FilterCopy | A Story About Depression
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- Опубліковано 4 січ 2020
- It is okay if you don't always feel positive ❤️
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Hey guys, It is okay if you don't always feel positive ❤️
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Ok ok
Hiiii
Niceeee
Depression is something that lets me get disconnect from everyone....😔
Hloo
"Depression's like you don't want to die but you don't want to exist ".
Depression is like a mind trying to kill itself and a body which tries to survive
Thats very well put👍🏽
Exactly
Accurate statement!!
True. Suffering with it
The one who tries making everyone happy ends up the loneliest
I see ur a HARRY POTTER fan
Wow. I'm Potterhead too
Soo true
Truee
So do I
Yeah true I have experienced it
It hit you hard when you don't have anyone in life to talk about, when we don't have friends to whom you can share your emotions. Crying is the only option left to feel better.
Crying is for women and children not real men
@@indiantechbro And this society stereotype makes man more depressed
@@indiantechbrotrue man😔
@@Question5541 😢
Dude Tera ig ya mujhe no dede, baat karenge 🤜
The mom's voice made me tear up. That is the most comforting voice on the Earth for every child.
Hy any help
Sometimes its not💔
can you stop please .... moms are just so overrated , its not like she can fix every fucking thing ... and specialy not when they are the one causing it ... i am here seeing this vedio because of her only becouse of all the mental and physical abuse she does to me
But for me it's most terrible voice 😢😢😢unfortunately... Because no one has hurt me tooo much... As my mom did
@@afreenkhan9093I'm so sorry to hear that my friend... I hope you find your escape
Most realistic presentation of depression. Doing everyday chores, making everyone else happy, pretending to be fine and crying alone on the bed 😨😨😨😨 gave me goosebumps.
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@@arunadevimuruganandan9752 well same happened with me too that's why I pointed out it being realistic
this is just my story
@avika shukla, everyone's vid same story, depression is getting worse...
Happening to me for a long time
I love how in the beginning they made it look like his roommate is the one who's depressed but actually it was him, the cheerful guy
I was about to say that
Yes NNNN
Yeah
Spoil kar diya be
@@ataharmahmood4128 😂
I cried like anything after watching this video ..i can relate to each and every scene of this video. I'm going through a very depressing phase in my life right now.and can't even share with anyone. Don't know how to get out of this. I searched for "how to get out of depression" on UA-cam and got this video in suggestions. Dropping this comment so that someday when I'll be fine .. I'll be happy . someone will like this comment and I'll get a reminder how i struggled hard to get out of this phase. How i changed my life. I hope I'll be fine soon.
Everything will be fine, don't you worry.
You are a very brave person. It takes a lot to embrace truth and accept things and carry on with life. Your belief in positivity and things getting good and fine one day itself is a huge sign of your mental strength. There must have been something really bad that brought menace in your life. I pray for you dear that good days come soon in your life and whatever's hurting you stops. Once it's over, you'll come out as an even stronger woman and be proud of yourself. May God bless you and may you find strength to face all your troubles and may they go away soon. ♥️😊
Tough times don't last, tough people do.
More power to you.
@@Unknownpredict i can talk you if you want ....please believe in god and not blame yourself for this phase....i can help you
@@atharvakhandelwal i can talk you if you want.......i can help
People don't ask for help because they think other won't understand them or make fun of them or ignore them.
@Shivika Garg True 😖😔
Ryt
@Shivika Garg can we just talk 🥺
@Shivika Garg doremon aur nobita ki profile
@@lily88581 it's okay you will get through this you're not alone this same happens with me ... I can't focus on my studies either and i am so worried that if i won't be able to ace my exams what am i gonna do to myself idk
It's frustrating when you see someone who is just sad but easily says that she/he is depressed while you've been hiding your depression for 5 years due to fear of being misunderstood and judged wrong.
Oi 5 years??😯😯
@@raunaknayak8083 Yup. :"(
@@likitadevi sad yrr😅😅
Relatable 😑
@@wabisabi2246 Hope, your life gets better. 👍
I am jealous that he can call his mom. I cry by myself and heal by myself.
Same here.
Same
Mai bhi ..😢
I was dealing with same thing I hadn't meet my family for year i was in hostel but one day i talking to my mom and start crying that i want to come home but my mom said your exam in months how can you come here that was worst feeling why did I tell her ,I know parents never want to hurt their child but they should understand that we are not making excuses
Anyone can take up that role for him it was his mom, for you it might be a friend, teacher or a professional. It'll be okay soon it will
I immediately bursted into tears the second he said"bohot khali khali sa lagraha he"..so relatable specially for us 25-30s young yet old ones..we r expected to be robots..
Private job is like this
Exactly
Myth:Talk to people you will feel relieved
Reality: People will listen to your problems and then backstab you whenever they feel.
Perfect explanation of reality
Yes, this is another major problem.
What if we don't have anyone to talk? No friends, no family who could understand no one? That's where the problem comes dude, when you have no one who you could trust with your secrets, problems, emotions basically your whole life....!!!!
Agreed....
This is the exact bitter truth of today.
The most courageous decision we could ever make in our lives is to start believing in ourselves and not rely on others even in the most difficult situations.
Very true bro. The world is like that
Same experience for me
From "crying loudly to seek attention" to "crying silently to avoid attention" we grew up
This is the epic part of what you have commented
WOW
Right
Same
So true
*3 main reason of Depression*
1. Parents
2. love
3. responsibility
@@NOTHING-lm7mzek aur add karlo High expectations from children
@@Du.....249 yeah that is 1 option
@@shubhamsinha5324good analysis.👏
in laws 😭
Career
It's hard when you are fighting battles that no one knows.....
Just wow
I suffered the borderline disorder for over 23 years.
With so much anxiety Not until I came across psilocybin mushrooms treatmentPsilocybin treatment actually saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean.
Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms
Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episodeenough to start working on my mental health
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
The shroom experience stands as my most remarkable journey, an awe-inspiring encounter that left an indelible mark of amazement.
Is he on instagram?
*"Having depression is like being colour blind and being told how colourful the world is"*
ouch...that hit me hard
i relate on so many levels
I wish I was never born
Me who is depressed and colourblind :😔
Army 💜💜💜
depression: i want to die
anxiety: what if i die
Bhai you just spoke my mind
M bhut confused hu🥺or prsn bhi mere life m kuch problem hui thi mere sath or m har roj prsn hu ki khi bhi esa dobara ho gya to😭 ab to mujhe koi happiness kisi chiz ka mn nhi krta negative thoughts chlte rhte h or bss lgta zindagi jldi khtm ho jaye😔pr yr koi nhi smjtta how I am feel 🥺
And to make it even worse, they both attack you at the same time and that's when you reach the peak point of depression.
@@PRINCE__2.0__ or kya pta apko ki Kon kis drd se guzar rha h bro sbko esa hi lgta h hm hi takleef m h pr esa nhi h or bhi bhut log h ese
@@walterwhite4699 Watch only happy stories. Ultimately it is all about what you feed your mind. Reduce negative thoughts. Your breath is directly related to the brain causing negative thoughts and anxiety For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes or more. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. Deep inhalation is not needed. Whenever you are free during the day or night before sleep sit or lie down still and observe your breath. Being still reduces negative thoughts. Do the above practice daily to have a good life. Best wishes and prayers. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
What hurts more than sharing was the part where they know everything and they leave us alone in the dark
And it hurts even more When The one person that you believe in most leaves you alone...
very true
when I was around 17... I almost forgot what happiness even was. My school grades were gradually dropping by every tests and teachers themselves were fed up to the point that they began targeting me with most cruel taunts in front of the whole class which was extremely humiliating. For a long time, I didn't have friends or the group I used to hang out with, were too toxic. I remember how I used to come home, go straight to my mom and cry about how these 'friends' verbally abused me. So because of having zero friends, I normally used to like...stay hidden. And being the quiet kid kinda helped me to stay hidden.
But the toxicity at school... from both teachers and 'friends' began to crawl it's way to my home. and because of that, my own parents stopped talking to me because at that time they were quite certain that it's me who's at fault. Since I didn't have any friends or a sibling (I'm a single child) or cousins who were to proud of themselves to even talk to me because some of them are toppers while my grades were dropping or even any internet friends (i didn't have a phone in school) so I didn't know how to cope up with so much of sadness all at once. And that's when I learned that physical pain is a better distraction which made me harm myself in any ways I could find. Screwing out blades from my sharpener only to cut my arms and thighs violently so that I could be distracted from the mental pain. Because of being a single child, my parents were (and still are) overprotective and hence they didnt even let me go to the nearest park-alone. So my own house felt like prison.
I couldn't share this with anyone that how exhausted I was and how I wanted someone to be there and listen to everything I had to say. I began questioning my very existence. I thought, fuck others, my own parents aren't there for me to notice dried blood on my sleeves and swollen red eyes. All this made me attempt suicide twice.
I remember when my parents finally noticed my weird behavior and realized that something was not right... they came up to me and apologized for being absent when I needed them the most. Specially my dad, he then cried with me and hugged me.
fast forward. Now I'm 21. I go to clg. and have like 2 best friends. Which is tbh, more than enough. And now I'm kinda happy.
so if there's anyone out there, battling depression... please please please don't make mistakes like self harm or suicide like I did. You are worthy of everything. You deserve more love and happiness than you can possibly imagine. It's not easy to fight depression ik but please seek some professional's help... There was a time I hated to see myself in the mirror but now I love myself... and please know that I love all of you too❤ because y'all are some brave souls.
Im sorry for all that you've been through but I'm also somehow going through the same ..i hope you have a better and brighter future all the best🍀🧡✨
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@@blurry1467 please hang in there... a lot of good things will come your way soon, I promise. All these situations are nothing but tests to learn the fact that both extreme sadness and extreme happiness are part of our daily life. With an absence of any two factors won't make us 'human'. It took me 2 years to understand this after which I finally decided to do simple and basic things that makes me happy to heal myself...(e.g drawing). So don't worry. And I hope you have brighter and cheerful future too. 🌸✨
Thanks for sharing. It somehow gives me hope that everything is going to be fine. Take love. ❤
@@subhadeeppaul4457 Yesss everything will be okay❤
Sleep isn't just sleep anymore,
it's just an escape.
Problem is people with depression have hard time sleeping.
More like a luxury
@@kanaksikarwar223 Not really..it works both ways! For e.g. Sometimes I sleep for 14-15 hrs straight and sometimes hardly 4-5 hrs.
Hey dude 🤚
cant relate to anything more than this
The fact that everyone in his surroundings think he's sorted and happy in his life is 1000% relatable
Right
That's the danger of living in the most unsorted world 😰😨
That always happens. No one can ever realize what you are really going through 😔
Exactly
He was trying to be perfect and hide his real emotions and that's where depression starts
When he said"Mummy, I think I need help" and mother said " me aati hon beta" it really hit hard
Some face depression but doesn't have mother to tell, I remember my depression used to disappear when I spoke to her but now I don't have my mother anymore 😭
I feel sorry for u
All are not lucky
Depression is like living in a body that tries to survive over a mind that tries to die
Mom i am famous😊
Physically surviving but mentally dead
Need Yoga to do.. It will help a lot..
@@surajsinghrawat4550and what to do when u lose ur fav person and cuz of that suffering from depression . In that case I don't think so yoga will help
God damn. ....but you're right
True
Depress people encourages others because they know how it feels when left alone .
Edit : Thanks for the likes but I don't feel good seeing so many people can relate with this fact deeply signifying that many are undergoing depression and feeling loneliness so please try to pour out your feelings to someone who can respect them .
I encourage others but I don't want to be depressed 😞
Exactly
No one can understand the feelings of a person when he/se left alone.......
No, they encourage others..n pretend others that all is well
Sooo True
the scary part is you dont know why you are feeling empty despite of having everything. still unable to figure out
True.😔
May be spiritual emptiness and not able to.understand why we are here to live?
Because you ain't getting a life
@Sribas Chowdhary I referred to doing what you love in your free time. Thanks for replying 😊
That's it. That's the problem
Every minute and second of this video are so relatable to my life......but my worst part of depression is that i can't even cry💔
You are not alone💔
Same bhai
i know like i wasnt what you would call a sensitive person so when I went into depression then everything was difficult, I was counting seconds to pass at one point and always restless and scared and was not able to eat shit, eventually I started having panic attacks and it had gotten so miserable for me but I don't know, wasn't able to cry this went on to about 3 months
As I read about on internet I started changing myself and bettering myself
then one day I finally opened up to my mother but even then not really got better but one day suddenly I felt crying and sniffing and shit then talked to father and mother and I don't know I bawled my eyes out and it took me an hour to calm after that, little by little color came back to my world and became content with life
people try to be happy all the time but makes them more anxious in the long run, in my opinion try to be content with yourself and connect with others and not think about yourself as the worst and you're not as miserable as you think you are
while your parents might not help try to reach out to others who would understand you, if not that too go to a professional help then and its not a quick fix people fight with their whole life so be patient and hope for the best
Relatable 💯
Depression is the most dangerous feeling a person could ever endure.. . I'm still surviving.. 😊
Yeah let's hold on a little bit more😊
The most difficult thing about depression is that we ourselves dont know that we are depressed or not.
I can feel your emotions
Same
I can relate......... maybe too much....
No.. it's like we don't know why we are depressed..
Actually it's true
The one's who are depressed are the ones who try to make everyone happy...
Very true
@@kvstudentsparsh5949 👍🙃
Even class clowns?
@@evanaj9526 especially them
@@evanaj9526 you are free to think what you want 👍🙂....just wrote what I felt
The worst parts about depression are the sudden panic attacks, anxiety attacks, the sudden urge to cry your heart out without anyone knowing about, not having anyone to seek help from, the one minute source of hope and the next minute you feel all empty again.. hopelessness fills you up..
The way he was calming himself by stroking on his head in the end, it was showing that how much lonely he feels and needy of help
And no one is there for him
But he asked help to his mother that matters ❤
Let's take a moment to appreciate his acting..
Creep
@@deveshkhandelwal4084 you are not acting in this video ...
@@deveshkhandelwal4084 huh?
WTF...it's acting or did you think he's actually depressed?
Yes especially that crying scene at the end that was so natural and pure... 👌👌👌
Plot twist: there were secret cams everywhere ⚡⚡
Real depression starts when you start hating things you love the most
But it's not the only indication. It can be due to lack of interest or motivation as we grew. So, don't think because of this you are really in depression. It's just a sign. Try to find out whether you really is in depression or just sad or not interested. Good luck🍀🍀
Please help 🙏🙏
@@shourya9321 ??
@@soumyasukumaran6066 i am depressed
I think so like in this video
@@shourya9321 😱
Asking for help is the bravest thing you can do...
But what if your family members and friends don't understand you even after telling you aren’t feeling okay. 🙂
Every family members & friends mentality isn’t same. And that's the main reason of our depression.
But what if you are depressed because of them...
Why TF its so relatable to me ...from cheering up others to liking to scribble on notebook and ignoring messages and having that empty feeling all the time ....... everything!! I remember i used to do everything i could to make this feeling of emptiness go away ......but I'm glad I don't do it now ... A stranger in my class noticed it and he helped me alot and i didn't even know myself that i was depressed but he knew it ..and he helped me without me knowing he was helping me .....maybe we just need a friend jo humari care kare aur hume bhaad me jaye duniya i am the best" wala confidence aur attitude laake de ...and i just realised it just now ki that feeling of emptiness is gone!! ❤️✨
Yaa are you still feeling same , same here it's 1.5 year
The way he acted to be normal was astonishing exactly the way depressed people do
akash koppineedi Read Bhagwad Geeta as it is ... written by Prabhupad & you will never feel alone or depressed in life.
@@meenamajumdar6300 thanks for the suggestion hope it may help everyone who has read this comment
akash koppineedi Zindagi ka asli maza toh journey me h, goal attain krne me nhi. Journey which should be a balanced mixture of happiness and sorrow. You will feel depressed in both the situations - extreme happiness and extreme sorrow.
@@meenamajumdar6300 yes I agree with you
Timecode anyone
I noticed one thing, depressed person never show their feelings.
Yes, because generally, friends or family are not able to comprehend the actual severity of the emotions going on inside the brain. They will brush it off as stress or negativity. Stress is short-term but feeling of depression persists always.
Yes, people can't understand
Dats true
Some people don't share their problems to anyone.
They just pretend that they are happy in life
@@143_83 .
Share ur feelings and problems with ur parents and ur close friends.
One of my classmate attempted suicide yesterday , we were supposed to have physics exam of pre board 2 today but exams got postponed because of his action . I'm really shattered by his action. May his soul rest in peace. May god give strength to his family to bear this great loss. Want everyone to pray for him and his family.
Just shared my thoughts cz my brain is flooding with lots of various thoughts about him. Not able to stop myself from thinking about all these incident.
Ofcourse I have had heard about many suicidal cases but those were the cases of unknown person or even if I know them ( SSR ) I have never met them in person, so it has not effected me much in my past but..but he was one of my classmate, we attended classes together between the four walls of the classroom. It's so heart breaking for me. I'm not able to come over this. It's so shocking!
One thing which constantly occurs in depression ,ur heart starts to feel heavy, it feels like something is broken inside, , ur heart palpitates faster, u want to cry out loud but u can’t, it’s culmination of all things at once, and u can’t even ask for help , there is no exact reason for depression it just happens and u won’t even realize, ur heart is Empty but ur mind is full
Not having anyone to call for help is the most excruciating part of depression
Hmm shi kaha
🥺🥺🥺
And that's the part when someone wanna suicide
I really want to do something..to start something to help such people..cis I knw how painful it is.
@@alpha_century01 👍👍👍
I have always been an introvert, outcast, anxious kid. But this comment section is the friendliest place I have ever been.
Hey. I don't know if this makes you feel any better, but there are people who would always be there to hear you out. If you feel like doing so even now, please do let me know. For that matter, this is for everyone who needs to hear it
Wish I had more people like you around me.Wont give up easily though. We live to fight another day✌✌✌
@@l3cl3r3c2yeah . More power to you !
@@ruchirahire9695 some people listen but they don't do anything about it
Even the closed one's😔
@@ashuashu8401 that's really horrible 😓 I really hope nobody goes through this !
The worst part of this feeling is when you don’t understand what is going on with you but you still need answers and looking for those answers makes you even more stressful! It’s funny how we understand when someone is going through a tough phase and we respect them but it’s not the same when we treat ourselves! This thing drives everyone crazy! 😢
Usss how do you feel rn idek if you'd reply but ur words touched me
When he said mummy while crying that too being a grown up man... It melted my heart... Mom is ❤
i miss my mom very much
The worst part about depression is you don't even know what makes u happy anymore 😕
Yeah well said bro
True
Yes!
True
So true 😞
people suffering from depression are the best advice givers.
And feeling like killing himself/ herself
And also anxious bout future
Cause they've it all!!!
10:02 the hug I expect from my crush but meanwhile you're from Bombay & you can't date her cause you look ugly, you don't get her attention but hatred😓
yes
the way i had tears rolling down my cheeks when he started crying. i felt that. the poeple who DONT "act" depressed are the ones who need help...not the ones ranting everywhere on social media and stories saying "im depressed". Its the people who try to make you laugh and comfort you that are actually depressed. They need you please be with them.
I am crying while writing this.
I have been suffering from Panic attacks, Anxiety disorder and depression since 1.5 year. Currently I am a student in Paris and it's so difficult for me to deal with it in my daily life because I am alone and away from my family but this happened to me when I was in India so it is not homesickness.
It's not only about feeling bad from your current life but it's also about dealing with the current problems which will impact your future, I have to retake my semester because my teammates in my university are compliant about me to the professor that I am not contributing enough to the group assignments ( they were not totally wrong actually) but the purpose for me to share this is that it's not only about our past and present but it will seriously impact our future. Whenever I get panic attacks and I find myself alone in a place which is 8000 Kms away from my home and this thought creeps me out.
It's difficult but I think this is life. Soon or later I'll overcome this. I BELIEVE.
It took me a lot of courage to type my thoughts . I wish I could record my voice here!
Dude you're fighting
Some people didn't even try, they just live with that problem, depression, failure etc..
Fight until you win against it💪
@@nisy0.0 thank you so much for your kind wishes.
bro i am also suffering from panic attacks i feel like dying but i am trying to be strong hope we become normal
@@saivishwanath2809 I feel the same but believe in yourself, the time shall pass don't worry
@@suhelsiddiqui3219 hey bro if you need someone to talk ping .. i have been dealing with it job loss some personal things and it has shattered me from my core. Just ping me we can talk:)
Feeling lonely in spite of being surrounded by a lot of people, is the most scary feeling. Thank you Filtercopy.
So true
Yeh u r r8
Very true story
I am facing it buddy..!
I'm too facing this..
In fact being surrounded by your frnds.. Who really only exist when they need you.. Not you need them😞
"When you have a mental illness, every single day is a battle. It's like you know how to swim, yet you're drowning but you don't die."
Daniel Fernandes
Very true 😢😢. .
Nanu Lamba You are not alone.
I don't how to deal with it
Depression is the thing that can't be ignored, face it untill you get to rid off and always remember time heals everything.
that's the thing, you don't die. That's where the suffering starts but never ends. The pain comes but never leaves.
The worst part in depression is they don't even have the space to cry over the things they have lost,they would pretend like they have no problem and so their closed ones don't even have the slightest idea about their depression and they starts to bombard their problem to the depressed soul without even realising that they already have enough to deal with
The fact of not able to tell anyone not even your parents hits deep.
Ryt😔😔😔
Cheering everyone around when u need it the most is the worst😭
Join the conversation on Hangouts: hangouts.google.com/group/2bS8W2h11DvBdAmcA
Join the group Shivani, r u already in?
@@pankhurinigam5619 yes
Exactly
@@shivanireddy8761 u are still in the group?
The actor guy was actually able to enact the depression phase so well that i guess everyone can connect to it...
Oo oii TJX k{bvvbhj+j egg h h h egg u h j'vbbvvv:
Ya brooo🥺😣
Apoorva Singh Ya bro this actually made me cry.. 😥
can anyone talk to me im feeling lonely
@@akheelasifkhan4722 yeah bro
Just because someone is smiling doesn't mean they are happy
This just hits so hard , and the fact i can't reach to anyone to seek help is even more frustrating cause if i tell they'll blame me again, at this point It's just numbness i feel, past traumatized me, future scares me, i don't wanna live like this but this endless loop just never ends, it's like wanting to go home even tho you are at home....i really hope whoever suffering from depression gets treated and can have a better life 💜
Today in my school when I was laughing at a joke, my seatmate asked me 'is that your depression, laughing,smiling,joking around' as i once told her that I have depression and I was speechless. Some people think that depression is all about crying and lying on your bed all day but in reality most of the cheerful people are depressed and no one thinks about it. Glad to see these many understanding people in the comment section.
Hope your okay tho...and don't listen to them . Only u know what ur going through so no one can and should judge. Pls take care ...❤️
@@alaksssss thank u for your comforting words. I also wish you to be happy and healthy. ❤
@@jihyoo00 😊🥰
Something similar happened to me. I was 19 and I talked about my depression to a friend of mine ,suddenly she asked me 'you are just 19. how can a person with this age get depression?'. I was like why I said this to her
It can relate because the same thing happened with me once..That kinda hurt when someone says that you're faking depression
Losing interest in everything despite being connected to everything is called depression 😔
True
@@mehh17 Hmm
Wise words bro
I'm ur 200 th like...and i really need help now....bt all alone here....
True😣
You are still Lucky to have mom or someone with whom u can share.... kuch aise v hote hai jinko koi sunne wale bhi nhi hote hai.😢😢 (Aur upar wala v andha, behhere ho jate hai).
Ryt😔
This actually just explains how I feel. At most moments, I feel the happiest, hanging out with my friends, talking normally with my family and just feeling okay in general, but then I get these striking moments where I feel empty, sad, like everyone in the world is against me, like the whole world is against me and I can't do anything but cry or hide what I'm feeling and this sometimes never even goes away, I always thought being depressed was feeling low and sad every day and thought that what I was feeling was not even depression but just some random moments of sadness, but this video helped me understand that my feelings are validated and I'm not alone who feels like this. Thank you so much for this story, It feels like people actually recognize this kind of feeling, and the comment section makes me feel better about myself.
Some people dont share because they dont want their parents to be worried.. my love and support to all those people who are fighting depression ❤
Hmm I was thinking the same, while he was calling his mom, and I saw your comment, I have only mom my father was passed away 2 years ago, so I don't want to make her worried but yes I cannot even speak to her as before. If we have good friends to share our problems then we will be happy.. 🙄
Yes having friends who you can trust helps a lot during such times.. during my bad days i was lucky to have friends who lifted me up.. will do the same when they need it.. spread love ❤
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hmm yes, you are right 😢
This brought tears to my eyes, so many people are going through this, yet tries to act normal because people might consider them attention seeker.
Not attention seeker but maybe they don't have any best friend to hangout with to share talks and to do fun.
@@thesanketsingh I completely understand your point but what I am trying to say is that if someone is trying to reach out for help, others consider them as attention seeker which is completely wrong and it demotivates people to talk about depression.
True
Literally started to cry😭 after seeing this..this 12 min video has described the situation in which I'm going through & at last the way he called his mom & said that he is feeling empty , the way he was crying 🥺😭😭...completely relatable 🙃
Literally i felt every moment shown in this... Inorder not to get others worried we act super cool chill... But how much we left alone all through journey no one cares to understand..when we need someone badly no one will be there but for them we will be there..!!
Yes we need to 😊
The person who wrote this, I'm sure has been through depression. People who have never been through it, can never understand what it's really like.
Truly, no one's gonna know.
They are very lucky.I m still stuck in it from four years
@@bingewatcher4678 The very first step to get out of it is to decide all by yourself that YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF IT. It sounds easy but it's not actually, but once you take that first step, your determination will help you take the rest steps correctly. First watch as many videos as you can regarding Depression and gather as much information as you can. Gathering knowledge about it has helped me to take the right steps and get out of it. I hope it will help you too.
@@ankita252454 Actually the anxiety of it doesn't let me get out of it as it physically effects me but still I will try thanks for your suggestion
Antara Sarkar I agree
This made me cry. I remembered those times.. I called my mother like this, but as soon as I teared up, I disconnected the phone and cried alone by myself, unable to sleep for I didn't want to make her worried. I knew my father wouldn't understand, my mother would just be sorry for me and cry for me, stressing about me. I didn't want to worry anyone and kept going on by myself. Self harm was an escape, cuz I didn't drink or had no other addictions. Listening to music made me cry or go in fits of anguish.. that was my only release. I attempted suicide numerous times throughout the 5-6 yrs that I was depressed. I was just 16 when I had my first bout of depression and shut my door and rambled to myself to hours, shutting everyone off.
Now I'm 22. Last year was the time I finally started healing myself. Just like this guy, I always looked after everyone, made sure they were okay cuz deep down I didn't want them to go through the shit I was. I smiled and faked a laugh just to sound okay.. but 2019 was a wake up call for me. After loosing everything, being on the verge of every end imaginable, I got up and fought back.. and this time, not by cutting my arms or locking myself up. But by actually expressing myself. I talked to others, I let them know what I was going through. As I expected, most people didn't understand, but at least it made me open up more. I left that college where I was studying in cuz the environment made me feel sick and tired. I took a leap of faith, for the first time not caring about what others would think or say. I started to look myself in the mirror and said out loud that "I love myself, I will fight this back, I am powerful, I can do this!"
And now, 11 months later. I'm way better in life. Nope, everything is not sorted out, people around me are still the same. But what has changed is the way I see life. I no more see it as a burden, but an opportunity.
To anyone going through this,God bless you. Please speak up. Don't let this take over you. You're loved and are important. You too have a special purpose in this lifetime.. please look forward to life, it's not gonna be bad forever. Please, please trust in This. :)
Bro, even I'm the same age as you. Currently, pursuing final year in B. Tech (which will get extended to 9 semesters coz I failed to managed clearing my 5th sem and 7th sem backlog). Depression hit me when I was in 2nd semester itself but now it has reached its peaks. I'm sorry if I'm using my academic failures as a reason for my depression but I haven't been as "really" cheered up just like the guy portraying the told of a depressed individual. My mind is blocked. Nothing fascinates me anymore (conversating with anyone, using any social media, going out or learning something new). Rather I've confined myself to my bed and don't prefer to wake up at all (present scenario). I doubt why am I still alive when so many deaths are occurring all over the world.
@@prize5ighter there must be a reason to your existence, it's only matter of time till you find it. Just hang in there buddy.. I know it's hard but still, be patient a little more, you have come so far, so don't stop now. Life will get better. I send you my best wishes.
Bro i think colleges are the biggest reason for depression..i am so fucked up in amity noida..its my first year..i dont have any friends..lonely and nobody cares..i left my home town for a better future and look where i am..i dont want to die but it feels like everything is breaking apart..
Umm how did you get through your depression?? (Sorry to ask but are you an army??)
Armyyy I purple u💜💜💜
the thing said at the last ....true words man......everybody who isnt feeling good just be calm and remeber that one day evrything is gonna be just fine...there is no need to feel sorry and as filtercopy said it is okay if you dont always feel positive☺
they way I could see myself in him, the last crying part made me tear up that's so relatable
And when he said , "I feel so empty"
Every second was so relatable
Its ok
Bohat Khali Khali sa lgta hai!
are you ok ? we can talk
@@viveksehgal8502 from where?
😔😔
The fact that you can open up about depression to people online and not to people at home is so weird
I'm glad people in the comments are so supportive mostly
So true
True 💜
Soo true
True, cuz in real life, people will tell you to "man up" "what's this new thing? we didn't have it in our time" and other non sensical things. Poeple online, most of them are understanding and are in similar situations- hence it's easier to open up about this online
Depression is normal. We all go through it. The strange part is, we don't know it is called as depression. Sharing things help ,share with people how is your life, whatever small thing you did to make yourself Better. 😇
Depression is just like "har hasta huya chehra khush nahi hota"
The feelings are same.
The days are getting worst.
Just out of mind.
Distracted as always.
Headache always.
Scared of everything.
Motivating others and feeling empty
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Depression isn't something called crying endlessly in dark room. Depression is like doing all your daily work, going to school /office, hanging out with friends, having arguments , Laughing with family ,, doing each and everything which a Normal person does WHILE FEELING EMPTY INSIDE.
You just are disconnected and everything seems to be in third person, for me it has been confusing to say the least
Even in this video ladke ke pass uski maa to thi sunne ko
@@dreamcatcher7110 touched by lines , I had been there and felt same with tears case.
So, am I depressed
@@shrutimishra6878 you gotta be a bit more specific
When you're a super introvert, you don't have friends to tell anything. Even if you do, you just can't let them know due to some unknown hesitation and fear. All you can do is...Cry. Alone.
Am not an introvert, I do have way too many friends but It's just that I have no one to share it with. Everyone will judge me.
That's the thing I'm doing tonight
It's way better than having friends who will not understand all they can say is drama kyu krrhi h yarr
Same😭
So true😊
My entire life was summed up in 12 min through this video
The most shocking part is that the sufferer is “all good & okay” in front of everyone… Real story starts when he’s alone all by himself at night☹️
The only thing more exhausting than being depressed is pretending that you’re not🙂🙂🙂
Very true
True
True
This Video is probably one of the best videos on internet. Emotional,advisory,helpful,beautiful,relatable and what not !
Kudos to all the people who are battling with depression and the ones who r still fighting... I know it's feels like hell but i have the faith in you... No matter how many times you feel broken but u are stronger than u think.. you survived for so long ,just a little more to go💖🫂
Filter copy... After a long time i finallyyy liked a video over this topic.. 🔥Thankyou for this ...
When a depressed person cries what comes is emotions not tears.
Correct
So true yaar
Yes I just cried.
Or just emptiness
It is easier to say "I'm okay" to people than explaining yourself that you are broken from inside.......
Mam no one actually care it so complecating i have panic attacks now
I disagree.
Try asking for help, a good person will definitely help.
True mam
M totally agree with u
The self pats on the head..that got me through some rough times..it still does..hope it always will
*NOW A DAYS SLEEP IS NOT SLEEP ITS AN ESCAPE*
Truly said.
its worse if you cant sleep either
very true.
@@m.raniket9200 can feel it every day
so true yaar
Depressed people are the friendliest. They will forever try to cheer you up even if they feel like trash themselves. Befriend one and you will see
Edit: bhai when the fuck did this get to 1k??
It's True Brother...u have spoke mah heart voice ❤️
It's just that we don't want our loved ones in this situation...
Ryt❣️
Sooooo trueeeeee
True. they know the pain and don't want anyone else to feel that.
Hats off to this video this video really depicts that how a person goes through in depression and Sharing with someone what that a person going through it very difficult to explain but out of all this that person is just pretending how sorted happy he or she is
This is what I am going through, I thought during depression a person cannot smile or do anything . This video really opened my eyes 😢
I just got chills down my spine. No one has ever portrayed depression this well.and usually depression is shown as crying and loathing all day long..which is totally wrong.someone might be the happiest one we know and they can still be feeling empty inside.
Well put bro.. so true. I wish people understood.
Armyy
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Hey ARMY
that is so true .
It feels bad when people say that "don't fake it!" Even without knowing what I've been through
It hurts very bad when the people who u believe will understand makes u feel the worst
I understand
That's why u need to pretend like everything's ok
Yaa
Exactly.
sooo true...
The last scene made me cry. It reminded me how I ended up calling my mom, lying down in dark room, crying and saying "I m not feeling good mom".
so good. So real. The beginning plot twist was just wonderful. I love the soundtracks and the acting. Would loove to see more non-American short films about this kinda stuff
" There is no shame in letting your friends and family know that you are not okay . "
They don't understand.!
True 🙄
Ikr
@@gurkarancheema8589 lets not lose hope .! Stay strong.! Live for urself 💜
Yes🙃
True
Depression is when you know you are totally broken still you have to pretend that everything is all right
Right
True
True
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The mother toooo started crying , that was the most touching part mannnnn
Breaks my heart man💔 I miss those days when I used to be really happy , miss those days when I used to laugh 🥺💔 going through clinical depression from a year can’t tell anyone I’m helpless 💔
Uh can tell me. We're in this together>33
@@anannyatripathi3351 He asked this 3 months ago. You replied after 2 months and 17 days and I am replying you after 13 days. Welcome to Internet 🌐
The most difficult part of depression is you can't tell it your parents also, and you try to tell them but can't tell them 😭🥺
Truee
Trueeeeee
👍
Yes🙂
Exactly 🥺
They show an actual depressed person , not a stereotype 🙂
Yes
Yeah..touched :(
So very true.
True af
Yes
this video is such a masterpiece! i really loved the way they started the video ! i thought the guy who was lying on the bed was in the deporession but they showed the people who makes everyone happy are the most suffering one !
It's so relatable. I went through the depression phase in 2021. At that time even I didn't knew what was happening with me? What was it that I was feeling? Because I thought that depression meant being sad it's so not just this. This phase is unbearable and inexplicable. It's like not feeling ok and feeling empty inside, like nothing matters to u, u just want to feel happy again.i think the reason that it was so hard for me was because I didn't knew I was going through depression. That's why I am sooo sooo thankful to the doctor who examined me and told me that I was in depression because from that I knew what I had to do had to think had to say to myself. I became aware of what I was thinking and saying about myself. Being grateful for every little thing. Now I am grateful for even being angry because it's way better than feeling empty, I was grateful for every little thing that was there to cure me. I wrote thank you in every comment just to show my gratitude not to expect any reply. And guys meditation reaaaaaallly helps. To everyone out there who is going through this phase if you can relate to my comment please I gurantee you, you are such a lovely being and it's definitely not your fault feeling this way. Just pray for what u want rather than what u don't want and be aware of your thoughts. Know your peace.
This is called real depression...depressed people never tell anyone, "I'm depressed"..
Even they don't know and this is the biggest reason .
strangely some people brag about having depression
Actually that's what wrong
Exactly........😶
@@iamrohitkumarofficial but they did not show this that sometimes u feel like finishing yourself...but u can't...for some valid reason mey be!❤️