In your personal opinion, why do you think some relationships flourish while others plateau? Support our previous video: Harmful Habits You Need To Replace Today ua-cam.com/video/b3R1Qn8dlZA/v-deo.html
Maybe some peoples’ relationships flourish because they both have mutual respect and understanding (and that they both know how relationships work) while the ones whose relationships plateau think that it will work out without putting in the effort to maintain stability in the relationship. Some times those relationships are toxic and DEFINITELY don’t work out well. With that said, I hope that everyone will find their soulmate in one way or another and live in peace and love 😊 Also, I’m still giving a big thanks to Psych2go because you guys are so amazing and so talented 🫶🏼
Pretty good question, Many relationships flourish because of the respect and how they're treated and the Honesty in the relationship, on the other hand, other relationships plateau because some people want just the benefits of the relation and then leave their partners just for the benefits. And other wanted a short relationship for fun and then when it's over the partner seems to drift away, idk if i'm correct but this is my opinion 😅😅😅
The beginning is like living in a romantic comedy. Everything feels perfect, even the flaws. But soon, reality tries to crash the party and challenges will test the bond.
@@ForeverTogether219 its bs to say "gotta love urself first" like did your parents stop loving you when you had a mental low? i hope not! ofc it helps because you can then focus on loving your partner but you should prioritize yor own health anyway even in a commited relationship
@@ForeverTogether219 honey I both love and hate myself, as a Gemini myself i have one hell of a toxic relationship that I can't stop drinking my poison. Though I love it because I can use my poison to use on others 🐍🐍🐍
And thats why many relationships fail due to either the boyfriend/girlfriend becoming unsatisfied with one another end up cheating, breaking up, start abusing dr*gs, end up committing the process of death and never learn from those steps.
@@avengerboy2171 will they. In this economy and toxic world, as if people have bright hopeful ideas for the future but bamm reality hits you in the face. The government doesn't do anything anymore, humans are killing the planet, the rich keep getting richer and toxic, ww3 will break out in any second.
In popular culture, stages 1 and 2 are often portrayed as the "honeymoon phase," where couples are deeply infatuated and experiencing intense passion and romance. However, this image can sometimes overshadow the realistic picture of long-term relationships, which require effort, compromise, and growth.
True, the honeymoon phase gets a lot of spotlight. How do you think highlighting the effort, compromise, and growth in popular culture could lead to a more balanced understanding of long-term relationships?
Nobody checked. Moviemakers skiped this part and made movie about divorced😜There’s a thin line between love and hate. And it gets even thinner when dotted and two parties are signing on it after many, many months. We’re writing, of course, about divorce. And for the characters in the movies below, whether they’re moving on and dating after divorce or getting back together for a reconciliation, divorce is their new normal. Explored through lenses of humor, social and gender politics, and even with the Disney musical treatment, our roundup of the best movies about divorce, has a film for every viewer. There’s The Parent Trap and Mrs. Doubtfire for kids and folks young at heart, Kramer vs. Kramer for a gut-punch custody battle that doesn’t pick a winner, The First Wives Club, and Marriage Story. Though each their own, every movie on this list shares a singular message: You will get through this.
Maintaining a healthy relationship can be difficult but it is definitely worth it in the long run. My boyfriend and I have had many fights and many times we went to bed angry at each other. We give each other space and talk it out. After everything and all these years, he is my comfort person and I feel safe with him. It’s like the giddy “I’m obsessed with you” type of love while also the trusting, loyal, caring “this is my person, my other half” type of love. It is seriously worth it and I’ve never been happier.
Happy to hear someone say that, a lot of people think that if a relationship has even a very few amount of problems then they should give up instead of working around it like a actual committed relationship.
lol nobody cares to maintain a relationship to keep it healthy. Once the slightest inconvenience happens, the one partner always just dump the other. Theres plenty of other humans to "date" lol.
@@anderstermansen130 If you seriously think that then go ahead, don't go into other peoples comments and tell them what you think. You thinking this way is the main reason you are single.
Watching this takes me back to my high school years. I feel like my husband and I went through the first 3 stages early on in our relationship.. looking forward, now 20 years later, and I see us in stage 5. Love is never easy BUT with hard work it is definitely worth fighting for ❤
Went through all these stages and now arrived somewhere between 4 and 5. It's beautiful and I wouldn't want it any other way. But man, this took effort! Compromises, hurt, serious self reflection, and so, so many difficult conversations. It is all worth it, but it takes a lot of courage and I totally understand why people sometimes choose not to move stage 3. This world is difficult enough, I completely understand why one might not have the necessary resources to pour themselves into this kind of commitment. Heck, I dont even know if I would do it if I wouldn't already be married to my partner!
It sounds like a remarkable journey filled with growth and commitment. What advice would you give to those navigating the challenging transition from stage 3 to the deeper connections of stages 4 and 5?
@Psych2go thank you for your reply:) My advice to couples at this stage is to use the conflict as an opportunity to reflect on and shape the relationship in a way that meets both side's needs. What we did back then was: 1. Take a step back from the relationship (might look different for everyone, for us it meant going on a break but still meeting regularly) 2. Accept that there is a serious disruption of our relationship, that that sucks and hurts a lot. 3. Reflect on the relationship up to that point; why do we want to continue to be in this relationship? What makes this relationship special? What was not so good and ultimately led to that disruption? 4. Outline what we want our relationship to be like in the future and commit to making it work. This might not be for everyone but it worked for us. :)
As if you women do that. You look at him for less than half a second, wearing your best RBF, then expect him to walk up to you and talk to you. Whats wrong with your type?m
I feel like I proceed through the phases but the first phase never really goes away. Love it's truly scary, but ultimately talking and open up yourself helps a lot.
@Fortifier1021 either my parents will find one for me because I am not good at choosing people! All the people I trusted as friends betrayed me! So it’s either my parents who gonna do that for me or else if I find that type of a guy then I will ask him out,
me and my boy are on stage 1-2 (the "honeymoon phase"). he's pretty serious towards me and often states cute stuff he wanna do after our marriage. honestly, I'm excited to gradually reach the stage 5 with him but I'm also kinda scared of this honeymoon phase ending. i just love him so him and i wanna grow old with him!
Felt that too 😭 thats exactly what happened with me then I realized he was only with me for that long to get all the sexual desires he wanted. He fooled me pretty well cuz I thought he was a good, christian boy with no intent of deceiving. Hope it works out for you though!
As someone currently in love, nothing worth having is easy yes. But loving and being together with someone is so easy when you really care for and trust them. Time will just fly by
@@anderstermansen130 you could probably start by finding out the source of your pain and why it feels better to project it on to others. That doesn’t heal the pain just spread it
Wish I would've learned this a few months ago. My relationship had gotten to stage 3 and since it was my first ever serious relationship, I stagnated and didn't quite know how to navigate it with my partner. Now that we're broken up (mostly because she wasn't willing to accept her own faults and pushed all the blame to me), I'm glad I learned from it and yall's videos on how to navigate the same problems in any future relationships. Thank you for this video! It really puts the development of relationships into a logical perspective and it's really helpful.
My first relationship got stuck on stage 2 and ended at that because it wasn’t fulfilling, plus I was very young. My other two ended on stage 3, and in my current one we’re at stage 1 or 2. I say 2 as well because we’re starting to talk about our more serious stuff, like problems, small things we’ll do together, all that. I genuinely hope this one lasts longer than the anniversary. Edit: hitting stage 3 now, worried beyond belief
never related to something better ❤ im in a relationship that just turned 6 ! and it's exciting how i felt related to every point as the video kept on playing and i can say im finally on the last stage 😂😂❤
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Thank you. I truly miss ny amazing friend of two decades. It took the death of my parents,and her rocky divorce to discover how much we cared about each other. I truly hope she continues to shine on her path of finding her true self.
Losing a friend is never easy, especially after such a profound connection. How do you carry the lessons and memories from your friendship as you both navigate your individual paths?
@@Psych2go Her life could have been a blockbuster movie. Small town,abusive childhood, father gone but was actually a few doors down and discovered six months before passing due to cancer twenty years later. Abusive mother still main contact. Anxiety and C-PTSD. I accidently triggered and didnt know. She went to ground in a few weeks . Tippy toe through the overthinking was exhausting. Texting,omg,the texting, the worse way to communicare but thats her copiing mechanism. Your videos gave answers to better understand the mask she wears, and the battle she fights every day. A survivor. And I love her to bits for who she is,not what she was made in to. Her life was on track , she bought a house, showed me via text. So happy for her then bang, protection order. Im not the first one she has done it to and they are relatively easy to get in my country . Not angry with her,could never be. My mother was a paranoid schizophrenic with delusions, so know the difference between broken, and warped. May she find the peace she finally deserves.
My situation was at stage 3, she lost feelings for me. We then had a break, after that she told me that only her needed a break and not me, she used the break to make her mind up. Now she officially broke up with me. I really thought it would last a life time.
This makes a lot more sense than mad romantic love or love at first sight. It's healthier, too. Love is like anything else you in life, you have to work at it.
I think me and my partner are at stage 4, or maybe 5. We became a couple around christmas in 2019, after chatting and dateing since october that year. Fist crisis we faced was the pandemic, then we had health problems and death in close family. During those years it was also determined that I was unable to work due to halth issues (somthing I still have not fully come to terms with). There are no more medicines to try for my cronic migranes. Point being, we have been through it. I feel so grateful to have had him by my side during the difficult times and sorrow. I also see my partner clearly, all sides of him, including his flaws. And he see me clearly, with all of mine. We both love each other, respect each other and forgive those flaws. My partner is not perfect but he is perfect for me 🥰 I hope I am blessed with a long life with him 🥰
I had thought I reached stage 5 with my ex. Turns out he was occasionally love bombing me when I threatened to be communicative and honest with him and expected him to be the same. He kept me at arms length and never satisfied that underlying need for mutual nurturing.
I think could be at 4 or 5. Coz recently he proposed we live together and most of the time it feels comfortable and happy and content. But sometimes there’s still misunderstandings and sometimes bickering. But get through it
Congratulations 🎉 Misunderstandings happen in every relationship, but the closer y'all get the really stupid/big ones won't happen as often. Honestly show this to your man see what stage he think's you're at
That is wonderful and I bet if you took a step back you might see that things are like that with close family and friends in you life as well. The different being the kind of love you have for your to be hubby.
@@anderstermansen130Seriously, dude. Get a job. You'll be busy that way. Stop watching videos and comments related to love if that's disturbing you. Just because you think Earth is not rotating, doesn't mean it isn't actually. (It was an example, didn't say that you really don't know.)
We’ve only been together for three months now, soon four, but I am willing to go through each and every stage, no matter how challenging it is. He is worth everything and worth to keep fighting for. He’s seen my flaws, and I’ve seen his, and we will better ourselves for ourselves and each other. I can’t wait to see who we will become when we’re old. I love that man
Me who’s on stage 4 (not kids, married or living together) and ace. All we do is know that it’s good to recognise you mistakes, respect and care for one another and instead of breaking up, found out what the problem is and solve it! We are only teens too! Too all that are stuck at earlier stages, I believe in you! Ever since I was about 5 or 6 I wanted a relationship (thanks to romantic scenes on cartoons) and now I finally have what I’ve been wanting for a while. For me love isn’t all about the physical things, it’s about learning about eachother, keeping that bond and friendship together and strong and not giving up on eachother. Anything is possible if u believe it. I believe in you.
my current boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months right now and I feel like we've gone through all of the stages and currently on the deep attachment and stability stage. I often overthink a lot despite everything that he's done for me and I'm so so so grateful for him. We've come to terms over the fact that we have to have communication for our relationship to properly flourish despite our rough patch at the beginning. I don't think we're moving too fast but I do hope that things last between us!!!
It's been almost 8 years that I met my actual boyfriend who is now my fiancée. We met when we were kids, and are still together, I couldn't imagine my life without him! He is the only one I had in my life, and I will never regret it. Sometimes you don't need to try a lot of different people, you just have to wait for the right one. And when you meet the right one, it takes a lot of effort from both side to keep a good and healthy relationship, but it really worth it. It will not be the honeymoon phase everyday, but if you keep fighting for the futur you wish to have together, it will be farther more than that. The key is to communicate and respect each other. You will, one day, meet someone that will make you understand why it didn't match with the others 😌
Sounds accurate to me. Who was in a committed relationship for 20 years. Until my husband passed over in death. I’ve not experienced love like that since. I’m open to my new next level love❤
Nothing and nobody will ever replace those feelings, but hey maybe someday you'll meet somebody else and fall in love all over again 🥰 As long as you're happy you do you 😁
Half these comments are just people saying they’ll be alone forever. If you don’t want to be alone forever, do something about it. It’s really not as hard as people make it out to be, but staying inside and complaining on the internet isn’t usually how relationships are formed.
Its not that easy pal. If we Arent looking like at least Gigachad or Tyrone, we do not have a chance, no matter how much effort we put into getting ourselves out there. Us ugly degenerate second degree excuses for human beings are not eligible to the dating market.
I have reached the 4th stage of love. And getting to know each other well and understanding each other so well, we realised it wont work out for much longer. At that point we were engaged and lived together for 2 years already. We stayed friends and it was a mutual break up.
Here comes the best part. Its where you just give up, and accept that womens only purpose in their lives is to make mens lives miserable, at all cost! Some women only give it a few days before they attempt, other women go as far as to marry their victim and give birth to the victims children!
I believe we are in the 3rd stage rn. The more we bonded with each other, the more we know about each other. Also, this is the time where jealousy comes, which we were able to talk about just yesterday. I am happy we were able to talk about the matter and we also talked about finding ways not to hurt each other's feelings.
I’m lucky to have reached either stage 4 or 5 with my first love of my life and hopefully my only. We’ve been childhood friends for a decade now, and we perused a more serious relationship. We’ve officially been dating for nearly 8 months, and I really pray that it continues to grow with each and every day. The only reason we aren’t officially together like engaged or married is because we are both still young-a couple more months until adulthood, and waiting for HS graduation…. Thanks Psych2Go!
Almost stage 5, but growing together right out of highschool through 4 years made us both loose sight of ourselves. We knew we wanted more time together but with how young we are, and still living separately it wasn't entirely possible.
I can't afford to get bankrupt mentally or financially by going to a relation and getting cheated 😅 My mental peace worth more than any relations I can't withstand getting ignored by the one I like,nor getting cheated
Going after the wrong people in that case 😅 In general the first date is handled by the person who asks the other out, but follow ups are either split, pay-for-yourself, or taking turns. Besides not all dates have to be expensive
That is why its better to be single than to be in a relationship with someone who will end up betraying you. Besides try getting a good hobby 😌 its peaceful and relaxing.
Well the person i'm with we reached all stages and Knocked it out of the park in like 5 months Our Love is too Strong we know almost every flaw about eachother but we forgive eachother in a heartbeat forgiveness , respect and Interest is the most important thing in a Relationship imo that's why we never argued she hurt me enough to make me cry but i forgave her in a Second it's almost like we can't feel the emotion of anger at this point if you love someone enough that you will forgive that person even if he/she tries to kill you than ig you're perfect❤
I really enjoy these psychological videos based on love, but there's only one problem in my specific context. In my culture and religion we don't date, we get into marriage as soon as possible. I was wondering if you guys would ever maybe be willing to do a video on how love works from a perspective where dating does not take place and we meet in very controlled environments instead of randomly meeting someone we fancy along the way.
Watching videos like this one while being aromantic and asexual is so fascinating. The world of dating and romantic partnerships seems so weird to me, I can't even feel the initial attraction that almost everyone takes for granted.
I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 2 years now and we're at the stage 3rd and 4th border, but we aren't giving up! We both have mental issues which are different yet they're still noticeable to one another but we understand eachother and sometimes we just try to. WE ARENT GIVING UP! all people make mistakes like pushing your partner to something they don't want to do and then you have to apologise to them but then everything returns to where it was. In my situation it goes like this: the day of drama, 3 days of cold contact so only how are you and ily, 2 days of almost no contact yet some messages like if you need me text me etc and then going back to normal. But this video showed me how it is important to try and maintain one stable relationship
Only experienced Stage 1 once in my entire life in a meaningful way. I normally don't even get there and the most recent one, while rare, only lasted for a weekend and now everything's gone and I can't tell if I like the guy I am dating or if I just like that he likes me. This is usually how it goes and it's frustrating when you want to form a real relationship with someone.
Sounds like a one night stand or sex friend ngl. Do you have sex too quickly? Maybe try building a friendship first. Can also ask that person if they want to try dating and just spend time with them.
@@avengerboy2171 Amen to that brother. I just feel bad for folks who get trapped in the friendzone and have unrequited love :/ Then again you never know how any relationship will turn out with time so it's best to try in the first place 😁
Bruh thats the thing people nowadays don't want a "serious relationship" they rather hook up and done, why do humans even bother to have a relationship anymore, the earth is dying, all the governments want to start ou ww3, people won't stop attacking one another. Its hopeless dude. Sad truth brother.
very very accurate, I'm entering the 4th stage and truly relate and agree with all the points... will try to focus on friendship, trust, and mutual respect, thankyou for the insight
My ex dumped me within a week because i wanted to talk about her actions that hurt me, she dodged it and asked me to just act like usual,having casual talks not deep talk then asked for space, which i respected until i asked when is she ready to come back and talk about it , she just shook her head and started actively avoiding me.. so i just told her I'll give her the space and time she needed until she's ready.. then she dropped the breakup bomb.. I realized she's not ready to grow with me, she still wants to stay as she is even though It's making her life miserable.. our maturity in life is at different level ,when she talked to me about something i did that make her feel less loved, i didn't take that as an attack, i told her the reasons, and make sure i follow through with a consistent action, which she loved.. when it was my turn to feel hurt by her behaviour, it suddenly turned into me adding up to her stress by talking about it..okay I'm done venting 😭 it's been over two months and it's still hard to accept that i was probably used by a covert narcissist and the worst part is why tf i even want to understand her when i already understood, witnessed and experienced several incidents that confirms my intuition.. I fr be gaslighting myself 😂
Interesting and very... logical construct of how love is build up when I think about it. Also the art style and drawings here are super fun to watch once more :D I'd really like to say there is one person which I could go those five stages through with for almost two decades but... I was too scared of love back then and now she's taken. Any other attempt fails for me at Stage 0: being in circles with potential love interests and be interesting. It makes me sad but at the same time makes me realize I have to enjoy other aspects of life even more.
What I have learned about it is that the deeper the love, the harsher the pain from betrayal. So there is eventually a stage where you have no choice but to insulate yourself and let feelings pass through where it used to be all positive it eventually becomes seemingly mostly negative. Or maybe I had kids with the wrong person. Anyway, feels like the rug was pulled from under me.
I mean have you made your feelings known? If so and they said no you can still remain friends with them, but I'd recommend looking elsewhere at the same time or try to move on
I never attempted to approach till last year and in this year, i had two broken at stage 1 and one at stage 2. You guys tell if I should even go in a relationship. My biggest flaw is that I overshare things. I had no problem staying single but now i realise I can't handle my emotions easily now. That's why i want to come in a relationship.
Yeah definitely a keeper. Rarely do I like a narrator that isn't the normal lady, but this guy's voice nearly hits her bar for me which is a pleasant surprise 😁
Ah this seems right, my partner and I stop talking at stage 3, which is about my psychology error, I have pessimistic world view plus depression, I don't rely on feelings most of the time. My partner tries to help me recover the numbness feeling of mine, and I kept pushing things away because the pressure is too much that I have headche. Resulted in my partner decided to give me some space, but I feel lonely too I think I need some advice
I have know more then a few that meet the one for them later in life. Just how it was meant to be for them is all. So don't rush things. Some of the best people I know have yet to meet the one meant for them. But they take life day by day and step by step.
I really related to the part about escaping the stage 3, but not unscathed. I believe my current relationship is in stage 3, still, my boyfriend and I love each other deeply and are very much aware that what we've found in each other is too precious to let go because of a crisis we know is gonna pass. I can see his flaws more clearly now, and I'm sure he can see mine, but because we've been friends for 5 years (dated for a bit less than a year during that time but it ended) and in a relationship for 1 year now, we might have developed an early knowledge of each other's not-so-good sides and it helped us build a more solid foundation. Even so, it's hard realising the person you thought was so perfect is actually not so perfect, but if both people put in the effort, the understanding, communication, honesty, etc. That phase might become easier. I'm a big overthinker but it can really be the downfall of a relationship, so I'm working on becoming more rational in order to preserve ours. Can't wait to reach stage 4 lol
I just recently became a girlfriend again to an absolutely wonderful, and beautiful partner, and your videos help me so much. I really appreciate it all, and I'm really confident about this one, and your videos have, and will continue to help so much. Thank you. Genuinely, thank you
Can I please get a video on long distance relationship 😢... I need to know about that REALLY IMPORTANT I would love to be tagged anytime it comes out ❤
I cannot give you a video about long-distance relationships, but maybe just a couple of advice from my personal experience (I started dating 12 years ago at 17 year old, and went through 3 phases of long-distance relationships for a total of 6 years; and now engaged and living happily together at stage 5). I would say these: - If you want it to work, you need to try. Some people indeed cannot endure it, but if you give up beforehand because you are scared, you will never know. - You need to define your needs and boundaries as you go, like for any other relationships, but especially for communication: how often do I need to talk to you, and how often do you need to talk to me? Should we write, talk, video-call? How often can we see each other? Your needs will likely be different, but if you both put in the effort you can reach a balance that will ensure communication and emotional safety despite the distance. - It helps a lot to know why you do the long-distance relationship, and when it will end. For us, it was because studying was our top priority, including double degrees abroad. We knew at the end of studying we wanted to be together and worked towards that. - from what I've seen around me, long-distance relationships fail mainly in three cases: no visible end to the separation, not enough trust, or a relationship where physicality is more important than the emotional and mental connection. It is also a lot more difficult with a big time difference. I hope it helps and that you will be able to reunite happily after going through the hardships!
Have you ever had any crushes? If the answer is no or you personally chose them than you might consider looking into aromanticism and the aro spectrum. If the answer is a definite yes than ignore this comment lol. I felt the same way but right as I was finishing uni I stumbled across aromanticism and did some research as someone who knows nothing about lgbtq and so was clueless and it struck right at home and it's been helpful mental health wise. But it might not be the case for you, it's just that the wording you used gave me *unknowingly aro vibes,* ya know?
@@vali69 I had crushes when I was in school but not anymore ( not even a celebrity crush at this point of time). But I keep fantasizing romantic scenarios in my mind.
For me, it's just not possible. Nobody likes me because I'm not perfect! If I make even the slightest mistake ,I get yelled at and treated like a criminal! I'm only human, but that's no excuse! It's because of that relationships are over before they're even started! I'm doing everything right as far as I know. There's something definitely wrong with me and I can't figure out what that is. I am flowed because I'm human! That's whats Wrong!
Sounds to me like you’ve got self-esteem issues that stem from expectations of you from yourself and others. Not a lot to go off of from your comment, but that’s what I’m thinking is going on. Correct me if I’m wrong since I don’t know you, of course. Just know that humans are supposed to be flawed, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is trying to make yourself be perfect as perfection is not something that makes someone human
Everyone is flawed that's part of being human. Honestly it sounds like you have a powerhungry boss/coworkers who are just taking a dump on you. Are you easily taken advantage of? Like if any of that is true maybe search for a different job first. Do a deep analysis of yourself, what do the majority of people dislike about? Maybe you can show that side of you less? Push your good qualities up front advertise them. Go to places with your similar hobbies honestly discord is a great place to look for anything online. Once you do those you can start looking for love. You can try just asking asking someone out or using a dating app, but honestly the best romantic relationships are built off friendships in my opinion.
Sounds like you have been told this narrative of having to be perfect to be loved far too many times in your life. I am sorry you had to go through this. Please know that this is not true and the people who made you feel that way were wrong. You deserve someone who accepts you as your authentic self. I wish you all the best for your future journey and hope you will find your peace and happiness one way or another.
There really is no one out there for me. Jesus is the only true friend I've got. I try to tell people about him and hardly anyone listens. @@lylougrapes7011
I was WILLING, with ALL OF MY HEART AND BEING to go through the third stage. I knew it was gonna happen, not because I watched this video (I did after, like, right now) or because someone told me, but because it was builing up. And I did tell him, my partner, that I would do anything to make stuff better, give him his space and time and all of my help. But in the end... We didn't. And it has been the worst feeling I've had, yes, my life has been that boring.
can't the 1st and 3rd stage also be for friendships? actually if you ignore that this is about love stages this feels like a frindship stage to me, or at least some parts does.
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I’ve seen a lot end just because they don’t know how to communicate with each other
how did you comment 39 mins ago tf
@@normalperson9946 it might’ve been on private and they commented on it
Maybe some peoples’ relationships flourish because they both have mutual respect and understanding (and that they both know how relationships work) while the ones whose relationships plateau think that it will work out without putting in the effort to maintain stability in the relationship. Some times those relationships are toxic and DEFINITELY don’t work out well. With that said, I hope that everyone will find their soulmate in one way or another and live in peace and love 😊
Also, I’m still giving a big thanks to Psych2go because you guys are so amazing and so talented 🫶🏼
Pretty good question, Many relationships flourish because of the respect and how they're treated and the Honesty in the relationship, on the other hand, other relationships plateau because some people want just the benefits of the relation and then leave their partners just for the benefits. And other wanted a short relationship for fun and then when it's over the partner seems to drift away, idk if i'm correct but this is my opinion 😅😅😅
"Most people stop at three" and some don't start at all
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Im in this comment and I dont like it
Never started
Felt that
Exactly, im EXTREMELY alone in all senses
The beginning is like living in a romantic comedy. Everything feels perfect, even the flaws. But soon, reality tries to crash the party and challenges will test the bond.
Well its better to stay single and look after #1
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You have to love yourself in order to
Love deeply..💯
@@ForeverTogether219 its bs to say "gotta love urself first" like did your parents stop loving you when you had a mental low? i hope not! ofc it helps because you can then focus on loving your partner but you should prioritize yor own health anyway even in a commited relationship
@@ForeverTogether219 honey I both love and hate myself, as a Gemini myself i have one hell of a toxic relationship that I can't stop drinking my poison. Though I love it because I can use my poison to use on others 🐍🐍🐍
@@Cheza001 well said my good fellow
1) Infatuation and Early Attachment
2) Getting Serious
3) The Crisis Stage
4) Climbing Down From The Pedestal
5) Deep Attachment and Stability
And thats why many relationships fail due to either the boyfriend/girlfriend becoming unsatisfied with one another end up cheating, breaking up, start abusing dr*gs, end up committing the process of death and never learn from those steps.
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@@lenninmontiel4539Well those kind of people are immature and inexperienced, they'll eventually know the truth.
@@avengerboy2171 will they. In this economy and toxic world, as if people have bright hopeful ideas for the future but bamm reality hits you in the face. The government doesn't do anything anymore, humans are killing the planet, the rich keep getting richer and toxic, ww3 will break out in any second.
@@lenninmontiel4539 That happens for a reason, in time everyone like that will face the consequences.
In popular culture, stages 1 and 2 are often portrayed as the "honeymoon phase," where couples are deeply infatuated and experiencing intense passion and romance. However, this image can sometimes overshadow the realistic picture of long-term relationships, which require effort, compromise, and growth.
Tru that
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True, the honeymoon phase gets a lot of spotlight. How do you think highlighting the effort, compromise, and growth in popular culture could lead to a more balanced understanding of long-term relationships?
Nobody checked. Moviemakers skiped this part and made movie about divorced😜There’s a thin line between love and hate. And it gets even thinner when dotted and two parties are signing on it after many, many months. We’re writing, of course, about divorce. And for the characters in the movies below, whether they’re moving on and dating after divorce or getting back together for a reconciliation, divorce is their new normal. Explored through lenses of humor, social and gender politics, and even with the Disney musical treatment, our roundup of the best movies about divorce, has a film for every viewer. There’s The Parent Trap and Mrs. Doubtfire for kids and folks young at heart, Kramer vs. Kramer for a gut-punch custody battle that doesn’t pick a winner, The First Wives Club, and Marriage Story. Though each their own, every movie on this list shares a singular message: You will get through this.
*I am not reading that* @@brain_respect_and_freedom
Started at 0, 19 years later I’m still on step 0. Yessir I’m dying alone 🔥🔥
don't say that! i'm sure there's someone out there for you - there always is! ❤
@@InexperiencedSky 20 years old and still step 0. He and I are in the same boat here 🥲
You’re 19 chill out
geez, 19 isn’t so bad. I’m the worse here whose 33 and mess up relationship so bad. I get it what’s love and care.
You're 19. That's baby in adult years. You'll be fine.
Maintaining a healthy relationship can be difficult but it is definitely worth it in the long run. My boyfriend and I have had many fights and many times we went to bed angry at each other. We give each other space and talk it out. After everything and all these years, he is my comfort person and I feel safe with him. It’s like the giddy “I’m obsessed with you” type of love while also the trusting, loyal, caring “this is my person, my other half” type of love. It is seriously worth it and I’ve never been happier.
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Happy to hear someone say that, a lot of people think that if a relationship has even a very few amount of problems then they should give up instead of working around it like a actual committed relationship.
God i want this
lol nobody cares to maintain a relationship to keep it healthy. Once the slightest inconvenience happens, the one partner always just dump the other. Theres plenty of other humans to "date" lol.
@@anderstermansen130 If you seriously think that then go ahead, don't go into other peoples comments and tell them what you think. You thinking this way is the main reason you are single.
Watching this takes me back to my high school years. I feel like my husband and I went through the first 3 stages early on in our relationship.. looking forward, now 20 years later, and I see us in stage 5. Love is never easy BUT with hard work it is definitely worth fighting for ❤
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Such a nostalgic journey! What lessons from those high school stages have strengthened your love over two decades?
Not worth at all. Better stay single forever, than go throught all of that pointless trouble.
@@johnnykend5728 exactly betray them before they betray you.
@@lenninmontiel4539 Betray them? You got me wrong. I meant to not start it at all or try to prove it her being wrong.
The sixth stage is actually merging together and becoming a hive mind! ☺️☺️
We are the Borg; resistance is futile :)
🤔That sounds more like enmeshment.
Make us whole Make us whole Make us whole Make us whole
😂😂😂I have this with my mom. We think the same thing in the exact moment and it's happened over 10 times now. It's weird and beautiful ❤
Two corpses in one grave
Fully agree. It’s a true love if it gets to reach stage 4-5. That’s why it’s so precious, needs investment but it’s totally worth it ❤️💟
Is it though 🤔
@@lenninmontiel4539yes why do u doubt it?
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@@lenninmontiel4539Yes
@@lenninmontiel4539 it is! What do you mean?
Im very consistent. Been on stage 0 since day 0 💪🏻
People want to use others, staying single is the best because you can have everything to yourself
😂😂same broo
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Went through all these stages and now arrived somewhere between 4 and 5. It's beautiful and I wouldn't want it any other way. But man, this took effort! Compromises, hurt, serious self reflection, and so, so many difficult conversations. It is all worth it, but it takes a lot of courage and I totally understand why people sometimes choose not to move stage 3. This world is difficult enough, I completely understand why one might not have the necessary resources to pour themselves into this kind of commitment. Heck, I dont even know if I would do it if I wouldn't already be married to my partner!
It sounds like a remarkable journey filled with growth and commitment. What advice would you give to those navigating the challenging transition from stage 3 to the deeper connections of stages 4 and 5?
@Psych2go thank you for your reply:)
My advice to couples at this stage is to use the conflict as an opportunity to reflect on and shape the relationship in a way that meets both side's needs. What we did back then was: 1. Take a step back from the relationship (might look different for everyone, for us it meant going on a break but still meeting regularly) 2. Accept that there is a serious disruption of our relationship, that that sucks and hurts a lot. 3. Reflect on the relationship up to that point; why do we want to continue to be in this relationship? What makes this relationship special? What was not so good and ultimately led to that disruption? 4. Outline what we want our relationship to be like in the future and commit to making it work.
This might not be for everyone but it worked for us. :)
Step 1 : talk to him
Thank you....i will.
@@nori_sachi you're welcome (I won't)
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Go for it! Trying is the best thing you can do to yourself [:
As if you women do that. You look at him for less than half a second, wearing your best RBF, then expect him to walk up to you and talk to you.
Whats wrong with your type?m
I feel like I proceed through the phases but the first phase never really goes away.
Love it's truly scary, but ultimately talking and open up yourself helps a lot.
Great point on the first one :)
I'm 42 and I've been stuck on stage 1 my whole life.
Stay single and get a hobby my friend trust me its better to be single than to have your heart broken by some h*e or boy toy.
and don't give up! it's never too late! ❤
Its over
that's really cute, i would consider you at stage 5 tho, it just feels like stage 1
NOOOOOOOO 😭
Hellooo singles 😂😂
Hey man, how's life?
@@RandomCrap-lu8or nice but little bit hectic 🙂👍🏼
@@Humansapien34726 Relatable.
Keep going strong Man, We'll find someone.
I hope..
Yup still looking
Hello bro
I haven't felt love for a very long time now, and im glad watching this made me feel happy
19 here and I am single! Won’t hurry for the wrong person😊!
Yes I completely agree!
@@alexyscollinz5030 :)
Same
@Fortifier1021 either my parents will find one for me because I am not good at choosing people! All the people I trusted as friends betrayed me! So it’s either my parents who gonna do that for me or else if I find that type of a guy then I will ask him out,
@Fortifier1021 definitely! Thanks for that😍❤️
me and my boy are on stage 1-2 (the "honeymoon phase"). he's pretty serious towards me and often states cute stuff he wanna do after our marriage. honestly, I'm excited to gradually reach the stage 5 with him but I'm also kinda scared of this honeymoon phase ending. i just love him so him and i wanna grow old with him!
Felt that too 😭 thats exactly what happened with me then I realized he was only with me for that long to get all the sexual desires he wanted. He fooled me pretty well cuz I thought he was a good, christian boy with no intent of deceiving.
Hope it works out for you though!
As someone currently in love, nothing worth having is easy yes. But loving and being together with someone is so easy when you really care for and trust them. Time will just fly by
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"Care for, and trust them"😂 as if women have feelings😂 Hey Google, tell me another joke!
@@anderstermansen130 I’m sorry no woman has loved you before. I hope one day you can experience and appreciate the warmth of a woman that loves you
@@cheyennethomas5101 I will bet it must be a nice feeling. Because i cant relate.
@@anderstermansen130 you could probably start by finding out the source of your pain and why it feels better to project it on to others. That doesn’t heal the pain just spread it
Hooray, never had to deal with Stage 1 myself, only Stage 0.
Same honestly 😭
Bro have such soothing voice,he could heal me by talking!!!!
Wish I would've learned this a few months ago. My relationship had gotten to stage 3 and since it was my first ever serious relationship, I stagnated and didn't quite know how to navigate it with my partner. Now that we're broken up (mostly because she wasn't willing to accept her own faults and pushed all the blame to me), I'm glad I learned from it and yall's videos on how to navigate the same problems in any future relationships. Thank you for this video! It really puts the development of relationships into a logical perspective and it's really helpful.
Relationships are certainly rough sometimes, so this will help
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My first relationship got stuck on stage 2 and ended at that because it wasn’t fulfilling, plus I was very young. My other two ended on stage 3, and in my current one we’re at stage 1 or 2. I say 2 as well because we’re starting to talk about our more serious stuff, like problems, small things we’ll do together, all that. I genuinely hope this one lasts longer than the anniversary.
Edit: hitting stage 3 now, worried beyond belief
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And now ?
@@TrumpetBogeyMan oh shiet
Uhhhh yea he didn’t care about me lol
never related to something better ❤ im in a relationship that just turned 6 ! and it's exciting how i felt related to every point as the video kept on playing and i can say im finally on the last stage 😂😂❤
Can’t wait to notice these signs in real life❤❤❤
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@@kanao.tsuyuri_.00 Quote - Myself.
Best comment ive seen in a while :))
@@DMDadventures thxx for the compliment! 🤧
Fun fact (if you still haven't found your love): there is always one person who will be your love❤❤❤
Already had lots of crisis and managed them all. Stage 4, building the strong foundations with my future hubby.
I'll see this again in a few years.
Thank you. I truly miss ny amazing friend of two decades. It took the death of my parents,and her rocky divorce to discover how much we cared about each other. I truly hope she continues to shine on her path of finding her true self.
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Losing a friend is never easy, especially after such a profound connection. How do you carry the lessons and memories from your friendship as you both navigate your individual paths?
@@Psych2go Her life could have been a blockbuster movie. Small town,abusive childhood, father gone but was actually a few doors down and discovered six months before passing due to cancer twenty years later. Abusive mother still main contact. Anxiety and C-PTSD. I accidently triggered and didnt know. She went to ground in a few weeks . Tippy toe through the overthinking was exhausting. Texting,omg,the texting, the worse way to communicare but thats her copiing mechanism.
Your videos gave answers to better understand the mask she wears, and the battle she fights every day. A survivor. And I love her to bits for who she is,not what she was made in to. Her life was on track , she bought a house, showed me via text. So happy for her then bang, protection order. Im not the first one she has done it to and they are relatively easy to get in my country .
Not angry with her,could never be.
My mother was a paranoid schizophrenic with delusions, so know the difference between broken, and warped.
May she find the peace she finally deserves.
My situation was at stage 3, she lost feelings for me. We then had a break, after that she told me that only her needed a break and not me, she used the break to make her mind up. Now she officially broke up with me. I really thought it would last a life time.
This makes a lot more sense than mad romantic love or love at first sight. It's healthier, too. Love is like anything else you in life, you have to work at it.
Unless youre good looking. BOOM, anyone wants a relationship with you, no matter your personality.
17 years till stage 0 yes sirrrr🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I think me and my partner are at stage 4, or maybe 5. We became a couple around christmas in 2019, after chatting and dateing since october that year. Fist crisis we faced was the pandemic, then we had health problems and death in close family. During those years it was also determined that I was unable to work due to halth issues (somthing I still have not fully come to terms with). There are no more medicines to try for my cronic migranes. Point being, we have been through it. I feel so grateful to have had him by my side during the difficult times and sorrow.
I also see my partner clearly, all sides of him, including his flaws. And he see me clearly, with all of mine. We both love each other, respect each other and forgive those flaws. My partner is not perfect but he is perfect for me 🥰
I hope I am blessed with a long life with him 🥰
I had thought I reached stage 5 with my ex. Turns out he was occasionally love bombing me when I threatened to be communicative and honest with him and expected him to be the same. He kept me at arms length and never satisfied that underlying need for mutual nurturing.
I think could be at 4 or 5. Coz recently he proposed we live together and most of the time it feels comfortable and happy and content. But sometimes there’s still misunderstandings and sometimes bickering. But get through it
Congratulations 🎉 Misunderstandings happen in every relationship, but the closer y'all get the really stupid/big ones won't happen as often. Honestly show this to your man see what stage he think's you're at
That is wonderful and I bet if you took a step back you might see that things are like that with close family and friends in you life as well. The different being the kind of love you have for your to be hubby.
so when did you dump and ghost him?
@@anderstermansen130Seriously, dude. Get a job. You'll be busy that way. Stop watching videos and comments related to love if that's disturbing you. Just because you think Earth is not rotating, doesn't mean it isn't actually. (It was an example, didn't say that you really don't know.)
We’ve only been together for three months now, soon four, but I am willing to go through each and every stage, no matter how challenging it is. He is worth everything and worth to keep fighting for. He’s seen my flaws, and I’ve seen his, and we will better ourselves for ourselves and each other. I can’t wait to see who we will become when we’re old. I love that man
"Most people stop at three"
And about half start and end at 0
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Me who’s on stage 4 (not kids, married or living together) and ace. All we do is know that it’s good to recognise you mistakes, respect and care for one another and instead of breaking up, found out what the problem is and solve it! We are only teens too! Too all that are stuck at earlier stages, I believe in you! Ever since I was about 5 or 6 I wanted a relationship (thanks to romantic scenes on cartoons) and now I finally have what I’ve been wanting for a while. For me love isn’t all about the physical things, it’s about learning about eachother, keeping that bond and friendship together and strong and not giving up on eachother. Anything is possible if u believe it. I believe in you.
my current boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months right now and I feel like we've gone through all of the stages and currently on the deep attachment and stability stage. I often overthink a lot despite everything that he's done for me and I'm so so so grateful for him. We've come to terms over the fact that we have to have communication for our relationship to properly flourish despite our rough patch at the beginning. I don't think we're moving too fast but I do hope that things last between us!!!
Omg I'm sure you get this often but your voice is actually so relaxing, you have like the perfect voice for audio books and stuff
we're making it to step 0 with this one 🗣🗣🗣🔥
It's been almost 8 years that I met my actual boyfriend who is now my fiancée. We met when we were kids, and are still together, I couldn't imagine my life without him! He is the only one I had in my life, and I will never regret it. Sometimes you don't need to try a lot of different people, you just have to wait for the right one. And when you meet the right one, it takes a lot of effort from both side to keep a good and healthy relationship, but it really worth it. It will not be the honeymoon phase everyday, but if you keep fighting for the futur you wish to have together, it will be farther more than that. The key is to communicate and respect each other. You will, one day, meet someone that will make you understand why it didn't match with the others 😌
Sounds accurate to me. Who was in a committed relationship for 20 years. Until my husband passed over in death. I’ve not experienced love like that since. I’m open to my new next level love❤
Nothing and nobody will ever replace those feelings, but hey maybe someday you'll meet somebody else and fall in love all over again 🥰 As long as you're happy you do you 😁
Half these comments are just people saying they’ll be alone forever. If you don’t want to be alone forever, do something about it. It’s really not as hard as people make it out to be, but staying inside and complaining on the internet isn’t usually how relationships are formed.
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Its not that easy pal. If we Arent looking like at least Gigachad or Tyrone, we do not have a chance, no matter how much effort we put into getting ourselves out there.
Us ugly degenerate second degree excuses for human beings are not eligible to the dating market.
I'm on 3 and me and my soul mate are makeing it work and still love eachother dispute how hard it is, and today we finally took the step to 4
The love at number 4 is called agape love
Dedication to actually being in that relationship. Like God.
I have reached the 4th stage of love. And getting to know each other well and understanding each other so well, we realised it wont work out for much longer. At that point we were engaged and lived together for 2 years already. We stayed friends and it was a mutual break up.
I have been craving for the 5th stage ever since I didn't even understand love
That craving for deep connection is powerful. How have your perceptions of love evolved as you've moved towards the 5th stage?
Here comes the best part. Its where you just give up, and accept that womens only purpose in their lives is to make mens lives miserable, at all cost! Some women only give it a few days before they attempt, other women go as far as to marry their victim and give birth to the victims children!
I believe we are in the 3rd stage rn. The more we bonded with each other, the more we know about each other. Also, this is the time where jealousy comes, which we were able to talk about just yesterday. I am happy we were able to talk about the matter and we also talked about finding ways not to hurt each other's feelings.
I can't imagine experiencing any of this
Litelary my day routine is do whatever i want then wach some mems and for goodnight wach some videos like this one to make my depresion deeper
A beautiful explication, narration, and animation of an intresting topic as always. Much love Psych2go! ❤
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I’m lucky to have reached either stage 4 or 5 with my first love of my life and hopefully my only. We’ve been childhood friends for a decade now, and we perused a more serious relationship. We’ve officially been dating for nearly 8 months, and I really pray that it continues to grow with each and every day. The only reason we aren’t officially together like engaged or married is because we are both still young-a couple more months until adulthood, and waiting for HS graduation…. Thanks Psych2Go!
Okay honestly? This makes me feel significantly better about my chances in a relationship 😎
Almost stage 5, but growing together right out of highschool through 4 years made us both loose sight of ourselves. We knew we wanted more time together but with how young we are, and still living separately it wasn't entirely possible.
I just want to be Happy...
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Same bro…
I love this video soo muchhh!!
I can't afford to get bankrupt mentally or financially by going to a relation and getting cheated 😅
My mental peace worth more than any relations
I can't withstand getting ignored by the one I like,nor getting cheated
Going after the wrong people in that case 😅 In general the first date is handled by the person who asks the other out, but follow ups are either split, pay-for-yourself, or taking turns. Besides not all dates have to be expensive
That is why its better to be single than to be in a relationship with someone who will end up betraying you. Besides try getting a good hobby 😌 its peaceful and relaxing.
@@lenninmontiel4539 still I get jealous of my friends who has girlfriends
Been there, done that. Let's just be at peace and grow without the need for someone else. We came here alone, we all exit alone.
If you have that mind set then your never gunna get anywhere when it comes to it.
Well the person i'm with we reached all stages and Knocked it out of the park in like 5 months
Our Love is too Strong we know almost every flaw about eachother but we forgive eachother in a heartbeat forgiveness , respect and Interest is the most important thing in a Relationship imo
that's why we never argued
she hurt me enough to make me cry
but i forgave her in a Second it's almost like we can't feel the emotion of anger at this point
if you love someone enough that you will forgive that person even if he/she tries to kill you than ig you're perfect❤
I really enjoy these psychological videos based on love, but there's only one problem in my specific context. In my culture and religion we don't date, we get into marriage as soon as possible. I was wondering if you guys would ever maybe be willing to do a video on how love works from a perspective where dating does not take place and we meet in very controlled environments instead of randomly meeting someone we fancy along the way.
Watching videos like this one while being aromantic and asexual is so fascinating. The world of dating and romantic partnerships seems so weird to me, I can't even feel the initial attraction that almost everyone takes for granted.
Thank you very much for the content. I think I've reached 4.5. I'll do my best to be with her forever❤
I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 2 years now and we're at the stage 3rd and 4th border, but we aren't giving up! We both have mental issues which are different yet they're still noticeable to one another but we understand eachother and sometimes we just try to. WE ARENT GIVING UP! all people make mistakes like pushing your partner to something they don't want to do and then you have to apologise to them but then everything returns to where it was. In my situation it goes like this: the day of drama, 3 days of cold contact so only how are you and ily, 2 days of almost no contact yet some messages like if you need me text me etc and then going back to normal. But this video showed me how it is important to try and maintain one stable relationship
The little Yoosung and mc are so cute at the end of stage 1
eeyyy I was searching for someone noticed it as well :D
YOUNG LOVE, FULL OF HOPE, IGNORANT OF REALITY
⚡There is POWER IN YOUR BEAUTY⚡There is BEAUTY IN YOUR POWER⚡
Only experienced Stage 1 once in my entire life in a meaningful way. I normally don't even get there and the most recent one, while rare, only lasted for a weekend and now everything's gone and I can't tell if I like the guy I am dating or if I just like that he likes me. This is usually how it goes and it's frustrating when you want to form a real relationship with someone.
Sounds like a one night stand or sex friend ngl. Do you have sex too quickly? Maybe try building a friendship first. Can also ask that person if they want to try dating and just spend time with them.
@@agr0nianTVSo true, the strongest romantic relationships form from strong friendships.
@@avengerboy2171 Amen to that brother. I just feel bad for folks who get trapped in the friendzone and have unrequited love :/ Then again you never know how any relationship will turn out with time so it's best to try in the first place 😁
@@agr0nianTV Amen 🙏
Bruh thats the thing people nowadays don't want a "serious relationship" they rather hook up and done, why do humans even bother to have a relationship anymore, the earth is dying, all the governments want to start ou ww3, people won't stop attacking one another. Its hopeless dude. Sad truth brother.
very very accurate, I'm entering the 4th stage and truly relate and agree with all the points... will try to focus on friendship, trust, and mutual respect, thankyou for the insight
Thank you so much for this video.
You are so welcome!
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My ex dumped me within a week because i wanted to talk about her actions that hurt me, she dodged it and asked me to just act like usual,having casual talks not deep talk then asked for space, which i respected until i asked when is she ready to come back and talk about it , she just shook her head and started actively avoiding me.. so i just told her I'll give her the space and time she needed until she's ready.. then she dropped the breakup bomb.. I realized she's not ready to grow with me, she still wants to stay as she is even though It's making her life miserable.. our maturity in life is at different level ,when she talked to me about something i did that make her feel less loved, i didn't take that as an attack, i told her the reasons, and make sure i follow through with a consistent action, which she loved.. when it was my turn to feel hurt by her behaviour, it suddenly turned into me adding up to her stress by talking about it..okay I'm done venting 😭 it's been over two months and it's still hard to accept that i was probably used by a covert narcissist and the worst part is why tf i even want to understand her when i already understood, witnessed and experienced several incidents that confirms my intuition.. I fr be gaslighting myself 😂
Interesting and very... logical construct of how love is build up when I think about it.
Also the art style and drawings here are super fun to watch once more :D
I'd really like to say there is one person which I could go those five stages through with for almost two decades but... I was too scared of love back then and now she's taken.
Any other attempt fails for me at Stage 0: being in circles with potential love interests and be interesting.
It makes me sad but at the same time makes me realize I have to enjoy other aspects of life even more.
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What I have learned about it is that the deeper the love, the harsher the pain from betrayal. So there is eventually a stage where you have no choice but to insulate yourself and let feelings pass through where it used to be all positive it eventually becomes seemingly mostly negative. Or maybe I had kids with the wrong person. Anyway, feels like the rug was pulled from under me.
It was the wrong person dear💖
Already 30 years old, still I'm stuck at 0.5, infatuated and early attachment but not reciprocated.
haha same.
I mean have you made your feelings known? If so and they said no you can still remain friends with them, but I'd recommend looking elsewhere at the same time or try to move on
I never attempted to approach till last year and in this year, i had two broken at stage 1 and one at stage 2. You guys tell if I should even go in a relationship. My biggest flaw is that I overshare things. I had no problem staying single but now i realise I can't handle my emotions easily now. That's why i want to come in a relationship.
My parents are definitely in stage 5 😊😊😊
Been living with my girlfriend for 2 years been together for almost 3 (we started living together a little early) and im happy to say im at stage 5 :)
Like a meditation session. Very calming voice.
Yeah definitely a keeper. Rarely do I like a narrator that isn't the normal lady, but this guy's voice nearly hits her bar for me which is a pleasant surprise 😁
Glad you enjoyed it!
Ah this seems right, my partner and I stop talking at stage 3, which is about my psychology error, I have pessimistic world view plus depression, I don't rely on feelings most of the time. My partner tries to help me recover the numbness feeling of mine, and I kept pushing things away because the pressure is too much that I have headche. Resulted in my partner decided to give me some space, but I feel lonely too
I think I need some advice
Man, if only I could use this info 😞
Chin up my friend
@@ideamachine39 I'll try, m8 👍
don't feel sad! there's someone out there for everyone! it might just take some time! ❤
I have know more then a few that meet the one for them later in life. Just how it was meant to be for them is all. So don't rush things. Some of the best people I know have yet to meet the one meant for them. But they take life day by day and step by step.
I really related to the part about escaping the stage 3, but not unscathed. I believe my current relationship is in stage 3, still, my boyfriend and I love each other deeply and are very much aware that what we've found in each other is too precious to let go because of a crisis we know is gonna pass. I can see his flaws more clearly now, and I'm sure he can see mine, but because we've been friends for 5 years (dated for a bit less than a year during that time but it ended) and in a relationship for 1 year now, we might have developed an early knowledge of each other's not-so-good sides and it helped us build a more solid foundation. Even so, it's hard realising the person you thought was so perfect is actually not so perfect, but if both people put in the effort, the understanding, communication, honesty, etc. That phase might become easier. I'm a big overthinker but it can really be the downfall of a relationship, so I'm working on becoming more rational in order to preserve ours. Can't wait to reach stage 4 lol
I just recently became a girlfriend again to an absolutely wonderful, and beautiful partner, and your videos help me so much. I really appreciate it all, and I'm really confident about this one, and your videos have, and will continue to help so much. Thank you. Genuinely, thank you
The way you wrote it was so beautiful. I wish u the best ❤😊
@@ghostii1352 awwww, thank you so much ☺️❤️☺️ that genuinely means a lot, thank you ☺️
We're at stage 4 after a yesr of crisis and separation, we come back together with grown personality and safer love❤
Can I please get a video on long distance relationship 😢... I need to know about that
REALLY IMPORTANT I would love to be tagged anytime it comes out ❤
I cannot give you a video about long-distance relationships, but maybe just a couple of advice from my personal experience (I started dating 12 years ago at 17 year old, and went through 3 phases of long-distance relationships for a total of 6 years; and now engaged and living happily together at stage 5).
I would say these:
- If you want it to work, you need to try. Some people indeed cannot endure it, but if you give up beforehand because you are scared, you will never know.
- You need to define your needs and boundaries as you go, like for any other relationships, but especially for communication: how often do I need to talk to you, and how often do you need to talk to me? Should we write, talk, video-call? How often can we see each other? Your needs will likely be different, but if you both put in the effort you can reach a balance that will ensure communication and emotional safety despite the distance.
- It helps a lot to know why you do the long-distance relationship, and when it will end. For us, it was because studying was our top priority, including double degrees abroad. We knew at the end of studying we wanted to be together and worked towards that.
- from what I've seen around me, long-distance relationships fail mainly in three cases: no visible end to the separation, not enough trust, or a relationship where physicality is more important than the emotional and mental connection. It is also a lot more difficult with a big time difference.
I hope it helps and that you will be able to reunite happily after going through the hardships!
This narrator's voice is so chill, I love it ❤
Me 21. College is about to end. Dunno when will I fall in love. Sometimes I feel I'll be single forever.🤔
Have you ever had any crushes? If the answer is no or you personally chose them than you might consider looking into aromanticism and the aro spectrum. If the answer is a definite yes than ignore this comment lol. I felt the same way but right as I was finishing uni I stumbled across aromanticism and did some research as someone who knows nothing about lgbtq and so was clueless and it struck right at home and it's been helpful mental health wise. But it might not be the case for you, it's just that the wording you used gave me *unknowingly aro vibes,* ya know?
@@vali69 I had crushes when I was in school but not anymore ( not even a celebrity crush at this point of time). But I keep fantasizing romantic scenarios in my mind.
@@xarkdagor well it was worth a try. Good luck and remember it's not the be all end all of life, even if your emotions tell you otherwise.
Stage 3 was really rough for me and my girlfriend of 6 years. But I think it is where every relationship is tested if they are worth maintaining.
Girlfriend of 6 years??😮
For me, it's just not possible. Nobody likes me because I'm not perfect! If I make even the slightest mistake ,I get yelled at and treated like a criminal! I'm only human, but that's no excuse! It's because of that relationships are over before they're even started! I'm doing everything right as far as I know. There's something definitely wrong with me and I can't figure out what that is. I am flowed because I'm human! That's whats Wrong!
Sounds to me like you’ve got self-esteem issues that stem from expectations of you from yourself and others. Not a lot to go off of from your comment, but that’s what I’m thinking is going on. Correct me if I’m wrong since I don’t know you, of course. Just know that humans are supposed to be flawed, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is trying to make yourself be perfect as perfection is not something that makes someone human
Everyone is flawed that's part of being human. Honestly it sounds like you have a powerhungry boss/coworkers who are just taking a dump on you. Are you easily taken advantage of? Like if any of that is true maybe search for a different job first.
Do a deep analysis of yourself, what do the majority of people dislike about? Maybe you can show that side of you less?
Push your good qualities up front advertise them.
Go to places with your similar hobbies honestly discord is a great place to look for anything online.
Once you do those you can start looking for love. You can try just asking asking someone out or using a dating app, but honestly the best romantic relationships are built off friendships in my opinion.
Sounds like you have been told this narrative of having to be perfect to be loved far too many times in your life. I am sorry you had to go through this. Please know that this is not true and the people who made you feel that way were wrong. You deserve someone who accepts you as your authentic self. I wish you all the best for your future journey and hope you will find your peace and happiness one way or another.
Been there, done that. All of that got me no where fast. @@agr0nianTV
There really is no one out there for me. Jesus is the only true friend I've got. I try to tell people about him and hardly anyone listens. @@lylougrapes7011
I was WILLING, with ALL OF MY HEART AND BEING to go through the third stage. I knew it was gonna happen, not because I watched this video (I did after, like, right now) or because someone told me, but because it was builing up. And I did tell him, my partner, that I would do anything to make stuff better, give him his space and time and all of my help. But in the end... We didn't. And it has been the worst feeling I've had, yes, my life has been that boring.
Why did this pop up in my recommended after a breakup 😭
I know it hurts a lot 😭
Tbf, if you do it right, you can retain stage 1 in one form or another. And it's kinda important that you do to some extent
2:03 Peashooter?
Mmmmm. Peashooter
I stumbled upon this and I'm here to learn what I felt..... nothing else
I can't even get into a relationship y'all expect me to get to 1. Idk what to do
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Same😭
Stay single man trust me its better than to fall for some random h*e or f*ck boy.
there's always someone out there - it might just take some time! ❤
Just give up, and adapt to loneliness. Women cant hurt us if we dont bother in the first place, to even look them in the eyes.
We dying alone with this one!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
can't the 1st and 3rd stage also be for friendships? actually if you ignore that this is about love stages this feels like a frindship stage to me, or at least some parts does.
Yes sir hell I'd say a life long friendship could even hit 5 on rare ocassions
I liked it. Very educating and realistic. Thank you 😊
Great explanation! I am at stage number 1; I have not confessed my liking or love for him!
Honestly the start always feels the best, but as some say, "Nothing gold lasts forever" and the feeling slowly fades in stage 2.