Love how he made it seem he saved money to pay the back pay 🙄. My sons dad owed over 12,000 and he got a car accident settlement and was pissed it went to his back pay.
Love it when someone is in the wrong and when they tell their side of the story they are the good guy..."I won some money and decided to pay the child support off..." Instead of the truth that the govt garnished your winnings! Smh
How small minded some people are. He seemed more interested in protecting his pride about having the money seized than telling the truth or doing the right thing. That pride just made him look like an a** hole.
He could have easily fought it in court and not pay her a dime all he had to do was show proof that he was sending money to her each month on that debit card. The mother was double dipping. Many judges would make her repay the child support she received if the father showed evidence of financially supporting their child.
@@anntoosweet67 this take just sounds a little stupid imo. child support is usually for clothes, food, and other obligations that BOTH parents need to be paying equally for their child. any money he sent HIS daughter on the debit card was for her personal expenses. do you know how often parents pay for child necessities and still give their kid money on the side? birthdays, valentine’s day, christmas, etc. the couple hundred dollars he gives his daughter here and there is nothing in comparison to child support. and he missed his payments for 3 years…a good dad would’ve paid his child support and stayed in the country to tend to and support his daughter. coulda gotten a house nearby so she could’ve had both parents and instead her parents were messy enough to the point that she moved in with her grandma immediately at 18
The child was an ANCHOR BABY. She wanted to keep him & he wants to Higgs the immigration system. Remember... She left him immediately after conception. This is a pattern.
In my state, child support arrears are not forgiven, nor do they end when the child turns 18. They are collected and paid until paid off. My son is an adult, has graduated college, is pursuing his career and I still get child support because the father is still paying off the arrears.
My aunt is 43 my grandmother still gets $100/ month from my aunts father’s social security retirement checks since he just retired because he never paid his child support. When he dies she’ll get the remainder from his estate
That my dear was seething anger; he knew full well that he couldn't yell so squinting was the most that he could do in protest. Oh the squinterization of it all. lolololol 😆
She's loud and animated but that seems to just be her personality. Show wouldn't work with a wallflower! No screaming or hyper in this case that I caught?
My parents divorced in the 70s. My dad was a self absorbed cheater. My mom was awarded $200 per week child support & $300 per week alimony. My mother, not once, ever accepted one dime of alimony from my father. Never said one bad word about him. But I hit 14-15 and knew. I’m doing fairly well. My mom has a beautiful apartment within my house. A fantastic relationship with my kids. And she is living well. My father remarried with 2 kids. In a teeny tiny house, broke as hell . My mom lives With no regrets. A clear conscious is a fucking beautiful thing… ❌⭕️❌⭕️
My childhood was identical. My mum is surrounded by her adult children and grandkids at her feet now and I hear my father has told his latest mail order bride in our culture ‘families aren’t close and don’t celebrate holidays’ to explain why his kids don’t speak to him and he doesn’t even know how many grandkids he has. My mum is the winner and wealthier than he will ever be.
@@zubileegluckgluck not everyone situation is the same some of these “men” switch up after the baby 🤷🏻♀️ there is no excuse in the world for not taking care of your seed
In California any lottery winnings are held up while an investigation into any debts like child support is owed. It will be taken out of the winnings. I had a friend who won $15,000. He owed back taxes and they took the money out of his winnings.
PSA🗣️Do not loan an ex spouse any money! I stupidly did and he screwed me. Even though he was so terrible to me throughout our divorce, I tried to do EVERYTHING to get along with him and make some peace and it never worked. Keep your money in your purse/wallet, pocket, bank,ect!
@@Jean0987654321 lmao! He'd NEVER agree to come on here. Sad part is I had him sign a promissory note but the hell he put me through 3years following our divorce, I wouldn't dare wake the dragon up again. It's been a peaceful 3years and the statute of limitations is up this year for it. I'll gladly take take this L to keep the peace and him far away😂
@@piinkam0r I'm so sorry to hear this! I was 17 when I met my ex husband. He was 10yrs older than me. Boy, if I knew then what I know now, I would have ran the other way so fast🤦♀️Best of luck to you and your situation. It's especially hard when children are involved.
No offense but that was stupid. I could understand if he was nice to you through the divorce. What makes you think that’s you loaning him money and being nice to him will get his respect?
I tried that ONCE. I paid a full medical bill COPAY and we were supposed to go half. I paid it up front. BTW, I had the kids, I paid the insurance. His half was $75. I asked him for months for the money. I had the money, but it was the principle. He finally got tired of me asking and said he didn't know he had to pay me to be a mother to our kids! Baby-bee!!! LESSON LEARNED. His number got blocked. Now I have peace.
The judge is surprised that in NY child support is paid until the child is 21, well in the UK it was indicated on my judgement that he had to pay until our children 'finished further education'. All 3 of our children went on to do their Master’s degree and one of our children continued to do a PhD, so his father paid him directly, as he was no longer living with me. Now that is reasonable, why shouldn't a parent pay for a child while they are educating themselves and can't yet support themselves? When you are a parent, it doesn't just end abruptly when they hit 18...
Because 1 it isn't common for everyone to go to college and 2 alot of parents don't pay for college. It sounds wrong to force a parent to pay for college. That shit is expensive.
@@scottfree7549 every woman does not have to be latina, or blue eyed to be pretty, some men and women actually like their brown skin chocolate queens, May God unite us all, destroy the legal drug dealers Lord, protect the children Lord, free the boys in Afghanistan being abused for their bodies in the name of cultural perversion. Help Lord!!!!
Same here, my ex and I have had our issues, but we always put our child first. No courts ever got involved. Now my child lives with me as per mutual agreement. But I agree that many mostly do not think about the children but about what issues they themselves have with each other. Shame. By the way Rachel I mean this respectfully, you’re a very attractive woman. God bless.
My ex and I are the same. I just say our son needs XYZ and he pays without question. I send him a receipt and over the years we’ve developed trust that I’m not going to get my nails done but I still do it and it’s only important stuff, medicine, school uniform, shoes etc.
Mine too. My dad did anything he could to not pay child support. He passed away last year and I am still mad about it. My mom worked her bum off to support us.
@@zubileegluckgluck It’s not like she thought was going to happen when they got married. Obviously she didn’t expect him to put her face through the kitchen wall either. I guess I should have pointed out my mother isn’t Jean Gray.
I found him very disingenuous. He very haughtily insisted that it was his choice to pay the back child support and when pushed and pushed on it he eventually had to admit that it was garnished from him. He lost his credibility there. I don't know why that after him owing thousands and thousands in back child support and apparently court cases that she would then loan him 1500 dollars with no promissary note and then expect him to play fair. How can she have been so stupid?
She's so lucky yes, as the judge often finds people had "no expectation to be repaid" under such circumstances. The more that guy acted "Mr Reasonable" the more he pissed me off, fortunately the judge saw through him within minutes!!
I will just never understand some people! Why on earth would she loan him 1500$ when he owed 23,000$ in back child support? It took him winning the lottery or whatever to pay only bcus it was garnished! 🤦🏽 Common sense really isn't common 🤷🏾
Judge yells too much, assumes things, doesn't let ppl say what the deal is. Asks a question, lets them start to answer then starts YELLING over them. So frustrating.
She already knows the details of the case before they walk in, she’s trying to cut through the bullshit and get to the heart of it, because they only have so much time for your entertainment. So no.
I don't know about the rest of you .... but I get so entertained watching the facial expressions of the people in the Gallery! lol😂 ...................... LONDON UK
I don't like what the judge said. How is keeping kids on child support till 21 "infantilizing an entire generation" when our generation typically stays with our family longer, gets paid less, and has less resources? I think what new York is doing is smart
When Harvey was outside asking those young teenage / college girls about marriage and divorce, of course they're gonna say yes I'd loan my EX BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND money. Nothing against women, but a lot of young females are very gullible when it comes to love. A guy can beat them, cheat on them, call them names, and do everything else wrong up under the sun and she'd still stay with him or get back together. Saying things like, well I have to give him another chance, he said he was sorry. I know he cheats and beats on me but we're going to consoling. Well even though we broke up we're still good friends and I don't want to see him suffer. And they just go on and on with more and more stupidity.
I broke up with a long-time BF and agreed to be friends. That was stupid. I shoulda had the gumption to cut off all ties, all empathy or pity -- in the process, minimizing the hurt I felt from his lies and cheating. (sigh) If I had known my own worth, I could've saved a whole of suffering.
Boring case. She loaned him money. He didn’t pay it back. I don’t know what all this child support stuff has to do with it if both of them agree that the only potential debt between them is this loan.
I like how the plaintiff avoided him saying he gave her a bank card and gave her money for the child instead of paying it through the government. If he got credit for those how does that make him a deadbeat dad
Big area of concern for compulsive liars is when they lie about knowledge things and act like people are incoherent to rules and laws, or regulations. This guy not only tries to keep digging himself a hole, but lays down in his own grave he digs for himself. Pitiful!
Yall betta stop having international baby daddies...😒. I've known several women that's had similar issues, with forgien men, when these men return back to the native countries, they disappear and flee their financial obligations.
"Infantilize an entire generation"???? Give me a break judge. Children need money to go to school and get a decent education - more-so now than in days of yore, so support while they get educated is part of society in this day and age.
The accents in this episode are amazing! He may be a manipulative narcissist but I could listen to him talk all day! The woman’s accent is also wonderful!
When you hit a # or win lottery they take the money after putting your social security # in the data base and actually take it there is no choice they have been taking stimulus money too 😂😂
@@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673 because the state also makes money off the child support and then some mother use it for their own personal life style
My dad left when I was 2 months old. His child support payments (we were in another country) was less than $75 US PER MONTH! My mom had to fight every month for that money. When I got old enough, I found out that he would take care of his girlfriends and their kids (rent, bills,food, etc) So, I move to the US, I never went back to visit him and I never saw him again.. He constantly tried to get in contact with me, he wanted me to send him clothes and shoes. The same month I got married he died suddenly and 2 months later I found out I was pregnant. O well.
Congratulations on starting your family with your husband. The two of you can break the cycle by loving and providing for your child(ren). Best wishes.
The judge and people in the comments just dont get it. Not paying child support to the court and not taking care of your kid can be two different things.
deadbeat dad? that is the most ridiculous term that I have ever heard. it does not fit the crime. anyway, not paying child support does not make a man a bad person/dad. no woman should take a man to a state to decide how much their child is worth. if he wants to pay, pay! if he does not want to, dont. but Child Support is straight bull. the state is only there to get a cut, I hope women soon sees this.
I love that she mouths her feelings and then backs them up with logic and law. And i just watched a video of judge judy calling a bum dad: " ugh. You're a disgusting person"
I loved the People’s court and was so sad when it went off the air. It was filmed in Stanford Connecticut and I live in Connecticut. I live 45 minutes from where it was filmed, so I went to watch the People’s court between 35 to 40 times and what was really nice is while you were in the waiting room to go into the courtroom, they had tons of pizza and a full size refrigerator, full of soda and other drinks for free. What was really nice was after each case, judge Milian would come out and talk to us, and she would ask if anybody had any questions. You could ask her about her life or legal questions, and I learned so much about the law, watching the cases and asking her questions and she is one of the nicest, down to earth, people I’ve ever talked to, and she’s extremely funny, but I do love her new show Justice for the People with Judge Milian but sadly, that one is filmed in California now.
It's definitely not helping anyone to coddle these guys letting them skirt their responsibilities...Hold them accountable to eradicate this dysfunctional culture that fosters them thinking it's somehow absurd to take care of their own children. It's absurd that she agreed to stop child support at 14 (not even thinking more about her daughter's needs than his convenience) & then she gave HIM money...Tf wrong w/ chicks like that showing more concern for the deadbeats than their own children. These guys are ridiculous, & too many people help them to be that trash.
It takes more than money to raise a child but yes it takes money to raise a child. My dad never paid any type of support never saved one quarter for me in a piggy bank. If I needed a dollar for a drink he'd have to bum it from someone else. But he was the only one able to make it there for me during the birth of my son, and he was the only one able to make it there for me when I needed home health aide because I fractured the right side of my body in a car crash. He cleaned, cooked, strolled me in my wheelchair to the store because we had no car. I had to finance everything. I used to be resentful because I didn't get what I wanted from him as a child. But God still allowed him to show up and show out for me. I'm almost 30 and I'm thankful for my dad even though he ain't never paid no child support. 😆
Why is he up there acting like he paid the child support on his own? The plaintiff is silly to be giving him money and then agreeing to to 🛑 the child support.. 🤦🏾♀️ taking food out of her daughter’s mouth..
Annoying that she'd ask to stop child support just bc she got tired of fighting him for it. I hope that when her child needs money, SHE is able to give it to her.
Child support is not the child’s money. It’s for the person who supporting the child. in this case. It’s the mother‘s money. if she wants to just pay for the bills on her own, it’s her right
I'm a divorced mother of a 7 year old in ny, li. I don't think children should between the parents sht. It's really gross, your child loves you both equally no matter what you think of the other person(unless other severe cases obviously). Can we start acting like adults please?
Love how he made it seem he saved money to pay the back pay 🙄. My sons dad owed over 12,000 and he got a car accident settlement and was pissed it went to his back pay.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 good children don’t live on air that ain’t free
Right. And wow, how selfish of him. Smdh.
@@ortaegahenry6493 r u an alien?
SMH I don’t have time for social media clowns
Haha love it
I love when the litigants keep they purse on their shoulders😂😂😂 cracks me up every time
I was just thinking that lol idk why that tickles me. Like ma'am, relax, put your things down 😂 maybe they think it'll be quick 🤷🏾♀
Yes lol
Ur so silly. 🤣
Ugh my pet peeve
When you live in high-crime areas you do things like that.I from time to time check and make sure my wallet is still in my pocket.
Love it when someone is in the wrong and when they tell their side of the story they are the good guy..."I won some money and decided to pay the child support off..."
Instead of the truth that the govt garnished your winnings! Smh
Are you surprised coming from a man? They are all delusional liars.
No wonder the daughter was ready to live with grandma and get out from between these two
I did that lol
Right, I would have run too.
The mother did absolutely nothing wrong so what are you talking about?
@@kiokuisme1 I agree. It was the line POS father who she needed to get away from.
Lmaooo these are my parents and I did happy where I am now and I have picture with these people to show these are my real parents
How small minded some people are. He seemed more interested in protecting his pride about having the money seized than telling the truth or doing the right thing. That pride just made him look like an a** hole.
Lol..Right.
He has more pride than Money...
Deadbeat....
He could have easily fought it in court and not pay her a dime all he had to do was show proof that he was sending money to her each month on that debit card. The mother was double dipping. Many judges would make her repay the child support she received if the father showed evidence of financially supporting their child.
@@anntoosweet67 this take just sounds a little stupid imo. child support is usually for clothes, food, and other obligations that BOTH parents need to be paying equally for their child. any money he sent HIS daughter on the debit card was for her personal expenses. do you know how often parents pay for child necessities and still give their kid money on the side? birthdays, valentine’s day, christmas, etc. the couple hundred dollars he gives his daughter here and there is nothing in comparison to child support. and he missed his payments for 3 years…a good dad would’ve paid his child support and stayed in the country to tend to and support his daughter. coulda gotten a house nearby so she could’ve had both parents and instead her parents were messy enough to the point that she moved in with her grandma immediately at 18
@@mywhompwhompwhompyellow I would have to rewatch this court case to accurately respond to you; it's been almost a year 😄
Judge Milan loves to over talk the litigants, then can’t understand the story 🙄🤦🏽♀️
Lol. Right?!
I agree. She is ruled by her feelings and she needs to stop that.
Judge Judy wannabe
I actually thought that SAME thing...She wants to act like Judy
Right????!!!
My eyes nearly rolled out of my head listening to this guy's excuses.
@@Nevaeh1
True.
Glad they seized that money though.
Both of them having to think that hard about their only child’s age… smh
Not her current age, the age at the time of the child support dispute. So really Mom was trying to remember the year it happened.
I thought that was rather strange myself!
Exactly I'm divorced I can tell you the month and year of everything that transpired. You don't forget that shit.
The child was an ANCHOR BABY. She wanted to keep him & he wants to Higgs the immigration system. Remember... She left him immediately after conception. This is a pattern.
@@alij6940 Okay, so I’m not being insensitive to the divorcee by thinking that should be remembered.
In my state, child support arrears are not forgiven, nor do they end when the child turns 18. They are collected and paid until paid off. My son is an adult, has graduated college, is pursuing his career and I still get child support because the father is still paying off the arrears.
Love this! 👏
My aunt is 43 my grandmother still gets $100/ month from my aunts father’s social security retirement checks since he just retired because he never paid his child support. When he dies she’ll get the remainder from his estate
10:58 When you squint cause you can't see what the judge is saying... 😂😂
😂😩😭😂😂
That my dear was seething anger; he knew full well that he couldn't yell so squinting was the most that he could do in protest. Oh the squinterization of it all. lolololol 😆
@@stephenleigh4571 😂😂😂
😩🤣😭💀😩🤣😭💀
😭😭😂😂😩
Man Judge Milian can really cause litigants to be stressed with all the screaming and getting hyper
Hey they sign up for the show knowing how it works
I wouldn't deal with her at all. She can yell at someone else.
She's loud and animated but that seems to just be her personality. Show wouldn't work with a wallflower! No screaming or hyper in this case that I caught?
@@adrianprince7266
Yes
Yes, she interrogates people. She should've been a cop instead
My parents divorced in the 70s. My dad was a self absorbed cheater. My mom was awarded $200 per week child support & $300 per week alimony. My mother, not once, ever accepted one dime of alimony from my father. Never said one bad word about him. But I hit 14-15 and knew.
I’m doing fairly well. My mom has a beautiful apartment within my house. A fantastic relationship with my kids. And she is living well. My father remarried with 2 kids. In a teeny tiny house, broke as hell .
My mom lives With no regrets. A clear conscious is a fucking beautiful thing… ❌⭕️❌⭕️
My childhood was identical. My mum is surrounded by her adult children and grandkids at her feet now and I hear my father has told his latest mail order bride in our culture ‘families aren’t close and don’t celebrate holidays’ to explain why his kids don’t speak to him and he doesn’t even know how many grandkids he has. My mum is the winner and wealthier than he will ever be.
No one should ever have to pay alimony
@@youngeshmoney Ludicrous statement.
@@Talula-Darling how so, there's only one instance where I think it's acceptable, other than that, no.
Lol your doesn’t have a husband that’s what we called successful. Your father won lol
When they call out the deadbeat dads💅🏼
Don't forget that the women choose to have children with these men.
@@zubileegluckgluck not everyone situation is the same some of these “men” switch up after the baby 🤷🏻♀️ there is no excuse in the world for not taking care of your seed
@@zubileegluckgluck It is the right of the child to be supported by both parents. Man or woman.
@@alinaluna8615 don't forget that the women choose to have children with these men.
@@vickyleblanc3169 don't forget that the women choose to have children with these men.
My ex is over $42,000 in arrears. *crossing fingers* that he wins the lottery...smh
What a deadbeat dad. Goes gambling but can’t pay back child support.
He wasn't sending the court money. He was sending money directly to his daughter. The judge just kept ignoring that trying to make him look bad.
@@justhere4721 he can do that be he also needs to do what he's supposed to do. The daughter isn't responsible to report the child support, he is.
@@justhere4721And how we know it's true?He probably lying.
In California any lottery winnings are held up while an investigation into any debts like child support is owed. It will be taken out of the winnings. I had a friend who won $15,000. He owed back taxes and they took the money out of his winnings.
I mean thats quite a genius way to make sure the state, gov and parents get their money.
Wow! That’s good to know for sure.
This Father is SORRY
PSA🗣️Do not loan an ex spouse any money! I stupidly did and he screwed me. Even though he was so terrible to me throughout our divorce, I tried to do EVERYTHING to get along with him and make some peace and it never worked. Keep your money in your purse/wallet, pocket, bank,ect!
File a lawsuit, girl. Bring it here for us 🤣😂
Time to collect 🍞
@@Jean0987654321 lmao! He'd NEVER agree to come on here. Sad part is I had him sign a promissory note but the hell he put me through 3years following our divorce, I wouldn't dare wake the dragon up again. It's been a peaceful 3years and the statute of limitations is up this year for it. I'll gladly take take this L to keep the peace and him far away😂
I know the feeling $13,000 I’m owed and thinks he doesn’t have to pay anything I don’t even want child supoort
@@piinkam0r I'm so sorry to hear this! I was 17 when I met my ex husband. He was 10yrs older than me. Boy, if I knew then what I know now, I would have ran the other way so fast🤦♀️Best of luck to you and your situation. It's especially hard when children are involved.
No offense but that was stupid. I could understand if he was nice to you through the divorce. What makes you think that’s you loaning him money and being nice to him will get his respect?
I tried that ONCE. I paid a full medical bill COPAY and we were supposed to go half. I paid it up front. BTW, I had the kids, I paid the insurance. His half was $75. I asked him for months for the money. I had the money, but it was the principle. He finally got tired of me asking and said he didn't know he had to pay me to be a mother to our kids! Baby-bee!!! LESSON LEARNED. His number got blocked. Now I have peace.
The judge is surprised that in NY child support is paid until the child is 21, well in the UK it was indicated on my judgement that he had to pay until our children 'finished further education'. All 3 of our children went on to do their Master’s degree and one of our children continued to do a PhD, so his father paid him directly, as he was no longer living with me. Now that is reasonable, why shouldn't a parent pay for a child while they are educating themselves and can't yet support themselves? When you are a parent, it doesn't just end abruptly when they hit 18...
All the way to Master’s degree? Jesus you guys are raising children. Let them now grown adults pay their way through a PHd. Omg that ridiculous.
Because 1 it isn't common for everyone to go to college and 2 alot of parents don't pay for college. It sounds wrong to force a parent to pay for college. That shit is expensive.
The plaintiff is really pretty and the defendant is a true manipulator
You really need glasses
@@scottfree7549 every woman does not have to be latina, or blue eyed to be pretty, some men and women actually like their brown skin chocolate queens, May God unite us all, destroy the legal drug dealers Lord, protect the children Lord, free the boys in Afghanistan being abused for their bodies in the name of cultural perversion. Help Lord!!!!
Trini man as usual 😂
@@scottfree7549 just keep your comments to yourself lmao, her pretty ass probably wouldn’t even look in your direction
I’ve loaned my ex money and he’s loaned me money. We always pay each other back. It’s always been for the kids though
Not everyone puts their kids before themselves. Your kids are lucky ones
Same here, my ex and I have had our issues, but we always put our child first. No courts ever got involved. Now my child lives with me as per mutual agreement. But I agree that many mostly do not think about the children but about what issues they themselves have with each other. Shame. By the way Rachel I mean this respectfully, you’re a very attractive woman. God bless.
That's how it should be. That's amazing coparenting right there.
Mature
My ex and I are the same. I just say our son needs XYZ and he pays without question. I send him a receipt and over the years we’ve developed trust that I’m not going to get my nails done but I still do it and it’s only important stuff, medicine, school uniform, shoes etc.
Oh, he reminds me of my father. That’s not a compliment.
Mine too. My dad did anything he could to not pay child support. He passed away last year and I am still mad about it. My mom worked her bum off to support us.
🤣🤣🤣
It's a shame when women choose to have children with people who can't or won't contribute.
😁😆😄
@@zubileegluckgluck It’s not like she thought was going to happen when they got married. Obviously she didn’t expect him to put her face through the kitchen wall either. I guess I should have pointed out my mother isn’t Jean Gray.
He tried to get over when his daughter's mom was being more than generous
I found him very disingenuous. He very haughtily insisted that it was his choice to pay the back child support and when pushed and pushed on it he eventually had to admit that it was garnished from him. He lost his credibility there. I don't know why that after him owing thousands and thousands in back child support and apparently court cases that she would then loan him 1500 dollars with no promissary note and then expect him to play fair. How can she have been so stupid?
She's so lucky yes, as the judge often finds people had "no expectation to be repaid" under such circumstances. The more that guy acted "Mr Reasonable" the more he pissed me off, fortunately the judge saw through him within minutes!!
I will just never understand some people! Why on earth would she loan him 1500$ when he owed 23,000$ in back child support? It took him winning the lottery or whatever to pay only bcus it was garnished! 🤦🏽 Common sense really isn't common 🤷🏾
So financially supporting your kids, who didn’t ask to be here, is “infantilizing an entire generation?” 🤨
I think it was in reference to the age limit. Most states automatically go until 18.
Um, sir, they garnished your gambling wins. You didn't just find it in your heart to pay 😂
I wish my dad hit it big in the casino so they could get my 30k he owes me.
Damn
I hope he does. Send him to las Vegas. 🤗🤗
Girl don’t we all 😂
You should wish for a better father? Doesn't look like Yo mama raised you right if all you care about is the money factor haha. Jk mostly
@@lifestooreal1887, why are you disrespecting her mom like that? You weren't raised properly.
Judge yells too much, assumes things, doesn't let ppl say what the deal is. Asks a question, lets them start to answer then starts YELLING over them. So frustrating.
She already knows the details of the case before they walk in, she’s trying to cut through the bullshit and get to the heart of it, because they only have so much time for your entertainment. So no.
@@rymilli exactly! These internet trolls think they know everything
@@rymilli Knowing the details of the case beforehand absolutely means mistreating people is ok. Fail.
And? She’s never wrong
@@jonvillanueva1000 You're never right.
"IT'S MY MONEY AND I WANT IT NOW!" She acting like a JG Wentworth TV commercial 💯
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Omg that commercial 💀
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I don't know about the rest of you .... but I get so entertained watching the facial expressions of the people in the Gallery! lol😂 ...................... LONDON UK
Judge needs to stop screaming so much!
Nobody is forcing you to watch.
@@Childfree334 Maybe she likes the show.... regardless of Judge Milian being a loud mouth!
@@Childfree334 What's your point?
@@Childfree334 ITS TRUE HUN
I don't like what the judge said. How is keeping kids on child support till 21 "infantilizing an entire generation" when our generation typically stays with our family longer, gets paid less, and has less resources? I think what new York is doing is smart
Especially since they can be on the parents insurance til like 24-26? I agree with you.
If you win money gambling, the state automatically takes it if you owe back support. Gotta love the "I saved up" suuuuure you did.
When Harvey was outside asking those young teenage / college girls about marriage and divorce, of course they're gonna say yes I'd loan my EX BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND money. Nothing against women, but a lot of young females are very gullible when it comes to love. A guy can beat them, cheat on them, call them names, and do everything else wrong up under the sun and she'd still stay with him or get back together. Saying things like, well I have to give him another chance, he said he was sorry. I know he cheats and beats on me but we're going to consoling. Well even though we broke up we're still good friends and I don't want to see him suffer. And they just go on and on with more and more stupidity.
I broke up with a long-time BF and agreed to be friends. That was stupid. I shoulda had the gumption to cut off all ties, all empathy or pity -- in the process, minimizing the hurt I felt from his lies and cheating. (sigh) If I had known my own worth, I could've saved a whole of suffering.
Boring case. She loaned him money. He didn’t pay it back. I don’t know what all this child support stuff has to do with it if both of them agree that the only potential debt between them is this loan.
Wow, boyo is not used to losing. Used to his scheisstering always getting him everything. Didn’t work lol. Well done Girl
I like how the plaintiff avoided him saying he gave her a bank card and gave her money for the child instead of paying it through the government. If he got credit for those how does that make him a deadbeat dad
Big area of concern for compulsive liars is when they lie about knowledge things and act like people are incoherent to rules and laws, or regulations. This guy not only tries to keep digging himself a hole, but lays down in his own grave he digs for himself. Pitiful!
The judge doesn’t even let them speak. Why ask a question if you’re not going to let them finish answering? 😭
Your Ex is a Ex for good reason
Yall betta stop having international baby daddies...😒.
I've known several women that's had similar issues, with forgien men, when these men return back to the native countries, they disappear and flee their financial obligations.
The plaintiff is also foreign.
He went from from saving money to having the money confiscated.
That airhead in the street crowd that proudly and loudly said "un-reconcilable differences" lol.
Big up my Caribbean people
Doug is allllllllllways so ready to be shady with the litigants when they come out 😂😂of court
"Infantilize an entire generation"???? Give me a break judge. Children need money to go to school and get a decent education - more-so now than in days of yore, so support while they get educated is part of society in this day and age.
Any Trinis watching? Loll 🇹🇹
I'm 🇦🇬 tho
What's a Trini ?
@@bexsta7766 someone from Trinidad & Tobago
Butterfly poncho
Yea
The accents in this episode are amazing! He may be a manipulative narcissist but I could listen to him talk all day! The woman’s accent is also wonderful!
I love my Trini accents!!!!!
I am glad he kept his Trinidadian accent, because many Trinis leave and immediately start with the Kim Kardashian vocal fry.
A lot of trini men are narcissistic
True
@@russwriter17 isn't that where Rihanna is from
$638/month for child support isn't that much. This guy 🙄
$638 does not even cover daycare now.
Yeah. That's $7,608 a year. That'll probably cover the kid's lunch money, soap and some toothbrush/toothpaste 😂🤣
$638 US/Month is $4316.77 TT he couldn't possibly make much to pay child support while residing in trinidad love
@@lentiamoses1508 that may be however, the child lives in the US and it's not her fault he left the country
Hes got no character and no remorse,What a POS.
When you hit a # or win lottery they take the money after putting your social security # in the data base and actually take it there is no choice they have been taking stimulus money too 😂😂
ABSOLUTELY...facts...
@@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673 because the state also makes money off the child support and then some mother use it for their own personal life style
@@histruth3157 absolutely
We already knew that joker didn't willingly send the payment 🙄
I didn't know they were taking stimulus money! Awesome.
Doug at the end:"You owed her.She said is was a loan ".With a tone😂😂😂😂😂.
The judge is getting on my nerves she needs to learn how to listen
My dad left when I was 2 months old. His child support payments (we were in another country) was less than $75 US PER MONTH! My mom had to fight every month for that money. When I got old enough, I found out that he would take care of his girlfriends and their kids (rent, bills,food, etc)
So, I move to the US, I never went back to visit him and I never saw him again.. He constantly tried to get in contact with me, he wanted me to send him clothes and shoes. The same month I got married he died suddenly and 2 months later I found out I was pregnant. O well.
I'm so sorry to hear that... praying for you and your family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Congratulations on starting your family with your husband. The two of you can break the cycle by loving and providing for your child(ren). Best wishes.
Thanks for the autobiography.
His attitude gives off that if he had the chance he would cuss out the judge and the Ex.
He didn’t pay anything, the government took it. He’s trying to look like a king, but he’s a worm.
Glad the defendant's gambling winnings got taken!! Acting like he was saving $$$. Please!!
What's with the smooth-talking serpent-tongued spouse calmly defending him being a dead-beat father?
The judge and people in the comments just dont get it. Not paying child support to the court and not taking care of your kid can be two different things.
OH LAWD....TRINI MAN RUNNIN FROM CHILD SUPPORT.....LAWD JESUS....WHAT A STORY🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t like how she just assume stuff. The yelling is unbearable
my daughter father and my son father got their karma like crazy via being a deadbeat. one got shot and one is getting locked up. YEEEAAAASsssss
deadbeat dad? that is the most ridiculous term that I have ever heard. it does not fit the crime. anyway, not paying child support does not make a man a bad person/dad. no woman should take a man to a state to decide how much their child is worth. if he wants to pay, pay! if he does not want to, dont. but Child Support is straight bull. the state is only there to get a cut, I hope women soon sees this.
Maybe the most unprofessional Judge on any platform! Her feelings don’t matter in court!
Yeah at least Judge Judy is brutal for the truth and facts
I love that she mouths her feelings and then backs them up with logic and law. And i just watched a video of judge judy calling a bum dad: " ugh. You're a disgusting person"
@@turquoiseheart6320 REALLY! Karen!
@@spazmanlee lol i guess i do sound like a karen up there... oh well
@@turquoiseheart6320 No worries! I am just stating my opinion! I was harsh. I appreciate your response and respect the criticism.
Wha I want to know is why does
Douglas gives the judge a paper but then graves it back in every episode. Lol 😂
The defendant is a slim ball. Trifling
Judge in a bad mood today
Always
I think shes bias towards curtain people as soon as she walks out!!
I loved the People’s court and was so sad when it went off the air. It was filmed in Stanford Connecticut and I live in Connecticut. I live 45 minutes from where it was filmed, so I went to watch the People’s court between 35 to 40 times and what was really nice is while you were in the waiting room to go into the courtroom, they had tons of pizza and a full size refrigerator, full of soda and other drinks for free.
What was really nice was after each case, judge Milian would come out and talk to us, and she would ask if anybody had any questions. You could ask her about her life or legal questions, and I learned so much about the law, watching the cases and asking her questions and she is one of the nicest, down to earth, people I’ve ever talked to, and she’s extremely funny, but I do love her new show Justice for the People with Judge Milian but sadly, that one is filmed in California now.
Damn… judge was giving me anxiety while watching this… she was in a mood that day lol
I know our local casino will take the winnings it is marked through your ss number child support and income tax will be held. Here in calif
By the way the judge was listening to both of them when you start hearing bull crap you want to get to the truth duh
Men try to do whatever to get out of child support. Dudes will cut their arm off of they won't have to pay child support
It's definitely not helping anyone to coddle these guys letting them skirt their responsibilities...Hold them accountable to eradicate this dysfunctional culture that fosters them thinking it's somehow absurd to take care of their own children.
It's absurd that she agreed to stop child support at 14 (not even thinking more about her daughter's needs than his convenience) & then she gave HIM money...Tf wrong w/ chicks like that showing more concern for the deadbeats than their own children. These guys are ridiculous, & too many people help them to be that trash.
Wow. He didn't make the choice. The choice was made for him.
For ME It's the Announcer! He is Hilarious! 🤣🤣
The intro guy is funny as hell!!! 😆
It takes more than money to raise a child but yes it takes money to raise a child. My dad never paid any type of support never saved one quarter for me in a piggy bank. If I needed a dollar for a drink he'd have to bum it from someone else. But he was the only one able to make it there for me during the birth of my son, and he was the only one able to make it there for me when I needed home health aide because I fractured the right side of my body in a car crash. He cleaned, cooked, strolled me in my wheelchair to the store because we had no car. I had to finance everything. I used to be resentful because I didn't get what I wanted from him as a child. But God still allowed him to show up and show out for me. I'm almost 30 and I'm thankful for my dad even though he ain't never paid no child support. 😆
The mail runs overseas
In some countries😃
Beautiful Smile u have ...A beautiful Black 👑 Queen....Saying hello from Melrose Park Illinois🐻🐻😍
Hello back n thank u, n yes these r my real teeth King
@@kimberlydorsey1435 😍😉😁🐶😃🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶😉😍😁
And bank transfers exist…..
The judge is on his ass😂😂
I would of thrown his behind out just for looking at my crazy. The nerve.
Trinidadian again🤣🤣🤣🤣
Magnums, Trojans, Lifestyles, Durex, men please...even women don't want the kid they want the child support
I can see his resolve like okay. You believe what you want to believe. What's the answer that you want?
He was over in Trinidad trapping that’s why he couldn’t send the money to the court
Why is he up there acting like he paid the child support on his own? The plaintiff is silly to be giving him money and then agreeing to to 🛑 the child support.. 🤦🏾♀️ taking food out of her daughter’s mouth..
Annoying that she'd ask to stop child support just bc she got tired of fighting him for it. I hope that when her child needs money, SHE is able to give it to her.
Child support is not the child’s money. It’s for the person who supporting the child. in this case. It’s the mother‘s money. if she wants to just pay for the bills on her own, it’s her right
I'm a divorced mother of a 7 year old in ny, li. I don't think children should between the parents sht. It's really gross, your child loves you both equally no matter what you think of the other person(unless other severe cases obviously). Can we start acting like adults please?
What does that have to do with paying child support?
The kid deserves child support. Period.
One thing I love the few Caribbean that comes on here...I feel proud some how😩😩🤣🤣🤷🏽♀️
The Judge talks too much, let the people explain their story too high rate
He knew better not to go on judge mathis court show with this case. Judge would of got on him, talking about can you stop the child support.
No judge Mathis would of said he was on drugs 😂
Both these parents are tacky but the defendant is shameful deadbeat and a bold faced liar.
3:17 not him trying to look confused 😂😂😂 boiiii stop
How is it infantilizing an entire generation to pay child support until 21?? It’s not like it goes to the child. Weird
She is a very pretty woman. Her hairstyle suits her.
Ya now u have to pay child support up to age 24 if child is in school
Judge, lottery is gambling.
Judge Milan.....WELL SAID! INFANTILiZING and entire generation....WELL SAID!!!!!!!
God bless everyone on here🌺🐦