Should My Husband Take A Job Making $850,000 Or $350,000?
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This lady is a ditz. For $850,000 a year, forget a culture shock, I'll put up with electric shocks.
Lol
Rich people hold their lifestyle to very high standards are almost always unwilling to accept inconveniences for the greater good.
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Seems a little Lackadaisical to me, they will have a new diesel and a range rover with new home, nothing will change , I here it in her soul........shes defeated and it aint even happened yet! Hope I'm wrong.
Hahahahaha
For $850,000.00 a year I would move my family onto an iceberg in the middle of the Arctic with the closest person hundreds of miles away!!
Chad Horton 😂😁😂
Right! She's all, "Sigh, but it's the middle of nowhere." I'm over here like, "I'll take the middle of nowhere for half of that!"
+Breanna Neville for that money she could take vacations every weekend to the Caribbean lol
I thought she was going to say it was in the caves of Pakistan with a cross tattoo on her face.
this lady is obviously spoiled
It's 3 years for $1.5 million. Get in the tent princess.
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Z Phish u know how to multiply?
He's talking about the pay difference
LOL! you win the internet, like, FOREVER!
Z Phish they are probably still in depth the way she talks and its 4 years later now
my prediction: they took the cheaper job, bought two really expensive cars, and took a 12k a month mortgage
Plot twist: their home is currently in foreclosure
Daniel T. Update: she’s banging another doctor who makes 1mil in the town she wanted.
Andrew wait. Are you serious?
these were the vibes I got
@@Floccinaucinihilipilificatioo lol
Her husband is a surgeon and she's making 115 grand yet she can't figure this out? She called to brag. Makes a mockery of people who have real problems. Not saluted.
It appears so.
True I sounded pride.
trust me... Being a doctor does not come with a high IQ or a street-smarts degree..
no surgeons make that little that is nurses pay
PhilB:
Freaking true. You make perfect point. I wish that I had her problem/s.
I have no words. This woman is calling from a planet I've never been to.
Lol!
James Allen
I wish I could go to the planet she on👀
I grew up with a lot of people on this planet then I married someone from other side of tracks that got out. His background is equally shocking and the hugest disconnects are how he saw children raised. The concept of teaching your children skills and supporting from infancy growth in mindset and experiences etc etc ARE completely different planets!
Lolol
This comment made me LOL 😂
“hi dave should i cash in this 10 million dollar lottery ticket or should i rip it up and continue working my minimum wage job?”
Im dead 💀
Best comment award
i’m hyperventilating hahahaha
What’s the household income?
Nah, Imagine all the time you would waste cashing those 10milion in and how much gas you would spend while driving to the banks etc.
An extra $1.5m for 3 years of living in the middle of nowhere???? That sounds like a fine trade off.
Trade offf?? 3 years of peace and quiet and 1.5m? Still waiting for the downside other than this nagging wife.
Some people dont really like living in Alaska
@@RJHEllis literally
@@MikeMessiah it's not Alaska
The problem is that money can't buy happiness, though it certainly helps. So, it's not so simple to choose.
Natalie called with a glass of wine in one hand and the phone in the other...
NOVA Dash Cam 😂😂😂
NOVA Dash Cam 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭👌
More like rose’
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This is a fact
Listen, for $500K extra...you go live in the boondocks for 3 years, pay off debt, stack, then you leave after the 3 years. Are we really having this conversation?
CheckThisGadget exactly!!!
CheckThisGadget her intermittent giggles are annoying..she knows what they should do..she wants validation
truth!
Some people value money. Some value other things. The culture shock of a change like that could drive some people to depression, or worse. Fear of a change like that is not to be dismissed.
They are never going to have trouble with money the rest of their life. The difference from 350-800 is not really a lot in terms of comforts and happiness, I think they would lead a much happier life in the city with a higher quality of living.
“I’m holding my husband back from advancing in his career because I don’t want to leave New York”
Yeah for real
Literally
Theres nothing outside of NYC. Just peasants.
It seems like they both didn’t want to leave.
@@micchaelsanders6286 😂😂😂
She represents the vast majority of the upper class, completely disconnected.
City people in general
Yeah cause we all know 850k don't grow on trees.
Leaving her family, friends, her life. You get two choices as a doctor when accepting a job. Money or Locations. majority choose locations bc of family. That's what I'm doing and many others are doing. Nothing wrong with that.
Lol. 1st world problems.
Upper middle class, the true upper class maintains estates in rural areas and love spending time at them.
I would move for 500 bucks more a week.
Dah Bajanman Same
Ok
$500,000 over 52 weeks is $9,615 extra a week.
Same
$500 bucks a week is about 24k a year which most people would do in a heart beat.
Husband's version: "I finally finished med school and have a chance to build my career while making incredible money, but my wife...."
C J i’d take a divorce for tht job
@@investedfemelle7564 Divorce then take the job.
First, move to a really poor area, lower her standard of living.
Donate 99% of your income for the next year.
Initiate divorce.
Take the job.
Put the doctor on the phone so I can give him the number to an attorney. He really needs a prenup.
He really does...Dave has even encouraged them in the past just because it keeps OTHER family members in check...Not to encourage divorce. But to keep other family members (in-laws) from sticking their noses where they don't belong.
No amount money can buy this woman a personality. God help her.
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Lol
god help her husband
So many haters in the comments unreal
If I had the opportunity to move to a rural area to make $500,000...I'm jumping on the next flight.
500K more!!!
Yup. Even just the three year term would be a huge nest egg saved up for investment.
Shiet...In those 3 years, they would accumulate more than my parents do in 1 decade.
If no flights available, I'll start walking.
I'd go right now, even if I had to leave everything behind. Even if you hated it just work for 3 years and save everything, or invest, and possibly return home a millionaire. It's not that hard.
For $850,000 a year, I would live in prison moping the floors and cooking inmates meals for three years, 7 days a week. After three years, I just made more than what I would have made at my current job my entire life! Good lord...
With this thought process, you will never ever make close to 850k!!
@Kalev Weiß Thats what I was thinking hahaha. There is plenty of people willing to do it for 20k LOL
candy girlll I don’t think so
@candy girlll different kinda of pain, it would be intelectual pain, and it actually exists everytime u learn something new u stress your brain so he just choose a different type of pain...
Nik what type of mindset do you need then?
Such a fake New Yorker.. "Its in the tundra up near Canada..." No love, that's called Buffalo.
Probably Maine.
I take where I'm from wherever I go, especially when 850k is on the line. Have some courage Natalie.
I’m from the 716 and have friends in med device sales. Lol surgeons in buffalo don’t make 850k
Andrew Berg I’m from the 716 as well, and you are absolutely correct! This lady is full of it
She was most likely referring to somewhere in rural Alaska I figure.
My wife would have started to pack bags before I got off the phone after receiving that 850k offer.
I wud too if I didn’t love you!
@@Buggu3 Then it is a good thing we aren't married 😜
I think I'd live in Antarctica for 3 years for $1.5M....
Thats too dayum cold😂😨
$900k after taxes*
Umm… you dont pay tax if you work in Antartica
Jakob is that true? I guess it depends on what country you work for.. I think Canada and Russia have certain controls when it comes to tax, employment, jurisdiction, etc. As they both own land in the great white north :)
@@DozIT Antartica is the great south tho
I can't imagine this woman being smart enough to provide 150k worth of value in any professional capacity.
Ryan hahaha savage
Awful big assumption based on one phone call. Sounds like jealousy on your part.
adult industry?
Trust the_process how do I do this
There are plenty of ways to cheat in school. On the contrary, book smart does not mean common sense. Many people are also brain washed by brand marketing and status for temporary satisfaction. They need to ask themselves if it is a "want or a need" and try to not purchase on first sight. Atleast think about it overnight and do research about it. Stay away from emotional and compulsive shopping. Be tactical about choices and stop trying to keep up with the Jones's, or you will be 68 years old calling this guy worried about your retardedment. By the way, that picture is not of me. That is the idiot gang member who thought he could get away with robbing my friends house who is a sinlge hard working mom raising 4 kids. He is still in prison right now thanks to me hunting him down after almost a year of his crime. Lol
500k more and she’s scared of “RURAL” culture shock????
This lady is a real piece of work and shows that all the money in the world doesn’t make you smart. If I was the husband I’d be embarrassed to have a wife that’s this slow. I truly hope she sees this.
They probably have to pay so much money because they will be going to remote oil fields where there are literally no people except for the oil unmarried workers the husband is paid to treat. There isn't even a rural culture to even be part of because that would require actual residents. The oil workers are also not from there and only taking that job because it pays 3x what less miserable work would pay.
I wouldn't move to NY to make that kind of money. I'd much rather live a cheaper lifestyle in my own culture.
For 850k a year I'll move to a gulag in Siberia with my whole family... -_-"
This is madness
Babatunde Olowu you can’t really use the money if you’re stuck in a gulag
Abitamim Bharmal you realize that you can’t leave a gulag right?
Abitamim Bharmal the whole point of a gulag is so that you can’t leave
Abitamim Bharmal That’s not a gulag anymore. Gulags were the labor camps during the Soviet era.
At 850k a year I would own the Tundra.
Mathgasm i would never own a toyota tundra 🥵
@@6kilo508 Im sorry for that.
This lady can live there for 3 years and leave when the commitment is done. She sounds very spoiled....geez
A. R. They will be divorced in a few years
Christopher Higgins and the divorce will be vicious
Yeah she is just like *uhuh uhuh uhuh. Uhuh. Uhuhh.*
immensely spoiled. And this guys program is like, .. oh ok, so you make 1/2 mil a year and you can't figure out what to do to save money. I could run the show. It doesn't take a financial Einstein to advise the immensely, entitled and stupid. Next up.. "Uh, Hi, my husband has a new start up similar to Google and is making only a 1/2 billion a year, and I've got my modeling career and new product line I've made and I make only 200 million a year. But we are a billion in debt and we just want to live in a place with pure gold toilette seats instead of those made of subpar materials. What do we do?"... lol
850k a year? I'd live on the moon for 3 years for that kind of money and I don't care who else is coming or not :D
I'd move to the dessert for 3 years with only a compass and a warm can of Pepsi for an extra $1,500,000.00
Lucas Levon this is the best comment.
But you are not willing to study a few years to become a doctor!
@@main343 With a doctors salary you will be able to repay your loans in no time. Also you will have enough to invest so you can retire very early
Think of all those soldiers deployed to inhospitable parts of the world for very little money
@@sexysilversurfer I deployed it really wasn’t that bad. I rather be deployed vs being in the states🤷🏾♂️
This is literally the definition of first world problems
Not even first world, because only 1% in the country is anywhere near that
Shes the face of the oppressed left
@@help4skin yup lol
She sounds spoiled. Try living on $30,000 a year.
I live on 12,000 year
+James Marquis My goal is to be just like you! 7-13 years to go!
Christopher Banacka How is this possible? where do you live and do you pay rent? this is my plan but it seems impossible with rent prices in los angeles
exactly
30,000 a year? try living on $6,000 a year
“Somebody needs to smack you if you can’t pay off 300k in a year.” I’m dying lol.
Somebody needs to smack her anyway.
Problem is they are going to buy 100k cars and a 500k house and they are going to be 1 mill in debt so they are still not going to be in good shape for a little while.
@@Hallowsaw right the more money you make the more stuff you buy...If I made what I do now at 18 with no debt I'd be rollin. but credit cards, food, cars, entertainment...everything adds up. You make more you spend more... just because you see some guy in an AMG doesn't necessarily mean he is living the dream.
The reason I like Dave is he talks to millionaires the same way he talks to broke people. Everyone is on the same level with him. I really respect that.
That’s because he sees and knows how much debt they are in if they are not careful
@@johnlewis8934 I think it's more because 850k income is still chump change to Ramsey.
They ain't millionaires, they are 300k in debt. And probably will stay in debt whatever the income.
Believe me, that's Dave's language while doing his shows. He most likely speaks to multi-millionaires differently... privately.
She’s literally willing to give up $1.5 million dollars all bc she doesn’t want to move. Speechless.
It's the typical Northeast "coastal elite" mindset. They would throw millions away not to be somewhere rural.
Move for 3 years that is not for the rest of her life
Basically everyone who lives in New York City. Lol
A man leads and a woman follows. She should have no opinion about any of this.
@haroldgarling1063 absolutely not that is incredibly abusive they probably have had this conversation maybe he doesnt want to move either maybe theres a comprimise for a 3rd location considering hes a doctor but they need to make this decision togther
Saying she shouldnt have a say is not him being a leader its him being a dictator, huge difference
She just came on the show just to flex her husbands income 😂
Yup
I stg bro lol
My thoughts exactly 🙃
you are rite she wanted to flex her income -what a b
man,thats what most of these callers do!
God, I honestly hope that surgeon got a prenup.
Jay Sway Prenup?? He's bringing 300K debt to the relationship! He needs a postnup.
yeah but he's also bringing all the income.
@reshi p The man doubles her income. Income for the most part stays...debt if you arent idiotic doesnt.
trbobitch06 not necessarily true, becoming a surgeon requires 4 years of undergrad, 4 years of medical school, and then 6-8 years of residency making only upwards of $70-$80k a year, so that’s almost close to 16 years of not being the breadwinner. For the majority of their relationship, she’s been the breadwinner.
reshi p in NYC 150k is like 60k
This lady
School smarts: ✅
Common sense: 💩
Exactly, it could be as temporary as she makes it or longer if she had common $ense.
I'm doubting any smarts. She really ditzy
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Lol exactly
I don’t see any of y’all getting paid for common sense though lol
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are you kidding me?? where is she talking alaska? 850k a year id live in siberia for 3 years off the grid.
In a mud hut lol
working shlub Lol me too!
In a war zone
I dont like people id happily live underground for 850k a year, moving to a rural area sounds bliss
I'd live as a black man in 1820's Mississippi for 3 years for that kind of money.
What an annoying lady! With respect to which job they should pick, I think she just called to brag. Beyond that, she seemed _waaaay_ unfocused.
Completely agree
responsibleparty was thinking the same thing
When Dave told her she can't afford to buy a house, you know she was thinkin in her head, "I'm going to buy a house anyway because I want to." She doesn't like being told no. Or being told that she needs to live on $150,000 per year. I like how she was clearly not happy that he Dave told her she can live on that. lol
responsibleparty but 450k after taxes is like 300k if they're from different salaries ...
She called to brag. I would have hung up the phone. This show is for people with REAL financial problems.
You look like one of those “cash app me” girls
There are millions of people with financial problem galore - why they didn't talk this Thu and come to some conclusion without asking him ???????????
She makes 150k herself I don’t think she was trying to brag
I hear a lot of problems with people that are like....I think I'm saving too much money... LOL!
This actually happened to my daughter and her fiance, who are both doctors. They chose the rural area location because of higher pay and in the end they learned to like the area and the people so much that they remained there even after their contract.
There's people serving our nation for $20k-40k a year in a very hot desert with bullets flying over their head.
Viet PopLove Yep and those people should have went to medical school and studied hard if they wanted to be better off financially
I served in Afghanistan and I agree with the comment above. If you want surgeon wages, become a surgeon.
No one joins the military for the “awesome pay”.
You Tube Spent 3 years overseas and most i ever made was like $36k
Viet PopLove amen to that, what an entitled twit
The husband is a surgeon saving lives so I’m pretty sure he’s doing something right
I am moving from Seattle to Tampa for extra $10/hour!!
Nik congrats!!
bihbhkjbnlk haha, that’s a great joke.
That's a lot of increase. Congrats. This lady on the other hand is loopy. She needs to buy a scarf and keep it moving.
And also no state income tax in Florida too :)
But Tampa is amazing tho
“Soooo um should we make $500K a year or $900K a year Mr. Dave?” *hair flip. “One will make me lose touch with my trendy clique and I won’t get a chance to flaunt all my wealth in front of them and the other won’t pay as much but I’ll get to stay in the hole that I’m comfortable in”.
Idk why he took her seriously.
she's definitely talking about Alaska. Doctors make tons of money out in Alaska
This would be a nice solution after they pay themselves out of depth. You hear her talking about not having a house yet. I'm sure they have family or friends they can stay with on small trips. But with this kind of money they should be able to afford a hotel. They will end of broke because of her.
Mate, Alaska is North of Canada mate. She said South of Canada.
@@invictuz4803 I'm thinking more like North Dakota. LOL
she’s actually likely talking about upstate NY near the Canadian border. Doctors typically only are licensed in one particular state. she said up north near Canada.
Its Montana
Do you see this? It's the galaxy's smallest violin 🎻
Simply Cherie lol, love it!
Not the galaxy xD
Simply Cherie you are a reservoir dog.
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I would live in the Tundra for 5 years for that income.
Oh wait, I live in the TUNDRA already... Shhh lady, rack up your millions and keep it moving. SMH
One of the most annoying callers I've ever heard. It's 3 years for crying out loud. Where is this lady's head? Good gosh.
Janae S I spent 2 years in Iraq and 1 in Afghanistan and my highest salary was like $36k one year lol
@@BigRed2 Thank you for your service, sir! And saddly that pay is much to low compare to the risk and struggle you had to go through😟
I know someone who was a contractor in Iraq and who made $125K/yr. He was there for 2 yrs. then, he bought a fishing boat and makes about the same only doesn't shoot.
She just wanted to come on and brag about how much money they make. An extra $500k a year is a no brainer.
Dave literally said he would take the 350k. Why is everyone here laughing and saying 850 is the obvious choice?
If it’s 600k vs 100k, duh take the 600. 350 vs 850 doesn’t matter. You’re wealthy either way
@Jay Gerard you can retire much sooner with the 850k. It would make everything so much easier.
My husband is considering working in Alaska as a police officer. They make easily double in certain cities versus what we do in the lower 48. It’s 2 weeks on, 2 weeks off, he’d fly home and spend those 2 weeks with us. You go where the money is and make the sacrifices you need to for your family.
this lady's problem , SHE DOESN't have problems
Except for her snootiness.
AutopassionTv Funny!
She has bigger problems than ALL of us. It’s just her problems aren’t financial. Instead she’s a spoiled brat that lacks common sense.
Attitudes like that are likely a reflection of why you don’t make that kind of money. Having maturity includes understanding we all have a life path. NYC to a place like Alaska is a HUGE culture shock! They are insanely different places.
850000 for 3 years...get over yourself lady!
Yup..2.5 million
I would love to know what makes someone like Natalie worth 100k
Her mouth? Even then, I wouldn’t pay for it! 😂😂😂
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I'm a french pharmacy student and I'm amazed by the high incomes in the US... For example a pharmacist here in France earns 32k dollars a year versus 100-120k for an american pharmacist. But at the same time your loans are frightening as in my country, getting a college degree is free so we don't really worry about debts. These differences are very interesting to me, and even if I'm not concerned I love to listen to Dave Ramsey helping people with their financial issues !
Wow...I would've taken the $850k job so quickly and stocked up on winter gear. The job is almost guaranteeing debt freedom within a few months.
a few months is 1/4 of the years pay, so about 212 thousand dollars and he is in a 40% tax bracket so really it's more like 128 thousand dollars. His med school dept is 300 thousand so they are going to need to be there for at least 8 months just to pay the dept off.
@@kkknotcooland? Oh my god I would already be on my way the second they offered that to me
haaaaa...rich people problems
Lol!
Actually they aren't rich. They are 300k in debt.
Right
imbonnie and they can pay that off in half a year.
I would do it in a heartbeat
I’m surprised Dave didn’t tell her to sell her car and get on rice and beans
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“I don’t know to get an Audi or BMW, no one said life was going to be honest this hard”
I can't stand people like this. They ought to screen out these calls. I consider this program actually meant to help people who are struggling with money.
This woman is very upsetting. I don't know her, but her tone and attitude gives off an air of elitism. It makes it easy to understand why there is class envy when I hear a call like this.
youtubeaccount I 100% agree!! How annoying is she 🙄
youtubeaccount I agree! These people are a waste of his time! Clearly she doesn't follow Dave very closely.
Jason Burns I'm fine with it, but if you're intelligent enough to make that kind of income in a free market, then it's curious that you'd seek financial 'help' from a national radio talk show.
To complain about how miserable it would be to make 850K and live in a rural US town for three years is obscenely gauche and crass. Rarely have I heard such a lack of basic social awareness. No one ought to be criticzed for their wealth; That's beside the point entirely. Though if I were a producer on this show, I would only entertain calls from people that needed actual financial help and guidance. I would certainly not air the insufferable grievances of Eva Gabor... worried about missing out on the luxurious New York night life while earning more in one week than a sixth of households in America do in a year.
Be proud of your wealth and the sweat on your brow, but don't ever forget how fortunate you are to live in a society that allows one to prosper so greatly while others struggle.
youtubeaccount Very well stated response to Jason Burns whom also appears to be just as clueless and socially unaware as the caller. Your comment was spot on UA-camAccount!
Thanks! Yeah, it just makes me upset because it's people like this caller that can give wealthy people (which I am not, though I hope to be one day) a bad name.
I tend to stay patient during these videos, but this lady hit a nerve… TAKE THE $850K FOR THREE YEARS. GOOD LORD.
Yeah i lived up near canada, you can have A LOT OF FUN with an extra 500 grand
Depends, if it’s really really in the middle of nowhere where it snows all the time and your nearest neighbor is 100 meters away and there’s literally nothing to do and you have no friends nor relatives outside of your significant other it can take a big toll on your mental health. For example I often go visit my grandparents who live in the country and I have a lot of fun with them but I know that if I were to stay there for long periods of time it would be real hard for me, because there’s not a lot to do and not a lot of new people to meet
@@charlesparent-spioneck9928
Like Dave said catch a flight every few weeks to go see family. No brainer.
@@charlesparent-spioneck9928 It can't be in the middle of nowhere! Hospital needs lots of patients to pay their doctors with not much experience almost a million!
“An un idea location..”
It’s surprising to me that a vast amount of people that earn over $120k are this dense...
The “un idea” comment hurt my head
@@Crimithy Yeah, no kidding. Her un idea screams unintelligent. She's the audio equivalent of the awful spelling and grammar of far too many people in the comments.
How did our schools let people graduate from even *middle* school, while bastardizing the English language?
This is like every hallmark movie. New Yorker moves to small town ends up loving it.
It’s true!😊
This call makes for great comments. Everyone knew they were coming.
"Say MY NAME!!"
Good lord, listening to her you'd think they're making $50k as a household. If you can't manage an extremely comfortable lifestyle while simultaneously socking away a ton of money in the bank with that much income, I have no idea what to tell you.
I don't know, Cody. We make about $50k, and we aren't whining about it. We don't take trips every weekend (really!?!), but I'd say we are pretty darn comfortable. Granted, $50k wouldn't go far in NYC, so I get what you're saying. My point is it's okay to be happy with the little things rather than huge materialistic expectations.
crispappletart Absolutely!!!
Cody Smith hater
crispappletart Using 50k as a point of comparison. Not saying it's poverty level or anything. You can be comfortable on a lot less if you know how to manage which it sounds like you do!
His pain when he didn't got to say 'better than I deserve' was the best part.
She seems like a nightmare to deal with. Im a premed and my wifes job outlook is horrendous because she majored in an useless degree. If im getting offered 850 to go to the middle of nowhere either we are both going or im going by myself.
Wow.. some people don't even know how well they have it. Crazy!
Does anyone else think there is no way she's going to listen to his advice? I try to be charitable, but my goodness, she sounds spoiled.
crispappletart I would not call successful people making 200k+ a year spoiled.
Benton Tong
I wouldn't presume to know if she is or isn't. I don't know her. All I said is she "sounds" spoiled to my ears.
crispappletart and you're assumption is right!
She DEFINITELY is not going to take his advice. She didn't appreciate being told she can't afford a house, she needs to live on $150k, and she should move to the middle of nowhere. I will tell you how she will end up. They will take the lower paying job, buy a house anyway, live above their means, and then call back a few years from now and can't understand why their household income is $500,000 and they are living paycheck to paycheck :)
I was just thinking that as I was listening. She is going to buy a house and car. Then call Dave a year from now, asking what should I do :/ because we are $750,000+ in debt.
For the first time ever when Dave asks "Is he a doctor or a lawyer?" and I hear the response "He is a doctor" and he's an actual surgeon 😂
She called to show off the money. There was hardly even a question asked.
funny think is that theres ton of others out there with 100x what they make. not impressed with their incomes
I was in a similar situation years ago and I didn't go for the big job with the big pay because I was hesitant to move away from where I was comfortable because it was 'the known' and regretted it.Take it. Trust me.
Amen brother.
I’m a Med student and I completely agree with Dave’s advice. I don’t know how people complain about paying of medical school debt when you are making in the top 2% of income earners. The problem is most doctors try to play big and buy big houses, and drive expensive cars. Med school debt can easily be paid off in 5 years or less depending on salary if you don’t get yourself into more debt trying to live like a billionaire.
Living in the rural Tundra region, in total peace and quiet and away from everyone, making $950000 per yr.
Whatever shall I do?🙆🏻♂️
Or be pretty much equally rich where w you and your young wife aren't miserable?
Watching this in 2019, so her 3 years is up.
Ha ha, 10 bucks she didn't go?
AMPM Ri 😂
@@ampmri2434 I hope he did. No woman would stand between me and 1.5 million extra for the same work.
She makes it sound like they're living on rice and beans already, come on...
AJ Thompson she living on that plus steak lobster shrimp and more lol
J Brandon 😂😂😂
Jonathan Blandon it's very expensive in New York city. Common jobs with a business degree get paid 100 grand there. And they live in a small little apartment.
AJ Thompson I live on rice and beans and I love it!!
...what's wrong with beans and rice?
Um. Hello. Dave Ramsey, my husband wants to know whether i should drive the ferrari or the lambo.
Lol. Both, I want her problems.
Ahahahah exactly
Should he go to the moon or mars, we need help Dave.
😂
Rewatching this to feel better about myself always hits the spot. 😌
This is just a giant flex
She laughs, “he’s a doctor” if she left NY she couldn’t brag to her friends.
Exactly. What a princess?
sounds like good problems to have
“I could make a million dollars a year, but I don’t want to be a little chilly”
This pisses me off. I'm surprised Dave was able to talk to this woman calmly. I would've lost my marbles if someone had those kinds of options and asked for help.
Right, it's not that hard. Either stay in NYC, be merry, and make 350k or go for the gusto and make 850k!
That’s just immature. We all have problems. Just because they aren’t yours doesn’t mean its not a struggle for her. I love NYC and I love outdoors and camping but I would also hesitate in wanting to live somewhere extremely rural for multiple years.
@@lijohnyoutube101 Than you make decision money and lifetime of non-care living after 3 years with "strugles" of rular life or comfortarble life in your safe zone.
It allows for clickbait you think so one dimensionally lol
2 questions: okay $850k not bad! what's the Internet speed in this area? If the answer is anything above 75 megabytes honey pack your shi$ we are moving.
Lol my internet is barely 25m and that s the best we can get
Handsome
Wilson Elias 🤣🤦🏾♂️👌🏾 that’s my only prerequisite as well. Good income and high stabile internet speed.
I'm so glad they let this call get to Dave. These people are seriously struggling and need a lot of help. Homeless people probably feel terrible for people in situations like these.
He should drop the dead weight and take the 850k job, this woman sounds like the absolute worst.
She knew exactly how lucky she was, she just wanted the opportunity to brag without being overtly obnoxious
I really, really, really, REALLY want to know where this lady thinks the "tundra" is! She acts like the job was in middle of Alaska... but I get they feeling it's probably somewhere like Buffalo.
Bethany Heppner aye! I grew up in the middle of Alaska. Lol
I agree I live in Canada and there is no tundra anywhere near the border tundra is way way up north in Canada
Man I already live in Buffalo and I make 11 dollars an hour.
Oh God northern Maine where the closest town is 1 hour away how will this poor woman survive??!! Only 850,000$ a year to live on someone make a go-fund-me for this poor woman.
I know😂😂😂😂Go fund me is the way to go😂😂😂😂This poor thing😂😂😂
We go to Maine to shop. I love the people there. They are either friendly or sullen. It's great!
And the food!
I stayed in Robbinston for a week and would visit St John, NB and back during that week. Coming from Los Angeles, my only problem would be the brutal winters. Other than that, I don't think I would mind staying longer. The area was so beautiful! If I had the opportunity to live up there for $850K a year, I'd say peace out to Cali and live in Maine!
When did she say maine?
Moving to those remote places sometimes bring about the best friendships with other professionals that are putting in their time up there. And on top of it, it can draw a couple or family closer together. I know many people that have done this and they say they would do it again. It’s an adventure!
If my husband had the chance to make this kind of money and he wanted to go to the rural place, I would go in a heartbeat. She was definitely planning on living the high life. They could always move back in 3 years and it will be a funny story for when they are older.
This woman is NOT going to take Dave's advice. It is clear in the tone of her voice. Kudos to Dave, for continuing to give good advice to his radio audience ... when it is clear to him, that she has stopped listening.
$850,000/year and...the problem is......??? You don't want to live in the rural? ughghghghhghghgghhgghghghghghhgahghhhghhghgh
Right
Entitled...
She called to brag. We get it.
You’re jealous. We get it.
I grew up in a small town up by Canada and it was amazing! Take the job! It’ll change your life in ways you never imagined!
This is someone who holds her lifestyle to a very high standard, and can't bare to leave the hustle and bustle of the city for a few years.
Omg this lady must of come from a really rich family before lol. Her problems and worries are hilarious. Either situation you come out a winner, but she is worried about how they don't have a retirement savings yet and if they should make 500k more or not lol. In one year, at either job, whatever they save will be more than basically 60% of the rest of the US population's savings accounts. I pray I one day have a problem like hers lol.
However, jokes aside, it is an interesting question. Does more money really bring more happiness? She will lose her friends, family, and basically entire life for extra cash. They are making so much already I highly doubt the extra 500k will add any more joy to their lives. Especially since they can't use it to have fun with anyone. Just alone in no where land with a bunch of cash isn't too exciting.
Team Shmo there have actually been studies on this subject...if money buys happiness,.,....if im remembering what I read correctly, the answer is yes and no. It buys happiness up to a certain amount of money.......I think it was a a few hundred thousand a year or something.
Jen Tuesday MUCH less than that. The study says it was closer to $85,000 believe it or not.
blahh blah well yea... i remembered it being either about 100k a year....or like 2-300k per year ...was just too lazy to look it up that day lol
Team Shmo I am also a doctor and I am familiar with this exact situation.
YES YES YES it is worth it. There is a very big difference in happiness that comes with having enough money not just to live well but to completely stop worrying about money. I live well but not at all extravagantly. Making 350k/yr was way more than enough and allowed substantial savings and investments. After 15 years I have a net worth that allows me to do basically anything I would actually want to do. I cut back my hours to spend time with my kids. I could handle losing a job for years if needed. When I need to buy something I don’t actually have to worry about the cost. I still do out of habit but I know I have enough money so it doesn’t cause actual stress. If this guy took the $850k job, he can get there in 5 years instead of 15. In the tundra with low costs, maybe he can get there in 3. Totally worth it.
they live in NYC.. 85K does not go far in this city. That study must not take into consideration location
I think this lady just wanted to flex
Brantley May I think so too
No Cap !!! 🤣
Exactly what I was thinking lol
Say what you may, but I don’t think a surgeon can make “too much”. They train forever We rely on these people to open us up, fix, cure etc while accepting significant risk. I say good for that guy.
Gabe Smith same. It’s a high stress, high risk, job and you go to school until you’re 30’s. I hope he took the $850
Who thinks surgeons make too much?? 🤣🤣🤣 what a strange notion. They only go to school for 10+ years and literally save lives.
they'll stay in debt, accumulating. why did she call?
She'll be in debt in New York, and he'll be catching giant salmon and hunting moose in Alaska.
mkvnwk 😂😂
Sounds like she's gonna be the next biggest debt I'd say change jobs and wives
He'll divorce her and leave her with half of his student loan debt, as her's was probably paid off by mumsy.
Why did Dave spend so much time on this call that only needed a 10 second response but rushes people with actual problems?
Dave: "So you're going to live on nothing, and pay that off real fast. Right?"
Caller: "Um......"
Translation: "No way will I reduce my lifestyle."
He’s a fool for even marrying this girl in the first place 😂