When your crush is more introverted than you (ft. Charlotte Dobre)
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- Опубліковано 20 сер 2024
- When you are forced to be the extrovert with your crush, with @CharlotteDobre
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If you want more hilarious content, head to Charlotte's channel here: ua-cam.com/channels/wc_RHwAPPaEh-jtwClpVrg.html
And watch the classic "When someone is more introverted than you" sketch here! ua-cam.com/video/nAhaYN-cPF0/v-deo.html
Great Job FJ!! 😍
Frank, I love seeing new faces on your channel! Your acting skills are getting better and I love seeing you interact with other people! I cannot wait to see more of your content! If you do more collabs, maybe you should create like a UA-cam original series with an overarching plot. You should call it, "Everyone Hates Timmy!" LOL
Let me know what you think, I'm a part-time video editor and amateur screenwriter hahaha!
Also, is Kevin ENFP? It explains why you two get along so well! (I'm ENFP myself LOL)
You look like an interesting person
Me?
😂😂😂
I'd love to see you, two, do a sketch with your British accents...or your southern ones.😃
Btw, Frank, how often have you walked into those pendulum lamps?🤕
First girl I ever notice come out besides the other one we shall not name. Good luck In .... real vida if not just friends. :-) And FIX your hair. STOP making NERDS appear FUGLY. Think... Keira Knightley' Guy in Pride & Prejudice.
First rule of introverts: There is always someone who is more introverted than you.
I honestly can't imagine someone more introverted than myself. Although I don't meet people, so I don't have a point of reference
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When this happens to me I think wooow so this is what other people feel when try to talk to me. Now I get why nobody likes me.
@@michaelmechex You probably won't meet them. If they don't use any forms of media or live off the grid.
Are you sure about that, jk there definately is but they never will tell you upon meeting that they are nervous and an introvert so you just kindof assume they are all mysterious until you meet
AW FRANK IT TURNED OUT SO GOOD!! Thank you for having me ❤
you are both so funny!!
You were hilarious, Charlotte. I hope that we get to see more of you in future videos!
Dude! He tried so hard! Now he has to be single forever! 😂🤣😂😁😮😳😭
I hope to see more colabs from the two of you...this was hilariously perfect 🤣🤣🤣👍
I hope you got paid really well for this. You had to carry that whole conversation! 😁👍
Wow, Frank has really outdone himself, he's managed to turn his other character into a woman! Major Kudos! ❤️
It's probably an AI morph that only looks that way to his avid fans. Maybe new visitors see it as Frank.🤔
Our man's doing unprecedented stuff 🤣🤣
Insane technology
Tapped into his third eye
Yeaaa
He did not only change his gender but the acting skills dropped according to that too
Frank is so good at acting awkward
He definitely has some deep experiences of it bc he wouldn't be able to portray it this good😅
He has some highly sensitivity superpower, which might explains why 🤪
I don't think he's acting, I think being an introvert is a talent now 😂😂😂
Socially awkward
"I thought you looked like an interesting person."
"Me?"
He almost got a heartattack 😂
Frank ur expression was superb, u did a great job👏🙌
😂
Have been there multiple times in my life. Too shy to approach the guy I like, but he's too shy too. Sometimes I've even heard from others that the guy liked me, but both of us were too shy to do anything about it. Then when I got the nerve to approach the guy, he'd freak and run. Maybe not that fast, but still too scared to act beyond a simple conversation.
It's like two magnets recognizing themselves in each other except they are of the same polarity which causes them to avoid each other.
I was laughing at his wide eyes
this reminded me of a situation I had at one lecture. there were a few girls there except for me, and the lector asked ‘young beautiful lady, what do you think?’ looking either at me, or at someone behind me (I forgot my glasses so wasn’t sure) and asked exactly with the same face expression’ME?’. the whole audience burst into laughter. omg how embarrassing it was
Plot twist: introverts are terrible actors. Their reactions are genuine.
This was me and my long-term partner for the first eight months we knew each other (working at the same place). After dozens of awkward conversations, he awkwardly asked me to hang out sometime, and I awkwardly said yes, and we’ve been inseparable ever since. There is hope, fellow introverts!
Awkward for the win!
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Woww… I am not really sure for me though.. it’s just I still don’t get it the way how man and woman interacts to each other. Especially when both of them are introverts. I tried to be more active in conversation but it seems it’s too over, while he acts almost similarly like Frank do..
So, it can relates that “I’ve tried so hard, but I think I’m doomed to be single forever.”
So you are telling me there is still hope I won t die alone let s gooo (ISTJ)
That sounds a lot like my current crush situation. How did he ask you out? Did he have a specific plan, or did he just say "do you wanna hang out some time?" I want to ask her if she wants to grab something to eat together on our lunch break. Is that o8nd of lame? Would it be better just to ask her to hang out after work? I wish I had someone I could talk to about this, and bounce ideas off of, but you know... I'm an introvert... and I have... no... friends...
Literally the same happened when I approached my crush for the first time. Both of us stood together for 3 minutes looking everywhere but never in the eyes as I tried to channel my extroverted side just to end up asking about the weather when we were in a closed stadium with zero view of the sky. I almost passed out of embarassment when he smiled.
Omg same. I just said about the weather awkwardly because I didn't know what else to speak
Same too! 😂
Lmfao
Here's how my wit responds when people talk to me:
I saw a guy at a Halloween party. He says hi, and as I stand there awkwardly gulping air, he looks around and says casually, "Nice house." I say "Thanks!" and then remember "...It isn't mine." Annnnnd facepalm.
We dated for 2 1/2 years. Turned out he was an INTP and completely understood.
[edit to add, it was for additional credit for a college class, otherwise neither of us would have been there.]
@@nlm6183 A college class made a party mandatory? that's new...
That was really funny! The 'let's be awkward, alone, but together.' That ending. " I guess I'm doomed to be single forever." Friend: "Yeah." 😂💜 You two did a great job! I'm going to have to watch her some more. 🙌
BUT why did he run? I’m straight but damn the girl was fine.
@@avril.227 Poor guy is just too introverted. Lol.
When she said “lets be alone, but with someone else who understands”, they way he looked at her and was clearly thinking… I thought, he must be thinking how perfect they would be for each other. I was so excited for this potential match made in heaven! …but then he ran away. 🥺 I was really rooting for them to end up together.
I would have flee too, I'm not ready for all this yet I still think "I'm single"
I love how Frank can act so extroverted whilst in female mode! Your wig game is spot on!
I love Charlotte, she should definitely feature on this channel more often. I too also stand in the corner, refreshing the weather app whenever my pal tries to drag me out to public events!
So you don't do online window shopping? UA-cam? You know that a lot of videos have subtitles and transcripts, now, so you don't need the sound on? There are a lot more interesting things to do than refresh the weather app. 🤦♀️
My friend brought me to a school dance and I was calling my mom to pick me up after 10 minutes rippp
You could check the weather where your online friends live too. Then message them and have a conversation online because the in person thing is too much.
@@edennis8578 for me watching youtube or shopping in public is awk because people ask you what you're watching / buying, and i'd much rather have a normal conversation than be asked about my preferences. same w reading. i find the weather app to be a not-so-awkward choice of thing to look at. if i'm at a public event, whether what i do is Interesting is honestly pretty insignificant to me, all my energy is spent on avoiding social interactions or trying to leave !- !
Frank, it would be cool if you had Nathan Glass on as well (INTP too lazy to look at both channels separately)
Sparks sort of did fly...
Sparks from kickstarting the fight or flight response 😫
This was adorable funny and very relatable when trying to channel your extrovert side lol
Also, Congratulations hitting 1Msubscribers, Frank!
Your videos and creativity have been a blast to watch, you and your friends keep being awesome!
How did you get here 11 hours ago?!
11 hours ago?
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Frank, you captured my whole personality in a nutshell 😂 "let's just stand here awkwardly" is exactly what I do 😂
Lebron is the goat
That end 😂😂😂 "Im trying so hard but Im doomed to be single forever!"
I clicked real quick on this one lmao. This is soo relatable. I am an INTJ,not the most outgoing person and my crush is an INFJ who is 2x introverted than me. I don't really approach people but I thought in order to know about him more I gotta initiate a conversation even though it's something I wouldn't do otherwise. I tried to be a bit extroverted for him and honestly I would never do that again. It's mentally draining, plus things will probably not work out since both of us have personality types that won't put too much of their energy into the other..
I went through the same thing. I’m also an INTJ, and my crush was 2x more mundane than I am. I barely got out of it with the last bit of my sanity. Always initiating conversation, saying things I would never say-disgusting. So proud of myself for getting the helllll away.
@@ClrTangoMango Ikr. It was like trying to be outgoing just for this one person and later being sick of it.
@@RishitaHazarika12 I made a fool of myself. As an INTJ I am greatness oriented, and my reputation was ruined! Not only was I trying to be outgoing and “fun” but I was also letting people see me as a light-minded buffoon. That is enraging
I am an INFJ and the love of my life was an INTJ. It was literally the best relationship I've ever had or will ever have. Maybe it's different for female INTJ /male INFJ, but what happened with us is that we were so in tune with each other and so ourselves with each other that the typical draining thing didn't happen. We energized each other. Stayed up all night talking and laughing and being utter dorks with each other. And connecting in ways I'd only ever dreamed of. My advice is to find something you're both into. My other advice is to ask him questions about himself. As an INFJ, the most incredible thing is for someone to trust me and open up to me... but the second most amazing feeling is actually being asked about what I feel, think, see, believe in, etc. Those heart-deep questions. You've gotta at least try. In my humble opinion, INFJ/INTJ pairing is like nothing else on earth. I wish you all the best!
@@ClrTangoMango omg the reputation oriented thing is so true. Only because of my genuine feelings for that guy I tried to behave that way-- and I sucked at it.
This was like watching an airplane rolling but never tacking off to Amsterdam! Damn
I think it’s so charming how introverts process & charmed by the honesty of their comfort level. ENFP here watching this like the discovery channel!
Is that why I am charmed by Mikey? Haha Mikey needs an ENFP. We are so awkward that we don't care we are awkward. Some day Mikey! Some day that ENFP or that commando will come your way!
ENFP here with the same reaction
ENFP here, they are both so awkwardly adorable 😂
Awkwardness is worth the price of Authenticity! 💜
Only an enfp could have written this xomment
“I’ll just be over here in the corner refreshing the weather app until it’s time to go.” Why is that so relatable?
I felt so much second hand embarrassment watching this 😂
As an introvert, this has definitely happened a few times where I try to start up a conversation with someone (which is rare for me) but then the other person doesn’t seem very interested. It reminds me that I’m better off just being the quiet, awkward person of every scenario lol
This is awkwardly cute and kind of relatable. The first time I interacted with my crush was in high school, where we worked on a powerpoint together. I don’t remember us saying anything to each other but still did a good job on the tiny project.
We've been together for 4 years and counting lmao
I guess that potato didn't have eyes for Charlotte. 😥😂
Miriam the fact that you watch her makes you 20xs cooler in my book!! Lol & hi!
@@ArcaneGinger I love her! She's hilarious 😂
Always nice to see you in the comments
Plot twist : Mikey got a crush on a girl which is much more introverted than him.
His name is Mikey?
I missed that.
@@talyahfeigenbaum9486 I thought it was Chuck but than his friend called him Mikey 😀
@@tikaardhany7568 what?? When??
I think I need to listen more carefully and try to focus on the details of a story 😅
This is so painful to watch😭😭😂😂😂😂 how hard it must be for two introverts who actually like each other to get over their shyness and finally pair up 😭😂
I'm so introverted that even my crush talking to me would be an absolute nightmare 😫
I am an INFP and according to one your videos, this is the most introverted type. I've been trying to come out of my shell a bit. I can now give savage responses to annoying people and I even tried to dance at a family gathering! Emphasis on tried. But I'm still proud of myself. My crush is an ISTJ and even more introverted than me. And when I am with more introverted people, I get quite talkative. So it wasn't hard to get him to open up.
Can relate as INFP. I worked as a cashier for 5 years now and I can confidently make small talk but I still have problems with prolong eye contact.
Exactly! I am so talkative with introverts and I think great, you can do this! Then you meet an extrovert group and become the most awkward person on the planet.
@@lenula1 Same. I'm INTP and I love to express my ideas about different subjects. I talk to other people who are introverted and it seems like I can't stop talking (one of the reasons I don't talk as much is because I don't want to be perceived as the annoying person who doesn't let anyone else say anything. That and the standard introvert things like not liking small talk). What I usually want to discuss isn't the typical "casual conversation" subject. That's why I am almost unable to talk with extroverts. They want to talk about the latest movie, I want to talk about political sciences and economics.
I thought INFPs were supposed to be the most extroverted of the introverts?
@@thatmontanakid2508 I know right! Everybody has their hobbies and topics of interest you can just keep rambling about. For example, I can talk about personality types for hours. That's why people love to find other people with the same interests. But sadly, my interests never match that much with anyone.
Talking to introverts always gives me motive to work on my social skills.
Congrats for 1 million suscribers Frank! 🥰 and I'm sure Charlotte hit 1 million lately too! You both deserve more 😍
Frank and Charlotte are two of my favourite youtubers 😳❤️❤️ this is absolutely amazing
Frank..man oh man..u look so good with that blonde wig @ 2:06
OMG sooo relatable this is what happened to me and my crush when i confessed to him when we were in highschool... we are both introverted! I thought i was the awkward one but it turns out we both are... common ground lol And now he's my boyfriend for 5 years we still talk like this but in a more comfortable way HAHAHAH
Hi! I made it! The looks back and forth and the awkward silence while trying not to make it awkward is everything 😆
Wow who else was surprised that this time the female character wasn't just FJ in a wig?
The part where his friend confirms he's gonna stay single forever😂 also congrats on 1M subscribers ^^
Aww! I love Frank and Charlotte! So cool to watch a video of them together! You are both awesome!
Thanks so much!!
I feel this way as an ENFP. We are smack in the middle of the introverted-extroverted scale so we tend to be super talkative around the introverted types but super quiet around the extroverted types.
@ShadowMapleLeaf lmao ig it would depend on the situation
Then u probably going wrong you are infp
What's the super duper introverted introvert's name??
This segment was so good!
Charlotte is such a good actress!
Great job you two!
Super duper introvert could be called Jank Frames
When u gotta be the extrovert among the introverts just for efficiency...
And then they preserve u as an outgoing person and be surprised after realizing ur not
wow, this is my social life.
I know by experience that Mikey went home regretting standing awkwardly with the girl and imagining the whole posible answers he could have said managing a conversation, this is going to be in Mikey’s head every night for a while until he recharges his batteries to go outside again lol.
I loved this one! 😆
"Not talk and stand awkwardly with someone who understands" is so relatable. 😂 It made me "aaawwww!" ❤️
Frank makes me laugh so bad🤣😭 , how can you play all these roles perfectlyyy
What a breath taking and *awkward* rollercoaster this was. Totally amazing.
i love charlotte’s channel! congrats on 1M, so happy that two of my fav youtubers collaborated 🥰
Yay! Thank you!
This reminds me of how I met my person XD we met in middle school, they were the quietest person in class so I sat next to them. We had a conversation much like that, then just sort of enjoyed each other’s silent company for the rest of class XD 6 years later and we’ve been together for 2 years
Wow! Loved it! I"ve followed both you & Charlotte for a long time. It was such a wonderful surprise to see the two of you together. Please do it again!
OMG you guys have such introvert chemistry lmao
THE END THOUGH 🤣🤣🤣 Also, when the romantic music started playing and Mikey touched his glasses, I thought he was going to take them off and get all poetic and romantic with her LOL.
It's so relatable that it actually hurts.
As an INTJ, there are really so many times that some guys have been restraining themselves to confess to me, strike a conversation, or talk to me longer because of my unneccessary death-glare-looking stare at people and really short, stiff, rigid, and direct to the point answers (no commas and explanation whatsoever, just period). So yeah, I have been a single maggot since birth but who cares. I even planned on who to marry lol.
I agree too much. An INTJ too, and I feel like some people just don't come up to me to talk(even if they want to) because they probably think I'm too practical-which is true. And yes the resting bitch face hahaha
Allow an ENFP to adopt you.. they will be all about your death glare and direct answers. ❤️
I am an INTP, often interacting with INTJ female too, and yeah, I have to be the one who starts the conversation. But, when interacting with INTJ male, it’s just so hard, because my regular method seems not working. It’s just like he doesn’t want to be bothered and loads of awkward situations. But, when he’s interested in me, he asks questions and pushes me to give lots of answers. It’s so confusing
@@hannyverryna3891 questions about? If i may ask.
@@greensgangrenes2791 lots of things, when we’ve got topics to ask. But, often the awkward moment comes and makes me text him more than he does, also he often missed my bubbles and just reply the last bubble. After he asks me questions, I’ll reply him, then his response is just “I see”. Or he often shares what he is doing though I don’t ask it before, and we keep texting until we have nothing to say and his response back again to “I see” or “yeah”.
Probably, Frank is right. “I think I’m doomed to be single forever.” 😂
Refreshing the weather app just to make it look like i'm busy with my phone so no one approaches or just to try to make time go faster lol
Two of my favorite UA-camrs, together!!!! Cha-ching!!!
This is so similar to how I interacted with my college crush (now husband). I’m an INFJ and he’s an INTJ, I gathered all my courage to talk to him, thankfully he was reading manga which we both have a passion for so I got a lucky break! From when we met back in college til now I’m so grateful and thankful I talked with him and asked him out. If you don’t have anyone now don’t give up! You’re amazing and I know you’ll find your person, sending you good vibes!🌻
Its funny but felt some truth there 2:32
This reminds me of the relationship an introvert friend and I have. We’re great when we’re with the rest of our friends who are extroverts, but as soon as we’re left alone together neither of us know how to carry the conversation so one of us will be like, “K, I’m gonna go over there now and wait till the others come back.” 🤣
...tried so hard, and got so far. But in the end it didn't even matter.
🤣
Oh golly, 1:50 was so cute❤
Yes I saw this as how cute and soulful us introverts are and why people would be lucky to know us (if they got past our awkward conversations)
I'd really love it if you could do a video of 16 personalities meeting The Beatles or something like that. FJ and The Beatles my favorite two things combined... it'd be a dream come true. 💘
i'd love that too, haha
Lmao!!! C'mon man..you had a chance there! At least being ALONE... TOGETHER would've been a start
This was freaking awesome 😂
And way too relatable.
His version of “I try so hard but I think I’m doomed to be single forever…” is wayyyy too relatable 😂
Loved Charlotte. A new witty UA-camr to follow ❤️
This was literally me and my crush in high school. I really don't start conversations and am a total introvert, but I really liked this person, but he was also highly introverted. All I could think of is that I had to talk to them to be able to create a bond, but it's like we couldn't maintain one cause we both don't prefer talking to people lol
I mean, personally it is approaching people that is the major issue, I reply if I get approached, maybe it would have gone well had you talked to him (also idk how people like others they haven t talked to but that is beside the point)
damn, that's awkward. I'm introverted too but due to. some circumstances I had to push myself. So yeah I even beat extroverted people in social dances because I had to lead them since Im the older one. I trained hard for that too. After that I end up getting exhausted for the day and never went to talk for remaining hours, just staring at people after the social dance. I also dance around half of the ladies in the room they were like 20ish or something
Your acting skill's so good i completely forgot you're the same person🤣
Its very bold of them to actually be looking each other in THE EYES.
“Do you mind if I stand here awkwardly…with you?“ 😭
That whole exchange was so cringey lmao it was perfect
Turned out really funny and can u do an Extrovert version I bet it will be AMAZING!! ❤️
haha interesting idea!
@@FrankJames Go for it!
Glad you guys teamed up. I have actually been "following" your content separately for years. I'm sure the algorithm "gods" brought you together somehow, but it's a good match with this. Thanks for the video.
**disbelief** ME? 😂👏
“What do you do for fun?” That question is kryptonite
0:46 So relatable the last thing you wanna do in that situation is look the other person in the eye
Loved the video! Both of you did a great job, and you should definitely collab again! :)
that is so sad, my heart broke 😅
I'm an introvert, and I'm married and have a great love!
Don't give up, fellow introverts!
This is why when I meet another introvert I always find something to do like cowboy or rock, paper, scissors so it’s less awkward to just be silent.
Yay!! I’m so happy you two did a colab 😆😆😆
That's so relatable. This is me at first with my crush then I became superrrr talkative when he opened up. We are in our talking stage back then. Now, we are in a backreading stage, I mean I am :)))
I love Frank and I love Charlotte! Never knew I needed them together until it happened!
Being an introvert myself, this is one the MOST relatable video and I enjoyed this a lot. BTW you both look perfect together 💫 and...I loved this video and your pair ♥️
Iggy Pop's guest appearance in 1:56 really surprised me
Yeah, that's about right! 😆
Pretty much no chance I'd ever be the one to start a conversation, especially with my crush.
Lol "I try so hard but I'm doomed to be single forever". Sums it up right there after he runs away 😂
I did not breathe for 2 min plus seconds.
Omy the colllaaaaaab 😭
IT'S A CROSSOVER!!!! ❤️ Love this!!! Also, this is a little too relatable 😅
I am so glad I am married, because I feel this video so much. INFJ married to an ISTP and we started talking over AIM which was easier than in person. Even now with new people and some not new people I act this way. What are we supposed to talk about?!
"do u mind me staying here awkwardly ?"
as an infp who was once interested in an introverted person, this is painfully accurate. this whole video is too painfully accurate for my liking
This is a combo I was waiting for decaded
Congrats on one million subs!! I love your content :)
yay thanks!
I can definitely relate. At this point, I like my shell; it's comfortable. There might be room for two, but the other person would have to be at least as weird and introverted as I am, which means if that person is out there, we aren't likely to ever meet. I am okay with that. Some family members may feel differently, but I am okay by myself, as long as the plants don't mind me talking to myself. The cat and bird are already used to it.
sounds like a lovely shell
Frank and Charlotte
Charlotte and Frank
In a video
TOGETHER
yaaaaaasssssssssss
1:09 best advise ever. I usually say that and then start talking about my actual geek hobbies. Either people will stay awhile and listen or they'll get scared away. Either way is a win.
I find it funny that even when youtubers like FJ get a second person, there is still always only one character in the shot
What are you talking about. That was just the level 2 wig he's trying out :)
Shame it didn't work out between those two, it really seemed like the epitome of the perfect relationship up until the end
Im living for this crossover!
the little footsteps running away got me 🤣🤣🤣. no idea why.....lol
2:22 me to my extrovert friend
Seems like she was the only one trying. Didn’t expect him to literally run away 😂. Love your voice in this one
Oh, I assure you he was trying. Every response he gave was just more of an effort. There was a whole conversation going on with him, only it was all in his head and it wasn't in any usable sequence or there was a completely blank slate. That's why his sentences weren't sentencing. I've been in that situation where nothing but gibberish comes out and then instinct kicks in and the escape sequence gets initiated whether I want it to or not.
My crush is infinite times more awkward than me and I didn’t even know that was possible. Anyway, saw this in my notifs and felt ATTACKED 💀
Why am I just now seeing this??? Omg I follow and watch you both. This is awesome. I love seeing UA-cam creators collaborate together
Wow! Love this collab!! Charlotte is another of my faves 🤗
This is great !
I try really hard not to run away, especially when I like someone but I usually fail.
"refreshing the weather app till it's time to go home"
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