Living with undiagnosed BPD
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- Опубліковано 9 жов 2024
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On 5:00 You've given me a lot of good insight about my ex-girlfriend who I suspect has BPD. Quiet BPD at that. She was very much a people pleaser like you. Thank you Katie. I loved my ex. But I am also very fearful avoidant and have trust issues. When my ex pulled away, I pulled away out of self-preservation and we "mutually ghosted" each other after over 3 months of dating. Which is unheard of. I didn't want to reach out because I felt rejected. And she hasn't reached out for whatever reason. It's hard to be in a situation where you are blind to what the other person is thinking. Like her Instagram is private and everything so I can't see the aftermath of my actions (or inaction in this case). I don't know if she was just done with me (a discard). If she was upset with me. If she got back with an ex. Nothing.
I'm glad I could shed some light for you and an ex partner of yours. I am definitely a people pleaser and am trying really hard to stop it. I never seen it as manipulation until now. I just enjoyed seeing people happy. Sometimes another perspective can help us understand the person we fail to understand.
Very good thoughtful vid
Very good thank you,..you will help lots of ppl on here and ppl with NPD..APD...you appear to be well grounded her ..great ty
Thank you kindly. My hope is to raise awareness of the subject. Thank you for watching!
I deal with a lot of emotional roller coaster
Especially in my relationships, I tend to cook up stories in my head and argue n fight for no reason
Sometimes it happens so much so that I firmly believe that the guy is cheating
The feeling is so so strong for a while
But then when the quarrel ends I feel absolutely hopeless and ashamed
I completely understand that. Our mind likes to fill itself with negative self talk because we don't feel we deserve love. But, we do.
I fight with women I find attractive so we can get to the make-up sex and maybe even start a relationship.
I have emotional dysregulation but that's all I know for certain other than having been diagnosed with bipolar 2 and cptsd. Nobody likes being rejected. Well, some people might. I honestly don't think they have it all figured out, and so-called normal people have serious issues, including black and white thinking and splitting.
I agree
One time when my mom came to visit, she made fun of me by saying something minor happened to her so she was going to kill herself. I don't do that anymore. It disappeared around the same time as my sex drive. People will eventually find a way to destroy me anyway, and there's nothing I can do about it. It's what they do.
That’s a terrible feeling. I’m sorry 😞
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I was trained in DBT by Marcia Linehan..I get it the best anyone can that does Nord not have it
DBT is sort of a joke as are all techniques used in public mental health. A shaman once told me that she would be diagnosed with all kinds of disorders and would fly under their radar.
Is it hard to get a diagnosis for BPD?
I'm not sure. The last therapist I had didn't even bring up BPD. She talked more about Bipolar. I don't meet the requirements for bipolar. I think a lot of therapist try to stay away from BPD because of its complexity. I've done a lot of research on this topic and am very self aware which is why Im almost certain I do. I just need a professional to say so.
So I wouldn't say it's hard, but I think some professionals are reluctant to hand out the proper diagnosis. From what I've researched.
@@kater2k that makes sense to me. I know it can be hard to get a diagnosis for mental health disorders so I was curious. It sounds like BPD might be in the same boat. This video dropped in my lap and admittedly doesn’t pertain to me but now I know the difference between bipolar and BPD and such so thanks.
@Chinchuchwei_sr of course! My whole want in this is to bring awareness to this. I’m glad you learned something today, even if it doesn’t pertain to you. Thank you for stopping by ☺️
I easily convinced an "expert" that I was transgender, so no, it's easy to get diagnosed with just about anything.