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  • Опубліковано 29 лип 2023
  • 🤎 pre-order your self-love journal prompts here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop - limited amount arriving before Christmas + New Year 🤎
    the fastest way of taking our power back is taking responsibility for the part we play in carrying it on... lets chat about how we overcome situations, people + anything, including ourselves, that threaten to make us feel powerless over some merlot. grab your glass and tune in!
    #findingpurpose #transformtrauma #healing #selfactualization #selflove #takeyourpowerback
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  • @TiffanyTV
    @TiffanyTV  6 місяців тому +1

    good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

  • @indhumathinagarajan9620
    @indhumathinagarajan9620 10 місяців тому +76

    Girl, I watched your reel on Instagram and came here. My braint just lit up like a christmas tree with every truth bomb you dropped! I'm happy to say I broke out of my cocoon a few years back and discovered the joy of being surrounded by people who value me for my quirks. But it was good to look back and understand why I felt what I felt and why I did what I did to break out of the victim mindset. Thank you for this video. You got yourself a subscriber! ✨

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому +1

      this comment made me smile. thank you love + welcome 🥰

  • @christinaelizabeth7225
    @christinaelizabeth7225 7 місяців тому +11

    No because when you said “you’re not supposed to blend in with the crowd” something clicked and legit tears came rolling. Thank you Queen ❤

  • @debclee
    @debclee 8 місяців тому +21

    Girl, I think you found your calling. You are amazing at doing this.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      🙏🏾 thank you love

  • @kiraoviedo333
    @kiraoviedo333 7 місяців тому +14

    I really appreciate your videos. I’m 22 and have spent the last 2 years on my journey. I found your channel last week when I felt like I was hitting a “plateau” in healing. It’s hard to be surrounded by people who don’t think like me at all, and this reminds me I’m not crazy lol. Trusting the journey will open me up to what God has planned. Thanks for the reminder to stay disciplined!

  • @kedibonemookisi1441
    @kedibonemookisi1441 9 місяців тому +21

    Seeing your video while am going through my dark nights. 2 days I decided to delete all social media app except UA-cam as it helping me find myself. Thank you sis 😊

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому

      it was meant to be 😌🤎

  • @ebby181
    @ebby181 9 місяців тому +14

    My my this here. I’ve hopped off social media so much because it’s too much. I’m 30 yrs old and newly engaged… everything feels so heavy lately! Taking time to find myself again. In a such a loud world, it’s hard to just be okay with you. Thank you ❤

    • @Wildflowerjas
      @Wildflowerjas 6 місяців тому

      This comment is everything!!

  • @MaishPosh
    @MaishPosh 8 місяців тому +10

    I definitely needed to hear this, i know im a kind nice person but Alot of women I meet are very rude once they see me, I say hi and they just ignore me and it’s very frustrating because it’s almost everywhere I go they aren’t welcoming. But it’s obviously something in me I shouldn’t hide but embrace it like you said.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому +2

      I’m sorry to hear this mama. I pray you’re able to find more welcoming spaces to place yourself in so that you can find your people 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @wonderwomannae5700
      @wonderwomannae5700 8 місяців тому +5

      Don’t take it personal sis. There’s a mental health crisis going on right now and a lot of people are walking balls of misery. Keep being you, one day you’ll smile and wave at your new best friend :)

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 10 місяців тому +27

    I want to tell that i appreciate this content. It is really putting thing's into prospective for me. So thank you beautiful ❤.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому +3

      I pray it continues to help my love! please let me know if there’s anything specific you’d like me to touch on. your feedback is always helpful 🤎

  • @apmg924
    @apmg924 10 місяців тому +5

    This. I’ve found myself in settings of people who have tried to talk me out of who I am. Especially who I am within the confines of my parenthood. Others within those same spaces, will co-sign or at least entertain the remark, joke or slight made toward me. I’ve learned how to keep my distance… it’s been giving mean girl energy. That feed off behavior is annoying

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому

      I agree with every word sis

  • @Na_alina
    @Na_alina 4 місяці тому

    I don’t why but I like your videos and I love you you’re from those few people who get into your heart without any effort

  • @w.hamilton3327
    @w.hamilton3327 7 місяців тому +2

    So ya, I am so happy that my beautiful daughter introduced me to your channel. I am 63 and at a crossroads of ending an old life, just starting my journey into discovering and uncovering who I really am and beginning to learn that I can break out of my cocoon! It has been quite a trip so far. Thank you for your wisdom beautiful soul!! Now you’ve helped another generation!! Blessings goddess.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  7 місяців тому +1

      this made me tear up… thank you for sharing + for being here! I appreciate you 🫂🤎

  • @pixiefulani
    @pixiefulani 10 місяців тому +15

    . It feels like perfect timing thank you for the reassurance that it is okay to take my power back and the steps to keep moving forward 🙏

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому

      it’s more than okay love… in order to truly be at peace, it’s necessary. sending you love 🫂🤎🤎

  • @TiffanyTV
    @TiffanyTV  6 місяців тому +2

    just dropped some self-love, self-awareness prompts + convo starters that I think will really help you guys through these moments 🙏🏾 : www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

  • @Nches1
    @Nches1 8 місяців тому +3

    Tiffany!!! You are God sent. At a point in my life, it felt like my thoughts were out of this world and now I found you!!! Wow!!!! I’m actually not alone. I’ve found a deep new bestie. 😊

  • @BCBrowni
    @BCBrowni 3 місяці тому

    I'm late to this video 😬... but I filled out the travel survey! I hope it's still a thing! 😆.... Thank you again for sharing! Always inspired by your work! ❤❤❤

  • @757staceyontherocks
    @757staceyontherocks 9 місяців тому +6

    That victim mindset was/is a wild forrest to find my way out of. I've been learning about identifying the drama triangle in my life lately which is basically what youre describing here. Just been focused on a more empowered dynamic in the relationships i have with others and within myself 🧡 great reminders! 🫶🏼

  • @bonemonroe
    @bonemonroe 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤ your a breath of fresh air. It’s like every video you DONT MISS ‼️‼️

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому

      🥹🙏🏾 thank you love

  • @kaishajohnston9040
    @kaishajohnston9040 8 місяців тому +1

    You are literally my favourite person to watch, you come across so genuine and with such wisdom and guidance! Keep showing us what a strong independent woman looks like ❤️ X

  • @EarthQueen-1111
    @EarthQueen-1111 8 місяців тому +1

    This video kept popping up on my feed… it’s a sign for me to watch ❤

  • @kimchikimchi1251
    @kimchikimchi1251 8 місяців тому +6

    When you talked about being deep that hit me like a brick. I have a heart to teach and share with others what I know and an associate of mine recently said I’m “preachy”. It was hurtful, but after a few hours of self analysis I was like “I’m Judy not for that person and that’s okay.” Thank you for sharing

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому +1

      there will alwayyyysss be people that you’re “too much” for. leave them where they stand. keep being you beautiful 🤎

  • @wolf-cj1eb
    @wolf-cj1eb 8 місяців тому +2

    It's unbelievable to me to fatham why your videos got less views than there should be
    I wish your thoughts reach to many people as many possible .

  • @dawnanderson5611
    @dawnanderson5611 8 місяців тому +1

    This is only the second video I’ve watched but this is the message I needed. I am at a loss for words because I feel like you were personally talking to me. You are truly a blessing

  • @camillebelcon8811
    @camillebelcon8811 9 місяців тому +1

    snap, snap, snap! I have come to all of these realisations myself - stepping into dreaming bigger for myself and ready to release those that don't want to come with me or think I'm incapable. They've had enough of my life - it's mine and I'm going to live it!

  • @Joshnellyorbe
    @Joshnellyorbe 8 місяців тому +3

    God is speaking through you! Thank you for sharing, you are living in your purpose ❤️🙏

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому +1

      this gave me chills. receiveddd 🙏🏾🤎

  • @stephsteph1338
    @stephsteph1338 10 місяців тому +4

    Tiffany, This was a beautiful video! Excellent! ♥️😊 Thank you!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому +1

      thank you! 😌🤎🤎

  • @raniaclaire
    @raniaclaire 7 місяців тому

    I’ve watched so many of your videos in the last 24 hours and have resonated with every single one. Thank you so much for sharing your heart and wisdom with us.

  • @Kentasha-lt9fk
    @Kentasha-lt9fk 8 місяців тому +1

    Your videos came right on time with the path I’m taking. I don’t have very many positive people around me, so your channel is my go to💕

  • @blessingmurray1605
    @blessingmurray1605 7 місяців тому

    Oh my!! Thank you so much for this video❤❤❤

  • @kyram123
    @kyram123 8 місяців тому +2

    I am so glad this found me. This is everything I needed to hear ❤
    You have real Queen of cups energy. A lot of people think she is nurturing, and she is, but only because she has strong boundaries and her self love comes first!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Born2bglamtv
    @Born2bglamtv 10 місяців тому +4

    This video was confirmation to what I already had a conversation with God about ♥️ Thank you for the clarity and confirmation

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому +1

      don’t you love when you get direct confirmation like that? 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @SingAdilsoftwareSing-no5yj
      @SingAdilsoftwareSing-no5yj 10 місяців тому

      I love these comments

  • @joyce-sipora3909
    @joyce-sipora3909 7 місяців тому

    From France. I THANK U. I FEEL U.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  7 місяців тому

      France 🥹🤎 you are so welcome love!

  • @sophiamcmaster694
    @sophiamcmaster694 8 місяців тому

    Everything you said in this video resonates with me. Thank you for all the amazing work you are doing and how much work you are doing and helping others along the way.

  • @novaastv
    @novaastv 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful video thank uu for posting this 💕

  • @goldenari295
    @goldenari295 8 місяців тому

    *I Love You* i’m already having to move around people & things that make me feel ashamed of myself…Thank you for being someone that I actually look up to as a 22 year old. I can’t say that about many people. You are graceful, divinely feminine & beautifully souled ✨🦋🫶🏽

  • @ranoo9686
    @ranoo9686 8 місяців тому

    Love it

  • @makenanjeru8282
    @makenanjeru8282 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤so deeply valuable

  • @immensebeaute5293
    @immensebeaute5293 8 місяців тому

    Tiffany I ask that you keep these videos coming please 🙏🏾I’m thankful

  • @Jyeah89
    @Jyeah89 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Tiffany

  • @lailas.legacy
    @lailas.legacy 8 місяців тому +2

    You are definitely not alone, I love deep conversations, I live for those. Let's be friends ❤

  • @crafty_crown
    @crafty_crown 9 місяців тому

    Oooh you are deep. I'm so blessed to have found your channel. I've been watching prophetic words, how to, narcissistic abuse all of these things trying to learn how to fix my life. Your videos are what I've needed all along. Thank you. God bless your soul.

  • @user-dl4cu8vu1s
    @user-dl4cu8vu1s 7 місяців тому

    I haven’t found anyone that sees my value and I still put boundaries on people

  • @user-ms4ws3pm3l
    @user-ms4ws3pm3l 6 місяців тому

    Thank you my cc from 🥰🇿🇦

  • @audacein5063
    @audacein5063 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @MaiaLauryn
    @MaiaLauryn 7 місяців тому

    Your the big sister I've been looking for ❤️ speaking my language and it's exactly what I need to hear for this transition.

  • @leylac9064
    @leylac9064 8 місяців тому

    I watch these videos every morning! I love the content girl 🫶🏽

  • @mgg270
    @mgg270 8 місяців тому

    Your videos are heaven-sent! I need this so much. You're an Earth angel

  • @purposed11
    @purposed11 9 місяців тому

    The deepest part of my soul needed to watch this video! I guess my going through a Dark Night of the Soul. I needed this encouragement! 😢

  • @KeKe19865
    @KeKe19865 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this beautiful message. Much luv ❤

  • @sparklesdiva310
    @sparklesdiva310 8 місяців тому

    I am absolutely full of gratitude for you. You help me shift my perspective back to what really matters.❤❤

  • @leyladivine
    @leyladivine 8 місяців тому

    Omg I am always like whoa why did I take it so deep…I don’t even realize it until people get taken off guard.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      lol same. and now I just lean into it 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @shamarahyde22
    @shamarahyde22 9 місяців тому

    I appreciate your great tips! Continue what you’re doing you’re doing a great job. We hear you

  • @ghettohippie5568
    @ghettohippie5568 7 місяців тому

    You literally appeared at the right time.
    Thank you.

  • @DorianEyre
    @DorianEyre 8 місяців тому

    Gratitude 🙏🏾 Thank You 💜 for sharing such an empowering message with us
    I'm so keen to binge watch your channel , you're vibe is a cool , calming scenic lake bathed in the radiant light of a sunset

  • @chalandajones3300
    @chalandajones3300 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful message ❤

  • @paulaslatersthecreativeint1810
    @paulaslatersthecreativeint1810 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video, i have so much to say about it, but thank you for making it, you have confirmed a whole lot of things for me❤ much love, and hope your message reach all corners of the earth!

  • @boomboom1258
    @boomboom1258 8 місяців тому

    I'm a new subscriber to your channel after watching two of your videos on gratitude and self trust - before I watch this video, I just want to say thank you for giving your advice in a way that makes sense easily and you being genuine and honest earned you extra brownie points. Love your content so far.

  • @natalijarajkovic-rs2gp
    @natalijarajkovic-rs2gp 7 місяців тому

    I absolutely love and respect your depths. Keep going🥰

  • @_sweeteststarr
    @_sweeteststarr 10 днів тому

    I needed and appreciated this video✨🫶🏼 I’ve been skipping over it just watching other videos ( Dont kill me lol ) and it came on after another video and I wasnt in the position to change it. Glad I didn’t 💕

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 днів тому +1

      lol girl no offense taken… the things we need the most, we usually avoid until we can’t… you watched when you were supposed to 😌

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace 10 місяців тому +1

    Love this! I’m going to own the things that makes me - me. I’m also going to set more boundaries with others. 💛 Thank you for sharing.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому +1

      you deserve it girl 😌🤎

  • @selestineshiro3918
    @selestineshiro3918 9 місяців тому

    Hey dear, thanks for sharing these powerful ideas❤

  • @user-ft8kf2xt4i
    @user-ft8kf2xt4i 8 місяців тому +1

    you’re like the sister I never had. I absolutely love your content and feel inspired and brave enough to begin doing some of the self work I’ve put off for so long because of your words. thank you sis 🫶

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому +1

      you’re so welcome love 🤎🤎

  • @sweeteebabes
    @sweeteebabes 7 місяців тому

    Beautiful ❤

  • @trinitytv7_
    @trinitytv7_ 4 місяці тому

    Definitely subscribing and sent these videos to all three of my very best friends

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому

      welcome to the family love 😌🤎

  • @lenadebique5153
    @lenadebique5153 8 місяців тому

    I am hooked this is my 3rd blog for you am watching for the day ❤

  • @ENGLISHIPHOPCampos
    @ENGLISHIPHOPCampos 10 місяців тому +2

    O love your way of your wisdom

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @toniamoss3975
    @toniamoss3975 6 місяців тому

    Your channel is a blessing. Keep on doing what you do.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому

      thank you love! 🥰

  • @hannaharstories
    @hannaharstories 8 місяців тому

    this was lovely. thank you

  • @celestepillows3711
    @celestepillows3711 8 місяців тому

    Love this may we speak in self reliance and hod being silent ❤

  • @andisiwepikisa3038
    @andisiwepikisa3038 8 місяців тому

    I love this so much 🥺❤️

  • @aishabell1009
    @aishabell1009 6 місяців тому

    Tiffany, I love your videos. They are helping me in ways that only God know. I share your videos and like them. You are authentic, loving, caring, inspirational, and motivational. Keep doing what your doing it is very much needed.
    Happy Thanksgiving

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому

      so late but thank you mamas 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @modelwhitney
    @modelwhitney 9 місяців тому

    Love your videos so much.

  • @G.Suzanne
    @G.Suzanne 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this ❤ I have a 14 yr old daughter and we are going to have discussions around your content. Kids make hher feel weird because of what makes her beautiful! She needs to find her tribe not everyone will think the same. We are here for this!!!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  4 місяці тому

      this made me smile so big! 14 is a hard age. I pray it helps her🤎

  • @octaviac1541
    @octaviac1541 6 місяців тому

    I needed this so much!! So timely for the transition I’m in right now

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  6 місяців тому

      🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @MAGICMANPHONESing-bp3cj
    @MAGICMANPHONESing-bp3cj 10 місяців тому +2

    My thought been more strong with mind ,thank you about it

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому

      of course 🤎🤎

  • @miskyabdillah7451
    @miskyabdillah7451 8 місяців тому

    It's important to have time for urself.🎉🎉

  • @sararay9370
    @sararay9370 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing! I loved this!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому +1

      thank you for watching love 🤎

  • @marchellburton5966
    @marchellburton5966 6 місяців тому

    Tiffany, you're officially my new favourite youtuber ❤ I can relate so well to your content, sometimes it leaves me brushing tear drops. Thank you for being deep. Thank you for sharing your gift. You are love and light through and through. ❤

  • @royalpriestess3467
    @royalpriestess3467 9 місяців тому

    Thank you I needed this video today!!! 🙌🏾🧘🏾‍♀️🤍

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому +1

      🙌🏾🤎🤎

  • @karenp111
    @karenp111 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @goldenhippie1984
    @goldenhippie1984 8 місяців тому

    The poking fun at you for being you. I've heard this multiple times and so many of us can relate. I've learned that they've been secretly following me to be just like me.

  • @ITSCHANELSWAY
    @ITSCHANELSWAY 9 місяців тому

    Omgggg I needed this 😢

  • @mirandaalaine
    @mirandaalaine 6 місяців тому

    Oh girl, let's be friends. You think JUST LIKE ME!!!

  • @patgrl
    @patgrl 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @HealingwithRose
    @HealingwithRose 9 місяців тому

    Listen hunnie if your not speaking to me idk who lol…I just found your channel and I wish I found it sooner your videos are amazing and speak to me on a deeper level love it definitely one of the best channels❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zerenamafdet440
    @zerenamafdet440 8 місяців тому

    💯

  • @_b3ll3_ame
    @_b3ll3_ame 8 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed this video from the beginning to end! It has given me new insight into how to go about my healing journey. I appreciate you for this💛
    Can you discuss the topic of letting go people & not going back/chasing?

  • @naemarie2464
    @naemarie2464 8 місяців тому

    Your video came at a perfect time for me. I broke up with my partner recently to find inner peace and happiness. I felt like I needed to do this journey alone. My emotional side does regret that decision and misses him however I do believe I now have the opportunity to really focus and be myself freely.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому +1

      + what’s meant to be, WILL be love. taking care of you will make you an even better partner in the future. I’m proud of you girl 🫂🤎

  • @madrearendse1671
    @madrearendse1671 8 місяців тому

    Tiffany, please speak on claiming your power and setting boundaries in your romantic relationship, when you choose to stay with the person?

  • @zureenalillah2784
    @zureenalillah2784 8 місяців тому

    I love your look ❤

  • @tee7105
    @tee7105 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow I feel so seen listening to you. Your message is so so empowering and I believe that I needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @Spp11119
    @Spp11119 9 місяців тому +1

    This made me cry. Currently in this situation

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому

      sending you all the love + a big hug 🫂

  • @tamikaradford4326
    @tamikaradford4326 7 місяців тому

  • @zaneaaaliyah
    @zaneaaaliyah 6 місяців тому

    currently going through the dark night of the soul

  • @baconkaryn
    @baconkaryn 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dr.sampadakhair6204
    @dr.sampadakhair6204 9 місяців тому

    I really adore you. ❤

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому

      🙏🏾🤎🤎

  • @JasmineNicoleCogdell
    @JasmineNicoleCogdell 8 місяців тому +3

    A fellow deep person 🥹🫶🏽🩷

  • @SinesiphoNgubane
    @SinesiphoNgubane 9 місяців тому

    iIhave been feeling like this for a while but did not have the words to articulate what i'm feeling. I now know what to do.

  • @lidyaerickson1973
    @lidyaerickson1973 8 місяців тому

    Im a deep 20 year old and i feel a lil weird and different so i really love your chanel and that alone time is so nice and those choices we make every day is life but hard realizing we have a choice. we make heaven for ourselves or hell or mediocre life. Anyway thank you

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      It was really tough for me in my younger years because I felt different from everyone. I’m here to tell you what I wish someone told me: you are exactly who you’re supposed to be. nurture it. it’s your superpower love.
      you’re absolutely right… you literally choose how you see + navigate the world. mastering all of this at such a young age is going to help you so much along the way. people may not get you, but they don’t need to. look for people who SEE you for you. sending you all the love on your journey mamas.. I’m happy you’re here 🫂🤎

  • @ldougoux357
    @ldougoux357 9 місяців тому

    I am really learning some good lessons from you…purpose..new subscriber!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому

      welcome to the family love 😌🤎