Depressed People Look Like This!
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Hello Authentic Mental Health Community❤️ I’m sorry I haven’t posted in over 4 months apart from a few UA-cam shorts, I have been extremely depressed and struggling with my mental health, how are you ALL?
Same here Charlie
Same
Same, i hope this changes and we all find happiness.
I'm not good I have kinda like a sad/anger depth I'm depressed because of my brother he bullied me all the time and I get in trouble and my parents sway there trying to find someone to talk to but they haven't
Amongus
Some people are so alone and dead inside they cant fake smile this is where you know its over for them
me
Who really feels comfortable mounting pressure on person to "fake smile". Why do you need to force a person to display insincere emotion to you any way? Society (and the group it is led by) is very much to blame for the psychological abuses many try to cope with by showing they are coping (Showing some forms of delusion are socially acceptable and even expected).
Is it never reasonable that some people are aware of manipulation and are cautious of people who tantilise positive emotion out of you just to then plunge you into a negative emotion soon after, which sometimes even leads to humiliation. I usually find I don't have to fake smile around people with true positive intent.
Thats how i feel right now, its getting so hard to fake feeling well 😪
@@dramaqueenmiku6386 hey you okay? If you need to talk I’m here for you. You are valuable and worthy, and so you deserve to be surrounded by love and support. If you can, try getting the help you need, whether that be through therapy or someone you trust. I know it’s so hard, but there is always hope so don’t give up. And I also want you to know that God is there for you. He loves you so much, and sent His Son Jesus to die for you and rise up for you to have eternal life. He can help you with your burdens. I hope this helps and that you have a blessed day. Again, if you need to talk reach out and we can make something work
“He heals the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirit” Psalm 147:3
@@boogalooloo my heart goes out to you friend. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here for you. Sending you love and prayers, and remember that you’re not alone. God bless and God loves you so much. He’s there for you
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
John 3:16
I am happy with my friends but without distractions, I cry.
Your not the only one..but I'm never happy because I have no real friends
Distractions end, and the chaos descends once again. I've been clinically depressed since I've been 8, I felt this comment so much. Sending hugs 🫂
😢same
I don't even put up a fake smile around others anymore. Is it over?
No. May I invite you to Islam
Look, never say that it’s over. There is always hope for anyone in the darkness. As quoted from Romans 15:13 of the Bible, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Or also words from Deuteronomy 31:8, “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” Whether it is a friend, a family member, or the Lord God, you will always have some kind of hope through someone.
Islam is the only Solution
@@warner12139hello, i know you mean well (i’m a christian) but you can’t tell someone that a religion is the only solution. You can encourage them to look into it but some people just don’t want it forced on them and as a religious person we should respect that. People can find help with their mental health other ways than islam
@@livelaughloveleeknow.
First of all, I did not force Islam on him.
And secondly, Islam is really a true religion, I did not say anything wrong, if you really want to follow Jesus then come to Islam.
“Sadness is hidden behind a mask of happiness”
Sometimes a cashier that I see at the supermarket on the odd occasion, he usually asks me if I'm okay and I just wonder if he actually knows. Most people wouldn't bother to ask something like that, I don't know I just feel like he might see my sadness and I appreciate that he acknowledges me in just that small way.
Maybe he got experiences, maybe from some family members or friends
Come to islam then you will find peace🥰
Se people (including me) feel like such a failure or a burden to others, or even feel like their feelings are invalid, or they’ll be accused for wanting attention, will act happy around others so everyone else is happy. I am one of these people and people often call us “the happy friend” because we seem happy but on the inside we are dead and emotionless
I hope your doing better my fellow aroace!!!
@@camilahopper11 thx 😉
you are here for a purpose, I get it's hard but that is the beauty of life to get through difficulties, please bro just keep moving forward we are rooting for you and we care about you
ha you just answered the question I've been asking my whole life... funny
Why do I relate so much?
As a person with depression that is true no one believes I’m depressed because I don’t look like it or I smile and laugh all the time but I do I just don’t tell people cause o don’t want attention from 200000 people
Finally... Somebody that look like me.... A shitty people
Sometimes it makes me cry when someone asks me if I am ok
Yea same.. someone actually CARES abt me..
Sorry you're not ok. I care, because I go through it too. Wish there was something I could do to help us though. A kind and understanding word is all I can manage though.
@@saintejeannedarc9460im 18 i got no friends my family is abusing and dont care bout me i just want to die but i dont want to die like a coward by killing my self life sucks i must have done bad things in previous life that i got such life in present i dont even know why im telling u this :(
I cant cry anymore.
I'm depressed but nobody will ever know they look at me they like bro u so happy
Nah bro I do that to make others feel happy
Same brother😢
Well that’s nice of you but it’s a dangerous game. Try to find someone you can talk to
@@frozenyogurt_ you use tele gram bro?
Damn ain’t that the truth? 😔☕️
Relatable bro
The saddest part maybe most of people just don't even give a damn and that's what makes things worse
Speaking about it would be a start. Many don't, so what can you do.
@@htmoh8115Yes, voicing out to others is the simplest, hardest, and one of the most rewarding things you can do in depression. It gives you someone to speak to, along with a massive weight taken off your shoulders.
Yeah, I have to fake being happy for my parents and family. So they”ll be proud, and happy themselves.😢
I know putting on a happy face is hard, and you want to keep your parents happy. I know, because that’s what I did for two years. But if you keep it bottled up like that, keeping secret from everyone, it’ll only get worse and worse. Opening up to your parents, though it may be incredibly difficult, is the best option in your situation, as it was for me. It lifts a huge weight off your shoulders, having someone you can talk to and that you don’t need to keep secrets from. Depression is something that can’t be held back forever, so talking with someone can be very relieving.
The fact is that we put on a smile to help other people yet even tho we need help the amount of times I just put a fake smile on to help someone else
My mom needs to hear this it would help me a lot🥲
Same
My mom wouldn't believe i have depression "im so happy" in day time but at night(right now) is when it hits HARD
Im very good at hiding it sadly
Why are you depressed
@@khaled.344 I struggle with dealing issues through family and through my own issues. I also idk how to explain but life itself is boring. For a good year now I had an idea that once I become rich, I just spend money to see if it would make me happy. But I hear even rich people can be miserable. It’s like this. I know I can become almost anything in life as a job. But what else? I find life boring. I want motivation for something I love. But I can’t find it. I do find more peace in one option that I always had in mind. That is right after I become rich, I save all that money and give it to my family and then kill myself. So that way they can be taken care of while am gone. Because am so obsessed with becoming rich, my uncle always asks me “ always having money won’t always make you happy”. But I know that’s true but I never answer him. Why? Because I just want them to have money to take care of themselves while am dead. I hope it would help them get over my death, but chances are that may not be the case. Am just tired of having to deal with everyone’s issues it’s a pain. I just want to rest in peace is that too much to ask?😒 Living is just too much work
with depression you can still feel really really happy or normal, but there’s always this little sick pit feeling. and when ur not overly happy then you can feel the pit more and more. depression actually sucks
I feel just the same. When I’m excited about stuff, well, I’m excited. Otherwise, there’s always a part of me that feels empty.
@@AuroraTheTherian45same fully agreed
@@anikasrivastava3115 yeah
There's little bouts of 'happiness', but inside there's always that sick pit background/dark cloud. It's always there.
Exactly. Im like the class clown in my class. I'm always laughing. I always make others laugh. but only I know the truth
Don't forget the, depressed people can feel happy! And when you feel, you feel very happy
I’m depressed and I can really relate to this. Thank you
It's better to smile and laugh than explain what's killing you inside... It's just too much, so you brush it off and act like you're fine when you've never been "fine".
Bottling up your issues rather than expressing it ,in whatever way you feel is right, is such a depressing way of existing. I’m not trying to sound like an asshole but seriously.. it’s better to express yourself in a healthy manner.
Ive learned how to unshackle the things that were holding me back and I was able to move forward to better things. It’s all right there, you just need the inner desire to achieve whatever it is that you want, my friend.
Yeah, it's not like they'll understand, they'll think you're complicated or make fun of you. at least the people I'm around.
@@m_.gexactly man I wish I can give you hug you need one
May God help you like He helped me, allow Him to work with you through time please, only advice I’ll give. Bye, and please don’t give up, please
i always put on a smile around my friends even though i’m depressed
I hope you`re doing ok. It`s a horrible condition and more and more people are getting it. We just got to keep fighting on. :)
"Should i continue living on this world?" I thinks like this while sad but i keep smiling just to hiding my negative emotions but sometimes all the negative emotions was overloaded and i attacked some of my friend
I can laugh
I can smile
But sometime i think negative
Ik huil wanneer iemand zegt dat hij depressief is terwijl ik dat zelf ook ben, ik wou net nog opzoeken hoe je het minst pijnlijk kunt sterven maar heb in plaats daarvan een test gedaan. Volgens de test ben ik depressief…
groetjes , ik ken het gevoel
It's the thing that depression ≠ being depressed all the time. You can be suffering from depression but feel happy from time to time. Just because someone's been happy doesn't mean they don't have depression
Its like you don't want to hurt others and they wouldn't believe you because you are not acting sad but its like you are burning inside. When someone hurts you its hurts you more and more and its hard to keep up that fake act to hide you emotions.
Someone had said something along the lines of "what do you know you're always happy" to me. I don't know why that hurt me so much but it did. I knew damn i was going to go back to an empty dorm and cry myself to sleep because I had no friends to hang out with me. But i give off bubbly energy and Im very social so people are surprised when I say i have no friends.
I have a friend thats one year older than me and she thinks i dont mind anything and dont care about anyone but im dead inside
They don't realize that we smile on the out side when people are around in the inside we are depressed i can prove it im depressed
Look man, you shouldn’t have to prove that you’re depressed. And I’d some jerk comes along and tells you to prove it, just think of them as total a-holes, ignore them, and go about your day slightly more happy than before.
Thanks @potatoboi0114 your a good person god bless you
I'm a bit depressed and one of my friends eat happy pills and i asked for one (as a joke) but she said "you don't need any, your always happy"
I (13 M.) am just that one friend that everyone likes to chill around with, but innerly, im less alive that dead people themself. I recently have thought of suicide more than important things like school, family, friends... the only reasons im still here in this world are my closest friend and my gaming addiction. Hope that I'll get through these rough times.
I'm fake smiling so no one trys to help me but my depression and urge to kill myself has become too deep I'm fucking tired. Goodbye to the world 😂🤣💀
Same bro...
PLEASE DON’T!! Remember that there is someone who loves you no matter what’s going on in your life! And if you don’t think so, I highly encourage you to start a path with the Lord Jesus Christ! He is a loving, merciful, generous, almighty God who will be with you every step of your life, through every tragedy and sorrow, through all hardships, and through all the times that you may have suicidal intentions! His love is everlasting, and He has a plan for your life! So please, invite Him to your heart, believe in Him, and He will give you an eternal place in His heart and kingdom!
I came here to tell that I'm no longer on the suicide thing...I have recovered very much. Thanks to all the positive people I met.
@@ikramshahzad4067glad to hear❤
Hey are you still here, صاحبي :( 🤍🫂
Depressed people who have coped for a long time, especially without medication, dont show what theyre feeling. Theyre tough to heal too. The soul scars too.
I'm depressed and that is some of me but it's also me just trying to stay positive some days when its hard
fr like people assume i’m okay just by the fact i smile ;-; and they say i can’t possibly still be depressed even though im suffering
I feel like all people around me are all depressed
I always say to myself. "Wait to see what the life has to offer."
I have friends.
I feel like I have no reason to be like that..
I would go to school and be with my friends and have one bad thing happen and cry myself to sleep about it, thinking it was my fault. Sometimes even trying to strangle myslef
I put on my fake happiness face and attitude around people but I've had mdd since 11 and im 24 now but no one can tell im really struggling and in agony every day.
Facts
Saddest people smile the brightest
The most damaged people are the wisest
Been there, my 5 year relationship end, months later im losing my father bcause of stroke, becoming alcoholic, lonely and suicidal.
Now im doing well, married and have 2 little kids
You never know what is going inside somebody's mind no matter how fine they seem from the outside :) thats the saddest part
Finally someone who understands what I’m going through I tried to talk to someone about it but my friends think I’m faking depression bc I always laugh and smile but that’s only bc I don’t want people around me to feel think way too
Started suffering inside since a few years ago ill keep going like this i hate being emotional i wanna keep them to myself
I was diagnosed with very serious depression and anxiety with psychotic symptoms. I don't realize I was depression until I was diagnosed
Fake it make it
I fake to be happy at school but as soon as i step inside my home with no one there the depression switch turns on
IM SO TIRED OF IT ALWAYS HAVING A SMILE AROUND MY FRIEND GROUP😭
I can't enjoy anything...nothing feels exciting to me anymore....nothing feels fun anymore....i feel anxious all the time for no reason...
When i'm hanging out with my friends they do make me feel happy but in between i get those thoughts again and i don't want to talk to them about it because i don't want them to feel sad. But when i'm by myself it really hits me
I have moderate depression and can say it is not simply a part of me but rather it needs to be cured.
But my asperger syndrome is a part of me that doesnt need cure but rather support.
That’s me right there I’ve suffered for more than a year with depression I fake smile real smile and other things and I’m still social
Im so alone that people think that I have the best life ever, I cover all of my anxiety and depression by locking myself in my room whenbi get home from school. And when I'm at school I cover it up by being weird. 😞
I still can't believe that there are people who aren't depressed and totally dead inside....wish I could experience that.
May I invite you to Islam?
they always fake smile to hide their depressing and fake laugh bc all they think of is sad thoughs
I am totally fine not joking like totally ;D😞
Yeah, most of us have to do that so that people won’t worry too much about us, or give too much for us. Depression sucks, but what keeps me going is always know that, no matter what, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Whether you want to believe it or not, it’s true.
@@user-qs6sb7rg6i I am also depressed. I smile all day every day.😆😁😁
My friends make me laugh and say “see your not depressed, cut the act already.”
Exactly I can be nice to people even if I feel horrible.
I can't feel as much pain as I do right now
I am depressed too, but like at school I try to be social and I laugh and have fun but that doesn’t mean I’m not hurting on the inside
it's so over, im empty, i swear I've lost it.
My horses name is poobear
True i can only smile around the people i love and it is only a fake smile
I’m suffering with just pure depression for no reason
Dawg I don't wanna live but I don't wanna die it sucks 💀💀
Everyone refers to me as the happy one but inside I wish my life could end already so I don't have to be in any more pain
I can recognize a depressed person even if they are smiling.
This is what I have been doing the last 2 months acting happy,putting in a happy face,lying to ppl that I’m okay and so much more 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
i try to fake a smile and everyone bullies me everyday and it just makes it worse
The world is full of nice people, people who understand what you are going through. It is just to meet the right ones that support you and love you.
I took a PHQ-9 questionnaire and it says I likely have moderate depression… except.. I’ve always doubted it because I can smile, laugh, I CAN be happy. Just… I constantly break down at the end of the day and beat myself up over EVERYTHING I do wrong… so, this is kind of comforting, I guess. Still haven’t told my parents about the questionnaire results.
Probably like me you cry knowing no one will see you and always feel better after it but its just a never ending cycle.
@@user-gw3lp3lb1o yep… exactly
And because we can smile and be happy everyone thinks everything is ok
My face is just blank. My emotions are numb. I hate being outdoors due to severe social anxiety. Yesterday my fiancé had to stay home from work to help me take care of our daughter and to supervise me to make sure I’m safe. My daughter is with her aunt for the day and im just in bed pregnant 31 days left and I’m just not feeling well. Crying all the time. Holding on to something that belongs to my fiancé for comfort and crying into that object like a stuffed animal. Life has been way to hard. I’m trying so hard but I’m struggling emotionally.
My dad is making me depressed with hurtful words every day and am tired. He is making me feel like am the worse child in the world .😭
It’s me, 25 years over several depression, and who doesnt know me, tells that I don’t look depressed.
True 💔 I fake all my smiles
i just got cheated on and i feel like love is what makes me motivated to do anything, im struggling with. job, stability, happiness etc, i need a girl to find me the right path since my last one led me on.
I’m so depressed rn my mom took me out of school and I’m a social person and started doing homeschool and all I do is stay at home I don’t have any friends and all I do is stay in my room they constantly make me do chores and all I do is get yelled at the only time I go somewhere is to the store
I pretend to be happy every day at school, smile and laugh (some of it is real) but when i get home, everyday i just lay on my bed and cry
Empty smiles and laughters
I’ve had a falling out with a friend (or best friend) over drama that has happened. I was invited over to a friend’s get together that wasn’t on good terms with my other friend. I didn’t have a problem with her like me other friend did but my other friend didn’t see it like that. She started texting me saying I was being petty and fake to her which hurt me because I wasn’t ever expecting this from her. Fast forward later I had a big falling out. My other friends aren’t hanging out with me really anymore and it’s like I’m being left. I’ve had suicidal thoughts and I’ve self harmed a little bit. I don’t know what to do
Told my friend I have Major Depressive Disorder and he replied "you have no depression" :/
I'm actually crying right now for no reason 😭
The eye is the window of their soul
As someone who is depressed some of us hide how we are feeling
A smile can hide much more pain than tears can reveal
i have depression and people still dont understand that when im in stress and fake smiling / laughing and doing like nothing happens, i eont have depression and just being pick me… hey guys whats up with yall? we are just trying to fake all so nobody cares about us
I feel very depressing right now...
It's so true when I'm alone I'm really sad but when I'm with people I act normal cause why not
Yeah that’s me in school… but everyone knows now in school because I had a panic attack
Some like me just hide their depression well
The sunsets might be beautiful, but my heart is in darkness
True, people have just got this wrong mentality these days, when they see some new person and when they meet them, they just judge them too quickly, end the stigma, ...
I'm depressed but no one knows because I wear a fake smile Infront of people everyday
Yes, I have depression I get it often, I swear, im on my last string with life Im totally dead inside so alone the only thing that keeps me going is my bestfriend shes always there for me no matter what I hate this feeling this is most relatable.. 💔😭
Thank you so much for speaking up about depression. It is very exhausting to experience. What are some things you guys do that helps your depression? I sing and play guitar. Recently started working out today. Was out of breath and part of that was anxiety. Got through it and did feel some benefit. I was more motivated to practice music.
I always put on a smiley face in front of everyone, I act so perfectly even I myself cant lfigure out if I’m not depressed sometime
Bro I’ve been depressed stressed anxious for like 2 years no one knows no one will ever know
This is true ive been thru this i strugeled alot when i cake to this country and my life changed
NOT ME READING IT AS “end the sigma” HELP😭🤚
One of the old intros
I have severe depression and need people to help me through it. I only have 1 friend left that’s pulling through with me please help.
I’m depressed on the inside not outside
Reality is everyone is depressed, some better at hiding it then others. Ive been trying to help a coworker but at the same time i go to sleep thinking of suicide and its the first thought i have in the morning. I cant remember them telling me am i ok.