I think once you are all nice when you wake up and playful and he gives you one of those what the heck looks or departs quickly the answer is pretty much out there whether it was a hook up or more. Or what kind of calls you get later.
Nonsense, of course it matters what you say or do. If a guy was acting awkward or weird after we had sex it would definitely put me off so I'm sure it works the same the other way round.
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I did all this. And I am glad I did but, then He said he just wanted to be friends and that he was seeing someone else and she was not very available... So I said "There are plenty of other people out there for you to be friends with. Good Day Sir" :) It felt so good...Moving on...
I hooked up with an acquaintance at a party about 1.5 years ago, and I was super scared what morning would bring. But he was super charming and sweet the next day, and his calmness made me calm. I think I struck a balance between "I kind of like you" and "that was probably just a one night stand, so let's enjoy the morning together while it lasts." When it was time for me to go, he walked me out and asked for my number. We started talking a few days later, and we've been dating ever since. So ladies, don't just worry about what YOU do after a hookup. Pay attention to how HE's acting the next day.
I'm a man, and let me give this advice: DON'T HOOK-UP! (Unless that's what you're after and that's a different topic) He disappeared because you made it easy for him. In his mind, you're the fun girl, not the serious one. He didn't invest anything in you. You're most likely not going to get any type of relationship from him, and if you do it won't be a lasting one. Men don't fall in love through sex. Make him date you first! Give it a month or so. I know you're saying, "but he won't stick around that long." Well, if he can't court you for 30 days, then the sex wasn't going to keep him around anyway.
Ah, the gauntlet has been thrown! Bring it on, Jewel Kitty!! Seriously, I am truly interested in your opinion, and a friendly debate; not looking for a fight.
fun girl can get serious too ... but ya i agree on not giving in too easily unless i really want to and he is extremely hot and irresistible; in that case i don't care lol
Harlowe79 You'll also lose on many awesome guys who don't have the patience or time for that. I dropped many interesting women because they were expecting too much from me and were making it complicated and weird. I live a busy live and have plenty of choice in women. I have no need for one who's shown since the very beginning that she's willing to waste my time.
La la la you've dated many men because none of them stuck around. Dating many men isn't an accomplishment, it's just more mistakes! What a dumb thing to brag about.
You have missed the point. Harlowe79 was talking about serious relationship and you are making examples of obvious few days standups. Looks like escort girl would fit your needs best: bout of you could date just for business and won't be willing to waste each others time, no boring talks and tries to understand each other or to get know better...
Girls I will say this to you: self-love is everything you need to master to find love, be happy, and know “he will want more”. Self love is self care, self respect, knowing your value, having your own interests - everything that will make you attractive.It’s not about tricks or gimmicks, the type of texts you send or what not. It’s about you. You must become the loving centre of the world. Of course you have to be respectful towards a man if you want to be respected. But the right one will be drawn to you, when you’re blossoming like a flower and shining like a pearl. Then all the “bad ones” will not stand the test of time or you will not even notice them. Become in love with yourself and with life. The rest will fall into place 💗
I have to watch this a second time to fully appreciate the fact that there were more wardrobe changes than a Lady Gaga concert. This was amazing. (And great advice, too.)
😂 funny but true I watched again, I was all about the talk but he could have a robe I could not notice😉oh my world ...but I have noticed the watch, for most man is a statement...
Totally irrelevant and that's why your comment is hilarious... Now I have to go and watch it again because, in my case, I was only noticing how his hairstyle kept getting flatter and flatter each time😅
"**NEVER, EVER, EVER INVEST IN A GUY BASED ON HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM. INVEST BASED ON HOW MUCH HE INVESTS IN YOU.** If you follow those words, you’ll never lose your self-respect in the name of chasing a man who has not yet proven himself to you" - Matthew Hussey
not really, his game is keeping his value high, your game is retaining him. He's lying. Young, chaste, submissive, creates peace, follows his lead, takes care of family and house
@@RR-et6zp That doesn't make sense. Women also take care of their families, some earn more than men. Feel free to go back in time and find a woman of your dreams. 😏
I see people here talking about women being used and etc. I'm a woman and I'm also not fond of casual hooking up BUT that's my preference. How come in sex there is this notion that women are used? In this case didn't you have sex too? I don't think anyone is used. The problem is the expectation I believe that women go into sex. Never think that having sex will make a man fall in love with you or the opposite, I feel like if you have sex, I don't care when,but especially early on, it's a moment. It's all about that beautiful moment where two people allow to express each other physically. No one is using anybody. You gets your and he gets his, if anything men like pleasing women and know you are turned on by him. It's a moment. If you cant handle sex as a moment to be cherished then just don't do it. Because if you go into it with too much expectation, yes, you will feel hurt and... used. Of course, I don't feel personally that it's a good idea to jump any guy that comes your way but if you 2 have a connection then why not. Sex is sex, when you put so much pressure into it you are indirectly you are putting sex on the pedestal like it's the ultimate you can offer... it's not. Love is the ultimate and if a guy already has interest, real interest in you it doesn't matter when you do it. Whether sex happens or doesn't, he'll keep chasing or stop not mattering if you had sex. Some guys however do have that mentality but we live in a different era. If it feel right, go for it without regret. If you think you might regret... don't do it. Easy.
Linda Smith Shes talking about the blatantly sexist comments talking about how women should wait before having sex or that women are "too easy" or "being used" if they have sex early on. Its a judgemental and disgusting mentality and you would do well to get rid of it when you're generalising.
@@michelleangelina9967 lol in a country full of systematic racism, unfair ass taxes, poverty, unequal opportunities for health care and education social injustice, etc. someone on UA-cam in the comment section post a nicely well rounded detailed comment on sex and yo ass talkin bout run for president. I can't with u lmao
This is bad advice. Women get approached by hundreds of men every day through messages and men know that. You have to show him that he isn't just going to be another weirdo by trying to get your attention.
ElektivK5 yeah. i had to learn the hard way, show interest, but dont forget you have your own life, and communicate exactly what you want in gentle reminders. I dont have sex with anyone until I feel comfortable with whatever either outcome may be. It helps me to maintain my confidence!
I'm not in a relationship, I'm not looking or yearning for a relationship but I can't stop watching these videos. It is so interesting understanding intimate human relations and the invisible markers that can turn somebody off or on.
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Who knew I needed this advice years later. So glad I found this video again. This exact situation just happened to me. And I was unsure of how to communicate my standard. Let’s hope the guy responds positively. If not, I still have the willingness to walk and meet more men.
Hi Matthew, I am not sure you will see this comment but wanted to reach out to you after watching one of your videos. I finally feel like I understand things that have happened recently and what I need to do. My ex just ended our 6 month relationship for the reason you mention in this video. He is slightly younger than me and kicking off an amazing tour guide career meaning 75% of the time he will be away. This is a man that from the first time we met he chased me and wanted to be in a relationship with me. But for a full year we were just best friends because I was too scared after my previous relationship to let someone in. But after that year I seen how wonderful a person he was and how stupid I was for running away from his love and I asked him to be with me. The six months we spent together were full of love as well as difficulty because he travelled so much. Then it got to a point he just got unsure, he said he wasn't ready for this serious of a relationship and he is concerned about being away so much. It has been just over a month now and he tells me he still loves me and misses me but he is still unsure. Now, of course I have spent this whole time trying to reassure him everything will be ok if we are together and we can make it through anything. But I see now that if I really do love him then I have to let him to go to find what he thinks he is missing. After watching this video I really do want him to go out there and find happiness and fulfill his life because I just want him to be happy, even though now I'm more sad to loss him. Thank you though, because this is quite a turning point for me.
This couldnt have been uploaded at a better time! Thank you Matthew for the time and effort you put into making these videos as well as coming up with the advice to all our dating problems lol!
Why not just wait til sleeping with someone... at least the third date? Or settle that score before you even meet. "I like to wait a little while before getting physical with someone new." It's pretty simple and if they're in it for sex only, you'll save yourself the time because he will start make excuses or cancel on you.
Right!!!!! I actually brought up the 3 date thing in one of my videos. That's not really enough time either. You know that though.Some girls hop in the sac with guys in hopes that it will make him care about them. That is sooo backwards. No commitment +sex = no commitment.
3 dates is 'waiting a while?!? You wouldn't even know a guy's middle name by the third date but you're prepared to sleep with him? Wow that's why I've been called old-fashioned because that just seems not very sensible in my book.
Well.... its not a rule lol. Anyone who thinks it has to be has the wrong idea. For 2 adults that are attracted to each other though sex is important. What if the other person is totally wrong for you sexually? You could be wasting time. Bedroom action is make or break and anyone who says otherwise is lying ;)
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Owning your nakeness and sexuality is all part of body positivity and a healthy practice if you wanna be sexually active, no matter what you want out of the guy afterwards! So this point alone is great advice, love it :)
I feel like this is so bold and a way to completely freak him out. I like the first two tips but saying you want to get to know them better right when they ask you to hang out? That's kinda terrifying for both parties. I feel like it'd be smarter to do it like "You know I've been craving such and such restaurant so bad lately- would you wanna go there instead?" Am I wrong?
@@shayc.1025 Actually It's been a year since I made my last comment and my opinion has changed somewhat since... If someone is so inept socially as to not be able to read very clear cues it's not your fault nor your responsibility
I never sleep with anyone unless I have been dating them for at least three or four months. It isn't awkward sleeping with someone when you wait for sex and if the guy won't wait he is not worth my time.. sorry.
Brooke if you want to have sex, have sex. if you don't want to have sex, don't have sex. but to wait for months, regardless if you want it or not, is just stupid. i would NEVER wait if it doesn't feel right. imagine that waste of time if you wait three or four month and then she says "sorry, let's just be friends".
Exactly! If a man hasn't given up his mind and heart, a woman should be weary of giving up her body. They are courting the man instead of the other way around. But I'm Old school though. What do I know?
Tracy Ellis. Girls are far too easy these days. Girls out there, where's your self-respect. Get to know the guy first, if he's interested in you for being you, he will wait. A lot of men turn out to be twats, use you for sex then move on to the next one! Don't let them do this to you, unless of course you enjoy being used in that way. It will end in tears and a broken heart if you don't learn to look after yourself!
Right. For a guy or a girl...If you don't know a person well enough to have that difficult but important conversation after sex you shouldn't be having sex with them. Your not close enough to communicate your feelings but your close enough to have sex?"Shits backward to me. Mat is right but the very fact that so many women get themselves to this point is wrong! Thanks for the reply!
You HAVE GOT to be comfy with them when they wake up. I always pretend to be asleep knowing he’s awake and I wait for them to show some sort of affection. Like a kiss on my cheek. CUTE TIP: when this happens- sing “you liiiiike me” this shows confidence and that’s SEXY and it’s also super adorable! You’re welcome
Best advices ever. I'm seeing this guy and everything is going great. Just saw this video and realized I did exactly the same you say. It works perfectly. He used to be a player and now he's the one asking to do different stuff instead of meeting only for sex.
still protect yourself emotionally and physically if he was a player. You have to know someone for a long time to really know if their playing days are over.
I know I always say this, but....where were these videos two years ago? 😣 I did all the things wrong explained here in this video. I acted weird after sex. I wanted to seem perfect and was worried about my hair, etc. I was so worried and so weird, that every time after sex I stayed almost completely quiet. Not because I didn't enjoy being there, but because I didn't want to seem stupid for any reason at all. I know that that's such a silly thing to say but that's how my brain processed it. I didn't text at all or say anything sweet. Ugh. All this would've been so helpful back then, because I REALLY liked him. I still do. I don't know or have met anyone else like him. But it's been two years and he has a girlfriend now 😔
haruma yuna I didn't. He totally picked up on all my weirdness. As Matt explained, some people either become too cold or too attached and I was the type of person to become too attached. I was always there if he asked me to and was overly sweet when I wasn't being quiet. He ended up losing interest I suppose and one day called me to tell me he was not ready for a relationship and that he was too focused on his career. He was being a total gentleman about it and being very careful with my feelings. He was a really great guy. Still is. Just totally messed things up on my part.
its okay, now you've learned and you're more confident. If he is in a relationship already it's time to let go and move one. You can do it. There are plenty of sweet guys around.
He had a chance to be with you, if he didn't see your greatness he is not for you. Even if he was a gentleman that does not mean you have to be with him. In love the reciprocate is a must. Honey, let him go and don't blame yourself for you not together.
Thank you all for your sweet comments. I will try and let him go, just my heart always runs back to his memories. Don't know why. I miss him so much. But I will try. Thanks again!
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Thank you, Matthew, for your videos. They give me hope that love can still be found out there. Do you ever advise women in their late thirties? How does being near forty change the game when looking for love. Asking for a friend. not really- it's my question.
It doesn't make any difference what age you are. You can find love at any age. Just believe in yourself, keep your dignity and be a kind and loving person.
Great job Matt and Team! Maintaining your power is 🔑. Having power is one thing, but maintaining it... well that's strength! The ability to endure. Keeps you in control of the game. Great job again.
I started dating someone for a few weeks and when I came back to this video, I noticed Matt's advice is now forever part of me haha. I am doing them naturally!
I love how he says “You can’t blame him...HE’S A GUY”. Like, therefore simply being a guy absolves him of accountability of being an asshole, and us as women need to just be subservient to that.
Oh and so when women get hysterical or unreasonable or materialistic expecting men to pay just because they are females we should show the same outrage. If you agree, then I respect your opinion, If you don't then you are a disgusting hypocrite.
Whelp, color me crazy, but I am not into a man who is into one night stands and sleeping with people he is not in love with. Sure fixes all of this. :) Mathew is adorbs. xxoo
I love your videos. I'm not even dating right now but they're always very informative with practical applications and of course, little funny bits :) Love what you're doing, keep it up!
I spend sometime with my guy last night and i sent him this.. "I still have a smile on my face from last night... It's going to be hard to concentrate at school today... Have a good day at work! 😘" Was this a good text? If so why or why?
I liked this video! It felt very creative and cool. The fancy + casual looks, the fun angles. The attention grabbing intro that made me blush/laugh/snort. Pretty good 😎
Quinnsey that's the point, i you sens to a Guy the message and hé did not answer, it's a jerk that went away from you. but, i you still have again and again the same kind, maybe you need to change the kind of Man you are attracted to
Budhi Malu totally! Great answer btw. I tried to communicate my standards whenever I meet a guy who wants N&C and I'm still waiting for the right one to come in.
I like the second message because it stirs the guy in a different direction without being controlling. But I think women have a hard time stirring the guy in a different direction because many women are people-pleasers and men can take advantage of that.
Damn. Lots of Nancies in here. As someone who does sleep with a man on a first date...and as a performer in the adult industry where it is so hard to naviagte sex and relationships when sex is a part of my job, I so appreciate this advice. And ladies, please stop “shaming” women who are sexually fluid and open. To each their own, and my vagina is just as precious as all of you claiming that you never hook up.
I'm never weird after. I got the thin line between casual and regret down to a T. My issue? The "entitled to sex afterward". God that hit it on the head. After i have sex with a guy "I" get comfortable and just go to his place. I don't "make him" put in any more work. Therefore, he feels entitled, and i in turn feel unappreciated and leave. Its the story of my last three relationships... 💡
1. Don’t be weird 2. Later that day send message. Great time w u last night (dont get too vulnerable) - own it with no regrets 3. Do not settle for come over/netflix
Damn it Matthew I am into a guy and I watched this video for fun/knowledge when he did not want sex and now it's a couple weeks later and I need to watch it again for practicality 🤦♀️
Ashley Reed you could maybe hint at a restaurant you've been dying to try out. Or say you have a special recipe you wanted to try out so he could come over to your place and you would have a bit more control over the situation!
That „retaliation” would show the two are going for different things. As a woman, I would check my instincts to see if I could keep the sex buddy dynamic safely with that guy. After that, whatever I felt was the thing to say to him I would just say it and not worry about it so much.
Something like: "Cheeky! *winky face* I bet you're an amazing chef, so that sounds like a great date we'll have to have eventually. But, much like the movie, we know where that ends up. So....Do you have a favorite restaurant? Or are you gonna make *me* choose?" *kissy face* (Then, if he keeps pushing, you ring the gong and invite the next contestant onto the dating stage.)
All of these replies are great. I would just like that say that sometimes you can be direct. If your too nice he may continue to pressure you at every turn. A simple " I had a great time but I want to work on our non sexual connection as well (smiley face emoji) will do just as much but it also shows him you are self aware and serious about getting to know him.
Jihyeon Cha Determine what you want. If he isn’t offering the relationship you want, then move on. Don’t wait on him and don’t try to change him (because it won’t work). Good luck.
Great advice Mathew and hilarious ending. Simply, he's not that into you, but when the right one comes around he will do anything to be right by your side. No question and no doubts. If you have doubts it wasn't meant to be.
In terms of ONS, I've noticed the "follow up" depends on whether the act came from a place of confidence or a place of insecurity and validation seeking. Confidence makes such difference. I'm not exactly the type to expect relationships from ONS, and id usually assume that sex in that instance was nothing more than sex, so personally I think this advice is great for getting a fuckbuddy - but I'm not the expert :")
Okay, good to know, but what about if you want it to ba casual, and it seems like he wants it to be casual too, until he starts sending you clingy texts asking how you are doing and if he can make you dinner so that you can get a break from all the university work you need to do? How can you let him know that you just want it to be about sex without hurting his feelings?
fortell han at du bare vil ha det litt casual nå, og ikke ute etter forhold. Vær ærlig. Jeg hadde fortsatt likt å ha et måltid av og til for det ;) han er heldig ;)
Okay I'm the fourth video in on all this and I'm already bored with the effort that it takes to be with the guy. Damn I don't want to live my life stressing over some dude!!! He needs to worry about whether I want to see him again.
Hi Matthew, I just used some of your advice and straight out asked a guy he'd like to grab a coffee with me, and he said no because he's already dating someone. This is a growing issue for me; I've been attracted to several guys quite seriously but none of them have ever gone for me. Is there something wrong with me (I'm worried that my forthright character makes me seem unattractive and masculine) or is it just one of those things that will happen eventually. I've got to a point where now I don't think I can ever ask a guy again because I always get rejected.
I'm not sure he answers questions on here. Every one I know has been in the place you are right now.After a series of strikeouts we want to shut down and pity ourselves. Don't do it! You sound like my best friend a week before he met his wife. Some guys love a forthright character. I stuck out for a couple of year as well. Rejection isn't your failure to be good enough, its their failure to see that are good enough. You are good enough! Never doubt yourself!
Karen Johnson More power to those that can sleep with someone easily, i know i couldnt. At lease you can always say you did it with your spouse than some random person you barely know.
Sam N Wow. Why are you being so aggressive? I was trying to be polite... if you can't handle different point of views of people who disagree with the way you say something, don't debate. You have serious psychological problems, you should seek help. I'm afraid you might suffer from a serious anxiety disorder, this behavior of yours is not normal.
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why am i happy to be single? and still at 90yrs old, i have never longed for a relationship, and i don't sleep around, nor want i (its just not my thing, its not my mentality), i must have an extreme unique diagnose, that no one knows abt yet, or is there a diagnose for it already? (that i have missed).
Hey, Matthew! Whew...got a little dizzy there watching the cool camera angling! lol! I jest! Your advice makes sense...sort of common sense, too! The bit about doing an expectation reset is gold and many ppl don't even realize that that's an option. Cheers, Matt! Ooooohh, btw, great Blue Jay blue hoodie/jumper. And your last outfit? Very handsome, Sir! ;)
This only works if the guy was into you before sleeping with you. If the guy was only in it for the hookup, nothing you say matters.
I think once you are all nice when you wake up and playful and he gives you one of those what the heck looks or departs quickly the answer is pretty much out there whether it was a hook up or more. Or what kind of calls you get later.
Nonsense, of course it matters what you say or do. If a guy was acting awkward or weird after we had sex it would definitely put me off so I'm sure it works the same the other way round.
Kev Hick. You seriously need some lessons in punctuation. LOL
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Yes, so true, if he is not looking for a serious relationship, no matter what you do, say or text, will not make a difference in my opinion..
OMG, WHY do relationships have to be so fricken complicated???
Swankster rite lol . this is dumb af
Relationships aren't complicated? What kind of superficial relationships have you been in lately?
because human beings are complicated...end of story
corsican lulu that not true so it must you you cannot get on with people
Life is tough so are the relationships .
I did all this. And I am glad I did but, then He said he just wanted to be friends and that he was seeing someone else and she was not very available... So I said "There are plenty of other people out there for you to be friends with. Good Day Sir" :) It felt so good...Moving on...
Great job Sister 👏👏
That guys an asshole
@D. F. In my case it meant "I want to keep you as a back up so I'm gonna pretend we're friends and then throw myself at you when I'm horny"
You're just great👏👏..I wish I could be like you...
J. F. I wish I can say like you, but I really like him 😭
I hooked up with an acquaintance at a party about 1.5 years ago, and I was super scared what morning would bring. But he was super charming and sweet the next day, and his calmness made me calm. I think I struck a balance between "I kind of like you" and "that was probably just a one night stand, so let's enjoy the morning together while it lasts." When it was time for me to go, he walked me out and asked for my number. We started talking a few days later, and we've been dating ever since. So ladies, don't just worry about what YOU do after a hookup. Pay attention to how HE's acting the next day.
@New Soul.9 me too I also wanna know... Or they have been knowing each other ever since... May be he already had some feelings for her...
I'm a man, and let me give this advice: DON'T HOOK-UP! (Unless that's what you're after and that's a different topic) He disappeared because you made it easy for him. In his mind, you're the fun girl, not the serious one. He didn't invest anything in you. You're most likely not going to get any type of relationship from him, and if you do it won't be a lasting one. Men don't fall in love through sex. Make him date you first! Give it a month or so. I know you're saying, "but he won't stick around that long." Well, if he can't court you for 30 days, then the sex wasn't going to keep him around anyway.
Ah, the gauntlet has been thrown! Bring it on, Jewel Kitty!! Seriously, I am truly interested in your opinion, and a friendly debate; not looking for a fight.
fun girl can get serious too ... but ya i agree on not giving in too easily unless i really want to and he is extremely hot and irresistible; in that case i don't care lol
Harlowe79 You'll also lose on many awesome guys who don't have the patience or time for that. I dropped many interesting women because they were expecting too much from me and were making it complicated and weird. I live a busy live and have plenty of choice in women. I have no need for one who's shown since the very beginning that she's willing to waste my time.
La la la you've dated many men because none of them stuck around. Dating many men isn't an accomplishment, it's just more mistakes! What a dumb thing to brag about.
You have missed the point. Harlowe79 was talking about serious relationship and you are making examples of obvious few days standups. Looks like escort girl would fit your needs best: bout of you could date just for business and won't be willing to waste each others time, no boring talks and tries to understand each other or to get know better...
"Don't be weird" is a good tip for any situation in life... :)
so what if you happen to be naturally weird? :-/ ;-)
@@meme6083 It can be your superpower! 💪
I’m scared, I embody weird.
haahaaaaaa
@@meme6083 the best way
Girls I will say this to you: self-love is everything you need to master to find love, be happy, and know “he will want more”. Self love is self care, self respect, knowing your value, having your own interests - everything that will make you attractive.It’s not about tricks or gimmicks, the type of texts you send or what not. It’s about you. You must become the loving centre of the world. Of course you have to be respectful towards a man if you want to be respected. But the right one will be drawn to you, when you’re blossoming like a flower and shining like a pearl. Then all the “bad ones” will not stand the test of time or you will not even notice them. Become in love with yourself and with life. The rest will fall into place 💗
I love this:)
Brilliantly said!
@ilbgbg - Three years after, your words are heard and helpful. Thank you
I have to watch this a second time to fully appreciate the fact that there were more wardrobe changes than a Lady Gaga concert. This was amazing. (And great advice, too.)
MissAshleyPants 😀😀😀
MissAshleyPants ur so right 😂 .. I still wondering why so many clothes change
😂 funny but true I watched again, I was all about the talk but he could have a robe I could not notice😉oh my world ...but I have noticed the watch, for most man is a statement...
He dresses so nice
Totally irrelevant and that's why your comment is hilarious... Now I have to go and watch it again because, in my case, I was only noticing how his hairstyle kept getting flatter and flatter each time😅
"**NEVER, EVER, EVER INVEST IN A GUY BASED
ON HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM. INVEST BASED
ON HOW MUCH HE INVESTS IN YOU.**
If you follow those words, you’ll never lose your self-respect in the
name of chasing a man who has not yet proven himself to you" - Matthew Hussey
not really, his game is keeping his value high, your game is retaining him. He's lying. Young, chaste, submissive, creates peace, follows his lead, takes care of family and house
@@RR-et6zp Not really, we are not in the1950s.
@@Tee1312Jay evolutionary biology and biological instincts cannot be removed. Sex attraction and relationship attraction is not the same thing either
@@Tee1312Jay evolutionary biology and biological instincts cannot be removed. Sex attraction and relationship attraction is not the same thing either
@@RR-et6zp That doesn't make sense. Women also take care of their families, some earn more than men. Feel free to go back in time and find a woman of your dreams. 😏
I see people here talking about women being used and etc. I'm a woman and I'm also not fond of casual hooking up BUT that's my preference. How come in sex there is this notion that women are used? In this case didn't you have sex too? I don't think anyone is used. The problem is the expectation I believe that women go into sex. Never think that having sex will make a man fall in love with you or the opposite, I feel like if you have sex, I don't care when,but especially early on, it's a moment. It's all about that beautiful moment where two people allow to express each other physically. No one is using anybody. You gets your and he gets his, if anything men like pleasing women and know you are turned on by him. It's a moment. If you cant handle sex as a moment to be cherished then just don't do it. Because if you go into it with too much expectation, yes, you will feel hurt and... used. Of course, I don't feel personally that it's a good idea to jump any guy that comes your way but if you 2 have a connection then why not. Sex is sex, when you put so much pressure into it you are indirectly you are putting sex on the pedestal like it's the ultimate you can offer... it's not. Love is the ultimate and if a guy already has interest, real interest in you it doesn't matter when you do it. Whether sex happens or doesn't, he'll keep chasing or stop not mattering if you had sex. Some guys however do have that mentality but we live in a different era. If it feel right, go for it without regret. If you think you might regret... don't do it. Easy.
Love this 💝
Linda Smith Shes talking about the blatantly sexist comments talking about how women should wait before having sex or that women are "too easy" or "being used" if they have sex early on. Its a judgemental and disgusting mentality and you would do well to get rid of it when you're generalising.
Please run for president 🥺🥺🥺 idcidc finally someone with logic and common sense
@@michelleangelina9967 lol in a country full of systematic racism, unfair ass taxes, poverty, unequal opportunities for health care and education social injustice, etc. someone on UA-cam in the comment section post a nicely well rounded detailed comment on sex and yo ass talkin bout run for president. I can't with u lmao
@Dang Ayesha Bad uhh sounds like a personal issue, chill out 😂😂😂
Bruh I tried cuddling him and he pushed me away. Bruh
BRUH 😤
🤣🤣🤣
Next
Ditch him
What a loser of a guy...next girl.
Seriously, don't text him. Wait till he approaches you.
This is bad advice. Women get approached by hundreds of men every day through messages and men know that. You have to show him that he isn't just going to be another weirdo by trying to get your attention.
shooting viewpoints of this video was so playful and creative!
I love you treating your videos as a fun artform asides from the advice facts
love how you are changing outfits and scenarios 😍😍😍😍 really helps drill the message in my brain
indeed hot
Concentrate with the topic😂😂
The filming is amazing and so is the content!!
Im a guy and if a Girl would follow his advise, i would be MADLY interested in the Girl
ElektivK5 yeah. i had to learn the hard way, show interest, but dont forget you have your own life, and communicate exactly what you want in gentle reminders. I dont have sex with anyone until I feel comfortable with whatever either outcome may be. It helps me to maintain my confidence!
You're a guy so I already know you are a liar.
Sienna Venezia exactly! This is trash advice
Gentle reminders is a very good way to put it.
ElektivK5
even if it was just a hook up? even if you did not have any intentions to begin with?
why am i watching this i'm a virgin ? oh well it's matthew so i have to watch
Lol same
same
Me too! It's his hair also! What a perfect hair!!
in case you need advice in this area in future😉
skyhigh lihi i know right
I'm not in a relationship, I'm not looking or yearning for a relationship but I can't stop watching these videos. It is so interesting understanding intimate human relations and the invisible markers that can turn somebody off or on.
Guess I did it right last night. Ohooooo
Ladies in the comments, I await your high fives
Michiko Yeung Fist bump!😄👊
Michiko Yeung 👏👏👏 I'll be using these tips soon!
Are you making these mistаkes with your man? twitter.com/ca077ce29da62d145/status/804693412402241537 Hоw to Makе Him Want Yoоoоu For More Тhan 1 Night Matthеw Hussey Gеt Тhе Guy
Michiko Yeung one year later you still with that guy? lol
Curious minds, want to know 👀
Who knew I needed this advice years later. So glad I found this video again. This exact situation just happened to me. And I was unsure of how to communicate my standard. Let’s hope the guy responds positively. If not, I still have the willingness to walk and meet more men.
He's lying. Young, chaste, submissive, creates peace, follows his lead, takes care of family and house
Hi Matthew, I am not sure you will see this comment but wanted to reach out to you after watching one of your videos. I finally feel like I understand things that have happened recently and what I need to do. My ex just ended our 6 month relationship for the reason you mention in this video. He is slightly younger than me and kicking off an amazing tour guide career meaning 75% of the time he will be away. This is a man that from the first time we met he chased me and wanted to be in a relationship with me. But for a full year we were just best friends because I was too scared after my previous relationship to let someone in. But after that year I seen how wonderful a person he was and how stupid I was for running away from his love and I asked him to be with me. The six months we spent together were full of love as well as difficulty because he travelled so much. Then it got to a point he just got unsure, he said he wasn't ready for this serious of a relationship and he is concerned about being away so much. It has been just over a month now and he tells me he still loves me and misses me but he is still unsure. Now, of course I have spent this whole time trying to reassure him everything will be ok if we are together and we can make it through anything. But I see now that if I really do love him then I have to let him to go to find what he thinks he is missing. After watching this video I really do want him to go out there and find happiness and fulfill his life because I just want him to be happy, even though now I'm more sad to loss him. Thank you though, because this is quite a turning point for me.
This couldnt have been uploaded at a better time! Thank you Matthew for the time and effort you put into making these videos as well as coming up with the advice to all our dating problems lol!
If the guy totally stops talking to the girl afterwards she doesn't have any "power" or any influence at all.
Thing is I did this and yet it only ended in "just wanting to be friends" reply. Shame it didn't work at all for me.
Why not just wait til sleeping with someone... at least the third date? Or settle that score before you even meet. "I like to wait a little while before getting physical with someone new." It's pretty simple and if they're in it for sex only, you'll save yourself the time because he will start make excuses or cancel on you.
Right!!!!! I actually brought up the 3 date thing in one of my videos. That's not really enough time either. You know that though.Some girls hop in the sac with guys in hopes that it will make him care about them. That is sooo backwards. No commitment +sex = no commitment.
3 dates is 'waiting a while?!? You wouldn't even know a guy's middle name by the third date but you're prepared to sleep with him? Wow that's why I've been called old-fashioned because that just seems not very sensible in my book.
Yeah, I never understood the 3 date rule. You still barely know the person on the third date.
Well.... its not a rule lol. Anyone who thinks it has to be has the wrong idea. For 2 adults that are attracted to each other though sex is important. What if the other person is totally wrong for you sexually? You could be wasting time. Bedroom action is make or break and anyone who says otherwise is lying ;)
Why not just have sex if you feel like it, and don't have sex if you don't feel like it? Pretty simple really.
you are such a nice guy. i love to hear you talking. ..the sound of your voice and for sure also the massage .
have an amazing Sunday.
Regards from Germany
Owning your nakeness and sexuality is all part of body positivity and a healthy practice if you wanna be sexually active, no matter what you want out of the guy afterwards! So this point alone is great advice, love it :)
I love this guy. Puts faith into bring 100% truthful
I feel like this is so bold and a way to completely freak him out. I like the first two tips but saying you want to get to know them better right when they ask you to hang out? That's kinda terrifying for both parties. I feel like it'd be smarter to do it like "You know I've been craving such and such restaurant so bad lately- would you wanna go there instead?" Am I wrong?
No it is better to be direct. Guys are notoriously shit at reading into clues and cues.
Can’t let fear stop you
@@ThePsychicFish This is so true.! I came on strong to a guy only for him to reply with "I don't know your angle" wtf.!??😭😭
@@shayc.1025 Actually It's been a year since I made my last comment and my opinion has changed somewhat since... If someone is so inept socially as to not be able to read very clear cues it's not your fault nor your responsibility
@@ThePsychicFish Damn. U right.!🤔🤷
I never sleep with anyone unless I have been dating them for at least three or four months. It isn't awkward sleeping with someone when you wait for sex and if the guy won't wait he is not worth my time.. sorry.
four month ... wtf...
make a mountain out of a molehill....
u are single right? xD
Brooke
if you want to have sex, have sex. if you don't want to have sex, don't have sex. but to wait for months, regardless if you want it or not, is just stupid. i would NEVER wait if it doesn't feel right. imagine that waste of time if you wait three or four month and then she says "sorry, let's just be friends".
Better yet, don't sleep with someone unless you are married to them. Yeah, I said it.
You know your worth sis👊👊👊
4 months, wtf? even I wouldn’t wait as a woman for a guy that long.
Your words are really motivating and the way you deliver them are even more amazing..! Just keep doing that you are doing Matt!
I can't get with this new millennial way of dating. There is too much easy sex out here. The guys don't have to mentally invest.
Tracy Ellis Truth.
Exactly! If a man hasn't given up his mind and heart, a woman should be weary of giving up her body. They are courting the man instead of the other way around. But I'm Old school though. What do I know?
Tracy Ellis. Girls are far too easy these days. Girls out there, where's your self-respect. Get to know the guy first, if he's interested in you for being you, he will wait. A lot of men turn out to be twats, use you for sex then move on to the next one! Don't let them do this to you, unless of course you enjoy being used in that way. It will end in tears and a broken heart if you don't learn to look after yourself!
Right. For a guy or a girl...If you don't know a person well enough to have that difficult but important conversation after sex you shouldn't be having sex with them. Your not close enough to communicate your feelings but your close enough to have sex?"Shits backward to me. Mat is right but the very fact that so many women get themselves to this point is wrong! Thanks for the reply!
Jammy Jay it takes two to tango its the guys fault for being easy too, it's not fair to only expect women to be responsible.
*For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul. ~ Judy Garland* 🥰
I don't even want to know these tips. His voice is really calming. (I'm playing games while listening to him)
You HAVE GOT to be comfy with them when they wake up. I always pretend to be asleep knowing he’s awake and I wait for them to show some sort of affection. Like a kiss on my cheek. CUTE TIP: when this happens- sing “you liiiiike me” this shows confidence and that’s SEXY and it’s also super adorable! You’re welcome
Best advices ever. I'm seeing this guy and everything is going great. Just saw this video and realized I did exactly the same you say. It works perfectly. He used to be a player and now he's the one asking to do different stuff instead of meeting only for sex.
still protect yourself emotionally and physically if he was a player. You have to know someone for a long time to really know if their playing days are over.
I know I always say this, but....where were these videos two years ago? 😣 I did all the things wrong explained here in this video. I acted weird after sex. I wanted to seem perfect and was worried about my hair, etc. I was so worried and so weird, that every time after sex I stayed almost completely quiet. Not because I didn't enjoy being there, but because I didn't want to seem stupid for any reason at all. I know that that's such a silly thing to say but that's how my brain processed it. I didn't text at all or say anything sweet. Ugh. All this would've been so helpful back then, because I REALLY liked him. I still do. I don't know or have met anyone else like him. But it's been two years and he has a girlfriend now 😔
why did you break up with him if you had sex with him?
haruma yuna I didn't. He totally picked up on all my weirdness. As Matt explained, some people either become too cold or too attached and I was the type of person to become too attached. I was always there if he asked me to and was overly sweet when I wasn't being quiet. He ended up losing interest I suppose and one day called me to tell me he was not ready for a relationship and that he was too focused on his career. He was being a total gentleman about it and being very careful with my feelings. He was a really great guy. Still is. Just totally messed things up on my part.
its okay, now you've learned and you're more confident. If he is in a relationship already it's time to let go and move one. You can do it. There are plenty of sweet guys around.
He had a chance to be with you, if he didn't see your greatness he is not for you. Even if he was a gentleman that does not mean you have to be with him. In love the reciprocate is a must. Honey, let him go and don't blame yourself for you not together.
Thank you all for your sweet comments. I will try and let him go, just my heart always runs back to his memories. Don't know why. I miss him so much. But I will try. Thanks again!
*This video reveals the techniques to capture his attention and create a lasting desire. From igniting his curiosity to showcasing your value, get ready to make him want you for more than just a fleeting moment.*
Thank you, Matthew, for your videos. They give me hope that love can still be found out there. Do you ever advise women in their late thirties? How does being near forty change the game when looking for love. Asking for a friend.
not really- it's my question.
sirislyurdumb I wonder this too in my 30's...
sirislyurdumb in his book he explains that all his tips can be used no matter how old you are. the book is fab by the way x
it doesn't.( i know I'm not Mathew) But it doesn't. We never outgrow some things.
Drop your standards.
It doesn't make any difference what age you are. You can find love at any age. Just believe in yourself, keep your dignity and be a kind and loving person.
I loved the first scene of the video. So sweet watching you laying down like that. I felt warmth and could see the sweetness of your eyes.
Great job Matt and Team! Maintaining your power is 🔑. Having power is one thing, but maintaining it... well that's strength! The ability to endure. Keeps you in control of the game. Great job again.
I started dating someone for a few weeks and when I came back to this video, I noticed Matt's advice is now forever part of me haha. I am doing them naturally!
I love how he says “You can’t blame him...HE’S A GUY”. Like, therefore simply being a guy absolves him of accountability of being an asshole, and us as women need to just be subservient to that.
Oh and so when women get hysterical or unreasonable or materialistic expecting men to pay just because they are females we should show the same outrage. If you agree, then I respect your opinion, If you don't then you are a disgusting hypocrite.
Exactly. HE is a whore if he sleeps with you and then judges you that you slept with him too fast!
Your videos are just getting better and better, this was fantastic and the look and feel of it was super professional. Learned a lot, keep it up 👍🏻❤️
Whelp, color me crazy, but I am not into a man who is into one night stands and sleeping with people he is not in love with. Sure fixes all of this. :) Mathew is adorbs. xxoo
Right!
The God Vibe Lee Catalano ... agreed!
Haha, enjoy finding a man that does not enjoy sexual adventure. I'm sure you'll guys have fun playing boardgames together.
Regards.
I love your videos. I'm not even dating right now but they're always very informative with practical applications and of course, little funny bits :) Love what you're doing, keep it up!
I spend sometime with my guy last night and i sent him this..
"I still have a smile on my face from last night... It's going to be hard to concentrate at school today... Have a good day at work! 😘"
Was this a good text? If so why or why?
I feel like this is cringe. Especially if you can't be sure that he likes you like that.
I liked this video! It felt very creative and cool. The fancy + casual looks, the fun angles. The attention grabbing intro that made me blush/laugh/snort. Pretty good 😎
I did most of these things and still haven't met the right one yet :/
Quinnsey me too ! I followed Matthew advice exactly the way he told us to but it did not work with the guys at all
Kasia Grzelak i think it only works for good guys though, not jerks..
Quinnsey that's the point, i you sens to a Guy the message and hé did not answer, it's a jerk that went away from you.
but, i you still have again and again the same kind, maybe you need to change the kind of Man you are attracted to
Budhi Malu totally! Great answer btw. I tried to communicate my standards whenever I meet a guy who wants N&C and I'm still waiting for the right one to come in.
Right!
I LOVE HOW THIS VIDEO STARTS in the Bed! Stay there with more Instructions for what to talk about while relaxing in bed.
Matthew thank you for everything you do for us women!
I like the second message because it stirs the guy in a different direction without being controlling. But I think women have a hard time stirring the guy in a different direction because many women are people-pleasers and men can take advantage of that.
dont sleep with people. get to know them my god
Ikr, simple advice that seems to go over people's heads.
Damn. Lots of Nancies in here. As someone who does sleep with a man on a first date...and as a performer in the adult industry where it is so hard to naviagte sex and relationships when sex is a part of my job, I so appreciate this advice. And ladies, please stop “shaming” women who are sexually fluid and open. To each their own, and my vagina is just as precious as all of you claiming that you never hook up.
I'm never weird after. I got the thin line between casual and regret down to a T. My issue? The "entitled to sex afterward". God that hit it on the head. After i have sex with a guy "I" get comfortable and just go to his place. I don't "make him" put in any more work. Therefore, he feels entitled, and i in turn feel unappreciated and leave. Its the story of my last three relationships... 💡
you look fresh Matthew. Great vid and advise! seems like the thing that weighed you down has been relieved. Happy Holidays!
I need some relationship advice....on how I can get a date with Matthew hussey 😂😍😍😂
1. Don’t be weird
2. Later that day send message. Great time w u last night (dont get too vulnerable) - own it with no regrets
3. Do not settle for come over/netflix
Don’t be weird - I LOVE it!
I love how you always keep these videos so fresh 👌
Damn it Matthew I am into a guy and I watched this video for fun/knowledge when he did not want sex and now it's a couple weeks later and I need to watch it again for practicality 🤦♀️
Advice on point as always! Great video, shot nicely and creatively. Well done to Jameson.
Too bad those links never work.
Why am I seeing this now.... I did everything wrong already :( And clearly the relationship had already been affected by it!!! :(((
I agree with you; if ladies could stop getting weird but be normal as it was. Dont give excuses... own it
Thank you, Matt. You always make me feel empowered!
amazing video! btw u have a good taste when we're talking about clothes, nice style!
On point Matthew! It would work on me
I don't want to "make him" want me for more than 1st date, it has to come naturally for both of us. If it doesn't, it was not meant to be. 🤷🏾♀️
Heard the closing as: "Go download the guy ..." *shy*
What if he retaliates with "dinner at my place??" PLEASE ANSWER
Ashley Reed you could maybe hint at a restaurant you've been dying to try out. Or say you have a special recipe you wanted to try out so he could come over to your place and you would have a bit more control over the situation!
That „retaliation” would show the two are going for different things. As a woman, I would check my instincts to see if I could keep the sex buddy dynamic safely with that guy. After that, whatever I felt was the thing to say to him I would just say it and not worry about it so much.
Something like: "Cheeky! *winky face* I bet you're an amazing chef, so that sounds like a great date we'll have to have eventually. But, much like the movie, we know where that ends up. So....Do you have a favorite restaurant? Or are you gonna make *me* choose?" *kissy face*
(Then, if he keeps pushing, you ring the gong and invite the next contestant onto the dating stage.)
Ashley Reed or in the first message include that its this great restaurant you think he might like!! Closes the open ended opportunity
All of these replies are great. I would just like that say that sometimes you can be direct. If your too nice he may continue to pressure you at every turn. A simple " I had a great time but I want to work on our non sexual connection as well (smiley face emoji) will do just as much but it also shows him you are self aware and serious about getting to know him.
What if he doesn't want more than just a physical relationship?
Jihyeon Cha
Determine what you want. If he isn’t offering the relationship you want, then move on. Don’t wait on him and don’t try to change him (because it won’t work). Good luck.
This video is amazing. It's good to be upfront with what you are looking for
Sex, making love, and power are three different things.
They are often used interchangeably but they are not. You are absolutely right.
Great advice Mathew and hilarious ending. Simply, he's not that into you, but when the right one comes around he will do anything to be right by your side. No question and no doubts. If you have doubts it wasn't meant to be.
I love the begging ! I just jump from bed laughing ... and say yes ! jajaja
These are so entertaining! But honestly.. the newsletters are annoying.
"to put this question to bed." ha! How punny!
This was a good one. It answered a question I've had for quite a long time.
That was the sexiest video of Matthew and useful as always. Love you for your honesty and being revealing!
In terms of ONS, I've noticed the "follow up" depends on whether the act came from a place of confidence or a place of insecurity and validation seeking. Confidence makes such difference. I'm not exactly the type to expect relationships from ONS, and id usually assume that sex in that instance was nothing more than sex, so personally I think this advice is great for getting a fuckbuddy - but I'm not the expert :")
Omggg this is so helpful, I learn so much from your videos. thank you
Okay, good to know, but what about if you want it to ba casual, and it seems like he wants it to be casual too, until he starts sending you clingy texts asking how you are doing and if he can make you dinner so that you can get a break from all the university work you need to do? How can you let him know that you just want it to be about sex without hurting his feelings?
fortell han at du bare vil ha det litt casual nå, og ikke ute etter forhold. Vær ærlig. Jeg hadde fortsatt likt å ha et måltid av og til for det ;)
han er heldig ;)
First time commenter. Great video. Love your series!
Love your vids Matthew. You look more handsome and fit every time!! Thanks for your advices, you're my favourite coach. 😍😙
u r not just helping us every circumstances what we face n what we can't tolarate u teach to over come it....thank you sooooo much ......
Know who's better at relationships than Mathew Hussey?
Casually Explained.
I’m going on a third date and I haven’t had sex in 2 years and I want this guy to break the drought. I’m going to use your tips.
Okay I'm the fourth video in on all this and I'm already bored with the effort that it takes to be with the guy. Damn I don't want to live my life stressing over some dude!!! He needs to worry about whether I want to see him again.
Thanks for the advice, definitely will use these tips..Nice watch 😊
Hi Matthew, I just used some of your advice and straight out asked a guy he'd like to grab a coffee with me, and he said no because he's already dating someone. This is a growing issue for me; I've been attracted to several guys quite seriously but none of them have ever gone for me. Is there something wrong with me (I'm worried that my forthright character makes me seem unattractive and masculine) or is it just one of those things that will happen eventually. I've got to a point where now I don't think I can ever ask a guy again because I always get rejected.
I'm not sure he answers questions on here. Every one I know has been in the place you are right now.After a series of strikeouts we want to shut down and pity ourselves. Don't do it! You sound like my best friend a week before he met his wife. Some guys love a forthright character. I stuck out for a couple of year as well. Rejection isn't your failure to be good enough, its their failure to see that are good enough. You are good enough! Never doubt yourself!
matter of meeting right person, some guys prefer forthright woman...
this was excellent Mathew. Thank you so much. I would have needed those tipps some years ealier in my life.... I guess now it is too late.
I want your stylist for my future guy
Spot on. Again. I really like the text messages part. Very practical.
Thats why im waiting for marriage! lol!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Sam N Amen. It's worth it.
Karen Johnson More power to those that can sleep with someone easily, i know i couldnt. At lease you can always say you did it with your spouse than some random person you barely know.
Exactly. I'd rather be married and in a committed relationship than to give myself to someone I don't know and end up being hurt 😊
Sam N Wow. Why are you being so aggressive? I was trying to be polite... if you can't handle different point of views of people who disagree with the way you say something, don't debate.
You have serious psychological problems, you should seek help. I'm afraid you might suffer from a serious anxiety disorder, this behavior of yours is not normal.
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your words and work is greatly appreciated, when I found your channel...I felt validation, confident, and my competency is growing by the video 😂🤓
Love this guy. Nails it every time. I recommend him to all my female friends
He's lying. Young, chaste, submissive, creates peace, follows his lead, takes care of family and house
why am i happy to be single? and still at 90yrs old, i have never longed for a relationship, and i don't sleep around, nor want i (its just not my thing, its not my mentality), i must have an extreme unique diagnose, that no one knows abt yet, or is there a diagnose for it already? (that i have missed).
It's called asexual (you could google it)
Love the fact his lying on a bed whilst doing this video lol
Brilliant video Matthew, with some really great practical advice!
After it’s all over, I don’t stick around. I put my panties and my heels back on, and then I leave. What’s so tough about that?
the hangover...
if there's a hangover...
Aves Raggiana erm...these videos are for relationships not sleeping around. There's nothing 'tough' about that it's just not what we want to do.
Hey, Matthew! Whew...got a little dizzy there watching the cool camera angling! lol! I jest! Your advice makes sense...sort of common sense, too! The bit about doing an expectation reset is gold and many ppl don't even realize that that's an option. Cheers, Matt! Ooooohh, btw, great Blue Jay blue hoodie/jumper. And your last outfit? Very handsome, Sir! ;)