My sister called me from the hospital to say my father didn't have much time left and he wanted to see me. I said "that's nice" and hung up. Like, the dude was a monster, but he wanted me to pat his hand and tell him it was all ok? I'm not getting up off the couch for that.
That's a huge contrast to my aunty to who died recently. It broke my soul when she died. She was there with me since I was a child and one of my best friends and never betrayed me. I am handling all her affairs to make sure she gets the best burial possible. I never once cared about her money yet she left me her entire house in her will. When you treat children well they never forget.
I have always found it hilarious when men call women who want to be treated well gold diggers.😂 The reality is when they truly meet a REAL gold digger most of them will not live to tell the tale. Gold diggers are ruthless and will step over your corpse for money.
This ☝️ they genuinely have no idea how bad it can get with someone who does not care for them at all, has no conscience and is plotting to take everything. True gold diggers are master con artists. He’ll be lucky if he has any underwear left.
Is this about my dad!!!???? Cause honey he obese with cancer and nobody to take care of him! His gf gone to the Upper Room and he abandoned his kids when we were little! My aunt called to tell me he was sick. I asked what that gotta do with me💅🏽 he can get somebody else to do it.
well he is so logical so he must have been thinking further when he abandoned his kids. So it's all his consequences and responsibilities. Not urs at all.
I read that this is the reason why a huge amount of the homeless population are elderly and men. 25 percent of adults say they don’t talk to their dads and most men report having no family or friends willing to take them in. A lot of them treated their kids and family terribly and thought they’d never face the consequences.
@@melyserenidad6527 It won’t let me link any articles, but there are plenty about how the top reason for males being overrepresented in the homeless population is due to relationship issues and their family being willing to take in the mother, but not the father.
@@melyserenidad6527There are also plenty of articles about how kids are significantly less likely to take in elderly fathers than mothers and howw 25 percent of adults report not speaking to fathers.
This is a huge contrast to my aunty who died recently. It broke my soul when she died. She was there with me since I was a child and one of my best friends and never betrayed me. I am handling all her affairs to make sure she gets the best burial possible. I never once cared about her money yet she left me her entire house in her will. When you treat children well they never forget but if you treat them badly they won't forget either.
It does amuse me that: While you can never give bad people reasons for something, as they *will* try to find ways to guilt trip or spin it around. What you *can* do, is use the old toddler tactic: Keep asking them "Why?". Like, "Why? *What* did you do for me?" and if they try to darvo: Ask another "Why?". Like: "Faaamily!" , use the "Why? *You* never did that for family." And you can *always* bring up another "Why?". As they'll never be able to justify it, as they keep stepping deeper into the marsh.
I once got a call from someone I had known from scool that my father's lady friend was drunk in a bar and the guy was asking if I could go and collect her or something, I don't remember for sure because it was many years ago. I think I did make it clear it was none of my propblem. My emotionally abusive alcoholic father should have been there to take care of her. Yeah we are not responsible about abusive parents.
While this happen A LOT, some men are so lucky their new younger wife actually take csre of them, that happen to my uncle, he left his wife his same age with kids so he could married the """other woman""" he had been cheating on for ages.... He was an university teacher as well as a doctor, his wife was a doctor, his new wife was a wife he could mold into watchever he liked, the woman never work as a doctor, she became a sahm... I guess that makes her vulnerable to never leave We dont know if he chetaed on her or if he was loyal, but we know they live together until he got a heart attack, she took care of him Some men are so lucky.... Btw both women were gorgeous, i bet the only issue was the old wife was not a doormat for his ego, a doctor and a teacher ... She NEVER remarried but she dated a very handosme man from other country and travel a lot, pretty much had a bf but decided to nevee be a wife again 😂😂😂
Wife #2 got stuck becoming a full time caregiver during a time when she was relatively young. My ex and I were divorced for a few years before he met his GF. He has a lot of health issues that were already present when we were young. A couple of years ago, he told me it's possible he will have early onset dementia; he's not even 55 yet. If we were still married, I'd be the loving, loyal, dutiful wife but now I'm so relieved he won't be draining more of my life force. I suspect it's part of the reason his gf won't marry him. But not my circus anymore and no longer my flying monkeys.
This will happen to my daughters father, she has zero contact with him. He has gone around for most of her life screwing over a chain of women, including me ( when she was very small, but not for long). He has lied in the past, to her quite recently, when his father passed. He is one of the biggest waste of flesh Ive ever encountered. She has disowned him as a pathetic looser, which he is, I kept my opinion to myself for years, but we now have exactly the same opinion about him 🤦🥴. What a hopeless case...
I definitely wouldn't help my parents. It's their fault I have systemic CRPS aka the worst form of the world's most painful condition, after they first refused to let me take birth control then forced me to have a kid. They'd forced me to pay for everything since I was eight and didn't help me when I needed help the most. They first made me have a kid, made me disabled and then refused to help. I was barely able to walk and hadn't slept in months due to the pain. My parents had been super pro suffering and refused to let me get medical treatment. Frankly I'm surprised I made it to adulthood.
Oof. While I don’t have CRPS, I do have chronic pain almost all over due to endometriosis (which causes hip, back, and leg pain) and hypermobility (which can affect pretty much any joint). I can’t imagine living without the support of my family… my heart goes out to you, love. They don’t deserve you. I hope you find good pain management and a robust, chosen family/support system.
The more it gets normalized that kids don't owe you, the less Incentive selfish deadbeats have to have kids. The road might be rocky, but it may lead to a future where all children born have good parents.
Haha I clocked that too 😮😅 a little concerning! Though OG Ed was a v good neighbour and all around good guy apparently IIRC, so it kinda tracks 🫣😇🤷🏼♀️
7:55 we need to stop calling these women gold diggers. No, it sounds like their dads were terrible people. My guess is they deserve far more money then they took in the divorce. No, that's how divorce works. Men don't just get to keep everything. Women are not gold diggers for wanting what they rightfully deserve. Leaving a abusive man isn't bad thing nor is it easy to get what you're owed from them. No, I'm sick of people pretending like any girl who divorces a man is a gold digger even as they freely admit that their dad is a POS. No, it sounds like poetic justice to me. Only the chick stealing stuff could be classed as a 'gold digger'. No, men like these pick gold diggers on purpose. It's why they NEVER listen. No, they know they're terrible, don't want to change and like the simplicity of the arrangement. THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR CHOICES. Would you blame me or my criminal boyfriend if things went bad? No, stop blaming women for everything that goes wrong in a man's life. These men choose this. You're just mad bc it put you in a tough spot and hate the idea of taking care of them. However what you choose to do is your responsibility and whatever happens is 100% your fault. No, people really should try and take as much responsibility as possible. It's a far more empowering stance then walking around blaming others and telling yourself that you're helpless.
My sister called me from the hospital to say my father didn't have much time left and he wanted to see me. I said "that's nice" and hung up. Like, the dude was a monster, but he wanted me to pat his hand and tell him it was all ok? I'm not getting up off the couch for that.
That is great for you.
He FAFO
That's a huge contrast to my aunty to who died recently. It broke my soul when she died. She was there with me since I was a child and one of my best friends and never betrayed me. I am handling all her affairs to make sure she gets the best burial possible. I never once cared about her money yet she left me her entire house in her will.
When you treat children well they never forget.
Yeah fuck that. Good for you
Dang 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have always found it hilarious when men call women who want to be treated well gold diggers.😂 The reality is when they truly meet a REAL gold digger most of them will not live to tell the tale. Gold diggers are ruthless and will step over your corpse for money.
It's men who are the gold diggers, expecting to be taken care of for free!
This ☝️ they genuinely have no idea how bad it can get with someone who does not care for them at all, has no conscience and is plotting to take everything. True gold diggers are master con artists. He’ll be lucky if he has any underwear left.
True gold diggers are oligarchs, kings, queens. Corrupt corporations, politicians. Thiefs of resources and and
Is this about my dad!!!???? Cause honey he obese with cancer and nobody to take care of him! His gf gone to the Upper Room and he abandoned his kids when we were little! My aunt called to tell me he was sick. I asked what that gotta do with me💅🏽 he can get somebody else to do it.
CHIIIIILLLLE! 😂😂😂
well he is so logical so he must have been thinking further when he abandoned his kids.
So it's all his consequences and
responsibilities. Not urs at all.
I read that this is the reason why a huge amount of the homeless population are elderly and men. 25 percent of adults say they don’t talk to their dads and most men report having no family or friends willing to take them in. A lot of them treated their kids and family terribly and thought they’d never face the consequences.
My ex’s family let their grandpa die alone because he was a cheater and treated their grandma horribly.
Whomp there it is.
Can you link the article? I would love to read that.
@@melyserenidad6527 It won’t let me link any articles, but there are plenty about how the top reason for males being overrepresented in the homeless population is due to relationship issues and their family being willing to take in the mother, but not the father.
@@melyserenidad6527There are also plenty of articles about how kids are significantly less likely to take in elderly fathers than mothers and howw 25 percent of adults report not speaking to fathers.
My deadbeat dad can never expect sh!t from me.
This is a huge contrast to my aunty who died recently. It broke my soul when she died. She was there with me since I was a child and one of my best friends and never betrayed me. I am handling all her affairs to make sure she gets the best burial possible. I never once cared about her money yet she left me her entire house in her will.
When you treat children well they never forget but if you treat them badly they won't forget either.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Take your time. My condolences for you and yours.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for all your lovely messages. I appreciate it.❤
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It does amuse me that: While you can never give bad people reasons for something, as they *will* try to find ways to guilt trip or spin it around. What you *can* do, is use the old toddler tactic: Keep asking them "Why?". Like, "Why? *What* did you do for me?" and if they try to darvo: Ask another "Why?". Like: "Faaamily!" , use the "Why? *You* never did that for family." And you can *always* bring up another "Why?". As they'll never be able to justify it, as they keep stepping deeper into the marsh.
Love it … v clever!🙌
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Sorrows, sorrows, prayers amd sorrows
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I once got a call from someone I had known from scool that my father's lady friend was drunk in a bar and the guy was asking if I could go and collect her or something, I don't remember for sure because it was many years ago.
I think I did make it clear it was none of my propblem. My emotionally abusive alcoholic father should have been there to take care of her.
Yeah we are not responsible about abusive parents.
He should've just called the police to take her and let her sober up in jail.
@Tigerlily_Fresh That would have been fun considering my father used to be a cop. :'D
I can't imagine turning my back on my own kids. Those who do, don't deserve anything from theirs.
While this happen A LOT, some men are so lucky their new younger wife actually take csre of them, that happen to my uncle, he left his wife his same age with kids so he could married the """other woman""" he had been cheating on for ages.... He was an university teacher as well as a doctor, his wife was a doctor, his new wife was a wife he could mold into watchever he liked, the woman never work as a doctor, she became a sahm... I guess that makes her vulnerable to never leave
We dont know if he chetaed on her or if he was loyal, but we know they live together until he got a heart attack, she took care of him
Some men are so lucky.... Btw both women were gorgeous, i bet the only issue was the old wife was not a doormat for his ego, a doctor and a teacher ... She NEVER remarried but she dated a very handosme man from other country and travel a lot, pretty much had a bf but decided to nevee be a wife again 😂😂😂
The same with my dad! In fact his baphomet looking ass wife did not have a proper funeral! We don't even know where he is buried.
Wife #2 got stuck becoming a full time caregiver during a time when she was relatively young.
My ex and I were divorced for a few years before he met his GF. He has a lot of health issues that were already present when we were young. A couple of years ago, he told me it's possible he will have early onset dementia; he's not even 55 yet.
If we were still married, I'd be the loving, loyal, dutiful wife but now I'm so relieved he won't be draining more of my life force. I suspect it's part of the reason his gf won't marry him. But not my circus anymore and no longer my flying monkeys.
The man beeing way older and had a Stroke already...she might have just Waited it out to inherit (or Speed it up)...like Misses Trump
Welp....his girlfriend can have him...🤷 And deal with him now and in the future.
This will happen to my daughters father, she has zero contact with him. He has gone around for most of her life screwing over a chain of women, including me ( when she was very small, but not for long). He has lied in the past, to her quite recently, when his father passed. He is one of the biggest waste of flesh Ive ever encountered. She has disowned him as a pathetic looser, which he is, I kept my opinion to myself for years, but we now have exactly the same opinion about him 🤦🥴. What a hopeless case...
How old is your daughter
5:55 "He was more concerned about the sinister man he said was in the corner."
My goodness 😳
Halucinatons of a dieing brain. I saw the same when I had a deadly high fever at 4 years old.
Omg I feel so lucky I have a health condition and my daughter and son in law come by all the time when I'm not well
It's giving "Christinaaaaaa? Christina's gone! 🤷🏽♀"
¿👨🏽🦼?🗣️Christina?!
from "Diary of a Mad Black Woman" 😂😂😂
😂 this took me TF out
Men meed to understand that your wife may or may not forgive you for abandonment but I promise you your children won't.
I definitely wouldn't help my parents. It's their fault I have systemic CRPS aka the worst form of the world's most painful condition, after they first refused to let me take birth control then forced me to have a kid. They'd forced me to pay for everything since I was eight and didn't help me when I needed help the most. They first made me have a kid, made me disabled and then refused to help. I was barely able to walk and hadn't slept in months due to the pain. My parents had been super pro suffering and refused to let me get medical treatment. Frankly I'm surprised I made it to adulthood.
Oof. While I don’t have CRPS, I do have chronic pain almost all over due to endometriosis (which causes hip, back, and leg pain) and hypermobility (which can affect pretty much any joint). I can’t imagine living without the support of my family… my heart goes out to you, love. They don’t deserve you. I hope you find good pain management and a robust, chosen family/support system.
The more it gets normalized that kids don't owe you, the less Incentive selfish deadbeats have to have kids.
The road might be rocky, but it may lead to a future where all children born have good parents.
Agree
She could total up the allowances he paid to her during her studies, and send that sum. Exactly, to the penny.
Or better she could just ignore him. She doesn't owe him anything.
Why would she do all that for a stranger?
I'm not sure having the approval of Ed Gein would be that comforting 😮
Haha I clocked that too 😮😅 a little concerning! Though OG Ed was a v good neighbour and all around good guy apparently IIRC, so it kinda tracks 🫣😇🤷🏼♀️
This man reminds me of GEORGE.
I hope y’all didn’t forget GEORGE!!! 😂😂😂
7:55 we need to stop calling these women gold diggers. No, it sounds like their dads were terrible people. My guess is they deserve far more money then they took in the divorce. No, that's how divorce works. Men don't just get to keep everything. Women are not gold diggers for wanting what they rightfully deserve. Leaving a abusive man isn't bad thing nor is it easy to get what you're owed from them. No, I'm sick of people pretending like any girl who divorces a man is a gold digger even as they freely admit that their dad is a POS. No, it sounds like poetic justice to me. Only the chick stealing stuff could be classed as a 'gold digger'. No, men like these pick gold diggers on purpose. It's why they NEVER listen. No, they know they're terrible, don't want to change and like the simplicity of the arrangement. THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR CHOICES. Would you blame me or my criminal boyfriend if things went bad? No, stop blaming women for everything that goes wrong in a man's life. These men choose this. You're just mad bc it put you in a tough spot and hate the idea of taking care of them. However what you choose to do is your responsibility and whatever happens is 100% your fault. No, people really should try and take as much responsibility as possible. It's a far more empowering stance then walking around blaming others and telling yourself that you're helpless.
Throwback to a previous video: They can her heartless, but I bet she kidney rich.
We love a good FAFO season! 👏🏾
This is my theory, I think the man in the corner at 5:55 was a variation of “death” letting him know his time is almost up on earth 😨
Halucinatons of a dieing brain. I saw the same when I had a deadly high fever at 4 years old. Turning 40 this year.
Actions and reaction, well well
The 3rd wife got him good 😅 but if it was done illegally then it can be reversed?
9:02 my guess is she was given a blanket power of attorney. Ha as if she'd need a medical power of attorney contract to find his signature.
Uhhhhhhhh
Ed Gein was a serial killer.
JS
I love this for him.
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