What women WISH men knew about females
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I'm a practicing Catholic. I love this channel! Thank you for your help and wisdom. I am very grateful for your advise. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Rabbi.
Same, as a Catholic this channel is very helpful
Same here! 😉
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Such helpful, wonderful, spiritual advice, and so thankful to this man, Rabbi. Does not matter one’s religion to benefit from his wisdom, knowledge, and perceptiveness.
Men need to feel needed and respected, women to feel special and appreciated 😊
Both men and women need what you just said. What the rabbi is trying to say is that women are morally intuitive and men are self-preserving.
how does this not have millions of views? it could help so many people. thank you!
Basics that have been lost to many people and not passed down from generation to generation
That's also how the nazis came to power. Meaningless; proving only that succeeding generations are as stupid as their forebears. (Worms don't have legs for the same generational reasons.)
“her only real choice is to justify it…….or spend the rest of her life alone and unloved”. Why do you say that? Plenty of women leave an abusive relationship to find another, much healthier one.
She is only unloved in a secular sense. If she is religious or spiritual she will know (even if she has buried it), that she IS love and IS loved by something far bigger than a human being.
you know males are dishonest.
A woman is designed to be cared for, loved, and cherished by her husband. Even if she leaves a bad relationship she will be forever wounded by not being loved as she was designed for.
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Jewish wisdom, I always resonate with it. Sometimes it's on a very simple level and sometimes it's very deep.
Thank you 🙏🏽 and I realize more and more that the Rebbe is always right at least to me.
This knowledge is buried in my soul and I was told that I am crazy … I am Jewish thats all.
God must love morons (aka jews??) because he made so MANY of them.
OMG!!! Are you suggesting the 'rebbe' is my mother-in-law??? SHE"S always right, too. Just ask her!
As a woman myself. What about what men wish women knew about males for a change? I've noticed that society these days seems to care almost solely about what women want and need, but never about men. Maybe that's what's led to lot of men facing psychological issues that are never dealt with, and many women feeling so entitled. Our boys are failing in school because of the gynocentric education system, so many of men are choosing to leave the world each year, they have no spaces left to call their own, I could go on.
Men need us as much as we need them which makes them just as important, but even on here on UA-cam, all I ever see is pandering to women about how men need to do better for women. It's at the point where it seems that they can never do enough.
Men are the ones who build everything and maintain it, not to mention protecting our society with their very lives, but there isn't much acknowledgement of that let alone appreciation.
Good point - that one's coming tomorrow... 🙂 Stay tuned!
The reality you're describing is sadly true, of course.
But have you explored the rest of Rabbi Friedman's channel?
I think it's because it's men's nature to provide and contain a woman, or more generally to provide and protect his tribe. So it's quite essential for men to know what women or society expect from them so that they can be useful.
Wow!
The Rabbi did say that men need to be needed and ironically what you are pointing out Mmmm.
I'm so glad I found your videos. I've been binging on them ❤
Wow! Love this conversation, it makes so much sense.
Many of us women were raised to be men by home and society. Conditioned to have the masculine drive and initiative and reject our natural inclination. God is leading us back to being women
I love the humour.
It’s all true..
So marriage is actually about being what you really are at the highest frequency- husband and wife. Spark of life. One.
The highest angels, at the highest level of heaven, are according to Emanuel Swedenborg, male and female as husband and wife .. as one. Eternally. Creating as one.
Thank you, Rabbi, for answering a burning question for me about why men start wars when all I want is peace and contentment 😊. I do not understand why men do not learn from their mistakes in marriage. This is another burning question.
TRUE. They go through changes and 'expect' what a woman should do to please them.
WRONG on every count. Lazarus Long devoted a chapter demonstrating that male/female relationships are MUCH simpler than all the modern waffle; and that we exist today BECAUSE of that simplicity. (and uses a lion pride to make the point). viz. ANY species exists because of two FACTS 1. The female's entire INSTINCT is to produce offspring (and that those living things have existed for a few billion years before god arrived proves that reality). 2. The male's entire instinct is to protect and nurture his offspring. Therefore: a Male lion will fight to the death to secure 'territory' (more lions die from that pursuit than all other causes combined). Lionesses (which nobody could call sissies) flock to the holder of territory and drop their knickers for two reasons: 1. Territory provides protection and a food-supply for her offspring, and 2.The lion who can win and defend territory against all comers is obviously the best GENETIC choice (from any point of view) to father her babies. END OF STORY. (and the first thing Leo does on winning the territory is to kill ALL the offspring of the previous owner: a task the lionesses have no argument with, since their father was not the carrier of the best possible genes. Even our millions of generations of ancestors understood and accepted that principle (otherwise we wouldn't be here today, talking bullshit!) What we call 'civilisation' and 'social standards' and 'morality' is scarcely more than a terminal cancer that's eating away at our species' existence. And cancers are always more vigorous and self-justifying than any other living cell. God will die when our species lies rotting where it falls. Probably sooner rather than later if the bible is anything to go by. (and the rest of creation will give a huge sigh of relief.)
Marriage is a perversion of the laws of nature AND god. One cannot learn from a mistake WITHIN a mistake.
So men can learn from their mistakes after the marriage is over, I’ve noticed.
@@MariaElena51185 Mmmm, interesting observation.
A woman who stays with a man even if it's a difficult relationship because she has children and the children need a father not because of other things it's not easy for a woman to just leave her husband and take care of the children
So she justifies her staying with those reasons
Such an important message for our times!!!
Thank you Rabbi.
Great and supportive idea, thanj you!
Deep wisdom !
Thank you Rabbi !
The new VIP invitation is clever :)
This was very useful, toda rabah!
OMGSH! Thank you so much for this talk. You are so right in that men and women are not good for each other until they become a real husband and real wife. Not by title but by character and behavior. It must not only be acted on, but internalized, and this means embracing the crucible of being wed to someone. If allowed, it can melt the selfish nature out of you. This is why divorce is so high! We are unwilling to discipline the flesh, the biological nature. It is in submission to God and how He would have us act and behave toward our spouses that creates in us the fruit of that existence. Thank you!!!
OOPS!! Like so many others you obviously haven't read 'god's Word'. God, absolutely, in Genesis 3.16 describes exactly how man and woman are to behave.:- She is to be his possession, and obey his commands. :- "Genesis 3/16: "To the woman he said,
“I will make your pangs in childbirth exceedingly great; in pain you shall bring forth children, yet your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.”
Bang goes the entire ball-game! And feminists can look forward to the fiery lake. Or be forced into marriage!
@@dabbbles his possession to love and her obedience because he loves her. Everything a husband does is for the wife and Denys himself.
Complicated way of stating the obvious:- Males and Females are different creatures frim the ground up. (Watching ANY other animal makes that abundantly clear!). NONE of those other creatures demonstrates ANY of the hassles that bedevil us BECAUSE they live according to those differences: physicallly and 'emotionally' and functionally. eg. Bitches 'come on heat; dogs DON'T.) ALL 'domestic' problems relate to the STUPID and OBVIOUSLY FALSE 'religion known as 'equality'. In Nature 'equality' does not and CANNOT exist. A penis CAN'T perform 'equal functions compared to the vagina. To assert otherwise is a POLITICAL INVENTION that does nothing other than appeal to the morons among us. Unfortunately, because of that other POLITICAL INVENTION, 'democracy' we're taught and forced to resist our billion-year instincts.
The stupid 'equality'creeps into all the darkest corners. There are NO two men, cockroaches or wombats that are 'equal'; let alone males and females. Next we'll have the p[olitical decree that a male cockroach is 'equal' to a female rhinocerous. The REAL question is: WHY TF do otherwise apparently rational people accept and believe the absurd concepts? Perhaps we're all 'equally moronic?? 🤥
"How could she justify that?"
As someone with a female relative who has hopped from one abuser to the other to the other, it is rooted in psychological trauma. She believes she deserves abuse because of what happened to her.
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So much wisdom ! ..Thankyou so much Rabbi Manis Friedman I am Grateful for the wisdom you teach ....
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The part in this video where he suggests men are never content is literally backwards…
Yes to this.The Creator created Something from Nothing. He saw something in nothing. Seeing the something in nothing is looking down from above, seeing the nothing in something is looking from below
"Creating something from nothing" would qualify as the MOST STUPID comment I've ever seen on UA-cam. (or anywhere else for that matter). It's JUST NOT POSSIBLE. And there are ample, undeniable PROOFS to demonstrate that.
And to take it a step further, the FACT is that neither matter nor energy can be 'created' OR 'annihilated'. ie. the universe is INFINITE in both time and substance. ( helluva concept to get one's mind around; but still far simpler and demonstrable! the fairy-tale 'god' created just a few heartbeats ago by ignorant desert nomads to justify their existence.
Weehhhh, how i love his teaching.
Thanks!
Broken emotions,her contribution
From everything I'm hearing him say, except basically the first part, it make me think he dealt with a different species than I have for most of my life.
When a man keeps finding fault in a woman to fix. When there’s nothing to be fixed. Let people be!
Thank you!!!!
Wooow ❤so true
Blessed be the Donator of your brain🤲🏻
I am not a VIP, since so, please let me know the link for any potential question…🕊
Husband and wife simply entwine like a vine,growing abundantly,and adapting together to become a stronger vine!Like separate ingredients in a cake,when mixed,we become sweeter and delicious!
Thank You Rabbi. Shalom/ Salahm/ ✌
True 👍
Wow thats so true
Thank you Rabbi Manis Friedman! As always you are saying something here regarding men and women which is making lot of sense for our learning.
So good !!!!!!!
This is so amazing 😲😍. Do not accept men and women who ain't sync with values amazing ...comments
I think it's fear.... A woman will fear leaving someone like that... Especially when children are involved.. I see what your saying though ... the thought processes you're talking about within gender...some Men can be so scary though... From experience they're usually incredibly insecure and unhealed.. too much pride and a false over inflated ego to ever look within and address themselves! Male or females can be like that.. I find a lot of men intimidating though!
How do I be part of a Jewish faith if I wasn't raised Jewish. I have been here to listen to you speak for weeks now and I find peace in your faith.
Y'can get the same ignorant effect from Alice in Wonderland. Or 'The life and times of Donald Duck' (and at least we can PROVE that ducks exist.
Forget it Toots! ANYthing that depends upon 'belief' simply means there's not a scrap of EVIDENCE to support it. Proof doesn't require 'belief'.
You have to go to a Rabbi and start studies to convert unless you want to be a Noahide.
No need to convert to a religion. That peace is already inside of you. It’s from knowing something not believing something someone (a rabbi) said. He simply triggers your knowing that you know already. We are all teachers to one another.
Read the Torah and follow it . The whole Bible starting from genesis. But keep his Torah the first 5 books. We are grafted into Israel . We are gentiles able to be grafted into gods people and become an Israelite by faith .
That's so true feeling justified for the abuse you get you feel you deserve it
so much wisdom
What about when they move in the house and the wife starts finding something wrong with the house?
I got so emotional after listening to you I am so confused
A man needs to accomplish,
A man needs to acquire,
A man needs to create change,
To produce something.
To fight a war and win...
Because if not then who needs him?
Then he's nothing.
Thats why men are aggressive.
Aggressiveness is the need to accomplish.
I fought a "war" once and lost.
It was a war to prove to my self that everything I had been through in life...
All of the (bad),
The wrong decisions,
All of the misfortune I faced,
And some of my circumstances were not... or did not simply happen just because I was a failure.
Or bad,
Or because I made bad choices.
Because I never "measured up" to some standard I cannot even quite tell you where is.
I never learned how to "succeed".
In a way I think that maybe I never really cared enough too.
I just found a "reason" for it all.
Other than my self I guess.
And I found a fight.
And that gave me and (it all) purpose and meaning.
It justified why I had experienced all that I had out of life and I think some time while I fought that war I stopped looking at my self.
I lost that war.
And then after that I realized that it did not really bother me so much as I might have anticipated.
Because I think I knew all along I would loose it.
And that took from me all I had,
Except an often challenging and miserable existence.
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Heres the sad reality. a GOOD woman will want to understand the man she is with and KNOW what he deals with. A woman is designed to complement a man. Not try to outdo him, not try to compete with him and NOT meant to just bear his children. NONE of those. They are needed to do as much EQUALLY as a man and not let their estrogen be an excuse for her gender.
What an interesting way to think about this. 🤔Men flee because they are afraid of being annihilated, women stay because of justification.
But...
That's not entirely true...
The justification wasn't her own... Meaning it didnt come from her... She just accepted it as justification.
He broke my arm because I scratched the car.
Who told her that? Him. Justifying to himself why he hurt her. Why he chose to take out anger that he is holding inside out on her, that has nothing to do with her scratching the car.
Which begins an emotional war within herself, because she HAS to find a way to justify it because someone who is abusive in that manner, has fully convinced her by that point that he is the only one in the whole world who would ever even love the likes of her. So her only real choice is to justify it... Or spend the rest of her life alone and unloved.
Imagery is a very powerful tool used for manipulation.
Male or female... We ALL have a conscience.
Let's be frank here Rabbi. Men SUCK at dealing with emotions. Not just womens, but their own as well.
Though some men have mastered the art of manipulating a woman's emotions to get what they want. 🤷♀️
Even before the society that started discouraging men from feeling, expressing, or even acknowledging their emotions, men just sucked at it. 🤷♀️
Its nothing personal. Its not even a flaw in their design. It is an imperfection that is made perfect with balance.
We were created to compliment each others weaknesses...
Meaning, where he is weak in dealing with his emotions when left unchecked, a woman is weak in controlling her emotions when left unchecked.
But by working together they can bring balance to each others emotions.
That's merely a rationalisation of 'modern' philosophy; and is full of psychobabble holes. The ACTUAL explanation lies entirely in the realms of physical chemistry and (successful!) evolved instincts which are the product of the 'Laws of Nature'.
Though your mis-spelling of "compliment" IS emblematic of today's (socially-inflicted) parameters. Haggling with a (female) creature so far from MY reality when a smack in the ear settles the issue immediately is an absolute waste of MY time/life. (AND, as ALL the evidence demonstrates: the most basic solution to any issue! ) As god SHOULD'VE said (in support of the Laws of Nature he 'created from nothing'): "Might makes Right".
@@dabbbles 🤔 I have no idea what pointing out my misspelling was supposed to show, but FYI... It was one of two things... I am slightly dyslexic and didn't catch the error...
Or... I spelled it correctly and my spell correct changed it because I have misspelled it before and I did not catch it this time. 🤷♀️ Which is a far cry from being "socially inflicted". 👍
As far as everything else... Well. It sounds to me like you've done far more book learning than actual learning through experience.
You ought to try it. 👍 Those lessons include Wisdom... Which your comment was devoid of. 🤷♀️ Have a nice day. 🙋♀️
P.S.
You misspelled rationalization. 👍😂
@@observeroflife0000 Wasn't meant to show anything. And of course we all make typos. Yours ('compliment' in place of 'complement' was very funny in the light of your general comments: suggesting men and women should "Say something to each other that expresses praise"
@@observeroflife0000 PS Check out 'Wordweb' or ANY dictionary. Not only is 'rationalisation' a valid optional spelling, but is used far more than the archaic 'rationaliZation'.
As for 'wisdom/experience/booklearning/ etc.:- At 78yo and with and ( OFFICIAL IQ of 162) ~ along with 'experiences' beyond what you could imagine (including making the front pages of the newspapers here and overseas more than once) and a fairly comprehensive list of (mostly classical though many contemporary) books read I'd match my 'wisdom' with yours or anyone else's. Much of that came from a thorough knowledge of Shakespeare.
@@dabbbles You have no idea how much I scrutinize over my comments and their accuracy...
And how much UA-cam messes with me sometimes...
Seriously. I had to retype the last half part of that last comment three times to get it right... I thought... Until I saw the "he" instead of "be" and decided I was tired of retyping the whole thing because the last half disappeared when I went to edit... One stinking word... 😵💫
Forget about it man... I know you know what I meant... 😂
Oh but no. Expressing praise is different than simply complimenting each other's weaknesses. That's not literal like...
Oh hey... You suck at this but I like it anyway... Or I am going to "fix" it. Simply put it is men are not aware enough of their emotions, and women are over aware... But together we can bring balance to each other. 👍
Rabbi Friedman saying men and women cannot understand each other is wrong. Hearing his explanation makes sense to me. I understand how men are and how we women are. This actually helps to understand each other.
In a way a woman ( wife) civilized her husbansd.. Teaches him to learn to Intuitive side of being a FULL Human Being & to "educate him" from the Intuitive side of the Ying/yang Divine Masculine & Divine FEMININE. Her Husband Needs to be Appreciated Acknowledged ( Thanked) for his efforts. Taken for Granted kills relating to each other properly.
That kind of man feeling useless if he has no project to work with is just one kind of man. My husband was not like that at all.
It sufficed him if he had books to read,
chess parties to play and I am the same way but I do study instead of chess. No kids alas, sorry.
Woman, women, girl, not female. Female is an adjective, not a noun.
Sometimes GOD puts something my way...thankyou
It’s so nice to hear this from him, confirming everything the great Patrice O’Neal talked about
Now I know there is so much difference in between male an d female 😮
Most man want to take they dont give...only if they recrive first
But what if a woman does have the desire to accomplish? I feel i have a strong need and desire to accomplish
Halelulah
I love you and tuerd you
I Believe 1 of. Woman's Role is to encourage & Inspire & Appreciate her Husband.
Nope. The role is to have children and look after them when they are little, he is to support them.
Not saying she won’t appreciate him for his care..
wHEN A PERSON BECOMES NOTHING IT DOESNT TAKE MUCH LOVE TO MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE EVERYTHING.
GOD the FATHER, created ADAM in HIS IMAGE & LIKENESS. & GODDESS the MOTHER created EVE in HER IMAGE & LIKENESS.
who and what decided my discernment.
It might just be where I live though lol
I dont get this completely because from my own experience I felt the need to prove something. Maybe not as a woman, but as a child in special ed
wOMEN ARE ONLY IN IT FOR THE LOVE AND EFFECTION ,WE WILL GO THROUGH HELL TO BE WITH YOU.
marriage has nothing to do with relationships. my god said it is old technology to pass on estates and assets when his calling comes. togetherness is a better term
If l give something to poor
needy l just do it purely as a
moral obligation and as a
duty as a human beings
Bible says don't let know to left hand what is your right hand doing l don't any thing
for publicity What an insult
for me although you said
women give things in order to
accomplished so l am a rare
woman not the ordinary women
goodness! I hope while the Rabbi is speaking or presenting,
individuals will refrain from interrupting.
It's acceptable to laugh at humor during the lecture,
but interruptions are disruptive.
Some people are givers, others are takers, If only I could be a taker, so I could just get stuff, ez lifee.
Do all men agree with what he is saying?
Good question
Now I know why my marriage failed. 😢
We can reach absolute zero here. Men have been struggling too I know.
If they live on separate islands, how you gonna keep the men away from the women's island?
This is profound to me. Thank you
This does not apply to hunting gathering societies. The anthropological pattern is the family & dwelling belongs to mom. Judaism retains hunting gathering roots in that being Jewish is matrilineal. Hunting gathering societies are gender equal. Except for the artic (where hunting brought in more food than gathering) women brought in more food than men. Except for the artic 8O % of what was eaten were plants & were gathered.
I think Rabbi was talking not on a social equalty, but psycological differences...
@@sofiayudelzon4830 If it's part of human psychology, hunting gatherers did it. If you define human as homo sapiens we were hunting gatherers for 99% of the time we've been here (for those of us who accept evolutionary theory; the rabbi may not . . . .)
Basic flaw: There is no such thing as 'equality' anywhere in the universe. It's no more than a concept we've invented in order to make our arithmetic work.
Human earthling dna was tweaked by ET’s. It’s all through the Old Testament. So the bible is about the battles between Enlil who hated the humanity that his brother Enki (the progressive geneticist) created to be sovereign and powerful just like him (Enki)
We are Extraterrestrial beings. Enlil/Yahweh won the battle over humans by dumbing us down .. tweaking our 12 strand dna. Making us slaves.
Husband and wife creating are the spark of life .. fractal of Source.
Gr888😂
i WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A REAL CONVERSTION WITH YOU BUT DONT KNOW HOW.
ND INTIMACY IS THE KEY.
I see so many twisted and upside down models
Christian Church do not talk about this kind of stuff. Never heard of it. Modern Church has failed?
Husband has a greater responsibility…a wife has her responsibilities 👍🏾
PS Making it up endlessly: NOWHERE does god advocate marriage. (Can't help wondering when this 'expert' rolled his last female conquest around the mattress. (Assuming he could find his doodle amongst that beard.)
I have to disagree with this one
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אשה לא מבינה את אצמה למה אתם גברים חושבים שתוכלו ?נשי אוהבות ליהיות אהובות זה הגול אבל רק כול רגעה אז יש שלום בית!!
Instead he runs and accomplishes his work needs for other men's vehicles. 3 marriages and 3 divorces from this same man. Promises much, delivers slim. So this is not true for all relationships. He abuses me now with name calling and gets in my face. I'm content in a home I bought myself and studying TORAH. He doesn't want that. He loves his metal car works, doesn't seek Hashem😢
שבת שלום לך ולשלך אמן אמן ואמן😊
You don't say??!!!
Where are those women Jewish and gentile,as they get educated to be free &indipendent,and have every thing what man can provide,
Sadest part is never in history of mankind,Educated single women whole life provided free sex,,as Every natural man dreams to be one with woman,to provide her meterial needs for being his wife.Women are equal to men,but In older days women were thier own responsibilities,in life and in family,but now when women have every thing they need,Men are puzzled what woman need in present days other than paying the bill,even woman are working,and have almost equal salaries.Woman have become just like men snd strong snd mischievious and verbal abusers,that man can't face.
Working as single is not, to the plan of gods intentions.
???? I've ALWAYS been "one with women"; lots and lots of them.😉
Totally disagree with everything!
yeah me too
Unfortunately, everything he's saying, I've witnessed. It's very true.
I agree. He didn't bother asking a woman. Men have done this for thousands of years. I'm 53 now and had hoped to find another partner as my ex husband divorced me after 27 years of marriage 7 years ago. I think I'll just stay alone. I'm so disappointed in this particular sermon. I thought perhaps I'd had bad luck with men but I'm beginning to think they are all kind of the same. Which is fine. I have never and will never try to change a man. I'll just stay alone. I'm glad I heard this sermon. It opened my eyes to how weak and childish men are. It's sad and depressing
@@susanlett9632 if uninterested you dont have to share what you disagreed with in particular, but would you share your alternative position(s)?
Interesting, but rather odd interpretation.
God wanted drama Men and Women. Can’t get any better than that 😂 Women can’t live with them can’t live without them. Men only think this of course. Sorry girls you just need to find a man with a good heart ❤️ He will always love you forever and ever.
I would go to war with no quarter over my family but won’t go to war for honor
Abduction Invasion
LOL funny
Confirmed: I am actually a man. Yikes.