Here's what a man should NEVER say to a woman!
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"I can't live without you"?
"I want to marry you because I love you"?
What is the correct approach to creating a lasting bond?
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"I can exist without you. But without you, it's not a Life." so powerful.
G-d is Love, we are already married to Him. We are His bride. All of us both men and women are His bride.
That's profound
@@TheProdigalCat it should be LIFE without any other person because life is a choice for each person to live to the fullest potential. BUT we can also choose to spend that full life ALONGSIDE another human being who would inspire encourage enjoy and share all of that with us. THAT is a beautiful relationship with freedom to exist in and that is true LOVE
@@karinsvanback7497 only the ones who have made Him their Saviour and Lord
@CatsAgainstCommunism;
Your posted comment selected that specific statement "I can exist without You, but without You, it is not a life". Then You add Your personal assessment of "so powerful".
What is Your basis for selecting that statement, along with Your assesment ?
Also from Your selecting that statement alone You have ignored the many other important aspects which are important, essential, vital, critical which are stated explicitly. Thus, it seems from Your selected, specific aspect, idea, concept, with the emphasis, that You lack the fuller view, perspective, perception that is presented, stated, described, explained, and conveyed.
In addition, what is not stated explcilty, but those that know the Toraw/ah, which states לא טוב לבדו - לאיש -> Not "good" alone for him - to the male-man.
This principle, requirement, expectation along with לבשר אחד - לאיש, to be one "flesh", to the man -> meaning for the man to cause the two separate physical beings, to join together, to be one physicial being; in reality the two were created as one spiritual being, just as אדם הראשון-Adawm-Adam The First [human], then also the physical being which eminates from the spiritual being. Thus, the man-male is directed to join the two separated beings to return to one being in this physical world, with their physical body manifestations, as they were previously one spiritual being.
Thus, in combination, the joining is necessary, along with the intent, purpose, meaning of to be "good", which cannot be achieved alone, rather only via with the 'other half' only.
As stated within other videos by Manis Friedman, the male-man, must be the משפיע ונותן-cause of influence, improvement, giver while the female-woman is מקבל-receiver. Thus, to be "good" is to behave accordingly as this.
Now, is there more comprehension of the important, essential, critical, vital aspects stated, explained, described ?
If You are beginining to develop more comprehension, there is still more aspects within the important, essential, vital, critical which are also explained, described, mentioned within other posted videos within this topic too.
=>One that is mentioned is with "respect", though not the proper translation, meaning, concept of כבוד.
The obligation of the man-male לכבוד אישתו יותר מגפו
then also ואוהב כמתו requires more specific, precise definitions, explanations, details too.
All The Best, Sincerely
How this rabbi talk about intimacy leaves a deep thinking in me.
Happily in love & married nearly 50 years it must be said..the wisdom of man is worthy of your time..
I do love how the Rabbi is able to teach you a lesson through humor.
I am a Muslim, and I love this Rabbi, words of wisdom. The art of intimacy is when two souls become one, animals do sex, we humans are supposed to get lost in each other, marriage is an institution, where two souls unite, outside this union, it's an imitation of being an animal!
Some animals are monogamous if you don't know...
Do we need to know your religion?
@@adulis73🤡💩🤫
Good on you for letting people know the media is full of it. ☝🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
I told my ex wife I loved her because of the kindness of her heart and I got in trouble. But I know that kindness is my biggest value in a person.
“You don’t use another human being for anything, even if they agree to it.”
....why not??
@@samikor-jv4bc because you understand their worth even if they don’t.
@@roxyperson8328~ “Good for You Roxy”…Well said!👍
? Roxy? @@brookdyer6620
Really? Because, looking back, that was all my spouse did in the bedroom. It was only ever about my spouse's gratification and never about intimacy. I was used, then used up. That was 32 years ago.
As an engineer by training, I have to admit that understanding calculus and algebra are easier than understanding love and women.
😂
To be fair, understanding how to deal with men is harder than understanding complex analysis and Lee groups. And I say this as a mathematician
The reverse- understanding love and men is equally difficult. We were created to be different. It’s not a bad thing but sometimes a challenge- our hearts and egos are involved. It hurts sometimes. No one likes that- man or woman. Thank goodness for the human race there are people who want to do it.
Hahahaha 😅
At least with math you have the feeling that you are advancing even if it's a few steps wise
This is the best lecture I have seen about Intimacy and Marriage. Thank you Rabbi. I knew from when I was a teen that Intimacy is the way to go. Now people are just realizing how important and valuable it is after they took away privacy.
So simple and yet so fundamental
I’m not Jewish but I really needed this talk in this time of my life
Universal wisdom ❤
@@Tamar-sz8ox No, true wisdom.
Rabbi Friedman has a gift for putting the poetry back into everyday life. ❤
What a wise man! As an eclectic monk, I find great comfort in learning from people who has integrated rather than succumbed to the teachings.
This Rabbi really makes you think. When listen, I can follow and I think at the end I learn something. I really appreciate this Rabbi's talks and lectures. I'm
Rabbis know almost everything
I Can listen to this message infinite times. That’s how you know you’re hearing the truth
Very true.
What is the truth?
@@okhuibutala1640 chewish women are satanic 304s
You must be joking. Or easily amused. Or
Actions must not be done for outcomes. But for the action itself.
It seems like in this world, a man's lot in life is to be judged by how useful he is. To hear it spelled out so clearly is refreshing
Sadly what Hes worth is no1 then he's decent,then he's reliable
@@angusseletto1511 Decency has many other layers.
People are complex. To be judged on your financial soundness and level of responsibility does not equal unworthy of love.
Rabbi, I was raised catholic and I dont think there is similar wisdom in my close circle as the majority of the things you say. I have either validated a lot of my own personal experience, or have learned a lot from watching you. Especially in marriage. To add to your point, once a man has the conviction that he is perfect and acts in theat same order, good women will come to him without him even asking for it. Man should work on developing his convictions and then once he has them, work on never act opposite of them. Women will come, money will come, good things will come. You just need to make sure your convictions are well grounded in truth and wisdom. thank you so very much!
"Yeah everything just comes"
Catholicism has a very strong theology regarding love, marriage, and children. Look up the Theology of the Body and Pope John Paul II writings on marriage
I’m an atheist and I enjoy listening to this man regardless of our differences in beliefs..
Same here.
Enlightenment comes from the Bible, so why are you still there?
@@ArasLebanon Right and wrong, good and evil are only subjective/relative without God.
You're very wise man it's been a pleasure listening to you
Youre such a Humaine Rabbai.Far from unreachable,comforting,Humanities Brain on a podium.Humerous self deprecating.Wonderful for the privilege to learn.Many Thanks
Marriage is a Divine Affair❤
You explain this amazingly! You are so on point. Intimacy ( into me you see) sex isn't a thing but society has a treating it like it's a thing.
This is true for both male and females not just the male
I tumbled into this rabbit hole because I was so sick of seeing males talking about this and that. I just wanted to hear a woman talking about this and that. And this is what I get. Extinct because bored with sex (not impossible), off goes the human species, Who cares? Stop performing.
Love his humor :) And the Deeper Wisdom with what Intimacy really Is. Lovely to listen!
Water drops story Wonderful! Simple as that, and Profound understanding.
Wisdom from another planet. Well said
Thank you for the laughter and talk. I learned much!
Great lessons. God bless you.
Thanks for liking etc please.
Very insightful and funny guy. Makes it relatable.
The single most helpful lecture I've heard by you Rabbi. Thank You so much.
Great video never heard such wisdom.
I am always blessed each time I watch your program. God bless you, Rabbi.
'Jackie Mason', 'soup scene' - priceless.
B.H. Another one just made it onto my "Best Of" video list! Great approach, insight, and presentation, Rabi! ... you`re an inspiration.
Thanks, Rabbi Friedman, for the excellent lecture! ❤👏👍😎🙏
You can tell a woman "I love your soul, how you express yourself with what God has given you."
It worked… You earned my subscription.
Very well said. ❤
Thank You
This is the most thoughtful presentation I have ever listened to, It's breaking my thought pattern
Rabbi....you are wise....
I love how these rabbis dress. So sleek. Id love to visit isreal. I really want to
My You remain blessed forever Sir! shalom
It's amazing to hear your perspectives. The point at the end is very well made. People have lost a sense of cause and affect. The majority of people have lost morality. Relationships and communication with healthy interactions are everything. I enjoyed this.
So true, thank you sir 😊
Eye open lesson, thank you.
I went from crying to laughing in two seconds at 18:45
Thanks for that.
Splendid lecture, the best I ever have heard. Such wisdom it is in Judaism. It is G-d´s wisdom indeed. it is the truth.
Hello sir/ma'am,
Good day to you. If it's not too much trouble. What is your reason/wisdom for not spelling out His general name? If there is I want to understand so I may apply this wisdom myself. If there is and you don't have the words to do it justice but do know the source material. Will you divulge the source material? Thanks.
The God of Judaism was a demonic being masquerading as God.
When the real God appeared they crucified him..
Oh dear.
@@corym.johnson7241 🎉😢
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Wisdom walks upon his tongue!
there is a wealth of knowledge in this video about marriage. Good job brother
Great to listen to such a message. Thank you for teaching something I should have been taught before.
Great lesson
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Profound thank you
I have a difficulty to understand sex without intimacy. It is like ordering a tea and getting only hot water. The soul of tea is the tea bag. I might be wrong but that is how I have felt in the past. Two souls not able to be one.
Without intimacy life with a spouse is hopeless.
These are the best advices I got in 33 years.
Ok. So based on this best advices, why should you marry *someone? (Read and understand the question.)
Crazy soup talk and I had a headache yesterday, and I love my husband because God made me for him we were basically born married happy birthday 🤍🤍🤍
Praise God
Im loosing hope on getting married 😂. Do we really love people JUST for who they are? Do people really love us that way? Can we bypass wanting to see virtue in a man, and just “love him for who is is?”. I wish to have an answer 😢
Try just living & praying that you’ll find your mate
Don’t look for the perfect mate here’s a secret there are no perfect people out there but there are some who are close
Each person needs their other half not someone lesser half or what they think is the perfect person
I think the answer to your questions is another question: what do you expect from marriage? From what you say, your question is whether you can truly love, so it has nothing to do with marriage (and you don't lose hope in anything, to begin with), you see? The answer is in you?
@@fernandomelli9395 Thanks. It’s food for thought. I don’t know what to expect from marriage because I have never been married, but I would like: companionship, partnership, a best friend, romance, to create a family. To answer the other questions; perhaps because I don’t totally accept myself with all my flaws it’s hard for me to fully accept others. So, no, I don’t believe we “love” people just the way they are. Sounds Pathetic?
@@ary-shalom8356 After giving it some thought, I think that I like women for who they can be, not necessarily who they are, and end up loving them if I see that they're willing to try to become my ideal version of them, regardless of how much they succeed in doing so (it's all about the effort). I know that this may sound like a selfish view, but this is something that I would reciprocate. If anything, I would to be the one who initiates "the change" because I believe a healthy relationship, be it romantic or otherwise, is one in which all the involved parties are actively and consciously trying to make each other's lives better.
As for what to expect from marriage, I don't see why it should be any different to a relationship that you're taking seriously. At the end of the day, it's just a formal way of declaring your commitment and it shouldn't change anything.
@@Vlad-bs1js this is so true. Bt few can understand. Every one must be very willing to undergo d changes dt shud evolve them frm just raw materials to finished products..! It's madness to expect ppl to accept n live wit ur raw attitude just the same way u will cringe n scream if d waiter put up raw meet b4 ur table 4 u to eat. U want finished processed meat. Right..? Bc it's tasty. Right..? D same way d guy or d lady wants u to undergo some processing so u can be edible & nt to raw pissed off yakky meat. I too distaste dt & I guess dts what d dude here try to xplain wen he's say: be modeled to wat I want. Don't get him outta context pls..! Liking wat dey can be nt wat they re is d real deal that is subject n needs to change. Bt few seldom realize this necessity neither wud they wnt to go thru d rigors & motions of change n evolve.
It is far frm being a selfish view bt a well tot out balanced view. U even talked abt d effort wch can be perceived. As in d effort of giving it a go or a try however little dt is. D willingness of trying to metamorphose into decent finished products. Every one loves finished processed stuff. D modern day car is loved bc it submitted to undergo process. U must be willing enough to undergo process until u become d finished product dt is d desire of all men & nations..! Otherwise, u re just close to being a raw material wit all d toxicity...!!
Wonderful to meet you Rabbi.
Married in the U.S. for a man is much like go into the casino when you go in you must know the odd's are in favor of the casino or woman. You might win a few times in the beginning but if you keep playing usually you lose it all.
Thank you for sharing this teaching so full of wisdom, knowledge, humor and Jewishness.
The narcissist trotting through the dark?🤕
@@hilarydrinkwater5392 what 'narcissist' would that be?
I'm not a Jew, and I'm perfectly proud to be a gentile; however, as a gentile, I can borrow some ideas from rabbis.
I should have been told this before getting married. I made an error without knowing I did.
Seeing yourself in someone helps 💜
I liked it so much really brilliant advice
Wow!!! So powerful!!!
There are no words I can say to you
I just love you because I do
Theres nothing you could do or nothing you could say
It's just there, it doesn't go away
How Hebraic! Lovely word plays!
Thanks
You are the best share , and intelligent ❤❤thank you!!
The thing is with questioning women "like me" is too feel the love... 💜
I read an architectural book. The story about a house that was built by this engineering architectural huband built his severly allergic wife a home where everthing was built from the ground up with this in mind. I read it many years ago and dont remember the article. The home was absolutely gorgeous. Thats what I remember. This man loved his wife by his actions. She must have loved him dearly. It was really profound. I will never forget what he did for her. ❤❤❤
Asalamalikum, Respect to you Sir … 🙏
Oh my God,so amazing!
The why, is an age old question. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. No easy answer. That's from a guy who's been married almost 43 years.
Thank you , Rabbi
Fabulous!
Life is the journey from birth to death. Nobody can tell you what to write in your story, and you're the one that sees which characters to remember. A symphony of goals coalescing as a force bringing the world closer to perfection.
Does anyone here remember the movie HEAT? This is Neal said to Eddy (... can't go on being alone without you)
Wonderful!
Chemistry is "chemistry".
Yes. Now I understand. I want someone to marry me for me and I'd wholeheartedly do it vice versa 😊
are you kidding? You have to be told this by a religious man with a long beard?
I wasn't perfect when I married. I'm far from perfect now,. If I waited until I was perfect, I'd still be imperfect and also lonely. So I'm pretty glad I didn't wait to be perfect.
As I get older I am beginning to wonder why I should marry again. At 63 I find most of the advice is for younger people to get together to procreate. I get that. Not much advice out there on how to view marriage once your are older
@@AG-re5vw. My career offered me promotions to a different city and she didn't want to move. Before that the love had died anyway.
@@AG-re5vw. Not likely. That ended 33 years ago and I am 2500 miles away now.
You view it the same way as when you first got married.
Why would you wonder about getting married again, at 63? I wouldn’t dream of it, if I were 63.
@@ManPursueExcellence because you are selfish. You are even selfish for sharing that on this video when the purpose is for intimacy. You guys make things harder than what they need to be. Intimacy has no cut off.
It's not just the movie industry anymore but almost all media and entertainment industry that has made sex into a thing. It's sad for the younger generations with easy access to those to really just see intimacy as a thing, and look at the state of the world--famous examples are Japan and South Korea, while both have pornography done by actors and actresses, imagine a young curious mindn having a hunger to be entertained from something to see and read gets exposed to materials regarding sexual pleasures (like hentai manga/manwha), now it makes sense to me.
one sided love is nothing
Isn't marriage about personal sacrifice (giving) ,personal improvement (learning from each other), feeling home with the other person (intimacy) and raising children? It is the most dauting affair apart from having children in this life. His side note about the Greeks and the Romans is interesting. They also didn't have families anmore. Just like today in all western countries.
❤🙃it’s always a pleasure to listening you’re wise words full of humor!Dear Rabbi: I’d be curiously to know what you d say about the sentence; „I love you, Cauce I need you, or „I need you cauce I love you! (Cauce you can need a lot of people, what is the difference between „need“ and love someone?im confused)is „need you „ enough?!?😏
Shalom from a „Christian“!🙏
I agree with you, but each person has some capability,skills, knowledge, position, money that defines us because those things make us and is part of us . When we say just I love you because of you, you consist all virtues that form the personality that make the person attractive for another person
Magnificent
Being perfect is getting off the track .No one is perfect simply.
I don't know why people follow this dude. Maybe cause they can't think for themselves, I tuned in listening and wanting to learn something but instead just had a guy with a beard just telling me whatever he wants me to think with contradictions. People are easily impressed
Have to say after time you're quite right.....He's a bit of a glory hunter with a sprinkle of arrogance and self importance ❤.....watch enough and you start to feel the self importance...very sadly and theres people who claim to be him offering prizes in completely fake contests using Rabbai Manis Friedmans name....Told him and absolutely nothing has been done ❤ it simply isn't important to him as it has no value...yet his name is involved with online scams.....The more you see the less it has weight...❤❤ hope you understand me😂
@@jasonMB999yup❤
Rabbi is on point ❤
He is like sadhguru, the whole vibe
شكرا على هذه النصائح يا عم ؛ مشكلتنا اننا تعرضنا لبرمجة منذ الصغر و تعلمنا اشيائا خاطئة عن الانثى و الان لما نسمع هذه المعلومات الجديدة يملؤنا الغضب لاننا نحس انه تم خداعنا من العائلة و المجتمع ليضلو يتحكمون في عقولنا ...
كل الاحترام و التقدير من مغربي ❤
Difficult to change from man to husband
The husbands in that audience now are trapped because their wife’s know the wrong answers and from where the only right answer comes from. 😂
It’s indeed a real life lecture
This is so good.😅
Correct 💯
Well spoken. Communicated thoroughly. I gained alot!! I can now see from a different perspective that I will definitely grow from. Thank you.
This wisdom transcends above anything which is called religion, regardless what that religion is.
That’s because religion is a series of beliefs but this is truth which does not need belief in order to exist
Then it's not wisdom. It's foolishness.
@@jasonMB999 you are entitled to both; your opinion as well as your foolishness.
@@georgevladimirovich7190 foolish is the one who finds a conspicuously flawed individual's ability fool him to be above religion.
@@jasonMB999 shall I repeat my previous message again?