Creo que la edad es un factor importante. Cuando más años tienes, no es que resulte difícil confiar o abrirte a nuevas amistades, más bien creo que ya no buscas personas para llenar vacíos, buscas gente para intercambiar ideas y eso solo lo consigues con personas con las que tengas cosas en común. Al menos me pasa a mi. Abrazo a la distancia ❤️
Thank you for the video Mindi! I super agree especially with the part at 5:27, stop hanging out with the wrong people and definitely choosing the good ones to give your energy to :D 6:09 is it easy to open up? It is in the sense of I feel nothing besides an intense preemptive regret physical sensation which is quite easy to not show that I'm feeling, not even in the slightest nor does it hinder me, but I trust absolutely no one including myself and I don't open up to just about any one because any information can be used against me, good or bad. Even this statement itself is an example :p So what I do instead, interacting with others is instead of talking about myself, I would speak on an idea or something I'm working on and make sure it is not something I care too much about if the information were to be used against me :D -INTJ
Selective social is real, I agree. Trust is a big part.
Absolutely!!
SPOT ON.
Wow I've been struggling with this lately! The fear of rejection is reallll. Thanks so much for this video and I love that lipstick on you! 😍
Thank you!!! Don't fear rejection, rather look around who do you feel this way with. Is it them (my points 2 and 3) or is it you? (My point 1)
It's hard to trust others , trust was worst when I was younger.
I also believe that trust must be earn. Great video Mindi :)
Creo que la edad es un factor importante. Cuando más años tienes, no es que resulte difícil confiar o abrirte a nuevas amistades, más bien creo que ya no buscas personas para llenar vacíos, buscas gente para intercambiar ideas y eso solo lo consigues con personas con las que tengas cosas en común. Al menos me pasa a mi. Abrazo a la distancia ❤️
Thank you for the video Mindi! I super agree especially with the part at 5:27, stop hanging out with the wrong people and definitely choosing the good ones to give your energy to :D
6:09 is it easy to open up? It is in the sense of I feel nothing besides an intense preemptive regret physical sensation which is quite easy to not show that I'm feeling, not even in the slightest nor does it hinder me, but I trust absolutely no one including myself and I don't open up to just about any one because any information can be used against me, good or bad. Even this statement itself is an example :p
So what I do instead, interacting with others is instead of talking about myself, I would speak on an idea or something I'm working on and make sure it is not something I care too much about if the information were to be used against me :D
-INTJ
Find safe people.
It all stems from childhood I’m most cases
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