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Quick question, FJ... in real life do you find you write off extroverts for "being a particular way"? Or embrace the reality that we can't always know for sure? An interested ENFJ from the land of Aus 🐨
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Bro I'm like an introvert extrovert blob thing idfk I am scored as INFP which ig is the most "extroverted introvert" which could be why I hate being the one to speak up first but I love making new friends, I hate talking on the phone with anyone who I'm not close with idk, I tested to see if I'm an ambivert but I dunno
Pretending to be introvert is not hard tbh, you just had to stay silents and barely talk the whole time because either you look like uninterested or energy drained. Meanwhile being an introvert pretending to be extrovert is hard, you probably had to take 8 hours of night sleep and drink 5 cup of coffee before the show if you wanna regain energy.
Could you like, tell my friends that? I only have like four of them and they're also introverts. 😆 I'm the most extroverted and sometimes talk too much. We ARE great friends (to the people we choose as friends). If we haven't chosen you as a friend, we will still be cordial and even helpful, but don't expect that greatness level LOL Thanks man @@sarkairox1516
Elysia is a great introvert, notice how she blend in an even pass under Franks radar? She barely talked all throughout but most fail to notice, she's like to wallflower kind of introvert. Ps. Even the camera angle rarely go through Elysia 🤣
And, looking back, it also makes sense that she is an introvert, considering her job, a director. To me taking in seems more important than putting out as a director. A film director has to think about how things look and feel to other people.
Funniest thing is that out of all 15 minutes nodoby even talked to real introvert and even Frank forgot about her existance=) I mean look at 8:02, even cameraman forgot about her
Yeah, I realized she was the introvert, because somewhere around the middle of the video, she was questioned, and I immideately went, "wait a moment, who is she? has she been there all along? I did not even notice her..." and with that, I realized she was the introvert, lmao.
Yes! She totally disappeared! That shouldve been something we were looking for: " okay, is anyone DISAPPEARING / OBVIOUSLY an introvert, here?" they / we all should've asked ourselves, silently though, so as not to raise any denials or suspicion.
My theory is introverts without social anxiety (and some with social anxiety) can be extraverted when pretending to be someone else. Nothing about being introverted says you can't be a good actor.
I’m an introvert (INFJ) with social anxiety, and you are right about the “pretending to be someone else” part. I hate that about myself. I know this is a common trait of INFJs too (the “can be mistaken for an extrovert”-trait), but I always feel uncomfortable afterwards when I have been trying to make a good impression by playing extroverted to hide my social anxiety when I meet new people. Then my introversion (drained energy) and social anxiety slowly take over, and I can see the confusion in people’s faces - like “wait, weren’t you all confident and talkative that first day, what is this silence and awkwardness now??”. And some people will even treat you like you’re a hypocrite (my former colleague whom I’m guessing is an ISTJ, for instance). It’s so frustrating😔 why can’t I just be myself - feel comfortable in my own quiet skin? Learning about my type has helped me a lot, though, because I’ve learned that this is partly because it’s an INFJ thing. But only partly, of course, as the impact of social anxiety is huge.
@@Seca95 I'm an INFJ too and a lot of people seem to be surprised when I revealed I am an introvert because I always display the humorous and talkative side of myself. Some even accused me of lying. Little do they know, that I am often anxious and nervous in social situations but I'm just really good at not showing it. I think our nature of being so different compared to how we wish we could be, is due to our Fe nature where we just wanna create harmony and not make people around us feel. uncomfortable.
@@amazxngvero2645 Hey same here, I'm an introvert! I too am a talkative person with those I'm close with and I'm quite humorous but I actually hate social interactions as it drains a lot of my energy. Just chose to behave like an extrovert so I won't get secluded. After all I live in a society :(
So true, people always say I’m really extroverted but loool when i see someone i know far away I’m like oh fuck here we go again and then put the clown mask to pretend i like being with them
Actually I have social anxiety so bad, but when I am in a social occasion, I talk a lot, and loud, and laugh a lot too, and people think that I am extraverted but I am actually just dying in panic
OK, that reaction to the guy wearing a nametag for a year was just too funny. 🤣 Thing is, a lot of introverts, me included, are capable of camouflaging as an extrovert for shorter periods, if they must. Elysia held up great, but I bet she went home and slept for 3 days straight afterwards.
Frank you should have followed your own advice at 8:20 you notice she is quietly laughing, nodding and she is all this time waiting for her turn! She doesn't interrupt and act pretty invisable. I would figure it out when I was standing in the room because I would feel the urge to walk towards her and make sure to include her and hear her voice in the discussions😅 But while watching this I couldn't tell because I was just to intrueged by all the small things you noticed about the people haha. - ENFJ
" I would feel the urge to walk towards her and make sure to include her and hear her voice in the discussions" - you're exactly the type of person that makes me hate social events
Having watched that video already, it was so much fun to see him putting Elysia straight off in the extrovert category, even though she was interrupting the least and FJ pointed this difference at the very beginning 😄 but yes, she seems completely extrovert to me too. Btw do one on 'who is not an introvert' also. That one is really tough to guess.
Would love a reaction to "who is not an introvert" but for the opposite reason! I found it way easier to be honest. The moment the mole gave an explanation what an introvert is I immediately knew it was them. It just sounded straight up copied from wikipedia
The mole was not an introvert! Watch the end again. She says that as a child she was extroverted, but as an adult she doesn't like being in groups. Doesn't work like that! She's an extrovert with social anxiety
@@greenlimabean I honestly thought, first impression, Elysia or Brayan was the introvert. But in the video, at least this edited one, I hardly saw Elysia in the frame so I thought it must be her. In this video you'll notice that the extroverts gather in pairs/ groups and the one introvert was always off and away. When you mentioned the social anxiety it did make me wonder and could potentially be true. She was the quietest, despite her bubbly (but slightly nervous) smile and she was the one furthest away from everyone in group as seen at 3:17. This was interesting to watch. Kinda wish I saw the original first! 😁
@@greenlimabean Or she is an introvert and always has been. I think it's funny people pointing out now how she literally faded into the background until she won. I rewatched the video and noticed a point where Alex started to suspect Elysia because she didn't make good eye contact but then seemingly swiftly forgot.
@@jahayrac8636 I feel like the grouping thing might not be the biggest indicator since if you watch the secret extravert video, the exact same thing happened to Maya, who got voted off near the end. The cameras clipped her, the group huddled while she stood apart.
6:50 Nooo, I’m an extrovert and I used to get embarrassed easily too. Well, I think it’s actually based on each of the extroverts previous experiences. Mine was because I used to get dismissed by some people in my life and that hurts. Because I didn’t get the attention that I was craving for after they left me. And it somehow leads to a minor anxiety problem, that might looks like an embarrassment. By the way, it was back then when I was tested out as a turbulent extrovert. It has changed after I am surrounded by the right people and gaining more confidence overtime. I came to test again and it turns out that I became an assertive extrovert. So, my bet is that extrovert vs introvert neuroticism really matters
Aww that sucks. I’m an ENFP who doesn’t feel embarrassed in the moment because I am oblivious to and just don’t know how to read social cues- and unlike INFP’s or INTP’s my Ne is completely unfiltered so I just say whatever idea that has popped into my head, and embrace all my weird oblivious to people around me.
SAME. I'm an ENFP and the anxiety and fear it causes me...for instance, I can easily command a room. But then when I realize a crowd of people are watching me intently for the punchline of my joke/story...I'm like oh god SELF AWARENESS. Then I would either leave or crumble. Then I have embarrassed flashbacks/reminders when people bring up the joke/story to me when it wasn't that important to me, which gives me more anxiety that people are just thinking about me?? Honestly I'm probably E because I can dominate a room without thinking about it but I have to be comfortable with them, otherwise I'm nervous wallflower I type all the way, I always skip parties for that reason! Other people! (Even though I love people...just not strangers lol)
I always considered myself a “confident introvert.” I’m very chill, low pride (meaning I don’t get embarrassed, but typically laugh when my screw ups cause others to laugh), bubbly happy, which fuels my ADHD energy making me easily excitable. I’m not shy, so I have no trouble talking to people when I’m around them. I’ll even start conversation because I’m here and may as well make the most of it. I’m positive and very confident of who I am as a person. My father taught me that the opinions of people who don’t care about me don’t matter. However, I’m 100% content with staying home, and will most likely say no to impromptu “wanna go somewhere?” I keep a very small, selective group of people I call friends, I live for deeper conversation, I sit in quiet and chill when by myself or around others with low energy. Cacophony of people and noise is a no thanks. I don’t willing go to large events, but if I do, I need someone I can focus on to block others out, else I’ll find a nice corner to draw in. I typically don’t stress in crowd because I’ve learned coping habits. When picking who to hang out with, I prefer low energy people, at least not overwhelming. I have people I’ll always hang out with because they’re not exhausting, and for an exhausting group, I have to deem if I’m prepared for them. So long as I have an ability to escape a social event whenever I want, I can comfortably stay until I’m done. Because of my confidence and energetic joy, people mistake me for an extrovert all the time.
I actually feel like I have found my clone!!!! Omg I'm exactly the same!!! My parents tell me to care about others opinions, but I discovered that being myself drains my energy least! My rule is that if I have to pretend to be someone else with someone (which really drains me btw) they're not the kind of friend I want
Me, sitting in my car at home as the premiere starts: “I can’t carry my stuff inside now - it’s starting!” Me, sitting in my car at home when the premier ends: “Get inside, there could be _people_ out here!” #trueintrovert
Others are putting it down to an invisibility cloak type thing. another comment pointed out that even the camera person forgot she was there at 8:02. Poor Elysia, although it was probably a relief to get her head shared after all the talking over one another at the start. :)
I wasn't buying it. When she described what was supposed to be her career, it sounded like she was talking about watching someone else do their career of being a director. I really couldn't imagine her being a director. Or at least not being a director making her an extrovert . she really seemed to have to push that information out there
@@markwright3161 Could be. I only watched it once, but it seemed like scenes were missing, like maybe Frank couldn't put the whole episode in the video? I could be wrong, or that's just how it was originally edited. I actually suspected her or the guy who was next to her. ✌️
In a situation like that, I am confident that I could pass myself off as an extravert. I'm not as shy/self-conscious as I used to be when I was a younger, and I have had a lot of practice being "On" in front of groups of people. I think that I (an INTP) would claim to be sn ENFP. I can be chaotic if it suits me, and that would be my strategy.
@@WinXP2001 mood. Plus INTP/J's tend to somehow come off as intimidating to a lot of people? I've lost count of the number of times I've gotten that & it's not helpful in a lot of situations irl. So we learn to make the effort to come off as Nice & that usually means learning how to be Extroverted temporarily.
@@salemsaberhagan same. most of ppl's first impression of me is that I'm jusdgemental, mean, and exclusive when all I do is daydream lmao. however, I come off extroverted to my close friends or relatives because I know how to act accordingly to situations.
I’m an actual ENFP and my partner is an INTP… he has definitely not gotten to the “extrovert passing” phase. the only reason we even met is because I was insistent on becoming his friend hahah :)
@@bebelmatson just coz you "can" doesn't mean that you "will" lol In romantic situations especially I wouldn't put on my extrovert face. That's false advertising. Instead I'll be more introverted than ever just to make sure they're really interested & I'm not misreading the situation + I get time to see if the person's worth the emotional investment. Rejoice. You sound like you passed the test :P
First of all, I think I'm an introvert so it felt awkward and uncomfortable to watch this video. But I did notice that the real introvert (I'm sorry, I'm really not good with names) almost didn't talk at all (I think she talked like one time at the middle-end...) So I immediately suspected her. I'm very nervous while writing this comment because I really care about what other people are thinking of me (and English is not my Native language), so please tell me if I have any mistakes or something so I'll feel more comfortable. Thanks for reading.
I nailed it! Looking at their body language, the true introvert stood away from the others and kept her hands behind her back. This is similar to how I act when forced to interact in a group.
I am an ENFJ but I definitely can give off introvert vibes. I overly apologize and read books. I also think I have anxiety, so it makes it hard to always be around people. Some people drain my energy while other people give me energy. FJ has said that ENFJ’s can sometimes confuse themselves as Introverts, so maybe some of the people in the videos were ENFJ’s or something. The makers of the game would want to choose people who are hard to determine for the sake of the game, and maybe to show that we can be similar at times.
As an INFJ I would be able to act like an ENFJ for a few hours at a time and this type of game intrigues me because I would spend the whole time telling each person what personality type i think they are.
I couldn’t pin who it was, but I could tell it definitely wasn’t Ellie. She was like, the most extroverted person in the room. Zed too. The rest I was on the fence. Tbh though I was mostly thinking of how I, an avid reader, nerd and comic book artist, could convince them all that I really am an extrovert 🥲 It’s hard finding peeps to do karaoke with you when all your friends are nerds and artists
Yea looks may be decieving though, I pretty much act that way in certain circumstances and some colleagues have been baffled to find out I'm an introvert... What they don't see though, is how hard I crash afterwards. I can get that way when drunk+tired+with close friends as well, but that happens about every other year or so... /INTP
I think this just goes to show how much more there is to your personality beyond being and introvert or extrovert. Everyone is their own person no mater any test they might take or labels the pay may give themselves. If nothing else this video showed that their is always more to a person and their personality then you can know when first meeting them.
11:20 i mean of she was the introvert she was the one that spoke the least out of all of them she was to figure out only one thing to say for each round
Their reasoning of having to be an extrovert to work a store such as Build-a-Bear or working at a trampoline park is really important/necessary is bogus; I am an introvert who needs to get away from people in the same house most the time, and yet I also worked as a tour guide. It is called being able to act.
I’m always in the 80-90% range for introvertedness in the Myers Briggs scale, yet I work two retail jobs in an area where people like to have conversations. It’s certainly good to get myself out of my comfort zone, but I end up needing to just straight up not talk to anyone once my shift is over. Overall I don’t mind it though, as long as you get coworkers you can get along with, even introverts can do perfectly well at “extroverted” jobs.
Yah, I don’t know why some mistakenly believe that “introvert” means you can’t or don’t interact with people. They do it all the time. Even, “extroverts” can become drained by interacting too much with others.
When are you going to do another guess my viewers’ types kind of video? I really enjoyed that one and you mentioned we should keep making those shorts.
I spotted Eliysia right away. The moment everyone in the group started interacting I took note of her body position. Eliysia stood outside of the group. As an introvert, that's my stance of choice. While others gather together, I stand outside of the circle because it's the best way to NOT get noticed.
Yeah you want all the people to be in front of you; if you’re in the circle or on the circle there at least two people (the ones right next to you) who can look at you and you don’t know cuz they are not even in your peripheral vision. So you gotta be outside so that when someone looks at you, you’ll know. It’s awkward for me to know someone’s watching me when I’m just there, not talking and involving. Or even when I am talking for that matter. 😅
Yeah, it's a huge stereotype that heavy people are extroverted. It's pretty sad i knew she was the introvert from the start, and kinda sad how many people didn't really acknowledge her
I guessed correctly! Elysia at one point towards the beginning, when she was speaking, had a "chest flush" of embarrassment- the camera was so fast, I almost missed it. Then towards the end, she took a slight step backwards- again I almost missed it as the camera was so quick. I knew it was her with the chest flush, then the slight step backwards sealed it. But she did a great job of hiding her introversion. My introverted self is exhausted just watching all this people interaction, or I would tell you the times in the video when it happened, but I'd have to watch it again.. sorry, lol. Even writing this public comment is draining, haha. Gotta go recover now. :)
The topic, who is the introvert, was just so vapid, what introvert could get into it? And to make matters worse, the extros just seemed to get more excited as they went - all about basically nothing. "I'm so excited, that I'm so excited"🤣🤣😂😂
I also guessed correctly haha, i had my suspicions from the beginning when she was like a little bit more away from the others, and i confirmed it when Alaa talks to her and she nodded too nervously, and also idk how i new it bc i am and extrovert -enfp
It wasn't a chest flush but a sun burn, actually! I had gotten a second degree sunburn two days earlier, and I was exhausted and putting everything I could into faking it. XD
omg i enjoy watching jubilee's contents and yours as well and now u're making a reaction video of one of their videos! Two of my fave channels in one frame
I'd totally win this. Lol I'm an INFJ that teeters close to the middle between I and E. I can appear extroverted when I want to, but then spend several days (or weeks after a big event, like a concert, festival, or Christmas) hiding reading books, watching videos, and sleeping. Lol
Aw man, I laughed so hard, I did think Alah was the introvert but maybe we were all overcompensating, but this was such laugh, thank you. (card carrying INFP here, totally sympathising with ya) ;-)
I watched the jubilee video a few days ago and the first thing I noticed is how insane I perceived it to be for total strangers to just get on so well so randomly then I realized duh, they're extroverts xD (infj here)
I like how you are taking more from UA-cam pop culture (Hot Ones, now Odd Man Out). Keep doing this. 🙂 This just proves what I already knew. It's really hard to tell a true introvert from a true extrovert because it's more of a feeling process than a behavior process (feeling drained vs feeling energized around people). There is this guy who is high up at a former employer who I assumed was an introvert. The company sponsored this MBTI expert to come in and assess us all. I just assumed he would be an IxTx because of his behavior. When I asked, he slowly said his letters (E...N...F...P) as if to give me time to respond to each one. I was so surprised over the E and F. Then there were Ixxx cowokers who never shut up. The whole process was eye opening to me.
the part I enjoyed most about this video is your being genuine with your reactions. even though you were wrong but you're real. laughed so hard when you said you were just trying to save face 😂😂
I don't really think this is so easy. I am very much an introvert, but I do like to socialize and I can socialize somewhat well for somewhat extended periods of time. But that being said after a certain period of time I can no longer enjoy a social experience. If I'm one-on-one with someone that I know really well this could be more than 12 hours before I start to get really to the point where I'm like okay, I need to get away from this now, but if I'm in a group of 3 or 4 especially if there's some people in the group that I don't know very well I'm gonna wear myself out after less than 2 hours. Regardless I need some alone time to recover before I'm around people again for any prolonged time frame.
I'm an introvert for sure, but I enjoy talking to people occasionally. But I'm also terrified of initiating. That being said I like the idea of wearing a "Hello My Name Is" sticker. I'll for sure take it off tho when I need a break.
Extroverts do read! I'm an extrovert but, I spend the bulk of my time with my nose in a book. I usually stay up till 2-ish reading. However if you confront me with total nonfiction, (that isn't an interesting reference book) I will run away. -ENFP 📚
I've noticed specifically INFJs do get embarrassed about stuff so much! INFJs be like, "oh God this was so embarrassing, I didn't know how to do this thing I'd never done before, I must be an idiot." Or "I smiled in this weird way, I'm sure they noticed and think I'm a freak" and I'm like "I'm sorry you find that embarrassing. I think you might just be overly judgmental of yourself though." As an ENFP raised by an INFJ, I have this weird background voice awareness that my mom would find things embarrassing, and (as Nathan Glass would put it) meta feelings wondering whether I should be embarrassed about more things than I am. So instead I just have anxiety but generally not embarrassment haha
What makes for introversion is energy. I’m one of those introverts who can talk to people and socialize just fine, but I can’t do that for long periods of time because it’s mentally and physically draining for me. I also work in customer service so introverts are capable of dealing with the public too. But that’s why you had me convinced about Alaa, I felt like she was the introvert and she was overcompensating so she could win some money.
Wow! She knew that being seen as the one who is trying to convince may get her to gain attention as an introvert trying her best to convince the audience. 😂😂
Very true like what you said , that the one who interrupts the least is probably the introvert , which was very truee, I mean Elysia rarely even talked or stepped in , she was even standing farther than the other contestants , she was only like nodding , didn’t do much of the talking , makes sense , but that was funny and pretty convincing how you analyzed the situation , pretty cool
I just watched the video before watching your reaction on it and my thoughts were kinda of similar to yours, didn't expect the ending, I only had a thought that she might be the introvert when she was explaining about her job, but just for a sec 😅
I'm I extroverted introvert, Im a pretty reserved person and I prefer to keep to my self and being around a lot of people is really emotionally draining. But I grew up in a Irish house hold full of extroverts so I know the only way you can get a word in at anything you have to be loud energetic and have to talk over people plus I become pretty extroverted when I'm around people I'm comfortable with or about a topic I like.
As an introvert, I have learned to mimic other people and match their energy. It's completely draining afterwards, but so easy to look like you fit in.
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7:17 Yup.
Quick question, FJ... in real life do you find you write off extroverts for "being a particular way"? Or embrace the reality that we can't always know for sure? An interested ENFJ from the land of Aus 🐨
I figured out how all the types use the various functions, it you see this comment FJ please reach out.
I tested it and it sticks even know how to describe NI the one that is least described.
I believe that since you are the forerunner of this community as far as I know, you are the best person to take this. It will help many on there journey of self understanding.
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This has me wondering if they would be able to store your passwords etc. 🤔
As an introvert, just watching them talk to each other is making my energy fade
Same😂
Same here
Ye
Bro I'm like an introvert extrovert blob thing idfk I am scored as INFP which ig is the most "extroverted introvert" which could be why
I hate being the one to speak up first but I love making new friends, I hate talking on the phone with anyone who I'm not close with idk, I tested to see if I'm an ambivert but I dunno
same
The true introvert barely even needed to act to win, just utilize the natural introvert ability of fading into the background.
Yep you don't even know that their there
Right, no one realize the real introvert didnt speak anything until she was asked in the video 😂😂
Yep
Pretending to be introvert is not hard tbh, you just had to stay silents and barely talk the whole time because either you look like uninterested or energy drained.
Meanwhile being an introvert pretending to be extrovert is hard, you probably had to take 8 hours of night sleep and drink 5 cup of coffee before the show if you wanna regain energy.
I didnt even notice that person in the whole entire vid!
And its been a week and im still confused how
I bet Frank is an epic real life friend.
He’s an introvert a good friend every other month
@@Cofee_Dam Lol That was funny👏🏽👏🏽
Isn't every INFJ an epic Real Life friend?
If your values line up, and if it's a day when his batteries are charged, you're probably right
Could you like, tell my friends that? I only have like four of them and they're also introverts. 😆 I'm the most extroverted and sometimes talk too much. We ARE great friends (to the people we choose as friends).
If we haven't chosen you as a friend, we will still be cordial and even helpful, but don't expect that greatness level LOL Thanks man @@sarkairox1516
Elysia is a great introvert, notice how she blend in an even pass under Franks radar?
She barely talked all throughout but most fail to notice, she's like to wallflower kind of introvert.
Ps. Even the camera angle rarely go through Elysia 🤣
exactly!
Yeah, 'under the radar' came to me as well, when they revealed her.
Nice job, Elysia
And, looking back, it also makes sense that she is an introvert, considering her job, a director. To me taking in seems more important than putting out as a director. A film director has to think about how things look and feel to other people.
Who’s elysia? Oh yeah, her.
Yeah i kinda forgot about her
Funniest thing is that out of all 15 minutes nodoby even talked to real introvert and even Frank forgot about her existance=)
I mean look at 8:02, even cameraman forgot about her
sounds INFP to me
Yeah, I realized she was the introvert, because somewhere around the middle of the video, she was questioned, and I immideately went, "wait a moment, who is she? has she been there all along? I did not even notice her..." and with that, I realized she was the introvert, lmao.
Good catch!
True, true, that's a super power of which only introverts hold
Yes! She totally disappeared! That shouldve been something we were looking for: " okay, is anyone DISAPPEARING / OBVIOUSLY an introvert, here?" they / we all should've asked ourselves, silently though, so as not to raise any denials or suspicion.
My theory is introverts without social anxiety (and some with social anxiety) can be extraverted when pretending to be someone else. Nothing about being introverted says you can't be a good actor.
I’m an introvert (INFJ) with social anxiety, and you are right about the “pretending to be someone else” part. I hate that about myself. I know this is a common trait of INFJs too (the “can be mistaken for an extrovert”-trait), but I always feel uncomfortable afterwards when I have been trying to make a good impression by playing extroverted to hide my social anxiety when I meet new people. Then my introversion (drained energy) and social anxiety slowly take over, and I can see the confusion in people’s faces - like “wait, weren’t you all confident and talkative that first day, what is this silence and awkwardness now??”. And some people will even treat you like you’re a hypocrite (my former colleague whom I’m guessing is an ISTJ, for instance). It’s so frustrating😔 why can’t I just be myself - feel comfortable in my own quiet skin? Learning about my type has helped me a lot, though, because I’ve learned that this is partly because it’s an INFJ thing. But only partly, of course, as the impact of social anxiety is huge.
@@Seca95 I'm an INFJ too and a lot of people seem to be surprised when I revealed I am an introvert because I always display the humorous and talkative side of myself. Some even accused me of lying. Little do they know, that I am often anxious and nervous in social situations but I'm just really good at not showing it.
I think our nature of being so different compared to how we wish we could be, is due to our Fe nature where we just wanna create harmony and not make people around us feel. uncomfortable.
@@amazxngvero2645 Hey same here, I'm an introvert!
I too am a talkative person with those I'm close with and I'm quite humorous but I actually hate social interactions as it drains a lot of my energy.
Just chose to behave like an extrovert so I won't get secluded. After all I live in a society :(
So true, people always say I’m really extroverted but loool when i see someone i know far away I’m like oh fuck here we go again and then put the clown mask to pretend i like being with them
Actually I have social anxiety so bad, but when I am in a social occasion, I talk a lot, and loud, and laugh a lot too, and people think that I am extraverted but I am actually just dying in panic
OK, that reaction to the guy wearing a nametag for a year was just too funny. 🤣
Thing is, a lot of introverts, me included, are capable of camouflaging as an extrovert for shorter periods, if they must. Elysia held up great, but I bet she went home and slept for 3 days straight afterwards.
Yeah, I'm the same xD
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 not 3 days chile!
She did NOT hold up lol. The only reason I didn’t suspect her was because I forgot she was even there
@@AsymmetricalAce yes that is why she held up great
😂
FJ needs to actually make a skit where the various FJs try to find the odd man out 🤣
I second this. It'd be an editing nightmare, but if anybody could do it, it's Frank.
Yes!!!!
ur profile pic is vibing with me
Oh my, I love your profile pic.
INFJ gang
This acting of FJ and his various inner introverts gonna be epic.
When you said fj I 100% thought you meant he had a feeling judging type for a second
@@siamese_portal8691 But funny thing is that he is, though 😅
Frank you should have followed your own advice at 8:20 you notice she is quietly laughing, nodding and she is all this time waiting for her turn! She doesn't interrupt and act pretty invisable. I would figure it out when I was standing in the room because I would feel the urge to walk towards her and make sure to include her and hear her voice in the discussions😅 But while watching this I couldn't tell because I was just to intrueged by all the small things you noticed about the people haha. - ENFJ
Yes, also her body language was giving it away.
ENFJ here!!!!
And the camera man barely vedio her
" I would feel the urge to walk towards her and make sure to include her and hear her voice in the discussions" - you're exactly the type of person that makes me hate social events
@@panlis6243 you're exactly the type of person that gives me a bad impression of people who hate social events.
Having watched that video already, it was so much fun to see him putting Elysia straight off in the extrovert category, even though she was interrupting the least and FJ pointed this difference at the very beginning 😄 but yes, she seems completely extrovert to me too.
Btw do one on 'who is not an introvert' also. That one is really tough to guess.
Would love a reaction to "who is not an introvert" but for the opposite reason! I found it way easier to be honest. The moment the mole gave an explanation what an introvert is I immediately knew it was them. It just sounded straight up copied from wikipedia
The mole was not an introvert! Watch the end again. She says that as a child she was extroverted, but as an adult she doesn't like being in groups. Doesn't work like that! She's an extrovert with social anxiety
@@greenlimabean I honestly thought, first impression, Elysia or Brayan was the introvert. But in the video, at least this edited one, I hardly saw Elysia in the frame so I thought it must be her. In this video you'll notice that the extroverts gather in pairs/ groups and the one introvert was always off and away. When you mentioned the social anxiety it did make me wonder and could potentially be true. She was the quietest, despite her bubbly (but slightly nervous) smile and she was the one furthest away from everyone in group as seen at 3:17.
This was interesting to watch. Kinda wish I saw the original first! 😁
@@greenlimabean Or she is an introvert and always has been.
I think it's funny people pointing out now how she literally faded into the background until she won. I rewatched the video and noticed a point where Alex started to suspect Elysia because she didn't make good eye contact but then seemingly swiftly forgot.
@@jahayrac8636 I feel like the grouping thing might not be the biggest indicator since if you watch the secret extravert video, the exact same thing happened to Maya, who got voted off near the end. The cameras clipped her, the group huddled while she stood apart.
if it was the other way around, the room would just be silent for 3 minutes and the first one to talk would be the extrovert
They have that video too
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Me be like: *silence of space void*
Or the one that becomes the most awkward haha
@@Anx10203 I mean, if you put a bunch of introverts in a room without any distractions like their phones or a fish tank... they would be awkward too
you know how Alicia passed the test? because she knows how to remain invisible. she even fooled Frank. 😂
Frank: She reads. You know who doesn't read...
Me & Frank: EXTROVERTS 🤣
LOL.
That's.... Is that true? I dunno, I'm an Entp, but I like reading...
Great. Time to question my entire life
@@aminapm9798 lmao no its just a stereotype.
I guess neither one of you are aware that Oprah has had a book club for decades. She enjoys reading. Lots of extroverts do. Silly.
@@aminapm9798 I wonder why people have this stereotype. I'm an ENFJ who loves reading, like LOVES it
wow, she disguised herself in there really well. i did not see that coming. thanks, FJ.
6:50 Nooo, I’m an extrovert and I used to get embarrassed easily too. Well, I think it’s actually based on each of the extroverts previous experiences. Mine was because I used to get dismissed by some people in my life and that hurts. Because I didn’t get the attention that I was craving for after they left me. And it somehow leads to a minor anxiety problem, that might looks like an embarrassment. By the way, it was back then when I was tested out as a turbulent extrovert. It has changed after I am surrounded by the right people and gaining more confidence overtime. I came to test again and it turns out that I became an assertive extrovert.
So, my bet is that extrovert vs introvert neuroticism really matters
Aww that sucks. I’m an ENFP who doesn’t feel embarrassed in the moment because I am oblivious to and just don’t know how to read social cues- and unlike INFP’s or INTP’s my Ne is completely unfiltered so I just say whatever idea that has popped into my head, and embrace all my weird oblivious to people around me.
SAME. I'm an ENFP and the anxiety and fear it causes me...for instance, I can easily command a room. But then when I realize a crowd of people are watching me intently for the punchline of my joke/story...I'm like oh god SELF AWARENESS. Then I would either leave or crumble. Then I have embarrassed flashbacks/reminders when people bring up the joke/story to me when it wasn't that important to me, which gives me more anxiety that people are just thinking about me?? Honestly I'm probably E because I can dominate a room without thinking about it but I have to be comfortable with them, otherwise I'm nervous wallflower I type all the way, I always skip parties for that reason! Other people! (Even though I love people...just not strangers lol)
@@samaraisnt Extroversion does not mean one is confident in oneself. How are you an “E” if you don’t like strangers? Perhaps you’re barely an “E.”
I always considered myself a “confident introvert.”
I’m very chill, low pride (meaning I don’t get embarrassed, but typically laugh when my screw ups cause others to laugh), bubbly happy, which fuels my ADHD energy making me easily excitable. I’m not shy, so I have no trouble talking to people when I’m around them. I’ll even start conversation because I’m here and may as well make the most of it. I’m positive and very confident of who I am as a person. My father taught me that the opinions of people who don’t care about me don’t matter.
However, I’m 100% content with staying home, and will most likely say no to impromptu “wanna go somewhere?” I keep a very small, selective group of people I call friends, I live for deeper conversation, I sit in quiet and chill when by myself or around others with low energy. Cacophony of people and noise is a no thanks. I don’t willing go to large events, but if I do, I need someone I can focus on to block others out, else I’ll find a nice corner to draw in. I typically don’t stress in crowd because I’ve learned coping habits. When picking who to hang out with, I prefer low energy people, at least not overwhelming. I have people I’ll always hang out with because they’re not exhausting, and for an exhausting group, I have to deem if I’m prepared for them. So long as I have an ability to escape a social event whenever I want, I can comfortably stay until I’m done.
Because of my confidence and energetic joy, people mistake me for an extrovert all the time.
I actually feel like I have found my clone!!!! Omg I'm exactly the same!!! My parents tell me to care about others opinions, but I discovered that being myself drains my energy least!
My rule is that if I have to pretend to be someone else with someone (which really drains me btw) they're not the kind of friend I want
I can relate with this too!
You're sooooo me😬😂
Yeah ADHD gives you access to all personality types
I missed this kind of videos Frank :) you, commenting on some subject, talking to your audience. and on Thursday! It was a nice surprise 🧡
Video idea: 16 personalities interacting as a class in school
It was really great to see different extraverts! The quiet, the slow etc. I'm looking at people differently now.
Me, sitting in my car at home as the premiere starts: “I can’t carry my stuff inside now - it’s starting!”
Me, sitting in my car at home when the premier ends: “Get inside, there could be _people_ out here!”
#trueintrovert
Ha! That looked like a fun game. Good ice breaker. Elysia fooled everyone. Just goes to show: never underestimate the acting skills of an introvert.😄
Others are putting it down to an invisibility cloak type thing. another comment pointed out that even the camera person forgot she was there at 8:02. Poor Elysia, although it was probably a relief to get her head shared after all the talking over one another at the start. :)
I wasn't buying it. When she described what was supposed to be her career, it sounded like she was talking about watching someone else do their career of being a director. I really couldn't imagine her being a director. Or at least not being a director making her an extrovert . she really seemed to have to push that information out there
@@markwright3161 Could be. I only watched it once, but it seemed like scenes were missing, like maybe Frank couldn't put the whole episode in the video? I could be wrong, or that's just how it was originally edited. I actually suspected her or the guy who was next to her. ✌️
@@punkbunnee9558 I thought it could be her or the guy next to her. But she did somehow fool the people who were there, and Frank (😅). ✌️
Even if the prize is money, I wouldn't want to be in the same room with 6 extroverts
🤣imagine being stuck in a elevator with them !
In a situation like that, I am confident that I could pass myself off as an extravert. I'm not as shy/self-conscious as I used to be when I was a younger, and I have had a lot of practice being "On" in front of groups of people. I think that I (an INTP) would claim to be sn ENFP. I can be chaotic if it suits me, and that would be my strategy.
same
@@WinXP2001 mood. Plus INTP/J's tend to somehow come off as intimidating to a lot of people? I've lost count of the number of times I've gotten that & it's not helpful in a lot of situations irl. So we learn to make the effort to come off as Nice & that usually means learning how to be Extroverted temporarily.
@@salemsaberhagan same. most of ppl's first impression of me is that I'm jusdgemental, mean, and exclusive when all I do is daydream lmao. however, I come off extroverted to my close friends or relatives because I know how to act accordingly to situations.
I’m an actual ENFP and my partner is an INTP… he has definitely not gotten to the “extrovert passing” phase. the only reason we even met is because I was insistent on becoming his friend hahah :)
@@bebelmatson just coz you "can" doesn't mean that you "will" lol In romantic situations especially I wouldn't put on my extrovert face. That's false advertising. Instead I'll be more introverted than ever just to make sure they're really interested & I'm not misreading the situation + I get time to see if the person's worth the emotional investment. Rejoice. You sound like you passed the test :P
First of all, I think I'm an introvert so it felt awkward and uncomfortable to watch this video.
But I did notice that the real introvert (I'm sorry, I'm really not good with names) almost didn't talk at all (I think she talked like one time at the middle-end...) So I immediately suspected her.
I'm very nervous while writing this comment because I really care about what other people are thinking of me (and English is not my Native language), so please tell me if I have any mistakes or something so I'll feel more comfortable.
Thanks for reading.
If you guessed this one, you are a great observer 👍
Your English is great. 👍
I would never have known that you aren’t a native English-speaker. You have nothing to worry about. 😊
Good observations! And your English is great!
As a former ESL instructor, I can assure you that your post was a joy to read for its spelling and grammar!
I nailed it! Looking at their body language, the true introvert stood away from the others and kept her hands behind her back. This is similar to how I act when forced to interact in a group.
I love how all the extroverts were so caught up in their conversations that nobody even noticed-
Your sponsorship this time is spot on. "Click my link to avoid having to message random acquaintances!" Yay for introverts!
3:32 when you’re an introvert but whenever you talk you do hand motions:
I am an ENFJ but I definitely can give off introvert vibes. I overly apologize and read books. I also think I have anxiety, so it makes it hard to always be around people. Some people drain my energy while other people give me energy. FJ has said that ENFJ’s can sometimes confuse themselves as Introverts, so maybe some of the people in the videos were ENFJ’s or something. The makers of the game would want to choose people who are hard to determine for the sake of the game, and maybe to show that we can be similar at times.
The ones who overly apologize are likely to be “F,” and “E’s” definitely read.
As an INFJ I would be able to act like an ENFJ for a few hours at a time and this type of game intrigues me because I would spend the whole time telling each person what personality type i think they are.
I love how you channel has grown so much in the last few months Frank, congrats!
Omg I watched that extroverts VS one introvert video yesterday and now you uploaded this- LOL I got so confused
“Clearly I know what I’m talking about” had me rolling
I couldn’t pin who it was, but I could tell it definitely wasn’t Ellie. She was like, the most extroverted person in the room. Zed too. The rest I was on the fence. Tbh though I was mostly thinking of how I, an avid reader, nerd and comic book artist, could convince them all that I really am an extrovert 🥲 It’s hard finding peeps to do karaoke with you when all your friends are nerds and artists
Oh karaoke nerds are out there!
I need an artist friend with me... ;-;
Yea looks may be decieving though, I pretty much act that way in certain circumstances and some colleagues have been baffled to find out I'm an introvert... What they don't see though, is how hard I crash afterwards.
I can get that way when drunk+tired+with close friends as well, but that happens about every other year or so...
/INTP
I was sure about zed, ellie and alex. ellie reminded me way too much of myself… I’m an ENFP lol
@Marina Antolín I feel you gurl 👾🌚
When she mentioned the theatre, I thought it might be her. Every introvert I know has at some point enjoyed acting or behind the scenes stuff.
Dang, Elysia!
I thought it was Alaa, too!
That was fun 😆
Do this reacting videos very often, please.
I think this just goes to show how much more there is to your personality beyond being and introvert or extrovert. Everyone is their own person no mater any test they might take or labels the pay may give themselves. If nothing else this video showed that their is always more to a person and their personality then you can know when first meeting them.
11:20 i mean of she was the introvert she was the one that spoke the least out of all of them she was to figure out only one thing to say for each round
Can an *Introvert* spot a secret *Extrovert* ?
_Show starts_
Amy - Hello my na....
*Yep it's her*
Their reasoning of having to be an extrovert to work a store such as Build-a-Bear or working at a trampoline park is really important/necessary is bogus; I am an introvert who needs to get away from people in the same house most the time, and yet I also worked as a tour guide. It is called being able to act.
Exactly. I am a teacher and I need to perform in front of my students.
I’m always in the 80-90% range for introvertedness in the Myers Briggs scale, yet I work two retail jobs in an area where people like to have conversations. It’s certainly good to get myself out of my comfort zone, but I end up needing to just straight up not talk to anyone once my shift is over. Overall I don’t mind it though, as long as you get coworkers you can get along with, even introverts can do perfectly well at “extroverted” jobs.
Yah, I don’t know why some mistakenly believe that “introvert” means you can’t or don’t interact with people. They do it all the time. Even, “extroverts” can become drained by interacting too much with others.
My instinct went to Elysia at the opening with the wide view of everyone. The distance between her and the next person was suspicious.
When are you going to do another guess my viewers’ types kind of video? I really enjoyed that one and you mentioned we should keep making those shorts.
I spotted Eliysia right away. The moment everyone in the group started interacting I took note of her body position. Eliysia stood outside of the group. As an introvert, that's my stance of choice. While others gather together, I stand outside of the circle because it's the best way to NOT get noticed.
true. you dont want to be the CENTER of ATTENTION. all caps to make it intense. lol im an introvert.
Yeah you want all the people to be in front of you; if you’re in the circle or on the circle there at least two people (the ones right next to you) who can look at you and you don’t know cuz they are not even in your peripheral vision. So you gotta be outside so that when someone looks at you, you’ll know.
It’s awkward for me to know someone’s watching me when I’m just there, not talking and involving. Or even when I am talking for that matter. 😅
Yeah, it's a huge stereotype that heavy people are extroverted. It's pretty sad i knew she was the introvert from the start, and kinda sad how many people didn't really acknowledge her
The girl fade through the background while we subconsciously think that she's energetic out there 😮
If I was invited, I wouldn’t have even gone
Love it when my boi FJ loses it and laughs awkwardly midsentence
This video is so creative.Thank you Frank for sharing.
It's nice to see you doing reaction videos.
I just love FJ’s facial expressions, I wish I had my own FJ lol
You should be on one of these Odd Man Outs, Frank. Your knowledge of introversion and extroversion in general could give you an edge.
I guessed correctly! Elysia at one point towards the beginning, when she was speaking, had a "chest flush" of embarrassment- the camera was so fast, I almost missed it. Then towards the end, she took a slight step backwards- again I almost missed it as the camera was so quick. I knew it was her with the chest flush, then the slight step backwards sealed it. But she did a great job of hiding her introversion. My introverted self is exhausted just watching all this people interaction, or I would tell you the times in the video when it happened, but I'd have to watch it again.. sorry, lol. Even writing this public comment is draining, haha. Gotta go recover now. :)
The topic, who is the introvert, was just so vapid, what introvert could get into it? And to make matters worse, the extros just seemed to get more excited as they went - all about basically nothing. "I'm so excited, that I'm so excited"🤣🤣😂😂
I also guessed correctly haha, i had my suspicions from the beginning when she was like a little bit more away from the others, and i confirmed it when Alaa talks to her and she nodded too nervously, and also idk how i new it bc i am and extrovert -enfp
It wasn't a chest flush but a sun burn, actually! I had gotten a second degree sunburn two days earlier, and I was exhausted and putting everything I could into faking it. XD
I did also guess Eliysia. Early on she was nervous. I noticed that she drifted into the corner as if to not get noticed.
Elle was ruling the room... She was the most extroverted person there, and they group kicked her...
omg i enjoy watching jubilee's contents and yours as well and now u're making a reaction video of one of their videos! Two of my fave channels in one frame
I'd totally win this. Lol I'm an INFJ that teeters close to the middle between I and E. I can appear extroverted when I want to, but then spend several days (or weeks after a big event, like a concert, festival, or Christmas) hiding reading books, watching videos, and sleeping. Lol
same here 😂😂 dont we infjs rend to have that skill. well some of us
INFJs are a walking contradiction. That is why they are also known as social chameleons.
@@otterinaballgown3703 Absolutely! If I had to be extraverted all the time, I think I would simply die from my battery being over drained!!!
😳🥱😩😴
Infj herr and pretty same - like wow but i really thought alia cuz she was sus-
Im intp but i can do the same. When i check my mbti, i was 51% introvery 49% extrovert.
yoooo frank you should do the other one with the secret extrovert too.i wanna see my people spotting the extrovert bahaha
Aw man, I laughed so hard, I did think Alah was the introvert but maybe we were all overcompensating, but this was such laugh, thank you. (card carrying INFP here, totally sympathising with ya) ;-)
I watched the jubilee video a few days ago and the first thing I noticed is how insane I perceived it to be for total strangers to just get on so well so randomly then I realized duh, they're extroverts xD (infj here)
Me: total extrovert
Also me: will read for 3hrs straight
I like how you are taking more from UA-cam pop culture (Hot Ones, now Odd Man Out). Keep doing this. 🙂
This just proves what I already knew. It's really hard to tell a true introvert from a true extrovert because it's more of a feeling process than a behavior process (feeling drained vs feeling energized around people).
There is this guy who is high up at a former employer who I assumed was an introvert. The company sponsored this MBTI expert to come in and assess us all. I just assumed he would be an IxTx because of his behavior. When I asked, he slowly said his letters (E...N...F...P) as if to give me time to respond to each one. I was so surprised over the E and F. Then there were Ixxx cowokers who never shut up. The whole process was eye opening to me.
the part I enjoyed most about this video is your being genuine with your reactions. even though you were wrong but you're real. laughed so hard when you said you were just trying to save face 😂😂
Frank, the last few seconds were hilarious 🤗 I love your content the best, okay? Just wanted to say that. Lots of love and light to you, hon.
This is so fascinating. I love people watching.
I don't really think this is so easy. I am very much an introvert, but I do like to socialize and I can socialize somewhat well for somewhat extended periods of time. But that being said after a certain period of time I can no longer enjoy a social experience. If I'm one-on-one with someone that I know really well this could be more than 12 hours before I start to get really to the point where I'm like okay, I need to get away from this now, but if I'm in a group of 3 or 4 especially if there's some people in the group that I don't know very well I'm gonna wear myself out after less than 2 hours. Regardless I need some alone time to recover before I'm around people again for any prolonged time frame.
I'm an introvert for sure, but I enjoy talking to people occasionally. But I'm also terrified of initiating. That being said I like the idea of wearing a "Hello My Name Is" sticker. I'll for sure take it off tho when I need a break.
Had the exact same thought process as Frank James even before he said anything... and then we were both wrong.
The one to fade in the background. Classic XD
Extroverts do read! I'm an extrovert but, I spend the bulk of my time with my nose in a book. I usually stay up till 2-ish reading. However if you confront me with total nonfiction, (that isn't an interesting reference book) I will run away. -ENFP 📚
I did the name tag thing when I started uni. It's a great way to get talking to people when you're an introvert.
I really like your videos, but this one is by far the best. 🤣
I'm a social introvert. I like meeting new people TO A CERTAIN EXTENT. I HAVE A LIMIT, PEOPLE!
Hijabi Frank is the best thing I never thought I would see 😄
Another great video. There she is. I didn’t see this coming. I was with you .
You should react to the opposite one too: all introverts and one secret extrovert
I was so convinced from the greeting it was Alaa!!
I absolutely love Zed and Ellie! They're so obviously extroverts.
Thanks, love you too🥰
I couldn't guess it right either when I saw the original video XD You should totally do the 6 introverts 1 secret extrovert!!
Wow, Frank, you are getting really good at making these videos!
Yay Frank you admitting your wrong is too cute!! Like this switch up!! Always enjoyable:)
I've noticed specifically INFJs do get embarrassed about stuff so much! INFJs be like, "oh God this was so embarrassing, I didn't know how to do this thing I'd never done before, I must be an idiot." Or "I smiled in this weird way, I'm sure they noticed and think I'm a freak" and I'm like "I'm sorry you find that embarrassing. I think you might just be overly judgmental of yourself though."
As an ENFP raised by an INFJ, I have this weird background voice awareness that my mom would find things embarrassing, and (as Nathan Glass would put it) meta feelings wondering whether I should be embarrassed about more things than I am. So instead I just have anxiety but generally not embarrassment haha
What would be REALLY interesting is 6 INTROVERTS vs 1 secret extrovert. Well, I take it back, because nobody would talk. Lol.
That was not easy at all! I thought all of them were extroverts 😬 Lol
Thank you Frank, that was enjoyable 😊
Please do the 6 introverts vs 1 extrovert one!
4:13 FRANK IS A FREAKING GENIUS
You had my laughing in fits at the end of this video 😂 I was hanging on to your every word of describing introverts and extroverts 😅
What makes for introversion is energy. I’m one of those introverts who can talk to people and socialize just fine, but I can’t do that for long periods of time because it’s mentally and physically draining for me. I also work in customer service so introverts are capable of dealing with the public too. But that’s why you had me convinced about Alaa, I felt like she was the introvert and she was overcompensating so she could win some money.
She definitely seems very extroverted. Fell for it too!
Wow! She knew that being seen as the one who is trying to convince may get her to gain attention as an introvert trying her best to convince the audience. 😂😂
This feels like quadruple bluffing mafia game crossed with typical "know each other" game, but played for money
Lol this video was hilarious 🤣! Please do more content like this. Great video, James.
Very true like what you said , that the one who interrupts the least is probably the introvert , which was very truee, I mean Elysia rarely even talked or stepped in , she was even standing farther than the other contestants , she was only like nodding , didn’t do much of the talking , makes sense , but that was funny and pretty convincing how you analyzed the situation , pretty cool
can you do the personalities with their toxic pairs?? i think it'll be fun!
I just watched the video before watching your reaction on it and my thoughts were kinda of similar to yours, didn't expect the ending, I only had a thought that she might be the introvert when she was explaining about her job, but just for a sec 😅
'introverts get more flustered and extroverts just move on"
me, an ENFJ who cares too much about what people think so i get flustered easily: hmm...
I feel like I'm invading a secret club or something, because most people watching this are probably introverts and I'm an extrovert lol
Okay but Zed's name tag story was adorable. It absolutely would have gotten me talking to him too 😂
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I'm I extroverted introvert, Im a pretty reserved person and I prefer to keep to my self and being around a lot of people is really emotionally draining. But I grew up in a Irish house hold full of extroverts so I know the only way you can get a word in at anything you have to be loud energetic and have to talk over people plus I become pretty extroverted when I'm around people I'm comfortable with or about a topic I like.
Fj in the beginig:I know my kind
In the end : I messed up
As an introvert, I have learned to mimic other people and match their energy. It's completely draining afterwards, but so easy to look like you fit in.