GIRL CHAT: Losing Self, stuck in a Job, Dating Advice, Intentional Men, No Kids

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  • @koreenm2014
    @koreenm2014 Рік тому +58

    This video was right on time! In 8 months, I’ll be entering my 30’s and a lot of things I “wanted” for myself haven’t came yet. I’m learning to find beauty in being a late bloomer and letting God take control of my timeline. He knows best. ❤️ Thanks for this video, Destiny.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +15

      Letting God control the timeline. That’s beautiful 💕 30s is beautiful and so lovely. You’re going to love it . Early welcome from me to you. Gods timing. I wish you all of your hearts desires, in his will🤎

    • @loverofallthingsbeautiful2
      @loverofallthingsbeautiful2 Рік тому +2

      Life doesn't stop at 30 sis.

  • @taylorsnow3994
    @taylorsnow3994 Рік тому +17

    Don’t think this is CAP when I say this because I don’t give out fake compliments and energy, but you helped me so much along the way baby at 23 years old when I first started watching you and I’m 26 now… You taught me how to braid my hair, do my nails, feet and even love on myself a lot better than I was. I’m not going to get into the extremes of what I was going through when I started rocking with u but girl u helped me. I’m proud of you and who I’ve become while watching you. And don’t let comments like this put no unnecessary pressure on you. I’m just letting you know that if your goal in creating this type of content was to uplift and encourage, you’ve got a for sure success.

  • @MissExclusive4
    @MissExclusive4 Рік тому +42

    The best advice for healing is definitely to keep it cute and move forward. You have to do it for you.

  • @k.c.43
    @k.c.43 Рік тому +51

    " Rest in your singleness" As a 44yo who is new to this single life, this gave me a different perspective! Thank you!❤

  • @pinkygirl0323
    @pinkygirl0323 Рік тому +13

    Girl I never thought I would be a foster parent but I got a sibling set, sister and brother and God told my husband and I to adopt them and we are glad we listened cause they are the best kids ever..

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +3

      Awwwww I love this so very much. That’s so beautiful. 💕such a blessing.

  • @Fee-K
    @Fee-K Рік тому +26

    Destinyyyyyyyyyy girl! You had me in tears talking about the couch situation! And I’m married (3yrs now) to my wonderful husband! However, before…..I did not rest in my singleness…..baby I had the Aaron’s, RC, Walmart Layaway’s baby I had them and they were TRASH! I went through so many heart aches it ain’t even funny! And it wasn’t even anything sexual. But when I finally stopped trying to have that great man in my time, stopped looking at other ppl and their relationships, and let God move in his time. Within a month my husband was revealed to me. We’ve been together 7 yrs friends/dating and now been married for 3. Baby you spoke nothing but the truth! I love you sis! You are a truly amazing soul and everything you want, need, and desire is yours! It is your DESTINY! Blessings to you always!

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +8

      Awww, I love this for you. Congratulations. Wishing you many blessed years in your marriage💕 when you least expect it. God’s timing is everything. Resting in singleness in the context of the questions provided means not being ashamed of it and embracing it. And yes also living your best life. Thanks for sharing your story here

    • @Fee-K
      @Fee-K Рік тому +2

      @@allofdestinyI agree and that’s just what I did. Thank you! ❤

  • @adeanapatterson9533
    @adeanapatterson9533 Рік тому +54

    "It wasn't giving temporary, it wasn't giving blow up, it wasn't giving rent a center!" SPEAK DESTINY!!! That whole dialogue!!! My God. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @joyfulonpurpose6913
    @joyfulonpurpose6913 Рік тому +52

    " Rest in your singleness" This is an on time word ❤

    • @mssocial9086
      @mssocial9086 Рік тому

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @letoriabennett2019
      @letoriabennett2019 Рік тому +1

      Yessss🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +4

      People act like it’s such a bad thing. Single is beautiful when you do it right.🤎

  • @tonika7543
    @tonika7543 Рік тому +39

    Sometimes you gotta appreciate the little things in life, it takes time and the best is yet to come.

  • @iamonlychristina
    @iamonlychristina Рік тому +8

    This helped a lot especially with entering in my 30s soon and single with no kids. I always feel rushed and seeing others already married, kids etc. This helped with knowing you don't have to rush and continue working and taking care of self first then all will fall into place in God's timing♥♥

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому

      Happy this helped you . Live ya life, enjoy your kids-free life. Once all of that comes, it’s permanent you can’t give (kids/husband) back. Better to take your time than end up with some hot mess of a man you want a divorce from.🤎💕

  • @ivythegreat4943
    @ivythegreat4943 Рік тому +74

    OK I didn’t even start the video yet, but let me get this out of the way you’re successful you’re gorgeous you make your money you’re God-fearing, you handling your business you’re respectable you’re very classy. You’re very elegant. And that’s on Mary had a Little Lamb…. Also, I hate the fact that people put age limits on everything everyone has their own journey just because certain people get a certain point faster than others does it mean it’s not gonna happen and maybe they don’t want it to happen and that’s OK.

  • @fashionistarr
    @fashionistarr Рік тому +121

    Nooo :( you literally could pass for 18 and you should never feel that you need a man or have to have kids :( I’m so sorry also you are so sweet and pretty you deserve the best things

    • @larhondaaskew1941
      @larhondaaskew1941 Рік тому +9

      I totally agree with you. She's such a inspiration and beautiful woman inside and out ❤

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +9

      Black ain’t cracking on this side. 🤭thank you so much…on another note, I hate that my answering the questions submitted has gotten mistaken/misunderstood for me feeling some way about not having children. I’m living my best kids-free life. You have no reason to be sorry me🤎

    • @jsorrell080
      @jsorrell080 Рік тому +1

      I really enjoyed this video!!! Thank you.

  • @MissExclusive4
    @MissExclusive4 Рік тому +38

    We’re definitely in a instant gratification generation and I definitely believe that practicing gratitude and believing that God has his hands on us in every season will help us to remain happy and focused even when we’re not there at the goal yet! Love what you said about trying not to always focus on what’s next too ❤ enjoy the process!

    • @FeliciaJohns-lr8zt
      @FeliciaJohns-lr8zt Рік тому +2

      AMEN

    • @jazzmondsmannequin
      @jazzmondsmannequin Рік тому +3

      I agree, instant gratification is starting to become the norm 😢

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +2

      Well said! Trust the process and ignore what strangers gotta say, that’ll forever be my advice especially to younger girls in this ugly unforgiving social media space

    • @MissExclusive4
      @MissExclusive4 Рік тому +1

      @@allofdestiny thank you & yes you’re right!❤️

  • @tasharawarbington
    @tasharawarbington Рік тому +3

    You are so inspiring!! Such a good example of a young classy God fearing women!!

  • @LifeOfKells
    @LifeOfKells Рік тому +19

    @4:10 “where I’m at is where god currently wants me to be” Oooooo! THATS what I needed right now, I have a bad habit of not being in the present and overlooking present accomplishments because of this. I’m going to start saying this to myself and others when(if) asked❤️❤️❤️ Thank you

    • @drekaag334
      @drekaag334 Рік тому +1

      Seriously… I felt that on a different level! Soon as I graduated with my bachelor’s degree so many people asked “what’s next?” Or “Are you going back for your Masters?” Like let’s cut the cake baby

    • @LifeOfKells
      @LifeOfKells Рік тому

      @@drekaag334 “let’s cut the cake”😭lmfaooo 💯🎯🎯

  • @linarose5994
    @linarose5994 Рік тому +1

    “Stay distracted from the distractions “ 👌🏿

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      That’s it right there 💕

    • @linarose5994
      @linarose5994 Рік тому

      @@allofdestiny just to let you know I been following you for a while now and Iam very proud of you not only that you are an inspiration, thank you ❤️ May god continue blessing you

  • @alisac905
    @alisac905 Рік тому +20

    Ms. Destiny you are simply Awesome!!! You are not my daughter but I am very proud of you and the woman that you are. May God continue to bless you and your family. Be Blessed, Be Safe and continue to spread Love and Joy.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +8

      Thank you so very much🥹 it’s been a journey. Thanks for being here. I pray God blesses and shines upon you . 💕

    • @FeliciaJohns-lr8zt
      @FeliciaJohns-lr8zt Рік тому +2

      AMEN

  • @krimezofkolor4683
    @krimezofkolor4683 Рік тому +4

    Girl I’m 31 no kids no man . I’m just happy!! Idc what anyone thinks I’m loving myself period . But yes people constantly ask when I’m going do this or that . Can you worry about your own life and womb .
    Loving myself is the best love ever. Being single is peace . Keep doing you pretty girl . If it’s meant to be it will be

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +2

      HAPPYYYY. Love that for you. And ikr, mind yal own wombs😂 they ain’t gone buy no pampers. I’m convinced people just like announcement photos. 😂🤭Kids and marriage are permanent. nobody wants to talk about how much of a headache all of that can be when you rush and choose the wrong man. You’re doing the right thing, keep that going for yourself.

  • @charmaineld89
    @charmaineld89 Рік тому +2

    I'm late but girl!!!! you betta let the holy ghost speak through you about patience. There is nothing wrong with being single and enjoying it. I have had so many ppl look at me crazy because I want to have kids with my husband only. Someone even said I thought I was better than ppl because I choose to wait. The couch analogy was good!!! Continue to allow God to use you and he will surely answer your prayers. Stay blessed

  • @LifeNbalance
    @LifeNbalance Рік тому +18

    The girl chat I didn’t know I needed. My girl ❤

  • @Poochoxo
    @Poochoxo Рік тому +7

    I’m so glad to hear you say you wanna be a wife before a mother bc same!

  • @lakeishionstreet
    @lakeishionstreet Рік тому +2

    "chirp chirp, nee ga " lol That was a great visual example for all. Let that man prove himself.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      🤭chip chirp😂 and I know that’s right. We don’t care if he like us, what he doing about showing us matters.

  • @shefromdc
    @shefromdc Рік тому +3

    I loved this video, needed this video and appreciated all of this video. To my niece in my head, you’re anointed, you’re gifted, you’re blessed, you’re amazing, you’re beautiful and I thank you for being you. 49y/o me has watched every video of yours since August 2022 and I’m now sitting, waiting for more of them to be uploaded. I’ve learned so much from you & have passed this info AND shared these videos with my daughter. Your parents did a wonderful job, I love them for that & love you for being you.

  • @atotten1924
    @atotten1924 Рік тому +17

    Tell 'em Destiny. A man will show and pursue you.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +7

      That’s right. If he ain’t properly pursuing, we ain’t interested in giving him our precious time💕.

  • @jazzy5389
    @jazzy5389 Рік тому +12

    I first wanna say to the 23 year old you're not missing anything not all of your generation but some young men today are not date worthy. To comment on when a nan wants you you were right on it A REAL MAN WILL ALWAYS LET YOU AND OTHERS KNOW IF HIS INTEREST IS IN YOU there will be no confusion on that. You are correct afain you can't stop your life to wait on a husband to come. Buy your home, car etc .... because waiting on him may not happen and I know people right at this moment that's in that position. Great conversation ❤

  • @margaretrivera6664
    @margaretrivera6664 Рік тому +9

    I see your mother in you, they've done an excellent job raising y'all. Great responses❤

  • @takilathompson4532
    @takilathompson4532 Рік тому +4

    Girl!!!! Rest in your singleness!! Yes!!! A word..I love it

  • @blaircoley747
    @blaircoley747 Рік тому +1

    I loved the disclaimer at the end. We should really as women give each other grace. What you’re going through now I may go through on ten years. Let’s continue to be kind to one another.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому

      Kindness will take people so far.💕that’s what I desire to build in this community. Women/men who are super kind and encouraging to one another in these comments.

  • @meefurst
    @meefurst Рік тому +2

    Love your transparency makes me want to watch even more… no disclaimers….can’t wait til the next one

  • @r.ladawn24
    @r.ladawn24 Рік тому +53

    Let me grab my popcorn…love me a Destiny ChitChat💞

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +8

      Yesss I’m snacking and watching with yal right now💕thank you

  • @tee3165
    @tee3165 Рік тому +2

    Absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be married first! It will all happen for you, God speed! Societies "deadlines" don't have a say so here! You go girl!

  • @tierneywilks4679
    @tierneywilks4679 Рік тому +1

    This was so real sis!!!!!! Thank youuuuu

  • @dejakierra
    @dejakierra Рік тому

    Heavy on "do the things that make you feel good!!" I needed to hear that today!

  • @deescott222
    @deescott222 Рік тому +3

    You betta Preach Daughter!!! Yes, wait on the Lord. Your waiting, is Him preparing what He has for you!!

  • @keke_lavay7613
    @keke_lavay7613 Рік тому +2

    I love how honest and genuine you are it’s always so amazing. You’re so enjoyable to watch and listen too and such a big inspiration. I didn’t want kids but I got diagnosed with ovarian cancer to 24. I had a full hysterectomy that same year. Sometimes I think did I make the right choice. It’s was important to me my health was intact.

  • @goldencici8249
    @goldencici8249 Рік тому

    “Rest in your singleness” recently single at 28 & needed to hear this.

  • @lorelei8387
    @lorelei8387 Рік тому

    The analogy of the couch and dating the right person! Destiny dropping gems.

  • @johneshiataylor6050
    @johneshiataylor6050 Рік тому +2

    Girl that was a Word!!!!! I’m over hear Boo Wooing because there is a prayer that I’ve been praying for and I have so much faith that God Will!!!!!!!!!! That’s it That’s All!!!!!!

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      Keep having that Faith in Him, and claim whatever it may be. Gods got it, he can do anything 💕

  • @onlynekitta
    @onlynekitta Рік тому

    It’s coming🙏🏾🙌🏾 The family is coming!

  • @ceecee2274
    @ceecee2274 Рік тому +1

    I can listen to you all day. Your sense of humor is so funny, smart and mature.

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot Рік тому +1

    This whole vlog is a vibe and I am here for it!

  • @lc22ac23
    @lc22ac23 Рік тому +1

    Love this you are so right you are where you are because that’s where God wants you at this time ❤

  • @LivingSauceywithNiNi
    @LivingSauceywithNiNi Рік тому +9

    Don't worry or let people tell you that you need a man. God has the perfect man for you! Enjoy your life appreciate your FREEDOM while you have it girlie. Much love & respect from Detroit. ❤

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +2

      A little more clarity may be gained from watching in entirety. 🙃 don’t judge a video by the title.

    • @LivingSauceywithNiNi
      @LivingSauceywithNiNi Рік тому +2

      @@allofdestiny It wasn't for you Destiny it was for whomever needed to hear it.

  • @SharneitaLatrice
    @SharneitaLatrice Рік тому +8

    38:48 this video was such a vibe! I love you Destiny …You are so pretty and have a great head on your shoulders thanks for being such a inspiration ❤😊

  • @sharinadavis9715
    @sharinadavis9715 Рік тому

    This was sooo good. Listen to the single people this is the time to learn who you are what you will accept and won’t accept. You should know this among other things before going into a union with someone. Being single is not bad and it bothers me when people project this onto other individuals.

  • @Mindlfulmedicine333
    @Mindlfulmedicine333 Рік тому +1

    love love love , been watching you for years! You are an inspiration keep doing your thangggg girl

  • @Chanterryka
    @Chanterryka Рік тому +2

    It’s Friday, I’m taking my braids down and catching up on Destiny 🎊

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      Hope you had a great Friday. And thanks for watching. What’s the next hairstyle ?

  • @milliy7975
    @milliy7975 Рік тому +2

    Bless you Destiny. Being real and transparent. Great encouragement and guidance for young women ❤

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому

      Thank you. As long as something I said helps one person, I’m thankful for that 💕

  • @jazzygurl1121
    @jazzygurl1121 Рік тому +1

    ❤️❤️ Destiny this really spoke to me snd right on time!! So encouraging! Thank you!

  • @melyakpa5490
    @melyakpa5490 Рік тому +1

    25:26-40 you spoke to me 🥹🥹I want the best one and I know that God is sending him my way🙏

  • @iamashleynicole9103
    @iamashleynicole9103 Рік тому +1

    I watch you all the time and never comment but the message in the couch situation had me ugly crying! I love you sis. Continue to be you!!!

  • @MissExclusive4
    @MissExclusive4 Рік тому +5

    The couch analogy was BEAUTIFUL. Your love for God is so clear and it is so refreshing. Thank you!

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +4

      Thank you. God put that in my heart a few months back and I’ve reflected on it ever since. I got too happy trying to share it with yal so maybe I’ll double back to the story one day but I’m glad it was received well. God is so good 😊 💕

    • @MissExclusive4
      @MissExclusive4 Рік тому

      @@allofdestiny you’re welcome! He sure is 🙏🏽🥰

  • @KDBetter
    @KDBetter Рік тому

    Girl! I went through a whole thing coming into my 30s. We are not alone! Thank you for this ❤

  • @MercadezMichelle
    @MercadezMichelle Рік тому +1

    I needed to see this… it’s rough out here but I ain’t rushing nothing.

  • @WhenGraceCalled
    @WhenGraceCalled Рік тому +1

    This is so good. I feel you Destiny. Almost feel like we are the same person.

  • @tanishiahicks
    @tanishiahicks Рік тому +3

    This was such a great video, there is nothing wrong with waiting I love that you said that whew this was good 💕💕💯

  • @marshayjacole
    @marshayjacole Рік тому +2

    Such positive vibes and great advice! ❤️

  • @OlivePerezT
    @OlivePerezT Рік тому +4

    Hi destiny don't worry about being single you will meet someone and don't worry about having children enjoy pampering yourself

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +3

      Yal typing before watching the video huh🙃

    • @OlivePerezT
      @OlivePerezT Рік тому

      ​@@allofdestinyyes girl I couldn't help it I had to type before watching the video 🙃

  • @MsHoneyjai
    @MsHoneyjai Рік тому +2

    Love this! Thank you Destiny. ❤

  • @Themflife
    @Themflife Рік тому +3

    “Yeeeen my momma” 😂 I almost fell off the treadmill. Lmao this video came right on time, definitely been feeling stuck lately. This transparency was very refreshing ✨

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому

      Girlllll I’d be torn between mad and sad hearing that. 😂🤭 and thank you so much. I’m slowing trying to ease back into speaking openly online I be needing breaks from it but I’m so glad it’s being received well💕thank you

  • @NiomiTTucker
    @NiomiTTucker Рік тому +2

    can we stop and appreciate the references to nature with footage tho! loved it!! 💕

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +2

      Thanks so much 🥰. Lol I’m such a visual person🫠 I had to add that special touch. So glad you loved it

  • @SuperSparkle66
    @SuperSparkle66 Рік тому +3

    I wish I could have heard this chat when I was a young girl!😢 You are so down to earth and inspiring!❤

  • @Rel_30
    @Rel_30 Рік тому +2

    Loved this chit chat Destiny. Some of the single and 30's questions spoke to me, Thanks for the advice.

  • @GinaBihh
    @GinaBihh Рік тому +14

    Destiny Girl I’ve been watching you for the longest He will come just take you’re time. 😊❤

  • @Teeks79Love
    @Teeks79Love Рік тому +6

    ❤Top tier video!!!! The reminders and encouragement you gave.... absolutely fabulous!!!❤ Thank you so very much!!❤

    • @Nicolekimmie
      @Nicolekimmie Рік тому

      Definitely we love the vibes❤❤

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for viewing Im glad the video encouraged you.

  • @Candace_Renee
    @Candace_Renee Рік тому +2

    Sis I loved this! More girl chats please!

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      I have to take my mental breaks in between reading and answering all the advice questions and topic requests but more to come soon for sure💕.thank you

  • @Tyelarkins
    @Tyelarkins Рік тому

    Idk how many times I done watch this girl chat I love videos like these ❤❤

  • @tiffanyguidry4738
    @tiffanyguidry4738 Рік тому +2

    I feel you love . I want to be marry before I have kids

  • @ladyt928
    @ladyt928 Рік тому +2

    Thank u destiny I really needed to hear this. I love watching ur videos ❤

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому

      Thanks so very much. Happy to have you here💕

  • @jalesapeterson1977
    @jalesapeterson1977 Рік тому +1

    I felt you when you were being vulnerable I am 30 and I am resting in my singleness. I desire to be married and I want the top shelf man.

  • @MistyL82
    @MistyL82 Рік тому +6

    Isaiah 60:22 "I the Lord WILL make it happen" Your vulnerability is much appreciated! 26:01 hit me, that was good stuff!! I pray we all can rest in knowing that God told us He will open rivers in high places for us. With God, we never lack. We are the head and not the tail. Just hold on. I enjoyed every bit of this video💯💯 funny moments but also some gems were dropped

  • @BiancaHudson
    @BiancaHudson Рік тому +4

    For the person asking about the friend that keeps bringing up your past: That friend is still hurt by something, have a serious convo with them. I was that friend before.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +2

      That’s a interesting point of view. But if the hurt didn’t come directly from that friend, why the need for slick shots her way🧐

  • @jasminewilliams1298
    @jasminewilliams1298 Рік тому +2

    I really needed this girl chat thank you so much Destiny 💖

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      Of course, you’re welcome. I have to take my breaks in between the girl chats but I enjoy answering the ladies questions and hope the responses help someone watching💕

  • @elegantimpressionsmua9017
    @elegantimpressionsmua9017 Рік тому +1

    Great advice destiny definitely want more of the girl chats. Stay blessed and safe 🤗

  • @Cali8701
    @Cali8701 Рік тому +2

    You always give great advice, needed this video ❤

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      I did my best, despite of being so late🤭 thanks I hope my advice helps and I’m glad you enjoyed this video

  • @japalomeno8068
    @japalomeno8068 Рік тому

    I love your girl chats. Please keep 'em coming ❤️❤️

  • @takenadugger5086
    @takenadugger5086 Рік тому +3

    Hey Boo! This girl chat was much needed. Keep pushing past your uncomfortableness. You got so much wisdom. Love you💞 Ratchet Destiny, Hey Babe! 😅

  • @andreacampbell6909
    @andreacampbell6909 Рік тому

    Smudging is when you spiritually cleansing space, object or person. Ex: saging your home, getting someone to bless the area etc...every religion has their own version and name for it

  • @kadeijadalrymple137
    @kadeijadalrymple137 Рік тому +1

    My absolute favorite type of content from uu Destiny ❤.

  • @Godsmylove
    @Godsmylove Рік тому +1

    Keep doing what God has called you to do girl. At the right time, the right things will happen (I know you know this, sometimes we just need positive affirmations). God is so faithful! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
    I have seen this quote floating around. "You are now living in at least one of the blessings that you prayed for" 🙌🏽🙌🏽
    God was faithful then, He is faithful now, and He will always be faithful! Amen!

  • @katiesolomon3699
    @katiesolomon3699 Рік тому +1

    i really loved this video GREAT advice!!!!!!!!!! You know you right everybody isn"t equipped to be a mother great great job,Girl u know this video was EVERYTHING it really spoke to me thank you keep them coming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @jackquelyng.3466
    @jackquelyng.3466 Рік тому +1

    Destiny, I really enjoyed this video! ❤Your feedback on one of the topics in particular was so encouraging and right on time for me! Thank you so much & may God continue to bless you!❤

  • @Anneline_Mei
    @Anneline_Mei Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this vlog talking about the single era ... 😊it gave me hope and trusting in the fact that the Lord knows who i need in my life... love you girl ... ❤

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      Yeap, he knows what you need🤎 and at what time

  • @MsKyiah
    @MsKyiah Рік тому +1

    Real raw no disclaimer content love love love it sis 💅🏽

  • @Brownskinlove-qh4io
    @Brownskinlove-qh4io Рік тому +1

    Girl this vlog was definitely for me! Thank you!!💓👑

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed, you’re welcome 💕

  • @whitneygill2963
    @whitneygill2963 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Destiny I needed a few of these words!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @CharmagneHoskins
    @CharmagneHoskins Рік тому

    Destiny you BETTER PREACH! That couch part was a whole sermon!!!! 🙌🏾

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      And that’s exactly how he spoke it to me the first time a few months back. I got too excited and happy I forgot to finish saying the rest but I think the point was made clear enough. I’m happy to share that with you all💕

  • @MoniiByrd
    @MoniiByrd Рік тому +2

    The fact that you gave me permission to have it on audio when I was cleaning up 😂 you know me too well and this girl chat was GIVING
    We need more chats. Love 😍😘

  • @neff-bs3eh
    @neff-bs3eh Рік тому

    I feel that way. If you always live in the past. I'm 36 and I don't have no kids. I'm just enjoying it

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      Continue enjoying it. 🤎💕 kids are permanent and nobody’s responsibility but you and yours. Don’t let nobody rush something that don’t directly affect their life.

  • @arreanteshanquel1178
    @arreanteshanquel1178 Рік тому +1

    I love these videos from you! You always give positive advice, keep it real, and just be YOU! ❤ When you got emotional I really felt that! In God's timing everything will fall into place no matter how long it takes! You really gave the girls what we needed!

  • @MissExclusive4
    @MissExclusive4 Рік тому +3

    I’ve been looking forward to this one!🎉💕

  • @keishalashaejourney6641
    @keishalashaejourney6641 Рік тому +1

    Destiny you spoke a good word on here. ❤

  • @Legend0222
    @Legend0222 Рік тому

    You give great advice! For the girl who was asking about dating someone younger I agree with Destiny, I had a friend with benefits for awhile who was 9 years younger and while he is a great guy and we are still good friends I had to end the benefits portion because I could see that he was falling in love with me and he was not the person I saw myself spending my life with. I've been blessed in that I have always known who I am and what I want, so when he would change what he did to mimic me I knew that I didn't want to date someone like that, I think it was just that he was so young and still finding himself. We are still good friends and I hope someday he finds a amazing woman who is everything he wants because he really was a great guy just not my great guy.

  • @_itslici
    @_itslici Рік тому

    Girl you was preaching on today!! YES🙌🏾

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +1

      These questions and topics had me on my Ted talk 🤭than you so glad you enjoyed

  • @C.B.5150
    @C.B.5150 Рік тому +3

    Talk that talk!! Great chit chat Destiny!!❤❤❤

  • @TheJourney_88
    @TheJourney_88 Рік тому

    16:01 PREACH Rev Destiny

  • @tee3165
    @tee3165 Рік тому

    Love the sofa analogyyyyy!!!!!!

  • @CharmagneHoskins
    @CharmagneHoskins Рік тому +2

    We need a ratchet Destiney girl chat! 😅 I’m late, but I’m here! 💙

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  Рік тому +2

      Because her responses to most of these same questions would be different 🫠🙃🤣thank you for being here💕

    • @CharmagneHoskins
      @CharmagneHoskins Рік тому

      @@allofdestiny and we here for it! 👏🏾

  • @daphne5179
    @daphne5179 Рік тому +1

    Amazing absolutely amazing you are walking in your greatness the girl chat oh my goodness. You will never fail at being you keep going bc the best is yet to come for you. Your humble sweet spirit speaks volumes. As always wishing you good health and great wealth.

  • @paigeboyd40
    @paigeboyd40 Рік тому +1

    Love all your sharing thank you for being your authentic self much love friend amen 🙏🏽 ❤