It's a waste of time trying to explain to someone that intentionally harms you that they are harming you. They know it full well and all you accomplish by explaining it to them is giving them an opportunity to justify their actions and denigrate you further. It can even provide them an opportunity to admire their work and the pain that they cause you. These are soulless people and you cannot relate to someone who intentionally alienates you for their own sick reasons. So don't set up boundaries that can be crossed. Set up barriers that are impenetrable.
Thank you Ms. Johnson. I really need more videos for how to cope with these narcissists. They really trigger fear and anger.
Utilizing the “jade” acronym is so helpful!
It’s a great tool.
Thank you, for saying - don't explain.
You're welcome! Thanks for watching.
It's a waste of time trying to explain to someone that intentionally harms you that they are harming you. They know it full well and all you accomplish by explaining it to them is giving them an opportunity to justify their actions and denigrate you further. It can even provide them an opportunity to admire their work and the pain that they cause you. These are soulless people and you cannot relate to someone who intentionally alienates you for their own sick reasons.
So don't set up boundaries that can be crossed. Set up barriers that are impenetrable.
Thank you for providing these suggestions on how to deal with the push back!
You're so welcome!