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I'm 23 and marriage is on the end of my list in my head for numerous reasons. What happened in the last few days has baffled me. I kid you not a few days ago a woman was asking me to get married and was very serious about it. You guys will seriously not believe this but this woman was using her business number for the pass year doing hoe crap. I thought someone was pranking her since her number was actually appearing for those websites. Straight up im not joking what so ever. I started texting saying WTF are you doing do you know your number is appearing in these websites. I kid you not this number is connected to her better business bureau profile. She started asking how do you know etc lol. I am suprised no one told this woman because this could have been used to sabotage her business even harassment idk if she has a stalker after all this time. After "saving" her ass and helping her with her social media marketing for her business she started asking me do you want to get married lmao and already saying i love you. WTF is this woman thinking she is clearly selling herself after business hours and asking me to take her up like im some captain save a hoe as you guys say it lol. Technically i was since i told her and should of never said a word. She started sending me selfies of herself and man she is hot asf but no where near worth it after find this out. But im just gonna play along bang her and move on lol. This is the very first time ever ive caught a business woman being a hoe at the same time. She even has courses that she sells and a ton of good reviews like why??? Also till this moment she still hasnt changed the number this woman is stupid as a mofo. P.S @EntrepreneursinCars if you think this is bogus i can send you this woman's number and you will see for yourself lol that her number the she is using on these hoe websites is connected to her business. Im not trying to blast her but you guys really like seriously need to watch out who you are dating and considering marrying
@@MichaelWilson-pp6cm There is no way in hell what you said is true. You mean to tell us all that she is a prostitute? Is that what you meant. She asked to marry you? why? Screenshots or it never happened
What the flying hell. How many companies do you own dude and your 23? She asked you do you own all these companies. So in essence this woman is after your money and she sends you a selfie to try and impress you with her looks. BAHAHAHAHA holy shit she cant remove the phone or something?
I work at a law firm and 80% of the practice is family law. I will never get married because the courts are so prejudice against men. My male clients get slaughtered. It’s depressing.
Some of these women are straight up sluts on the back end. I was recently working with a business women and her number was connected to her better business bureau profile. So she is a business women with a legit location and everything and a prostitute. On top of that she asked me to get married just straight crazy and on top of that she is hot. No one would believe this woman is a prostitute and business woman at the same time
Very true. My divorce lawyer said to me, right before we went into court. "I am about to introduce you to your ex wife. You have never met this women before. She looks like your wife, but she isn't." Damned if he wasn't right.
I have a friend who just got divorced making over 300k a year and he’s bringing home 500 bucks a week with child support, alimony, and spousal support. Careful my friends, marriage ain’t worth it.
619 San Diego yeah life is easier it looks like. Who needs a Ungrateful bitch taking your shit you bust your ass to get. When you think about what do you gain most guy cook for themselves wash their own clothes ect
Got you beat guy...59 no engagement, no girl friends, no nothing. I'm a complete loser and loving it all. I've watched friends through one divorce after another, and married ones slowly stewing in their own juice. Life is peaceful, calm, I save money and still work some. Thank god women never were interested in me.
I'm 65 and enjoy being single. I found that relationships are a waste of time, money and energy. Too much mental stress. Whenever I would ask the question what do you want? It would be met with silence. That said everything to me. I love my freedom.
@Pos dem Its in mens DNA to protect women. Men have an out of group preference, women have a in group preference. A man will destroy another man to succeed. Women are more cooperative. Men shilling out for votes. Women make up 51% of voters.
I told my ex wife many years ago that she, not I, was the source of her discontent. Most people living in the USA, barring serious health issues, should have no problem being content. As I comment over and over again at the discontent in such a wealthy country: It is never enough....
Michael S, health is a major one. My health took a serious turn for the worse over the past 6 or seven years, and as I have tried to cope with it, I find very little support from my wife. You learn a lot about the true nature of relationships when you go through hard times. Choose wisely.
Exactly what I'm feeling now. It's like you do something nice for them and he moment they wake up the next day everything gets erased. They are miserable creatures and only wish to spread their misery onto others
cumshot16 HA. Okay. Men like you are single, fat and only aspire to be like Rich, but never will be like him. Hence why you don’t even have a profile pic.
@@kariemelje8468 showing your true colors. Quick to demean the man. Couldn't even bother to ask what he's talking about or why he feels that way. Also, anyone who gives out any personal information, be it a picture or name on social media in this day and age, are not bright.
YEP, the gender role expectation dynamics have changed for women over the years (more rights, power and less responsibilities) yet men are expected to do what they have always done i.e. provide for/take care of family, make good money, don't complain about their problems, be tough and stoic and essentially "man up". When a man wants to abstain from the mousetrap called marriage, he is called a selfish, spineless weasel but when a woman chooses to not get married, she's hailed as a "strong, liberated, independent woman" GTFO!
@@lionelhutz5137 really? Most people i know just assume that they must be bitter cat women lol and they (including the women themselves) think the wife should work (because most homes require two incomes) and do the lion's share of the housework/cooking. So i wonder what most people's views really are.
Duuuuuude i have been saying that sentence for the past two years. Men are expected to man up, provide and support his household in every way possible, if the husband is no doing his part 100% then he is a dick and idiot to his wife and community . On the other hand, if a women does 20% of her duties as wife she the best wife on the plant earth. Its men that are leaders and anchors to their families and women are the ones that can make a man succeed and excel , a woman support is the main reason a man would keep working hard without giving up to provide for his family.
@Tom Thumb a simple Google search reveals divorce court multiple times by Helen Smith, common sense would indicate no one wants to lose half their shit, and that was never even mentioned in the question. Goes to show they like to be delusional about everything in reality. They live in lala land until it's too late.
Islamic divorce is much different. Khula: initiated by woman, she gets nothing and husband only pays for the child till he is 18. I opted to initiate the divorce. He doesn't even pay for his school tuition. My son's average expenditure is 20k+ and father pays maintaince of 13k. I work a full time job as a doctor. And my mom takes care of him. Talaq: initiated by man and is drawn out and you can always go back after two "Talaqs". Once done, husband pays maintaince and child support. Muslim men have it good. Haq Mahar is literally 32 Rupees 18 anaay. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Anirban Ganguly which is why men are staying away from it. Men are sick of it. Women have proven themselves incapable of handling that power. They've gone too far.
...and men who are married end up with tombstones behind their eyes. Just go to any shopping mall to witness married men following thier wives around from shop to shop. No energy behind the eyes. Dead men walking.
Exactly pal. I am 47 and a working single Dad in Thailand. So much easier than having a live in woman 'helping out'. One kid = one kid. One kid + live in woman = two kids.
You know, I want to get married. But after being red pill aware, 8 prior relationships, 2 combat tours, and crippling depression, I’m not sure if being divorce raped is something to risk.
I'm not military, but i know men that are, and they say that having your kids blocked from you and the rest of what's involved is worse. I can't compare, but infidelity, divorce and the courts beats the crap out of you. Play the game for yourself, that's what women do.
In a successful marriage the answer lies in faith. Many don’t take marriage seriously, some think they do but have a misleading understanding in marriage. Those who truly believe in God and are married are happier than singles. We’re social beings, and marriage is the ultimate commitment one can give to another. As a female I believe in marriage(commitment), I hope my brothers chose wisely though and have the chance to strengthen their relationship with the help of God.
What do you do as a red pill married man. I have a red pill mindset as a married man but I don't get how would you practice why of the teaching. Do you practice the teaching of women's true nature?
When I try to have a discussion about this with women and I mention the things you talked about they become unglued and triggered in a heartbeat and I'd look at them and I'd tell them this is exactly why men are avoiding marriage..
HAHAHA I get that every time, and I also get it from men who overhear me talk about it (when I'm asked, since I'm 30 ... I'm getting asked more and more often). People like that make it instantly onto my "don't bother socializing with" list ... just a waste of time and energy to talk to people who say that ...
You’re biggest mistake is arguing with women. Women like to rent. They did practice what they preach and will just agree with everything a women does even if it’s double standard
This is why even I’m scared to talk to women these days about anything even slightly moderate (usually fact based topics) or slightly traditional. It’s insane. I simply tried to explain to a friend why I like Jordan B Peterson and I almost got my head bit off for even suggesting he’s a smart man. So I don’t blame men for avoiding marriage anymore lol how can you make a marriage work if one side is being told it’s perfectly acceptable to base your opinions and actions 100% on feelings and instinct. Women are being taught they’re 100% in the right all the time and it’s fucked
This is so True! It's already where women will marry themselves! This is insanity! Honestly Men and Women are meant to compliment each otber. As the Bible teaches, as marriage is a divine institution. As ordained by God. With that said, people need to turn away from their wicked ways. And turn to God in all things. And really live for God. I am saying this country and society needs to turn to God. And with this said, we wouldn't have all of these issues. Social and within our families. Of course, God has given all of us free will. So I am saying that we have a choice to make. I am saying my two cents worth. Everyone here in the comments section, have a good day. God bless everyone here in the comments section.
The girls at my High School talking in large groups about “ divorcing lose her husbands and stealing the guys livelihood liked there mothers.” Has turned me off to dating anyone in the area
Well. I've made my own money, saved it & own 2 homes. I worked so much & was so independent that I forgot to have children..oops! I want to marry my man & do all I can to please him as often as possible. I'll be cooking, cleaning & making our house a home for us both. He'll get all the attention, sex & love that he needs. I can't wait! I don't recall feeling so much like this before. It's called LOVE.
Women have made it too difficult. It's too much work, time, and money. Women want a successful man, but successful men (like myself) are focused on going to the next level. If a woman wants a man, she needs to take the initiative & show interest. I refuse to use my valuable time to compete with 10 other chumps who are dying for her attention. Lowering myself to compete with those chumps would be equivalent to a star MLB player quitting the pros to go play in the minors.
even when you think an east european woman or asian women are better ... bullshit. They are broke too. They learn the western way of life and f*** you through hell ... but with your clothes on.
I love how women act like they don’t know why men avoid marriage it’s entertaining, I’m 44 years old never married and never had the desire😎 it’s simply not worth it
Even Russian Roulette seems like a better deal... Even if you lose its over in an instant, as opposed to it being strung out over decades while a man slowly dies inside.
Russian Roulette is 1 in 6 chance your life goes to shit. Marriage / Divorce is 50% for the annual in and out - but 93% probability in 10 years or less ( the average marriage is just 7 years) Fuck it.
Of course not if they quit there job they don't get UNEMPLOYMENT benefits this would change the game. All this crap should be trumped by the abolishment of slavery in 1865 . Nobody should have to slave for another person.
I'm from Russia and sutuation is very similar here. We are being westernized with a huge rate. False values, lack of feminine skills and everything you talk about is here as well. Not as bad as you have it, but getting there.
When I was deployed I had a couple of married friends and they would always have to call and ask their wife can they spend money to buy things. It was sad
I'm very happily married. But I got in years ago before all the girls were treated like princesses. Marry a woman who washes the floor, cooks meals, does the washing and greets you with a kiss and cares about you....what? You can't find one? I guess the spoiled princesses have taken over. Sometimes it's better to be elderly!
My brother is but, even he said that's rare. He's takes vacation with his bro to korea, I was stationed there, she didnt come. Just few rare things in his marriage.
I gave up on dating entirely at 21 and never looked back. I'm 29 now, happily single, don't have sex and don't want to. I just enjoy my peace and quiet and don't want to be bothered with anyone. For me, happiness is a grilled steak and baked potato, a Diet Coke and a good movie. If you want to see me happy, give me that and leave me the f**k alone. Never was a people person. Never considered myself alpha or beta. I'm an omega male and proud of it! alpha male - tries to impress women with bad boy persona beta male - tries to woe women with chivalry and/or beg omega male - loves being single, loves being himself regardless of what anybody thinks, and willfully neglects women and sex to focus on other areas of life. It's all about living for yourself and not giving a f--k what anybody thinks about it. I love that! Also, rejecting hot women is more fun than sleeping with them anyway. Think about it, she's hot which means she's spoiled and used to having men treat her like a goddess - then I come along being the cold-hearted motherf---er that I am and act rude, stuck-up, treat her like a walking, talking piece of sh*+, and walk off feeling like a boss! I love it. Btw, why would you respect the institution of marriage? It has a 50% failure rate. How is that something to be respected/admired?
75% to 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Women get what they want in a divorce. If I was thinking about going skydiving and learning that my parachute only had a 25% chance of working correctly...nobody would be skydiving. Marriage sounds good, companionship, love, shared experiences, family, someone to care for you when you get sick or need a ride to the hospital. But all the temporary good things don't outweigh the inevitable excruciating pain of the divorce. It is a huge financial and emotional price to pay, and all because the girl got bored or just wasn't satisfied because that's what a lot of divorces come down to. Irreconcilable differences. It's no longer a sacred bond that can only be broken by something truly horrible like cheating or physical abuse. Women got all this power from women's rights and it's like they can't make up their minds or control themselves. Then want an alpha for a couple weeks then a beta for a couple weeks. He must be strong, but sensitive and he must be able to read a women's mind to know when she wants him to be strong and when to be sensitive. He has to have a big dick and lots of money and muscles. Women say "that's not true ". Bullshit! Every woman with a guy that is skinny or fat (no muscle) with an average to small dick working a low wage job will definitely 100% not be satisfied and will leave. And even if a guy has all 3 he still has a great chance of getting fucked by a divorce. I no longer do anything trying to make myself more marketable to women. I only do what makes me happy. When I work out it's for me. When I dress nice it's for me. When I spend my money, it's for me. Women wanted equality. Now they have it all and they can do shit for themselves.
@Insidious Sid Millions of couples have stayed married for their entire lives. Like I said, not every man's problem's are your problems with women. Alot of men have loyal partners and are happily married with families and wouldn't have it any other way. If you don't like women, simply just don't date/marry one. Those who want partners will find them and those who don't will do whatever it is they want to do. Nobody is losing anything here.
@@rickyg.3111 Sorry dude. It's about the statistics. Millions of couples have stayed married their entire lives but how many of those men are truly happy? A lot of men wouldn't have it any other way but but the overwhelming numbers that wish they had never done it at all show that statistically it is against you. From my personal observations I would say less than 10% of married men are truly happy. Other peoples opinions range anywhere from 1% to 5% to 10%. So over 50% odds that you will lose your hard earned stuff in a divorce, at least 90% odds that you will be unhappy, and only a meager 10% chance at best that you will be happy?!? NO THANKS!!! I'll pass AND do everything in my power to educate young men about the dangers of marriage and women's true nature so that they too will make the smart decision and avoid marriage lack the plague. In addition, we are in a gender war, and the most important thing for men to do to win this is resource denial for women. This means DO NOT MARRY. Do not give women access to resources they have not earned and more power in the world.
And this is why you don't sign the dotted line. When she decides to stop being a loving wife you will become her slave under the threat of being divorced and having all of your stuff taken. This is why over 70% of divorces are initiated by women. The marriage contract makes her the boss in the relationship regardless of how "manly" you are. Sign that paper and you're now her bitch. No thank you im good.
“Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.” ― Charles Bukowski
Read 1 Corinthians 7...that explains everything. I think if people actually took the time to read and understand the Bible, then they would realize it is the ultimate Red Pill book.
My culture its expected to give dowry as religious obligation, nowadays women from my culture want 20k dowry payment upfront along with em expecting you to pay for the wedding, bills and everything. Western state aside, the dowry system in some cultures is not good for men!
I’m 37, I own my own house and have 3 cars and I have a few bucks saved, watching videos like this and hearing about what my male coworkers go through, make me not want to get married or have kids.
I agree and I’m a woman. Women need to let a man be a man. It’s ok for women to have a job and education but don’t bash every guy. Smile and have charisma. A lot of women want to a wife but don’t have the qualifications to be one.
Also. I don’t understand why almost every woman in the office hates me. It’s kinda ridiculous. They are all in their late 40s and have tattoos and very loud and curse a lot. I keep to myself. So why pick on me
@ETB I agree and I’m a women. Personally I’ve seen women make a men’s life worse by doing the whole baby momma drama and child support and it’s ridiculous. I don’t understand how Court won’t say anything to women who do that but if men do it to the women oh. The world is upside down. That’s why men supper more and I’ve seen women use the child support money to do their hair, nails and nothing for the kids. It’s sad
@ETB Women need to petition the gov't? Ain't goin' happen. 'Sweet promises'. How did that enter your realm of thought? Simply walk away. James Bond does not bitch and complain - he just leaves. Date but LTR's and/or dating single parent mothers will generally reek havoc on one's life and soul. It's men's fault because each male in a bad relationship has let himself get into the mess they are in. The men in relationships who gave up their hobbies, their guy friends, their poker nights, etc., etc. stopped being a guy, and became pussified. The men who have placed 'their woman' on a pedestal are idiots - and deserve what they get. Women are just doing what women do. If any relationship (personal or biz) isn't working for you - simply walk away. Cut the cancerous people - men and women - from your life.
For Real. I no longer wonder why dudes get fat when they get married. Work + Working on my side business + Gym (atleast an Hour) + Prepping my meals + 2-3 Showers a day (30Min) because of active lifestyle. How the fuck would i have time to entertain a nagging wife
I dated a woman who had like 900 Facebook friends. She was not interested in me as much as being able to post about having a boyfriend. We could not go on a date without her updating and taking photos none stop. The validation she got from FB meant she put her self on a pedestal. We broke up after I got tired of her acting like she was doing me a favor by dating me. Everything was my fault and when I poited out her flaws she laughed at me. I feel really bad for the next guy she dates.
Coop does a pretty good job explaining the legal ramifications of marriage. Socially and personally, the numbers game is terrible. Simply put, there are less than 60% of the females in the US that are not obese or overweight. So the selection pool is low. Now that women are getting jobs and there's a social push to accelerate their pay above men's and to hire women over men, it lessens the darting pool for women too. In other words, women won't marry down economically. So feminism is basically turning marriage into a wealthy persons game, but the law is really pushing them out too. So now that most women won't be attracted long term to a man, and most men aren't attracted to most women, what are we left with? On a personal level, most men are taught to look after women, not to boss or push them around, make joint decisions and always consider what she wants. Don't be pushy or aggressive, etc. women are taught that men should do the cooking and share in the household chores and share in child rearing.... basically, the way we're raising our kids makes them completely unattractive to the opposite sex too. Finally, women have no skin in the game. They don't want to have sex, they stop and leave the guy frustrated him and ruin him if he cheats or forces sex. It's rare for a woman to ever pay alimony. It's rare that the woman lose her house or kids. Even at split custody, the man usually has to pay. And women are encouraged for this outcome. Basically men risk everything for temporary or little gain. Women risk very little but have enormous gain from getting married. Go feminism.
Toxic feminists have killed men’s’ interest. If I was a man I’d never marry. Even prenups can be overturned. It’s always the nice guys that get screwed over too. It’s not fair. I don’t blame men, and I’m a female and I understand this.
#1 Liability, not only do you lose half, the other half goes to legal fees, child support and alimony. #2 The courts make awards that can force men into extreme poverty so the princess can live the life she deserves. Your survival is not the courts concern. Many men never reach the same life style they had before divorce. Living in a single wide trailer in a cheap trailer park has become a right of passage for many divorced men trying to recover financially. I did for 2 years. I also worked 2-8 hour jobs for a year. I vowed to never marry again, never own property with a woman and never share finances with a woman. Now years later I live on an 83' yacht, have no debt, retired early, and if a woman comes or goes, it doesn't affect my life. When she goes, she takes what she brought and nothing more. To young guys, get a vasectomy. Tell no one. End the pregnancy trap. Later in a moment of insanity, you can reverse the vasectomy. Be upfront about not having children. Some women will go, most will stay. Many that stay will try to change your mind. If they can't, they will get pregnant by other means. That's why you don't announce your vasectomy. I've seen it too many times.
I'm 28 years old, never been in a serious relationship...I've only dated/screwed women throughout my years. Sometimes I feel guilty,, or as if I'm missing out. A lot of my peers & buddies from high school/college are getting married and having kids. But what's weird is that a lot of older men are telling me it's not worth it. I respect your comment because I've talked to a bunch of dudes in the past three years and they say exactly what you say. The universe is telling me something.
I got half the money and she got half my small 401k. She didnt touch my pension. However, she went so nasty against me she got less than what I told her she would get if we did it ourselves. She also got the kids full time, and has no time. Im not stupid. Spending 10k on some unwinnable custody battle is pointless. I spoil them when I do have them and make enough to enjoy my life. Worth it. If my girls ever do to me what my ex wife did to me, they will no longer have me in their lives.
When anyone asks me "Why don't more men get married?" I usually say "How much time do you have?" because, yes, the reasons why a smart man won't get married, reach beyond infinity. Or when I get told "Why don't you find Ms. Right?" I say "I'd rather have a Ms. Right Now" With a Ms. Right Now, there's no complications, it's just sex. Whether it be one time or more than once, it's strictly sex. And without the bs of a normal relationship ;)
And to think single mothers have the nerve to question why men are refusing to date them. Marriage to childless women is challenging enough and even they have failed to convince us that there’s an ROI to be had. I just cringe at the way these broads sell themselves as if they had just as much to offer as a bachelorette. And I have yet to include the legal consequences that follow after moving in or marrying them. I mean really? If Childless women are now being viewed as high risk to men, then what makes a single mother think she can secure the bag with all the negative equity she brings?
I watched one man after another be taken to the cleaners by ex-wives in the 80's and 90's and beyond. Destroyed them..up to 2/3 of income sent off to ex's and children turned completely against them. I don't blame young men one iota for turning their backs on marriage.
Same here, friend after friend, married and out of high school a few years, a few kids... About that time, George Jones came out with the song "She got the gold mine, I got the shaft." Truth! Buddies broke, living in studio apartments, driving POS cars falling apart, wife got house, kids, child support, alimony, and, and, and! Say no to marriage.
@@VoiceOfThe Yes but all these government funded "suicide hotlines" refuse to acknowledge or change this. All they want to do is keep the wage earner alive to keep the gravy train rolling.
Another ugly tactic feminist lawyers used back in the 80s was to tell the wife to accuse the husband of sexually abusing the children to get a leg up in custody battles.
My parents are divorced and it’s not my father’s fault. It’s my mother’s. She just wants money. My father was a very successful man.... until he married my mother and she divorced him to get the money that was my college education and the rest of his life retirement and savings. Not saying that all marriages are bad, but from my family’s divorce to my friends parent’s divorcing, I just wouldn’t get married. I will always follow my father’s “tip,” if you want to have a girlfriend have at it, just do NOT get married, you will lose precious time, money, and energy.
Widowed and divorced here. Why would I risk losing half of my wealth and assets when she gets bored after a few years when the butterflies wear off? I have way to much to lose. Not even a prenup could save me. I will never again enter into a contract that she will profit from from breaking.
I'm late to the party as I discovered your channel just this week,but here is why I'll NEVER get remarried.This is my story. I was 45,single,and wanted children. When I met a very attractive coworker who 32,was looking long term and wanted children I thought I hit the jackpot. We married,we had a boy,then things deteriorated. I learned quickly she was a hoarder. She had zero parenting skills and left almost all of it to me. I fed him,I bathed him,I took him to the doctor,got him ready for bed,you get the picture. She would drain "our" joint account,while spending all of her account (where her check was deposited) on useless crap that literally piled up on the walls. I was being used as a money cow for her to milk as she drove me deeper into debt. We got counseling (surprisingly,it was her idea,she thought I didn't do enough and that our son was a terrible child. She never once looked in the mirror). After the counselor spent 18 months with us (the most she was allowed) and no progress in our marriage was made,the she pulled me aside one day and told me it's always better for the child if the parents remain married,but I also needed to consider what was fair for me and my son. She also told me she'd deny ever saying that,so please don't bring it up. I started planning. I took pictures of the hoarding. I wrote down every event (when she'd rage,scream at our son over nothing,etc). I kept records. I hired a divorce attorney and filed for divorce and custody. I closed our joint account that day. A Guardian Ad Litem was appointed. The Guardian (who was female) interviewed us separately before she started her visits. On our visit,she talked to me,then our son apart from each other,then inspected the house and the hoarding. After she interviewed my wife,she told my attorney we needed to file a motion to force my wife to move out. I am one of the lucky ones. I won custody. Because of the debt I accrued she got none of the house equity (I purchased the house 15 years before we met and it wasn't paid off yet). She did get $37000 of my retirement IRA,but this won't hurt me that much long term.This was in Ohio,a no fault state. I am now 58 and I've been red pilled ever since although I learned the term from your channel. I will never marry again. I'm setting up our son's future with the house,my IRA,and the IRA I inherited from my parents and I will not risk them. I've decided all I want is either a girlfriend or a friend with benefits. My red pilling has helped. There's a coworker that likes me and made advances,but she has a habit of snapping at you when you drop her work off to her,even though it's hers. She always apologizes,but would it get better if we were involved? Ummm not likely. The other woman I met through a friend. We had been on one date when she called me one day and asked me if I had AAA,she had locked herself out of her car. When I told her no,she she told me she only had $130 in her bank account,but she'd figure something out. I recognized she was guilting me. I went ahead and purchased her a AAA account to help her out,but broke it off after that. That's my story. I won't remarry. My house is now paid off,my finances are good,and I should easily be able to retire in four years. I've also made myself the promise to not date anyone that exhibits red flags. I think you're doing a GREAT service,and wish I had the advice that you're giving while I was dating my now ex. Take care.
After being in two marriages, I feel like I was treated like a sperm donor both times. Once the job was done, the relationship was ignored. Never again. EDIT: yeah, I was a naive idiot raised by traditional depression era parents who raised me believing in family values.
Can't fat shame or, slut shame them so they are virtually unstoppable. Can you imagine being a man and not have to worry about looking like a deadbeat, broke or anything less than a man. It would be great
Never Married -saw through it years ago.Certainly lots of 30's something women chilled my Blood.Marriage makes me shudder and i am very happy with my life.Seen enough friends and colleagues shattered and gutted by divorce
for me it’s the simple peace of mind that comes from being truly free. In many ways it ties into a minimalist lifestyle and having another demanding human being who essentially holds me hostage financially, is the most clutter I can think of.
I've been married and divorced twice. With my first wife I worked my tail off in the late eighties and early 90's, we built a home and had four kids. She decided to leave when my youngest daughter was 1. I bought her out when we split, paid a ton out, almost paid it off, then married a second time, and had a child several years later. She convinced me to renovate, and add a new finished basement, then she wanted to build an addition. Soon she left, after I had about paid that down, and then had to buy her out. Yup, I'm now finishing that up. So I'm done with buying the same house over and over, and having kids. I've been going to a bus stop since 1988. Still doing it! I love kids, don't get me wrong. He will be on his own after college, gulp. Still I'm staying strong. Living alone, except for my 15 year old son (shared parenting) and dog is enough. I've dated quite a bit, but it takes too much focus from what I truly want to do and my own business. Wanting is better than having, because it doesn't end up what you want! Im 59 by the way, pretty much at the end of the runway. I'm not bitter, just well schooled.
When you get married you can't win any more than you can if you aren't married to your partner. All you can do is lose. Love is love. No certificate needed Just like knowledge is knowledge. No certificate needed.
@@Ray-wm8dz that's why the rule is not only to avoid marriage, but also avoid cohabitation. In many cases, guys end up worse off from cohabitation than they would have from marriage.
I was on a flight to Puerto Rico and there was an old white milf woman in her 40s and her much younger black boyfriend in his mid 20s. They were talking to another man sitting next to them. She was telling the man that she was married for 10 years before she got a divorce and is now dating her black boy toy. She told the man that her big wedding was amazing (which is all they want anyways) and that she had no regrets from the divorce because she now has lifetime alimony. When the man asked her who was paying for their trip to Puerto Rico she replied the ex husband in which everyone had a good chuckle. Shit I even had a good chuckle. Hey, if there is a male sucker out there willing to get married then more power to the female. You cant hate them for taking advantage of the situation. We as men should know the consequences by now whether it be through the internet or watching our peers get victimized to it.
pain will happen in any breakup married or not. In fact pain is part of life. What isnt (or shouldnt be part of life) is you giving up half your wealth and pension which you worked so hard for because you got some female to marry you for a couple years. That is just a plain financial scam.@@risefromyourpain
Maybe it has something to do with the fact that the most popular piece of advice I received as a kid growing up was some variation of "Trust me, don't get married" accompanied by a very stern tone and sincere eye contact.
Divorcing my wife... My son is 17.5. Nearly 18 She works 3 days a week I lost my job She wanted 65% of the value of our house I wanted 50% We settled with me 43% and her with 57% My lawyer says this is a good deal Bullshit
It is how it is. Take your 43% and remain single for the rest of your life. Did you get to keep your pension? Savings? Being alone now means you have a TON of time and opportunity to bank money.
1. They wreck your house. The most women today can’t cook, can’t clean, domestically speaking your better off hiring a maid. 2. As soon as you say I do, she says I don’t. 3. I refuse to pay for services I’m not getting ie spousal support. 4. I don’t need the aggravation of a lazy indigent who’s greatest goal is to mooch of another human being.
Because I have more Freedom at 23 remaining as a Bachelor. I invest everything into myself. My finances are for Me. Sex is more available more than ever via smart phone. You see women in committed relationships throw themselves to other guys while being with their Beta provider who has committed to them for Years. Women will always have more options until they hit the Wall. They don't want to cook or clean and expect you to do those tasks. We're entering a New Year Gentlemen. 2019 is our Year to Freedom!
Marriage used to be a institution that marked a woman's transfer of dependence and submission from her father to her husband. The ceremony had a spiritual component in addition to the declaration that a lifelong bond was being formed before the eyes of all present. Often times this took place when a girl was between 15-18 years old. The bride wore a white dress signaling her innocence. Women who were known to not be virgins would not even be considered for marriage by any man of quality. Today most women sleep around with dozens of different men until their late 20's early 30's and then start to look for a man to take care of them now that their youth and beauty is about leave them. Women that had fathers in the home growing up rarely consider asking their permission to marry a man because women are taught that submitting to male authority, in any form, is patriarchal oppression. The ceremony itself is a bloated and expensive farce. Everyone knows the bride is no virgin, often times she may even have another man's kid(s) from previous "relationships" running around the wedding and one or more of the groom's friends may have even slept with her, yet she is still wearing white. Men and women who were divorced were once widely shamed and ostracized, especially if they were the ones that chose to end the marriage. The financial penalties for ending a marriage are still place for men to encourage them to stick it out but the penalties for getting divorced have all been removed for women and indeed many new laws have been created to incentivize women to get divorced. The marriage ceremony has been stripped of all it's former meaning and has become a symbol of a man's enslavement to the state with his wife ruling over him as the state's proxy.
@1carkeet You've nailed it. Good luck finding a women of equal worth, value, or net worth, to that of a single man. Very, very rare, unless she cleaned her first husband out and didn't spend any of it.
I am 64 years old, just ended 10 year relationship because she was cheating...we lived together for 10 years....engaged to shut her up but I would never have married her because I did not trust her...TRUST IS HUGE....without it, no chance of me marrying... lose too much...I don't care if the next one takes off because I would not marry her...
2 years in I was in lust and a sucker that settled for a kid. Was not stupid enough to get trapped in marriage even tho she pressed it for years. After 7 years with her, I am free and single and it feels amazing to get my life back on track
I just want to thank you for all you do to instruct men into the pernicious nature of most women. The marriage laws are so biased against men that it is not worth getting married in today's feminist environment. Young men out there really need to listen to you. To all young men, your value will go up as you get older and a woman's will fall faster than lead in water. So keep studying, keep working out, and generally keep improving yourselves. I have been happily married to the most wonderful woman ( from Mexico since I was smart enough to not marry an entitled western raised woman) for 27 yrs and still going strong. I was 19yrs old when I met her, I was also skinny with no muscle mass even though I worked out, I had no money, no college education at the time, no house, not even a car but she accepted me like that. After two yrs dating we got married. A little after I bought a house, got a university degree, money started rolling in, built apartments to get passive income, and when I turned 30yrs old something in my system changed and I started to pack on muscle. I am now a 49 yr old man who is well established and with so much muscle I get hit on by so many women in their twenties that it is scary. But, I don't care about them. Its flattering but that is all. I will always care and love my wife because she loved me when I had nothing more to offer her other than just my love. Today, I show your videos to my son who is in his 20's and studying to be a doctor. I have told him to not ever marry or have children with any American and/or western raised woman. I have warned him about girls that are 30yrs or close to 30yrs. Those girls will say the sweetest things to a man because they are running on fumes because of their biological clocks. AND DEFINITELY NO SINGLE MOTHERS! He can date these women, he can have fun with them, but not to ever marry or cohabitate with them. There are exceptions of course. If he can find a girl who dates him exclusively and encourages him while he is struggling to finish his studies, as was the case with me, then that is a girl that has good moral value who is willing to sacrifice with you. I also encourage him to seek out out girls that have arrived from countries where women are still traditional. Nothing is a guarantee, but it increases the chances for a long loving happy life. If he cannot find a good woman now, then, after he starts working in his chosen profession, he needs to marry someone who earns as much as he does or more. If all else fails he can live like Leonardo Dicaprio. Single, but happily dating girls 20 yrs younger than him. That's why Leo always has a smile on his face. And now, as the good uncle that I am, I have started to instruct my nephew as well. Anyway, thank you for your advice to the men of the world. You are a saviour of men's hard earned money. Leykis 101
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I'm 23 and marriage is on the end of my list in my head for numerous reasons. What happened in the last few days has baffled me. I kid you not a few days ago a woman was asking me to get married and was very serious about it. You guys will seriously not believe this but this woman was using her business number for the pass year doing hoe crap. I thought someone was pranking her since her number was actually appearing for those websites. Straight up im not joking what so ever. I started texting saying WTF are you doing do you know your number is appearing in these websites. I kid you not this number is connected to her better business bureau profile. She started asking how do you know etc lol. I am suprised no one told this woman because this could have been used to sabotage her business even harassment idk if she has a stalker after all this time. After "saving" her ass and helping her with her social media marketing for her business she started asking me do you want to get married lmao and already saying i love you. WTF is this woman thinking she is clearly selling herself after business hours and asking me to take her up like im some captain save a hoe as you guys say it lol. Technically i was since i told her and should of never said a word. She started sending me selfies of herself and man she is hot asf but no where near worth it after find this out. But im just gonna play along bang her and move on lol. This is the very first time ever ive caught a business woman being a hoe at the same time. She even has courses that she sells and a ton of good reviews like why??? Also till this moment she still hasnt changed the number this woman is stupid as a mofo.
P.S @EntrepreneursinCars if you think this is bogus i can send you this woman's number and you will see for yourself lol that her number the she is using on these hoe websites is connected to her business. Im not trying to blast her but you guys really like seriously need to watch out who you are dating and considering marrying
@@MichaelWilson-pp6cm There is no way in hell what you said is true. You mean to tell us all that she is a prostitute? Is that what you meant. She asked to marry you? why? Screenshots or it never happened
Repeal the 19th amendment (women’s right to vote) , dismantle the Family Court and men will go back to marrying women again I guarantee it.
@@dulydale4568 The convo is on my imgur i linked it in my google+ profile
What the flying hell. How many companies do you own dude and your 23? She asked you do you own all these companies. So in essence this woman is after your money and she sends you a selfie to try and impress you with her looks. BAHAHAHAHA holy shit she cant remove the phone or something?
I work at a law firm and 80% of the practice is family law. I will never get married because the courts are so prejudice against men. My male clients get slaughtered. It’s depressing.
*sigh*
View the documentary -
"Divorce Corp"
... and weep.
Some of these women are straight up sluts on the back end. I was recently working with a business women and her number was connected to her better business bureau profile. So she is a business women with a legit location and everything and a prostitute. On top of that she asked me to get married just straight crazy and on top of that she is hot. No one would believe this woman is a prostitute and business woman at the same time
Repeal the 19th amendment (women’s right to vote) , dismantle the Family Court and men will go back to marrying women again I guarantee it.
Only to find a woman in other country where are different laws and marry there.
The woman you marry is never the same as the one who divorces you
That is sooo true very well put.
Very true. My divorce lawyer said to me, right before we went into court. "I am about to introduce you to your ex wife. You have never met this women before. She looks like your wife, but she isn't." Damned if he wasn't right.
Dr jeckyl / Mrs hyde
@Donald Trump's Space Force how can she take kids that aren't hers?
She is the same. She just hid her true nature long enough.
Very little to gain, everything to lose.
Exactly
LTJuniOr, Very well said my friend.
*WRONG. IT'S NOTHING TO GAIN.*
I have a friend who just got divorced making over 300k a year and he’s bringing home 500 bucks a week with child support, alimony, and spousal support. Careful my friends, marriage ain’t worth it.
@@iflyg4 Holy crap, that is brutal.
I hope his children are enjoying eating caviar each day.
Females that want to "settle down" have been plowed more than a cornfield in Iowa.
They want the guy to pay full price for something they gave out for free
That's a legendary comment 🤣
😂😂😂 I gotta use this one man .. Great point
🤣🤣🤣
This is true. Wish I knew this a year ago
Women want marriage but don’t wanna be wives.
Underrated comment.
Gold medal for you sir
EXACTLY. They'll even go so far as to try and redefine what "wife" means to us.... WTF? You can't do that.
@@LukeLovesRose they are fukin nuts man.... Can't get married nowadays!
Geez!!! i been saying that for 20+ years now. lol
I'm 44 and I've never been engaged...Life is good!
619 San Diego yeah life is easier it looks like. Who needs a Ungrateful bitch taking your shit you bust your ass to get. When you think about what do you gain most guy cook for themselves wash their own clothes ect
Life IS good.
Same here. The stress level is non-existent compared to my married acquaintances.
I'm 35 and I may just do the same!
Got you beat guy...59 no engagement, no girl friends, no nothing. I'm a complete loser and loving it all. I've watched friends through one divorce after another, and married ones slowly stewing in their own juice. Life is peaceful, calm, I save money and still work some. Thank god women never were interested in me.
Men have finally figured it out.
Not all of them unfortunate :/
Just a couple, some still will go into the cave of doom and will end up get eaten
If I knew it 5 years ago, I would never get married.
some men have figured it out, there are still a bunch of weak minded blue pilled betas out there
Nope, look at social media. Lots of boys, not men, boys. Are still simping and putting women on the pedestal
There are 3 rings in a relationship. Engagement RING, Wedding RING, and SUFFER-RING
lmaoooooo
Old school joke but still relevant
This quote never gets old dude!!!
Brian Grieco and the wife is the lord of the ring
@@killerpro6982 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm 60 years old now, made my choice decades ago. I'll be single all the way to my grave, after that, it doesn't matter. I have no regrets.
I am 60 and single. my married friends envy me
I'm 65 and enjoy being single. I found that relationships are a waste of time, money and energy. Too much mental stress. Whenever I would ask the question what do you want? It would be met with silence. That said everything to me. I love my freedom.
Amen!
cumshot16 being a couple is just added stress just because people are together doesn't mean they are happy.
Yessir
You can’t get divorced if you never get married. Sounds like a win win to me.
Well fucking said
no debt. no criying. no arguing. freedom. no drama.
Even being in a domestic partnership can have legal consequences in some countries.
El Fish Knows. You won't be divorce raped and lose your kids!
you can get remarried if you never get divorced
Men should be allowed to quit their jobs, but still require their former employers to pay them under threat of imprisonment. Call it, "Dude-a-mony."
Niceeeeeeeeee
and schools should pay property owners tax money😉
@Pos dem Its in mens DNA to protect women. Men have an out of group preference, women have a in group preference. A man will destroy another man to succeed. Women are more cooperative. Men shilling out for votes. Women make up 51% of voters.
Yeah
Dude-a-mony, LOL😂😂😂😂😂
Nothing in it for us Men.
@@CE-vd2px I like you, bro coz you care about everything... including capitalized words.
@pink flame Lol foh if you're that stupid to come to that conclusion. Dating doesn't have to lead to marriage. Get that through your head.
Sandy V. Tommy Sotomayor lol BT-1000 😂🤖
I'm female and think marriage is pointless.
@@DarkNightPrincessVA me too lol I can't keep my interest in men's for too long plus no marriage, no stress and u save more money
When I finally realized that I'd never make her happy, I simultaneously realized that there was no reason why I couldn't be.
I told my ex wife many years ago that she, not I, was the source of her discontent.
Most people living in the USA, barring serious health issues, should have no problem being content.
As I comment over and over again at the discontent in such a wealthy country: It is never enough....
Michael S, health is a major one. My health took a serious turn for the worse over the past 6 or seven years, and as I have tried to cope with it, I find very little support from my wife. You learn a lot about the true nature of relationships when you go through hard times. Choose wisely.
Exactly what I'm feeling now. It's like you do something nice for them and he moment they wake up the next day everything gets erased. They are miserable creatures and only wish to spread their misery onto others
Really beautiful thing said here.
Excellent insight.
As a woman, I could not agree more with this. It’s sickening how women are playing the victim and taking advantage of men.
Isn't this exactly what you females looking for? A free ride? Ripping off males?
siddhartha moitra Did you not read what I actually wrote? I’m agreeing 🙄
cumshot16 HA. Okay. Men like you are single, fat and only aspire to be like Rich, but never will be like him. Hence why you don’t even have a profile pic.
@@kariemelje8468 showing your true colors. Quick to demean the man. Couldn't even bother to ask what he's talking about or why he feels that way.
Also, anyone who gives out any personal information, be it a picture or name on social media in this day and age, are not bright.
Chicken Noodle LOL no. It’s called sticking up for myself. Sooo, bye now.
In this day and age, smart men don't get married.
you damn right Jon!!
But married men get smart (?)
You know nothing, Jon Snow...
Just kidding.
Leroy Lowe but dumb idiots get married
Smart men don't get married. That's true. It's also a recipe for disaster as it means only dumb men are making babies.
Because men are expected to live up to all the responsibilities, and get none of the benefits (i.e. authority).
Entropiated
Man Up and wife up
these single mothers of 2
YEP, the gender role expectation dynamics have changed for women over the years (more rights, power and less responsibilities) yet men are expected to do what they have always done i.e. provide for/take care of family, make good money, don't complain about their problems, be tough and stoic and essentially "man up". When a man wants to abstain from the mousetrap called marriage, he is called a selfish, spineless weasel but when a woman chooses to not get married, she's hailed as a "strong, liberated, independent woman" GTFO!
@@lionelhutz5137 really? Most people i know just assume that they must be bitter cat women lol and they (including the women themselves) think the wife should work (because most homes require two incomes) and do the lion's share of the housework/cooking. So i wonder what most people's views really are.
Duuuuuude i have been saying that sentence for the past two years. Men are expected to man up, provide and support his household in every way possible, if the husband is no doing his part 100% then he is a dick and idiot to his wife and community . On the other hand, if a women does 20% of her duties as wife she the best wife on the plant earth.
Its men that are leaders and anchors to their families and women are the ones that can make a man succeed and excel , a woman support is the main reason a man would keep working hard without giving up to provide for his family.
weaponized cuntistry
Young men are now becoming smarter , things will change eventually
Hopefully before its too late.
Yes Sir Eric. They are.
@Nightmare save him
i think the change is that marriage will eventually go extinct.
Yes, by 2121 things will start to change.
The average woman is not the definition of a wife.
I agree, in these modern times..
The average man is not the definition of a husband.
Just do what women have been doing for eras, choose wisely.
@@anagomes4422 And the representative for the average woman has spoken........
How come if I am married? And you? Is there any woman interested in building a family with you?
"Insurance is like marriage - you pay, pay, pay, and you never get anything back." Al Bundy
What, you say someone rear-ended you. That will be $400 extra a month oh by the way you canceled your policy so good luck riding dirty 😜
"My driver's license expired. Why can't a marriage license do that?"
Al Bundy
Modern women bring absolutely nothing to the table in a relationship. It's really depressing.
And still men want to date/marry them. Like WTF??
In your opinion, what could women bring to the table?
@Erik Mikkelsaar I got one of the four 🤣🤣🤣 oh well 🤷🏾♀️
@Erik Mikkelsaar I'm engaged to be married.
They actually bring things away from the table. It's like, wow you got me a house and a car ☺️ good luck walking to work and sleeping on the couch
He asked her to marry him she said no & he lived happily ever after 😁💰
Thats the most hilarious thing ive read today. Thanks !
That was so BEAUTIFUL that I cried!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm surprised people still ask this question.
@Tom Thumb a simple Google search reveals divorce court multiple times by Helen Smith, common sense would indicate no one wants to lose half their shit, and that was never even mentioned in the question. Goes to show they like to be delusional about everything in reality. They live in lala land until it's too late.
Sites like elitedaily and listening to Oprah also help perpetuate the delusional bubble. Lies are very profitable because they feeeel soooo good!
Like did he know he was set up by this woman to be a beta orbiter
Islamic divorce is much different. Khula: initiated by woman, she gets nothing and husband only pays for the child till he is 18. I opted to initiate the divorce. He doesn't even pay for his school tuition. My son's average expenditure is 20k+ and father pays maintaince of 13k. I work a full time job as a doctor. And my mom takes care of him.
Talaq: initiated by man and is drawn out and you can always go back after two "Talaqs". Once done, husband pays maintaince and child support.
Muslim men have it good.
Haq Mahar is literally 32 Rupees 18 anaay.
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Extra work, extra worries, extra responsibilities, extra headache, having to explain everything, etc.
Anirban Ganguly which is why men are staying away from it. Men are sick of it. Women have proven themselves incapable of handling that power. They've gone too far.
...and men who are married end up with tombstones behind their eyes.
Just go to any shopping mall to witness married men following thier wives around from shop to shop. No energy behind the eyes. Dead men walking.
@@LiftOffLife spot on
@@samizdat_ HALA Madrid, don't forget to watch the game today.
@@Snowboarding2020 We're winning
I was desperate when I was younger, but now, I feel like I have dodged a bullet.
Me too.
You loose freedom, money and energy...we in México are starting to wake up also
Unfortunately because of Instagram women have been poisoned all over the world.
De acuerdo
@@musicuniverse1356 all started with myspace lol
My Brother, love Mexico and the women.
I have been married twice and very happy being single and the freedom that comes with it!
better late than never!
I work in FAMILY COURT IN California...…...its a blood bath for men in my courtroom..
But why? Is there a way to rectify that?
so can u pls tell me is there a cetain paper that a woman can sign that states that she doesn't have the right to take ur property?
🤣🤣🤣
Lol
@port nut why is it defeatable
When I get asked “why aren’t you married?” My response “why would I want to babysit a grown as human”.
I’m 45 and I’m more focused on my retirement.
Javi 300 hahaha seriously
Exactly pal. I am 47 and a working single Dad in Thailand. So much easier than having a live in woman 'helping out'. One kid = one kid. One kid + live in woman = two kids.
Aren't you lonely?
You know, I want to get married. But after being red pill aware, 8 prior relationships, 2 combat tours, and crippling depression, I’m not sure if being divorce raped is something to risk.
I'm not military, but i know men that are, and they say that having your kids blocked from you and the rest of what's involved is worse. I can't compare, but infidelity, divorce and the courts beats the crap out of you. Play the game for yourself, that's what women do.
In a successful marriage the answer lies in faith. Many don’t take marriage seriously, some think they do but have a misleading understanding in marriage. Those who truly believe in God and are married are happier than singles. We’re social beings, and marriage is the ultimate commitment one can give to another. As a female I believe in marriage(commitment), I hope my brothers chose wisely though and have the chance to strengthen their relationship with the help of God.
enjoy women as dates but never marry. Perhaps cohabitate with one and should things fail she leaves with what she came in with...
Tyber, agreed. Work on yourself. Take a long while to heal. Get yourself a nice ride (bike or car) and use it to be at peace.
Beautifully said.
I’m red pill and married. Became red pill 15 years after being married, would never do it again
What do you do as a red pill married man. I have a red pill mindset as a married man but I don't get how would you practice why of the teaching. Do you practice the teaching of women's true nature?
When your wife wants to get divorced. just ghost and move overseas and never speak to her ever again and avoid the family courts and become a vagabond
Agreed it's the men who " do the right thing " that allows the system to continue
ive met a lot of American men in the Philippines and Thailand who did just that.
I go to cuba and live off
@@krizula1117 same doubt
"My name is Al Bundy. But that's soon to change."
Al Bundy
When I try to have a discussion about this with women and I mention the things you talked about they become unglued and triggered in a heartbeat and I'd look at them and I'd tell them this is exactly why men are avoiding marriage..
Did they give you the "who hurt you" reply?
HAHAHA I get that every time, and I also get it from men who overhear me talk about it (when I'm asked, since I'm 30 ... I'm getting asked more and more often).
People like that make it instantly onto my "don't bother socializing with" list ... just a waste of time and energy to talk to people who say that ...
I avoid conversation with women at all costs
You’re biggest mistake is arguing with women. Women like to rent. They did practice what they preach and will just agree with everything a women does even if it’s double standard
This is why even I’m scared to talk to women these days about anything even slightly moderate (usually fact based topics) or slightly traditional. It’s insane. I simply tried to explain to a friend why I like Jordan B Peterson and I almost got my head bit off for even suggesting he’s a smart man. So I don’t blame men for avoiding marriage anymore lol how can you make a marriage work if one side is being told it’s perfectly acceptable to base your opinions and actions 100% on feelings and instinct. Women are being taught they’re 100% in the right all the time and it’s fucked
I get the impression that when you get married or you get a woman pregant, she owns you 100%. Men lose control of their lives.
They get away with what you let them.
Build up and empower yourself my friend. Women need male attention/resources more than we need them.
MATRI-mony the old ball and chain
@@Sp1n1985 Not made in heaven for sure
@@AprendizDeLoQueToca never get married to a "battle axe"
This is so True!
It's already where women will marry themselves!
This is insanity!
Honestly Men and Women are meant to compliment each otber.
As the Bible teaches, as marriage is a divine institution.
As ordained by God.
With that said, people need to turn away from their wicked ways.
And turn to God in all things.
And really live for God.
I am saying this country and society needs to turn to God.
And with this said, we wouldn't have all of these issues.
Social and within our families.
Of course, God has given all of us free will.
So I am saying that we have a choice to make.
I am saying my two cents worth.
Everyone here in the comments section, have a good day.
God bless everyone here in the comments section.
The girls at my High School talking in large groups about “ divorcing lose her husbands and stealing the guys livelihood liked there mothers.” Has turned me off to dating anyone in the area
damn I thought my generation was bad lol. Im 10 years older than you.
you are not the only one hearing this in school .. :(
Same here. 28 yo
We get nothing out of marriage except debt
Passing on your genes doesn't count? Not if they are not worthy of such..
@@Nina-hk7ub You can do that without marriage 🤷🏾♂️
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM i got engaged on Valentine's Day! Congrats to us...
@@Nina-hk7ub Congratulations to you but not him. He basically gained nothing but you acquired a slave
Well. I've made my own money, saved it & own 2 homes. I worked so much & was so independent that I forgot to have children..oops! I want to marry my man & do all I can to please him as often as possible. I'll be cooking, cleaning & making our house a home for us both. He'll get all the attention, sex & love that he needs. I can't wait! I don't recall feeling so much like this before. It's called LOVE.
The power of logical thought enables more and more men to avoid marriage.
Next up...Why men avoid licking poisonous cacti covered in scorpions and fire ants...
Hint: Same reason
Men do risky things. Same reason some guys still get married.
🤣🤣🤣
@@MrLinkai Men will do risky things if there's a decent enough payout.
Lolol haha
@@jasondyrkacz8270 Simps do risky things for over valued used up pussies.
Women have made it too difficult. It's too much work, time, and money. Women want a successful man, but successful men (like myself) are focused on going to the next level.
If a woman wants a man, she needs to take the initiative & show interest. I refuse to use my valuable time to compete with 10 other chumps who are dying for her attention.
Lowering myself to compete with those chumps would be equivalent to a star MLB player quitting the pros to go play in the minors.
Exactly!!!!!
Jimbo stop hating.
@@jimbo6612 Just stop.
@@jimbo6612 no
you are just too baller
It's simply hard to find an admirable woman nowadays. Also marriage is a bad deal.
@@kekt To me, the admiration comes from the fact that, while attractive, she shows self-control and is discriminating.
even when you think an east european woman or asian women are better ... bullshit. They are broke too. They learn the western way of life and f*** you through hell ... but with your clothes on.
Philosophy Archive so sad bro
@Ice Blast
That is so so so true.
They get infected with feminism and you are fooked.
"if she breathes, she a thot" - God
I love how women act like they don’t know why men avoid marriage it’s entertaining, I’m 44 years old never married and never had the desire😎 it’s simply not worth it
aren't you lonely?
If you think about it logically love doesn't really exist at least not in this generation its just hormones
I'm sixty one never been married, I enjoy my tranquility.
Mike Arroyo good
You don't get lonely??
@@feliciakidd9358 why its better than divorce
Why are men avoiding marriage?
It tends to involve women.
Hence involve drama. Unless you want to get cancer, men should avoid all kinds of drama and stress
@@palindrome06 lol
@@palindrome06 lol you read my thoughts
@John Kevin
...and it involves one other thing, Socialism.
Spread the wealth by stealing off one group and freely giving it to another group.
@Baba Yaga
Exactly.
no point
you are never the last man to have her
you are just next in line
Unless she gets tired of guys and starts dating girls ^^
When you Marry. She is in control
@@DarkNightPrincessVA good at least those things can deal with each other
Even Russian Roulette seems like a better deal... Even if you lose its over in an instant, as opposed to it being strung out over decades while a man slowly dies inside.
Russian Roulette is 1 in 6 chance your life goes to shit. Marriage / Divorce is 50% for the annual in and out - but 93% probability in 10 years or less ( the average marriage is just 7 years) Fuck it.
some people don't expire right away after they pop themself in the melon. some even live
Brian Mackenzie
come on baby Man Up and wife up these single mothers.
DEFINITELY BLOW MY BRAINS OUT BEFORE EVEN THINKING ABOUT GETTING MARRIED AGAIN!
Would you play Russian Roulette if all the chambers in the gun had a bullet in it? That is why men avoiding marriage.
Marriage is a scam, a better question is would women crave for marriage as much as they do if they had the same outcomes as men? 😂😂😂
Hollywood.
Nope
The answer is no.
Of course not if they quit there job they don't get UNEMPLOYMENT benefits this would change the game. All this crap should be trumped by the abolishment of slavery in 1865 . Nobody should have to slave for another person.
The answer is No, women would not be interested in getting married.
Why we're not "wifing up" these days? Divorce court.
*Last time I came this early I got stuck with child support payments*
*Damn son*
How much?
Damn brother 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Join the club bro...plus lose your shit sanity..child etc..
do paying school taxes on property count as child support if you don't have kids?
I'm from Russia and sutuation is very similar here. We are being westernized with a huge rate. False values, lack of feminine skills and everything you talk about is here as well. Not as bad as you have it, but getting there.
@Kevin Omondi And how is that funny?
Thats bad!
Well that sucks.
hardwired Yep!
its sad how your country has been ravaged by the same group so many times
Because we have more to lose and less to gain, vise versa for women.
I'm yet to see a truly happy married man. Just a man who is constantly looking for permission.
When I was deployed I had a couple of married friends and they would always have to call and ask their wife can they spend money to buy things. It was sad
I'm very happily married. But I got in years ago before all the girls were treated like princesses. Marry a woman who washes the floor, cooks meals, does the washing and greets you with a kiss and cares about you....what? You can't find one? I guess the spoiled princesses have taken over.
Sometimes it's better to be elderly!
My brother is but, even he said that's rare. He's takes vacation with his bro to korea, I was stationed there, she didnt come. Just few rare things in his marriage.
I gave up on dating entirely at 21 and never looked back. I'm 29 now, happily single, don't have sex and don't want to. I just enjoy my peace and quiet and don't want to be bothered with anyone. For me, happiness is a grilled steak and baked potato, a Diet Coke and a good movie. If you want to see me happy, give me that and leave me the f**k alone. Never was a people person.
Never considered myself alpha or beta. I'm an omega male and proud of it!
alpha male - tries to impress women with bad boy persona
beta male - tries to woe women with chivalry and/or beg
omega male - loves being single, loves being himself regardless of what anybody thinks, and willfully neglects women and sex to focus on other areas of life. It's all about living for yourself and not giving a f--k what anybody thinks about it. I love that! Also, rejecting hot women is more fun than sleeping with them anyway. Think about it, she's hot which means she's spoiled and used to having men treat her like a goddess - then I come along being the cold-hearted motherf---er that I am and act rude, stuck-up, treat her like a walking, talking piece of sh*+, and walk off feeling like a boss! I love it.
Btw, why would you respect the institution of marriage? It has a 50% failure rate. How is that something to be respected/admired?
That pretty much sums up the way I feel.
I'm the Omega red male.
@@bernitaldown9136 Why red? What do you mean by that?
@@williamthrower7912 Red pill Omega.😎
Interesting I didn't knew about this omega before
Expecting women to act in the best interest of men or take responsibility for this is pointless. They never will.
And expecting men to act in the best interests of women is also not going to happen, and never has.
75% to 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Women get what they want in a divorce. If I was thinking about going skydiving and learning that my parachute only had a 25% chance of working correctly...nobody would be skydiving. Marriage sounds good, companionship, love, shared experiences, family, someone to care for you when you get sick or need a ride to the hospital. But all the temporary good things don't outweigh the inevitable excruciating pain of the divorce. It is a huge financial and emotional price to pay, and all because the girl got bored or just wasn't satisfied because that's what a lot of divorces come down to. Irreconcilable differences. It's no longer a sacred bond that can only be broken by something truly horrible like cheating or physical abuse.
Women got all this power from women's rights and it's like they can't make up their minds or control themselves. Then want an alpha for a couple weeks then a beta for a couple weeks. He must be strong, but sensitive and he must be able to read a women's mind to know when she wants him to be strong and when to be sensitive. He has to have a big dick and lots of money and muscles. Women say "that's not true ". Bullshit! Every woman with a guy that is skinny or fat (no muscle) with an average to small dick working a low wage job will definitely 100% not be satisfied and will leave. And even if a guy has all 3 he still has a great chance of getting fucked by a divorce. I no longer do anything trying to make myself more marketable to women. I only do what makes me happy. When I work out it's for me. When I dress nice it's for me. When I spend my money, it's for me. Women wanted equality. Now they have it all and they can do shit for themselves.
Your problem with women isn't every man's problem though. Just cause you suck at keeping one doesn't mean all men do.
@@rickyg.3111 you're right. Not all men. Just 75% to 80%. So perhaps it's not my fault. Perhaps it's society or women.
@Insidious Sid Millions of couples have stayed married for their entire lives. Like I said, not every man's problem's are your problems with women. Alot of men have loyal partners and are happily married with families and wouldn't have it any other way. If you don't like women, simply just don't date/marry one. Those who want partners will find them and those who don't will do whatever it is they want to do. Nobody is losing anything here.
@@rickyg.3111 Sorry dude. It's about the statistics. Millions of couples have stayed married their entire lives but how many of those men are truly happy? A lot of men wouldn't have it any other way but but the overwhelming numbers that wish they had never done it at all show that statistically it is against you. From my personal observations I would say less than 10% of married men are truly happy. Other peoples opinions range anywhere from 1% to 5% to 10%.
So over 50% odds that you will lose your hard earned stuff in a divorce, at least 90% odds that you will be unhappy, and only a meager 10% chance at best that you will be happy?!?
NO THANKS!!! I'll pass AND do everything in my power to educate young men about the dangers of marriage and women's true nature so that they too will make the smart decision and avoid marriage lack the plague.
In addition, we are in a gender war, and the most important thing for men to do to win this is resource denial for women. This means DO NOT MARRY. Do not give women access to resources they have not earned and more power in the world.
And this is why you don't sign the dotted line. When she decides to stop being a loving wife you will become her slave under the threat of being divorced and having all of your stuff taken. This is why over 70% of divorces are initiated by women. The marriage contract makes her the boss in the relationship regardless of how "manly" you are. Sign that paper and you're now her bitch. No thank you im good.
"Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse" -- Groucho Marx
Worse than child support
Alimony is legalized slavery.
“Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.”
― Charles Bukowski
Ive been married for 40 years, my death sentence began on 9/6/1980. Stay single men.....trust me.
Even in the church, there is no incentive for me to be a husband.
Read 1 Corinthians 7...that explains everything. I think if people actually took the time to read and understand the Bible, then they would realize it is the ultimate Red Pill book.
Especially in church you mean. Religion is the super blue pill
@@swoopes7777 Are you referring to verse 38 in Corinthians 7? I know what you're talking about if that's what your referring to.
My culture its expected to give dowry as religious obligation, nowadays women from my culture want 20k dowry payment upfront along with em expecting you to pay for the wedding, bills and everything. Western state aside, the dowry system in some cultures is not good for men!
@@silverman824 What culture is that if you don't mind me asking? 20k dowry payment sounds crazy.
In a single word- Feminism- you girls wanted it, now live with it.
Once a man felt the family Court system ram up his rectum he will not repeat that process again.
There are some men out there who never learn
Tom Leykis told us all a long time ago. There is no reason for man to marry.
he saved my life. I was lucky to grow up in Los Angeles and get the message from him as a teenager during the 90s.
Ah I will never forget what Tom said about women. "Dream Killers"
I’m 37, I own my own house and have 3 cars and I have a few bucks saved, watching videos like this and hearing about what my male coworkers go through, make me not want to get married or have kids.
I agree and I’m a woman. Women need to let a man be a man. It’s ok for women to have a job and education but don’t bash every guy. Smile and have charisma. A lot of women want to a wife but don’t have the qualifications to be one.
Also I hate how women are so competitive with each other. Just be nice and smile. It doesn’t hurt to smile.
Also. I don’t understand why almost every woman in the office hates me. It’s kinda ridiculous. They are all in their late 40s and have tattoos and very loud and curse a lot. I keep to myself. So why pick on me
@@theprojectmom Here here. Cheers.
@ETB I agree and I’m a women. Personally I’ve seen women make a men’s life worse by doing the whole baby momma drama and child support and it’s ridiculous. I don’t understand how Court won’t say anything to women who do that but if men do it to the women oh. The world is upside down. That’s why men supper more and I’ve seen women use the child support money to do their hair, nails and nothing for the kids. It’s sad
@ETB Women need to petition the gov't? Ain't goin' happen. 'Sweet promises'. How did that enter your realm of thought? Simply walk away. James Bond does not bitch and complain - he just leaves. Date but LTR's and/or dating single parent mothers will generally reek havoc on one's life and soul. It's men's fault because each male in a bad relationship has let himself get into the mess they are in. The men in relationships who gave up their hobbies, their guy friends, their poker nights, etc., etc. stopped being a guy, and became pussified. The men who have placed 'their woman' on a pedestal are idiots - and deserve what they get. Women are just doing what women do. If any relationship (personal or biz) isn't working for you - simply walk away. Cut the cancerous people - men and women - from your life.
1 full time job + 1 business + time for me == NO time for a wife.
I'm in the same situation. By the time I get through my hobbies on the weekend, there is almost no time for women. By design.
For Real. I no longer wonder why dudes get fat when they get married. Work + Working on my side business + Gym (atleast an Hour) + Prepping my meals + 2-3 Showers a day (30Min) because of active lifestyle. How the fuck would i have time to entertain a nagging wife
Don't you get lonely?
When they say "man up" what they really mean is "slave up" and get married.
I dated a woman who had like 900 Facebook friends. She was not interested in me as much as being able to post about having a boyfriend. We could not go on a date without her updating and taking photos none stop. The validation she got from FB meant she put her self on a pedestal.
We broke up after I got tired of her acting like she was doing me a favor by dating me. Everything was my fault and when I poited out her flaws she laughed at me.
I feel really bad for the next guy she dates.
She will grow old and alone
@@TheSportsLifey with 10 cats -
She never wanted you she only wanted the social media attention. She belongs to the streets my brother
I hate controlling someone's life and I dont like someone controlling my life.
That's why am never getting worried.
Wow, you hit a home run with this video Richard, every Man, Woman & Child needs to watch it...Well done.
Coop does a pretty good job explaining the legal ramifications of marriage. Socially and personally, the numbers game is terrible. Simply put, there are less than 60% of the females in the US that are not obese or overweight. So the selection pool is low. Now that women are getting jobs and there's a social push to accelerate their pay above men's and to hire women over men, it lessens the darting pool for women too. In other words, women won't marry down economically. So feminism is basically turning marriage into a wealthy persons game, but the law is really pushing them out too. So now that most women won't be attracted long term to a man, and most men aren't attracted to most women, what are we left with?
On a personal level, most men are taught to look after women, not to boss or push them around, make joint decisions and always consider what she wants. Don't be pushy or aggressive, etc. women are taught that men should do the cooking and share in the household chores and share in child rearing.... basically, the way we're raising our kids makes them completely unattractive to the opposite sex too.
Finally, women have no skin in the game. They don't want to have sex, they stop and leave the guy frustrated him and ruin him if he cheats or forces sex. It's rare for a woman to ever pay alimony. It's rare that the woman lose her house or kids. Even at split custody, the man usually has to pay. And women are encouraged for this outcome. Basically men risk everything for temporary or little gain. Women risk very little but have enormous gain from getting married.
Go feminism.
Exactly. Very well said, my friend. 👏👏👏
Women: "Man up!"
Men: "Up yours!"
What woman would say Man up? I say Woman Up!
You tell him fatso
Pretty much bang on lol
@@DarkNightPrincessVA "women up" means for men to wine and dine on women's money. I'll take it *thumbs up*
@Genius Idiot I don't do drugs of any kind. I don't even drink.
I always found it amusing, that in a break up, "you don't want to be with me, but you want 1/2 or more of my stuff??"
Toxic feminists have killed men’s’ interest. If I was a man I’d never marry. Even prenups can be overturned. It’s always the nice guys that get screwed over too. It’s not fair. I don’t blame men, and I’m a female and I understand this.
#1 Liability, not only do you lose half, the other half goes to legal fees, child support and alimony. #2 The courts make awards that can force men into extreme poverty so the princess can live the life she deserves. Your survival is not the courts concern. Many men never reach the same life style they had before divorce. Living in a single wide trailer in a cheap trailer park has become a right of passage for many divorced men trying to recover financially. I did for 2 years. I also worked 2-8 hour jobs for a year. I vowed to never marry again, never own property with a woman and never share finances with a woman. Now years later I live on an 83' yacht, have no debt, retired early, and if a woman comes or goes, it doesn't affect my life. When she goes, she takes what she brought and nothing more.
To young guys, get a vasectomy. Tell no one. End the pregnancy trap. Later in a moment of insanity, you can reverse the vasectomy. Be upfront about not having children. Some women will go, most will stay. Many that stay will try to change your mind. If they can't, they will get pregnant by other means. That's why you don't announce your vasectomy. I've seen it too many times.
I'm 28 years old, never been in a serious relationship...I've only dated/screwed women throughout my years. Sometimes I feel guilty,, or as if I'm missing out. A lot of my peers & buddies from high school/college are getting married and having kids. But what's weird is that a lot of older men are telling me it's not worth it. I respect your comment because I've talked to a bunch of dudes in the past three years and they say exactly what you say. The universe is telling me something.
I tried to get a vasectamy at 18 years old....some state laws wont allow you to get one until you hit the age of 24. This is in my experience.
I got half the money and she got half my small 401k. She didnt touch my pension. However, she went so nasty against me she got less than what I told her she would get if we did it ourselves. She also got the kids full time, and has no time. Im not stupid. Spending 10k on some unwinnable custody battle is pointless. I spoil them when I do have them and make enough to enjoy my life. Worth it. If my girls ever do to me what my ex wife did to me, they will no longer have me in their lives.
@@Revolver_Ocelot16 dont worry after a couple of years those so called marriages are gonna crumble and you will be glad you dint marry
Don’t get married period
When anyone asks me "Why don't more men get married?" I usually say "How much time do you have?" because, yes, the reasons why a smart man won't get married, reach beyond infinity. Or when I get told "Why don't you find Ms. Right?" I say "I'd rather have a Ms. Right Now" With a Ms. Right Now, there's no complications, it's just sex. Whether it be one time or more than once, it's strictly sex. And without the bs of a normal relationship ;)
And to think single mothers have the nerve to question why men are refusing to date them. Marriage to childless women is challenging enough and even they have failed to convince us that there’s an ROI to be had. I just cringe at the way these broads sell themselves as if they had just as much to offer as a bachelorette. And I have yet to include the legal consequences that follow after moving in or marrying them. I mean really? If Childless women are now being viewed as high risk to men, then what makes a single mother think she can secure the bag with all the negative equity she brings?
Was chatting online with a 36 black single mom who said she won't have sex until marriage lol she's used up and in no position to make demands.
Well said!
@@idontcare9797 She sounds like a hypocrite!
No Wife, and a very happy Life.
I watched one man after another be taken to the cleaners by ex-wives in the 80's and 90's and beyond. Destroyed them..up to 2/3 of income sent off to ex's and children turned completely against them. I don't blame young men one iota for turning their backs on marriage.
Same here, friend after friend, married and out of high school a few years, a few kids... About that time, George Jones came out with the song "She got the gold mine, I got the shaft." Truth! Buddies broke, living in studio apartments, driving POS cars falling apart, wife got house, kids, child support, alimony, and, and, and! Say no to marriage.
I bet the catalyst that drives men to suicide is broken marriages / women.
@@VoiceOfThe Yes but all these government funded "suicide hotlines" refuse to acknowledge or change this. All they want to do is keep the wage earner alive to keep the gravy train rolling.
@Candis THAT bullshit is the reason why!
Another ugly tactic feminist lawyers used back in the 80s was to tell the wife to accuse the husband of sexually abusing the children to get a leg up in custody battles.
My parents are divorced and it’s not my father’s fault. It’s my mother’s. She just wants money. My father was a very successful man.... until he married my mother and she divorced him to get the money that was my college education and the rest of his life retirement and savings. Not saying that all marriages are bad, but from my family’s divorce to my friends parent’s divorcing, I just wouldn’t get married. I will always follow my father’s “tip,” if you want to have a girlfriend have at it, just do NOT get married, you will lose precious time, money, and energy.
Widowed and divorced here. Why would I risk losing half of my wealth and assets when she gets bored after a few years when the butterflies wear off? I have way to much to lose. Not even a prenup could save me. I will never again enter into a contract that she will profit from from breaking.
What do you mean a prenup can't save you?
I'm late to the party as I discovered your channel just this week,but here is why I'll NEVER get remarried.This is my story.
I was 45,single,and wanted children. When I met a very attractive coworker who 32,was looking long term and wanted children I thought I hit the jackpot. We married,we had a boy,then things deteriorated. I learned quickly she was a hoarder. She had zero parenting skills and left almost all of it to me. I fed him,I bathed him,I took him to the doctor,got him ready for bed,you get the picture. She would drain "our" joint account,while spending all of her account (where her check was deposited) on useless crap that literally piled up on the walls. I was being used as a money cow for her to milk as she drove me deeper into debt. We got counseling (surprisingly,it was her idea,she thought I didn't do enough and that our son was a terrible child. She never once looked in the mirror). After the counselor spent 18 months with us (the most she was allowed) and no progress in our marriage was made,the she pulled me aside one day and told me it's always better for the child if the parents remain married,but I also needed to consider what was fair for me and my son. She also told me she'd deny ever saying that,so please don't bring it up.
I started planning. I took pictures of the hoarding. I wrote down every event (when she'd rage,scream at our son over nothing,etc). I kept records. I hired a divorce attorney and filed for divorce and custody. I closed our joint account that day. A Guardian Ad Litem was appointed. The Guardian (who was female) interviewed us separately before she started her visits. On our visit,she talked to me,then our son apart from each other,then inspected the house and the hoarding. After she interviewed my wife,she told my attorney we needed to file a motion to force my wife to move out.
I am one of the lucky ones. I won custody. Because of the debt I accrued she got none of the house equity (I purchased the house 15 years before we met and it wasn't paid off yet). She did get $37000 of my retirement IRA,but this won't hurt me that much long term.This was in Ohio,a no fault state.
I am now 58 and I've been red pilled ever since although I learned the term from your channel. I will never marry again. I'm setting up our son's future with the house,my IRA,and the IRA I inherited from my parents and I will not risk them. I've decided all I want is either a girlfriend or a friend with benefits. My red pilling has helped. There's a coworker that likes me and made advances,but she has a habit of snapping at you when you drop her work off to her,even though it's hers. She always apologizes,but would it get better if we were involved? Ummm not likely. The other woman I met through a friend. We had been on one date when she called me one day and asked me if I had AAA,she had locked herself out of her car. When I told her no,she she told me she only had $130 in her bank account,but she'd figure something out. I recognized she was guilting me. I went ahead and purchased her a AAA account to help her out,but broke it off after that.
That's my story. I won't remarry. My house is now paid off,my finances are good,and I should easily be able to retire in four years. I've also made myself the promise to not date anyone that exhibits red flags. I think you're doing a GREAT service,and wish I had the advice that you're giving while I was dating my now ex.
Take care.
Wow! Thanks for sharing 💯✅
Good job Sir 👏🏼👏🏼
Good for you my guy 👍
I can't even imagine how horrible it must be to have to hand over half your pay check to a woman you hate
*NEVER* get married, period!!!
Alimony is legalized slavery.
After being in two marriages, I feel like I was treated like a sperm donor both times. Once the job was done, the relationship was ignored. Never again. EDIT: yeah, I was a naive idiot raised by traditional depression era parents who raised me believing in family values.
I think it happened to me also if she didn’t have one by another man.
Really two times 🤦🏾♂️ you must be a glutton for it
@Kelly Bonds That's what rubbers are for and why vasectomies are a good backup option! NO child support to worry about.
Why why would u get fooled the second time🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ fool me once shame on u fool me twice Shame on me.
You was trying to carry on your family values.just because marriage work out for your parents, doesnt mean it will for you
there's been a real decline in shame and dignity for women.
Can't fat shame or, slut shame them so they are virtually unstoppable. Can you imagine being a man and not have to worry about looking like a deadbeat, broke or anything less than a man. It would be great
Never Married -saw through it years ago.Certainly lots of 30's something women chilled my Blood.Marriage makes me shudder and i am very happy with my life.Seen enough friends and colleagues shattered and gutted by divorce
Married and divorced twice.
Met a lady three years ago...,
She turned out to be a cheat and
Alcohol dependant.
I left her.....
So mentally exhausted.
From now on, go your own way.
You learned the hard way.
for me it’s the simple peace of mind that comes from being truly free. In many ways it ties into a minimalist lifestyle and having another demanding human being who essentially holds me hostage financially, is the most clutter I can think of.
I'm 18 and glad I've been taking in this knowledge outside of college, appreciate the content; we men are coming back like the good ole' days.
I've been married and divorced twice. With my first wife I worked my tail off in the late eighties and early 90's, we built a home and had four kids. She decided to leave when my youngest daughter was 1. I bought her out when we split, paid a ton out, almost paid it off, then married a second time, and had a child several years later. She convinced me to renovate, and add a new finished basement, then she wanted to build an addition. Soon she left, after I had about paid that down, and then had to buy her out. Yup, I'm now finishing that up. So I'm done with buying the same house over and over, and having kids. I've been going to a bus stop since 1988. Still doing it! I love kids, don't get me wrong. He will be on his own after college, gulp. Still I'm staying strong. Living alone, except for my 15 year old son (shared parenting) and dog is enough. I've dated quite a bit, but it takes too much focus from what I truly want to do and my own business. Wanting is better than having, because it doesn't end up what you want! Im 59 by the way, pretty much at the end of the runway. I'm not bitter, just well schooled.
I never married because I like my house and don’t want to lose it. This is California
aren't you lonely?
When you get married you can't win any more than you can if you aren't married to your partner. All you can do is lose.
Love is love. No certificate needed
Just like knowledge is knowledge. No certificate needed.
Yes but the authorities have also fu**ed this up. Co habitation laws which after a period of time give women rights to your property.
@@Ray-wm8dz that's why the rule is not only to avoid marriage, but also avoid cohabitation. In many cases, guys end up worse off from cohabitation than they would have from marriage.
The juice ain't worth the squeeze!!
I was on a flight to Puerto Rico and there was an old white milf woman in her 40s and her much younger black boyfriend in his mid 20s. They were talking to another man sitting next to them. She was telling the man that she was married for 10 years before she got a divorce and is now dating her black boy toy. She told the man that her big wedding was amazing (which is all they want anyways) and that she had no regrets from the divorce because she now has lifetime alimony. When the man asked her who was paying for their trip to Puerto Rico she replied the ex husband in which everyone had a good chuckle. Shit I even had a good chuckle. Hey, if there is a male sucker out there willing to get married then more power to the female. You cant hate them for taking advantage of the situation. We as men should know the consequences by now whether it be through the internet or watching our peers get victimized to it.
Spot on. So why is a there a big drive for men to get married if it ends in pain? Social stigma for not being married? It’s all backwards
pain will happen in any breakup married or not. In fact pain is part of life. What isnt (or shouldnt be part of life) is you giving up half your wealth and pension which you worked so hard for because you got some female to marry you for a couple years. That is just a plain financial scam.@@risefromyourpain
Maybe it has something to do with the fact that the most popular piece of advice I received as a kid growing up was some variation of "Trust me, don't get married" accompanied by a very stern tone and sincere eye contact.
Divorcing my wife...
My son is 17.5. Nearly 18
She works 3 days a week
I lost my job
She wanted 65% of the value of our house
I wanted 50%
We settled with me 43% and her with 57%
My lawyer says this is a good deal
Bullshit
It is how it is. Take your 43% and remain single for the rest of your life. Did you get to keep your pension? Savings? Being alone now means you have a TON of time and opportunity to bank money.
1. They wreck your house. The most women today can’t cook, can’t clean, domestically speaking your better off hiring a maid.
2. As soon as you say I do, she says I don’t.
3. I refuse to pay for services I’m not getting ie spousal support.
4. I don’t need the aggravation of a lazy indigent who’s greatest goal is to mooch of another human being.
Because I have more Freedom at 23 remaining as a Bachelor. I invest everything into myself. My finances are for Me. Sex is more available more than ever via smart phone. You see women in committed relationships throw themselves to other guys while being with their Beta provider who has committed to them for Years. Women will always have more options until they hit the Wall. They don't want to cook or clean and expect you to do those tasks. We're entering a New Year Gentlemen. 2019 is our Year to Freedom!
Marriage used to be a institution that marked a woman's transfer of dependence and submission from her father to her husband. The ceremony had a spiritual component in addition to the declaration that a lifelong bond was being formed before the eyes of all present. Often times this took place when a girl was between 15-18 years old. The bride wore a white dress signaling her innocence. Women who were known to not be virgins would not even be considered for marriage by any man of quality.
Today most women sleep around with dozens of different men until their late 20's early 30's and then start to look for a man to take care of them now that their youth and beauty is about leave them. Women that had fathers in the home growing up rarely consider asking their permission to marry a man because women are taught that submitting to male authority, in any form, is patriarchal oppression. The ceremony itself is a bloated and expensive farce. Everyone knows the bride is no virgin, often times she may even have another man's kid(s) from previous "relationships" running around the wedding and one or more of the groom's friends may have even slept with her, yet she is still wearing white.
Men and women who were divorced were once widely shamed and ostracized, especially if they were the ones that chose to end the marriage. The financial penalties for ending a marriage are still place for men to encourage them to stick it out but the penalties for getting divorced have all been removed for women and indeed many new laws have been created to incentivize women to get divorced.
The marriage ceremony has been stripped of all it's former meaning and has become a symbol of a man's enslavement to the state with his wife ruling over him as the state's proxy.
Dude. Perfect said
Solid comment
Very accurate description of what has transpired in the last 100 years to where we are today.
@1carkeet You've nailed it. Good luck finding a women of equal worth, value, or net worth, to that of a single man. Very, very rare, unless she cleaned her first husband out and didn't spend any of it.
I am 64 years old, just ended 10 year relationship because she was cheating...we lived together for 10 years....engaged to shut her up but I would never have married her because I did not trust her...TRUST IS HUGE....without it, no chance of me marrying... lose too much...I don't care if the next one takes off because I would not marry her...
2 years in I was in lust and a sucker that settled for a kid. Was not stupid enough to get trapped in marriage even tho she pressed it for years. After 7 years with her, I am free and single and it feels amazing to get my life back on track
I just want to thank you for all you do to instruct men into the pernicious nature of most women. The marriage laws are so biased against men that it is not worth getting married in today's feminist environment. Young men out there really need to listen to you. To all young men, your value will go up as you get older and a woman's will fall faster than lead in water. So keep studying, keep working out, and generally keep improving yourselves. I have been happily married to the most wonderful woman ( from Mexico since I was smart enough to not marry an entitled western raised woman) for 27 yrs and still going strong. I was 19yrs old when I met her, I was also skinny with no muscle mass even though I worked out, I had no money, no college education at the time, no house, not even a car but she accepted me like that. After two yrs dating we got married. A little after I bought a house, got a university degree, money started rolling in, built apartments to get passive income, and when I turned 30yrs old something in my system changed and I started to pack on muscle. I am now a 49 yr old man who is well established and with so much muscle I get hit on by so many women in their twenties that it is scary. But, I don't care about them. Its flattering but that is all. I will always care and love my wife because she loved me when I had nothing more to offer her other than just my love. Today, I show your videos to my son who is in his 20's and studying to be a doctor. I have told him to not ever marry or have children with any American and/or western raised woman. I have warned him about girls that are 30yrs or close to 30yrs. Those girls will say the sweetest things to a man because they are running on fumes because of their biological clocks. AND DEFINITELY NO SINGLE MOTHERS! He can date these women, he can have fun with them, but not to ever marry or cohabitate with them. There are exceptions of course. If he can find a girl who dates him exclusively and encourages him while he is struggling to finish his studies, as was the case with me, then that is a girl that has good moral value who is willing to sacrifice with you. I also encourage him to seek out out girls that have arrived from countries where women are still traditional. Nothing is a guarantee, but it increases the chances for a long loving happy life. If he cannot find a good woman now, then, after he starts working in his chosen profession, he needs to marry someone who earns as much as he does or more. If all else fails he can live like Leonardo Dicaprio. Single, but happily dating girls 20 yrs younger than him. That's why Leo always has a smile on his face. And now, as the good uncle that I am, I have started to instruct my nephew as well. Anyway, thank you for your advice to the men of the world. You are a saviour of men's hard earned money. Leykis 101