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THESE 6 Behaviors Will Scare A GOOD Man Away
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- Опубліковано 16 сер 2023
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THESE 6 Behaviors Will Scare MEN Off..,.I want you to understand men better and in this relationship advice video, I will let you know how men think as well as explain to you what men want. When you understand men you will not scare off good men and in this way, you will increase your chances of dating good men and having healthy relationships.
You may be a good woman and you may unknowingly scare good men away with your behaviors. I don't want you to continue engaging in these behaviors that scare men off, I want you to embrace this dating advice so that you can enjoy dating and have healthy relationships.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this love advice helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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Show that you can coach your staff, particularly Mr. Do-vallee, and I will consider your coaching program. If you are unable to Lead and coach your people, who represent you and your business why would I listen to anything you have to say? When your house is not in order, can you really coach others?
I am waiting for an answer about your marriage 💑
Both should be a gift to each other!
Most definitely!
Yes 🎉🎉🎉
AMEN!❤
I agree.
I get that. Need to be a gift to self first and I’m not talking about selfishness.
I like how you brought up insecurities coming out from your partner. My last partner put us in a few shady situations that she couldn’t explain her way out of but I still gave her a chance and down the line, she would say I have trust issues and insecurities. I give everyone trust but when you do shady things, I’m definitely going to lose trust in you. Fellas, don’t let these women call you insecure because you question their shady actions. That’s called gaslighting. A partner who truly loves you and is trustworthy will never even be able to put you in shady situations because they will be open about everything up front
Many ask me why I speak this way!
Let me say simply, the relationships that I’ve been in it turned out that I was truly in it alone, once I realized that I took my lumps and am still able to love another once he comes along! And yes respect has to be in the lead as well as honesty!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
*need to get the hell on anyway 😅 this statement sent me 😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Don't play hard to get, be hard to get!!! Men don't appreciate women that are easy and they don't have to work hard to get or earn. You also must come to realization that every man that you meet or encounter is not yours for the taken. A real woman won't stress herself out trying to figure out how to keep a man in her life and trying to get him to stay. A man will only stay if he wants to be kept by you. He has to want to be kept!!! If he wants you, best believe not even the slightest flaw will keep him away from you. There is a lot of things you do that can make men lose interest in you such as:
1. Living a promiscuous life style
2. Being unfaithful
3. Lying
4. Nagging
5. Harboring secrets
6. Stealing from him
7. Verbally abusive
8. Mentally abusive
9. Physically abusive
10. Financially irresponsible
11. Poor hygiene
12. Poor housekeeping habits
13. Mistreating his children
14. Refusing to cook for him
15. Belittling him about his lovemaking
16. Poor communication
17. Speaking ill of his family members
18. Being flirtatious with other men
19. Being disrespectful and loud
20. Rudeness towards him and others
21. Entertaining other men in his presence.
The list goes on and on!!!💯
I love that you said that losing yourself is worse that losing this man! To be grounded in our love for yourselves and know that God is our ultimate strength and source of wholeness, love, peace, purpose!! Knowing God and ourselves is true wholeness. Thank you for you videos.
Healing is needed for the woman to be secure enough to be her authentic self and stop playing games,,, etc.
Being Difficult and uncoperative is the result of not sharing the same values, ideology, and expectations. Its so important from the beginning to learn values, ideology , and expections.
For example if a man has an EXPECTATION that a woman should spend less money and be frugal while the woman has the expectation that they should live glamoursly .
So the woman overspends and expects him to go the same. The woman likes department stores while he prefers Walmart.
This sets up a difficult and uncoperative situation because the values, ideology and expectations aren't aligned.
Theres so much peace when people have SIMILAR MINDSETS, SIMILAR OUTLOOKS.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Two can’t walk together for long if not in true agreement! I taught my sons that they have feelings and it’s a good way to be, I believe it helps bring about better relationships or just simply loving one self’
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Your videos are getting even better, Stephan! Fantastic. I wanted to click on the "like" several times whilst watching this. Thanks again.
I agree with you, both people are equally important and pouring into each other. It's important to not assume the guy or gal is doing something untoward.....give someone a chance to be great. 🙏😊 🙏
"My words are my Trumpet * For a woman lossing yourself in a relationship is the worst thing you can ever do to yourself ..And out there ..There are good Men ..our Sons raised right, our Father's that Raised us right, Our Brother, Uncles , Grandfathers..this are all Godd Men ..We only have to choose well when it comes to a relationship..And Failure to not choose well does not mean you hit the dead end it means God is preparing you for the up rising ..That good quality Man that will show you how to love ..Failure is one step ahead to Success...Happy Fathers Day to all those Men that were truely created out of Gods image and the practice it too#thinkingoutaloud
Hi Stephan, i enjoy listening to you, your topics are very interested and you really explain well .
Thank you Stephan for always sharing life changing contents. God bless you 🙏🏽
All Facts!!!
I Co-Sign Everything you said here bro.
Great advice. You're the best! Thank you for your channel.
I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
You give amazing advice. Thank you 🙏🏾
My pleasure ❤️
A princess needs a prince. A king can turn a princess into a Queen. Both are equally valuable.
You put me in my place with this video. Thank you.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Most problems really come from lack of knowledge and loving self
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
TRUTH IS WORKING IT TOGETHER IS BETTER THAN A 1 SIDED RELATIONSHIP. NO EGO TRIPS. JUST HAPPINESS AND PEACE 💙❤🙏🙏😊😊
Also good women want and deserve PEACE. I think that get a good partner is giving through the same issues in advises for men and women, only with few little differences. Thanks for the video ✨
My pleasure ❤️
Lost a man who was engaging in shady behaviour and hadn't let his ex go, feared vulnerability/intimacy with me. My insecurity came from his withdrawn and distwnt behaviour when he expressed his comparison doubts with his ex.
❤straight up, thank u 😊
im def the difficult one ... vulnerability is hard for me but i'm working on it. I like to feel like I have control
When you find out you’re trying to control everything it will only lead you out of control, relax love you and take it slow ❤️
The minute I feel insecure from the things he do, I will address it. I can not and will not deal with secrets. I will never lose my self and I don't want him to either. Everytime I think about the things you talk about, my spirit always tell me I won't have to deal with any of it. God will not send you the one he has for you with any of that negativity. We will be one. Excellent video for those who need it. Great advice. Listening and evaluating myself, I'm so good and will have a wonderful relationship if he reciprocate. God created the man to lead. Its in his DNA. God created us as his helpmate. It's not our place to lead under God. Thank you again for confirming my heart is in the right place. God is good.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks You are always welcome!! Thank you for allowing God to use you. You could go above or below the line, but you choose to coach and encourage above the line in his image. May the Lord bless and protect you always.❤️
WOW! I just had you on my mind.❤
❤ 🙂
Great video
Hey this was good. I agree men should lead. When you have one who is passive aggressive and doesn't know how or has dropped the ball and left you in a bad situation, he hasn't earned that role
I’m a firm believer when you know what you truly desire you want have time for bull Schitt!!
You're absolutely right!
❤ Hi Stephen Speaks 😃 God bless you always and have a great day ❤
❤️ 🙂 Thank you and may you have a good day as well 🙏
Yeah you’re my online therapist now🤣🤣🤣🤷🏾♀️I didn’t realize I was doing most of these until you said it. Mr. Speaks you better speak 😊I was doing these things thinking I was weeding out the bad ones. Whole time I was probably getting rid of a good man😮I understand now and learning from a man standpoint
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Thank You!!! I try to tell my homegirls...but either they not believing me or don't care and wanna keep doing the same crap, so I say OK. Np. On you ma. Whatever.
Important to get your own therapist, tho, to interface with
All facts
💯 yes!
Tony Robbins always repeats:
Trade your expectations for appreciation!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Certain things should be expected baseline
I agree 💯%
Until we women start to Love our self . It will always be hard to have a great relationship.
❤ You have to be in a relationship with Jesus in order to Love yourself. Be Careful how you hear and relate to what people tell you❤😊😮
@@michelleward1173 My comments were not based on what someone said. It is a true thing that we women do not know how to Love our self. We always put others first.
@@marvamarshall880 You have to have Jesus first before you can love yourself.
@@michelleward1173 That’s True
Stephan, your video is right timing. A guy I have been dating for a year told me he's gonna get pissed off soon. This is because i keep asking him why he cannot commit. He said he ain't financially ready but he keeps calling/texting me. I am so confused.
Here's what to do when a man sends mixed signals 👉 ua-cam.com/video/q1YQKbtb1xA/v-deo.html
You’re so right on about every point! I think it also
Depends on who you are with. Some are difficult or being out the difficult in you. Others you just get along so easily. The fellow
I was seeing for 6 months had so so many red flags but we
Got along so so great. But he had last
Issues of character that I couldn’t get over 1. He cheated on his spouse 2. He had a last addiction to porn 3. He was selfish in many ways 4. He constantly allowed others to interrupt our plans, our phone calls, etc 5. He was all about his plans and was shallow in the way he got to know me. I finally believed that he was just infatuated with me. It was all about physical
Attraction not the soul of me!! So I let him go!!
Addiction is big red flag
Definitely good you let him go😂😂
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
He sounds like a giant ball of red flags lol
Thank you for listing all that out, I had similar experience, so I do let him go. Best decision ever.
5:29 🤣🤣🤣Exactly! 💞
If you cannot act in a manner that is genuine and respectful (the way you want to be treated as you treat others in the same way--decency, etc.), then you cannot expect a positive response from a good healthy man. You need to know that good men have run out of patience and there are many appealing and inviting options abroad. Keyword: manner (attitudes and behaviors).
Interesting video that I can’t disagree with.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Both woman and a man are the blessing. Nobody should be better than the other😂😂
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Women are more of a blessing to men. They live longer & happier thanks to us, we don't with them.
Please make that video of why a man must lead and share it with men. Also, create one for single mom raising boys. We are creating those men who do not have the skills to lead.
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
Not when a man hurt your over and over. Forgive them and move on.
I have tried to join, but never get the right access 😢
I'm guilty of being one that didn't think some men didn't have feelings. 😂😂😂
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I like this channel bc he is like the only 1 who brings God into it, & not in a cheesy way but in a real way. I feel like he was put on the world & led by God for this purpose. ❤
I also listen to RC Blake. He makes a lot of good content for women as well
I’ve gotten to the point chalk it up to experience and keep it moving let past stay where it is! I can’t eat it!
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It's also important to pay attention if one is continually having the same experiences
Sometimes I think I’m a Good man, there’s things I do that needs to be better
I can't stand people who are not grateful for others who do for them. Everyone should be grateful for what others do for you. Being humble and thankful for what is done for me. Please listen to him and if you can't afford a therapist , then read his book , " Love after heartbreak". Very good book. I highly recommend this read. I will gladly submit to the man who can lead the way they are supposed to. I don't understand why a woman would have an issue with the man leading.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Your so right on so many things.
Can you please do a video (My apologies if you have already) on what constitutes a “good” or “quality” man? A lot of women really don’t know this.
adding that to my list now
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I’m looking forward to it.
I only recent came across your channel and I am thoroughly enjoying your insight and advise. I’ve been binge watching your videos and I’m definitely impressed with your honesty.
this is really scary that a lot of women don't know what a good man is.
@@dodji582 I think it’s sad, and not in a bad or negative way. I couldn’t imagine going through life and never encountering an authentic, God fearing man.
Recently broke up with my girlfriend because of her entitlement. I was ok with paying the rent and bills. What she expected was pay for her lifestyle with expensive dinners and vacations with showing little gratitude. She said she expects this from her man.
I am a 25male Human and your advices are too realy helpfull vor mee
Thanks for all of your lifetime
AMEN
❤ 🙏
I'm NOT "playing" GAMES!!!
IM SINGLE, CELIBATE & LOOKING FOR
a true Godly Man
THAT
understands
GOD'S STANDARDS
&
EXPECTATIONS
for a truly
KINGDOM MARRIAGE!!!🤔🤔🤔
Hello Stephan: Thank you, for your conversation. The Good Man, in a relationship should be the leader. From a Biblical point; when God created the Woman, it was for Eve to be the helpmate to Adam. ( I hate to see both Men or Women treat their partner. In a disrespectful manner; especially in public.)
timestamps pleasse
More than just men it confuses thee universe when we output dissonant unsettled action on what we want + we get what we want if we believe innit.
I am very insecure and don't trust. Some experts say it is because my parents got divorced when I was a one year old. But I think it is due to seeing my mom, friends, sisters, and myself getting cheated on. Also growing up I was friends with a group of guys from school and they all joked about the girls they were cheating on and how stupid and gullible girls are. Also, recently, a boyfriend swearing up and down he wasn't cheating when that very day he was with another woman and had been for months. He swore he would never do that again seeing as how upset I was. That lasted 2 weeks before he started again.
Yup they make it feel impossible
@@spiritualmeli5014 They really do. I just can't trust any of them.
Those are valid reasons. Use that knowledge to vet your prospects because too many are grimy
I’m tired of waiting for a good man, both men and women need to grow up and BOTH need to stop with the games.
there are so many good men out there. its just that they are invisible to you.
@@dodji582 no, I just stopped looking now. Maybe they are out there but at this point I don’t care anymore. Because the men that were out there were not it.
That entitlement attitude is quite bad. They set expectations and that is what leads to huge disappointment amd unhappiness in the end. I make it a priority to ask what they expect in me to do.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Men and women are alike emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. The physical manner is biological but the physical NEED is ONLY DIFFERENT because of societal constructs. Looking from God's perspective we are ALL made in his image. Women was not made in man's image. We aren't made For men but made to work with him. And vice-versa.
Days daily
I understand this woman! But I decided not to concentrate on another’s bull Schitt and perception
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
this video especially drives this point home…
would love you to create videos where you replace “men” & “women” with “people”.
men vs women is so played out & while there are unique characteristics about both sexes & everyone in between or beyond, most of the topics & points made are basic humanity, not one sex vs the other.
Great suggestion, I will add this to my list to get it done!
Men want you to bow down to them too, and obey. Plus serve them, can you explain that!!
Those men are the ones that end up alone, you don’t have to stay with them. Just like there are women like that as well. We cannot change other people, we can only change ourselves.
I like this advice but it needs to be tailored towards the stages of a relationship. Men deep inside want to feel like their earned our affections because of their competitive nature. so early on, women do need to carry themselves as the prize if you will, so men can in turn see her value and respect her. Not carrying herself as the prize will make the guy feel like he’s got you in the bag too early on and his interest will wane due to lack of a challenge.
Jesus, please help me..
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I need to know what happened with your marriage. Was you cheating or not giving her your full attention.
Two wrongs don’t make a right!
Most definitely!
Stephan please encourage Do-Vale to do the right thing and handle the business professionally. His behaviour is not in line with what you represent, or what you say. He needs to be honest. To keep his word. And to get the photos out to the volunteers, as he promised to do 3 months ago. His action reflect badly on you and your business, because he is supposedly representing YOU! Let's get this done...thank you.
The biggest thing to scare a good man off today is social media usage. If she is posting provocative thirst trap material and gets hundreds of likes by mostly dudes, she will constantly be seeking other men’s attention. And it never stops
I love scary dude off fr don’t waste my time
Bro, you have millions of subscribers, please get a good microphone to record your videos. Invest in Yo Self!
TL;DR version...
1) Playing games
2) Being entitled
3) Being selfish
4) Being too insecure
5) A bad attitude
6) Being too difficult
Thank you 🙌🏾
Good men still exist?
Lol I am talking middle age and old
He is already fake
Stephan tell women the truth. Multiple psychological studies asking Americans to rate their happiness level have found married men are the happiest, then single women, then married women and single men are the least happy. If u want to be happy women stay single. Marriage benefits men not women. Men do not really want a wife. They want a second income, a maid, a nanny and a social director. Stay single women. U will be happier.
Link the studies please
Feminist studies hahaha
@@dodji582 No. Studies done by major psycologist organizations not feminists. Ha!Ha! And there is something called scientific method which was followed in these cases. Maybe learn something about science before making ignorant statements again. In the meantime I am a 70 year old financially well off widow dating 26 year olds while you chase after 3 times divorced loser middle aged men. Ha Ha
For real i completely disagree with the lies of women not being happy married. Just gotta figure out why you're upset to begin with. Plus women are naturally nurturing unless something happened to them... i know how God designed us to work together... praying we find the Truth, be free from the lies of the devil. Men and women working together(unified in Christ) is the the most beautiful and fearful thing to the devil. God created us in His image we. We have an inheritance. He are bought by God Himself. Soo yeah I am soo glad i see clearly now.
Great advice as per usual I always learn so much from your videos 🫶.
Glad to hear that don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
so when can we expect that ‘let the man lead’ video? you made us curious in a couple of videos now. but first, thanks for giving out your advice. i’ve learned a lot from you 🩵
Soon. Ensure you are subscribed and have clicked on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video. I will add it to my list to get it done!