but it feels like I’m releasing this out to the universe and praying that it doesn’t come back void, but accomplishes what I’m sending it out to do…to take me to this place and have the people trained to give me the emotional healing so I can heal the rest of me.
I hope you found some more healing since then. I am rooting for you.
Try writting dr phil
Where was her mom in all of this?
Probably ran for her life
In another clip video, I believe filmed more towards the beginning of the episode, she mentions that her mom worked a lot, or had different demanding jobs, etc. Other than that brief mention, I don't think it was brought up.
This lady was stabbed twice by her father too. She ended up getting involved in drugs and got arrested for helping gang members break into houses. The judge didn’t give her jail time (she was facing 12yrs) because they know how traumatic her life has been and let her go to that rehab center instead.
You are a miracle to the world
Poor lady and I hope her kids get alot of help too
Finally comments are turn on.
Where is this full episode?? Any updates?? I hope she found safe🦋 and true self love💓, for the first time😘💕💕
Bless you... You are the strongest. I hope you are well and good now.
I want her to know she is loved and is worthy of everything good!
I'm praying for you I know you can do this. 🙏
Prayer doesnt do anything. Your imaginary friend didnt spare her from her father , so why would it help her now. smh
I was not sexually abused by my father but I was beaten,threatened, screamed at, left to live in a camper at 13 years old. I tried to get free from it at a young age. I became a police officer at 19 and still had to deal with his abuse. Not even the city police would help me. I was a young man so I guess that made it ok. If I was a woman then it would be considered horrible but because I'm a male it's ok.
Cases like this kinda abuses can only excists because the victims keep their secrets!! Teach our kids to always tell when someting bad happend to them!!! TELL..!!!!
I wish her everything that's beautiful in life 💞
Hope could time travel and kidna p this girl long before😭 and give her best life and alll happiness she deserve..
question here. Where is her mother in all of this?
I mind boggled that she was mid to late twenties consenting to this.
Children are gifts from God.
Just remember that.
The suffering in another word is LOVE.
You have a purpose and seek God for HIS strength and wisdom. Trust God and put all your Hopes and Faith in HIM.
I think a male coach I s good in the sense that it could help her restore her trust n faith in men. So it can help show her not all men are this way their are many great faith filled men out there.
Dr. Phil, you're the best 🙏🙏🙏
He's such a narcisist in my eyes. I don't feel an empathetic way of talking to her. He talks 98% of the time. Mamma mia..
Come on.. how would it be to ask her what she wants?!
Who're you talking about? Dr Phil?
It happened when I was 11 yrs old when my sister was in hospital almost died ...
Comments are on
That's an unfortunate thumbnail + title. I thought that was her father in the picture.
Where was the mom with all this going on? It is inconceivable! He has to sleep sometime!
I assume that or she wasn't alive already at that moment or she was one of those people who just check out. Either way, I'm sure mother wasn't around any more when that monster started abusing her.
She worked a lot and she was also abused by Lindolfo.
@@MustacheCashStash125 she was abused so she let her child getting abused...cant she just ran way with her...i thought her mother was dead
Why can't I find the full episode of this
Only God can heal your heart! And you will find the purpose!
Viktor Frankl. Amazing
I hope her monster father is in prison.
I was only 8 years Old to Say No.And Tell someone..I feel sorry for the girls..Their Grandpa is the Father😔The mother should tell the Police.,3 Times Pregnancy!!!!!
i feel like dr phil couldve handled this better, some of his questions were really inappropriate
She's an inspiration 🙏
😭😭😭😭😭 Where is her mother?
COACH MIKE BAYER IS MY BOYFRIEND WE ARE GETTING MARRIED HIS MOVING TO AUSTRALIA TO BE WITH ME HE BE A LIFE COACH HERE WE ARE EXCITED ABOUT OUR LIVES AND DEEPLY LOVE EACH OTHER❤❤❤❤❤
People tell me i should be a life coach. How do i do that full time?
A better way to put it would be how can I make some sort of meaningful outcome. There isnt a meaning to life. To suggest such would be dishonest. Its just life and shitty things happens to many people and good things happen to others. There isnt a destiny or predetermination. Its just life.
BRAVE WOMAN
She has meaning in her life, her three children
My name it Tatiana too🥺🥺🥺
I want all of that to
I see what she could do .. the platform she has..the Lord has a plan for her
2:25 Sorry but she's getting advice from a guy name Miles Adcox? No way 🤣🤣🤣
How did the mom not know that it was going on
"Dr" Phil always hawking his BS.
How can I watch the full video
And he is also talking about saving other women...
Dr Phil if that's true when you are saying from your heart open up the clip for 43 minutes let people watch it correctly like normal... or do you only care about your money
There is always a hope, believe and have faith in yourself. I pray that Jesus will bring true peace in your life. There will be a fresh start in you,
just believe and have faith, think positive and read good books.
A female therapist will be more useful
Why no comments ?
dunno, im also extremely bored so how are ya
I am sure they were just turned on. Up until recently all comments on this channel were locked.
dr phil how dare you say victor frankl was a POW when in fact he was a concentration camp survivor.... its a huge difference.... shame on you its a disgrace.
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Who is sick of this Dr Phil show.
Putting on UA-cam like this just to make money...
I like to explain if you guys are curious look at every single clip it's only 10 minutes 4 minutes..
Once you get done you got to click on to another one and another one and another one and every single one of them has six male and viewers 3 million viewers...
And every time you click onto it this people get paid this is a very interesting sad story and I'm sick of this guy making money this way he's there to help people...
I believe he is helping people out so much but this is not the way to share if you don't want to share don't put it on UA-cam
Why would you set her up with a male life coach?? Dr Phil can be so numb skulled some times...
This IP victim is so broken down to continue a sexual relationship and having kids with her father into adulthood. These victims can become so manipulative, vindictive and destroy everyone around them from their own abuse. The only victims are the three kids. Its good to expose these type as the abuse is so destructive and creates monsters. I always avoid these types as they are so messed up and direct all their issues on everyone around them with that victim card as a excuse. Sorry best to avoid them to protect yourself.
Her whole demeanor is like yeah yeah let's see do I want a second cup of coffee yeah I guess so okay yeah I'll have another cup what the f***?
What’s wrong with you smh clearly she is withdrawn and num from the whole experience
Keith Long, she is clearly on medication, i would try to explain to you how I know this but it wouldn't matter.
Can u help me
What do you need help with?
This woman wanted to stay with her father because she liked what was going on. ;0)
Yeah 😍
Once again I am not going to doubt her story I bleed for her if this is true my soul bleeds for her but where the f*** was mama where the f*** was mama where are many other questions this whole f****** story is bizarre including her reaction and the fact she's on dr. Phil and there's no mention of word that is or where mama was mama was get it
Maybe her mom wasn’t in her life? Could have passed? Her reaction seems very believable. If you watch other survivors on the show they are usually similar in regards to their offer of help
@@BeyoncePadThai6009 don’t try to explain Keith is a troll just looking for attention. He’s the reason the comment section was turned off in the first place
At 21 she should had been gone
@@BeyoncePadThai6009 her mom was a maid and worked other odd jobs
Not to mention how nonchalant she is almost going along with the narrative before even he's finished speaking before she's already speaking........???????...🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 f****** say what say what?
She has been dealing with this for a very long time,,just because she dosent react exactly how u think is normal,dosent mean anything,we have no clue what kind of help she's had along the way if any,,and so im not surprised she's so nonchalant..i didnt see the full show so I have no idea where the mother was,maybe she died? But man,,give this poor women a break...
At this rate, you're just trolling. I hope no one you love goes through this.
@@asmaj.631 exactly he has no life and nothing of value to add clearly! Just a Troll looking to trigger ppl with his useless comments
everybody deals with things differently. Stop being a troll
To me, it sounds like a "flat affect' kind of thing in the voice which is a sign of depression. She's not nonchalant, but she's had a long time to process this who knows how she's copying internally.