Had the teacher said his name out loud in front of the class he would have been the center of attention smart introvert play only real introverts understand
@@zerzavy True, that is also awful, but still slightly less intimidating. Oh, and it's not a matter of being a "smart" introvert or whatever the opposite of that is that you're implying. Gtfo with your ego trip, pal. 😂
I’m an introvert who once got placed next to another introvert even quieter than me but after some awkward silence we quickly became two of the loudest kids in class when we talked with each other and the teacher constantly had to shut us up 😂
That's hilarious, but can relate. As an introvert myself, when with another introvert, I'm somehow always the more social/louder one of us, and it's not unusual for that to rub off on the other, so we end up being the loudest and silliest.
Saaaame! I'm a really friendly introvert, I like to make friends (even tho I'll be reeeeally needing some alone time later lol) so sometimes I sound just like a shy extroverted to someone who's more shy or quiet than me. And the giggling get so loud lmao there's nothing more exciting than two introverts getting excited about something!
XNFP here and lol same I turn into the most confident, outgoing, extroverted person around very introverted people. But if you put me next to loud extroverts I seem introverted
Same. They don't make me uncomfortable because I know they feel the same way, and my instinct then is to empathize and try to make *them* comfortable. (INFP)
Yes! I was shocked to be described as an extrovert by one of my introverted friends, just because I *can* talk when I need to. Never mind that I spend the next few days needing solitude and quiet to recover! 🙄
Exactly. I'm infp and I've been called ambivert / chat-extrovrt, face to face introvert 😐 because i talk to complete my tasks. They dunno how much im dying inside
I had a science teacher in high school who quickly realized I was uncomfortable working with other people when it came to projects. One day, he sat me down before class started and asked if I would prefer to handle projects alone and I said yes. I was so relieved when he agreed and then realized how grateful I was. He was the only teacher in all twelve years of school to notice and accept the fact I just didn't do well in groups. He handled it professionally and respectfully. I don't know where he is now, it's been over ten years since I graduated, but I wish him the best and hope he's doing well.
@@josren As someone who is 30 and works in the real world, I can tell you no, he didn't do me a disservice. His class was one I did better in. I work with people perfectly fine at both of my jobs, but in school, I never excelled at working in groups. Working in the real world is different than doing a group project in school.
Oh god, I misread the first part, and though he made you sit in front of the class when he realized you had problems with it. I'm so glad it was the opposite!
@@josren People who dislike working in teams or with a partner tend to choose jobs where they don't have to sit on top of other people for extended lengths of time. "Working well with others" at a job just means being polite and helpful when someone requests something, always answering your mails/phone fairly quickly, and being punctual about showing up and finishing tasks. Since a lot of introverts don't want to be a bother to anyone, others usually enjoy working with us because we're easy to deal with. Polite and no drama.
Now imagine being an extrovert and ending up in a room with someone so darn extroverted that you’re forced into a introvert roll and you just sit there and think: do I ever sound this obnoxious to my friends?
@@calminthewater6391 and most introverts need atleast once where they realise how annoying it is to hold any form of conversation with them since you carry the whole thing by yourself. One word replies are the bane of my existence 💀
Social anxiety does not equal introversion. It took me a really long time to learn I had social anxiety and I wasn't an introvert. The internet's false view of introversion really contributed to my problem. I hope people in the same situation as I was in figure this out. Social anxiety is really a bitch and the sooner you begin treatment the better.
It's true. It's ironic how self-proclaimed "introverts" are the ones to never fucking stop broadcasting things about themselves everywhere. Most of them are really socially deprived extraverts.
So true. I'm an introvert (I get drained by social interaction and need to recharge by being alone) as well as shy, but the social anxiety I had in my teens was a different thing entirely! I couldn't do anything in public without feeling terribly self-conscious. Luckily it's something that I've (mostly) overcome through the years, with good environments and conscious effort.
*Being with an extrovert like:* Please stop talking. Can't you take a hint. *Being with an introvert like:* Can you please say something you weirdo. I'm doing all the work here.
If I'm recalling correctly I think I 'scored' 98% in introversion or whatever you want to call it in the 16 personalities test. :) I don't think I'm as 'bad' (for want of a better word) as blue shirt guy though, having said that, it has been a while since I've been in a 'common' social interaction, over a year. Although, I probably am like blue shirt guy when I'm dealing with business people and need to make a decision I wasn't able to pre-plan my response for, like when they couldn't say exactly what was the cause of an issue I'm having with my car and threw me a 50:50 choice of what to fix, on the spot important decision making, personal nightmare. I just sat there for what felt like minutes staring at the steering wheel with them standing next to me waiting for a response, then I think I came up with 'I'll think about it', and it still isn't fixed a year later. Sorry for offloading. :)
@@Shrektopuz no, there’s this one test on a site called 16personalities.com, it’s a personality test except it’s written by people who actually study this stuff, their studies say they’re are 16 types of personalities, hence the name. He didn’t take 16 buzzfeed tests lol he just took the one real one.
@@shinysparce3708 Yep, that's it. I managed to miss your reply before replying to them myself. :) Just took it again to get to that page with the bars and percentages to make sure I was remembering it right when telling them about it. It has now suggested ISFJ-T vs INFJ-T previously, and 'only' 90% introverted now. I've always been close to the middle on 'energy' if I remember right, and current circumstances might be what has heightened 'observation' vs 'intuition' there, a certain inescapable negative reality that's been going on for a year now, for us anyway.
Haha, for me situations like this are less of an identity crisis and more just discovering another side of myself that doesn't often come out - which only broadens and enhances my self-understanding. Embrace your complexity!
Or you can embrace it. I once ran a church rummage sale with a group of people. The extroverted people all stood together talking, and me and a couple other introverts sat together in comfortable silence eating snacks
Most of the time introverts joined hands pretty well and let everything went auto-pilot smoothly. The moment a controlling ones tried to take charge, it might throw off the balance and created a revolt instead. Even the revolt gonna be autonomously as well 😂
As an introvert who only starts talking really around her friend group of a whopping two people who are also introverts, I vibed with yellow-shirt Frank and felt reeeeally uncomfortable.
Social introverts scare me. Some of us introverts are just so much more comfortable in their head around other people than they are bouncing ideas. laksjfoahsdfophasd;fnaweoihfwpqafdf
@@lavandulanepetoideae149 Well people never know that even I didn't know it before, so I am still an introvert. I am not an expert but I found this comment really uncomfortable.
When I find a more introverted person I immediately act like an extrovert. You need me to raise my hand and point to you so you can answer the question you know? I gotchu. You want me to walk to the front of class to throw something away? I gotchu. You need me to be loud when your stomach growls so you aren't embarrassed? I gotchu. (Never-mind the fact that I couldn't even ask to use the restroom because I'm so scared.)
now im just imagining like, one day everyone wakes up and they're suddenly an extrovert through this logic, except one guy who is just the most introverted guy in the world
Flashbacks! My friends back in school are all introverts except one but they all gather for a group study before exams while I silently stay in one corner.
I am an INTJ. When I met an INTP, for the first time in my life I felt like someone is more introverted than me . This was the exact feeling that I got
@@kiei8083 There is a range of how introverted or extroverted each person is within any given personality type. I think this can overlap between similar types.
@@San-lh8us I'm assuming it refers to (introverted) people who will act extroverted to make someone else comfortable, like yellow-shirt Frank is doing here. I wonder if it also applies to introverted people who might, say, ask a question on someone's behalf.
@@yuuri9064 yeah, that's what I was referring to. As you say, It's a person who acts as an extrovert to make people feel good and comfortable. I've only heard this term to refer to extroverts, it can also be applied to introverts, though :)
@@lorireed8046 that honestly sounds awesome to me. The last time I had to stand up and talk in front of a class I cried the moment I stood there. Just burst into tears before I could even speak
I think growing in a internet dominated era has its cons but young people being able to see/know that they are not the only one who struggles in some ways and even laugh about it is a blessing..i wish i had that when i was younger..
There's a girl in my class who's about the same level of introvert as me, we sit together at lunch and scroll through our phones and don't talk, it's great. She was more introverted at the start of the year but I annoyed her up to my level
And then there's me. I always hated my school. I had no friends and was bullied in my class. Until one day I sat down with a book at my usual place, some stairs leading down to the cellar of the building. And then another girl came over, sat down at my side and quietly took out a book herself. It was the best 20 minutes of my life up until that point. Just quietly reading and enjoying the presence of each other. She became my best friend and we would do this for years, just sitting there, reading, or talking about literally anything. It even started to attract other people and we sometimes had 10 more or less random people at "our" place. That place, the stairsteps, it showed me that you don't have to be overly social or "extroverted" to find friendship and have a good time. Sometimes, you just have to sit down and read a nice book. P.s.: The "Iron fey" book series really stuck with me since then ;)
Nah. Me and my good freind are both introverts so i end up trying to make conversation with her. In the end we look like strangers that have to work together.
Having conversations with other introvert is like: "I hate silence but I don't want to talk" "Wait, did I just talk this much?" "I can't believe what just happened, who am I?" 🤣🤣
INFP here: I'd practically die inside if I got told they would do all the work but have me present it. If I'm presenting I have to do all the work. It wont make sense to me otherwise plus I'd be speaking with the other person's words not my own. Which I don't want to do ever. I'm fine with group presentations but my part always runs longer than the rest of the group because I'm terrible at being concise.
"I dont really like small talk" "Is that what im doing" GOT ME ROLLING ON THE FLOOR HAHSHAHHSHA As an introvert myself this is really accurate i literally HATE doing projects in a team and then presenting it in front of the class😭😭😭😭😭
As a social introvert, I often find myself being "the leader" of the introvert study group or something, because nobody wants to take the lead. I hate being the leader, but I also hate that awkwardness when people are actually more introverted than me. So I have to save everyone from that point and just take the lead, it's the simplest way.
Same, except I don't hate it. It rarely happens, and it's actually kind of a relief to be around people more introverted than myself for once, and interesting how naturally it comes to me to be 'the extrovert' in those situations when I hardly ever am otherwise. (INFP here.)
thank you. i always felt so weird because i’m an “introvert” and i can’t have constant social interaction and need to recharge, but i also love socializing when i have the energy.
Think about it this way. The life experience of an introvert with poor socializing skills: This sucks a bit but hey I wouldn't have gotten much out of socializing anyway. The life experience of an extrovert with poor socializing skills: This is torture.
@@goldenapple3952 Yeah, people think introvert = shy, extrovert = social/confident when really: Introvert = loses energy from social interactions, extrovert = gains energy from social interactions. I'm an introvert but I'm not a shy person, I'm into public speaking and on a debate team. I just feel really drained after being around people and if I had the choice I would live out the rest of my life alone on an abandoned island lol
Once I was talking with a man, (assuming I'm underage XD) and we were so focused on the topic (factorials) that we just skipped completely the small talk part XDDDD. Best talk I've ever had in life.
When my classmate ask me my name, i always consider its small talk. If im correct, i swear one dude in my class ask me where i live more than 10 times throughout the year cuz that's all he can find to ask me.
I love it when I get into an “introvert battle” and then I pull the “I once spent 10 hours in my room waiting for my dad to leave the kitchen so I can eat in peace.” True story btw. And yes I would do them again
Okay, I'm having a hard time imagining a situation where that's funny and relatable. I have all kinds of questions about what it was like living with your dad, and I'm not sure if you were wanting to go in that direction at all, but that's exactly where I'm going.
You were waiting for him to leave? I normally pull out the "So far, I've been waiting 2 years for my dad to come back." So I guess I'm something of an extrovert myself
I'm definitely less shy around introverts. Though I'm an introvert I still have a dominant personality, so when I'm around quiet introverts I feel inclined to take initiative because somebody's gotta do it and if I do not nothing will get done. 😂😂
I think is a good therapy and a good way to facing your insecurities being with people who are more shy and introvert than you. This forces you to talk more to follow the conversation and kind of makes you act like the extrovert of the group
@@StephanieJeanne nono its a personal choice if you wanna be in the call room or not. Also just so you know discord was so toxic to me. I dleted the app and left cuz everyone kept asking me about my real name and i was so annoyed. I was called autumn there. They all bullied me so i just left. But in real life in most of my middle school and junior high i was the no name kid. 😂✌
Was there a time when you were introverted but then there was someone more introverted than you were, so you had to play the role of an extrovert and you’ve never felt more confident your whole life...? Cause same.
A few years ago, on the first week at my college we were divided into groups and a few groups had to hold a presentation for +100 people. I am introverted myself, but I don't really mind about public speaking etc. Our group was randomly chosen to hold a presentation and my partner did not come with me, so I had to hold it alone. I remember before I started my presentation I said 'it seems like my partner is missing' and a bit later I saw her in the audience and we had eye contact. After this I never saw her in our school, I think she decided to quit the school because of this.
I was in the same position with "Frank" character last year, when a friend of my mother's visited us with her daughter. Even though I'm usually quiet and I may ask introductory questions here and then, she (the daughter) was so quiet and reserved I would see myself as the only one breaking the silence and making questions to her.
Most ambiverts do think they're very introverted at first until they realised how they needed the socialising part, but only with the selected few, but not too many 😂
I'm surely not the only one who is often a bit annoyed and tired of extroverts with their small talk, impulsiveness and boundless energy, but it's in moments like these that you realize you really need them. 😂 Thanks for existing.
@@serkratos1216 ENFJ here, you’ll be surprised. There are more socially awkward people in the world than socially confident people. It’s hard to find other extroverts amongst the youth theses days, everyone’s buried in their phones as well and don’t know how to be interesting in conversation. Oh yes honey we go through it with y’all too.
The same. But I do live around a bunch of show off peoples. So I Just learned to bê carefull when talking. The extroverts can be spike balls like sometimes.
Similar to what Lily says, if I can feel relaxed in the situation and carry on a mutually interesting conversation the other person tends to feel more relaxed as well. As much as the awkward social situations can play on one's mind, if they can be reframed and learnt from they can inform future situations. And sometimes you gotta fake confidence - at least a little bit more than what you actually feel.
I think that happens to some anxious extroverts too. And shy introverts might see their anxious ramblings as insensitive and not realise they're feeding off the anxiety of the quieter person.
So I ABSOLUTELY experienced this. I'm an introverted shy person with self esteem lower than Mariana trench and fear of people judging me. I could recently make amends with myself and increase my self esteem and be comfortable in my own skin and I started to want to get to know more people (also it's my first year in uni so I have a lot of opportunities to do so). I tried talking to this one guy and it was his first day so I thought I could have a nice and easygoing conversation with him but it turned out that he was more introverted than I was, and I didn't know what to say next because he wouldn't contribute to the conversation either. So I sat there, stressed, awkward and anxious. Now I wouldn't be this stressed because of silence normally but I REALLY wanted to have a long conversation with him and be his friend so I really wanted the conversation to go how I thought it would go in my head. Anyway now we just wave hi or bye or smile at each other if we catch each other looking and that's it. I'm still frustrated because I want to get to know him more but I just don't know how to so I'm just stuck in this weird space (which is probably only my overthinking and he might be perfectly fine with how the things are) being an INFJ doesn't help either haha ;-;
I can relate so much, I hate when I meet people who are more introverted than me since it gets awkward compared to an extrovert or anyone else who likes talking, can just talk and I can nod and pretend I’m listening
Introverted teacher here, who has to act as an extrovert. Trying to get one of those students to talk is really challenging... And yes, they have to talk. I'm an English as a second language teacher.
@@MissGothicksoul my introvertedness worked well for me as a tutor, since my work focuses on individuals instead of handling some handful of big classes
@@gabrieldossantossanta5656 You look like one, but your energy runs out, like the introvert you are. Before quarantine, in-person classes were something that I really loved doing, but I ended up extremely tired at the end of the day.
I call myself the ice breaker introvert because whenever our teachers asked our class a question I answered first to break the awkward silence. I usually had the wrong answer but other people felt encouraged so they would start to respond to the teacher and I could fade into the backround again peacefully. You're welcome guys :')
Ah i rarely do that. But i am the one that my classmates before keep pushing to ask something from the faculty room. Said something along the lines of "you have the bravest face among our class to stand near a teacher and actually ask something to them." And im just the second most introverted student in class. The most introverted one is an INFJ, shes my bestie and shes smart but she usually dont make friends or say anything when a lot of people are around, she speaks when she has to tho. And im an INFP, so i wonder whats wrong with me coz...arent INFJs supposed to be more extroverted than INFPs? Or am i wrong?
When an extra extroverted person tell u with confidence I'll adopt u, and u have a mixed feeling of disgrace to yourself and happiness cuz someone noticed and is trying to rescue you.
If could split the two introverts guys. Its like this scenario: the blue shirt is more reserved introvert and yellow shirt is more anxious type of introvert. If this sums it up.
queue me, who is both quite anxious and quite reserved. I have managed to see people for multiple years, who then could not tell you my favorite color, what kind of music I like, what I do with my free time, and would be shocked when I said I had siblings after all that time. Does this make me a green shirt ?
I can relate to you very well. I thought I was introvert until my friend told me I was not, which later I found myself as an ENFP that tend to be an ambivert person instead.
@@mariskad8405 omg same, I thought I was an introvert my whole life and thought it was impossible for me to be an extrovert, even in typology, but my super introverted INTJ bf told me I'm quite extroverted, turns out he was right and I'm an ENTP. (who are also often described as ambiverts, so I relate to you even more lol)
Yeah, I enjoyed acting like an extrovert in high school cuz I wanted to have friends. When I finally got them, and slowly realized they're a really chill bunch, I slowly eased up on my facade and embraced my introverted side. I still enjoy being loud or interacting with people, but it still drains me and I end up seeking quiet alone time lol.
That first sentence he said was literally how I met my one of my first friends in high school. I spent a solid 5 mins building up the courage and structuring my sentence before I actually ask them to be my partner for the project💀
I remember once i meet this girl at a summer camp that was as introverted as I am, and we became friends without exchanging a single word. No joking, we went everywhere together and we just stayed silent. Best friendship ever.
That moment I’m the “more introverted than you” character Fade into the background?? That’s my jam! When I was in high school I switched schools for almost an entire year, when I went back I told a teacher I really liked “I’m back” he answered “you left??” True story
I had the same thing once!! I was missing for half the lesson and the teacher was /so/ sure I had been there all the time I almost regret telling him that I wasn't
one of the most noticeable students in the school i work in was away for a whole year, and i never noticed. i didn't teach their class that year, but with the student being one of only around 120 students, it was rather shocking to both that student and the others in their class. i believe it's an intp thing. i never notice the presense or absense of things or people unless i they're right in front or me, or i happen to need them. i even forget i have a family if they don't contact me.
I hate when this happens, you're not talking, I'm not talking, come on, we need to decide who gets what and Finish this project as fast as possible, so I can go home and recover in peace and do nothing for a week and think a month just passed by. Or I'll just continue to sit here looking at you in silence screaming in my head while imagining myself ripping out my own eyeballs.
This happened to me a couple of times while I was still at school. I often found myself thinking "I don't want to start the conversation, but someone just _has_ to do it or nothing will ever get done."
Same- im usually the one that gets ignored in friend groups so now i would just embrace it instead of feeling bad about it by avoiding attention or popularity (mostly by groups of ppl)
Whenever I talk to other introvert people I don't really feel that stressed out. A lot of my stress comes from being afraid of saying weird things and knowing that other people will realise that I'm different. With other introvert people a lot of that stress just disappears because I feel like they know what it's like to be and feel this way.
Maybe you're not an introvert, maybe you're just a very shy and socially insecure person (it usually goes hand in hand with introversion, but not always). In any case, this channel's depiction of introverts is horrible, makes them all seem like assholes that hate everybody. Not true, introverts can be very polite and down to earth, being an introvert doesn't excuse you from being an asshole.
same I feel that to the point that I don't raise my hand at class even once and everyone thinks I hate them and my friend are all annoying but I got to stay with them cuz I don't have anyone else and it's not just with school its with my family its feels horrible
Awww, I was so hopeful they would have bonded over their shared awkwardness and disdain for group projects or, at least, come up with plans to claim a shared illness in order to complete the written project but get out of the presentation. Not that I have any experience with that. Nope. Not me. 😏😎✊😂🤣🙌
As an extrovert, I’ve learned to imagine conversations in my head to let my introverted friends be. The only problem is that I forget whether or not I’ve actually had a real discussion with them or not. It’s a complicated but necessary method because I can shut my mouth off but not my brain.
Infp do be like that 24/7 😂 They wanna talk but afraid that it'll go south too quickly so they mentally prepared many convo settings & ended up living in their thoughts instead of putting the cards down onto the table and talk for real 🤣
@@nya9134 Being an extrovert means that you have to regulate how much you talk. This is super challenging for us, especially when we are very interested in a topic.
oh goodness, i'd be scared if this happened to me--I'm a terrible listener. I'll forget almost everything even if I'm interested in the topic if they start one of those stories.
@@ihaveseverefrootsnackism people think im god teir listener, but im not. My trick is I listen to the tone of their voice rather than their words. If they are excited ill smile occasionally and say nice often and if they are sad ill put my concerned face on and say damn sadly. People just want to vent and be heard in my experience, they dont care whether you absorb the information or not.
Lmao my coworker is Like this. Sometimes i just say hi and she talks nonstop for 10 minutes and I'm standing there, Awkwardly, nodding as i listen, pretending i didn't see my boss pass over us 3 times wondering why I'm still in the reception area.
This is what i felt when i approached this senior i'm into. I've never seen him talk to anyone, and he likes doing his own thing in a quiet area with as few people as possible. Anyway.. i decided to talk to him, sat next to him, and then, i think to myself.. "Holy shit, is this how people feel when they're talking to me back then? So karma is real after all." When i said hi, he only looked at me for a few seconds.. 1.. 2.. 3 then continued doing his thing. Nah i didn't give up, i continued talking to him, it felt kinda nice tbh. After that i got his social media id, texted him, and he hasn't replied until now. I'm sad, but no reply is a reply so.. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@t_a7923 well.. unfortunately no. I texted him on December 6, and he read it after a few days. I was about to text him again then, but I'd hate to irritate him with my persistence. And besides that, i respect myself enough to not go after someone who clearly doesn't want anything to do with me, so it's all good now. Honestly, even if he doesn't like me in a romantic way, i would certainly love to be his friend tho, i'm just genuinely interested in him as a person :)
With one of my friends it's hit or miss if she will respond. I once did the exact same thing to someone but never brought it up but neither did they. I could tell they were mad but I did not know how to start the conversation. I get real anxious at seemingly random points. I like to think I'm getting better at small talk and then it happens again.
Actually i have an introvert friend that so shy, i even prefer talking with a rock than with him whenever we have a project at school. But when it presentation time,he changes so much. It feels like he is not the same person whenever he goes to stage. Everyone in class (including teacher) always listening carefully for every words that came out from him. Very amazing when i think about It, idk is he an ambivert or he just has a superpower inside his body that we never know.
oh, i'm the exact same way! at least for me the reason public speaking and performing way is easier than holding a conversation is because the rules are totally different.
A thing I had noticed personally was because I usually spoke so little, the times I would talk people would generally pay more attention and be more interested than normal. Like they're witnessing a rare event. Not always though, some people would want to just speak over me. Funny thing was, sometimes another extrovert in the group would tell that person to shut up and let me talk.
I'm an introvert and I'm like this. I get majority nervous b4 I have to speak, but once I do, I'm super confident and I'm loving it. Especially if its acting
I feel like the temporary conversion to being more extroverted around someone even more introverted is because we get them. We resonate with them. So we take on the difficult tasks because someone has to do it and they are even quieter and more uncomfortable and how can we do that to them?! We wouldn’t want someone to do that to us
YES EXACTLY!! I've been trying to explain that to people for years and then they just write me off as as "extrovert trying to be quirky introvert" like no I'm very introverted please speak so I don't have to I hate every time I open my mouth. The worst part is the people I hang out with are DEFINITELY more extroverted than me, they are just lazy and all they do is small talk so it's either I talk basically to entertain myself (while simultaneously hating myself for it, feeling more uncomfortable with every word that comes out of my mouth), listen to them bounce between topics (and by topics I mean completely useless subjects with no substance) every 20 seconds, or sit in awkward silence that will inevitably lead to someone saying "well this is awkward" and then someone will probably go on to tell a really boring, generic story/tangent about how one time they were in an awkward situation due to their inability to think before they act and their extrovertedness so you could never relate to (and probably feel annoyed by, considering it's an easily avoided situation that could've been solved by a lack of stupidity) what they're saying and so you just sit there with the same amount of uncomfortablity as if no one had said anything except now you have a look that says "I'm so surprised by you stupidity" on you face or you at least just lost respect for you friend due to their obvious low IQ.
Sometimes I feel like people uses the word “introverted” wrongly. Sure, a introvert person has it’s energy drained by social interactions, but that doesn’t mean they are awkward/shy. If you are introverted (and I am), please do some effort to talk to people and improve you social skills... don’t do that “I’m introverted, don’t talk to me” thing. You’re being rude and probably loosing a good opportunity to improve a very important skill in live. Introverted is different than misanthrope...
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Why do you hit the truth so hard 😭😂
Being a smart introvert is better than being a stupid extravert who turns to be an introvert in the end.
Yellow shirt guy made a bold move to go over there by himself instead of waiting for the teacher to do this.
My thought exactly. 🤣
Yup, ain't happening!
That requires nerves of steel.
Had the teacher said his name out loud in front of the class he would have been the center of attention smart introvert play only real introverts understand
@@zerzavy True, that is also awful, but still slightly less intimidating. Oh, and it's not a matter of being a "smart" introvert or whatever the opposite of that is that you're implying. Gtfo with your ego trip, pal. 😂
When you meet a more introvert person and suddenly feel like you became the master of small talk, although you’ve only asked one question.
For real ahahaha
That is soooo relatable :')
Yesss hahahah
Or you feel like an interviewer from all the stupid questions you ask in a desperate effort to get a conversation going
True
“is this how other people feel when they talk to me?” accurate asf
Dude yes
I’m scared- the part played exactly when I read this 🧍♀️
Cant relate, no one talk to me first
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Frrr 😭
I’m an introvert who once got placed next to another introvert even quieter than me but after some awkward silence we quickly became two of the loudest kids in class when we talked with each other and the teacher constantly had to shut us up 😂
That's hilarious, but can relate. As an introvert myself, when with another introvert, I'm somehow always the more social/louder one of us, and it's not unusual for that to rub off on the other, so we end up being the loudest and silliest.
Saaaame! I'm a really friendly introvert, I like to make friends (even tho I'll be reeeeally needing some alone time later lol) so sometimes I sound just like a shy extroverted to someone who's more shy or quiet than me. And the giggling get so loud lmao there's nothing more exciting than two introverts getting excited about something!
I love your profile pic Leo
My voice carries and I think it’s because my siblings are all extroverts and I was the quiet one out of 11 kids
I can definitely relate to this lol
“Is this how other people feel when they talk to me?” 😂😂😂
Is that true?
In real.
Yes exactly
Yes, it is
Read the comment while hearing him saying it at the same time.
*I have become the thing that I dread.*
if I see another scared timid introvert struggling I immediately become the alpha introvert and attempt to assist them.
as the scared timid introvert, you are a hero to us
Alpha introvert 😂
Alpha introvert is my new favorite word
😂😂😂 I like it
alpha introvert MJSKSJSKSJ😂😂 i can relate so much to it
It's so awkward. I'm thinking, Noooo I don't want to be the extrovert in this situation.
me everytime it's so annoying
Aah true!! It sucks 😓
Haha this is so relatable
Haha yup lol Though sometimes I don't mind :)
I actually like it cause it shows improvement in my social skills lol
"I will do all the work and you can do the talking" super accurate
I've actually noticed that I'm less shy around other shy people.
XNFP here and lol same I turn into the most confident, outgoing, extroverted person around very introverted people. But if you put me next to loud extroverts I seem introverted
Yesssss me too ❤
Me too! I turn into a hell of an extrovert which is VERY strange.
Same. They don't make me uncomfortable because I know they feel the same way, and my instinct then is to empathize and try to make *them* comfortable. (INFP)
Hm. I am shy rounded a lot people. 😖
I would like to see blue shirt meet a guy that is more introverted than him.
👏
Susan Garrett They just wouldn’t say anything to each other at all. Maybe a unreciprocated hi 5 minutes in but that’s it.
@@jacobharris5894😄 I know! 😶 👀 Just crickets Lol 👂😳
He basically would just yeeted, especially if he couldn't be the one doing everything and have to be the one doing the presentation. Ghosting is easy
Hell yess please
And then they start telling you you’re an extrovert just because you’re more extroverted than them
Yes! I was shocked to be described as an extrovert by one of my introverted friends, just because I *can* talk when I need to. Never mind that I spend the next few days needing solitude and quiet to recover! 🙄
Exactly!!
Literally it’s so funny
Exactly. I'm infp and I've been called ambivert / chat-extrovrt, face to face introvert 😐 because i talk to complete my tasks. They dunno how much im dying inside
That is a very good way of putting it
I had a science teacher in high school who quickly realized I was uncomfortable working with other people when it came to projects. One day, he sat me down before class started and asked if I would prefer to handle projects alone and I said yes. I was so relieved when he agreed and then realized how grateful I was. He was the only teacher in all twelve years of school to notice and accept the fact I just didn't do well in groups. He handled it professionally and respectfully.
I don't know where he is now, it's been over ten years since I graduated, but I wish him the best and hope he's doing well.
He’s really doing you a disservice. You will need to work well with others in the real world
@@josren As someone who is 30 and works in the real world, I can tell you no, he didn't do me a disservice. His class was one I did better in. I work with people perfectly fine at both of my jobs, but in school, I never excelled at working in groups. Working in the real world is different than doing a group project in school.
Oh god, I misread the first part, and though he made you sit in front of the class when he realized you had problems with it. I'm so glad it was the opposite!
@@josren People who dislike working in teams or with a partner tend to choose jobs where they don't have to sit on top of other people for extended lengths of time. "Working well with others" at a job just means being polite and helpful when someone requests something, always answering your mails/phone fairly quickly, and being punctual about showing up and finishing tasks. Since a lot of introverts don't want to be a bother to anyone, others usually enjoy working with us because we're easy to deal with. Polite and no drama.
What an awesome teacher❤️
Now imagine being an extrovert and ending up in a room with someone so darn extroverted that you’re forced into a introvert roll and you just sit there and think: do I ever sound this obnoxious to my friends?
I feel like most extroverts could *really* use that at least once in their life
@@calminthewater6391 and most introverts need atleast once where they realise how annoying it is to hold any form of conversation with them since you carry the whole thing by yourself. One word replies are the bane of my existence 💀
Yep, happened to me.
@@superjune5756 yesssss
@@superjune5756 we both need to get it together show me ur ways
Don't you hate it when the silence is so awkward that you feel like you have to do small talk and act being the outgoing one?
It's truly terrifying.
FOR REAL🙄🙄😒
It is, but it's better to go through the wreck first to discover the mutuality & go smooth from that point on..
It's only awkward if you think it is.
I really hate it
ugh yes
"so my name is Frank"
"uh, i don't really like small talk"
*killed me*
And its not even small talk, its a societal norm 🤣🤣🤣
They have to state their names for the group project
That shot triggered me for some reason
He should have said *ASL?* instead, that'll be less intimidating or self-exposive 🤣🤣🤣
IS THAT WHAT IVE BEEN DOING?!
@@jamien.5528 😂☠️
Social anxiety does not equal introversion. It took me a really long time to learn I had social anxiety and I wasn't an introvert. The internet's false view of introversion really contributed to my problem. I hope people in the same situation as I was in figure this out. Social anxiety is really a bitch and the sooner you begin treatment the better.
Agree 100%
It's true. It's ironic how self-proclaimed "introverts" are the ones to never fucking stop broadcasting things about themselves everywhere. Most of them are really socially deprived extraverts.
How are you treating that?
So true. I'm an introvert (I get drained by social interaction and need to recharge by being alone) as well as shy, but the social anxiety I had in my teens was a different thing entirely! I couldn't do anything in public without feeling terribly self-conscious. Luckily it's something that I've (mostly) overcome through the years, with good environments and conscious effort.
@@beinformed3607 Medications, therapy, personal efforts.
When someone is more introverted than you, you are automatically more extroverted. You feel like a leader.
I'm starting to wonder if the same thing happens to extroverts 🤔
Guess we'll never know
Yeah i know you feel good about it, your profile told me
@@SingingSuperstar28 it does. I have a friend that is more extroverted than me, then I become a quiet person 😅
@@adhaujang4894 We have solved the mystery guys! Thanks 😄
Makes feel bettee yet frustrated sometimes xd
it's the worst feeling in the world when you realize the other person's expecting you to lead the conversation
So true!!!!
It isn't bad... But.. It is when they only give one word responses.
@@Gandhi_Physique yess like i at least try to be responsive when i’m talking to someone more extroverted
nah it's the best cause you're not intimidated by an extrovert
@@porple4430 but then you have to be the more energetic one
“I have become the thing that I swore to destroy...”
I love you and I love Star Wars
you can’t take me down
I have the high ground.
Don't lecture me Obi Wan!
@@toumbryth7862 You underestimate my power!
it's great when you meet an introvert on your level and you are both in sweet sweet blissful silence.
1000000000% true.
And you only speak when necessary.
cant realte ;(
I think if anyone was more introverted than me in school we would have just sat in silence and ignored each other.
Correct
Love this comment!
Waiting so long for the other one to break the ice, that one day school itself was done.
Happened to me many times
Yes! Exactly... We'll just marinate in the awkwardness/silence till time's up. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Is this how other feel when they talk to Me? "
Such a mood
You've become the very thing you swore to destroy
Always feel sorry for all people that had to go through this with me, now that I know how it feels 😂 Never laughed this much!
To be fair, maybe the person just doesn't wanna talk to you. Nonetheless, this is a very real question I'd ask myself whenever. Lol
Other introvert: yeah I don’t really like small talk
Frank: **I have become the very thing I swore to destroy**
Lmao🤣🤣
I was searching for this comment
Many introverts hate small talk, but I think at some point we have made that as well unconsciously 😅😅
The heck‼️🤣
It was said that you would destroy the sith not join them
I love how he says "i fade into the background sometimes..." So naturally 😂
"Is this how other people feel when they talk to ME?"
Me: *sweating intensifies*
Omg same
Same here....
........
This moment of realization is uncomfortable
Nah, the guy sitting down was just rude. You can be an introvert and not be rude
*Being with an extrovert like:* Please stop talking. Can't you take a hint.
*Being with an introvert like:* Can you please say something you weirdo. I'm doing all the work here.
Perfectly put
Literally my roommate
No i will be like "im grateful they're not talking too much"
@@madao2794 same
I am ambivert!!
Being a 9/10 introvert and meeting a 10/10 introvert is magical lol
If I'm recalling correctly I think I 'scored' 98% in introversion or whatever you want to call it in the 16 personalities test. :)
I don't think I'm as 'bad' (for want of a better word) as blue shirt guy though, having said that, it has been a while since I've been in a 'common' social interaction, over a year. Although, I probably am like blue shirt guy when I'm dealing with business people and need to make a decision I wasn't able to pre-plan my response for, like when they couldn't say exactly what was the cause of an issue I'm having with my car and threw me a 50:50 choice of what to fix, on the spot important decision making, personal nightmare. I just sat there for what felt like minutes staring at the steering wheel with them standing next to me waiting for a response, then I think I came up with 'I'll think about it', and it still isn't fixed a year later.
Sorry for offloading. :)
@@markwright3161 I felt that in my soul.
@@markwright3161 16 Buzzfeed tests?
@@Shrektopuz no, there’s this one test on a site called 16personalities.com, it’s a personality test except it’s written by people who actually study this stuff, their studies say they’re are 16 types of personalities, hence the name. He didn’t take 16 buzzfeed tests lol he just took the one real one.
@@shinysparce3708 Yep, that's it. I managed to miss your reply before replying to them myself. :)
Just took it again to get to that page with the bars and percentages to make sure I was remembering it right when telling them about it. It has now suggested ISFJ-T vs INFJ-T previously, and 'only' 90% introverted now. I've always been close to the middle on 'energy' if I remember right, and current circumstances might be what has heightened 'observation' vs 'intuition' there, a certain inescapable negative reality that's been going on for a year now, for us anyway.
This is so funny...The body language is perfect, the avoiding of eye contact, th editing. Brilliant!! 😂
I laughed too 😂🤣🤣🤣 the bit about one-upping him over going to the hospital from falling onto the floor by hitting his head during presentation 🥴😂
Yeah but I h8 the arquetypes he's portraying so I've mixed feelings
When you're in a group of introverts who are even more shy than you and you become the one keeping conversations up - that identity crises hits hard!
Haha, for me situations like this are less of an identity crisis and more just discovering another side of myself that doesn't often come out - which only broadens and enhances my self-understanding. Embrace your complexity!
Or you can embrace it. I once ran a church rummage sale with a group of people. The extroverted people all stood together talking, and me and a couple other introverts sat together in comfortable silence eating snacks
@@Multitudes_ love that bright insight!
Most of the time introverts joined hands pretty well and let everything went auto-pilot smoothly. The moment a controlling ones tried to take charge, it might throw off the balance and created a revolt instead. Even the revolt gonna be autonomously as well 😂
Yeasss
“what is your name?”
“i dont really like small talk”
me af
I wish the yellow shirt guy answered:
"Ok, Idontreallylikesmalltalk, let's continue our work"
@@carolinereadowl6271 ahahahaha
As an introvert who only starts talking really around her friend group of a whopping two people who are also introverts, I vibed with yellow-shirt Frank and felt reeeeally uncomfortable.
Social introverts scare me. Some of us introverts are just so much more comfortable in their head around other people than they are bouncing ideas. laksjfoahsdfophasd;fnaweoihfwpqafdf
If you are talkative around other person you're not introvert .you are ambivert
In my case if I'm with someone more introvert I don't say anything either xd
Just a few sights
Do those two people include you?
@@lavandulanepetoideae149 Well people never know that even I didn't know it before, so I am still an introvert. I am not an expert but I found this comment really uncomfortable.
It's true. If someone is more introverted I all of a sudden feel like I'm a master conversationalist. It's crazy how relatable this is.
When I find a more introverted person I immediately act like an extrovert. You need me to raise my hand and point to you so you can answer the question you know? I gotchu. You want me to walk to the front of class to throw something away? I gotchu. You need me to be loud when your stomach growls so you aren't embarrassed? I gotchu. (Never-mind the fact that I couldn't even ask to use the restroom because I'm so scared.)
now im just imagining like, one day everyone wakes up and they're suddenly an extrovert through this logic, except one guy who is just the most introverted guy in the world
You're so thoughtful! Caring for someone can get us out of our comfort zone, but it doesn't really change who we are. It just makes us braver!
Your my hero 😭
Omg YES!
Daaaamn that’s actually me
"Is this how other people feel when they talk to me?"
This hit close to home, actually no, it hit home way too hard, my house is gone now
XD
Dies that mean you have to be...OUTSIDE?!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😭
It hit home so hard that the the universe is now gone.
Like the big, bad wolf?
"Group study" =the disgusting thing ever.
"Seeing everyone group studying except thyself"= the MOST disgusting and disturbing thing ever.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
@Fy. A **Socrates wants to know your location**
Flashbacks! My friends back in school are all introverts except one but they all gather for a group study before exams while I silently stay in one corner.
😅😅😅
I am an INTJ. When I met an INTP, for the first time in my life I felt like someone is more introverted than me . This was the exact feeling that I got
Maybe you just didn't find the super niche and precise topic that unlocked his mouth.
@@maryamkhan7953YEAH, THAT... Is exactly how to get them talking :^
But i thought that it was the other way around...
@@kiei8083 There is a range of how introverted or extroverted each person is within any given personality type. I think this can overlap between similar types.
@@miriamrobarts can you explain further by that?
Plot twist: They became best friends and Frank is the comfort extrovert
♡♡♡♡
what is a comfort extrovert?
@@San-lh8us I'm assuming it refers to (introverted) people who will act extroverted to make someone else comfortable, like yellow-shirt Frank is doing here. I wonder if it also applies to introverted people who might, say, ask a question on someone's behalf.
@@yuuri9064 yeah, that's what I was referring to. As you say, It's a person who acts as an extrovert to make people feel good and comfortable. I've only heard this term to refer to extroverts, it can also be applied to introverts, though :)
That's actually what happens
“I died” isn’t even an exaggeration presenting is scary af.
I went through my entire school years without EVER doing one presentation.
@@lorireed8046 HOW
@@clouded1516 Can't explain it. Kid's were afraid of me and teachers just excused me. It was REALLY weird but I didn't care as long as I got my way.
@@clouded1516 Ohhh and I'm OLD ... that was the 1980's.
@@lorireed8046 that honestly sounds awesome to me. The last time I had to stand up and talk in front of a class I cried the moment I stood there. Just burst into tears before I could even speak
no name: yeah, i don’t really like small talk...
frank: *IS THAT WHAT I’M DOING???*
Should have asked "how do I write down your name, you know, for submitting the assignment?"
I read this as that part played.
Giving your name is already too much. Lmfao
I think growing in a internet dominated era has its cons but young people being able to see/know that they are not the only one who struggles in some ways and even laugh about it is a blessing..i wish i had that when i was younger..
There's a girl in my class who's about the same level of introvert as me, we sit together at lunch and scroll through our phones and don't talk, it's great. She was more introverted at the start of the year but I annoyed her up to my level
My best friend now was like that (I mean same, now when we hang out we probly look like extroverts haha), and now we're so chill and it's great.
And then there's me.
I always hated my school. I had no friends and was bullied in my class.
Until one day I sat down with a book at my usual place, some stairs leading down to the cellar of the building. And then another girl came over, sat down at my side and quietly took out a book herself.
It was the best 20 minutes of my life up until that point. Just quietly reading and enjoying the presence of each other. She became my best friend and we would do this for years, just sitting there, reading, or talking about literally anything.
It even started to attract other people and we sometimes had 10 more or less random people at "our" place.
That place, the stairsteps, it showed me that you don't have to be overly social or "extroverted" to find friendship and have a good time.
Sometimes, you just have to sit down and read a nice book.
P.s.: The "Iron fey" book series really stuck with me since then ;)
I actually need this but I'm the kinda introvert that doesn't find other introverts easily so probably not anytime soon lol
@@silkorsilkie yo I loved the iron fey series, the author was my fav for a while
Hahaha the way you expressed it was very funny
Introvert actually get well along with each other and look like extroverts when they spend time together
Yeah
Any type of personalities get along but sometimes they crash wether it’s extrovert x extrovert, introvert x extrovert, or introvert x introvert.
You only think you're an extrovert until the extrovert actually tells you
Nope, only if u know each other for long time
Nah. Me and my good freind are both introverts so i end up trying to make conversation with her. In the end we look like strangers that have to work together.
Having conversations with other introvert is like:
"I hate silence but I don't want to talk"
"Wait, did I just talk this much?"
"I can't believe what just happened, who am I?" 🤣🤣
Exactly🤣🤣🤣
INFP here: I'd practically die inside if I got told they would do all the work but have me present it. If I'm presenting I have to do all the work. It wont make sense to me otherwise plus I'd be speaking with the other person's words not my own. Which I don't want to do ever. I'm fine with group presentations but my part always runs longer than the rest of the group because I'm terrible at being concise.
Very disturbing and very funny🤭
Me and Most of my friends are introverted so this is literally exactly what every conversation is like
Agreeeeeeee
"I dont really like small talk"
"Is that what im doing"
GOT ME ROLLING ON THE FLOOR HAHSHAHHSHA
As an introvert myself this is really accurate i literally HATE doing projects in a team and then presenting it in front of the class😭😭😭😭😭
As a social introvert, I often find myself being "the leader" of the introvert study group or something, because nobody wants to take the lead. I hate being the leader, but I also hate that awkwardness when people are actually more introverted than me. So I have to save everyone from that point and just take the lead, it's the simplest way.
Never have words resonated so much with my brain
@maatu INTJ?
Me too
@@aglurh INFP haha, but leadership traits run in my family.
Same, except I don't hate it. It rarely happens, and it's actually kind of a relief to be around people more introverted than myself for once, and interesting how naturally it comes to me to be 'the extrovert' in those situations when I hardly ever am otherwise. (INFP here.)
This made me realize that being socially incapable isn’t actually inherent to introversion.
Alas that difference makes no difference to me (I have both)
Many people dont realize that and thats why theres so many introverts all of a sudden
thank you. i always felt so weird because i’m an “introvert” and i can’t have constant social interaction and need to recharge, but i also love socializing when i have the energy.
Think about it this way. The life experience of an introvert with poor socializing skills: This sucks a bit but hey I wouldn't have gotten much out of socializing anyway. The life experience of an extrovert with poor socializing skills: This is torture.
@@goldenapple3952 Yeah, people think introvert = shy, extrovert = social/confident when really:
Introvert = loses energy from social interactions, extrovert = gains energy from social interactions.
I'm an introvert but I'm not a shy person, I'm into public speaking and on a debate team. I just feel really drained after being around people and if I had the choice I would live out the rest of my life alone on an abandoned island lol
This is literally INFJs around the introverts cuz we don’t want to make the situation feels awkward 😅😂
*FACTS.*
and INFPs
Yep
Sempre Forza Roma 😁❤️ and yes,I agree
So true 🤦
This seems like an extreme mixture of introvert, anti-social and lack of self worth problems
... ... ...
So a classic high school introvert. Or college.
that was my during middle school
@@spoonman9584 That's social anxiety.
Who’s Duncan
Oh my god. I finally see how people see me…I AM ENLIGHTENED
How beautiful !
Stop butchering philosophical terms to fuel your rampant narcissism, roastie
@@mcneilohara1463 Huh?
@@aperson1009 pay no mind to the angry middle schooler haha
so you just don’t talk? how weird
The fact that an introvert said "this silence is getting awkward", just killed me
"What's your name?"
"Listen, I don't like small talk."
That's so funny!😂😂
"I need to know your name"
"Why"🤣
Lmao why is this me 😂
@@Kspachannel I wish I could say those replies out loud 😅
Once I was talking with a man, (assuming I'm underage XD) and we were so focused on the topic (factorials) that we just skipped completely the small talk part XDDDD. Best talk I've ever had in life.
When my classmate ask me my name, i always consider its small talk. If im correct, i swear one dude in my class ask me where i live more than 10 times throughout the year cuz that's all he can find to ask me.
I love it when I get into an “introvert battle” and then I pull the “I once spent 10 hours in my room waiting for my dad to leave the kitchen so I can eat in peace.” True story btw. And yes I would do them again
Okay, I'm having a hard time imagining a situation where that's funny and relatable. I have all kinds of questions about what it was like living with your dad, and I'm not sure if you were wanting to go in that direction at all, but that's exactly where I'm going.
You were waiting for him to leave?
I normally pull out the "So far, I've been waiting 2 years for my dad to come back."
So I guess I'm something of an extrovert myself
Why was he in the kitchen for 10 hours?
@@9to5Drone the true question 😂
Lol I do that too
I'm definitely less shy around introverts. Though I'm an introvert I still have a dominant personality, so when I'm around quiet introverts I feel inclined to take initiative because somebody's gotta do it and if I do not nothing will get done. 😂😂
That's exactly how I am 😂 I've had to be the "leader" when it comes to group projects with fellow introverts lol
Totally me. And secretly mortified around real extroverts 🙈
It’s like when someone is too nervous to go get ketchup and suddenly I have a burst of bravery.
@@erinyes3943 BURST OF BRAVERY TO GET THE KETCHUP LMAO
@@erinyes3943 omg... noooOOOOO😂
What nobody noticed was the 3rd introverted guy who was so introverted that the guy in yellow sat on him, thinking the chair was empty 😭😭
This is a joke right? I had to re-watch just to be sure 😂
He sat in front of him all year.
And he didn’t see him.
Yo thats a real thing....
Wait what?
@@LittleMsGhostgirl999 LMAO same
*Technically, it's the perfect time* for social anxiety to slide in the conversation.
And this social anxiety turns you to be an extrovert..😪😪
I think is a good therapy and a good way to facing your insecurities being with people who are more shy and introvert than you. This forces you to talk more to follow the conversation and kind of makes you act like the extrovert of the group
😆 I've had project partners like no- name guy! It is unsettling when you have to become the outgoing one.That was very funny!😭👏👍
🤣
This is me in discord. 😂✌ im the no name person.
LITERALLY
@@seasons1146 😂✌️ I'm scared of that! Don't you have to talk in there? And/or be seen? 😱💀
@@StephanieJeanne nono its a personal choice if you wanna be in the call room or not. Also just so you know discord was so toxic to me. I dleted the app and left cuz everyone kept asking me about my real name and i was so annoyed. I was called autumn there. They all bullied me so i just left. But in real life in most of my middle school and junior high i was the no name kid. 😂✌
"I died and had to be resuscitated twice." Literally laughed out loud
Hahaha!! I kept rewinding that part!! lol
@@rand3m8731 heehee
Was there a time when you were introverted but then there was someone more introverted than you were, so you had to play the role of an extrovert and you’ve never felt more confident your whole life...?
Cause same.
I m always confident, i just hate to talk
A few years ago, on the first week at my college we were divided into groups and a few groups had to hold a presentation for +100 people. I am introverted myself, but I don't really mind about public speaking etc.
Our group was randomly chosen to hold a presentation and my partner did not come with me, so I had to hold it alone. I remember before I started my presentation I said 'it seems like my partner is missing' and a bit later I saw her in the audience and we had eye contact. After this I never saw her in our school, I think she decided to quit the school because of this.
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@@peterpeterson3385 i totally relate to her
Omg same lol
I was in the same position with "Frank" character last year, when a friend of my mother's visited us with her daughter. Even though I'm usually quiet and I may ask introductory questions here and then, she (the daughter) was so quiet and reserved I would see myself as the only one breaking the silence and making questions to her.
...and that's why I stay at home, if it's hard to talk to an extrovert, it's even harder to talk to an introvert.
nailed it!
Ohh thats true
Every time I have an experience like this I realise that I'm not as introverted as I think I am
Most ambiverts do think they're very introverted at first until they realised how they needed the socialising part, but only with the selected few, but not too many 😂
I'm surely not the only one who is often a bit annoyed and tired of extroverts with their small talk, impulsiveness and boundless energy, but it's in moments like these that you realize you really need them. 😂 Thanks for existing.
Not all extroverts do small talk lol there are different types of extroverts.
Of course. Lmao I was just mentioning those who can be too, among the other types.
you would hate me
Haha YESSSS
Oh shit I was kinda the person who tries to do small talk-
This is so relatable I can relate to both characters
As an actual extrovert, this is exactly how I feel every time I'm sitting next to a group of introverts.
I AM SORRY. But I'm going to keep doing it because it's my nature
Thank you for sharing, EXTROVERT. Now why are you HERE? 😂 Im just kidding lol! 😆😅 I actually admire you guys 💜
A group of introverts? That doesn't exist, you troll! XD
@@serkratos1216 well it exist..me and my friends are introverts 😂
@@serkratos1216 ENFJ here, you’ll be surprised. There are more socially awkward people in the world than socially confident people. It’s hard to find other extroverts amongst the youth theses days, everyone’s buried in their phones as well and don’t know how to be interesting in conversation. Oh yes honey we go through it with y’all too.
When I see someone more socially awkward than me and anxious, it makes me anxious. Which in turn makes them anxious. It's a vicious cycle.
The same. But I do live around a bunch of show off peoples. So I Just learned to bê carefull when talking. The extroverts can be spike balls like sometimes.
It makes me feel super comfortable and then I become super social and loud lol. It allows me to be myself
THIS!
Similar to what Lily says, if I can feel relaxed in the situation and carry on a mutually interesting conversation the other person tends to feel more relaxed as well.
As much as the awkward social situations can play on one's mind, if they can be reframed and learnt from they can inform future situations.
And sometimes you gotta fake confidence - at least a little bit more than what you actually feel.
I think that happens to some anxious extroverts too. And shy introverts might see their anxious ramblings as insensitive and not realise they're feeding off the anxiety of the quieter person.
A : "hi"
B : "hi"
A : "how r u?"
B : "im fine... thank you"
A : "good"
And thats the whole conversation
Yea lol, and still get tired of it
Sometimes if im being generous ill ask them “and you?”
@@kyupified2440 yea bro, now u'r really exagarating
Don't forget sheepishly smiling at the person and barely lifting your hand to wave before you leave.
@@dude2410 no really that conversation can be really tiring depending on the person
So I ABSOLUTELY experienced this. I'm an introverted shy person with self esteem lower than Mariana trench and fear of people judging me. I could recently make amends with myself and increase my self esteem and be comfortable in my own skin and I started to want to get to know more people (also it's my first year in uni so I have a lot of opportunities to do so). I tried talking to this one guy and it was his first day so I thought I could have a nice and easygoing conversation with him but it turned out that he was more introverted than I was, and I didn't know what to say next because he wouldn't contribute to the conversation either. So I sat there, stressed, awkward and anxious. Now I wouldn't be this stressed because of silence normally but I REALLY wanted to have a long conversation with him and be his friend so I really wanted the conversation to go how I thought it would go in my head. Anyway now we just wave hi or bye or smile at each other if we catch each other looking and that's it. I'm still frustrated because I want to get to know him more but I just don't know how to so I'm just stuck in this weird space (which is probably only my overthinking and he might be perfectly fine with how the things are) being an INFJ doesn't help either haha ;-;
I met my girlfriend like that.
She's my wife now-
Congrats
That’s cool 😜
Awww! Cool😍
Cute💞 and ARMY! 💜
Does she know that ;)
I can relate so much, I hate when I meet people who are more introverted than me since it gets awkward compared to an extrovert or anyone else who likes talking, can just talk and I can nod and pretend I’m listening
True.
Introverted teacher here, who has to act as an extrovert. Trying to get one of those students to talk is really challenging... And yes, they have to talk. I'm an English as a second language teacher.
@@MissGothicksoul yeh, when you are a teacher it's basic Impossible don't look like an extrovert.
@@MissGothicksoul my introvertedness worked well for me as a tutor, since my work focuses on individuals instead of handling some handful of big classes
@@gabrieldossantossanta5656 You look like one, but your energy runs out, like the introvert you are. Before quarantine, in-person classes were something that I really loved doing, but I ended up extremely tired at the end of the day.
"i'll just do all the works and you can do the talking."
relatable.
Totally me
😭😭😭😭 i love them both.. why didnt i find these ppl in uni.. we could sit together in silence forever... ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The more introverted guy is probably watching this and reading all the comments without saying anything ....
Me before I push the arrow to send this reply. Guilty
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Hashtag Me
yes i do 😭
his/ her?
I call myself the ice breaker introvert because whenever our teachers asked our class a question I answered first to break the awkward silence. I usually had the wrong answer but other people felt encouraged so they would start to respond to the teacher and I could fade into the backround again peacefully.
You're welcome guys :')
You are the bravest of us
Ah i rarely do that. But i am the one that my classmates before keep pushing to ask something from the faculty room. Said something along the lines of "you have the bravest face among our class to stand near a teacher and actually ask something to them." And im just the second most introverted student in class. The most introverted one is an INFJ, shes my bestie and shes smart but she usually dont make friends or say anything when a lot of people are around, she speaks when she has to tho. And im an INFP, so i wonder whats wrong with me coz...arent INFJs supposed to be more extroverted than INFPs? Or am i wrong?
I could never.
True hero found right here
@LedyE Your noble sacrifice does not go unnoticed
The feeling when an extrovert “adopts” you.
Feel like im being rescued or smth lmao
My whole family is extroverted and I'm the only introvert
@Unknown • 1 second ago ikr it's traumatizing
@@laketoya44 some of my cousins are introverts. But they don't live where I live. Im surrounded by extroverts
When an extra extroverted person tell u with confidence I'll adopt u, and u have a mixed feeling of disgrace to yourself and happiness cuz someone noticed and is trying to rescue you.
“I have never been so uncomfortable by silence” answer: Because you’re not creating it
If could split the two introverts guys. Its like this scenario: the blue shirt is more reserved introvert and yellow shirt is more anxious type of introvert. If this sums it up.
Lmao then im Yellow shirt
queue me, who is both quite anxious and quite reserved.
I have managed to see people for multiple years, who then could not tell you my favorite color, what kind of music I like, what I do with my free time, and would be shocked when I said I had siblings after all that time.
Does this make me a green shirt ?
@@ihaveseverefrootsnackism
Yup! That's me and I have no idea which one is going to show up.
@@ladybluelotus yeah lol
trey
I always felt like the nerdiest, introverted kid in high school. Then I noticed the other kids that never spoke up and I was like, "oh."
Edit: *INTP*
I usually went "they're my spirit animal" & proceeded to stare them from afar quietly for years.
I can relate to you very well. I thought I was introvert until my friend told me I was not, which later I found myself as an ENFP that tend to be an ambivert person instead.
Same! I’m an INTP as well 😂
@@mariskad8405 omg same, I thought I was an introvert my whole life and thought it was impossible for me to be an extrovert, even in typology, but my super introverted INTJ bf told me I'm quite extroverted, turns out he was right and I'm an ENTP. (who are also often described as ambiverts, so I relate to you even more lol)
Yeah, I enjoyed acting like an extrovert in high school cuz I wanted to have friends. When I finally got them, and slowly realized they're a really chill bunch, I slowly eased up on my facade and embraced my introverted side. I still enjoy being loud or interacting with people, but it still drains me and I end up seeking quiet alone time lol.
"I've mastered the art of sitting incredibly still that I become invisible to the eye."
Same
We*
Bro, I don't even need to sit still to be invisible- love the reference tho
~ INFP
🤣🤣
Drax is that you?
That first sentence he said was literally how I met my one of my first friends in high school. I spent a solid 5 mins building up the courage and structuring my sentence before I actually ask them to be my partner for the project💀
I remember once i meet this girl at a summer camp that was as introverted as I am, and we became friends without exchanging a single word. No joking, we went everywhere together and we just stayed silent. Best friendship ever.
The most wonderful company in the world is the company of an introvert who lets you be silent.
So u two became friends by just staying side by side the whole time?😂
@Rick Chakraborty Language isn't the only way to communicate
Oh my god i need someone like me now
sounds lame to me
That moment I’m the “more introverted than you” character
Fade into the background?? That’s my jam! When I was in high school I switched schools for almost an entire year, when I went back I told a teacher I really liked “I’m back” he answered “you left??” True story
Teachers didnt even remember me 🤣🤣
DAAAMNNN Haiyaaa hahahab
I had the same thing once!! I was missing for half the lesson and the teacher was /so/ sure I had been there all the time I almost regret telling him that I wasn't
one of the most noticeable students in the school i work in was away for a whole year, and i never noticed. i didn't teach their class that year, but with the student being one of only around 120 students, it was rather shocking to both that student and the others in their class.
i believe it's an intp thing. i never notice the presense or absense of things or people unless i they're right in front or me, or i happen to need them. i even forget i have a family if they don't contact me.
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"You either die a hero, or live long enough to see yourself become the villain"
By Adam/Jonas from Dark lol
Ummm.......
both are necessary, really..
@@anapaulastuani7465 what lol?
@@DaP84 because it were expressed literaly in that series
No one gets the pain of introverts when they have to talk , bear unwanted questions and noise of others
I thought if I took classes, I'd get better at it.
As an extrovert I can confirm this is what it's like for us around introverts all the time lol
I hate when this happens, you're not talking, I'm not talking, come on, we need to decide who gets what and Finish this project as fast as possible, so I can go home and recover in peace and do nothing for a week and think a month just passed by. Or I'll just continue to sit here looking at you in silence screaming in my head while imagining myself ripping out my own eyeballs.
Finnish xd
*you're
I want this to be a song so I can put it on replay
You just described my feeling atm.
This is graphic, I like it
" What is you name? "
" - why? "
Literally me all the time honestly ...
Then you're lowkey weirdo ngl
@@luks303 i do that too
Nobody asks my name, but that's how I answer.
hello why! how's your day?
@@emilypiens2355
" Hello why! How's your day? "
"- uggh.. Why? "
This happened to me a couple of times while I was still at school.
I often found myself thinking "I don't want to start the conversation, but someone just _has_ to do it or nothing will ever get done."
"I haven't noticed you all year"
Me: *"that was completely intentional"*
Hahaha that describes my entire life
@@alienco8715 mine too lol
Same- im usually the one that gets ignored in friend groups so now i would just embrace it instead of feeling bad about it by avoiding attention or popularity (mostly by groups of ppl)
I thought they could be good friends... 😔
@Fiorella Lescano Friendship is a lovely thing. Wasted opportunity, very sad. 💔 Think of all the traumas they could share. 😎
@@BeckyPhelps I know, it breaks my heart. 😭
The new abnormal❤
Two introverts actually get along way better together
@@katydiaz6490 I agree with that for sure.
Whenever I talk to other introvert people I don't really feel that stressed out. A lot of my stress comes from being afraid of saying weird things and knowing that other people will realise that I'm different. With other introvert people a lot of that stress just disappears because I feel like they know what it's like to be and feel this way.
Maybe you're not an introvert, maybe you're just a very shy and socially insecure person (it usually goes hand in hand with introversion, but not always).
In any case, this channel's depiction of introverts is horrible, makes them all seem like assholes that hate everybody. Not true, introverts can be very polite and down to earth, being an introvert doesn't excuse you from being an asshole.
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same
I feel that to the point that I don't raise my hand at class even once
and everyone thinks I hate them
and my friend are all annoying but I got to stay with them cuz I don't have anyone else
and it's not just with school its with my family
its feels horrible
"different"
You know that like 50% of the worlds population is introverted?
That depends on the introvert, There are some introvert assholes that feel superior to the rest of the mankind.
I feel like this is a perfect capture of an INTP fighting an INFJ 😆
intp and infp fits more.
Awww, I was so hopeful they would have bonded over their shared awkwardness and disdain for group projects or, at least, come up with plans to claim a shared illness in order to complete the written project but get out of the presentation. Not that I have any experience with that. Nope. Not me. 😏😎✊😂🤣🙌
Lol that's what usually happens when I have to work other introverts, we get each other on another level and make sure things are not awkward
Hahaha 😂 👍✌️
@@trishaagz Riiiight?? 😸
@@StephanieJeanne 😏✌️
You don’t have any experience with that. Of course you don’t. Nope. Not you.
As an extrovert, I’ve learned to imagine conversations in my head to let my introverted friends be. The only problem is that I forget whether or not I’ve actually had a real discussion with them or not. It’s a complicated but necessary method because I can shut my mouth off but not my brain.
Infp do be like that 24/7 😂
They wanna talk but afraid that it'll go south too quickly so they mentally prepared many convo settings & ended up living in their thoughts instead of putting the cards down onto the table and talk for real 🤣
Thank you for considering us :D
Omg is this what being extroverted feels like. Damn sounds difficult
@@nya9134 Being an extrovert means that you have to regulate how much you talk. This is super challenging for us, especially when we are very interested in a topic.
@@katdenning6535 ooohk thanks for explaining
People believe I'm a Good listener instead of an introvert. They just have so much to say,they don't notice you've been quiet for so long.
oh goodness, i'd be scared if this happened to me--I'm a terrible listener. I'll forget almost everything even if I'm interested in the topic if they start one of those stories.
@@ihaveseverefrootsnackism people think im god teir listener, but im not. My trick is I listen to the tone of their voice rather than their words. If they are excited ill smile occasionally and say nice often and if they are sad ill put my concerned face on and say damn sadly. People just want to vent and be heard in my experience, they dont care whether you absorb the information or not.
Lmao my coworker is Like this. Sometimes i just say hi and she talks nonstop for 10 minutes and I'm standing there, Awkwardly, nodding as i listen, pretending i didn't see my boss pass over us 3 times wondering why I'm still in the reception area.
@@ThePress00 dude, she might be into you
This is what i felt when i approached this senior i'm into. I've never seen him talk to anyone, and he likes doing his own thing in a quiet area with as few people as possible. Anyway.. i decided to talk to him, sat next to him, and then, i think to myself.. "Holy shit, is this how people feel when they're talking to me back then? So karma is real after all." When i said hi, he only looked at me for a few seconds.. 1.. 2.. 3 then continued doing his thing. Nah i didn't give up, i continued talking to him, it felt kinda nice tbh. After that i got his social media id, texted him, and he hasn't replied until now. I'm sad, but no reply is a reply so.. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
What happened...got the reply !!
@@t_a7923 well.. unfortunately no. I texted him on December 6, and he read it after a few days. I was about to text him again then, but I'd hate to irritate him with my persistence. And besides that, i respect myself enough to not go after someone who clearly doesn't want anything to do with me, so it's all good now. Honestly, even if he doesn't like me in a romantic way, i would certainly love to be his friend tho, i'm just genuinely interested in him as a person :)
With one of my friends it's hit or miss if she will respond.
I once did the exact same thing to someone but never brought it up but neither did they. I could tell they were mad but I did not know how to start the conversation. I get real anxious at seemingly random points. I like to think I'm getting better at small talk and then it happens again.
That feeling when you are 100percent introvert and yet you are the more extroverted one in the conversation.
Maybe you can be more than 100% introvert................
Actually i have an introvert friend that so shy, i even prefer talking with a rock than with him whenever we have a project at school. But when it presentation time,he changes so much. It feels like he is not the same person whenever he goes to stage. Everyone in class (including teacher) always listening carefully for every words that came out from him. Very amazing when i think about It, idk is he an ambivert or he just has a superpower inside his body that we never know.
oh, i'm the exact same way! at least for me the reason public speaking and performing way is easier than holding a conversation is because the rules are totally different.
sounds like he might just have a problem with you lmao
A thing I had noticed personally was because I usually spoke so little, the times I would talk people would generally pay more attention and be more interested than normal. Like they're witnessing a rare event.
Not always though, some people would want to just speak over me. Funny thing was, sometimes another extrovert in the group would tell that person to shut up and let me talk.
I'm an introvert and I'm like this. I get majority nervous b4 I have to speak, but once I do, I'm super confident and I'm loving it. Especially if its acting
He's probably extremely conscientious while also being extremely neurotic
I feel like the temporary conversion to being more extroverted around someone even more introverted is because we get them. We resonate with them. So we take on the difficult tasks because someone has to do it and they are even quieter and more uncomfortable and how can we do that to them?! We wouldn’t want someone to do that to us
YES EXACTLY!! I've been trying to explain that to people for years and then they just write me off as as "extrovert trying to be quirky introvert" like no I'm very introverted please speak so I don't have to I hate every time I open my mouth.
The worst part is the people I hang out with are DEFINITELY more extroverted than me, they are just lazy and all they do is small talk so it's either I talk basically to entertain myself (while simultaneously hating myself for it, feeling more uncomfortable with every word that comes out of my mouth), listen to them bounce between topics (and by topics I mean completely useless subjects with no substance) every 20 seconds, or sit in awkward silence that will inevitably lead to someone saying "well this is awkward" and then someone will probably go on to tell a really boring, generic story/tangent about how one time they were in an awkward situation due to their inability to think before they act and their extrovertedness so you could never relate to (and probably feel annoyed by, considering it's an easily avoided situation that could've been solved by a lack of stupidity) what they're saying and so you just sit there with the same amount of uncomfortablity as if no one had said anything except now you have a look that says "I'm so surprised by you stupidity" on you face or you at least just lost respect for you friend due to their obvious low IQ.
Sometimes I feel like people uses the word “introverted” wrongly. Sure, a introvert person has it’s energy drained by social interactions, but that doesn’t mean they are awkward/shy. If you are introverted (and I am), please do some effort to talk to people and improve you social skills... don’t do that “I’m introverted, don’t talk to me” thing. You’re being rude and probably loosing a good opportunity to improve a very important skill in live. Introverted is different than misanthrope...
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Extroverts are freaks , aggressive, and annoying
@@joanilesburg5147 No. I don't think I will. It's not a skill. I'm glad that I'm rude. I don't care about you, your life, your opinions, etc.