A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her .
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7-year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
This is true for both genders, people need to stop tolerating disrespect, everyone is too nice and passive, You could make the mistake of being perceived as weak and easy to manipulate.
Absolutely. Unfortunately this is an attachment and trauma issue that is almost like addiction to these people,the toxicity. Most likely because we have more single parents then ever before and terrible relationships all around being the model.
@@help_meunderstand no trauma and attachment are reasons for being passive sure. But they are by no means excuses, so it’s unacceptable to be passive and weak
I’ve always thought I don’t want her to think she’s rattled me, so I’ve been passive and let it go so it shows she can’t get to me. When I have called her out on her behaviour before, it’s made things even worse. At 50 I’m done, not dated for two years now and my life is now drama free.
Explains a lot about why me and my wife work out so well together. She might be the most nurturing woman I have ever come across. She came at the right time, shortly after finally having gotten enough of life tossing me around, my boundaries were rock solid, they still are and I'll make sure they always will be. We're 9 years into it together and it just keeps getting better, we inspire each other to be better through bettering ourselves for both ourselves and each other, that's synergy.
I am at the age where I have learned that I am a people pleaser. I really have learned I dislike that about myself. I thought helping someone is a positive attitude. It is now clear that ,kindness is perceived as a weakness. I have to be careful who I do help & who I will say"get lost" to.
Kindness is not generally perceived as weakness. Quite the opposite. But being seen as a tool, someone who can be readily used, is to be perceived as unattractive.
My biggest challenge in life from my young years was making life more complex than it has to be. There is only so much one can do. At the age of 8, I had three big ambitions. Between the ages of 10 and 11, there were interruptions involving angry people. I changed my mind to get a decent job, marry a good woman, and making the most for our children. That would have been a good time to start a journal to keep me on track. Keeping track of one's surroundings, and opportunities sounds wise.
100% accurate!! Regards men who are people pleasers ...we can not submit because we can't trust him to lead! We don't get any feedback form "Whatever you think, whatever, you want" he is putting zero effort in when he dies this. Women want to know they can trust their man, they want him to advise them & even say no, when their request is OTT or illogical... because women are emotional and men are logical so women know they can trust him to make the logical/smart, sound decision. When men lead we see them as strong & dependable & we can't help but respect them. When they don't lead we really, really struggle to respect them
The first point was great about setting boundaries And then the next question is more pandering: What do women find attractive Hello? Is the guy paying attention? It's not about endlessly trying to impress them, it's about them impressing us enough to justify letting them through our boundaries
When I was skinny fat and an addict in college I was attracting super bad women. The moment I got cheated on I said time to rebuild. I literally changed everything about me. I am fit and I have some muscle now and a six pack. My face is way slimmer and I changed to a buzz cut as well. I also no longer have an addiction. Same guy in the in terms of morals but everything else is different. I am attracting way more than normal and better quality as well so far at 22. I would say though the guys barely talk to me now but now way more women talk to me and treat me way better than they used to. Maybe it is that guys see me as a threat in terms of getting girls idk. I am even getting guy’s gfs stalking my instagram even grown women checking me out. I went from wanting commitment to honestly not wanting it and just like the attention but I do make friends with them. I just got pickier.
🧘♂️ hopefully it works for me this time sadia. Last time it didn’t but it was for the better. Twenty year age gap younger that would never work. I guess all I can do is being genuine and authentic and hopefully that shines through enough
I believe love is more important than anything. We should desire to please each other. Also the man who is deeply loving will also be the strongest warrior.
*The man women want isn’t necessarily the one with the flashiest job or the most money, but the one who brings stability, humor, and authenticity to the table.*
You call men babies often. That is pretty derogatory. We are off and shocked when a woman does something nurturing for us, because God forbid that they act in their nature. Anything they do for a man is seen as making them less than, instead of being an act of giving. This is one of the reasons why men have become so self-sufficient.
Honestly, aside from combing my hear and putting-on some suitable clothing and manners, why would I want to do anything to myself to make me attractive to a woman. Would rather just be myself and do my own thing rather than going-out woman-hunting. So artificial. Why bother?
Can someone explain ot me, like I am 5 years old: Why do a women respect me, if I dont let her bully me? because I am turned of if a woman bullies me - and dont feel than manly setting those boundaries - instead I feel like I am parenting her. And what am I supposed to do when it turns me OFF setting those boundaries?
@BackyardEngineer334 by the same token I have heard stories of women who gave a man a chance (they ended up in a relationship/married) due to him pursuing her. Kind of like he wanted her so much. If a woman is really not interested she'll let you know. She'll ignore, block, won't make herself accessible to the man.
@@David-zj3bp exactly. Guys need to understand they should pursue a woman.....not chase a woman. They are not going to just walk up to them and say "you are going to be my man" and open their legs because you look like a high value man. Men need to also accept that you may not get a or a woman who looks like a Beyonce or a Giselle simply because......just get the best woman in your sexual market value and that makes you happy.
Imo, Sadia is so completely disconnected from the reality of a man, its unbelievable. How am I supposed to practice any sort of selection when the pool of available women over here in Germany is zero? I built myself from zero so I know a thing or two about people but the issue of a complete lack of (nice and respectful) women and femininity in general has been a staple and its definitely not for lack of positive action on my side. Your life can only be as good as is the potential of your environment. The only time when I was able to meet decent women was when I went far away abroad... so sad, if you ask me. Sadia likes to make the argument that a man needs to work harder... but thats completely off the point, it takes both to get together and I don't see any sort of cooperation or openness on women's side. People like to stay in their bubble and comfort zone, especially women. How can you find a well-developed woman, if personal development and proper parenting are not part of the culture, nor are women facing challenges that push them to reflect on themselves? I can honestly say that I have done my part of the equation and yet, whenever I go out to meet people, the men to attractive women ratio feels like 100:1 so women simply won't develop much of appreciation. The discourse on women cannot continue without addressing the basics on women's side, such as lack of appreciation, lack of respect, lack of personal development, lack of interest in men, etc. Because ultimately, when people are self-centered, meeting each other is a matter of market forces and as man you don't want to be in a situation of scarcity. But what can you specifically do as an individual, if you are in a situation of such scarcity and can do nothing about it? That is the real question.
@@spartanghost9713 I understand that emotion but whatever we try to escape comes back in one form or another. Unless it is unbearable abuse, I believe it is how we approach situations that matters the most.
Sadia is cool, but she will never completely overcome her hot-girl bias. There are indeed men at the bottom of the pile that will never attract a woman.
Just blocked a single mother who I kinda started to like for no reason. She didn’t do shit and acted like shit. She probably think she won because I gave her power by blocking her. Idk but don’t give no fuk. I ain’t have no girl in my life who can’t act right. I should probebly have told her whats up but to be honest days are busy not worth put energi in it wen you know it ain’t gonna work out anyway. Felt like she had to much trauma to act right and have a good hearth. Stone cold.
I still don't understand the whole being nice is a bad thing and never will but hey I am okay with that because their things in this world that will never make sense, and you just have to let it be I have found in my life as a short guy that no matter what I do it will never be go enough for women or at least for the women who have gave me a chance
That flawed logic is ridiculous. A person, unfortunately, can be upset with the opposite sex due to their behavior towards them whether they let that unhealthy person into their lives or not. In fact, they may NOT have let unhealthy people of the opposite sex into their libes because they spotted the unhealthiness BEFORE doing so. 🤔🤔🤔
Exactly! If you do something wrong, you'll get a slap on the ass! One liked it too much and started doing it the other way around on purpose :D:D:D Seriously...
No, only me... But this one is a HIT- she stood at the table, stuck her ass out, threw down the glass and said: "Punish me like you promised!" :D:D:D Madness... ;)))
I can’t even follow what she’s saying. It seems like women talk? She’s talking but I don’t really hear anything I haven’t heard before. Women have reached a point they aren’t even worth chasing. They are all so different that when a man like my self learns from the last date, the next woman is completely different. Woman are at a point it’s so difficult to even go on a date with. The last date; the woman said I was too nice… 😂 she doesn’t even know me; I was trying to be nice to her, but she likes being treated bad? It’s so confusing.
Yup, oh and she always expects you to pay doesn’t she. So you do, because you’re nice and then she says you’re too nice, so dumps you… but still expects you to pay. Mixed messages.
It's sad that you according to women, you have to treat women like defiant children who need to be kept in their place. Most men want a partner, peace, and not have to police their significant other.
The concept of success in " The Art of Seductive Power" book completely explains this. I wish I read it sooner.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her .
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7-year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
That's fascinating! How did you come across a spiritual counselor, and what's the best way for me to contact her?
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Her comments on the nurturing aspect of women, and how that is attractive are dead on!!!
This is true for both genders, people need to stop tolerating disrespect, everyone is too nice and passive, You could make the mistake of being perceived as weak and easy to manipulate.
Absolutely. Unfortunately this is an attachment and trauma issue that is almost like addiction to these people,the toxicity. Most likely because we have more single parents then ever before and terrible relationships all around being the model.
@@help_meunderstand no trauma and attachment are reasons for being passive sure. But they are by no means excuses, so it’s unacceptable to be passive and weak
I’ve always thought I don’t want her to think she’s rattled me, so I’ve been passive and let it go so it shows she can’t get to me.
When I have called her out on her behaviour before, it’s made things even worse.
At 50 I’m done, not dated for two years now and my life is now drama free.
Explains a lot about why me and my wife work out so well together. She might be the most nurturing woman I have ever come across. She came at the right time, shortly after finally having gotten enough of life tossing me around, my boundaries were rock solid, they still are and I'll make sure they always will be. We're 9 years into it together and it just keeps getting better, we inspire each other to be better through bettering ourselves for both ourselves and each other, that's synergy.
I am at the age where I have learned that I am a people pleaser. I really have learned I dislike that about myself. I thought helping someone is a positive attitude. It is now clear that ,kindness is perceived as a weakness. I have to be careful who I do help & who I will say"get lost" to.
Kindness is not generally perceived as weakness. Quite the opposite.
But being seen as a tool, someone who can be readily used, is to be perceived as unattractive.
I admire your honesty and, it's a blessing to recognize that so it can be fixed.
My biggest challenge in life from my young years was making life more complex than it has to be. There is only so much one can do. At the age of 8, I had three big ambitions. Between the ages of 10 and 11, there were interruptions involving angry people. I changed my mind to get a decent job, marry a good woman, and making the most for our children. That would have been a good time to start a journal to keep me on track. Keeping track of one's surroundings, and opportunities sounds wise.
I was married at the age of 9,5 !
From experience setting boundaries works and it needs to be conveyed in a way that it's clearly understood.
100% accurate!! Regards men who are people pleasers ...we can not submit because we can't trust him to lead! We don't get any feedback form "Whatever you think, whatever, you want" he is putting zero effort in when he dies this. Women want to know they can trust their man, they want him to advise them & even say no, when their request is OTT or illogical... because women are emotional and men are logical so women know they can trust him to make the logical/smart, sound decision. When men lead we see them as strong & dependable & we can't help but respect them. When they don't lead we really, really struggle to respect them
“Nothing tastes as good as (the self control that allows) skinny feels”. Truth
The first point was great about setting boundaries
And then the next question is more pandering: What do women find attractive
Hello? Is the guy paying attention? It's not about endlessly trying to impress them, it's about them impressing us enough to justify letting them through our boundaries
Sadia you are absolutely right with what men find attractive!
When I was skinny fat and an addict in college I was attracting super bad women. The moment I got cheated on I said time to rebuild. I literally changed everything about me. I am fit and I have some muscle now and a six pack. My face is way slimmer and I changed to a buzz cut as well. I also no longer have an addiction. Same guy in the in terms of morals but everything else is different. I am attracting way more than normal and better quality as well so far at 22. I would say though the guys barely talk to me now but now way more women talk to me and treat me way better than they used to. Maybe it is that guys see me as a threat in terms of getting girls idk. I am even getting guy’s gfs stalking my instagram even grown women checking me out. I went from wanting commitment to honestly not wanting it and just like the attention but I do make friends with them. I just got pickier.
🧘♂️ hopefully it works for me this time sadia. Last time it didn’t but it was for the better. Twenty year age gap younger that would never work. I guess all I can do is being genuine and authentic and hopefully that shines through enough
I realize when women are being nurturing to me and she is spot on it is great and immediately makes them more attractive.
This is woman is saving relationships .. women should listen her more
The reason we don't expect things form women nowadays because most women nowadays don't do crap for men and when they do we get all happy for it
There is a difference between being a people pleaser, being conflict shy, and someone who likes to please.
I believe love is more important than anything. We should desire to please each other.
Also the man who is deeply loving will also be the strongest warrior.
This woman is incredibly smart
Hot gal " I don't have trouble with men being nice to me" 🤣
*The man women want isn’t necessarily the one with the flashiest job or the most money, but the one who brings stability, humor, and authenticity to the table.*
Temporarily, but then hypergamy kicks in and they are looking for the new, shiny guy with more money or better prospects. It never ends.
WONDERFUL TALKING MISS CONGRATULATIONS!
Is this for women in general or only for high value women which is again small in number..
Stop watching what women want .... focus on what you want...
She contradicts herself so much.
I think deep down she knows the truth
You call men babies often. That is pretty derogatory. We are off and shocked when a woman does something nurturing for us, because God forbid that they act in their nature. Anything they do for a man is seen as making them less than, instead of being an act of giving. This is one of the reasons why men have become so self-sufficient.
Ma'am can you do something on retroactive jelousy😢😢 i cant help it!!!
Honestly, aside from combing my hear and putting-on some suitable clothing and manners, why would I want to do anything to myself to make me attractive to a woman.
Would rather just be myself and do my own thing rather than going-out woman-hunting.
So artificial. Why bother?
Can someone explain ot me, like I am 5 years old:
Why do a women respect me, if I dont let her bully me? because I am turned of if a woman bullies me - and dont feel than manly setting those boundaries - instead I feel like I am parenting her. And what am I supposed to do when it turns me OFF setting those boundaries?
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She looks so much like Molly Qerim from First Take
High value men don’t prioritize or pursue women, so if you’re doing either you can be sure that you’re not one.
There's a difference between pursuing and chasing but yes, women are not a priority
@BackyardEngineer334 by the same token I have heard stories of women who gave a man a chance (they ended up in a relationship/married) due to him pursuing her. Kind of like he wanted her so much. If a woman is really not interested she'll let you know. She'll ignore, block, won't make herself accessible to the man.
@@David-zj3bp exactly. Guys need to understand they should pursue a woman.....not chase a woman. They are not going to just walk up to them and say "you are going to be my man" and open their legs because you look like a high value man. Men need to also accept that you may not get a or a woman who looks like a Beyonce or a Giselle simply because......just get the best woman in your sexual market value and that makes you happy.
Imo, Sadia is so completely disconnected from the reality of a man, its unbelievable.
How am I supposed to practice any sort of selection when the pool of available women over here in Germany is zero?
I built myself from zero so I know a thing or two about people but the issue of a complete lack of (nice and respectful) women and femininity in general has been a staple and its definitely not for lack of positive action on my side.
Your life can only be as good as is the potential of your environment.
The only time when I was able to meet decent women was when I went far away abroad... so sad, if you ask me.
Sadia likes to make the argument that a man needs to work harder... but thats completely off the point, it takes both to get together and I don't see any sort of cooperation or openness on women's side.
People like to stay in their bubble and comfort zone, especially women. How can you find a well-developed woman, if personal development and proper parenting are not part of the culture, nor are women facing challenges that push them to reflect on themselves?
I can honestly say that I have done my part of the equation and yet, whenever I go out to meet people, the men to attractive women ratio feels like 100:1 so women simply won't develop much of appreciation.
The discourse on women cannot continue without addressing the basics on women's side, such as lack of appreciation, lack of respect, lack of personal development, lack of interest in men, etc.
Because ultimately, when people are self-centered, meeting each other is a matter of market forces and as man you don't want to be in a situation of scarcity.
But what can you specifically do as an individual, if you are in a situation of such scarcity and can do nothing about it? That is the real question.
What if that women that disrespects you is your mother. You don't get to choose woman you live with.
I mean its tough....i'm in that situation and trying to be away from her as soon as possible.
Leave; and don’t bother with her; she will ruin your life.
@@spartanghost9713 I understand that emotion but whatever we try to escape comes back in one form or another. Unless it is unbearable abuse, I believe it is how we approach situations that matters the most.
Be attracted to yourself, don't try, the rest will follow and you won't even need to think about it. It will happen
Sadia is cool, but she will never completely overcome her hot-girl bias. There are indeed men at the bottom of the pile that will never attract a woman.
Just blocked a single mother who I kinda started to like for no reason. She didn’t do shit and acted like shit. She probably think she won because I gave her power by blocking her. Idk but don’t give no fuk. I ain’t have no girl in my life who can’t act right. I should probebly have told her whats up but to be honest days are busy not worth put energi in it wen you know it ain’t gonna work out anyway. Felt like she had to much trauma to act right and have a good hearth. Stone cold.
👏🏼👏🏼
Her love meter is at 20% after all the experiences she had so why would you give 80% to a person that will give you less 😌🤷🏾♂️ ?
2 wrongs dont make a rt man. You cant keep arguing w/someone if you want it to stop going in circles, one has to be the BIGGER PERSON.
I am the first born of all creation.
She has not said anything about what do women need to do
gosh i love you sadia
Women LOVE HOT 🔥 GUYS!!!
Cap. But hot won’t keep women. Trust me. Girls will think of you as the hot guy but don’t got anything else have to work on all aspects
I still don't understand the whole being nice is a bad thing and never will but hey I am okay with that because their things in this world that will never make sense, and you just have to let it be
I have found in my life as a short guy that no matter what I do it will never be go enough for women or at least for the women who have gave me a chance
Its way better to be single than to be with a woman that neglects you, focus on yourself and be strong here 🧠 and here ❤️.
Every pot has its lid.
That flawed logic is ridiculous. A person, unfortunately, can be upset with the opposite sex due to their behavior towards them whether they let that unhealthy person into their lives or not. In fact, they may NOT have let unhealthy people of the opposite sex into their libes because they spotted the unhealthiness BEFORE doing so. 🤔🤔🤔
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Idc what they want
The babying mothering fussing is a turn off, unless you’re dealing with a BOY. Masculine MEN, are self-organised and are attracted to FEMININITY
I'm sorry but this is a huge red flag
Sadia
Exactly!
If you do something wrong, you'll get a slap on the ass!
One liked it too much and started doing it the other way around on purpose :D:D:D
Seriously...
So you slap each others's ass 🤣🤣🤣🤣 !
No, only me...
But this one is a HIT- she stood at the table, stuck her ass out, threw down the glass and said: "Punish me like you promised!" :D:D:D
Madness... ;)))
🤔🤔🤔
I can’t even follow what she’s saying. It seems like women talk? She’s talking but I don’t really hear anything I haven’t heard before.
Women have reached a point they aren’t even worth chasing. They are all so different that when a man like my self learns from the last date, the next woman is completely different.
Woman are at a point it’s so difficult to even go on a date with.
The last date; the woman said I was too nice… 😂 she doesn’t even know me; I was trying to be nice to her, but she likes being treated bad? It’s so confusing.
Yup, oh and she always expects you to pay doesn’t she. So you do, because you’re nice and then she says you’re too nice, so dumps you… but still expects you to pay.
Mixed messages.
It's sad that you according to women, you have to treat women like defiant children who need to be kept in their place. Most men want a partner, peace, and not have to police their significant other.
Yes. She’s a grown adult. Not an unruly child.
None of that computes to me.
Sadia wah gwan ,,? Yu nah come look fi me ina Jamaica,, me love enoh Sadie,, me wah love yu and treat nice,,,
Bet you this woman is Single. lols
I bet you’re right; but she has 3 men as friends… with benefits 🤣
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Get rich lol
You can’t follow the little head at all.
I created you so I can laugh at you.😅😅
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bruh
I’m so privileged being born with a 10 out of 10 body.
Not just attractive
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