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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- everything I've learned about manifestation in the past year
Let's talk manifestation and how to do it 'correctly.'
I always visualized my dream life and lowkey obsessed over how I would get there. In this video I'm sharing how I've learned to take control of my reality, work towards what I'm trying to manifest, and then let go of control and learn to patiently manifest everything I dream. And it's lowkey working! Thank y'all for 50k subscribers!🥺❤️
0:00-1:01 intro
1:01 letting go of control
5:44 - taking control
9:14 - finding a balance
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Hope you guys enjoy this vid! Let me know if you want to see one going into detail on the manifestation techniques that I do daily!✨
I love manifestation and the law of attraction! Thank you for your tips and tricks !! X
Yes, girl! You keep coming with these great videos!
You’re speaking my language! Loved this! Thank u❣️ My highest ranking video, from 4 years ago, is about Law of Attraction. The rest of my content is nothing of the sort... 😂 We are creators.
yes please this is very needed
yes please 🌞
"Some people call it being lazy... but it comes from fear."
This is very true. I get overwhelmed by what I need to do to be who i want, so overwhelmed that I end up putting it off and never doing it and then i end up calling myself lazy and a failure. Thanks for this video, it was a good reminder to get my butt to work lol
You so got this. It’s so much easier said than done but being aware of your fears give them less power over you, so the hard part is done!
This is SO ME.
i have been running on fear for nearly two years and it’s been effective in getting me where i need to be, but I am exhausted now.
That’s so true that actually works for me also to finish school work or make money
I so feel that. I feel like I was ‘doing things right’ but not actually stopping to see where I wanted to be until recently
🙏🙏🙏
yesssss i love the point about channeling all that energy toward wishing you had what other people have and redirecting it into getting there! that's what I used to say to myself when i'd step into the gym in hollywood and be like damnnnn yall got some straight-up trophy bods...and i can get there too with this next pushup - let's go!
Y’all should collab🌞 both of your powers are unmatched
Yessss I’m learning this esp with my body image/gym goals rn too!
@@jenniferapitz1333 🥺❤️❤️❤️
My manifestations is very...”iffy” or inconsistent. Three days where I’ve manifested 10k, or $600 in literally 24 hours and then there’s days where I’m literally on my hands and knees praying that my phone bill will get paid or that I can buy myself food. It’s not just money but relationships as well. There’s days where I’ll simply just think about someone then they’ll call me and there’s days where I’m just like...God, why am I single.
it's astrology. good days and bad days
Yeshua(Jesus) the Christ loves you! Praise YHWH El Shaddai and may He bless you! Christ is the King of kings and Lord of lords!
(YHWH - the LORD) (El Shaddai - God Almighty)
To those who haven’t; Repent of your sins and believe on the Adon Jesus the Christ, believe in your heart that He has died for your sins and rose from the tomb on the third day and you shall receive the Holy Spirit of God and He shall dwell within you. You shall be saved. Be baptized in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
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Jesus the Christ loves you, praise YHWH our Elohim
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Evidence for Jesus Christ’s existence, crucifixion, and disappearance from the tomb (He rose from it):
The Lord Jesus Christ did exist, gathered disciples, and was crucified and went missing from the tomb. To argue about wether He was taken from the grave or rose from it, is an argument a skeptic can make. Because well if you disregard the eye witness testimony of the disciples and there willingness to die for Christ, and humans won’t die for something they know is a lie, when Peter is pinned upside down to that cross, he could have said that it was a fake, but He didn’t because it wasn’t, what care would he have about death in this world if he knew for a fact he had assurance of a life in another, Jesus Christ did rise from the tomb and is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Now the evidence for the Lord Jesus Christ’s existence really isn’t hard to find a multitude of non-Christian scholars and historians mention Him within 150 years after the time of His life. One such is Tacitus a Roman historian who reported on emperor nero’s decision to blame the Christians for the fire that had destroyed rome in 64 AD. Tacitus wrote:
“Nero fastened the guilt ... on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of ... Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome…”
In this Tacitus makes reference to not only Christians, but Christ calling Him Christus and confirming the Gospels going on to say that He suffered the extreme penalty (crucifixion) under the reign of Tiberius and by the sentence of Pontius Pilate, which like I said confirms the Gospels narrative.
Another important source of evidence about Jesus and early Christianity can be found in the letters of Pliny the Younger to Emperor Trajan. Pliny was the Roman governor of Bithynia in Asia Minor. In one of his letters, dated around A.D. 112, he asks Trajan's advice about the appropriate way to conduct legal proceedings against those accused of being Christians. Pliny says that he needed to consult the emperor about this issue because a great multitude of every age, class, and sex stood accused of Christianity. At one point in his letter, Pliny relates some of the information he has learned about these Christians:
“They were in the habit of meeting on a certain fixed day before it was light, when they sang in alternate verses a hymn to Christ, as to a god, and bound themselves by a solemn oath, not to any wicked deeds, but never to commit any fraud, theft or adultery, never to falsify their word, nor deny a trust when they should be called upon to deliver it up; after which it was their custom to separate, and then reassemble to partake of food - but food of an ordinary and innocent kind.”
This passage provides a number of interesting insights into the beliefs and practices of early Christians. First, we see that Christians regularly met on a certain fixed day for worship. Second, their worship was directed to Christ, demonstrating that they firmly believed in His divinity. Furthermore, one scholar interprets Pliny's statement that hymns were sung to Christ, "as to a god", as a reference to the rather distinctive fact that, "unlike other gods who were worshipped, Christ was a person who had lived on earth." If this interpretation is correct, Pliny understood that Christians were worshipping an actual historical person as God! Of course, this agrees perfectly with the New Testament doctrine that Jesus was both God and man.
You may have heard of the scholar Flavius Josephus who mentioned James as being the brother of the Lord Jesus Christ, which matches what Paul said calling James “The Lord’s brother” and there is another document that Josephus may have written which goes:
“About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he ... wrought surprising feats.... He was the Christ. When Pilate ...condemned him to be crucified, those who had . . . come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared ... restored to life.... And the tribe of Christians ... has ... not disappeared.”
Now it’s up to debate wether this is the entirely original document of what Josephus wrote, or if a Christian had edited it. But regardless he wrote about the Lord Jesus Christ. Wether it was negative or positive like the possible document is. Anyways there are many other statements, documents, letters, and writings of all sorts from the ancient world talking about the Lord Jesus Christ and there is not one question if He was a real person or if He was crucified and went missing from the grave. That is clear as day, He is a real person, was crucified, and went missing from the grave. And He did rise from the grave. And for more evidence of the Lord Jesus Christ, there’s the Bible and you see there is no evidence the Bible is corrupted, a lie, created by the Roman government, folktale. It is the recount of the Disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, now wether you want to believe it is up to you. And what profit was there in spreading Christianity, All the early Christian suffered persecution, beatings, and were killed. Another Scholar reported that James the Lord’s Brother was thrown off a building and then stoned to death for spreading the Gospel in Jerusalem. These people went to great lengths even giving their own lives for the Adon Jesus the Christ.
@@mylifeasjessioYeshua(Jesus) the Christ loves you! Praise YHWH El Shaddai and may He bless you! Christ is the King of kings and Lord of lords!
(YHWH - the LORD) (El Shaddai - God Almighty)
To those who haven’t; Repent of your sins and believe on the Adon Jesus the Christ, believe in your heart that He has died for your sins and rose from the tomb on the third day and you shall receive the Holy Spirit of God and He shall dwell within you. You shall be saved. Be baptized in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
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Jesus the Christ loves you, praise YHWH our Elohim
-
Evidence for Jesus Christ’s existence, crucifixion, and disappearance from the tomb (He rose from it):
The Lord Jesus Christ did exist, gathered disciples, and was crucified and went missing from the tomb. To argue about wether He was taken from the grave or rose from it, is an argument a skeptic can make. Because well if you disregard the eye witness testimony of the disciples and there willingness to die for Christ, and humans won’t die for something they know is a lie, when Peter is pinned upside down to that cross, he could have said that it was a fake, but He didn’t because it wasn’t, what care would he have about death in this world if he knew for a fact he had assurance of a life in another, Jesus Christ did rise from the tomb and is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Now the evidence for the Lord Jesus Christ’s existence really isn’t hard to find a multitude of non-Christian scholars and historians mention Him within 150 years after the time of His life. One such is Tacitus a Roman historian who reported on emperor nero’s decision to blame the Christians for the fire that had destroyed rome in 64 AD. Tacitus wrote:
“Nero fastened the guilt ... on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of ... Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome…”
In this Tacitus makes reference to not only Christians, but Christ calling Him Christus and confirming the Gospels going on to say that He suffered the extreme penalty (crucifixion) under the reign of Tiberius and by the sentence of Pontius Pilate, which like I said confirms the Gospels narrative.
Another important source of evidence about Jesus and early Christianity can be found in the letters of Pliny the Younger to Emperor Trajan. Pliny was the Roman governor of Bithynia in Asia Minor. In one of his letters, dated around A.D. 112, he asks Trajan's advice about the appropriate way to conduct legal proceedings against those accused of being Christians. Pliny says that he needed to consult the emperor about this issue because a great multitude of every age, class, and sex stood accused of Christianity. At one point in his letter, Pliny relates some of the information he has learned about these Christians:
“They were in the habit of meeting on a certain fixed day before it was light, when they sang in alternate verses a hymn to Christ, as to a god, and bound themselves by a solemn oath, not to any wicked deeds, but never to commit any fraud, theft or adultery, never to falsify their word, nor deny a trust when they should be called upon to deliver it up; after which it was their custom to separate, and then reassemble to partake of food - but food of an ordinary and innocent kind.”
This passage provides a number of interesting insights into the beliefs and practices of early Christians. First, we see that Christians regularly met on a certain fixed day for worship. Second, their worship was directed to Christ, demonstrating that they firmly believed in His divinity. Furthermore, one scholar interprets Pliny's statement that hymns were sung to Christ, "as to a god", as a reference to the rather distinctive fact that, "unlike other gods who were worshipped, Christ was a person who had lived on earth." If this interpretation is correct, Pliny understood that Christians were worshipping an actual historical person as God! Of course, this agrees perfectly with the New Testament doctrine that Jesus was both God and man.
You may have heard of the scholar Flavius Josephus who mentioned James as being the brother of the Lord Jesus Christ, which matches what Paul said calling James “The Lord’s brother” and there is another document that Josephus may have written which goes:
“About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he ... wrought surprising feats.... He was the Christ. When Pilate ...condemned him to be crucified, those who had . . . come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared ... restored to life.... And the tribe of Christians ... has ... not disappeared.”
Now it’s up to debate wether this is the entirely original document of what Josephus wrote, or if a Christian had edited it. But regardless he wrote about the Lord Jesus Christ. Wether it was negative or positive like the possible document is. Anyways there are many other statements, documents, letters, and writings of all sorts from the ancient world talking about the Lord Jesus Christ and there is not one question if He was a real person or if He was crucified and went missing from the grave. That is clear as day, He is a real person, was crucified, and went missing from the grave. And He did rise from the grave. And for more evidence of the Lord Jesus Christ, there’s the Bible and you see there is no evidence the Bible is corrupted, a lie, created by the Roman government, folktale. It is the recount of the Disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, now wether you want to believe it is up to you. And what profit was there in spreading Christianity, All the early Christian suffered persecution, beatings, and were killed. Another Scholar reported that James the Lord’s Brother was thrown off a building and then stoned to death for spreading the Gospel in Jerusalem. These people went to great lengths even giving their own lives for the Adon Jesus the Christ.
Turn away from the aid of evil and to the aid of the LORD! Yeshua(Jesus) the Christ loves you! Praise YHWH El Shaddai and may He bless you! Christ is the King of kings and Lord of lords!
(YHWH - the LORD) (El Shaddai - God Almighty)
To those who haven’t; Repent of your sins and believe on the Adon Jesus the Christ, believe in your heart that He has died for your sins and rose from the tomb on the third day and you shall receive the Holy Spirit of God and He shall dwell within you. You shall be saved. Be baptized in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
-
Jesus the Christ loves you, praise YHWH our Elohim
-
Evidence for Jesus Christ’s existence, crucifixion, and disappearance from the tomb (He rose from it):
The Lord Jesus Christ did exist, gathered disciples, and was crucified and went missing from the tomb. To argue about wether He was taken from the grave or rose from it, is an argument a skeptic can make. Because well if you disregard the eye witness testimony of the disciples and there willingness to die for Christ, and humans won’t die for something they know is a lie, when Peter is pinned upside down to that cross, he could have said that it was a fake, but He didn’t because it wasn’t, what care would he have about death in this world if he knew for a fact he had assurance of a life in another, Jesus Christ did rise from the tomb and is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Now the evidence for the Lord Jesus Christ’s existence really isn’t hard to find a multitude of non-Christian scholars and historians mention Him within 150 years after the time of His life. One such is Tacitus a Roman historian who reported on emperor nero’s decision to blame the Christians for the fire that had destroyed rome in 64 AD. Tacitus wrote:
“Nero fastened the guilt ... on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of ... Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome…”
In this Tacitus makes reference to not only Christians, but Christ calling Him Christus and confirming the Gospels going on to say that He suffered the extreme penalty (crucifixion) under the reign of Tiberius and by the sentence of Pontius Pilate, which like I said confirms the Gospels narrative.
Another important source of evidence about Jesus and early Christianity can be found in the letters of Pliny the Younger to Emperor Trajan. Pliny was the Roman governor of Bithynia in Asia Minor. In one of his letters, dated around A.D. 112, he asks Trajan's advice about the appropriate way to conduct legal proceedings against those accused of being Christians. Pliny says that he needed to consult the emperor about this issue because a great multitude of every age, class, and sex stood accused of Christianity. At one point in his letter, Pliny relates some of the information he has learned about these Christians:
“They were in the habit of meeting on a certain fixed day before it was light, when they sang in alternate verses a hymn to Christ, as to a god, and bound themselves by a solemn oath, not to any wicked deeds, but never to commit any fraud, theft or adultery, never to falsify their word, nor deny a trust when they should be called upon to deliver it up; after which it was their custom to separate, and then reassemble to partake of food - but food of an ordinary and innocent kind.”
This passage provides a number of interesting insights into the beliefs and practices of early Christians. First, we see that Christians regularly met on a certain fixed day for worship. Second, their worship was directed to Christ, demonstrating that they firmly believed in His divinity. Furthermore, one scholar interprets Pliny's statement that hymns were sung to Christ, "as to a god", as a reference to the rather distinctive fact that, "unlike other gods who were worshipped, Christ was a person who had lived on earth." If this interpretation is correct, Pliny understood that Christians were worshipping an actual historical person as God! Of course, this agrees perfectly with the New Testament doctrine that Jesus was both God and man.
You may have heard of the scholar Flavius Josephus who mentioned James as being the brother of the Lord Jesus Christ, which matches what Paul said calling James “The Lord’s brother” and there is another document that Josephus may have written which goes:
“About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he ... wrought surprising feats.... He was the Christ. When Pilate ...condemned him to be crucified, those who had . . . come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared ... restored to life.... And the tribe of Christians ... has ... not disappeared.”
Now it’s up to debate wether this is the entirely original document of what Josephus wrote, or if a Christian had edited it. But regardless he wrote about the Lord Jesus Christ. Wether it was negative or positive like the possible document is. Anyways there are many other statements, documents, letters, and writings of all sorts from the ancient world talking about the Lord Jesus Christ and there is not one question if He was a real person or if He was crucified and went missing from the grave. That is clear as day, He is a real person, was crucified, and went missing from the grave. And He did rise from the grave. And for more evidence of the Lord Jesus Christ, there’s the Bible and you see there is no evidence the Bible is corrupted, a lie, created by the Roman government, folktale. It is the recount of the Disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, now wether you want to believe it is up to you. And what profit was there in spreading Christianity, All the early Christian suffered persecution, beatings, and were killed. Another Scholar reported that James the Lord’s Brother was thrown off a building and then stoned to death for spreading the Gospel in Jerusalem. These people went to great lengths even giving their own lives for the Adon Jesus the Christ.
I know exactly what you mean. I write, and I started writing with the thought in the background “hurry up and finish so I can get financial freedom and the lifestyle that I desire”. I did that to the point where the passion I had for writing turned it into a pressured activity. I started to mute the love for it focusing on my desired results too much! Then i swung to the opposite side of not doing enough. I’m learning to just chill and find that happy medium
It's crazy how much we're pressured into rushing/monetizing our passions. This is exactly how I felt making content for a while. Definitely all about finding that balance
Yoo I had the same thing but in my case for football
Letting go of control is so hard.. but thank you for reminding me of that. And the thing you said about fear is 100% true. We need to root for ourselves when no one is clapping for us!
I’ve been on a downward spiral for MONTHS now and these vids keep me grounded. Wish I found this page sooner. You are such a light!
Im so glad these have been helpful. Sending my love and wishing you the best❤️
@@LynetteAdkins 😭 you are so sweet omg literally found you through a friend on Ig and we looove your content. You got mad people rooting for you!!
I feel the same way, Joe!
When you said you were making content for three years (decent but operating from fear) but getting nowhere and obsessing over quitting your 9 to 5, I had to pause the video. That is literally me you’re describing.
Thank you for this. I needed to see this.
Edit: your nails are fire
I'm more on the complacent side of things, and the fear can be incredibly paralyzing, even when you don't really feel it. I'm a beginning youtuber, and the fear of not being good enough has held me back from making videos for a while, but I'm beginning to let go. Slowly, but yeah.
You got this, we are all rooting for you!
same here.
The illusive balance between hustle and flow 💫🦋
Omg, the way I relate to everything you're saying.
Struggling to be in the present moment because you're so invested in your future self ( that's so me )
one day i wish to have a comment section as full of positivity as this
From seeing a potential way "out" and imagining a life of freedom, I have definitely swung from complacent to overly controlling. I am never sure how much I "believe" in manifestation, but I think the idea that you will never be your true self while clinging and striving so desperately is something I definitely need to internalize.
i love how raw and real you are. so glad i came across your channel. makes me feel like im in a safe space.
She’s really a gift. 😌💕
Me too. I feel safe and seen here.
I am so glad 🥺❤️ I wish we could all meet and talk bc that’s literally how I feel too!
@@user-gn8qn5wd6i thank u so much
@@SunRayBabyJ I am so glad❤️
anytime i’m feeling unmotivated, unsure of myself or insecure i go straight to your channel for a vibe check
i totally relate - i have trouble living in the moment because of always thinking about the bigger better things i want to do. its not a bad thing to be a visionary, but i've been trying to live in the present more. because i don't want to look back in regret that i didn't appreciate where i was in my journey at any given moment.
Yesss that balance is so difficult!
Da-ummm....Yes! That was the memo from the universe I got this past week too!! “YOURE ALREADY DOING IT!” & “YOUR PURPOSE IS TO JUST BE YOU!” 😍🥰😍💋💪💪
YESSSS
Yes! As you said...”You’re Already Doing It!” “Your Purpose Is To Just Be You!” I MUST remember this. Thank you! 🙏💫
I love the fact that I was watching this and thinking “FINALLY, I found another spirituality content maker who I think I can vibe with besides Trinity" and then you mentioned her!!
but on another note, thank you for this video!! I needed it
my dream is to be a dancer/performer and actress. For a really long time I've felt guilty for not working harder and faster, despite being tired and unmotivated. I think I practiced more out of fear of falling behind and not reaching my dream instead of doing it because I love it. I've been finally taking a break for about two weeks now, I still feel guilty sometimes but I can also feel new motivation building up 😊 I hope I can find the happy medium you talked about this year ❤️ wishing everyone reading this good luck and lot's of love :)
I can relate to this so much!
I'm so excited for you, it sounds like this break is much needed and is giving you the time you need to reflect and come back with a renewed mentality! Rooting for you!
@@LynetteAdkins thank you so much, it means a lot to me :)
You’re right, and I’m taking the leap to go for what I want and leave what I thought I needed behind. Because I just have faith that what I want will come to me
This is gonna be a video I rewatch often, it really speaks to the type of situation I’m in right now. My future self is waiting for me to start being more productive and less complacent, there’s so much that I want to do and accomplish, and when I’m older I want to look back at it all with no regrets or what if’s. Sacrifice for the things you want now, so that what you want doesn’t become the sacrifice ❤️
Omg 😳 you’re calling me out!! Every single word. I needed this. I controlled myself so much to where my content is good but the work I was putting in wasn’t matching because I was fearful.
after watching this video I just realized that I actually don't know what I want to do or who I want to be, that's why I don't do anything because I don't even know what goal I want to achieve and that's v sad to me. Thank you for making me realize this
I don't think that's sad! I feel like more ppl feel that way than actually admit it, there's just so much pressure to feel like we have to have ourselves figured out at such a young age
the fun part of life is learning about yourself as you change and grow!
@@LynetteAdkins thank you for making me feel understood
This is literally something I needed,I always imagine my future self to be this person who isn't underestimated, isn't misunderstood and someone with confidence but then I come back to my present and I always tell myself that I cannot make it while I know that constantly linking myself with negative affirmations isn't gonna take me to where I wanna be
Your thoughts hold sooo much power, I get those negative feelings too sometimes and have been learning to not just try to push them away, but sit with them and understand their root causes, like why do I feel like I can't make it to where I want to be? Why do I feel undeserving of that reality? etc
it's like breaking down limiting beliefs and exposing them as 'false'
So true 💞 letting go is just as important to manifestation as taking action
It feels good to have control of your dream. I agree most people are afraid of trying something different. I am not afraid. I am scared of living an unhappy life.
i'm afraid of making the wrong decision and wasting more time headed down the wrong path
Facts!! I absolutely love your content, the shoot-first mentality really helps one get out of the state of fear/caring so much about what other's think! The moment you DO IT without overthinking so much all of a sudden magic happens!
this made me realize soo many things. really thank you so much!
bless everyone who is trying to get somewhere i believe in our abilities
YESSSSSS!!!! I can't tell you how many times I've heard this from "gurus", life coaches, or even in self-help books. Sometimes it takes different people and more than one person to say something that just clicks and it finally clicked for me. I've been on my manifestation journey for over 5 years trying to leave a job I hate and wanting to live the life I have in my head. I would try to control EVERYTHING to make that happen. Nothing has ever worked out the way I have wanted it to and in some ways has pushed me back into old habits and beliefs derailing my forward momentum. I need to learn how to let go and get into that flow state and trust that things happen for me, not to me. I am so happy I stumbled upon your channel! Thank you for being real and honest. I'm so excited to see how much your channel is going to grow and flourish.
10:20 The never ending balance between "the theory" and "the practice." Most people (myself included) are good at "theory" and bad at "practice." We get stuck in "theory" and never make it to "practice." You have to practice practicing. Get good at doing something simple before you do something big.
Really cool that you compared control and complacency and their similarity is based on fear. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it's great to have these ideas top of mind ❤️
I've been doing everything in my life out of fear and music was and is my escape
It's what I truly love and your videos actually help me see it
Thank you so much
I wanna do what I love and be happy
I really needed this ! I constantly feel stuck because I’m so focused on the future that I forget to act presently and thus become so overwhelmed. Thank you !!!
Yes this is so relatable! it's important enjoy the journey because every stage plays a unique role in your success. Placing too much focus on the outcome can cause and anxiety and hinder authenticity. Great video and congrats on 50k!! 🥳
Thank you!
This is a powerful message that really spoke to me. I feel like I'm on both ends of the two C's and you articulated so well that it really is all just fear.
It's crazy how many of us jump back and forth between the two sometimes! It can be like a cycle of those 2 feelings
Wow, I needed to see this video because I'm obsessing over growing my UA-cam Channel looking at the Analytics...it was meant for me to see this video 🧘🏽♀️💡 the fact that I've visualize how I see my future self lifestyle, family, and way of life I realize that if I can see it I can achieve it! 🧘🏽♀️✨ I have to Trust God, and The Universe to know that it'll happen in perfect timing 🙏🏽 best of luck to anyone whose on their journey! You can do it, believe in yourself, you got it! Like she said you can do so much research and even wish on a star but until you implement it you'll still be wishing!
That last part is really important. Watching UA-camrs living out your dream is important to get inspired but when are you gonna actually go out and achieve that dream yourself? 💎
I literally cried watching this video...thank you so much. I have already been doing these things and the past few days things have really started lining up and I’m now noticing. This video was the confirmation I needed!
Wow, it's crazy how timing works. Sending you my love❤️
This video SPOKE to me and I lowkey felt called out with the whole complacency mind set because you're so right. A lot of mine stems from seeing the success of others and wanting that same thing right away/ not feeling like I have the capacity to do what it takes. I love watching your videos because you make me feel like I can. Love watching you grow and LOVE YOU!!
Binge watching your videos has given me the confidence I needed to continue in my purpose you’re truly inspirational 🥺
listening to you while on my 9 to 5 shift and feeling with all my being how I wanna quit this and complete my canvas. aghh
This was so needed because I’m a real estate investor and other investors will make you feel like you need to grind grind grind all day and night all year to be succesful and I’m someone who knows i need my rest. I can grind and still do what i need to recover from all that grinding. Thanks for making this video. 💕
complacency/laziness has such a stigma in our capitalist society i’m so glad you linked it to control (which is glorified bc ofc capitalism wants us to work at the expense of our well-being) in that they’re both based in fear. someone said the two C’s which i love! i feel so much paralyzing shame personally from complacency but this makes me recenter and remember to tap into what genuinely excites me.
I feel everything that you’re saying!! I’m currently working full time in my 9to 5 and I hate it... but I recently realized that I need to be happy with the present and the life that I’m living RN! I’m happy I found your YT channel in my recommendations, cuz you’re talking about real shit!! I know you gonna have everything you dream of💙 wish you the best, keep being amazing ‼️🧿🙏🏾
Beautifully said, we can be our worst critics and it takes time to work through all the steps to get where we want to be. It's all about how bad you want it.
Totally love this space you have created to really talk about these topics. 💛
Idk why I just enjoy this girl's videos
Isn't this a hell of a journey? The concept of Wu Wei and The End in Mind is key here. I love how everyone on this journey is unique but similar. I wrote about this duality in my journal the other day. I found being "alpha" level productive actually knocked me out of alignment. I still get everything I need to get done, but 10x more easier, happier while in flow. More flow is finding things that really resonate with you and remove energy drainers. Ie social media, politics, games, porn and other forms of escapism. Cheers to everyone.
I am shook to have found ur videos at this crazy time in my life; I appreciate them so much! I love how you speak from experience and share your wisdom
It’s literally like you were speaking right to me, especially when you were talking about not obsessing over your dream life. I do that a lot and I feel like it has gotten to such an unhealthy state because I just end up sitting in my bed dreaming instead of doing. So thank you so much for this video!!
I had to come to this conclusion alone in the darkness of my room at about three in the morning, whilst I cry about how excited I was to finally be free from my worries about the future. I had to allow myself to put trust in my OWN capabilities, and to release the fear that I held onto for so long. I always knew the Universe and my spirit guides were there to help and guide me, but I never listened. The fear and the shame I felt about failing to achieve my dreams became so overwhelming that I never bothered to listen to the signs and the help that was right there for me to take. I swear to god, letting go was the best thing I could have ever done for myself. Now, I am fully confident that I will be able to reach my ultimate goals and be the me that I have always seen within my mind's eye and I'm no longer afraid of my failure for it simply isn't an option anymore :). For the struggling souls out there, I know how hard it is to give up on that fear because it's been by your side for so long. Fear is comfortable and easy, but the moment you switch to freeing yourself and your mind, fear and negative thoughts become the hardest thing in the world to deal with. Letting go is so worth it, highly recommend.
I never related to a video so much.. I totally get the whole obsession with controlling every aspect of life, I go through these moments sometimes when i'm obsessing over the future so bad that I can't even focus on achieving my current short-term goals which then hinders my productivity
Been waiting for this type of video yes yes yes😁😁✨
Whoa, your experience is almost exactly like mine! I've been making UA-cam videos for a little over a year and had one video do really well (a hair video) and felt like I HAD to make more hair videos or else my channel wouldn't grow. I am not even good at doing hair lol but I kept trying to force a beauty channel that wasn't true to me. I was scared that the videos I really wanted to make no one would want to see from me. Now I am excited about the videos I make and I focus a lot less on analytics. I'm trying to let go more and flow with the universe.
Yes! Manifesting from curiosity-what can I achieve?-as opposed to fear-i have to achieve-makes things happen fast.
Needed this 🙏🏼
Thank you so much for uploading this video. I am becoming exhausted with feeling like I need to have control ALL THE TIME. AT times, It does really feel like the harder I try to achieve something the further I get from reaching that goal. But that's only because I tend to obsess over things and never go with the natural flow of the universe. I am so glad I found your video. It was a wake up call for me.
I needed this and it came just in time:) thank you
Girlllll ❤️I love you so much
I freaking love these types of videos that you post! ♡
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This is the truth, the secret, the path! Thank you! 🙏
I needed to see this!
I needed this video, thank you!
Can’t get enough!
this was everything, thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️
Needed this. Thank you 💗
loveee this vid
needed to hear this
U never miss!!!
Thank you , I needed to hear this 💕
So needed this, thank you!!
Thank you, I needed it
I needed this. Thank you 🥺
I really needed to hear that today, thank you!!
omg I was talking about manifestation with my sister and then I came on here and I saw this. Thanks for the video, I love your content
I love these kinds of vids!!!!!
Congrats on 50k, queen 👑💜
I love your videos, they’ve really been inspiring in order to do what we love and focus on our success and just trusting and believing in the process!
Loved this!
i love your content!!
I've been loving your videos 💚
I needed to hear this today. Loving this series!
Loved this so much!!
i've been pondering this exact topic for the last two weeks, thank you for this vid.
I needed this talk 💛 thank you 😊
Thank you for this !
Exactly the sign that I’ve been needing. Perfect timing. Thank you for this message! Love your channel and your vibe. ❤️
this is so important thank you for talking about it! happy i found your channel! running on fear of failure can be motivating and give us the energy we need to pull through, but in so many ways it becomes exhausting, and personally for me numbing too, to run on underlying anxiety most of the time.
So happy I discovered your channel!
I really needed to hear this today. Thanks for this video, and keep spreading love girl!!!!
love this video and your message
thanks for making these videos!
Thank you Lynette I really NEEDED this video! Ily!🤍🪐
This video is exactly what I needed to hear! x
I love how real this is. I'm very glad that I stumbled upon your channel. Thank you so much
you are a blessing. 🌿
Thank you I needed to hear this 🙏
I needed to hear this,great video🤝
thank you so much for being so raw and real💓
Thank you so much for this video, can resonate with this!