Excuse me in the chat: Ms. Anya I’m a MFT intern I was just doing some research about different entities that would hire an (LMFT) I couldn’t find a lot but it brought me to your channel maybe you already covered this in one of your videos if so please share the link if not then that would be a cool topic for a future video. Respect 🫡
@stephanya: hi, i would love to see a video about the housewives of Dubai, There was alot of fights en interesting behavior in the series, what do you think about making a break it down video? I love watching you video’s, Love from Holland ❤
I was FULLY looking at Laura sideways in the beginning. She not only told him to stop wearing his Hawaiian shirts, she also made him “get rid of the glasses” and I didn’t see him wear his glasses again after that. I literally could not believe she cared more about what he looked like over whether or not he could SEE!
She's definitely strong willed and can rub people the wrong way, but at the same time this show is heavily edited so I can just as easily see Jeramey pushing a lot of her buttons early on that was cut out for the narrative. I was not a fan of hers until Jeramey lost all credibility which made question what happened behind the scenes.
I heard that first, he said in the pods he didn’t wear glasses and then put fake ones later on. Something like that, I wasn’t paying very good attention and dont even remember what UA-cam channel i saw that on. She also touched on the Hawaiian shirts but missed it. Either way she’s a tough cookie, I like her assertiveness in tough situations but she doesn’t have a big soft side
I hate the “we tease” relationships. My husband is like this with all of my children and it drives me crazy. It will easily get out of hand and people get their feelings hurt.
If Jeramey hadn't stepped out with Sarah Ann, Laura would've been seen in a much more negative light. She's awful but the jet ski thing was so immature of Jeramey and Sarah Ann to do.
for me, it wasn't only that his behavior was so crappy - i was also really impressed with how Laura handled catching him in that lie. he shared the location & she called his bluff. but that didn't redeem any of her behavior toward him; it just left a better impression of her overall.
@mokc913 the way she reacted to him was almost definitely a result of his actions either when cameras weren't rolling or stuff that was edited out. there's 0% chance that he was a total saint before he went off and cheated and humiliated Laura. hes a child
Woah watching you question Jeramy’s interest in Sarah Ann’s Insta followers made me realize- he was probably trying to size up how pretty she was. Because the idea is the more followers you have, the more likely you are to be conventionally attractive. At least thats how I’ve seen straight men comment about women’s large number of followers. Like how much “competition” they have
Oh, I seen it as the more followers she has more famous she would be and he would probably get more into the popular role or maybe he didn’t wanna be that popular for being like the “spouse” of her social media.
I don't agree. It was right after she told him that she does fillers. I think it was to size up how much of an attention whore she is. Also I have seen some of the most unattractive women with a bunch of weird looking filters on their faces with hundreds of thousands of followers so the follower= pretty is something I have not heard before. But followers=insecure, starved for attention, likely to cheat, then yes.
You made a great point about the "teasing is our love language" relationship dynamic! Honestly I never thought about the potential downsides to it and I've even considered it as an ideal, but now you've made me rethink that. It seems flirty and fun but it can be so easy to accidentally make a dig that crosses the line. And you're always kinda trying to upstage the other person with your wittiness to make them laugh; you can't relax!
Oof I feel this hard! I have always been like this with partners. I have also complained about my dad being a bully (constantly teasing me). Feel like it's definitely a defense mechanism. Get them before they get you. Steph def hit the nail on the head!
Gotta be honest, I’ve always seen teasing as quite suspect… either a passive-aggressive expression or a defense mechanism or a subtle attempt to “one-up” the partner. I never get good vibes from couples who tease each other a lot. 🤷🏼♀️
This! I'm a sweet talker so I'm not really good at the teasing thing. Maybe because I've felt judged so much growing up. Lil jabs seems like critic to me.
I’m happy she mentioned the bean dip thing ! Lauren threw Jeramy under the bus, even though she had just as much fault as him. The comment sounded objectifying at best and racist as worst. I’m happy AD seemed to have been in a better place in the reunion and realized that Lauren wasn’t a true friend in that moment.
At first, I was like, *racist? But then I realized how objectified AD was all season, compared to everyone else. So yeah, after further reflection, racist is accurate.
@@maloneaqua The bean dip thing isn't a racist term but objectifying AD could have racist undertones? It's the south, white woman telling a white man to SA a black woman...
I agreee and I’m so shocked people never talked about Laura’s faults. But you explained it so well. No one is perfect but she was belittling and controlling and it felt she has a lot of work to do on herself. I questioned more Laura’s character than anyone else. This show is so great because it helps us see what we can work on if we see these traits in us and she hopefully can look back. We can all work on ourselves.
@itsOtiyana93 yes. Literally the first shot of them together at the pool...I was like wow....I think he might be too immature for her. And she seemed mean...idk. that was my instant thought
Your take on the "teasing couple" resonated with me sooo much. My ex and I used to bicker all the time and when we crossed the line (which happens more often than you'd think), we were genuinely hurt by what the other person said. Over time (at least for me), that led to a loooot of resentment. My memories of him are now mostly negative because of the things that we used to say to eachother. When I started dating my now boyfriend, I kept making it very clear that that type of communication was a no-go for me and I had to stop us from going down that path a couple of times. He's always respected my boundary in that regard and we have become so much better at speaking and critisizing the other person respectfully, calmly and gently. It's crazy how much this can do for your attitude towards the other person and the relationship, we just hold eachother in high regard that way. Definitely a game changer.
This relationship was a case of ‘good thing they found each other cus I don’t like either of em’ for me. That being said Jeramey deliberately aiming to deceive Laura by leaving his phone (but not Apple Watch) in his car at the bar when going home with Sara Anne… yikes. No matter how shitty your partner is it’s on you to end things before stepping out.
Asking about Sarah Ann’s follower count was probably a roundabout way to see how physically attractive she is. Just a wild guess, but I would think it’s safe to assume that female “influencers”/“social media personalities” with large-ish followings are more likely to be conveniently attractive.
Not to mention in the DR when Jeramy was talking to Amy on the beach he told her he wants to reach out to Sarah when they leave… he was never fully in it.
I think LIB is such an entertaining show at baseline but honestly it has become my favorite part to come here and learn something afterwards. Thanks for the awesome videos! I'd love to have a therapist like you :)
He said he wanted to be with laura and nothing happened with Sarah Ann yet he already packed Laura’s shit, and immediatly when things were over with Laura he got with Sarah Ann at the same EVENT of the breakup. He is such a liar.
Not to mention in the DR when Jeramy was talking to Amy on the beach he told her he wants to reach out to Sarah when they leave… he was never fully in it.
I think the viewpoint is important as well. In the West, women do tend to take liberal views when it comes to treating men, like all about equality. Most of the audience who watch and comment are from Western countries, hence I can see that reflect in their hostility towards Jeramey. However, as an Asian viewer, I can already see her behaviours really are the root cause of all the problems they encountered. I guess growing up in collectivist culture, me and everyone else is pretty much aware of social harmony, learning early on how we should treat others, especially when it comes to women-men dynamic. If you want the men to treat you with respect and care, you would not treat them the way Laura treated Jeramey, not by talking down, controlling what he can and cannot do. Heck, this is not just a man-woman dynamic, it's human relationship in general. Treat others how you want to be treated. Also as bad as his behaviour in the end was, I actually saw him multiple times trying to work things out with Laura, only to be met with more rude and dismissive attitudes. Honestly, I can't stand her. I don't think any men can handle her.
We are on the same page about the moms/parents this season being surprisingly good wisdom and more interesting than their children in many ways! That line from Jeramy’s mom about his behavior stood out to me too, just as much as Clays mom’s words did. Truly amazing and rare moments to see on tv imo. But overall I saw the relationship between Laura and Jeramy as DOA, I knew they weren’t making it to the alter from the get-go because they had far too many problems that showed they did not match at all. What did surprise me was the sudden intrusion of Sarah Ann lol! I didn’t even remember her from the pods, but hearing her text and then how Jeramy spent the night with her was enough to make them both so wrong that I had to take Laura’s side and just didn’t care to hear from those two cheaters at all anymore tbh. The reunion showing that they’re on again off again etc was also unsurprising lol. Many of the guys on this season were particularly unready for marriage.
Yes Laura was awful to him the whole time and she did NOT like him. At all. Constantly degrading him over and over. It was bad. He shouldve cut her off before getting with Sarah though.
I like when parents realize that their kids have issues or aren't good people, but at the same time its hard to feel for them. Like, you (the parent) raised the kid......
While that may be true, kids do become their own person. How many kids get all the love, approval, and support from their parents and still turn into bad apple. You also have kids with crap parents but become great people.
You cannot blame parents for everything a person does. That's so cheap and lazy. Lots of people had less than perfect parents and turned out fine. Just as some perfectly fine parents raised kids who aren't always perfect or make the best decisions.
💯 her parents were right about Laura. However, I think some parents greatly underestimate their children. When I first met the dad and step mom of my ex they told me how terrible he was. If anything, he had terrible trauma as a a child, which greatly impacted him and none of the adults handled that well. Anyways, although we are not together anymore, he was a wonderful partner, and I am forever grateful to have had him in my life. I loved his parents too, but I still question what kind of parents would do that when their child finally meets someone wonderful. Build him up and help him be a better partner in life, not demean him in front of others!
I normally would agree but the way they threw their kid under the bus? The sister in law talking down to Laura? Even JerAmys mom didn’t do that. I got from Laura all that coded evangelical talk about “a man protecting your heart” and felt like oh… she’s working within a family system that holds a lot of judgment for her. Why not act out and pick this defiant contrarian dude.
How Laura’s family views her speaks volumes about how she is in real life. You can tell they’re not her biggest fans, which is sad. How she demeans Jeramey was terrible. Jeramey’s actions were terrible as well. I don’t know if he was trying to sabotage their relationship, but it sure seemed like it.
Exactly! Like if your own family don't even like you...? If your family sucks, then maybe it's them scapegoating you. But Laura's family seemed like genuinely good people, which says soooo much about her
I get what you’re saying. Unless that person has like a particular business or hobby, where they use it as an advertising sort of platform, it could be a flag for somebody who may be is interested in pursuing an influencer sort of lifestyle. There’s nothing wrong inherently with that, but, if they were on a show in the pods, and kind of talking this way, it could give you pods if that’s not the lifestyle that you’re hoping to lead. Some people don’t want partners who are very active on social media because it might mean that they need to become active on social media, or that, depending on what it is, they do, they will have to feel comfortable with other people being able to see or comment about things.
@@Nicaea7Nothing wrong with a lot of followers necessarily, more so just shows a difference in value or use of social media. For example I have around 500 followers, follow about the same, and most people I’m surrounded by have a maximum of like 1000 or so. To me I would wonder how much privacy we would have, and question if their goal is more influencer based, because that’s a different lifestyle than I have or want. It’s also just an interesting note because there are certain people who use socials to stay connected with people they personally know, and others who use it to gain more popularity or to promote certain ideas. I’m a small town girl so to me 4000 gives influencer vibes lol
I still think Laura’s behavior contributed to the downfall of their relationship. Her treatment and attitude towards him in my opinion pushed him to consider going back to Sarah Ann. He was still wrong but she didn’t make it easy to want to stay with her.
I watch this show with my fiancé and he said the most true thing about Laura. Just because Jeramy and Sarah Ann sucked didn’t make Laura suck any less lol. I think she ended up getting a favorable edit in the end because of how they did her dirty, but that doesn’t make her a great person either. She definitely belittled Jeramy and in a way I kind of see why he went to Sarah Ann for comfort because it seemed like Laura was trying to stifle who Jeramy was at every turn. He still should have just broken off the engagement before pursuing his previous relationship, but I do see why his mind went there
@@Elle-elle-elle I didn’t mean to insinuate that her behavior was his main motivating factor, but I personally think it contributed. No one deserves to be cheated on, like I said in my comment he shoulda just broke up with her before letting it escalate that far. But I do think the way she treated him drove him away. He just chose the more cowardly option (cheating) instead of just ending a relationship that didn’t seem to suit him
I can't say that I knew Jeramy was being disingenuous, but I definitely didn't like his vibe. There's something about the way he acted kinda childish, not really checking in with the other person, and then innocent and taken aback by the consequences of his own actions that didn't sit right by me. I liked Laura's vibe more but some of her behavior were definitely questionable. Overall it was more of a "not my relationship, not my business" type of feeling for me. Neither of these people are people I'd be friends with.
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Obviously what Jeremy did was horrible and immature but it is really obvious as the show was going on that Laura was the one that pushed Jeremy away. He could have handled the whole thing better, but it was still so new so I think he just wanted a way out. The night he was with Sarah Anne was the same day he met her family and not only did she make a big emphasis on not wanting anything to go wrong, but the minute they got there Laura automatically started to drag Jeremy in front of them and bring up how he 'liked" Sarah Anne's message. I just think it's really awkward to bring up negative things during the first time meeting parent and he probably felt that Laura was constantly belittling him, making him feel dumb, controlling him, and embarrassing him.
I’ve made it a point to never speak poorly of my wife to my family. They love her and always will. Whatever we need to work out will stay between us. I hate when people get into an argument and talk about their partner to their friend of family member. You can’t take back what you said. Sometimes, your perspective changes and you forgive and move on. Why complicate the process of moving on by inviting family and friends to weigh in? It is always alarming when someone chooses to do this. My relationship is healthy because two of us choose to make the right choices.
I disagree that he wanted a way out. If he did, he wouldn't have gone to such lengths to lie. I think he just wanted to "feel like a man" so he cheated.
true I feel like Laura was making him feel some type of way and instead of speaking to her about it or understanding the feelings, he seeked validation from Sarah Ann to feel better, I think it was subconscious @@MariU9
@@stop.juststop Idk, could also get dangerous if your dynamic isn't as healthy as maybe you think and don't let at least your friends know how you fight, how you treat each other, etc. Now, of course you shouldnt vent and trash your partner to anyone, not even yourself actually, and especially not make passive aggressive comments in front of the family...
I dont understand why Laura told Jess to go home because Jimmy had a connection with Chelsea. Is going home the only option? Just like Amber when she realized Clark Kent was telling AD the same things he was telling her, she just went home.. Is that the only option? Like you can't regroup and get to know someone else?
Laura earned my respect when she approached Sarah Anne after she was “picked” I felt like she handled that with such class and positivity and nothing catty about it. That said, her and Jeremy were a mismatch from the beginning.
I've had someone make that college degree comment over directions from point A to B; like me not having a college degree means I don't know the fastest way to get from A to B. That is such a back handed comment and Laura tries saving her rude ass by calling things a joke, but we all know she isn't joking. She judges people without a college degree obviously, like there isn't anyway you can't be smart with out one.
The gag is they’re basically giving college degrees away today, she’s a 🤡 There’s plenty of successful people without a degree making more than college degree people.
^^ agreed and many people with college degrees aren’t even doing anything with them. Also there’s so many people who are intelligent but either choose not to go the college route and get training or education in something else like the trades, real estate, cosmetology school, etc. or simply cannot afford to get a higher education. Doesn’t mean they’re not intelligent just going down a different path. College can be a scam.
@@brielax4441 all my cousins graduated from college and they all said it was a good experience and they made great connections. But they don't think it made them more intelligent. Laura definitely feels superior to others, definitely to Jeramey. Maybe it's the college degree or being blonde? I don't think she was that attracted to Jeramey, I definitely don't think she would've said "yes"
Ooh yeah the college thing got me heated. Not everyone is privileged enough to go. Some people aren’t intelligent/academic at all but go because their parents are wealthy or they play sports. Also I guarantee if he had gone to school and was in debt because of it…that would’ve been an issue as well. Also my mom has a masters degree and I’m pretty sure she can’t read.
I love that a licensed marriage and family therapist's insight of Jeramey and Sarah Ann was "they have this in common... they're both disrespectful." Like there's nothing else! lollll
OMG, I would LOVE for Dr. Steph to do Bridgerton!!!!! She can start from the first season or just do the upcoming season 3. Her insights would be amazing. Actually, I would really, Really love it if she did an analysis of the *Queen Charlotte* series. That one was full of things she could analyze regarding romantic relationships and parent/child, too. Dr. Steph is the best!!
Laura says to bean dip AD on camera at the beach too. She flips her hand up and down as if doing the bean dip and Brittany yells out oh no not the bean dip! Later Brittany reminds Laura that she did tell Jeremy to do it also. Laura was definitely not one of my favorite people Borger Dynamics and by the end I just decided that she Sarah and and Jeremy were just all similar to me
My dad's side of the family is very much into the teasing dynamic, but we have hard lines that every person can set to say what isn't up for jokes and everybody respects it. My mom had a really hard time understanding that rule/remembering what was off limits, so we don't joke with her like that and she doesn't make those jokes to ensure everyone feels respected. To me it's all about communication, deciding if the relationship is more important than the habit, and looking for a compromise if possible.
I have done Paired. I loved it! My husband and i were on our way to Divorce Novemeber of 2023. He downloaded this and asked me to try... he has completely changed how he treats me and really understands how I love now and we are more in love than ever. It was trult helpful in breaking down some issues.
I have been binging these videos since yesterday and they all are so good! Makes me wonder if I could be a therapist bc I have been thinking about what I want to do as a career and every point you make were the same responses and gut reactions I have had since watching LIB. I truly believe if I did not have such a high level of emotional intelligence and empathy I would be mentally unwell with all the BS I had to go through with my own parents, which is probably how I learned so much about what NOT to do. I have been in a healthy committed relationship for 8 years after a very unhealthy one and I have learned so much about myself and how people communicate in relationships and I think I would find a lot of ways to be able to help people with those dynamics as I am sure you do as well.
So grateful for these videos. I get so much value from watching the show and then these videos. I get to hear someone else’s perspective and where I agree, and take note of different things for my own relationship. Thank you so much Steph!
I adore you, i think this is very helpful to see different prespectives. people hated jeremy in the reunion for good reason, but laura was bad as well and she didn't apologize for anything and people were all chering for her, was really hard to watch
6:22 100% agree with you on this. It was so strange, so many people on the internet thought it was good that Laura was behaving in this way - taint Jessica to leave without explaining why and intruding in that way - but I feel like you do about it.
I would love to see you review the Couple to Throuple show!!! I don’t see a lot of content about it and I know there is a large fan base around the show. I feel like it was a really great season to review as a therapist.
Love your breakdown on these two. Would love to hear your analysis on Ben and JLOs relationship and this new movie and documentary she put out. The backlash on social media is so interesting.
Thank you so much for not giving Laura a free pass for her behavior. It is disturbing how so many people just completely seem to forget that both sides have clearly demonstrated faults, or even clear disinterest in the other person outside of their "dreams/ideals" and expectations for relationships.
GIRLLLL I’m watching the new season of Perfect Match on Netflix and it has members from love is blind and I immediately thought Steph gotta analyze this 😭🙌🏽
Dr. Steph, I bailed on Love is Blind after season 4. It was just too much and they strayed too far from the original purpose. Thank you so much for these videos!!!! Watching you gives me all the LIB tea AND the education needed to avoid the mistakes these couples make. And I'm loving your couple's breakdown. 🤗🥰✊🏾🙌🏾👍🏾
patiently waiting for the hunger games series 👀👀 pls include ballad of songbirds & snakes because snow’s evolution was mind blowing to me, i’d love to hear your professional opinion!!
I appreciate you taking the time to go over issues with Laura, I was pretty upset with Jeramey bc what he did overshadowed problems she brought into the relationship and as a result Laura may not realize she did have things she needed to work on going forward.
Sarah Ann was horribly insecure and not confident at all. Especially the "I'm gonna marry him" comment. Her body language screamed "I'm in denial" Also, Laura's own family don't even like her! And they really seemed like genuine people. HUGE side-eye
We all know Laura wasn't picking Jeramey at the alter. He was wrong for his antics with Sara Anne.... But Laura's main motivation seemed to be beating Sarah Anne in the pods... And then milked the victim persona after losing him to her. She did not like that man.
I definitely noticed Laura’s switch up in the beginning. It seemed like in the pods she was trying to portray herself as a fun & relaxed person but when she got to the real world she was highly critical.
Laura's dad spoke straight facts, you spoil someone in how you treat them and let them get away with anything they want, oh they definitely walk all over you and on top of that, you will be disrespected the minute you don't, her parents are over her and her entitled attitudes. Another great video ❤❤❤
As far as the moment when Laura tells Jess to leave, she provided more context to that situation on a recent podcast interview. Basically explaining how the chips fell before that and ofc they edited that whole situation to only show that scene with absolutely no context for the viewer. I had the same reaction seeing it on screen but it made alot more sense after I saw her interview.
I love your video analysis on anything! I think you should analyze/review The Great Gatsby or The Beautiful and the Damned. The Beautiful and the Damned is basically about a toxic marriage that takes place also in the 1920s.
I don’t typically comment, but I would love to see you also cover Johnny and Amy and maybe discuss the things that made their relationship successful within the show? They seemed like great communicators so it might be interesting to analyze them!
19:50 You just wanna if he’s ever interested….inevitably plants doubt. Have to disagree right there. Say if this were to happen w/ a Tiffany and Brett type situation where there’s a 3rd party involved. You think that would’ve planted doubt in either Brett or Tiffany? No, bc their love, foundation and respect was rock solid. Jeremy and Laura’s was not. Simple as that. So even if it didn’t happen w/ Sara Ann it would’ve happened w/ someone else
@@StephAnya I was wondering, do you have any videos on moving on from traumatic relationships/betrayal, such as relationships where your ex was an addict?
Hi... I love your analysis from the episodes and I would like to know if u gonna prepare some reactions based on your expertise about the new season of Lobe is blind UK ..I would love to watch them. Greetings from Germany
Jeramey + Sara Ann are both liars. They obviously hooked up, he never apologized or seemed sorry in any way. He walked into that house ready to break up and wanting Laura to break things off.
@@babymoon555 i dont know if i would call it being a better human 😄 she had a bit different situation, puls at third season, I think, they still HAD TO go to the altar
I definitely was looking at Laura in the beginning but one thing that rubbed me the wrong way with Jeremy was when he called one of them the wrong name and so quickly and casually said it was a joke and it seemed convincing and then in the confessional he was like I had no idea, and I thought he lies too easily and convincingly. I think AD got frustrated with Sarah Ann bc Sarah Ann tried to play victim but also because she basically said well the relationship wasn’t even that long so it’s not real anyway… everyone’s relationship had the same amount of time so she invalidated every relationship and said if I wanted to go after anyone I would bc who cares as long as my feelings are catered to. Also pretty sure they had been cool and in that moment AD was like I can’t trust you so we’re not cool. I don’t think she was really going at her about Laura at that point.
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Excuse me in the chat: Ms. Anya I’m a MFT intern I was just doing some research about different entities that would hire an (LMFT) I couldn’t find a lot but it brought me to your channel maybe you already covered this in one of your videos if so please share the link if not then that would be a cool topic for a future video. Respect 🫡
@stephanya: hi, i would love to see a video about the housewives of Dubai, There was alot of fights en interesting behavior in the series, what do you think about making a break it down video?
I love watching you video’s,
Love from Holland ❤
I was FULLY looking at Laura sideways in the beginning. She not only told him to stop wearing his Hawaiian shirts, she also made him “get rid of the glasses” and I didn’t see him wear his glasses again after that. I literally could not believe she cared more about what he looked like over whether or not he could SEE!
I somehow missed the glasses part... wow.
She's definitely strong willed and can rub people the wrong way, but at the same time this show is heavily edited so I can just as easily see Jeramey pushing a lot of her buttons early on that was cut out for the narrative. I was not a fan of hers until Jeramey lost all credibility which made question what happened behind the scenes.
I heard that first, he said in the pods he didn’t wear glasses and then put fake ones later on. Something like that, I wasn’t paying very good attention and dont even remember what UA-cam channel i saw that on. She also touched on the Hawaiian shirts but missed it.
Either way she’s a tough cookie, I like her assertiveness in tough situations but she doesn’t have a big soft side
@@javanjunkindahouse6625ya they were fake glasses. I heard that too
I hate the “we tease” relationships. My husband is like this with all of my children and it drives me crazy. It will easily get out of hand and people get their feelings hurt.
If Jeramey hadn't stepped out with Sarah Ann, Laura would've been seen in a much more negative light.
She's awful but the jet ski thing was so immature of Jeramey and Sarah Ann to do.
It was incredibly wrong how he handled it, but at the same time I wasn't surprised given how Laura treated him
Yeah Jeramey's behavior ended up covering for Laura's.
for me, it wasn't only that his behavior was so crappy - i was also really impressed with how Laura handled catching him in that lie. he shared the location & she called his bluff. but that didn't redeem any of her behavior toward him; it just left a better impression of her overall.
@mokc913 the way she reacted to him was almost definitely a result of his actions either when cameras weren't rolling or stuff that was edited out. there's 0% chance that he was a total saint before he went off and cheated and humiliated Laura. hes a child
Im so glad I questioned the same things you did about Laura. She takes no accountability when she hurts peoples feelings
Woah watching you question Jeramy’s interest in Sarah Ann’s Insta followers made me realize- he was probably trying to size up how pretty she was. Because the idea is the more followers you have, the more likely you are to be conventionally attractive. At least thats how I’ve seen straight men comment about women’s large number of followers. Like how much “competition” they have
Omg. Goood point.
That's what I thought too when watching the show at that moment
LOVE your content! Please please do married at first sight. This last season in Denver was such a crapshow that needs expert analysis 😅
Oh, I seen it as the more followers she has more famous she would be and he would probably get more into the popular role or maybe he didn’t wanna be that popular for being like the “spouse” of her social media.
I don't agree. It was right after she told him that she does fillers. I think it was to size up how much of an attention whore she is. Also I have seen some of the most unattractive women with a bunch of weird looking filters on their faces with hundreds of thousands of followers so the follower= pretty is something I have not heard before. But followers=insecure, starved for attention, likely to cheat, then yes.
You made a great point about the "teasing is our love language" relationship dynamic! Honestly I never thought about the potential downsides to it and I've even considered it as an ideal, but now you've made me rethink that. It seems flirty and fun but it can be so easy to accidentally make a dig that crosses the line. And you're always kinda trying to upstage the other person with your wittiness to make them laugh; you can't relax!
Oof I feel this hard! I have always been like this with partners. I have also complained about my dad being a bully (constantly teasing me). Feel like it's definitely a defense mechanism. Get them before they get you. Steph def hit the nail on the head!
Gotta be honest, I’ve always seen teasing as quite suspect… either a passive-aggressive expression or a defense mechanism or a subtle attempt to “one-up” the partner. I never get good vibes from couples who tease each other a lot. 🤷🏼♀️
This! I'm a sweet talker so I'm not really good at the teasing thing. Maybe because I've felt judged so much growing up. Lil jabs seems like critic to me.
@@mistym0rningme either..
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I’m happy she mentioned the bean dip thing ! Lauren threw Jeramy under the bus, even though she had just as much fault as him. The comment sounded objectifying at best and racist as worst. I’m happy AD seemed to have been in a better place in the reunion and realized that Lauren wasn’t a true friend in that moment.
At first, I was like, *racist? But then I realized how objectified AD was all season, compared to everyone else. So yeah, after further reflection, racist is accurate.
There is nothing racist about bean dip
@@maloneaqua The bean dip thing isn't a racist term but objectifying AD could have racist undertones? It's the south, white woman telling a white man to SA a black woman...
@@joanna0988right! And then not taking any accountability for it afterward.
@@mimicallsit7675 Yup and making Jeramey take the fall plus apologize to her 🤣 True Karen moment.
I agreee and I’m so shocked people never talked about Laura’s faults. But you explained it so well. No one is perfect but she was belittling and controlling and it felt she has a lot of work to do on herself. I questioned more Laura’s character than anyone else. This show is so great because it helps us see what we can work on if we see these traits in us and she hopefully can look back. We can all work on ourselves.
To many people it seems like their issues happened literally overnight.
But to the experienced eye....we knew they weren't a match pretty quickly
Exactly. She wasn't having his personality immediately. He was embarrassing to her
@itsOtiyana93 yes. Literally the first shot of them together at the pool...I was like wow....I think he might be too immature for her. And she seemed mean...idk. that was my instant thought
Your take on the "teasing couple" resonated with me sooo much. My ex and I used to bicker all the time and when we crossed the line (which happens more often than you'd think), we were genuinely hurt by what the other person said. Over time (at least for me), that led to a loooot of resentment. My memories of him are now mostly negative because of the things that we used to say to eachother. When I started dating my now boyfriend, I kept making it very clear that that type of communication was a no-go for me and I had to stop us from going down that path a couple of times. He's always respected my boundary in that regard and we have become so much better at speaking and critisizing the other person respectfully, calmly and gently. It's crazy how much this can do for your attitude towards the other person and the relationship, we just hold eachother in high regard that way. Definitely a game changer.
This relationship was a case of ‘good thing they found each other cus I don’t like either of em’ for me. That being said Jeramey deliberately aiming to deceive Laura by leaving his phone (but not Apple Watch) in his car at the bar when going home with Sara Anne… yikes. No matter how shitty your partner is it’s on you to end things before stepping out.
Asking about Sarah Ann’s follower count was probably a roundabout way to see how physically attractive she is. Just a wild guess, but I would think it’s safe to assume that female “influencers”/“social media personalities” with large-ish followings are more likely to be conveniently attractive.
Not to mention in the DR when Jeramy was talking to Amy on the beach he told her he wants to reach out to Sarah when they leave… he was never fully in it.
Oh yea. How did the hosts miss that? They prepare so poorly for these reunions
@@Loralou4455 seriously!!!!
I think LIB is such an entertaining show at baseline but honestly it has become my favorite part to come here and learn something afterwards. Thanks for the awesome videos! I'd love to have a therapist like you :)
He said he wanted to be with laura and nothing happened with Sarah Ann yet he already packed Laura’s shit, and immediatly when things were over with Laura he got with Sarah Ann at the same EVENT of the breakup. He is such a liar.
Not to mention in the DR when Jeramy was talking to Amy on the beach he told her he wants to reach out to Sarah when they leave… he was never fully in it.
Unpopular view Laura is rude and controlling. I hardly hear anyone highlighting it.
Totally agree🙌🏻
I always got mean girl vibes from her
Except for Amy all the girls were pretty damaged. No successful relationships in the bunch and it's easy to see why.
I think the viewpoint is important as well. In the West, women do tend to take liberal views when it comes to treating men, like all about equality. Most of the audience who watch and comment are from Western countries, hence I can see that reflect in their hostility towards Jeramey. However, as an Asian viewer, I can already see her behaviours really are the root cause of all the problems they encountered. I guess growing up in collectivist culture, me and everyone else is pretty much aware of social harmony, learning early on how we should treat others, especially when it comes to women-men dynamic. If you want the men to treat you with respect and care, you would not treat them the way Laura treated Jeramey, not by talking down, controlling what he can and cannot do. Heck, this is not just a man-woman dynamic, it's human relationship in general. Treat others how you want to be treated. Also as bad as his behaviour in the end was, I actually saw him multiple times trying to work things out with Laura, only to be met with more rude and dismissive attitudes. Honestly, I can't stand her. I don't think any men can handle her.
We are on the same page about the moms/parents this season being surprisingly good wisdom and more interesting than their children in many ways! That line from Jeramy’s mom about his behavior stood out to me too, just as much as Clays mom’s words did. Truly amazing and rare moments to see on tv imo.
But overall I saw the relationship between Laura and Jeramy as DOA, I knew they weren’t making it to the alter from the get-go because they had far too many problems that showed they did not match at all. What did surprise me was the sudden intrusion of Sarah Ann lol! I didn’t even remember her from the pods, but hearing her text and then how Jeramy spent the night with her was enough to make them both so wrong that I had to take Laura’s side and just didn’t care to hear from those two cheaters at all anymore tbh. The reunion showing that they’re on again off again etc was also unsurprising lol. Many of the guys on this season were particularly unready for marriage.
Yes Laura was awful to him the whole time and she did NOT like him. At all. Constantly degrading him over and over. It was bad. He shouldve cut her off before getting with Sarah though.
Agreed.
I would love to see the ultimatum breakdown from you! You’re very insightful ☺️
I like when parents realize that their kids have issues or aren't good people, but at the same time its hard to feel for them. Like, you (the parent) raised the kid......
While that may be true, kids do become their own person. How many kids get all the love, approval, and support from their parents and still turn into bad apple. You also have kids with crap parents but become great people.
You cannot blame parents for everything a person does. That's so cheap and lazy. Lots of people had less than perfect parents and turned out fine. Just as some perfectly fine parents raised kids who aren't always perfect or make the best decisions.
@@phantomzxro1 haha I just basically repeated your exact comment before reading it. 😅 safe to say I agree with you!
💯 her parents were right about Laura. However, I think some parents greatly underestimate their children. When I first met the dad and step mom of my ex they told me how terrible he was. If anything, he had terrible trauma as a a child, which greatly impacted him and none of the adults handled that well. Anyways, although we are not together anymore, he was a wonderful partner, and I am forever grateful to have had him in my life. I loved his parents too, but I still question what kind of parents would do that when their child finally meets someone wonderful. Build him up and help him be a better partner in life, not demean him in front of others!
I normally would agree but the way they threw their kid under the bus? The sister in law talking down to Laura? Even JerAmys mom didn’t do that. I got from Laura all that coded evangelical talk about “a man protecting your heart” and felt like oh… she’s working within a family system that holds a lot of judgment for her. Why not act out and pick this defiant contrarian dude.
How Laura’s family views her speaks volumes about how she is in real life. You can tell they’re not her biggest fans, which is sad. How she demeans Jeramey was terrible.
Jeramey’s actions were terrible as well. I don’t know if he was trying to sabotage their relationship, but it sure seemed like it.
I don't think they liked each other
Exactly! Like if your own family don't even like you...?
If your family sucks, then maybe it's them scapegoating you. But Laura's family seemed like genuinely good people, which says soooo much about her
Sorry girl but 4000 is a lot of insta followers for the average person. That would def be an interesting note to me if I were in the pod
What does having a lot of followers mean to you? Just curious
Exactly that is a lot!!
I get what you’re saying. Unless that person has like a particular business or hobby, where they use it as an advertising sort of platform, it could be a flag for somebody who may be is interested in pursuing an influencer sort of lifestyle. There’s nothing wrong inherently with that, but, if they were on a show in the pods, and kind of talking this way, it could give you pods if that’s not the lifestyle that you’re hoping to lead. Some people don’t want partners who are very active on social media because it might mean that they need to become active on social media, or that, depending on what it is, they do, they will have to feel comfortable with other people being able to see or comment about things.
@@Nicaea7Nothing wrong with a lot of followers necessarily, more so just shows a difference in value or use of social media. For example I have around 500 followers, follow about the same, and most people I’m surrounded by have a maximum of like 1000 or so. To me I would wonder how much privacy we would have, and question if their goal is more influencer based, because that’s a different lifestyle than I have or want. It’s also just an interesting note because there are certain people who use socials to stay connected with people they personally know, and others who use it to gain more popularity or to promote certain ideas. I’m a small town girl so to me 4000 gives influencer vibes lol
I think he was trying to gauge how popular and/or attractive she is.
You hit it so good when you broke down both the DM and Jeramey being out til 5am. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thanks so much for this review Steph, as usual 🙏🏾😊
Is it weird to say I'm excited to see her take on the "bean dip" / "it was a joke" thing?
Nope 😂, I'm also just as interested in her opinion
I’m am too!
Apparently the comment was filmed and was hoping they would show it at the reunion similar to what they did with the cuties video.
What does that even mean? 😂😂😂😂
I still think Laura’s behavior contributed to the downfall of their relationship. Her treatment and attitude towards him in my opinion pushed him to consider going back to Sarah Ann. He was still wrong but she didn’t make it easy to want to stay with her.
Totally agree!
I agree too!
She was very pushy and controlling within that first month! He was probably imagining his life with her in 5 years, and got understandably terrified!
For sure. She didn’t come across as a nice person on the show.
Yes, I agree
Yes to Hunger Games content! I love your videos, they have helped me learn healthy conflict resolution skills. ♥️
I watch this show with my fiancé and he said the most true thing about Laura. Just because Jeramy and Sarah Ann sucked didn’t make Laura suck any less lol. I think she ended up getting a favorable edit in the end because of how they did her dirty, but that doesn’t make her a great person either. She definitely belittled Jeramy and in a way I kind of see why he went to Sarah Ann for comfort because it seemed like Laura was trying to stifle who Jeramy was at every turn. He still should have just broken off the engagement before pursuing his previous relationship, but I do see why his mind went there
100% agree
I was with you until you made his decision to cheat somehow a result of her behaviour
@@Elle-elle-elle I didn’t mean to insinuate that her behavior was his main motivating factor, but I personally think it contributed. No one deserves to be cheated on, like I said in my comment he shoulda just broke up with her before letting it escalate that far. But I do think the way she treated him drove him away. He just chose the more cowardly option (cheating) instead of just ending a relationship that didn’t seem to suit him
I can't say that I knew Jeramy was being disingenuous, but I definitely didn't like his vibe. There's something about the way he acted kinda childish, not really checking in with the other person, and then innocent and taken aback by the consequences of his own actions that didn't sit right by me. I liked Laura's vibe more but some of her behavior were definitely questionable. Overall it was more of a "not my relationship, not my business" type of feeling for me. Neither of these people are people I'd be friends with.
Completely agree
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I have such a hard time explaining to people the issue with teasing, and you really put things together so thoughtfully.
Obviously what Jeremy did was horrible and immature but it is really obvious as the show was going on that Laura was the one that pushed Jeremy away. He could have handled the whole thing better, but it was still so new so I think he just wanted a way out. The night he was with Sarah Anne was the same day he met her family and not only did she make a big emphasis on not wanting anything to go wrong, but the minute they got there Laura automatically started to drag Jeremy in front of them and bring up how he 'liked" Sarah Anne's message. I just think it's really awkward to bring up negative things during the first time meeting parent and he probably felt that Laura was constantly belittling him, making him feel dumb, controlling him, and embarrassing him.
I’ve made it a point to never speak poorly of my wife to my family. They love her and always will. Whatever we need to work out will stay between us. I hate when people get into an argument and talk about their partner to their friend of family member. You can’t take back what you said. Sometimes, your perspective changes and you forgive and move on. Why complicate the process of moving on by inviting family and friends to weigh in? It is always alarming when someone chooses to do this. My relationship is healthy because two of us choose to make the right choices.
I disagree that he wanted a way out. If he did, he wouldn't have gone to such lengths to lie. I think he just wanted to "feel like a man" so he cheated.
true I feel like Laura was making him feel some type of way and instead of speaking to her about it or understanding the feelings, he seeked validation from Sarah Ann to feel better, I think it was subconscious @@MariU9
@@stop.juststop Idk, could also get dangerous if your dynamic isn't as healthy as maybe you think and don't let at least your friends know how you fight, how you treat each other, etc. Now, of course you shouldnt vent and trash your partner to anyone, not even yourself actually, and especially not make passive aggressive comments in front of the family...
Yes!!!!
I think Jeramey asked about her social media to see if she had a lot of followers as an indirect way of seeing if she was considered attractive.
that makes sense
I love these videos. You do such a great job breaking down relationship dynamics! Thank you!
Mans spells Jeremy with an 'A'.. Of course he couldn't be trusted.
I had a lot of fun calling him JerAmy this season.
I dated a JerOmy once… same vibes, lesson learned lol
I dont understand why Laura told Jess to go home because Jimmy had a connection with Chelsea.
Is going home the only option?
Just like Amber when she realized Clark Kent was telling AD the same things he was telling her, she just went home..
Is that the only option? Like you can't regroup and get to know someone else?
Laura earned my respect when she approached Sarah Anne after she was “picked” I felt like she handled that with such class and positivity and nothing catty about it. That said, her and Jeremy were a mismatch from the beginning.
I've had someone make that college degree comment over directions from point A to B; like me not having a college degree means I don't know the fastest way to get from A to B. That is such a back handed comment and Laura tries saving her rude ass by calling things a joke, but we all know she isn't joking. She judges people without a college degree obviously, like there isn't anyway you can't be smart with out one.
The gag is they’re basically giving college degrees away today, she’s a 🤡
There’s plenty of successful people without a degree making more than college degree people.
^^ agreed and many people with college degrees aren’t even doing anything with them. Also there’s so many people who are intelligent but either choose not to go the college route and get training or education in something else like the trades, real estate, cosmetology school, etc. or simply cannot afford to get a higher education. Doesn’t mean they’re not intelligent just going down a different path. College can be a scam.
@@brielax4441 all my cousins graduated from college and they all said it was a good experience and they made great connections. But they don't think it made them more intelligent.
Laura definitely feels superior to others, definitely to Jeramey. Maybe it's the college degree or being blonde? I don't think she was that attracted to Jeramey, I definitely don't think she would've said "yes"
Ooh yeah the college thing got me heated. Not everyone is privileged enough to go. Some people aren’t intelligent/academic at all but go because their parents are wealthy or they play sports. Also I guarantee if he had gone to school and was in debt because of it…that would’ve been an issue as well.
Also my mom has a masters degree and I’m pretty sure she can’t read.
Man! What can i even add? You said EVERYTHING that i thought about those 3. Always enjoying your videos
I love that a licensed marriage and family therapist's insight of Jeramey and Sarah Ann was "they have this in common... they're both disrespectful." Like there's nothing else! lollll
Manifesting a Bridgerton review from Steph Anya (I also commented on another video but no shame) 🥳!!
You’re absolutely amazing Steph Anya!!
Does she do bridgerton?
Edit: read it again. I hope she dives into Bridgerton too.
Ooooo!!! A Bridgerton review would be so good!!
I was thinking that too! Hope she does the Bridgerton series next!
OMG, I would LOVE for Dr. Steph to do Bridgerton!!!!! She can start from the first season or just do the upcoming season 3. Her insights would be amazing. Actually, I would really, Really love it if she did an analysis of the *Queen Charlotte* series. That one was full of things she could analyze regarding romantic relationships and parent/child, too. Dr. Steph is the best!!
loooooove this idea!!
I love all your analysis! It's so professional
Obsessed with the face you pulled/picked for the thumbnail. Such an accurate and honest reaction to the messiness 😂😂
I literally stopped what I was doing when I got the notification 😂
Me too
Sameee 😂
Me too 😂
Love your analysis, always! ❤
I was looking at Laura sideways too!! I think she would’ve become the villain for sure… but Jeremy and Sarah Ann took the cake straight out the oven!
You're a great therapist....I watched the video about Jimmy and Chelsea and you nailed it.
I've been waiting!!! I worked out did some beat saber and I still have to wait for 9 mins. I'm so excited to hear your opinion!!! 🤩
Haha love beat saber!
It’s a workout
My new fav UA-camr actually providing some useful information and not just gossip
Laura says to bean dip AD on camera at the beach too. She flips her hand up and down as if doing the bean dip and Brittany yells out oh no not the bean dip! Later Brittany reminds Laura that she did tell Jeremy to do it also. Laura was definitely not one of my favorite people Borger Dynamics and by the end I just decided that she Sarah and and Jeremy were just all similar to me
My dad's side of the family is very much into the teasing dynamic, but we have hard lines that every person can set to say what isn't up for jokes and everybody respects it. My mom had a really hard time understanding that rule/remembering what was off limits, so we don't joke with her like that and she doesn't make those jokes to ensure everyone feels respected. To me it's all about communication, deciding if the relationship is more important than the habit, and looking for a compromise if possible.
The contempt was almost instant after they met 🤯
I have done Paired. I loved it! My husband and i were on our way to Divorce Novemeber of 2023. He downloaded this and asked me to try... he has completely changed how he treats me and really understands how I love now and we are more in love than ever. It was trult helpful in breaking down some issues.
It’s such an awesome app! So glad to see the positive impact that it had on your marriage
Yessss! I’m waiting 🎉
Thank you for all your insight and your calm and empathetic approach 🙏🏼😊 it's a delight listening to you!
I love watching your UA-cam videos, especially the ones on love is blind. But I swear that they end too fast 😭 I would personally love longer videos ❤
Great analysis! A lot of parties needed to be called out in this whole Jeramy/Laura/Sarah-Anne debacle.
I have been binging these videos since yesterday and they all are so good! Makes me wonder if I could be a therapist bc I have been thinking about what I want to do as a career and every point you make were the same responses and gut reactions I have had since watching LIB. I truly believe if I did not have such a high level of emotional intelligence and empathy I would be mentally unwell with all the BS I had to go through with my own parents, which is probably how I learned so much about what NOT to do. I have been in a healthy committed relationship for 8 years after a very unhealthy one and I have learned so much about myself and how people communicate in relationships and I think I would find a lot of ways to be able to help people with those dynamics as I am sure you do as well.
So grateful for these videos. I get so much value from watching the show and then these videos. I get to hear someone else’s perspective and where I agree, and take note of different things for my own relationship. Thank you so much Steph!
I adore you, i think this is very helpful to see different prespectives. people hated jeremy in the reunion for good reason, but laura was bad as well and she didn't apologize for anything and people were all chering for her, was really hard to watch
6:22 100% agree with you on this. It was so strange, so many people on the internet thought it was good that Laura was behaving in this way - taint Jessica to leave without explaining why and intruding in that way - but I feel like you do about it.
Pleeeease do your videos on Love is Blind UK! Its an amazing season and your view on it would be so interesting!
I’m watching it right now! Loving this season
@@StephAnya ❤😃😃
I would love to see you review the Couple to Throuple show!!! I don’t see a lot of content about it and I know there is a large fan base around the show. I feel like it was a really great season to review as a therapist.
Love your breakdown on these two. Would love to hear your analysis on Ben and JLOs relationship and this new movie and documentary she put out. The backlash on social media is so interesting.
Thank you so much for not giving Laura a free pass for her behavior.
It is disturbing how so many people just completely seem to forget that both sides have clearly demonstrated faults, or even clear disinterest in the other person outside of their "dreams/ideals" and expectations for relationships.
Girl we need you for LIB UK!!❤❤
Please do the Love is Blind UK couples analysis!!
Yes!! I actually enjoy the UK version much more than the US version!
I was waiting for this! Thank you!
GIRLLLL I’m watching the new season of Perfect Match on Netflix and it has members from love is blind and I immediately thought Steph gotta analyze this 😭🙌🏽
Dr. Steph, I bailed on Love is Blind after season 4. It was just too much and they strayed too far from the original purpose. Thank you so much for these videos!!!! Watching you gives me all the LIB tea AND the education needed to avoid the mistakes these couples make. And I'm loving your couple's breakdown. 🤗🥰✊🏾🙌🏾👍🏾
Yayy cannot wait for this one 😂
patiently waiting for the hunger games series 👀👀 pls include ballad of songbirds & snakes because snow’s evolution was mind blowing to me, i’d love to hear your professional opinion!!
I appreciate you taking the time to go over issues with Laura, I was pretty upset with Jeramey bc what he did overshadowed problems she brought into the relationship and as a result Laura may not realize she did have things she needed to work on going forward.
Sarah Ann was horribly insecure and not confident at all. Especially the "I'm gonna marry him" comment. Her body language screamed "I'm in denial"
Also, Laura's own family don't even like her! And they really seemed like genuine people. HUGE side-eye
I need a breakdown of season 17 Married at First Sight. I so want to hear your take on all the chaos
We all know Laura wasn't picking Jeramey at the alter. He was wrong for his antics with Sara Anne.... But Laura's main motivation seemed to be beating Sarah Anne in the pods... And then milked the victim persona after losing him to her. She did not like that man.
I definitely noticed Laura’s switch up in the beginning. It seemed like in the pods she was trying to portray herself as a fun & relaxed person but when she got to the real world she was highly critical.
Will we get to see a review of Amy and Johnny? :)
i would LOVE to see you do a similar series like this on the Ultimatum
Laura's dad spoke straight facts, you spoil someone in how you treat them and let them get away with anything they want, oh they definitely walk all over you and on top of that, you will be disrespected the minute you don't, her parents are over her and her entitled attitudes. Another great video ❤❤❤
As far as the moment when Laura tells Jess to leave, she provided more context to that situation on a recent podcast interview. Basically explaining how the chips fell before that and ofc they edited that whole situation to only show that scene with absolutely no context for the viewer. I had the same reaction seeing it on screen but it made alot more sense after I saw her interview.
I love your video analysis on anything! I think you should analyze/review The Great Gatsby or The Beautiful and the Damned. The Beautiful and the Damned is basically about a toxic marriage that takes place also in the 1920s.
I loved the part of the DM, I learnt so much
I felt called out by the "teasing each other cause saying sweet things feels too mushy" part 😂
Yess!!! I'm really looking forward to THG videos!
I know from the human perspective the jet ski incident was so rude and disrespectful, but from my trash reality tv perspective …. It was tv gold 🍿🤭
I don’t typically comment, but I would love to see you also cover Johnny and Amy and maybe discuss the things that made their relationship successful within the show? They seemed like great communicators so it might be interesting to analyze them!
I love listening to your take
Please do a video on the couples from The Ultimatum South Africa…I would love to hear your feed back.
I am glad you did bring attention to how Laura was acting in the relationship because even though she was wronged, she was also acting crazy rude too.
19:50 You just wanna if he’s ever interested….inevitably plants doubt. Have to disagree right there. Say if this were to happen w/ a Tiffany and Brett type situation where there’s a 3rd party involved. You think that would’ve planted doubt in either Brett or Tiffany? No, bc their love, foundation and respect was rock solid. Jeremy and Laura’s was not. Simple as that. So even if it didn’t happen w/ Sara Ann it would’ve happened w/ someone else
love these videos and you have the best personality!
Aw thank you so much!
You’re so good! ❤😊 Love the videos! Keep doing what you do! 🎥
Thank you!!!
@@StephAnya I was wondering, do you have any videos on moving on from traumatic relationships/betrayal, such as relationships where your ex was an addict?
Thank you for clearly explaining the issue with Sarah Ann's DM. It was selfish, not realistic.
Hi... I love your analysis from the episodes and I would like to know if u gonna prepare some reactions based on your expertise about the new season of Lobe is blind UK ..I would love to watch them. Greetings from Germany
I just started yesterday and I have a page full of notes! I just have to figure out how to organize them. Thanks for watching!!
Jeramey + Sara Ann are both liars. They obviously hooked up, he never apologized or seemed sorry in any way. He walked into that house ready to break up and wanting Laura to break things off.
Great video. Love your thoughts
At the beggining when he was so playful and silly and she seemed irritated it gave me major Cole and Zanab vibes!
Lauren is a better human being for calling it quits before the altar
@@babymoon555 i dont know if i would call it being a better human 😄 she had a bit different situation, puls at third season, I think, they still HAD TO go to the altar
Break down the ultimatum! Or perfect match! More reality tv!!
I definitely was looking at Laura in the beginning but one thing that rubbed me the wrong way with Jeremy was when he called one of them the wrong name and so quickly and casually said it was a joke and it seemed convincing and then in the confessional he was like I had no idea, and I thought he lies too easily and convincingly.
I think AD got frustrated with Sarah Ann bc Sarah Ann tried to play victim but also because she basically said well the relationship wasn’t even that long so it’s not real anyway… everyone’s relationship had the same amount of time so she invalidated every relationship and said if I wanted to go after anyone I would bc who cares as long as my feelings are catered to. Also pretty sure they had been cool and in that moment AD was like I can’t trust you so we’re not cool. I don’t think she was really going at her about Laura at that point.