5 Stages Of Love, Most People Stop At 3

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  • There are 5 stages of love, but most people stop at 3.
    Have you ever wondered why some relationships flourish while others plateau? Join us as we dissect the stages of relationships, shedding light on the nuances of love that many people might miss. Whether you're navigating the dating stages or seeking relationship advice, this video is your guide to a deeper, more fulfilling connection.
    6 Unconscious Things You Do When You're In Love Without Knowing It • 6 Unconscious Things Y...
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    #dating #love #relationship
    Writer: Chloe Avenasa
    Editor: Caitlin McColl
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
    Animator: Zuzia
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    Abrams, A. (2023, Jan 06). Navigating the 4 Stages of a Relationship. VeryWell Mind. www.verywellmind.com/the-four-stages-of-relationships-4163472
    BetterHelp Editorial Team. (2023, Mar 21). Navigating The 5 Stages Of Love. BetterHelp. www.betterhelp.com/advice/love/how-to-last-through-the-5-stages-of-love/
    Khoshaba, D. (2012, Mar 20). The Early Stages of Falling in Love. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/get-hardy/201203/the-early-stages-falling-in-love

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +397

    In your personal opinion, why do you think some relationships flourish while others plateau? Support our previous video: Harmful Habits You Need To Replace Today ua-cam.com/video/b3R1Qn8dlZA/v-deo.html

    • @TheSillyOne7
      @TheSillyOne7 2 місяці тому +18

      I’ve seen a lot end just because they don’t know how to communicate with each other

    • @normalperson9946
      @normalperson9946 2 місяці тому +4

      how did you comment 39 mins ago tf

    • @TheSillyOne7
      @TheSillyOne7 2 місяці тому

      @@normalperson9946 it might’ve been on private and they commented on it

    • @user-du3gq9mt9u
      @user-du3gq9mt9u 2 місяці тому +13

      Maybe some peoples’ relationships flourish because they both have mutual respect and understanding (and that they both know how relationships work) while the ones whose relationships plateau think that it will work out without putting in the effort to maintain stability in the relationship. Some times those relationships are toxic and DEFINITELY don’t work out well. With that said, I hope that everyone will find their soulmate in one way or another and live in peace and love 😊
      Also, I’m still giving a big thanks to Psych2go because you guys are so amazing and so talented 🫶🏼

    • @ErbyZeferino
      @ErbyZeferino 2 місяці тому +6

      Pretty good question, Many relationships flourish because of the respect and how they're treated and the Honesty in the relationship, on the other hand, other relationships plateau because some people want just the benefits of the relation and then leave their partners just for the benefits. And other wanted a short relationship for fun and then when it's over the partner seems to drift away, idk if i'm correct but this is my opinion 😅😅😅

  • @nagadioy9859
    @nagadioy9859 2 місяці тому +7330

    "Most people stop at three" and some don't start at all

  • @Sarthakrawat2005
    @Sarthakrawat2005 2 місяці тому +3876

    Miscommunication and overthinking destroys everything

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +311

      Absolutely, miscommunication and overthinking can be real relationship hurdles. How do you and your husband overcome these challenges together?

    • @Sarthakrawat2005
      @Sarthakrawat2005 2 місяці тому +158

      @@Psych2go did u just assume my gender how dare u ......😂 just joking i m a male 18 yrs now just this thought came when i m thinking about how my current 1st relationship is going rn it happens many times but we mannage i dont hesitate to say whats bothering me not at all and i ask her to do the same

    • @davidhenningson4782
      @davidhenningson4782 2 місяці тому +40

      communication is key to a lasting relationship. Always have to try to stay on the same page with each other😊

    • @DawnBreaker.01769
      @DawnBreaker.01769 2 місяці тому +3

      yep

  • @alethiastafford6061
    @alethiastafford6061 2 місяці тому +1763

    1) Infatuation and Early Attachment
    2) Getting Serious
    3) The Crisis Stage
    4) Climbing Down From The Pedestal
    5) Deep Attachment and Stability

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +53

      And thats why many relationships fail due to either the boyfriend/girlfriend becoming unsatisfied with one another end up cheating, breaking up, start abusing dr*gs, end up committing the process of death and never learn from those steps.

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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    • @avengerboy2171
      @avengerboy2171 2 місяці тому +19

      ​@@lenninmontiel4539Well those kind of people are immature and inexperienced, they'll eventually know the truth.

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +12

      @@avengerboy2171 will they. In this economy and toxic world, as if people have bright hopeful ideas for the future but bamm reality hits you in the face. The government doesn't do anything anymore, humans are killing the planet, the rich keep getting richer and toxic, ww3 will break out in any second.

    • @avengerboy2171
      @avengerboy2171 2 місяці тому +3

      @@lenninmontiel4539 That happens for a reason, in time everyone like that will face the consequences.

  • @TheDarkPlace00
    @TheDarkPlace00 2 місяці тому +1992

    The beginning is like living in a romantic comedy. Everything feels perfect, even the flaws. But soon, reality tries to crash the party and challenges will test the bond.

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +30

      Well its better to stay single and look after #1

    • @ForeverTogether219
      @ForeverTogether219 2 місяці тому +20

      @@lenninmontiel4539
      You have to love yourself in order to
      Love deeply..💯

    • @Cheza001
      @Cheza001 2 місяці тому +25

      @@ForeverTogether219 its bs to say "gotta love urself first" like did your parents stop loving you when you had a mental low? i hope not! ofc it helps because you can then focus on loving your partner but you should prioritize yor own health anyway even in a commited relationship

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +5

      @@ForeverTogether219 honey I both love and hate myself, as a Gemini myself i have one hell of a toxic relationship that I can't stop drinking my poison. Though I love it because I can use my poison to use on others 🐍🐍🐍

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +3

      @@Cheza001 well said my good fellow

  • @fantom.435
    @fantom.435 2 місяці тому +241

    Target Audience : 👫
    Actual Audience : 🙍‍♂

    • @mika34653
      @mika34653 2 місяці тому +4

      fr 😂

    • @Player-uk9eo
      @Player-uk9eo 2 місяці тому +4

      I mean, it works for me too 🙎‍♀️

  • @ExcelMK
    @ExcelMK 2 місяці тому +2341

    Started at 0, 19 years later I’m still on step 0. Yessir I’m dying alone 🔥🔥

    • @copperdingus759
      @copperdingus759 2 місяці тому +77

      don't say that! i'm sure there's someone out there for you - there always is! ❤

    • @djaketech4460
      @djaketech4460 2 місяці тому

      ​@@copperdingus759 20 years old and still step 0. He and I are in the same boat here 🥲

    • @TheBanjoShowOfficial
      @TheBanjoShowOfficial 2 місяці тому +223

      You’re 19 chill out

    • @AnimeNewsRadio101
      @AnimeNewsRadio101 2 місяці тому +82

      geez, 19 isn’t so bad. I’m the worse here whose 33 and mess up relationship so bad. I get it what’s love and care.

    • @spookyspice596
      @spookyspice596 2 місяці тому +92

      You're 19. That's baby in adult years. You'll be fine.

  • @brain_respect_and_freedom
    @brain_respect_and_freedom 2 місяці тому +557

    In popular culture, stages 1 and 2 are often portrayed as the "honeymoon phase," where couples are deeply infatuated and experiencing intense passion and romance. However, this image can sometimes overshadow the realistic picture of long-term relationships, which require effort, compromise, and growth.

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +8

      Tru that

    • @PsychTalk9033
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    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +44

      True, the honeymoon phase gets a lot of spotlight. How do you think highlighting the effort, compromise, and growth in popular culture could lead to a more balanced understanding of long-term relationships?

    • @brain_respect_and_freedom
      @brain_respect_and_freedom 2 місяці тому +5

      Nobody checked. Moviemakers skiped this part and made movie about divorced😜There’s a thin line between love and hate. And it gets even thinner when dotted and two parties are signing on it after many, many months. We’re writing, of course, about divorce. And for the characters in the movies below, whether they’re moving on and dating after divorce or getting back together for a reconciliation, divorce is their new normal. Explored through lenses of humor, social and gender politics, and even with the Disney musical treatment, our roundup of the best movies about divorce, has a film for every viewer. There’s The Parent Trap and Mrs. Doubtfire for kids and folks young at heart, Kramer vs. Kramer for a gut-punch custody battle that doesn’t pick a winner, The First Wives Club, and Marriage Story. Though each their own, every movie on this list shares a singular message: You will get through this.

    • @soyanshumohapatra
      @soyanshumohapatra 2 місяці тому +1

      ​*I am not reading that*​ @@brain_respect_and_freedom

  • @addbea8858
    @addbea8858 2 місяці тому +285

    The sixth stage is actually merging together and becoming a hive mind! ☺️☺️

    • @MusicianBread3690
      @MusicianBread3690 2 місяці тому +12

      We are the Borg; resistance is futile :)

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 2 місяці тому +5

      🤔That sounds more like enmeshment.

    • @The_Freeman2004
      @The_Freeman2004 2 місяці тому

      Make us whole Make us whole Make us whole Make us whole

    • @angelalisomona7088
      @angelalisomona7088 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂I have this with my mom. We think the same thing in the exact moment and it's happened over 10 times now. It's weird and beautiful ❤

    • @KattalystFr
      @KattalystFr 2 місяці тому +2

      Two corpses in one grave

  • @bluewolfchicken7310
    @bluewolfchicken7310 2 місяці тому +288

    Step 1 : talk to him

    • @nori_sachi
      @nori_sachi 2 місяці тому +12

      Thank you....i will.

    • @bluewolfchicken7310
      @bluewolfchicken7310 2 місяці тому +24

      @@nori_sachi you're welcome (I won't)

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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    • @pianistg_7893
      @pianistg_7893 2 місяці тому +6

      Go for it! Trying is the best thing you can do to yourself [:

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому +9

      As if you women do that. You look at him for less than half a second, wearing your best RBF, then expect him to walk up to you and talk to you.
      Whats wrong with your type?m

  • @kujo62
    @kujo62 2 місяці тому +259

    I'm 42 and I've been stuck on stage 1 my whole life.

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому

      Stay single and get a hobby my friend trust me its better to be single than to have your heart broken by some h*e or boy toy.

    • @copperdingus759
      @copperdingus759 2 місяці тому +23

      and don't give up! it's never too late! ❤

    • @nitrusso2451
      @nitrusso2451 2 місяці тому +18

      Its over

    • @MHJ1117
      @MHJ1117 2 місяці тому +13

      that's really cute, i would consider you at stage 5 tho, it just feels like stage 1

    • @fabighersi
      @fabighersi 2 місяці тому +1

      NOOOOOOOO 😭

  • @oliviaprimacio9830
    @oliviaprimacio9830 2 місяці тому +535

    Watching this takes me back to my high school years. I feel like my husband and I went through the first 3 stages early on in our relationship.. looking forward, now 20 years later, and I see us in stage 5. Love is never easy BUT with hard work it is definitely worth fighting for ❤

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому +1

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    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +10

      Such a nostalgic journey! What lessons from those high school stages have strengthened your love over two decades?

    • @johnnykend5728
      @johnnykend5728 2 місяці тому +2

      Not worth at all. Better stay single forever, than go throught all of that pointless trouble.

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +1

      @@johnnykend5728 exactly betray them before they betray you.

    • @johnnykend5728
      @johnnykend5728 2 місяці тому +2

      @@lenninmontiel4539 Betray them? You got me wrong. I meant to not start it at all or try to prove it her being wrong.

  • @froglover534
    @froglover534 2 місяці тому +195

    Maintaining a healthy relationship can be difficult but it is definitely worth it in the long run. My boyfriend and I have had many fights and many times we went to bed angry at each other. We give each other space and talk it out. After everything and all these years, he is my comfort person and I feel safe with him. It’s like the giddy “I’m obsessed with you” type of love while also the trusting, loyal, caring “this is my person, my other half” type of love. It is seriously worth it and I’ve never been happier.

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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    • @avengerboy2171
      @avengerboy2171 2 місяці тому +17

      Happy to hear someone say that, a lot of people think that if a relationship has even a very few amount of problems then they should give up instead of working around it like a actual committed relationship.

    • @jolieusher
      @jolieusher 2 місяці тому +4

      God i want this

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому +2

      lol nobody cares to maintain a relationship to keep it healthy. Once the slightest inconvenience happens, the one partner always just dump the other. Theres plenty of other humans to "date" lol.

    • @avengerboy2171
      @avengerboy2171 2 місяці тому +3

      @@anderstermansen130 If you seriously think that then go ahead, don't go into other peoples comments and tell them what you think. You thinking this way is the main reason you are single.

  • @TAEXven
    @TAEXven 2 місяці тому +33

    Im very consistent. Been on stage 0 since day 0 💪🏻

    • @Sunflowr_Bot
      @Sunflowr_Bot 2 місяці тому

      People want to use others, staying single is the best because you can have everything to yourself

    • @Hehe_fgs7h
      @Hehe_fgs7h 2 місяці тому

      😂😂same broo

    • @TAEXven
      @TAEXven 2 місяці тому

      @@Sunflowr_Bot true

  • @redheadbelle
    @redheadbelle 2 місяці тому +280

    Fully agree. It’s a true love if it gets to reach stage 4-5. That’s why it’s so precious, needs investment but it’s totally worth it ❤️💟

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +2

      Is it though 🤔

    • @redheadbelle
      @redheadbelle 2 місяці тому

      @@lenninmontiel4539yes why do u doubt it?

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      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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    • @avengerboy2171
      @avengerboy2171 2 місяці тому

      ​@@lenninmontiel4539Yes

    • @redheadbelle
      @redheadbelle 2 місяці тому +1

      @@lenninmontiel4539 it is! What do you mean?

  • @sulcusulnaris
    @sulcusulnaris 2 місяці тому +41

    Hooray, never had to deal with Stage 1 myself, only Stage 0.

    • @nori_sachi
      @nori_sachi 2 місяці тому +2

      Same honestly 😭

  • @lylougrapes7011
    @lylougrapes7011 2 місяці тому +38

    Went through all these stages and now arrived somewhere between 4 and 5. It's beautiful and I wouldn't want it any other way. But man, this took effort! Compromises, hurt, serious self reflection, and so, so many difficult conversations. It is all worth it, but it takes a lot of courage and I totally understand why people sometimes choose not to move stage 3. This world is difficult enough, I completely understand why one might not have the necessary resources to pour themselves into this kind of commitment. Heck, I dont even know if I would do it if I wouldn't already be married to my partner!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +7

      It sounds like a remarkable journey filled with growth and commitment. What advice would you give to those navigating the challenging transition from stage 3 to the deeper connections of stages 4 and 5?

    • @lylougrapes7011
      @lylougrapes7011 2 місяці тому +4

      @Psych2go thank you for your reply:)
      My advice to couples at this stage is to use the conflict as an opportunity to reflect on and shape the relationship in a way that meets both side's needs. What we did back then was: 1. Take a step back from the relationship (might look different for everyone, for us it meant going on a break but still meeting regularly) 2. Accept that there is a serious disruption of our relationship, that that sucks and hurts a lot. 3. Reflect on the relationship up to that point; why do we want to continue to be in this relationship? What makes this relationship special? What was not so good and ultimately led to that disruption? 4. Outline what we want our relationship to be like in the future and commit to making it work.
      This might not be for everyone but it worked for us. :)

  • @studyonly9994
    @studyonly9994 2 місяці тому +16

    19 here and I am single! Won’t hurry for the wrong person😊!

    • @alexyscollinz5030
      @alexyscollinz5030 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes I completely agree!

    • @studyonly9994
      @studyonly9994 2 місяці тому

      @@alexyscollinz5030 :)

    • @johay899
      @johay899 2 місяці тому

      Same

    • @studyonly9994
      @studyonly9994 Місяць тому

      @Fortifier1021 either my parents will find one for me because I am not good at choosing people! All the people I trusted as friends betrayed me! So it’s either my parents who gonna do that for me or else if I find that type of a guy then I will ask him out,

    • @studyonly9994
      @studyonly9994 Місяць тому

      @Fortifier1021 definitely! Thanks for that😍❤️

  • @jpjfrey5673
    @jpjfrey5673 2 місяці тому +73

    "Most people stop at three"
    And about half start and end at 0

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  • @Humansapien34726
    @Humansapien34726 2 місяці тому +17

    Hellooo singles 😂😂

  • @cheyennethomas5101
    @cheyennethomas5101 2 місяці тому +77

    As someone currently in love, nothing worth having is easy yes. But loving and being together with someone is so easy when you really care for and trust them. Time will just fly by

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    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому +3

      "Care for, and trust them"😂 as if women have feelings😂 Hey Google, tell me another joke!

    • @cheyennethomas5101
      @cheyennethomas5101 2 місяці тому +18

      @@anderstermansen130 I’m sorry no woman has loved you before. I hope one day you can experience and appreciate the warmth of a woman that loves you

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@cheyennethomas5101 I will bet it must be a nice feeling. Because i cant relate.

    • @cheyennethomas5101
      @cheyennethomas5101 2 місяці тому +10

      @@anderstermansen130 you could probably start by finding out the source of your pain and why it feels better to project it on to others. That doesn’t heal the pain just spread it

  • @Zippy_Diffy216
    @Zippy_Diffy216 2 місяці тому +21

    My first relationship got stuck on stage 2 and ended at that because it wasn’t fulfilling, plus I was very young. My other two ended on stage 3, and in my current one we’re at stage 1 or 2. I say 2 as well because we’re starting to talk about our more serious stuff, like problems, small things we’ll do together, all that. I genuinely hope this one lasts longer than the anniversary.

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  • @ahmedawadh7905
    @ahmedawadh7905 2 місяці тому +61

    Can’t wait to notice these signs in real life❤❤❤

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  • @JustLuminal
    @JustLuminal 2 місяці тому +6

    I feel like I proceed through the phases but the first phase never really goes away.
    Love it's truly scary, but ultimately talking and open up yourself helps a lot.

  • @MC_Guy
    @MC_Guy 2 місяці тому +53

    Relationships are certainly rough sometimes, so this will help

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  • @sambukashotz
    @sambukashotz 2 місяці тому +7

    I haven't felt love for a very long time now, and im glad watching this made me feel happy

  • @justsumkid
    @justsumkid 2 місяці тому +6

    Wish I would've learned this a few months ago. My relationship had gotten to stage 3 and since it was my first ever serious relationship, I stagnated and didn't quite know how to navigate it with my partner. Now that we're broken up (mostly because she wasn't willing to accept her own faults and pushed all the blame to me), I'm glad I learned from it and yall's videos on how to navigate the same problems in any future relationships. Thank you for this video! It really puts the development of relationships into a logical perspective and it's really helpful.

  • @strawberry3537
    @strawberry3537 2 місяці тому +11

    Bro have such soothing voice,he could heal me by talking!!!!

  • @jayv.7070
    @jayv.7070 2 місяці тому +17

    Already had lots of crisis and managed them all. Stage 4, building the strong foundations with my future hubby.
    I'll see this again in a few years.

  • @panthou3931
    @panthou3931 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you very much for the content. I think I've reached 4.5. I'll do my best to be with her forever❤

  • @childkillers_shouldve_NoState
    @childkillers_shouldve_NoState 2 місяці тому +33

    I can't afford to get bankrupt mentally or financially by going to a relation and getting cheated 😅
    My mental peace worth more than any relations
    I can't withstand getting ignored by the one I like,nor getting cheated

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +3

      Going after the wrong people in that case 😅 In general the first date is handled by the person who asks the other out, but follow ups are either split, pay-for-yourself, or taking turns. Besides not all dates have to be expensive

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +7

      That is why its better to be single than to be in a relationship with someone who will end up betraying you. Besides try getting a good hobby 😌 its peaceful and relaxing.

    • @childkillers_shouldve_NoState
      @childkillers_shouldve_NoState 2 місяці тому

      @@lenninmontiel4539 still I get jealous of my friends who has girlfriends

    • @AI-hx3fx
      @AI-hx3fx 2 місяці тому +3

      Been there, done that. Let's just be at peace and grow without the need for someone else. We came here alone, we all exit alone.

  • @adityakadu8343
    @adityakadu8343 2 місяці тому +10

    I have been craving for the 5th stage ever since I didn't even understand love

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +1

      That craving for deep connection is powerful. How have your perceptions of love evolved as you've moved towards the 5th stage?

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 Місяць тому

      Here comes the best part. Its where you just give up, and accept that womens only purpose in their lives is to make mens lives miserable, at all cost! Some women only give it a few days before they attempt, other women go as far as to marry their victim and give birth to the victims children!

  • @SweetUniverse
    @SweetUniverse 2 місяці тому +4

    I can't imagine experiencing any of this

  • @marieprestegard2495
    @marieprestegard2495 2 місяці тому +4

    I think me and my partner are at stage 4, or maybe 5. We became a couple around christmas in 2019, after chatting and dateing since october that year. Fist crisis we faced was the pandemic, then we had health problems and death in close family. During those years it was also determined that I was unable to work due to halth issues (somthing I still have not fully come to terms with). There are no more medicines to try for my cronic migranes. Point being, we have been through it. I feel so grateful to have had him by my side during the difficult times and sorrow.
    I also see my partner clearly, all sides of him, including his flaws. And he see me clearly, with all of mine. We both love each other, respect each other and forgive those flaws. My partner is not perfect but he is perfect for me 🥰
    I hope I am blessed with a long life with him 🥰

  • @Luke-cu5lf
    @Luke-cu5lf 2 місяці тому +2

    i dont even know why i am watching this. i will probably die alone

  • @charu.sanjeev
    @charu.sanjeev Місяць тому +1

    never related to something better ❤ im in a relationship that just turned 6 ! and it's exciting how i felt related to every point as the video kept on playing and i can say im finally on the last stage 😂😂❤

  • @kaylahukkinen9293
    @kaylahukkinen9293 2 місяці тому +16

    I think could be at 4 or 5. Coz recently he proposed we live together and most of the time it feels comfortable and happy and content. But sometimes there’s still misunderstandings and sometimes bickering. But get through it

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +1

      Congratulations 🎉 Misunderstandings happen in every relationship, but the closer y'all get the really stupid/big ones won't happen as often. Honestly show this to your man see what stage he think's you're at

    • @wiccacat17
      @wiccacat17 2 місяці тому

      That is wonderful and I bet if you took a step back you might see that things are like that with close family and friends in you life as well. The different being the kind of love you have for your to be hubby.

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 Місяць тому

      so when did you dump and ghost him?

  • @kanatagideon5431
    @kanatagideon5431 2 місяці тому +5

    Already 30 years old, still I'm stuck at 0.5, infatuated and early attachment but not reciprocated.

    • @samreplete1842
      @samreplete1842 2 місяці тому

      haha same.

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому

      I mean have you made your feelings known? If so and they said no you can still remain friends with them, but I'd recommend looking elsewhere at the same time or try to move on

  • @joytiston9769
    @joytiston9769 2 місяці тому

    I liked it. Very educating and realistic. Thank you 😊

  • @TaylorUmpherville
    @TaylorUmpherville 5 днів тому

    thanks for the useful info

  • @Kamalot4701
    @Kamalot4701 2 місяці тому +3

    Okay honestly? This makes me feel significantly better about my chances in a relationship 😎

  • @saltydog4556
    @saltydog4556 2 місяці тому +4

    Thank you. I truly miss ny amazing friend of two decades. It took the death of my parents,and her rocky divorce to discover how much we cared about each other. I truly hope she continues to shine on her path of finding her true self.

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +1

      Losing a friend is never easy, especially after such a profound connection. How do you carry the lessons and memories from your friendship as you both navigate your individual paths?

    • @saltydog4556
      @saltydog4556 2 місяці тому

      @@Psych2go Her life could have been a blockbuster movie. Small town,abusive childhood, father gone but was actually a few doors down and discovered six months before passing due to cancer twenty years later. Abusive mother still main contact. Anxiety and C-PTSD. I accidently triggered and didnt know. She went to ground in a few weeks . Tippy toe through the overthinking was exhausting. Texting,omg,the texting, the worse way to communicare but thats her copiing mechanism.
      Your videos gave answers to better understand the mask she wears, and the battle she fights every day. A survivor. And I love her to bits for who she is,not what she was made in to. Her life was on track , she bought a house, showed me via text. So happy for her then bang, protection order. Im not the first one she has done it to and they are relatively easy to get in my country .
      Not angry with her,could never be.
      My mother was a paranoid schizophrenic with delusions, so know the difference between broken, and warped.
      May she find the peace she finally deserves.

  • @urlocalpsy
    @urlocalpsy 2 місяці тому +1

    me and my boy are on stage 1-2 (the "honeymoon phase"). he's pretty serious towards me and often states cute stuff he wanna do after our marriage. honestly, I'm excited to gradually reach the stage 5 with him but I'm also kinda scared of this honeymoon phase ending. i just love him so him and i wanna grow old with him!

    • @alexyscollinz5030
      @alexyscollinz5030 2 місяці тому

      Felt that too 😭 thats exactly what happened with me then I realized he was only with me for that long to get all the sexual desires he wanted. He fooled me pretty well cuz I thought he was a good, christian boy with no intent of deceiving.
      Hope it works out for you though!

  • @mergingrayquaza3462
    @mergingrayquaza3462 2 місяці тому +28

    Man, if only I could use this info 😞

    • @ideamachine39
      @ideamachine39 2 місяці тому

      Chin up my friend

    • @mergingrayquaza3462
      @mergingrayquaza3462 2 місяці тому

      @@ideamachine39 I'll try, m8 👍

    • @copperdingus759
      @copperdingus759 2 місяці тому +3

      don't feel sad! there's someone out there for everyone! it might just take some time! ❤

    • @wiccacat17
      @wiccacat17 2 місяці тому +2

      I have know more then a few that meet the one for them later in life. Just how it was meant to be for them is all. So don't rush things. Some of the best people I know have yet to meet the one meant for them. But they take life day by day and step by step.

  • @clareoreilly7187
    @clareoreilly7187 2 місяці тому +14

    Thank you so much for this video.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +2

      You are so welcome!

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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  • @Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge
    @Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing

  • @iceeg.5696
    @iceeg.5696 2 місяці тому

    I believe we are in the 3rd stage rn. The more we bonded with each other, the more we know about each other. Also, this is the time where jealousy comes, which we were able to talk about just yesterday. I am happy we were able to talk about the matter and we also talked about finding ways not to hurt each other's feelings.

  • @zurileon5801
    @zurileon5801 2 місяці тому +11

    A beautiful explication, narration, and animation of an intresting topic as always. Much love Psych2go! ❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +4

      This means a lot! Thanks for your supporting our work!

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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  • @MegaManNeo
    @MegaManNeo 2 місяці тому +7

    Interesting and very... logical construct of how love is build up when I think about it.
    Also the art style and drawings here are super fun to watch once more :D
    I'd really like to say there is one person which I could go those five stages through with for almost two decades but... I was too scared of love back then and now she's taken.
    Any other attempt fails for me at Stage 0: being in circles with potential love interests and be interesting.
    It makes me sad but at the same time makes me realize I have to enjoy other aspects of life even more.

    • @PsychTalk9033
      @PsychTalk9033 2 місяці тому

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  • @anitadanquah2580
    @anitadanquah2580 2 місяці тому

    I love this video, so easy to understand 😊❤.

  • @helloimtammy181
    @helloimtammy181 2 місяці тому +6

    my current boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months right now and I feel like we've gone through all of the stages and currently on the deep attachment and stability stage. I often overthink a lot despite everything that he's done for me and I'm so so so grateful for him. We've come to terms over the fact that we have to have communication for our relationship to properly flourish despite our rough patch at the beginning. I don't think we're moving too fast but I do hope that things last between us!!!

  • @auroraflash
    @auroraflash 2 місяці тому +2

    Like a meditation session. Very calming voice.

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +2

      Yeah definitely a keeper. Rarely do I like a narrator that isn't the normal lady, but this guy's voice nearly hits her bar for me which is a pleasant surprise 😁

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @Troubleshootingstar
    @Troubleshootingstar 19 днів тому

    I wish I would have seen this sooner, I would have acted and behaved differently for the better of my passing relationship. Thank you for this, I really needed to see it for the next time

  • @whitewolf1610
    @whitewolf1610 2 місяці тому +5

    My parents are definitely in stage 5 😊😊😊

  • @Matt-jb5rg
    @Matt-jb5rg 2 місяці тому +4

    Half these comments are just people saying they’ll be alone forever. If you don’t want to be alone forever, do something about it. It’s really not as hard as people make it out to be, but staying inside and complaining on the internet isn’t usually how relationships are formed.

    • @wardonx887
      @wardonx887 2 місяці тому +1

      no

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому

      Its not that easy pal. If we Arent looking like at least Gigachad or Tyrone, we do not have a chance, no matter how much effort we put into getting ourselves out there.
      Us ugly degenerate second degree excuses for human beings are not eligible to the dating market.

  • @thekraahmed1241
    @thekraahmed1241 2 місяці тому

    We're at stage 4 after a yesr of crisis and separation, we come back together with grown personality and safer love❤

  • @sehabel
    @sehabel 2 місяці тому

    Watching videos like this one while being aromantic and asexual is so fascinating. The world of dating and romantic partnerships seems so weird to me, I can't even feel the initial attraction that almost everyone takes for granted.

  • @MrZZooh
    @MrZZooh 2 місяці тому +3

    This makes a lot more sense than mad romantic love or love at first sight. It's healthier, too. Love is like anything else you in life, you have to work at it.

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому

      Unless youre good looking. BOOM, anyone wants a relationship with you, no matter your personality.

  • @saudbassier9689
    @saudbassier9689 2 місяці тому +5

    I really enjoy these psychological videos based on love, but there's only one problem in my specific context. In my culture and religion we don't date, we get into marriage as soon as possible. I was wondering if you guys would ever maybe be willing to do a video on how love works from a perspective where dating does not take place and we meet in very controlled environments instead of randomly meeting someone we fancy along the way.

  • @gewell9277
    @gewell9277 2 місяці тому +1

    Ah this seems right, my partner and I stop talking at stage 3, which is about my psychology error, I have pessimistic world view plus depression, I don't rely on feelings most of the time. My partner tries to help me recover the numbness feeling of mine, and I kept pushing things away because the pressure is too much that I have headche. Resulted in my partner decided to give me some space, but I feel lonely too
    I think I need some advice

  • @kirandeepchakraborty7921
    @kirandeepchakraborty7921 2 місяці тому

    Definitely Helpful 🙂

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    @devanshiparikh6436 2 місяці тому +6

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  • @caedricthevampire
    @caedricthevampire 2 місяці тому +3

    Why did this pop up in my recommended after a breakup 😭

  • @Dun4times
    @Dun4times 2 місяці тому

    omfg i'd hear this man ramble
    i love the soft spoken narration

  • @mah.d
    @mah.d 2 місяці тому

    thank you for refrencing the scientists clearly 👍👍

  • @ThisIsYou36
    @ThisIsYou36 2 місяці тому +56

    I can't even get into a relationship y'all expect me to get to 1. Idk what to do

    • @childkillers_shouldve_NoState
      @childkillers_shouldve_NoState 2 місяці тому +5

      😂

    • @nori_sachi
      @nori_sachi 2 місяці тому +1

      Same😭

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +1

      Stay single man trust me its better than to fall for some random h*e or f*ck boy.

    • @copperdingus759
      @copperdingus759 2 місяці тому +3

      there's always someone out there - it might just take some time! ❤

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому +2

      Just give up, and adapt to loneliness. Women cant hurt us if we dont bother in the first place, to even look them in the eyes.

  • @zulanova1209
    @zulanova1209 2 місяці тому +9

    The little Yoosung and mc are so cute at the end of stage 1

    • @nezuko4590
      @nezuko4590 2 місяці тому

      eeyyy I was searching for someone noticed it as well :D

  • @yolnyoln9408
    @yolnyoln9408 2 місяці тому +1

    I am so jealous of people who find someone who rly loves them I never experienced a girl who would fight for me for death

  • @user-fp3sp9iw5c
    @user-fp3sp9iw5c 2 місяці тому

    I reached the 5th stage of love alone.. sustained it for 3 long years. And he stopped at 3rd.
    Now again I've started from stage 1 and currently in the stage 3

  • @tiffanysbeautifuljourney
    @tiffanysbeautifuljourney 2 місяці тому +11

    Sounds accurate to me. Who was in a committed relationship for 20 years. Until my husband passed over in death. I’ve not experienced love like that since. I’m open to my new next level love❤

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +3

      Nothing and nobody will ever replace those feelings, but hey maybe someday you'll meet somebody else and fall in love all over again 🥰 As long as you're happy you do you 😁

  • @Bucky_Winchester
    @Bucky_Winchester 2 місяці тому +5

    Only experienced Stage 1 once in my entire life in a meaningful way. I normally don't even get there and the most recent one, while rare, only lasted for a weekend and now everything's gone and I can't tell if I like the guy I am dating or if I just like that he likes me. This is usually how it goes and it's frustrating when you want to form a real relationship with someone.

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +1

      Sounds like a one night stand or sex friend ngl. Do you have sex too quickly? Maybe try building a friendship first. Can also ask that person if they want to try dating and just spend time with them.

    • @avengerboy2171
      @avengerboy2171 2 місяці тому

      ​@@agr0nianTVSo true, the strongest romantic relationships form from strong friendships.

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому

      @@avengerboy2171 Amen to that brother. I just feel bad for folks who get trapped in the friendzone and have unrequited love :/ Then again you never know how any relationship will turn out with time so it's best to try in the first place 😁

    • @avengerboy2171
      @avengerboy2171 2 місяці тому

      @@agr0nianTV Amen 🙏

    • @lenninmontiel4539
      @lenninmontiel4539 2 місяці тому +1

      Bruh thats the thing people nowadays don't want a "serious relationship" they rather hook up and done, why do humans even bother to have a relationship anymore, the earth is dying, all the governments want to start ou ww3, people won't stop attacking one another. Its hopeless dude. Sad truth brother.

  • @MortimerKerman
    @MortimerKerman 2 місяці тому +1

    Currently in stage 1-2, it looks like stage 3 will come very soon. We'll do everything we can to go through and reach stage 4!

  • @bibolehabib
    @bibolehabib 2 місяці тому

    I just passed Level 3 !
    Yayyyyy !!!

  • @miaross.
    @miaross. 2 місяці тому +4

    Can I please get a video on long distance relationship 😢... I need to know about that
    REALLY IMPORTANT I would love to be tagged anytime it comes out ❤

    • @khaeleris
      @khaeleris 2 місяці тому

      I cannot give you a video about long-distance relationships, but maybe just a couple of advice from my personal experience (I started dating 12 years ago at 17 year old, and went through 3 phases of long-distance relationships for a total of 6 years; and now engaged and living happily together at stage 5).
      I would say these:
      - If you want it to work, you need to try. Some people indeed cannot endure it, but if you give up beforehand because you are scared, you will never know.
      - You need to define your needs and boundaries as you go, like for any other relationships, but especially for communication: how often do I need to talk to you, and how often do you need to talk to me? Should we write, talk, video-call? How often can we see each other? Your needs will likely be different, but if you both put in the effort you can reach a balance that will ensure communication and emotional safety despite the distance.
      - It helps a lot to know why you do the long-distance relationship, and when it will end. For us, it was because studying was our top priority, including double degrees abroad. We knew at the end of studying we wanted to be together and worked towards that.
      - from what I've seen around me, long-distance relationships fail mainly in three cases: no visible end to the separation, not enough trust, or a relationship where physicality is more important than the emotional and mental connection. It is also a lot more difficult with a big time difference.
      I hope it helps and that you will be able to reunite happily after going through the hardships!

  • @wayneheidlebaugh9915
    @wayneheidlebaugh9915 2 місяці тому +4

    For me, it's just not possible. Nobody likes me because I'm not perfect! If I make even the slightest mistake ,I get yelled at and treated like a criminal! I'm only human, but that's no excuse! It's because of that relationships are over before they're even started! I'm doing everything right as far as I know. There's something definitely wrong with me and I can't figure out what that is. I am flowed because I'm human! That's whats Wrong!

    • @FormerlyMantisDragon1995
      @FormerlyMantisDragon1995 2 місяці тому

      Sounds to me like you’ve got self-esteem issues that stem from expectations of you from yourself and others. Not a lot to go off of from your comment, but that’s what I’m thinking is going on. Correct me if I’m wrong since I don’t know you, of course. Just know that humans are supposed to be flawed, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is trying to make yourself be perfect as perfection is not something that makes someone human

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +1

      Everyone is flawed that's part of being human. Honestly it sounds like you have a powerhungry boss/coworkers who are just taking a dump on you. Are you easily taken advantage of? Like if any of that is true maybe search for a different job first.
      Do a deep analysis of yourself, what do the majority of people dislike about? Maybe you can show that side of you less?
      Push your good qualities up front advertise them.
      Go to places with your similar hobbies honestly discord is a great place to look for anything online.
      Once you do those you can start looking for love. You can try just asking asking someone out or using a dating app, but honestly the best romantic relationships are built off friendships in my opinion.

    • @lylougrapes7011
      @lylougrapes7011 2 місяці тому +1

      Sounds like you have been told this narrative of having to be perfect to be loved far too many times in your life. I am sorry you had to go through this. Please know that this is not true and the people who made you feel that way were wrong. You deserve someone who accepts you as your authentic self. I wish you all the best for your future journey and hope you will find your peace and happiness one way or another.

    • @wayneheidlebaugh9915
      @wayneheidlebaugh9915 2 місяці тому

      Been there, done that. All of that got me no where fast. @@agr0nianTV

    • @wayneheidlebaugh9915
      @wayneheidlebaugh9915 2 місяці тому

      There really is no one out there for me. Jesus is the only true friend I've got. I try to tell people about him and hardly anyone listens. @@lylougrapes7011

  • @Berryfern2005
    @Berryfern2005 2 місяці тому

    This just explained SO much 😂 I've yet to be in a relationship myself, but I've witnessed the rise and fall of my friends' relationships. I'm glad I am now armed with this knowledge beforehand!

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому +1

      Well it can happen in friendships and even hobbies too pretty easy to see the patterns once you recognize them

    • @Berryfern2005
      @Berryfern2005 2 місяці тому

      @@agr0nianTV This is true; you make a good point. I have experienced falling out with friends and/or growing apart. I feel like when it comes to romantic relationships though, it can be a lot harder to get all the way to stage 5 because you're building a life with that person, where as friends are just a part of different phases of your life. Friends come and go, but your partner is supposed to be there for life.

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому

      @@Berryfern2005Absolutely but the best things in life require hard work. A committed relationship to another person is easily the toughest, but one of the most rewarding things in life as long as there is love.
      Life long friendships are a thing (albeit very rare) and I feel like they could reach higher stages depending on how big a part they play in each others' lives.

  • @pixelp4606
    @pixelp4606 2 місяці тому +1

    I think we’re in the 3rd stage, rn my girl said she wanted a break and it’s been a month we’ve talked but she still doesn’t know where she’s at. I’m hoping we make it out of this and start stage 4

  • @lucithomas9833
    @lucithomas9833 2 місяці тому +9

    I just recently became a girlfriend again to an absolutely wonderful, and beautiful partner, and your videos help me so much. I really appreciate it all, and I'm really confident about this one, and your videos have, and will continue to help so much. Thank you. Genuinely, thank you

    • @ghostii1352
      @ghostii1352 2 місяці тому +2

      The way you wrote it was so beautiful. I wish u the best ❤😊

    • @lucithomas9833
      @lucithomas9833 2 місяці тому +2

      @@ghostii1352 awwww, thank you so much ☺️❤️☺️ that genuinely means a lot, thank you ☺️

  • @monster_gman.
    @monster_gman. 2 місяці тому +7

    Staying at stage 0 the rest of my life 🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @gomshom67iscool23
    @gomshom67iscool23 2 місяці тому +1

    I always wonder if someday, a crisis will separate me from whoever I really do love, and end up friend zoning them

  • @Yugiton
    @Yugiton 2 місяці тому

    Currently in the 3rd staged with me and my girlfriend but things are slowly getting situated and communication is improving a lot more than they where before

  • @sati_the_swapshit
    @sati_the_swapshit 2 місяці тому +10

    I guess that me and my bf are now at stage 3, because we often fight over small things because I (and only I) get offended easily and find problems where there isn't any. But, it's still not as bad as it is usually described, and after a storm there always comes... tsunami of my tears of sorry. And we live on, forgetting what happened. We still wanna marry in the future (when we'll be around 23 y.o.), and those arguments seem like just problems with my temper (cuz I've always been like this to other people). Dunno how he still loves me
    P.S. been knowing each other for 4 years, officially dating - for 3

    • @user-vd3kj9lh7x
      @user-vd3kj9lh7x 2 місяці тому +2

      You should talk to him and try to view it from another point. Don't get your emotions get the best of you

    • @TheMathias95
      @TheMathias95 2 місяці тому

      Do your thing but do be vary about marrying that young lol

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому +2

      Why are everyone in such a hurry to get married? What are you afraid to miss out on? I turn 28 this year, and i have no plans to get married to a woman in any near future.

    • @sati_the_swapshit
      @sati_the_swapshit 2 місяці тому

      @@anderstermansen130 we're not in such a hurry, we're still 18.

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@sati_the_swapshit Getting married at 23 is being in a hurry.

  • @ThisIsYou36
    @ThisIsYou36 2 місяці тому +3

    Why am I so ugly I can't start at all

    • @ThisIsYou36
      @ThisIsYou36 2 місяці тому +1

      I look nerdy bro

    • @joshy2joshy
      @joshy2joshy 2 місяці тому

      @@ThisIsYou36 Your mindset seems to be what is currently setting you back.

    • @ThisIsYou36
      @ThisIsYou36 2 місяці тому

      @@joshy2joshy I don't love myself because I've always looked nerdy. I've never been in a relationship and nobody wants to give me a chance. I've given up

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 2 місяці тому

      Try being friends first.
      If you start a relationship online looks don't have to come into play for awhile.
      Some girls actually like nerdy guys especially nerdy girls.

  • @shokingblazemangaming
    @shokingblazemangaming 2 місяці тому

    Looooove is a burning thing

  • @laural8228
    @laural8228 2 місяці тому

    I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 2 years now and we're at the stage 3rd and 4th border, but we aren't giving up! We both have mental issues which are different yet they're still noticeable to one another but we understand eachother and sometimes we just try to. WE ARENT GIVING UP! all people make mistakes like pushing your partner to something they don't want to do and then you have to apologise to them but then everything returns to where it was. In my situation it goes like this: the day of drama, 3 days of cold contact so only how are you and ily, 2 days of almost no contact yet some messages like if you need me text me etc and then going back to normal. But this video showed me how it is important to try and maintain one stable relationship

  • @kranti-singh
    @kranti-singh 2 місяці тому

    I am an avid watcher of this channel and I really miss your laid back or kindof slow style of editing on a fast paced internet you were the unique channel which didn't change their editing style but now it is starting to please bring back that style of editing

  • @user-jm6li5qi3i
    @user-jm6li5qi3i 2 місяці тому +8

    Great video

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 місяці тому +3

      Glad you enjoyed it

  • @iremfeyza_luna14
    @iremfeyza_luna14 2 місяці тому +1

    His voice is so smooth so calmimg and beautiful isn't it🥰😍

  • @angelaferkel7922
    @angelaferkel7922 2 місяці тому

    It depends on the individual persons, you can put it into stages since some people reached all very quicky and some never get past 1

  • @bosnjoxd7392
    @bosnjoxd7392 2 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @KLEIN-0
    @KLEIN-0 2 місяці тому +1

    Well the person i'm with we reached all stages and Knocked it out of the park in like 5 months
    Our Love is too Strong we know almost every flaw about eachother but we forgive eachother in a heartbeat forgiveness , respect and Interest is the most important thing in a Relationship imo
    that's why we never argued
    she hurt me enough to make me cry
    but i forgave her in a Second it's almost like we can't feel the emotion of anger at this point
    if you love someone enough that you will forgive that person even if he/she tries to kill you than ig you're perfect❤

  • @Z-trantia
    @Z-trantia 2 місяці тому +1

    Me 21. College is about to end. Dunno when will I fall in love. Sometimes I feel I'll be single forever.🤔

  • @vidos480
    @vidos480 2 місяці тому +1

    Fun fact (if you still haven't found your love): there is always one person who will be your love❤❤❤

  • @annapioquinto5259
    @annapioquinto5259 2 місяці тому

    Well, in any aspects, starting something is easy than maintaining it.

  • @SDNUKE3029
    @SDNUKE3029 2 місяці тому

    I'm currently at stage 3 and it's still strong

  • @sinmin3395
    @sinmin3395 2 місяці тому

    That's so true the crisis one and I decide to end shit!!!

  • @nilimasharma6849
    @nilimasharma6849 2 місяці тому

    Brandon's voice.... ❤

  • @donjoel6754
    @donjoel6754 2 місяці тому +1

    Big help. Big dubs.

  • @lunacat_02
    @lunacat_02 2 місяці тому +3

    I love your videos

  • @Miau622
    @Miau622 2 місяці тому

    These days i find myself longing for love more, i dont know why i feel the need to care for someone, but im not complaining.