@KennieJD you didn't think anything of her behavior towards AD? She blamed AD for her man commenting on her body and that's why she made it ADs problem. Idk if she was trying to embarrass her man or both of them but its clear those women are not safe for black women.
Same, the first time it was cute and fun and I was happy to see Black beauty being gassed, but the 2nd, 3rd, 14th time it gave me bad vibes. Real sex objectification, 1800s 🐮 💩
Matthew calling AD's father a roadblock after implying something sweet with the whole "I wanna ask him for his blessing" was an immediate red flag. It shows he lacks empathy, is self-centered, but also that he contradicts himself. He's giving scripted creep who goes to those meetings on how to con a woman into being with him.
very narcissist vibes, only cares about how he looks, not how he actually treats people. wanting to ask her father permission is seen as romantic and respectful, but he genuinely doesn’t give a flying fuck about the respect or the care for her or their family moving forward. to say your girlfriend’s dead father is a removal of a roadblock in fhe case he’d say no shows EXACTLY why he’d be worried about asking, it’s because he’s the kind a piece of shit who probably WOULD have a father saying no to him asking because he sucks so bad and treats her horribly
@@lightworthy Ooo THIS. And the way he started lying and acting like a victim in this disorienting circular way when AD confronted him about his script with Amber and her. This man is exhausting. I'm so happy so many women clocked that. The more you know, the less you'll suffer at the hands of these fools.
The bean dip thing was crazy, (she wasn't calling her bean dip, the action they were talking about where you smack a girls chest is called bean dip, so she was telling him to "bean dip" AD, just to clarify). Honestly Laura exposed herself as an undercover mean girl in that moment because regardless of whether or not it was appropriate for her fiancé to bring it up in front of AD and clay, that literally doesn't matter at all imo. She made an over sexualized joke at her friends expense, was pissed that it got out, AD looked visibly upset by it when she approached her away from the men and Laura, fixated on the fact that it was "a joke," NEVER APOLOGIZED. That girl has a knife pointed at your back.
Also, didn't AD imply that Laura had done it to her previously? Or did I just misinterpret her reaction? Either way, it was something Laura had brought up in front of her before at the very least. Laura's definitely one of those 'nice to your face' mean girls who can't understand why everyone doesn't love them.
someone mentioned this on tiktok and i thought it was a great observation. even though trevor was fundamentally better than jimmy, chelsea doesn’t see any of them. the person she sees is jessica. and she knows that jimmy is interested in both her and jessica. i think part of the reason she wouldn’t let go of jimmy is because she likes the idea of getting one up on someone as gorgeous as jessica. not that Chelsea is ugly, but she has that insecure, pick me, “cool girl” energy. that’s the only reason that makes even remote sense why chelsea would forego a sweet and mature sure bet like trevor for the human big toe that jimmy is edit***omg y’all not Trevor bring trash TOO?????
heavy on the wannabe “cool girl” energy. the way she reacted to jimmy and AD interacting showed it. she acted like she had no problem drawing attention to AD’s physique when jimmy mentioned that she was “stacked” and then proceeded to start an argument with him abt him and AD talking when they got back to the hotel room. she’s so insecure
Fr and the way she added onto Jimmy checking AD out instead of checking him then feeling sad the rest if the night. 😂 but they chose each other so that’s that
I just hate the treatment AD gets, she is over sexualized by both men and women, she's treated like a "body" that everyone gets to lust over in such a gross way, stop commenting on her body like she is this sexual object or something
Yesssss it has been my MAIN concern this season. Specifically that she’s a black woman too! Giving me ‘Sarah Baartman’ vibes. In quotes because that was her sl**e name not her real name. I have commented this on so much of the discourse this season. Everyone has hypersexualised her. Reduced her to a body. “That woman is stacked” not even a name you know? Chelsea, Laura and Laura’s man too have said some weird stuff.
She oversexualises herself. She leads with her body in a very obvious way. She wore a skin tight see through dress to the cast meet up... she then shook her ass for another man who gave her a compliment. A classy girl would have found a way to change the subject and divert instead she kept that interaction going. When she met clay at the reveal she herself stood to show case her assets.. no one asked her to do this. In the pool scence with clay she again intentionally not submerging her body in the pool and standing over him during the whole interaction so her body was visible. She leads with sexual energy, she's the type of friend I would never want to have around by spouse because she is so desperate for validation she would blur boundaries.
OMG!!!! Yesssssss finally someone is talking about that!! It’s so fuckin weird! And it always happens when black women are the only ones in the room. That’s recently happened to me when I went to my friends party and everyone kept on talking about my body and butt and how thick I am and I was like wtf…. Just super over sexualize me. It’s was really awkward af . Why do people so comfortable to constantly sexualize black people like that’s all we’re good for…. Is a fetish like wtf! That’s scene remind me of that and it gave me the creeps
I have a bone to pick with Matthew. Superman was never cold. He is the kindest, sweetest, most polite country boy that ever lived. How dare you drag my boy Clark's name through the mud, you fake nerd.
In my opinion, you didn't talk enough about the episode 6 situation with AD. The fact that the entire party devolved into all of these white people making creepy comments about her body and Laura talking about having bean dipped her when they first met (ie. SLAPPING HER BREASTS) is disgusting. From the beginning with Jimmy calling her stacked, Chelsea yelling that at her, and then Jimmy using that as an excuse to come over and hit on her, Jeramey mentioning that Laura told him to do the same thing when he saw her, and then everyone acting like Clay and AD were crazy for getting angry about that, and then Laura REFUSING TO APOLOGIZE. It all read to me as racism and hypersexualization. If I were AD and that happened I would have left that party on the heels of a full scale panic attack. And then Jimmy calling AD "spicy" for not liking Laura's comments? What?? I'm sorry, that entire cast is racist.
also can we just talk about how nearly the entire cast sexualized AD? it gave me the ick especially her being the only black woman on the main cast now and them just constantly talking about her body and sexualizing her like she’s some attraction at the circus? it felt so weird and i wanna say racially uncomfortable to do that? idk i know other people on other social medias felt the same but i just was so uncomfortable for her and i felt like she handled it well as she could. also laura being upset because others are upset that she basically told her husband to s*xually ass*ult another woman and she thinks it’s was a joke? like a lot of that needs to be unpacked
Ok yes y’all couldn’t talk about anything else? I loved her eyes, her smile, I thought she was funny and kind of classy vibe, and the minute we get any comments it’s…THAT WOMAN IS STACKED HOWD YOU GET THQT BUTT like, please. everybody. PLEASE stfu My sisters and I noticed how fit she was too, and we were like oh, the 4x in the gym, being a cheerleader, it all makes sense. But we liked her in the end cause we thought she had a cute personality and seemed smart tbh.
THANK YOU!! I’m so disappointed that no other creators (especially black creators) have mentioned this 🙁🙁 May I ask who the other creators who commented on this are?
@@shirin9452 yes exactly! i enjoyed the way she was warm and caring especially how the other ladies liked her so much in the quarters. i think it’s okay to compliment someone’s body but once it becomes excessive and strange… idk it just reminded me of sarah bartman and things of that. i just hope that it gets address maybe on the reunion since the show was recorded prior but like i was highly disturbed
Additional things to note: - AD’s over sexualization by both the cast members and her edit (camera would zoom in on her waist and body). This made me so sad. She talked about how she works hard to be fit, and Clay can only see that as a benefit to him and not as something admirable about her. - I understand that Chelsea was trying to make an uncomfortable moment more comfortable by playing along with Jimmy’s comment on AD’s body, but hollering across a party to comment on AD’s figure was so disrespectful to me and somewhat makes me think if she would have done it so unabashedly and publicly if AD wasn’t a Black woman - After Chelsea says that people say she looks like Megan Fox (she did not say that about herself btw. In fact, she says that she doesn’t see the resemblance outside of the dark hair and blue eyes), Jimmy literally says ”can we get married already” implying that he would do so just based off of her saying she may resemble Megan Fox…but then he turns around and says that Jess missed the point of the show by saying he’d choke when he sees what he missed. Jimmy cares about looks FOR SURE.
I fully agree with everything except I don't think Chelsea was completely innocent in that Megan Fox situation cause she brought up that whole conversation with "do people say you look like a celebrity?" imo that's a weird thing to ask and she obviously wanted to talk about appearances and then to refer to her as "mgk's girlfriend" like that's the only thing you know her as are you for real ?😒 I think she knew what she was doing trying to bring up a woman who's like the stereotypical celebrity crush for a man but then acting like she doesn't know anything about that. But yeah I felt so bad for AD. At first I kind of was like feeling good for her because she obviously is a very beautiful woman and she deserves to be praised and lifted up but then it kept getting more sexual and invasive and gross and yeah it definitely reached a point where it felt like racist objectification and I wish someone stood up for her or fucking apologized that drove me nuts
They did that with Tiffany in season four as well. If I remember correctly, to this day her & Brett are the only couple they showed in their underwear on top of each other & they zoomed in right on her butt. It was insanely inappropriate.
Clay is the LIB cast member where it has never been more clear that he applied thru the central Netflix reality show portal and got pushed towards LIB even tho that’s not what he wanted.
honestly i think the women being weirded out by AD enjoying her time with matthew made her even more motivated to pursue him bc she has the "i can fix him" mentality. so she thought i can make the boy everyone finds weird into a decent lover boy and its all bc i fixed him. i *think* she acknowledged that's one of the things she was trying to work on in therapy too
I think we don't know the full story with Matthew. He seems autistic to me. That doesn't excuse his actions, but it would make more sense instead of people just flat out calling him a psychopath. Also, people can be horrible without being a psychopath. I think that needs to be said.
16:07 Seriously Ad’s choices in men are extremely concerning. She’s such a gorgeous woman and has great energy, she’s doing herself a huge disservice by settling for those men
I noticed that she leads with her sex appeal, like almost too much. All that shaking was screaming “look at me me n I’m hot” which I didn’t like because she is not only gorgeous but very smart, polite and Beautiful. Her body is a plus😍. She looks really goodt ❤
it makes me wonder what is she actually learning and building from in therapy? seems there’s so much to unpack for her to be looking for love, she seems as if she seeks validation in men
I don’t normally cry during these shows but when Trevor found out Chelsea chose someone else and confessed he had tapped the bracelet about 100 times that day - I felt so much sadness! He deserves someone special.
Laura is so weird because it feels like she wants to put AD in a place where everyone but AD herself is entitled to her body. Because why would you say that to your FIANCE? I think it's very indicative of seeing AD as a sexual caricature to be gawked at and not an actual human being (dare I say, a la Sarah Bartman ??).
the way Laura got so upset at Jeremy for bringing it up was telling as well. She was furious at him and embarrassed that AD and Clay got offended by her offensive comment. Laura needs to check herself.
Baby Netflix made a point to show us they’re feeding them this seasons. Trying to beat those lawsuit allegations from the former contestants lol. Never saw that much food featured on that show.
Bean dip apparently is when you smack or pop someone's chest and it bounces back I think. So it's basically saying she has big boobs and she wanted her partner to "Bean dip" her boobs or whatever. My mom was hella triggered by how they were focused on AD's body and how everyone was like openly objectifying her. It's so weird. And some people will say "Well she makes sure her body looks a certain way so she probably doesn't mind that kind of attention" but she obviously does mind when one of the people she is close to in the group tells her partner to smack her boobs. That's weird and creepy and just encouraging objectification of her, that is not consensual. And then them trying to act like she had no reason to feel uncomfortable with that was weird. She basically joked about her partner sexually harassing her friend. And she is the only black woman there too, which makes it worse. Very weird situation, I hope they rewatch that and think "I probably shouldn't have done that to her, that was creepy and not friend-like to do"
We need a show that does the opposite. They know nothing about each other, pick a person based on their looks only and then trying to make it work. It'd be just as messy. And isn't that more realistic and true to life anyway? Nobody irl meets each other behind a wall. Unless you visit glory holes frequently. Edit: it's not like tinder dating because on tinder you talk first, you learn at least some info about each other and then you go on a date, I purpose no prior contact or interactions, choosing a partner based on looks only by purposing engagement to them like they do on LIB, after which they would have to live together in committed relationships knowing NOTHING about each other. ☠️
@@njbg5796 but make it more extreme... match them on personality and then let them choose a match 100% based on looks and force them to spend time together and see which they prefer
My red flags on Clay were early on--1) he says she's got to keep him in check, aka you're going to act wrong as much as she lets you instead of being accountable for yourself; 2) all the conversations we saw were about him. I never heard him ask her what SHE needs in a partner. So it's a relationship of ONE, just him. AD, you in danger, girl-run!!!
I immediately noticed that when they met, he kept the whole convo and vibe centered on himself. He hardly said anything about AD herself. More of his comments were about himself.
Yes, I feel like he’s very self-aware what his bad qualities are and I don’t feel like he’s improving them. He’s kind of just like that’s how I am and I feel like most of the men are doing that this season
And 3) you’re gonna help me grow He said something along those lines, sir you are a grown man, if it hasn’t grown by now that ain’t got nothing to do with me. What I can appreciate is that he didn’t let the bean dip thing go coz wtf was that. He even knew it had nothing to do with Jeremy and everything to do with mean girl Laura
Omg same! Like if I see Mathew as a gun and bullet that AD dodged, I see Clay as a car that keeps running you over. Drive, reverse, drive, reverse, drive, reverse. And it keeps going until you roll over. Like with Mathew you’d die the first shot but with Clay you would probably end up in the hospital if you’re lucky.
I 100% believe that Matthew and Amber are Netflix plants. That whole story line was way too perfectly cinematic. His over the top villain persona, her unnatural dialog that seemed scripted, the refusal to show clips of their actual pod conversation, and the fact they both just left make me believe this. Also someone on reddit said "I used to work for Netflix and they 100% use plants." which, they definitely could have been lying lol wouldn't be the first time someone lied on the internet.
Matt was the most obvious actor I've ever seen on Netflix. His whole persona is a mix of bad romance tropes and nothing else. That's why he doesn't talk to the other guys, his covers not deep enough to sustain a real conversation 😅
i def think he's a plant too. alot of the time the plants don't make it that far which is I think he just got more bolder and bolder as time went on to try to disway AD. I think the producers were prob shocked that AD was ACTUALLY into him!
I thought the same thing about Matthew because he was a little bit too scripted and Amber as well when she shared that, Matthew said the same thing to her and AD. Then all of a sudden they both leave the show. Matthew had entire questions on a notepad like it was an interview. Strange. I felt like they were both actors. They needed a weird guy on the show.
They really need to do a Love Is Blind for people who have actually lived life. 35+, divorced/have children, have actual non-negotiables and the people are there to find love but realize if they don’t it’s ok. I swear some these people just here to be on TV
I appreciate that they at least never seem to cast anyone younger than 24 but yeah I agree they need to move the age range up. Maybe 28 to 40+ or something.
honestly same ... to a point bc after a while i was like ... shes not giving me good vibes so its for the best maybe?? also, i think we collectively fell in love with him, so i wasnt that upset about him not getting with chelsea in particular, i was mad he didnt find someone suitable
I think the reason Chelsea chose who she chose is because she is insecure so getting chosen over someone as much of a baddie as Jessica was hitting for her. Unfortunate 😔
oh deffo, the constant doubt and searching for reassurance after they met face to face just solidified that she chose him to prove something to herself. its especially unfortunate though that she probably thinks she won the prize with jimmy because she beat out jessica, but once she sees trevor irl she is going to be sooooo disappointed she settled. jimmy is the last place trophy that she fought to win for no reason other than fomo 😭
Insecurity and emotional instability can also lead people to mistrust or feel anxiety over unconditional acceptance, which sucks! It can make people feel like they're always waiting for the other shoe to drop and things to go bad because the stability is unfamiliar, even when the shoe isn't there to drop. Whereas the roller coaster of needing to 'fight' for acceptance can almost feel more secure and reassuring because it's something on field that you're fighting, rather than shadowboxing with a shape you can't even see (because the person is actually decent, but your brain has too many hardwired bad habits and hard'won' instincts after your previous experiences.)
anyone else think it's very weird that chelsea gave trevor a bracelet that said along the lines of "my heart is forever yours" but then said yes to jimmy right after?! i would never give someone that kind of gift if i wasn't in a committed relationship / 100% in love with someone...maybe it's just me though lol.
This might be an unpopular opinion, but I'm convinced that Chelsea chose Jimmy mainly because of Jessica. Chelsea is a deeply insecure person, and it felt good to her ego that she won over Jessica.
Felt the same way. And I think it's like that with jimmy too cause he saw how much Trevor was saying he wanted her and Jessica was putting all her eggs in his basket so he had no competition with her
I'm not gonna lie, I was rooting for Matthew at first because I assumed he was just awkward/introverted, and I can kind of relate to that. Even with the little questionnaire I was saying like "makes sense that he'd have a script, he probably has no idea how to make small talk". So when episode two rolled around and Matthew and AD had that confrontation I was like "well there goes my favorite couple", and then AD went to Clay to confide in him and Clay reacted like toxic masculinity personified, I was like "I can't do this anymore, I'll just wait for Kennie's video".
Nobody on reddit seems to like jessica but I STAN HER. She could have handled some situations better (i.e. not wording that Jimmy would regret his choice because of her looks). but overall, I think people are turned off by a hot woman who's strong and confident and takes the lead in a lot of aspects.
@devonmunn5728 This wasn't the case in the first season, which is truly upsetting. But in the 4th season, at least 3 couples got married and are still married. So some genuine people slip through somehow
@@Sandrinarhonda yeah but part of why trevor is so great is that he seems like an actually emotionally intelligent and kind person. not saying there aren't other sensitive beefcakes out there but they don't exactly grow on trees
I'm convinced at the moment that Amber is a plant because how can there be all that "he said the same stuff to me" but there is ZERO replay of any conversation they ever had? that makes NO sense especially from the POV of a reality show that wants to show drama. But I'm also cynical
Exactly!!! Because the triangle last year with Izzy, Jonny and Stacy, they had HELLA footage back and forth with evidence of each convo but not a single snippet of Amber and Matt’s convo this season???? It doesn’t add up
@@bouncyshak where's the dramatic tension in just throwing random info in? it would've been way more dramatic to have flashbacks exposing matt and amber's convos once amber and AD got to talking. In the year of 2024 we should all know to never take reality shows at face value
I also got a major ick from Clay, it was so strange that he seemed to know nothing about how a wedding or marriage actually is. And then his comments on AD having to be in shape at all times, massive ewwww. Hopefully AD pays attention to the red flags 🚩
Agree! I f*cking HATE all the "baby. Come here baby. You're my baby" talk. It's gross as hell. And the comment on having to stay in shape after having a baby is straight up disgusting.
I mean AD did say she paints her nails red to match the flags, and that she doesn’t think she deserves love. I just hope she can eventually see that she deserves better.
I felt so angry that I was taken in by Matthew cos initially I thought he was an a*s and then when I saw his interaction with AD I thought aww he's actually sweet he's just awkward and possible neurodivergent and then he just went completely off the rails and I was like Ah nice guys really don't exist 😢
@@GopherCakeStuffwell, no, that’s not the point. Society as a whole has often *ascribed* ‘bad vibes’ to people who are neurodivergent, namely autistic people, without any real reason. As we learn, a lot of us make concerted efforts to notice our negative, knee-jerk reactions to atypical behaviour in people. There’s a difference between red flags and simple personal prejudice. TLDR bad vibes =/= bad person or bad behaviour. Sometimes people are just different to you and your gut reaction is wrong. Matthew’s not bad because he’s socially strange, he’s bad because the things he thinks and the actions fuelled by those thoughts are shitty and unfair.
@Cas_Q I agree with you completely. I also think with awareness of mental health on the rise people are sometimes over zealous in trying to recognize signs in people that simply don't translate to everyone, especially nuerodivirgent people.
Poor Trevor ☹️ He really looks like he would be a perfect man for Chelsea and treat her how she deserves especially since they can have silly banter about their dogs’ names and stuff. But she picked a man who didn’t really like her, just ran towards her because he couldn’t handle his first pick Edit: NEVERMIND 💀💀💀 Trevor is trash too
@@Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl cant recall such a guy, but thats terrible i guess🫢 Also i think Trevor is better of without Chelsea. I got really exhausted by watching her and Jimmy. Chelsea needs so much confirmation and Jimmy is not honest for my feeling. Im really like😖
There was a Tik Tok that concluded that she was seeking validation and wanted to beat Jessica a more traditional beauty, by winning the man they were both into.
We got three phenomenal recipients of rejection in a row, in my opinion. Jessica read Jimmy for filth and called him out on his bad behavior. Trevor was so graceful but also pointed out very plainly that Chelsea was picking the man who did not want her as badly, and got her to kinda admit that if Trevor had asked first SHE WOULD HAVE SAID YES? He was classy but had a clear awareness of the situation. And Sarah kinda had this energy of "hmmm, interesting" during the whole breakup and gave him NOTHING. I was living for her sassy ponytail head tilts. They were all great, well done to them all. Edit: The new episodes come out and now I can't even enjoy this anymore 😭
I thought Jessica's reaction was a bit weird. Like calling him out for waiting to tell her was justified, but the whole "you'll regret not choosing me" thing gave me the vibes of being scripted or coming from someone much less confident than she seems to be.
@@bishielurfer I don't think it was weird at all. I think she knows she's hot and wanted to give him one final jab. He was playing her and she was like "you have no idea what your missing out on." Hardly anything "weird" or "scripted" about that. That's rather human.
@@bishielurfershe did not handle rejection well,which I get cause it’s rejection and it’s frustrating and sad, but her whole banter about him choking amongst other words was just yikes and cringey. Though Matthew’s was worse
@@gazellehelene5380it’s the piercing itself, it’s in a horrible placement. I want her to get it redone so bad because nose rings are so pretty. Same thing happened to me, it healed and it just wasn’t good placement so I had it redone.
I have no doubt about Jessica's love for her child, but I don't think it's very responsible to sign up to get married to a stranger and bring that person into your child's life within a month.
I mean she wants another caretaker to help improve her daughters life and the normal option would be taking the time to date around and having to potentially hire a babysitter every single time and it could take months to years to find the right guy, so like her doing this very romanticized speed run of that makes sense to me. I would personally also have the same concerns as you if it were me but I can't fully blame her for giving this a try.
And Sweden. Besides the wonderful English audio, it’s a whole mess. Probably my favorite after US. Bonus - they’re not all cut and shuffled full of fillers and veneers. It was lovely to watch messy folks with jiggly bits and jacked up teefs. 😂😂
@@hollywont9447 As someone from Sweden who uses Kennie's recaps to enjoy the condensed form of Love Is Blind, I think I need to hear more about our local version now. Swedish reality TV featuring less dolled up / polished-looking people than the US is not thatb ig a deal to me, but people who are even messier than the people in these shows? THAT, I need to know more about.
@@hollywont9447 you are so right! I completely slept on Love is Blind Sweden because honestly I thought it was going to be a snooze-fest but…DAYUM!!! Wowza, I almost fell off my chair, especially during the Reunion, talking about red flags and „blink twice“ if you need help girl 😮 Kenny, PLEASE check out LIB Sweden, you would be speechless. I will say only one word : f**king Sergio. Ok, two words.
Clay being weirdly obsessed with the engagement ring is really confusing to me. Some mentions on how much it suits her seem appropriate but he looks at the ring more often than at her face. And I found him saying "I put that on you" over and over again super icky.
The thing is, Chelsea never once said she looks like Megan Fox. Not once. She said that people tell her that but she doesnt see it at all and she thinks it's just because she has dark hair and light eyes.
The thing is you don't mention how you may or may not look like in love is BLIND, she fucked up real bad cause megan fox is one of the best looking actresses in Hollywood... it's a super high expectation and anything different than her was going to be a huge disappointment to anyone (even though she's pretty and I don't think she deserves the excessive amount of cyber bullying she's receiving).
She slickly implied it, trying to gauge his reaction. And once he had that image, he made his choice. It shouldn't have been mentioned at all if Love is indeed Blind.
Tbh she joked about it first and said something along the lines “so he’s not thinking much” implying he’s dead. Immediately after we hear him referring to her dad as a roadblock so it could very well be a continuation of the joke. I still very much hate Matt tho lol
@@EstframaI had an especially visceral reaction to it because I’m someone who also copes with the death of their father through humor. I’d be so turned off if someone said that to me. I don’t doubt he was continuing it. Naturally, people want to continue the banter in that situation to keep the conversation light. However, his mind immediately going to “roadblock” was.. a choice. Like, edgy humor but he forgot he was talking about a real person. 🥴
@@davinalee9222 I lost my dad 13 years ago and I laughed at both their comments because I got it as a continuation of the joke. If you didn’t that’s fine, to each their own
Chelsea was either A. Crying or B. Saying she wanted to throw up, every time she’s shown (imagine what got edited out?!). What an emotional train wreck. IMHO, her stomach’s in knots because Megan Fox over here knows she’s embellishing and manipulating. Careful what you wish for, girl. You may just get it, and end up looking like a liar to a man who’s now second-guessing his choice.
She was manipulative in the pods too. She showed a confident side behind the screen but her insecurity about her looks comes out as soon as she’s seen by Jimmy.
i literally made a comment like this about how sad it is that so many individuals have issues and then bring them into relationship and form unhealthy connections. this show is so much proof of that bc every season is the same scenarios.
I think Chelsea did a terrible job articulating her feelings about why she was upset to her partner which is odd because she could explain exactly why she was upset to the other girls. With that said, when Jimmy saw AD he immediately was like "that woman is STACKED" and when Chelsea asked Jimmy what was the first thing he noticed about her he said she had nice teeth 🥴
Literally!! The communication there is so frustrating. But I can understand if she doesn’t feel validated by him then it’s not really a safe space and he kept interrupting her!!
The thing that scares me the most about Matthew is that there was this strange emphasis and desire on trying to get both women to leave the experiment with him…Pair that with his seemingly hyper awareness of being perceived on camera by America, it makes me wonder…if he’s manipulative in the pods - and that’s him being CAREFUL of how he’s coming across - what is he planning on pulling to get these women to STAY outside of filming??? Yikes.
The way Jimmy was going around talking to the other girls (when they first met up on the honeymooon) honestly felt like he was fishing to see how their relationships were going, just so he knew if they'd ever be interested in him. Like, it just felt like he was fishing to see if any of them would be down to cheat. Maybe I'm off base, but my spouse and I both felt the same
Jimmy to me reads as the type of guy that doesn't want his wife to be more experienced than him. He doesn't want her to have kids, or have been married before, or even previously engaged. Likely he'd rather they not have had a lot of partners either... Idk he just gives me major ick because he tries so hard to say the "right things" so he's not seen as an asshole, but like you can tell he's actually shallow by looking at his face. The man may be saying the right things but his facial expressions don't match the words. He's always got this dumb blank look, I can SEE the rusty cogs of his brain turning as he tries to figure out what to say. And the audacity of being so focused on looks when his own resemble a THUMB is WILD! He could play a live action rendition of human Bender from Futurama.
You saying that Matthew gives you ‘Family Annihilator’ vibes finally made me realize who he reminded me of. John List. A Family Annihilator. He looks like him 💀. Thanks Kennie, it was bugging me 😂
Good to know we can all see right through Clay because whew, that's an express lane to stress and sadness and AD knows it even though she's determined to get hurt lol
I would absolutely read a fic with Matt as an OC love interest in my favorite fandom but he also gives family annihilator vibes so I'd be kinda stressed until he inevitably loses to the other MC and possibly has a bad end lol.
I was attracted until he asked a question, and then the first girl asked him one back and he was like “no thanks”. Immediate ick. Like I was assuming he was just nervous, so he prepared, but he’s a weirdo.
Worried that some of Matthew's "red flags" (social isolation, scripted conversation) are signs of neurodivergence and maybe not *always* him trying to be manipulative or creepy. Edit: idk I just worry as an autistic person that I sometimes seem "creepy" bc I don't always know how to talk to people. That of course doesn't excuse how Matthew lied to AD, it's just important to note that his bad actions aren't related to him being a "weirdo."
For anyone curious about POLITICS -- Natalie and Deepti have said that they always discuss it in the pods but is usually never shown -- seasons 2 and 4 were almost all liberal (minus Shayna) while seasons 1, 3 and 5 were half and half
Genuinely confused as to why anyone thinks it's appropriate for any parent to be on this show, man or woman. Say she goes all the way to the end and gets married. Is she then gonna move her kid in with some random man she just met 6 weeks ago? Parents need to be extremely careful when in the dating pool and she's doing the OPPOSITE.
Based on the last seasons I think they’ll be bringing back the “failed matches” for extra tension soon…Very curious if we’ll see Mathew, Trevor, etc. and everyone’s reaction 👀
kendall is just like my comfort person so much, like she’s hilarious but also i can listen to her no matter what and be all comfy, so glad she makes content :)
Chelsea did not do what she did to play it off as a joke. If thats what she wanted, she wouldve kept it between them. She felt embarrassed and tried to embarrass not only jimmy but AD as well. I feel like Jimmy felt he had to go to AD bc it was embarrassing for him and he knew he was wrong and outted. AD probably knew he was embarrassed and was trying to make it okay for him. Ive done that before as well. Chelsea clearly put his and her ass on the spot. SHES not a girls girl. Personally i would have made us ALL uncomfortable. "Why are you commenting on my butt?" "Why is this funny, i dont get it?"
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank you! Calling someone out is so embarrassing for the girl. Imagine ya man is staring at a woman in the store and a girl yells hey my man likes your ass. Girl wut
@kalia9517 yeah and also, if I was Jimmy I would've broken up w her right then and there. He clearly was trying to tell his partner only and she turned around and humiliated him. If AD acted like he was a creep, it would've been even worse😂
Thank you!!! I left a comment saying the same thing! The whole interaction was so uncomfortable. Leave AD tf alone and deal with your clown of a fiance in private
Did you see the new article about Trevor having a girlfriend when he went on the show and that he told his girlfriend just to wait for him just so that he could do the show real quick so he had no real intentions of being with anybody on the show
NOTABLE CAST: Forgot about Chelsea... she cool
FR??? U LIKE CHELSEA
@@mm5xo eh more so have no opinion of her
if i didnt know what you looked like i would think you are a white brunette
@KennieJD you didn't think anything of her behavior towards AD? She blamed AD for her man commenting on her body and that's why she made it ADs problem. Idk if she was trying to embarrass her man or both of them but its clear those women are not safe for black women.
PleaseI need your opinion on the Meghan Fox debacle. He's reaction was too funny bruh.
AD chosing Clay after Matthew is like dodging a bullet to get hit by a car
Perfect way to describe it😭😭😭
LMAOAOA
That's accurate. Most of us would probably choose the car, but it ain't good 😄
💯
Exactly
The way AD is being objectified by the production and the contestants is so sinister to me
Same, the first time it was cute and fun and I was happy to see Black beauty being gassed, but the 2nd, 3rd, 14th time it gave me bad vibes. Real sex objectification, 1800s 🐮 💩
BRO LIKE ITS GROSS
It was all so bizarre, immature and inappropriate
everyone was in on it which is the worst. like i thought some of the women may have stood up for her but nah....
agreed. production is giving misogynoir, in my opinion.
Matthew calling AD's father a roadblock after implying something sweet with the whole "I wanna ask him for his blessing" was an immediate red flag. It shows he lacks empathy, is self-centered, but also that he contradicts himself. He's giving scripted creep who goes to those meetings on how to con a woman into being with him.
very narcissist vibes, only cares about how he looks, not how he actually treats people. wanting to ask her father permission is seen as romantic and respectful, but he genuinely doesn’t give a flying fuck about the respect or the care for her or their family moving forward. to say your girlfriend’s dead father is a removal of a roadblock in fhe case he’d say no shows EXACTLY why he’d be worried about asking, it’s because he’s the kind a piece of shit who probably WOULD have a father saying no to him asking because he sucks so bad and treats her horribly
@@lightworthy Ooo THIS. And the way he started lying and acting like a victim in this disorienting circular way when AD confronted him about his script with Amber and her. This man is exhausting. I'm so happy so many women clocked that. The more you know, the less you'll suffer at the hands of these fools.
Is everybody missing the fact that she was laughing about her dad passing and said they weren't close??
it was so bizarre that i assumed it was editing. like when zanab said her parents died and cole basically said “that’s hot.”
that was so insane
The bean dip thing was crazy, (she wasn't calling her bean dip, the action they were talking about where you smack a girls chest is called bean dip, so she was telling him to "bean dip" AD, just to clarify). Honestly Laura exposed herself as an undercover mean girl in that moment because regardless of whether or not it was appropriate for her fiancé to bring it up in front of AD and clay, that literally doesn't matter at all imo. She made an over sexualized joke at her friends expense, was pissed that it got out, AD looked visibly upset by it when she approached her away from the men and Laura, fixated on the fact that it was "a joke," NEVER APOLOGIZED. That girl has a knife pointed at your back.
Spot on
Laura’s giving kind of a mean girl/ sweet to your face/Regina George energy I got from similarly bleach blonde Micah.
Anytime someone's reaction to them fucking up is "it was just a joke-uh"
You need to run.
Also, didn't AD imply that Laura had done it to her previously? Or did I just misinterpret her reaction? Either way, it was something Laura had brought up in front of her before at the very least.
Laura's definitely one of those 'nice to your face' mean girls who can't understand why everyone doesn't love them.
exactly !! that was so strange
someone mentioned this on tiktok and i thought it was a great observation. even though trevor was fundamentally better than jimmy, chelsea doesn’t see any of them. the person she sees is jessica. and she knows that jimmy is interested in both her and jessica. i think part of the reason she wouldn’t let go of jimmy is because she likes the idea of getting one up on someone as gorgeous as jessica. not that Chelsea is ugly, but she has that insecure, pick me, “cool girl” energy. that’s the only reason that makes even remote sense why chelsea would forego a sweet and mature sure bet like trevor for the human big toe that jimmy is
edit***omg y’all not Trevor bring trash TOO?????
💯
oh fur SURE.
heavy on the wannabe “cool girl” energy. the way she reacted to jimmy and AD interacting showed it. she acted like she had no problem drawing attention to AD’s physique when jimmy mentioned that she was “stacked” and then proceeded to start an argument with him abt him and AD talking when they got back to the hotel room. she’s so insecure
Not the “human big toe” 🤣🤣🤣
Fr and the way she added onto Jimmy checking AD out instead of checking him then feeling sad the rest if the night. 😂 but they chose each other so that’s that
I just hate the treatment AD gets, she is over sexualized by both men and women, she's treated like a "body" that everyone gets to lust over in such a gross way, stop commenting on her body like she is this sexual object or something
Yesssss it has been my MAIN concern this season. Specifically that she’s a black woman too! Giving me ‘Sarah Baartman’ vibes. In quotes because that was her sl**e name not her real name. I have commented this on so much of the discourse this season. Everyone has hypersexualised her. Reduced her to a body. “That woman is stacked” not even a name you know? Chelsea, Laura and Laura’s man too have said some weird stuff.
Thank you then people are blaming AD and calling her a pick me when she just be standing there 🙄
She oversexualises herself. She leads with her body in a very obvious way. She wore a skin tight see through dress to the cast meet up... she then shook her ass for another man who gave her a compliment. A classy girl would have found a way to change the subject and divert instead she kept that interaction going. When she met clay at the reveal she herself stood to show case her assets.. no one asked her to do this. In the pool scence with clay she again intentionally not submerging her body in the pool and standing over him during the whole interaction so her body was visible. She leads with sexual energy, she's the type of friend I would never want to have around by spouse because she is so desperate for validation she would blur boundaries.
Yeah it's very creepy 😬
OMG!!!! Yesssssss finally someone is talking about that!! It’s so fuckin weird! And it always happens when black women are the only ones in the room. That’s recently happened to me when I went to my friends party and everyone kept on talking about my body and butt and how thick I am and I was like wtf…. Just super over sexualize me. It’s was really awkward af . Why do people so comfortable to constantly sexualize black people like that’s all we’re good for…. Is a fetish like wtf! That’s scene remind me of that and it gave me the creeps
If I realized I lost Trevor to JIMMY 😭😭😭 I’d be SICKKKKKK
sliding down the wall crying kinda sick 😭
@@mkamara7279
Your profile pic made your comment even funnier 😂
@@Blullaby lmaooo! i didn't even notice that pic is from yearssss ago but what perfection
Good for Trevor because chelsea is no price
@@saisahithi805 and isnt! shes just as indecisive as jimmy so they can go be indecisive together 🙄
I have a bone to pick with Matthew. Superman was never cold. He is the kindest, sweetest, most polite country boy that ever lived. How dare you drag my boy Clark's name through the mud, you fake nerd.
Country boyyy I love youuu
Super man wouldnt cry if he got caught lying out his ass
@@lucynosbischUEHHH😛😩
THANK YOU!! It genuinely made me itch when he said that because known sweetheart Clark would NEVER. Matthew needs to keep his name out of his mouth.
Hahaha you fake nerd is probably the nicest thing that could be said about Matthew and yet still a well deserved insult, bravo 😂
In my opinion, you didn't talk enough about the episode 6 situation with AD. The fact that the entire party devolved into all of these white people making creepy comments about her body and Laura talking about having bean dipped her when they first met (ie. SLAPPING HER BREASTS) is disgusting.
From the beginning with Jimmy calling her stacked, Chelsea yelling that at her, and then Jimmy using that as an excuse to come over and hit on her, Jeramey mentioning that Laura told him to do the same thing when he saw her, and then everyone acting like Clay and AD were crazy for getting angry about that, and then Laura REFUSING TO APOLOGIZE. It all read to me as racism and hypersexualization. If I were AD and that happened I would have left that party on the heels of a full scale panic attack.
And then Jimmy calling AD "spicy" for not liking Laura's comments? What?? I'm sorry, that entire cast is racist.
Exactly.
literally!!
exactlyy
They're not racist. They're insecure and jealous
EXACTLY.
47:07 “Ken and I have talked about race and he identifies as a Black man” took me all the way down 😭😭😭
That was so weird to me 😂
I was like "identify". I dont think she has a clue what dating a Black person is actually like. She said looks change. Not skin color 😭
I KNOW IT WAS SO WEIRD
reminds me of a screencap i saw of a yahoo answers page where someone asked if video game designer hideo kojima is "of gay descent"
As if he can identify as anything else 💀💀💀
Have I ever watched Love is blind? No. Will I ever watch it? Nope. Do I enjoy these recaps? Hell yeah!
Same lol 😂
I am the same
Just watch it!!!!😂
I only watched the first season during quarantine but I also live for recaps. Sixteenleo is a good watch as well
Same
Watching Kennie thirsting for Trevor is better entertainment than Netflix's Love Is Blind.
For REAL!!!
That was great 😂
Lmao I wanted to laugh but felt the same so I was half like BACK OFF KENNIE
Seriously, Trevor, call her!!!
She could slide into the DMs a friendly hello. And an interview invite
also can we just talk about how nearly the entire cast sexualized AD? it gave me the ick especially her being the only black woman on the main cast now and them just constantly talking about her body and sexualizing her like she’s some attraction at the circus? it felt so weird and i wanna say racially uncomfortable to do that? idk i know other people on other social medias felt the same but i just was so uncomfortable for her and i felt like she handled it well as she could. also laura being upset because others are upset that she basically told her husband to s*xually ass*ult another woman and she thinks it’s was a joke? like a lot of that needs to be unpacked
FINALLY someone pointed that out.
This!
Ok yes y’all couldn’t talk about anything else? I loved her eyes, her smile, I thought she was funny and kind of classy vibe, and the minute we get any comments it’s…THAT WOMAN IS STACKED
HOWD YOU GET THQT BUTT
like, please. everybody. PLEASE stfu
My sisters and I noticed how fit she was too, and we were like oh, the 4x in the gym, being a cheerleader, it all makes sense. But we liked her in the end cause we thought she had a cute personality and seemed smart tbh.
THANK YOU!! I’m so disappointed that no other creators (especially black creators) have mentioned this 🙁🙁 May I ask who the other creators who commented on this are?
@@shirin9452 yes exactly! i enjoyed the way she was warm and caring especially how the other ladies liked her so much in the quarters. i think it’s okay to compliment someone’s body but once it becomes excessive and strange… idk it just reminded me of sarah bartman and things of that. i just hope that it gets address maybe on the reunion since the show was recorded prior but like i was highly disturbed
Calling Jeramey "very good at lying" aged... extremely well...
What are you referring to 👀
@@devonmunn5728he had a whole ass family while attending this show
@@benjirivohAnd lied about the whole thing with Sarah.
Additional things to note:
- AD’s over sexualization by both the cast members and her edit (camera would zoom in on her waist and body). This made me so sad. She talked about how she works hard to be fit, and Clay can only see that as a benefit to him and not as something admirable about her.
- I understand that Chelsea was trying to make an uncomfortable moment more comfortable by playing along with Jimmy’s comment on AD’s body, but hollering across a party to comment on AD’s figure was so disrespectful to me and somewhat makes me think if she would have done it so unabashedly and publicly if AD wasn’t a Black woman
- After Chelsea says that people say she looks like Megan Fox (she did not say that about herself btw. In fact, she says that she doesn’t see the resemblance outside of the dark hair and blue eyes), Jimmy literally says ”can we get married already” implying that he would do so just based off of her saying she may resemble Megan Fox…but then he turns around and says that Jess missed the point of the show by saying he’d choke when he sees what he missed. Jimmy cares about looks FOR SURE.
And he will choke. He shallow like that 😂😂😂😂
I fully agree with everything except I don't think Chelsea was completely innocent in that Megan Fox situation cause she brought up that whole conversation with "do people say you look like a celebrity?" imo that's a weird thing to ask and she obviously wanted to talk about appearances and then to refer to her as "mgk's girlfriend" like that's the only thing you know her as are you for real ?😒 I think she knew what she was doing trying to bring up a woman who's like the stereotypical celebrity crush for a man but then acting like she doesn't know anything about that. But yeah I felt so bad for AD. At first I kind of was like feeling good for her because she obviously is a very beautiful woman and she deserves to be praised and lifted up but then it kept getting more sexual and invasive and gross and yeah it definitely reached a point where it felt like racist objectification and I wish someone stood up for her or fucking apologized that drove me nuts
They did that with Tiffany in season four as well. If I remember correctly, to this day her & Brett are the only couple they showed in their underwear on top of each other & they zoomed in right on her butt. It was insanely inappropriate.
The producers were so PETTY for leaving that Jimmy slip up in the final cut. 🤣
The editors/production of this show is SO petty to people! It's WILD!
It's key to the plot 😅
They knew they had a gem when that happened
THAT WAS SO MESSY OF THEM 💀💀
I love how the music stopped when he corrected himself, then started up again when he starts talking about Chelsea. I die each time I see that scene.
Clay is the LIB cast member where it has never been more clear that he applied thru the central Netflix reality show portal and got pushed towards LIB even tho that’s not what he wanted.
Omg this makes so much sense. I think you're 100% right.
Or he was a recruit and they found him on social media.
He wanted too hot to handle 😂
@@eating_pizza_doesnt_make_y9376definitely 😂😂
@@eating_pizza_doesnt_make_y9376 that would make so much sense OMG😭
never seen kendall be this down bad for a man before
I hope he sees this tbh 😂 and in a fairytale ending they can date lol
Idk I remember her Roman Reigns era lmao
I remember that one bad movies and a beat where she was thirsting over booboo Stewart which she was absolutely correct for doing
Me either and I'm not sure how I feel about it lmao
I have and I love it lol she's just aesthetically her self
The whole cast gave me weird "Get Out" vibes and then i remembered it was in NC and it made more sense especially with the objectification of AD
What about North Carolina specifically makes that make more sense? Besides general Red States = Racist
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Business Insider says that Trevor is single so… GO GET EM KENNIE!
IVE SEEN THE NEWS. KENNIE DESERVES BETTER!
hope kennie sees this
She deserves better than Trevor
@@chococone2552 idk i don’t watch the show i just watch her reactions so 😭
@@lilxamryn lol I don’t either but the man just got exposed by his ex🙈 I hope she talks about it in the next reaction vid
Single for a reason
honestly i think the women being weirded out by AD enjoying her time with matthew made her even more motivated to pursue him bc she has the "i can fix him" mentality. so she thought i can make the boy everyone finds weird into a decent lover boy and its all bc i fixed him. i *think* she acknowledged that's one of the things she was trying to work on in therapy too
Therapy only works if you actually do the work
@@emhu2594therapy isn't a quick or linear process.
@@bishielurferexactly growth isn't a continuous positive slope on a graph there's gonna be ups and downs and even stagnant phases
I think we don't know the full story with Matthew. He seems autistic to me. That doesn't excuse his actions, but it would make more sense instead of people just flat out calling him a psychopath. Also, people can be horrible without being a psychopath. I think that needs to be said.
@@emilyau8023 I think he's a manipulative asshole or a plant. Him being ND is irrelevant.
16:07 Seriously Ad’s choices in men are extremely concerning. She’s such a gorgeous woman and has great energy, she’s doing herself a huge disservice by settling for those men
I personally feel like she was doing what she had to do for the show once she realized she couldn’t find anyone
I noticed that she leads with her sex appeal, like almost too much. All that shaking was screaming “look at me me n I’m hot” which I didn’t like because she is not only gorgeous but very smart, polite and Beautiful. Her body is a plus😍. She looks really goodt ❤
it makes me wonder what is she actually learning and building from in therapy? seems there’s so much to unpack for her to be looking for love, she seems as if she seeks validation in men
@@Miss_Nontoeyou’re obviously projecting. Give an example of her doing this in the pods even once
@@zyiacoleman1364 Y'all are making the nastiest assumptions about this lady it's insane
Trevor's dog dying on the day Chelsea broke up with him is so sad 🥲
HIS DOG WHAT
@@shirin9452 He made a TikTok. I want to hug him 😭
He lost two Chelseas in one day 😢. Poor thing, hopefully it's only up from here ❤.
Geezus what? No poor Trevor. No Chelsea for him.
@@shirin9452she had cancer & his mom was talking care of her while he was on the show 😢
Clay walking around with the Bible yet cussing like sailor in EVERY SCENE tells all I need to know.
He was literally dropping the F- word while holding the Bible. I died 😂💀
exactly 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
that "apology" that clay gave was such a non-apology. "if i made you feel that way i apologize" is not a real apology!!
Always hit them with the "not if, you did" and they swear up and down they didn't say it
I don’t normally cry during these shows but when Trevor found out Chelsea chose someone else and confessed he had tapped the bracelet about 100 times that day - I felt so much sadness! He deserves someone special.
And she wasn't even wearing her bracelet 😭
I cried at that part 😭
@@Sloelivin Oh goodness, that’s right! 😔
@@tsunaida Aww… I understand completely, so did I 🥺
He needs Kenny…👀
Laura is so weird because it feels like she wants to put AD in a place where everyone but AD herself is entitled to her body. Because why would you say that to your FIANCE? I think it's very indicative of seeing AD as a sexual caricature to be gawked at and not an actual human being (dare I say, a la Sarah Bartman ??).
I hated Laura after that. It was disturbing
That’s exactly what I was thinking about!!!
the way Laura got so upset at Jeremy for bringing it up was telling as well. She was furious at him and embarrassed that AD and Clay got offended by her offensive comment. Laura needs to check herself.
yess definitely the hypersexualisation of black women is unfortunately still extremely prevalent
As a South African I was just about to mention Sarah Baartman!! So sad😢
Baby Netflix made a point to show us they’re feeding them this seasons. Trying to beat those lawsuit allegations from the former contestants lol. Never saw that much food featured on that show.
I wondered if she was gonna talk about that😂
Also showed them actually drinking water 😂😂
exactly what i realized first 😂
I noticed the food is previous season but I agree this time they really zoomed in 😂
I thought the same thing! 😂😂
Bean dip apparently is when you smack or pop someone's chest and it bounces back I think. So it's basically saying she has big boobs and she wanted her partner to "Bean dip" her boobs or whatever.
My mom was hella triggered by how they were focused on AD's body and how everyone was like openly objectifying her. It's so weird. And some people will say "Well she makes sure her body looks a certain way so she probably doesn't mind that kind of attention" but she obviously does mind when one of the people she is close to in the group tells her partner to smack her boobs. That's weird and creepy and just encouraging objectification of her, that is not consensual. And then them trying to act like she had no reason to feel uncomfortable with that was weird. She basically joked about her partner sexually harassing her friend. And she is the only black woman there too, which makes it worse. Very weird situation, I hope they rewatch that and think "I probably shouldn't have done that to her, that was creepy and not friend-like to do"
Jessica is THAT GIRL!!! Love that she wore her revenge dress to her break up with Jimmy.
We need a show that does the opposite. They know nothing about each other, pick a person based on their looks only and then trying to make it work. It'd be just as messy. And isn't that more realistic and true to life anyway? Nobody irl meets each other behind a wall. Unless you visit glory holes frequently.
Edit: it's not like tinder dating because on tinder you talk first, you learn at least some info about each other and then you go on a date, I purpose no prior contact or interactions, choosing a partner based on looks only by purposing engagement to them like they do on LIB, after which they would have to live together in committed relationships knowing NOTHING about each other. ☠️
This sounds like a fun watch 😅
"unless you visit gloryholes" 😂 (no judging to those who do just found it a funny reference)
Is t that kinda like love island.
@@njbg5796 or 'too hot to handle'? Ikd, havent watched either, i might just be spreading misinformation lol
@@njbg5796 but make it more extreme... match them on personality and then let them choose a match 100% based on looks and force them to spend time together and see which they prefer
My red flags on Clay were early on--1) he says she's got to keep him in check, aka you're going to act wrong as much as she lets you instead of being accountable for yourself; 2) all the conversations we saw were about him. I never heard him ask her what SHE needs in a partner. So it's a relationship of ONE, just him. AD, you in danger, girl-run!!!
I immediately noticed that when they met, he kept the whole convo and vibe centered on himself. He hardly said anything about AD herself. More of his comments were about himself.
Well said
Someone once said red flags are like 🪳... when you see one, be aware that thousands are hiding in the dark
Yes, I feel like he’s very self-aware what his bad qualities are and I don’t feel like he’s improving them. He’s kind of just like that’s how I am and I feel like most of the men are doing that this season
And 3) you’re gonna help me grow
He said something along those lines, sir you are a grown man, if it hasn’t grown by now that ain’t got nothing to do with me. What I can appreciate is that he didn’t let the bean dip thing go coz wtf was that. He even knew it had nothing to do with Jeremy and everything to do with mean girl Laura
Omg same! Like if I see Mathew as a gun and bullet that AD dodged, I see Clay as a car that keeps running you over. Drive, reverse, drive, reverse, drive, reverse. And it keeps going until you roll over. Like with Mathew you’d die the first shot but with Clay you would probably end up in the hospital if you’re lucky.
I 100% believe that Matthew and Amber are Netflix plants. That whole story line was way too perfectly cinematic. His over the top villain persona, her unnatural dialog that seemed scripted, the refusal to show clips of their actual pod conversation, and the fact they both just left make me believe this. Also someone on reddit said "I used to work for Netflix and they 100% use plants." which, they definitely could have been lying lol wouldn't be the first time someone lied on the internet.
Matt was the most obvious actor I've ever seen on Netflix. His whole persona is a mix of bad romance tropes and nothing else. That's why he doesn't talk to the other guys, his covers not deep enough to sustain a real conversation 😅
Honestly, for Matthew's own sake I hope it's true. Cuz a lot of people saw that, it's on Netflix. If it's really how he is IRL...yikes.
This would make so much sense!
i def think he's a plant too. alot of the time the plants don't make it that far which is I think he just got more bolder and bolder as time went on to try to disway AD. I think the producers were prob shocked that AD was ACTUALLY into him!
I thought the same thing about Matthew because he was a little bit too scripted and Amber as well when she shared that, Matthew said the same thing to her and AD. Then all of a sudden they both leave the show. Matthew had entire questions on a notepad like it was an interview. Strange. I felt like they were both actors. They needed a weird guy on the show.
They really need to do a Love Is Blind for people who have actually lived life. 35+, divorced/have children, have actual non-negotiables and the people are there to find love but realize if they don’t it’s ok. I swear some these people just here to be on TV
I appreciate that they at least never seem to cast anyone younger than 24 but yeah I agree they need to move the age range up. Maybe 28 to 40+ or something.
Clay’s reaction was bad, but I can’t lie, I laughed my ass off when he was like, “Matthew? Who- OH MY GAWWWDD!”
i literally said “if trevor get snubbed and chelsea picks jimmy, i’m gonna be mad” and GIRL I WAS 😭😭😭
honestly same ... to a point bc after a while i was like ... shes not giving me good vibes so its for the best maybe?? also, i think we collectively fell in love with him, so i wasnt that upset about him not getting with chelsea in particular, i was mad he didnt find someone suitable
yeah maybe Trevor dodged a bullet. Why would she choose jimmy
I would die for a man like Trevor
@@stephaniek6705ya ya ya that’s very true too good point
@@ElianaRosalindagreed agreed i would’ve hoped that he found someone at least 😔 he was robbed from the experience a bit
i love when kennie announces "there's something in here" about a drink that we saw her make
I think the reason Chelsea chose who she chose is because she is insecure so getting chosen over someone as much of a baddie as Jessica was hitting for her. Unfortunate 😔
this!
Agreed
Yessss took the words out of my mouth
oh deffo, the constant doubt and searching for reassurance after they met face to face just solidified that she chose him to prove something to herself. its especially unfortunate though that she probably thinks she won the prize with jimmy because she beat out jessica, but once she sees trevor irl she is going to be sooooo disappointed she settled. jimmy is the last place trophy that she fought to win for no reason other than fomo 😭
Insecurity and emotional instability can also lead people to mistrust or feel anxiety over unconditional acceptance, which sucks! It can make people feel like they're always waiting for the other shoe to drop and things to go bad because the stability is unfamiliar, even when the shoe isn't there to drop.
Whereas the roller coaster of needing to 'fight' for acceptance can almost feel more secure and reassuring because it's something on field that you're fighting, rather than shadowboxing with a shape you can't even see (because the person is actually decent, but your brain has too many hardwired bad habits and hard'won' instincts after your previous experiences.)
anyone else think it's very weird that chelsea gave trevor a bracelet that said along the lines of "my heart is forever yours" but then said yes to jimmy right after?! i would never give someone that kind of gift if i wasn't in a committed relationship / 100% in love with someone...maybe it's just me though lol.
This might be an unpopular opinion, but I'm convinced that Chelsea chose Jimmy mainly because of Jessica. Chelsea is a deeply insecure person, and it felt good to her ego that she won over Jessica.
Heavy on the insecure
Felt the same way. And I think it's like that with jimmy too cause he saw how much Trevor was saying he wanted her and Jessica was putting all her eggs in his basket so he had no competition with her
FOCKING TREVVAAHHH? 😮
LMAO
I was hoping someone would reference that 😂
THIS HAS ME SCREAMING 😂😂😂😂
Another 1! 😆 🤣
PLSS HAHAHA
I feel like if any season needed a board of pictures with names a la Mike' Mic, this would be the one. You weren't kidding so many of them look alike.
mike's mic mentioned!!! let's go!!!
I love Mike's Mic
This makes me want Mikes mic to also recap lib like that would be funnn
Mic is a freaking icon bro😫🎀
@@MaejorArrayI read your comment and immediately did it lol
Clay talks a lot about how he isn't in therapy for a man who clearly needs to be in therapy.
@karinalumen9722honestly that's fair
I'm not gonna lie, I was rooting for Matthew at first because I assumed he was just awkward/introverted, and I can kind of relate to that. Even with the little questionnaire I was saying like "makes sense that he'd have a script, he probably has no idea how to make small talk".
So when episode two rolled around and Matthew and AD had that confrontation I was like "well there goes my favorite couple", and then AD went to Clay to confide in him and Clay reacted like toxic masculinity personified, I was like "I can't do this anymore, I'll just wait for Kennie's video".
Nobody on reddit seems to like jessica but I STAN HER. She could have handled some situations better (i.e. not wording that Jimmy would regret his choice because of her looks). but overall, I think people are turned off by a hot woman who's strong and confident and takes the lead in a lot of aspects.
Just when you think that Love Is Blind’s casting can’t get anymore messy, they manage to lower their standards below hell.
These types of shows don't have casting standards, they have typed of people who they look for who they think will make good drama
@devonmunn5728 This wasn't the case in the first season, which is truly upsetting. But in the 4th season, at least 3 couples got married and are still married. So some genuine people slip through somehow
i just know chelsea is GAGGED that she didn’t pick trevor he is so fineee
LMAOOOO Chelsea is probably not that upset, she can find similar Trevor lookalikes in Charlotte chileee.
@@Sandrinarhonda yeah but part of why trevor is so great is that he seems like an actually emotionally intelligent and kind person. not saying there aren't other sensitive beefcakes out there but they don't exactly grow on trees
@@sillyd0g agreed , I haven’t heard any update about Trevor LMAOOOO so he might be a Cole where he stays single pretty much .
@yarajennn Trevor dated Chelsea after the show idk if they’re still together but they ended up together.
@yarajennn yeahh I haven’t been watching this season too much cause last season I was very entertained LMAOOOO.
The school-girl giggling over Trevor is incredibly relatable 😅
I cant wait to see your reaction to the news about Trevor being in a relationship while LIB was filming 😭 TRUST NO MAN
FR I WAS FOOLDED
Waittt 😮whaaaaa
Oh come on!
55:48 I think he really started liking her most when she said she looks like Megan Fox and then when she didn’t he wasn’t into her anymore
I'm convinced at the moment that Amber is a plant because how can there be all that "he said the same stuff to me" but there is ZERO replay of any conversation they ever had? that makes NO sense especially from the POV of a reality show that wants to show drama. But I'm also cynical
I was definitely sitting there wondering why we didn't get to see that!
Exactly!!! Because the triangle last year with Izzy, Jonny and Stacy, they had HELLA footage back and forth with evidence of each convo but not a single snippet of Amber and Matt’s convo this season???? It doesn’t add up
They edited out for dramatic tension
@@bouncyshak where's the dramatic tension in just throwing random info in? it would've been way more dramatic to have flashbacks exposing matt and amber's convos once amber and AD got to talking. In the year of 2024 we should all know to never take reality shows at face value
i was wondering the same thing!
I also got a major ick from Clay, it was so strange that he seemed to know nothing about how a wedding or marriage actually is. And then his comments on AD having to be in shape at all times, massive ewwww. Hopefully AD pays attention to the red flags 🚩
Agree! I f*cking HATE all the "baby. Come here baby. You're my baby" talk. It's gross as hell. And the comment on having to stay in shape after having a baby is straight up disgusting.
I mean AD did say she paints her nails red to match the flags, and that she doesn’t think she deserves love. I just hope she can eventually see that she deserves better.
@@strudelh hey, sometimes the first step during the years in therapy is sufficient self-awareness for gallows humor 🥲
He's a red flag but AD is a flagbearer. If she likes it hunny I love it!
I felt so angry that I was taken in by Matthew cos initially I thought he was an a*s and then when I saw his interaction with AD I thought aww he's actually sweet he's just awkward and possible neurodivergent and then he just went completely off the rails and I was like Ah nice guys really don't exist 😢
Same! And I feel silly because I saw the red flags but I closed my eyes to it like she did. And then baam, first impressions was correct with him.
I definitely got autism from him, cuz…it runs in the family. xD But also. He is just a weird, weird dude. Maybe-autism aside.
Autism isn't a reason to excuse someone giving you bad vibes. People tried excising Uche's nonsense with neurodivergence too. Please
@@GopherCakeStuffwell, no, that’s not the point. Society as a whole has often *ascribed* ‘bad vibes’ to people who are neurodivergent, namely autistic people, without any real reason. As we learn, a lot of us make concerted efforts to notice our negative, knee-jerk reactions to atypical behaviour in people. There’s a difference between red flags and simple personal prejudice.
TLDR bad vibes =/= bad person or bad behaviour. Sometimes people are just different to you and your gut reaction is wrong. Matthew’s not bad because he’s socially strange, he’s bad because the things he thinks and the actions fuelled by those thoughts are shitty and unfair.
@Cas_Q I agree with you completely. I also think with awareness of mental health on the rise people are sometimes over zealous in trying to recognize signs in people that simply don't translate to everyone, especially nuerodivirgent people.
Kennie, you’re gonna BLOW YOUR TOP about what Clay says about his parents in episode 7. I cannot WAIT to see your reaction 😂😂😂😂
Jimmy looks like a Pixar dad lol
I could totally see him with 3 regrets running around him.
OMG YESSSSSS - he looks like the boy villain from the Incredibles grew up and became a republican
@@anarainbow5644bye why is this so funny 😭😭✊
He looks like an overgrown toddler 😂
Poor Trevor ☹️ He really looks like he would be a perfect man for Chelsea and treat her how she deserves especially since they can have silly banter about their dogs’ names and stuff. But she picked a man who didn’t really like her, just ran towards her because he couldn’t handle his first pick
Edit: NEVERMIND 💀💀💀 Trevor is trash too
Also he thought she lookes like Megan Fox. Dont forget the whole " she lied to me" episode😅
@@zc2731 its reminding me of that 🇺🇸 guy who thought his pick had too much makeup on and all of a sudden, he's not attracted to her anymore lol.
@@Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl cant recall such a guy, but thats terrible i guess🫢
Also i think Trevor is better of without Chelsea. I got really exhausted by watching her and Jimmy. Chelsea needs so much confirmation and Jimmy is not honest for my feeling. Im really like😖
@@Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl OH YEAH! The guy who was wearing the american flag socks in the pods... last season, I think?
There was a Tik Tok that concluded that she was seeking validation and wanted to beat Jessica a more traditional beauty, by winning the man they were both into.
We got three phenomenal recipients of rejection in a row, in my opinion. Jessica read Jimmy for filth and called him out on his bad behavior. Trevor was so graceful but also pointed out very plainly that Chelsea was picking the man who did not want her as badly, and got her to kinda admit that if Trevor had asked first SHE WOULD HAVE SAID YES? He was classy but had a clear awareness of the situation. And Sarah kinda had this energy of "hmmm, interesting" during the whole breakup and gave him NOTHING. I was living for her sassy ponytail head tilts. They were all great, well done to them all.
Edit: The new episodes come out and now I can't even enjoy this anymore 😭
I thought Jessica's reaction was a bit weird. Like calling him out for waiting to tell her was justified, but the whole "you'll regret not choosing me" thing gave me the vibes of being scripted or coming from someone much less confident than she seems to be.
@@bishielurfer I don't think it was weird at all. I think she knows she's hot and wanted to give him one final jab. He was playing her and she was like "you have no idea what your missing out on." Hardly anything "weird" or "scripted" about that. That's rather human.
@@bishielurfershe did not handle rejection well,which I get cause it’s rejection and it’s frustrating and sad, but her whole banter about him choking amongst other words was just yikes and cringey. Though Matthew’s was worse
@@Joy.W.he played her. If he had been honest, she would’ve probably had time to date more men. Her and Trevor would be so cute
@@imshariblades Oh I know that, I’m just talking about how she took the rejection when he finally made up his mind.
AD's lashes be pissing me off😂😂
True itboverwhelms her face. She would look much better without them.
Horrible 😅
Yes!!! She would be so much more beautiful if she cut them to half their length. Also, a nose stud instead of a nose ring would fit her better too.
Also her wig 😅
@@gazellehelene5380it’s the piercing itself, it’s in a horrible placement. I want her to get it redone so bad because nose rings are so pretty. Same thing happened to me, it healed and it just wasn’t good placement so I had it redone.
not matt manipulating her after she says you manipulated me
LMAOO
I have no doubt about Jessica's love for her child, but I don't think it's very responsible to sign up to get married to a stranger and bring that person into your child's life within a month.
I mean she wants another caretaker to help improve her daughters life and the normal option would be taking the time to date around and having to potentially hire a babysitter every single time and it could take months to years to find the right guy, so like her doing this very romanticized speed run of that makes sense to me. I would personally also have the same concerns as you if it were me but I can't fully blame her for giving this a try.
@@ronnievinsmokeInsanity 😅
Kennie: He’s so big I wonder if he’s big everywhere-
Kennie: Wha- there’s something in this drink.
Also Kennie: *Drinks more.*
His IG confirms it for me that he's big in all the right places...
TREVOR IS SO FINE! I DON'T WANNA FIGHT KENNIE FOR HIM!
Kenny, you should whatch love is blind Brasil, there's SO MUCH drama during and after the show
Season 2 was my FAVORITE
which season do i watch?
And Sweden. Besides the wonderful English audio, it’s a whole mess. Probably my favorite after US. Bonus - they’re not all cut and shuffled full of fillers and veneers. It was lovely to watch messy folks with jiggly bits and jacked up teefs. 😂😂
@@hollywont9447 As someone from Sweden who uses Kennie's recaps to enjoy the condensed form of Love Is Blind, I think I need to hear more about our local version now. Swedish reality TV featuring less dolled up / polished-looking people than the US is not thatb ig a deal to me, but people who are even messier than the people in these shows? THAT, I need to know more about.
@@hollywont9447 you are so right! I completely slept on Love is Blind Sweden because honestly I thought it was going to be a snooze-fest but…DAYUM!!! Wowza, I almost fell off my chair, especially during the Reunion, talking about red flags and „blink twice“ if you need help girl 😮 Kenny, PLEASE check out LIB Sweden, you would be speechless. I will say only one word : f**king Sergio. Ok, two words.
Not "you are going to need your Epipen..." I'm CRYING 😂
Clay being weirdly obsessed with the engagement ring is really confusing to me. Some mentions on how much it suits her seem appropriate but he looks at the ring more often than at her face. And I found him saying "I put that on you" over and over again super icky.
The thing is, Chelsea never once said she looks like Megan Fox. Not once. She said that people tell her that but she doesnt see it at all and she thinks it's just because she has dark hair and light eyes.
I thought when I first saw her she reminded me if Megan Fox a little bit....and I agree with your comment.
True but I don't believe she did not know what she was doing. It's like climbing in shark invested water on your period.
He doesn't like her, what do you expect 😂😂
The thing is you don't mention how you may or may not look like in love is BLIND, she fucked up real bad cause megan fox is one of the best looking actresses in Hollywood... it's a super high expectation and anything different than her was going to be a huge disappointment to anyone (even though she's pretty and I don't think she deserves the excessive amount of cyber bullying she's receiving).
She slickly implied it, trying to gauge his reaction. And once he had that image, he made his choice. It shouldn't have been mentioned at all if Love is indeed Blind.
The dead dad comment was actually insane 😭
Tbh she joked about it first and said something along the lines “so he’s not thinking much” implying he’s dead. Immediately after we hear him referring to her dad as a roadblock so it could very well be a continuation of the joke. I still very much hate Matt tho lol
@@EstframaI had an especially visceral reaction to it because I’m someone who also copes with the death of their father through humor. I’d be so turned off if someone said that to me. I don’t doubt he was continuing it. Naturally, people want to continue the banter in that situation to keep the conversation light. However, his mind immediately going to “roadblock” was.. a choice. Like, edgy humor but he forgot he was talking about a real person. 🥴
@@davinalee9222 I lost my dad 13 years ago and I laughed at both their comments because I got it as a continuation of the joke. If you didn’t that’s fine, to each their own
Not you skipping Chelsea as a notable woman when she arguably had the most screen time. Her insecurities were out of hand before this video, Kennie!
Chelsea was either
A. Crying or
B. Saying she wanted to throw up, every time she’s shown (imagine what got edited out?!). What an emotional train wreck. IMHO, her stomach’s in knots because Megan Fox over here knows she’s embellishing and manipulating. Careful what you wish for, girl. You may just get it, and end up looking like a liar to a man who’s now second-guessing his choice.
She was manipulative in the pods too. She showed a confident side behind the screen but her insecurity about her looks comes out as soon as she’s seen by Jimmy.
Why did the thing about nightly couple check-ins bring tears to my eyes?? IT'S SO SWEET WTF
"He gives 'would punch a wall' energy."
Thank you! I think he gives "HAS punched a wall and would fuckin do it again" energy
The way kennie speaks about women when she's COMPLIMENTING them Is one of the top reasons why I like her because you can feel all that hype.
This show just makes me think 9 out of every 10 couples are problematic
i literally made a comment like this about how sad it is that so many individuals have issues and then
bring them into relationship and form unhealthy connections. this show is so much proof of that bc every season is the same scenarios.
Clay is giving “Teach me how to love” Musiq Soulchild energy sand AD is loving it 😅
I never realized how toxic that song is until now 😂😂😂
I think Chelsea did a terrible job articulating her feelings about why she was upset to her partner which is odd because she could explain exactly why she was upset to the other girls. With that said, when Jimmy saw AD he immediately was like "that woman is STACKED" and when Chelsea asked Jimmy what was the first thing he noticed about her he said she had nice teeth 🥴
Everyone knows what's the first thing he noticed 😂😂
@@saisahithi805boobs? Genuinely confused
@@cuntstolemyusernames Her chin! It’s kind of hard to miss
Literally!! The communication there is so frustrating. But I can understand if she doesn’t feel validated by him then it’s not really a safe space and he kept interrupting her!!
The thing that scares me the most about Matthew is that there was this strange emphasis and desire on trying to get both women to leave the experiment with him…Pair that with his seemingly hyper awareness of being perceived on camera by America, it makes me wonder…if he’s manipulative in the pods - and that’s him being CAREFUL of how he’s coming across - what is he planning on pulling to get these women to STAY outside of filming??? Yikes.
The way Jimmy was going around talking to the other girls (when they first met up on the honeymooon) honestly felt like he was fishing to see how their relationships were going, just so he knew if they'd ever be interested in him. Like, it just felt like he was fishing to see if any of them would be down to cheat.
Maybe I'm off base, but my spouse and I both felt the same
Kennie I've been saying this for years! I would 100% do a blind/pod dating experience but i have no desire to be on a reality tv show.
Missing Chelsea in the intro is so hilarious to me & really proves the point about all the women looking the same this season 🤣
Jimmy to me reads as the type of guy that doesn't want his wife to be more experienced than him. He doesn't want her to have kids, or have been married before, or even previously engaged. Likely he'd rather they not have had a lot of partners either...
Idk he just gives me major ick because he tries so hard to say the "right things" so he's not seen as an asshole, but like you can tell he's actually shallow by looking at his face. The man may be saying the right things but his facial expressions don't match the words. He's always got this dumb blank look, I can SEE the rusty cogs of his brain turning as he tries to figure out what to say.
And the audacity of being so focused on looks when his own resemble a THUMB is WILD! He could play a live action rendition of human Bender from Futurama.
Lmao Bender is better looking
Screaming why’d you read him to filth and why do I 1000% agree
Lord have mercy! Someone needs to stop you girly pop !! That last paragraph was way too funny 😭🤣
Are you related to Jessica? coz she read him for filth too😂😂😂
the thumb resembling sent me hahahahahaa
You saying that Matthew gives you ‘Family Annihilator’ vibes finally made me realize who he reminded me of. John List. A Family Annihilator. He looks like him 💀. Thanks Kennie, it was bugging me 😂
Omg yes!!!!! I was thinking hard on this too but he does look like him creepy!!
Good to know we can all see right through Clay because whew, that's an express lane to stress and sadness and AD knows it even though she's determined to get hurt lol
i swear netflix puts “toxic, mommy issues, manipulative” in their description for the casting of men in this show
i can't even lie Mathew's "uhhh i dunno" to being asked how are you was too relatable 😂
To be completely honest i was initially attracted to matt, and then i remembered this isnt a YN wattpad novel
I would absolutely read a fic with Matt as an OC love interest in my favorite fandom but he also gives family annihilator vibes so I'd be kinda stressed until he inevitably loses to the other MC and possibly has a bad end lol.
I instantly thought Matt would be great in a romance novel but not in real life😂
I was attracted until he asked a question, and then the first girl asked him one back and he was like “no thanks”. Immediate ick. Like I was assuming he was just nervous, so he prepared, but he’s a weirdo.
@@kingriahAND he left in the middle of anothers answer bc she was talking too much??
same im rly into socially awkward ppl bc same and i just thought that was what was up w him 😂
When AD ended things with Matthew, the weird speech he gave seemed to be him trying to make it seem like HE was the one who ended it.
the way Jimmy keeps a smile on his face to avoid showing he's not into Chelsea... so awkward
Worried that some of Matthew's "red flags" (social isolation, scripted conversation) are signs of neurodivergence and maybe not *always* him trying to be manipulative or creepy.
Edit: idk I just worry as an autistic person that I sometimes seem "creepy" bc I don't always know how to talk to people. That of course doesn't excuse how Matthew lied to AD, it's just important to note that his bad actions aren't related to him being a "weirdo."
I was thinking the same thing
I had this thought when he said he was planning on asking the questions and not having to answer them
I work in that field and immediately caught that
Thought the exact same thing
idk man i’ve never met neurodivergent ppl that are creepy like that
I’ve been looking for this…😂
As soon as I found out another season dropped I’m like “I’m not watching that but I hope Kennie is”
“Pragmatic racism” lmaoooooo😂😂😂
For anyone curious about POLITICS -- Natalie and Deepti have said that they always discuss it in the pods but is usually never shown -- seasons 2 and 4 were almost all liberal (minus Shayna) while seasons 1, 3 and 5 were half and half
i only got addicted to the show because of you so please you can't stop recapping the series
Genuinely confused as to why anyone thinks it's appropriate for any parent to be on this show, man or woman. Say she goes all the way to the end and gets married. Is she then gonna move her kid in with some random man she just met 6 weeks ago? Parents need to be extremely careful when in the dating pool and she's doing the OPPOSITE.
I was wondering what bothered me about this, thank you! How tf you bringing home a whole ass random man to your DAUGHTER.
I agree strongly with this
It’s terribly inappropriate for a parent to go on this show
Agreeddd
True. And she screamed desperation.
Based on the last seasons I think they’ll be bringing back the “failed matches” for extra tension soon…Very curious if we’ll see Mathew, Trevor, etc. and everyone’s reaction 👀
oh we will be, if you watched the previews at the end of ep6!
Of course they will. More drama.
my week's been rough this shit's just in time, nothing like the mess of other ppl to make me happy
Same 😂 hang in there ❤❤
lmao amen
what makes me feel a lil better when life gets crazy is reading 'aita' posts, it calms me seeing strangers have more insanity lol
kendall is just like my comfort person so much, like she’s hilarious but also i can listen to her no matter what and be all comfy, so glad she makes content :)
Not the cursing in korean 😂 thats when you know you annoyed, that other languages start popping out.
Bruh, the korean cursing coming out of kennie had me like 🤣👀
Chelsea did not do what she did to play it off as a joke. If thats what she wanted, she wouldve kept it between them. She felt embarrassed and tried to embarrass not only jimmy but AD as well. I feel like Jimmy felt he had to go to AD bc it was embarrassing for him and he knew he was wrong and outted. AD probably knew he was embarrassed and was trying to make it okay for him. Ive done that before as well. Chelsea clearly put his and her ass on the spot. SHES not a girls girl. Personally i would have made us ALL uncomfortable. "Why are you commenting on my butt?" "Why is this funny, i dont get it?"
that is what I thought too!!!!!
Clay shouldve said something as well because that was uncomfortable to watch.. for someone so insecure, he mightve liked it sadly
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank you! Calling someone out is so embarrassing for the girl. Imagine ya man is staring at a woman in the store and a girl yells hey my man likes your ass. Girl wut
@kalia9517 yeah and also, if I was Jimmy I would've broken up w her right then and there. He clearly was trying to tell his partner only and she turned around and humiliated him. If AD acted like he was a creep, it would've been even worse😂
Thank you!!! I left a comment saying the same thing! The whole interaction was so uncomfortable. Leave AD tf alone and deal with your clown of a fiance in private
Trevor is the himboest of himbos and I'm in love.
Did you see the new article about Trevor having a girlfriend when he went on the show and that he told his girlfriend just to wait for him just so that he could do the show real quick so he had no real intentions of being with anybody on the show
Matthew is literally the definition of Finance bro in a dating show
He gives me listen to Andrew Tate vibes
Kennie this hair is literally so beautiful 😍