My perfect escape was, "Uh, I have to go to the bathroom." After deliberately using this escape repeatedly, even the most toxic gave up on trying to start up conversations. They met someone that has learned to be as dishonest as them, and who is going to argue your urge to use the bathroom? Worked every time.
I had to tell people this to get them to leave me alone with the control tactics. "Let me make this clear. I don't care anything about what you think or feel, I never have, and I never will. Let's just both save our time, you're wasting your breath." They shrunk to atom size, then slinked away. They never bothered me about their opinions on me ever again.
1st clue -- listen to the questions they ask you. Are they seeking responses that will allow them to make you wrong because your opinion is not enough like theirs? Hmmm? Know anyone like that?
Me too, I currently do not speak to her. And, my happiness increased. This includes other people as well. Even a friend of 25 years. No more!😊 RESPECTFULLY, L. Albert Jackson Munoz
you forgot one important one, which isn't for everyone, BUT no contact is also crucial, but as a a society.. most people are still scared because of family bla bla bla LOL
I remember "CONSIDER THE SOURCE" when dealing with "toxic" or insulting comments. That is what WE used to say, too, back in the day.
My perfect escape was, "Uh, I have to go to the bathroom." After deliberately using this escape repeatedly, even the most toxic gave up on trying to start up conversations. They met someone that has learned to be as dishonest as them, and who is going to argue your urge to use the bathroom? Worked every time.
Why should you be afraid of making them angry? Eventually will happen, and you shouldn't show fear.
These tips are great for dealing with Dark Triad types (Narcissist, Borderline, Histrionic, etc) that get a kick out of being hell to live with.
Logically well presented video and a great website.
I really needed this. It has confirmed what I have been dealing with 😊 thanks
I follow most of these tips, and they all work. Great video. 👍
Very good video and advice. All accurate and relevant points. Thx 🙏
Dude you’re spot on
I’m a smart dude and and deal with this constantly
Promise I’m not Dunning Krueger
Thank you for sharing.
I just realized that this is an automated AI channel created to make money.
What tipped you off? The female version of the Hal 2000 voice?
Thanks for giving us a perfect example of toxic people.
Thanks for giving us a perfect example of toxic people.
It's really hard when it's family. 😢
Do not care at all about what they say or think about you
I had to tell people this to get them to leave me alone with the control tactics. "Let me make this clear. I don't care anything about what you think or feel, I never have, and I never will. Let's just both save our time, you're wasting your breath." They shrunk to atom size, then slinked away. They never bothered me about their opinions on me ever again.
1st clue -- listen to the questions they ask you. Are they seeking responses that will allow them to make you wrong because your opinion is not enough like theirs? Hmmm? Know anyone like that?
Only non toxic person I know at the moment is my Mom!
Me too, I currently do not speak to her. And, my happiness increased. This includes other people as well. Even a friend of 25 years.
No more!😊
RESPECTFULLY,
L. Albert Jackson Munoz
Bait and switch people. Start nice conversations then goes off into rants!
you forgot one important one, which isn't for everyone, BUT no contact is also crucial, but as a a society.. most people are still scared because of family bla bla bla LOL