Breaking Bones to Grow Taller in India | Deadly Beauty
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- Опубліковано 1 вер 2022
- 42-year-old Mukesh from India is going to break his legs to grow taller.
Mukesh will be operated on using the Ilizarov method, which had been used in the past to correct limb deformity. Now, It is popular among those who want a cosmetic height increase.
6 weeks later, he is having second thoughts.
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When he said that the physical pain of 9/10 was less compared to the emotional pain he felt when people mocked him for his height. We truly live in a pathetic society.
Welcome to india
@@dranzerjetli5126 🤡🤡
@@dranzerjetli5126 India is one of the less height obsessed countries ngl
@@Fayaz_Sadiq but today's generation is !!
@@dranzerjetli5126 No way you think that’s only an India problem, all over social media you see guys and girls putting down shorter people
Engineer with 4 degrees, able to speak 9 different languages. This is more than anyone can achieve. Height is not a barrier for success.
It is for genetic success. Unless you have a very good looking face, it's over.
breaking the bones is not going to give him taller kids. He’s also already married, though the bitch who wants him to be taller should be kicked out.
Lol it's cool to say that until no one wants to marry you unless you are filthy rich...India even looks of men don't matter..but their height is considered a big big factor
It seems that his childless marriage make him too anxious. Its easier to divorce and find some poor woman to marry but he seems to want higher 'caste' women who won't look at him because of his height.
Plus he got selected for indian airforce....that alone is a hell of an achievement
The reason why he faced so many criticism for his height is simply because the world is such a jealous place and he is such an accomplished man that the jealous just can't find something to scrutinise him other than his height.
and this is the reason they will still be jealous and will find another way to ridicule. Respect and contentment has to be from within ONLY.
No one is jealous of him if anything he's envious of taller people
Exactly if only he could understand that's what it was all about jealousy
@@blacklyfe5543 He is smart asf and that's why they came after him
no, its because life is competitive, and everyone has their issues. attacking others is an easy way for people to feel better by feeling superior, and the easiest way to get that feeling is attacking others over insecurities and weakness. People who do this generally do so out of being hurt themselves in some way, but thats many people even if self induced, so we have many people who mock and bully other. some forms of bullying is completely healthy, biological and constructive, but thats defined by exclusively targeting negative qualities that are changable and typically ones that limit your contribution to groups.
Never calling anyone short again. His first few words were enough for me to realize how much trauma he has built up inside. "Many people, not me, have always had a problem with my height." Broke my heart because I'm taller than most people at 6ft but never realized calling people short is F'ing rude asf. Just grew up with that bad habit unfortunately.
That's great👍🏻
glad that you realize.
Glad you learned!
It’s not a bad thing to call them short. I lie just under 5’9 so there are a lot of people shorter and taller than me and we all make fun of heights. It’s stupid. I can make fun of a friend who is tall and I can make fun of someone who short it doesn’t matter. It’s more pathetic to take these jokes or taunting seriously, like actually you are pathetic, so what if you are short, so what if you are tall, so what. Dumb concept
@@sslvsme5763nice bro
The same people who mocked him and bullied him for his height will now mock him and bully him for having done the surgery to increase height.
That's the type of society we live in.
I hope everything goes well for this man.
Literally facts. People will first taunt you, treat u like sh*t and when u get plastic surgery or any surgery to escape those comments and treatment...even then they'll taunt you even more. Pathetic.
He needed a therapist not a surgery
Whoever his closer ones gonna see this video must understand his pain and gonna accept it.
They are just jealous because he achieved more than they ever could
@@f12736 true but common people in India don't have knowledge of mental health that when they should check a therapist. People around him would have mocked him even for that.
_”I studied hard, became an engineer and got a good job. I can speak nine languages. I hold a Masters in business administration and a Master of Arts in two subjects. I have a total of five degrees. Despite that no matter where I go most people point out my height, even people who have known me for 15+ years…No one looks at your work or knowledge Everybody taunts me about my height”_
Everyday I’m alive I further find a reason to have no hope for humanity. People are shit
Yes for me personally respect for thanos is increasing... we need one asap
@@mukool7477
Shit like this makes you think “Damn maybe we _aren’t_ worth saving” 😭
It’s so bouncable if you tool up on the right vibe, look at kevin hart he’d own their low witted ass in 1 second, he’s actually quite muscular so probably wouldn’t want to fight him either
Average Indian mentality
Thats why quality of education matters the most, you might have 10 freakin degrees and they dont reflect in your personality and attitude then you are illiterate. An educated mind can never get bullied.
I knew a girl who had this procedure because she had leukemia as a child and her growth stopped at 149 cm. After years of complications she was eventually 15 cm taller, but her bones were weaker so she could no longer run and jump, as they would just snap.
The thing is that after all this, her body is very disproportionate, and that is what people notices now. So not worth it.
We are all different. Unconditional love is the answer.
She should have done 10, and be 160 cm
150 is nice height for woman tho
she got long spider legs and short T-rex arms!
I wish your comment would be pinned! This is important for anyone who considers this surgery, especially when it's solely for cosmetic reasons.
@@MO-ss5mjthere's no telling she wouldn't have had the same complications with a 10cm increase instead of 15. The fact is that 149cm is just fine, especially for a woman, compared to the risk of ruining your life
I had this surgery but because of the deformity in my leg, not because of height (even tho I'm just 156cm) my doctor decided not to lenghten my leg because of a high risk of complications, still I had a nerve failure and haven't fully recovered to this day. To know that people do this for beauty just blows my ming. It's the most painfull, excruciating thing in medicine...
at least the doctor admitted how ridiculous the procedure is just for cosmetic reasons. some doctors downplay the risks involved.
it's sad they downplay the risk to keep there business going.
Feeble mind makes whole body suffer.
@@awpmaster it's not a business.
You don’t know how sad it is to be short. I hate it . I am a short person .
@@nicholdsouza6482 I think you need a snickers bar
This man is not looking for to be tall. He is looking for honor. Respect. Bro lived his life for others. Hope you achieve what you want.
The guy has low self-esteem.
666th comment here!
He is just fat. i am 100% sure that if he just lost weight and went to the gym, no one would look down on him.
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It’s honorable to be tall? YOU STOOPID
"Chaar Log Kya Kahenge" must have destroyed more lives than Wars !
My height is 5 feet 3 inches and I am from India. Being a man who is 26 years old I can say that its hard to be short if you are man. I was mocked, humiliated and I was always put down by everyone be it my so called friends, parents or my siblings. It was hard for me to make friends or have normal conversation with anyone. Always while talking to my parents or elder sister they very subtly would bring my height into it and used to say disrespectful things. But now I have made peace with everything. I cannot change height. Mostly it depends on your genes and environment in which you are brought up. Even my mother is so short and father also not too tall but they want a tall son. And people in my school and college who disrespected me because of being short was not about height, it was about making me insecure because I had better grades than them.
So to people who are short I have to say that its not your fault. First accept that you are short and there is nothing wrong in that. Work on your skills, be best in it. You can be an unattractive person but useful person too.
No need to be so insecure bro don't worry we live for ourselves not others..
@@mikasa5872 yeah .. its actually sometimes works as an advantage.. people take you lightly until you go ahead than them 👍
@@getajob3435 actually I'm 5.7 in my side I'm not short nor long but I don't care about my height..
Saying there's nothing wrong with it is delusional. Of course, being short is a disadvantage. But other than that, your attitude of working around it and playing the cards you got, is good.
@@chico9805 everything has its own advantages and disadvantages
I think people should understand that Body-shaming is not only about calling someone fat or thin, it is also calling out someone's height as short or tall. The definition of body shaming is so narrow that people think calling someone fat only accounts for it.
Yeah, I've known a few people who are tall and they really hate people pointing it out. It really bothered them.
The same women that use a height filter on tinder (only men taller 6 ft) also complain about bodyshaming and cat calling. That's women for you in a nutshell.
@@maxmeier532 yes
@@maxmeier532 not all women, men are also going only for looks people in general male or female are shallow mostly
@@maxmeier532 wtf cat calling has Nothing to do with this . Just to prove your point don't use terms.
This man has accomplished so much in life. 5 degrees, speaks 9 languages, and has a great engineering job, married, but unfortunately the judgements of others has forced this wonderful person to take drastic measures upon himself. Whatever the case I wish him success and peace!
he could have ignored them but he felt the judgement of others is valid and took this decision, part of the problem is also people not accepting what they are
@Reality or more important, be mindful of picking on thing people cant change .
He sounds swallow
An informative presentation.👍🏼👍🏼
Subcontinent culture is rotten. Foreigners learnt from us and we learnt from them. This is prison we are living in a punishment
this man has his whole life trying to fix his hurt feelings from other peoples judgement on his height. He thought getting more knowledge, degrees and people would overlook his height but in the end at 40 he still felt judged and went for this extreme to gain height. I felt so bad for him
It took me yearssss before I could finally accept and love my facial and body features. It's far from the beauty standard society has installed to people, but I love every inch of it. My legs take me to places I need to, and I'm on a healthy scale. My hands allow me to work from home, helps me do my make up, can cook, can do basic household chores, and I'm grateful for it. I wish people the same, so we would never feel the need of validation from other people.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Means a lot to me 😊
Beauty standards society has installed to people??? U think that 100 years ago apperance didnt matter? It was always like that, and I bet u didnt accept ur look, if u watch videos like that. There will be many times situations when u will think about it
Don't project whatever insecurities you have on me. I love watching documentaries as I love learning. I would even watch 600lbs life. Does that make me obese as well? No. cause what kind of stupid logic you have? Lol. And accepting yourself regardless if you have what's considered flaws for others is rewarding. You should heal. @@BartShinn
Gratitude is the best attitude!
Skill issues
The moral of the story is we should never humiliate anyone to such an extent that person decide to take such a high risk under such a extreme mental trauma
Fuck your morals, the worlds is fucking brutal for some people. Just acknowledge and move on
I have a better advice: love yourself and don`t care about other people's opinions.
@@AB17s difficulty creates growth under the right conditions with the right mental preparation
@@SonofSkyrim01 Ya, that advise doesn't work in the Real World my friend.
No matter how much we like to pretend, we still care about what other People think of us.
The People who pretend that they don't care what you think about them are just trying to cope with some past bad experience, but they still inherently care about what you think.
That's Human Nature, you can't beat or cheat nature.
@@sunnythegreat9617 Yes it work very well.I have only my family and i don`t care others.Im happy with that.
Brother, you are amazing. I am 5'1'' male with male pattern baldness at 25. I have acne all over my face but none of my friends ever mention them to me. If someone does, they are not my friends. It's okay not to be average. :)
Are you chubby as well?
@@animechan7023 No
@@radicalpotato666 sorry bro, i thought you got all the packages 🥴
Wow you really got good friends. For me the worst then is that my own family comments on it.Wish people would understand God made us this way and it's not by choice
@@sepomushaukwa9006 My family suspects I'm using meth due to the acne on my face. So I'm getting a blood test done to prove I don't. But even after that they won't stop accusing and suspecting.
Lesson that must be taught to kids at a young age : Do not mock people for things they have no control over
Things like height, nationality, ethnicity, facial features, etc
This broke my heart i am literally crying, as a meducal professional i've seen many maaany people with that external fixator devices that got infected and i've done many wound dressing for them , the pain is unimaginable my heart was shattered into pieces when i remembered their faces in pain
To see someone willingly undergoing this type of procedure made me even sadder , i understand his pain i feel him and he doesn't had to go through all that pain just to please people
There's nothing wrong with him , his height is normal and he is a handsome and successful man and he deserves to be loved for who is he
If he just had more support and affirmative words he would've avoided all that unnecessary pain
Bless his heart i hope he fully recovered from that procedure and he is in a better place now both mentally and physically
♥
He's achieved a lot and can speak 9 different languages, all to risk it. To each there own, it's his life, his body, his choice. I know 99.9% of us wouldn't do what he's doing with everything he's achieved in his life so far.
Such accomplishments with literally NOTHING to show.
@@OGSinisterPotato He's got a good job based on having his own placing in the video, I would think he's doing fine. I'm sure there's always woman out there who would look pass his height. Sucks that people have taunted him for so long he has to go through this
@@awpmaster - They key to beating anxiety is not allowing others to define you. A wise man once told me, "as defined by whom?"
If he's making decisions to alter his body to fit the expectation of strangers then he's already lost the battle. He has allowed himself to be defined. You're 100% right. This world is filled with insecure people trying to define you with the sole purpose of making themselves feel superior. But every once in a while you meet a pure soul who cherishes you for who you are. These people are selfless and compassionate and most importantly, honest. These are the people you should allow to define you. If the man in the video waited just a little longer he would have realised this too.
100% agree. I'm also in the 99.9%. $0.02 (a very numerical comment).
he's almost certainly lying about the languages. it's not possible to have functional adult proficiency in that many languages without making it the sole focus of your life.
I am 31 years old and have 158 cm height (almost the same as his). I can genuinely understand his pain and the reasons behind this drastic decision. In school, fellow students constantly bullied and made fun of me because of my height. No one cared how intelligent I was. At my job, many of my colleagues made fun of me. No one cared how productive I was. Knowingly and unknowingly I was always humiliated because of my height.
More power to you
I can understand you .it's ok to be short, it's not sin . except the reality .
Same here bro
let me tell u how to solve that .... be rich or be brave ... step your foot on their face i can guaranty u they cant mock u again ...
@@bhupendrar2899 yes he should accept the reality that he is a runt and nobody wants him
I've seen people getting harassed because of their heights.
Most of the harasser themselves can be consider as short.
I used to hate my height but now I'm a bit over it now but it still hurts me when people make fun of my height.
I kept comparing myself to my friends or to other people I know and how much shorter I am compared to them.
I understand how and what these men feels like, but he experienced something extreme that even I think i can't handle it myself.
What's your height
Interesting self-leveling system on that two ring support-stretcher! I had no idea that interoscular nails were put down the long bones to maintain longitudinal and lateral stability. It makes sense.
Not my call, but it seems to me that such surgery might best be reserved for treating deformities and length/alignment anomalies due to accidents or congenital defects.
The main moral of the story here is how damaging can body shaming/bullying be. It's so sad to see how a very accomplished man like him, can resort to such an outlandish cosmetic surgery just to stop being shamed. I feel for him and hope this surgery will not make him end up in a wheelchair.
low tier posting
He ended up in a wheelchair. He became shorter then he originally was, because of the complications.
@@Janko_Zivanovic_94 Where did you hear this?
@@Janko_Zivanovic_94 that’s actually quite funny ngl
@@jefe58 I know. I saw an opportunity for a good joke and I made one up. I really don't know what happened to the guy lol.
It’s very unfortunate that this brilliant man went so far just to make others happy. During thanksgiving I went to a wedding where the groom is 5’ and the bride is 5’11, no joke. The groom has the ego of a 6’4 man and is very accomplished professional in Education. I’m sure people weren’t kind to him either especially when he was younger but his spirit radiates through the room. He has a large group of friends and his wife adores him. Learn to love yourself and others will gravitate towards you.
It’s a societal thing. I’ve seen it myself I’m not ultra short about 5’8 often times those who are taller are always preferred more than those who are shorter. It’s personally never stopped me from doing anything, but I think it’s something the world needs to let go of.
You are right. I really feel sad for this man. And anyone else who try to change their natural body. But this is specially too shocking and painful and scary to see. My name is Ehtisham. I live In Pakistan.
It's possible, but the man had to make up for the height loss, that's just the brutal reality. I'm sure he learned quickly that height matters because it triggers a woman's instincts, biologically speaking. It isn't just a societal thing. You see this in all cultures.
Is there any way to increase penis size to 15-20 inch
@@albinrezwan1999 yep I'm a doctor,I can fixed it but will cut off your penis than put buffalo/horse penis and stitch it ,very simple.
I broke my femur in an accident, it was the most painful event of my life. I was never the same and became disabled. I miss my old life. To think that some people are willing to do this baffles me.. i havent walked the same and i cant run anymore.
What happend bro?
I just pray that you are doing well 🧡
You can't compare a LL surgery with a broken bone from an accident, they both are WAAYYY two different things
I am 163 cm , far short than my friends. Everyone mocks my height . I don't give a F ! 😀. Grateful to what I have .
My uncle had this done and went through months and months of pain - afterwards he gained four inches but now is wheelchair bound and has a stick for a leg.
😵💫
Wow
Why a stick? Why did he lose his leg?
So the surgery wasn't a success?
what happened with him bro can you tell us ? and what was his initial height?
Update:
The amount of snarky and "clever" comments here is the exact reason why I'm so glad that my husband doesn't let people like this bother him at all. It's just funny how these men commenting specifically searched and chose to watch this kind of content just to leave more insults. Just shows how they try so hard to make others feel bad, just so they can feel better about themselves. How pathetic is that? 🤭
I am 5'2 and my husband is a couple inches shorter than me. He's been bullied since he was young but he is now a very confident and accomplished man. I admire his resilience and strength because the world can be very ruthless and unforgiving.
I hope this man finds peace and good support system to help him.
Tell your husband life's to short to keep him down.
@@markrich3271I see what you did there, you ain't slick.
2 seconds hug. 666th comment here!.
W wife
im 6'2, its weird cause I dont feel like a tall man a lot of the time cause of my environment, after seeing the lengths men will go to in order for other people to respect it hurts me, I can obviously never relate to the cruelty ppl have to go through cause of it but it definitely inspires you to always treat all men with the upmost respect, humans are cruel.
I love to watch such documentaries... Thankyou vice 🙂
The guy says "try karne me kya burai hai"..And two seconds later, the doctor voices a host of possible complications. WTF!!
The man was letting out all of his frustation from all those years, hearing him talk about how he could've been so successful if not only because of his height brings a tear to my eyes, stay strong brother!!
@Siddharth Sriram its not just that, in iran most boys i see today are taller than their fathers myself included im 180cm i think that's 5.11 my younger brother is taller than me it breaks my heart because lack of proper nourishment and lack of sleep during childhood is also a problem children who sleep or nap or have the peaceful environment to do so often grow to 5.10 5.11 more than its genetics they also grow more facial hair than their fathers milk helps with bone density not height most parents get it wrong
it is the same with skin colour, shameful that this kind of body shaming still exists in society today!
Oh my God ufff - I got panic attacks watching the surgery for few seconds.
Who's stopping him from becoming a world class body building like Manohar Aich, he was 4 feet 11 inch.
Stephen Hawking had a deformity that literally stopped him from moving but wrote wonders.
Mukesh Ambani isn't only 165 did it stop him from becoming
Successful.
Kevin hart is 5'4 ..he is a work renowned comedian and celebrity.
He is just weak minded .
@@ilsagita5257 its easier said than done plus you are judging him while not knowing what he's been through also he has accomplished way more than you academically and the fact that you are calling him weak proves you are an immature child
It's such a shame how many people go through this body shaming, it has to stop
I agree. I'm of an Asian background, too, and unfortunately, body-shaming is very common in Asian cultures, much more so than in the West. It's a very image-oriented society.
the term body shaming is eating brain cells.
@@eduardochavacano ? Trying to sound smart?
@@phatcat3705 Same here, it's worse in asia
Exactly fat people have fought for their rights not to be body I wish it can be the same for short people
Thank you so much for this video … really appreciate
Where is the follow-up video on this?
That's just painful to see such an accomplished person in his life go through that much just because of society. I'm 5'4
Hey shorty
@@michaeljordan5655 💀
These are called Manlet midget isnt ?
5'4" gang. the second girl i ever dated was 6ft. really drove in that height didn't matter as much as i thought. we the same height as Skrillex, Michael J. Fox, Seth Green, Frankie Muniz, Bruno Mars, Picasso, Lil Uzi Vert, Lil Wayne, the list goes on. we up, king 👑
@@michaeljordan5655 is that what you say to your dick?
Height discrimination is the most acceptable form of discrimination in the world and it doesn't get any airtime like gender or race discrimination.
People usually think it's funny but it's really painful
Omg you spoke my mind
Physical discrimination is accepted. Height equals to beauty. Being beautiful/handsome/thin/tall elevate you above everyone.
@@aesyamazeli8804 a lot of other physical discriminations are frowned upon though such as racism and fat-phobia and discrimination based on eye color.. Not saying they don't happen but they're treated as something bad.
@@aesyamazeli8804 May you have children shorter than the average height irrespective of the man you may plan to marry 😂
To be honest this video makes you appreciate what you have and it's a shame that many people just bullies him for being short. I thought i was short kinda but I am glad with what i got. I hope the guy is better now or at least getting there.
That is so true, just think about it, every time somebody sees a kid from somebody's somebody's kids per se. That's the first thing they say, oh, he's so tall, nobody says oh, he's so sure as I'm positive, and they say that to apparent parents with kids and the kids hear it and it's something constanttly. I'll keep hearing that people are making them feel less just because I shoulder if he's willing to go to that pain. That means it's really worth it
I'm a short guy myself (5'5 ft. or 165 cm), I have always been insecure about my height and I used to want to get this kind of medical surgery to increase my height even a few inches. But now that I have grown more mature, I have just accepted that it is what it is, and am now always trying to be content with what I have.
That’s maturity, acceptance comes with it.
Sad that so many grown ups behave like kids in times like now than before because of influences and influencers.
A person's height is all about their genes and the environment they grew up in. Both of these are literally out of anyone's control.
It's quite ridiculous to me when I see a person mocking another about something that's impossible for them to change. It's wise to either ignore or call out such people on their foolishness.
Brother...instead putting urself so into cruel procedure....accept urself ur god has big plans with you(hindu,muslim,Christian n oters) all will flow or be underground later,,,,,keep tour heart strong...n belive in your holy book...
@@wilsonmartis8311 is he a bot or what?
That's average height in India which is 5'5. It's definitely not 5'8, only one website claims that. Countless other websites has listed average Indian male as 5'5 for years.
For guys it's height and girls it's color! We call ourselves modern India but our minds are still stuck in the old ages! When will our society understand it's not OK to body shame anyone! Making jokes or telling someone they are short or too tall or too thin or dark is also not OK! It's very disturbing mentally. This needs to be taught at school levels and also at home!
Not really. Most men may feel a little insecure about height but women are constantly bombarded by colorism in every day life. Colorism is also intertwined with classicism. On top of that India is violently misogynistic and women are constantly demeaned and objectified. The problems are not comparable at all.
Black is good
Weight too
Color is a problem for men too not just women.
The problem is more widespread and not just in India. People really need a different kind of education. The world we live in is dominated by consumerism and not compassion.
When being morbidly obese is okay, but not being short.
So true 😂 wtf is this world
✨️India✨️
@@_stillborn not just india whole world
My brother had this procedure done in the eighties because he was born one leg shorter than the other. He ended getting addicted to opiates early in life because of the pain from the surgery and subsequent physical therapy. He died five years ago from a fentanyl od. He is at peace now no more pain. Rip JJS.
I’m so sorry for your loss
@@Jade-5713 why are you sorry we're you the doctor
@@visuder7412you are irrelevant just stop
@@visuder7412 hes saying hes sorry that the guy has to go through dealing with his brothers loss
I'm addicted to fentanyl patches I'm from London uk the dr put me on them for sciatica 10 years now I can't get off them they ruined my life.Im so sorry fir your loss
I'm a short guy. I attended 7 millitary recruitments both in army and state forces but got rejected due to less than a centimetre short. Despite such rejections I learnt that being employed does not make you happy. The secret ingredient is accept who you are and how far you have come to achieve your dream. Don't let an illusion (dream) decide for your mental & physical weakness. Learn to fight another war as the sun rises.
Facts bro
See it in positive way.Let the tall people go in military and die in wars. Like Napoleon. Now we are left with short man to repopulate the earth
Lmaoooooo sorry you were too short to do war crimes
super bro 🥰🎉💚👍
I got rejected too for some job because I wasn't tall enough, but they kindly explained to me that it's not by esthetic but for good reason they chose taller people.
Mr dhaneswar is so brilliant and nice. I wouldn't have expected him to feel so judged, but I feel much sympathy towards him.
Are there any updates or social profiles to know how he's doing now? I would be glad to know he's fine
I wonder how he is feeling after a year since this was uploaded. I learnt early on that you just can't please everyone. So even though he unfortunately has taken drastic measures to please others (even his friends of 15-20 years!), this is not guarantee it will help the mental and emotional pain he has experienced all his life because the people he is surrounded by are absolute pricks. I really hope he stands up to this disgusting behaviour and gets treated with the respect he deserves.
After 20-30 years of getting the exact same critique from people, I honestly can't blame him at all. People in the comments keep commenting about how he needs self confidence, this, and that, but imagine the thing you were bullied for as a kid. Imagine that never got left behind and haunted you into your adult life? Into a life that's ever more online and harder than ever to escape from. Im also a short lad who gets jokingly asked if I'd get this procedure, and get called some awful stuff as allusions to my height. But that guy was dealing with the same struggle I do for longer than I've been alive. He's got literal decades of torment on me that when I consider my own emotions on the matter, I can see how that was where he ended up. I could sit here with measly 10+ years of bullying, and cast judgment, and say something like "I get made fun of but I just deal with it", but that doesn't address the fact this is a global intergenerational problem that we as a species need to get over. People are different in a plethora of ways, let's not let something as superficial as height be where we start casting stones.
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Hear hear from someone with above average height. It is crazy being so fussed with height. It means nothing. If every short person was made 6' tall or above tomorrow it would just change the bar for shortness. It is just a relative thing with no practical value in modern life. Apart from the risks this poor man took to stop the bullying (and no doubt rejection from women - often short themselves and well matched to his height) there have been even worse interventions. In Australia there was a belief that really short people should be given HGH to bring up their height and social status. Natural HGH was obtained from corpses and a lot got hit with a batch that gave them brain tumors.
Hey for the record I worked with a guy who was quite short. When he got hit with the usual quip at a work function: "David stand on a chair so we can see you." He replied "No! You stand on a chair if you want to see me!" Classic and something that short people should file away.
@@johnbennett7407 or we can stop making quips about people's height without consideration about how people feel about it. If the poor guy decided to kill himself instead of paying for a surgery, you wouldn't have that opinion. You'd think it's awful people kept taunting him his whole life and say that isn't fair. Instead of going on a tirade blaming him and saying he should just do this and do that, maybe realize the documentary literally outlined how he tried that and women didn't want him.
@@MissInformer Thanks for that lecture. I've got a suggestion for you also. If you are going to respond to a "tirade" at least read more than the last paragraph. It looks kind of silly when you argue with and attack someone with the same viewpoint.
funny how the illzarov is a soviet invention
The way this guy is dealing with the complications of the surgery os is commendable. I hope he achieves the height he desires.
I also hope he reach great heights in his life.
Change your mentality baboons....
Question is how the fuck this video surgery aloow on UA-cam, ..?
Not commendable, just makes him weak.
@@redtortoise This comment reeks of insecurity
I feel so sorry for you mister, about your pain and how society treats you ! You deserve better and i wish you with all my heart and happy live ! So sweet man ❤
I got surprised after seeing this viedo, speechless, logo ka prabhav kamjor mun wallo k upr hota h ,her insaan k barey mai log boltey h Kami toh sub mai hotey h , emergency mai toh bnta h kuch bhi ho sakta h ,pr ek healthy ko aisey faisley nhi krney chahih,jis sey en ka prabhav purey samaj pr prta h or woh bhi aisey hi bahut risky decision ley latey h jo ki thik nhi h,4 lakh sey upr logo ney viedo dekhi h ,lakin koi bhi esko sahi decision nhi kehagaa,etni heenbhawna bhi ho saktey h kise insaan mai height ko Laker woh bhi jo society sey aaye hue ho ,Aaj pehley bar pta chala
Man height shaming is worse than fat shaming. You can’t do anything about someone’s height but you can absolutely change your weight in a few months. You can change your income, lifestyle and wealth in a few years too. How is it okay to make people feel that they are inadequate when you know there is nothing they can do about it. This should be taught or ingrained in to people from an early age.
you just watched a video on how to get taller.
@@Kamikazeesouled yes but at what cost? He’s risking paralysis at mid life. It’s not just a magic pill or a risk free procedure
@@Kamikazeesouled not worth the risks. a fat person can lose weight by eating healthily and exercising. No excuses there.
@@Kamikazeesouled were you dropped as a baby or sumth?
Hush shawty
Do make a part 2 of this, I really wanna see him doing well after all this.
Exactly there should be an update
He is done for...big ego guy
It will send bad influence.. if the surgery is successful for then..
Than more and more people will want to do the same surgery.. and it might not work for others ...
This should end right here
@@kailashrava it will most likely be, this surgery has a 98% success rate just the thing is you might only get 1 inch increase that might not be worth it
@@80sidd how did he have big ego, he seemed pretty down to earth guy for me especially considering that he's been bullied for all his life, he deserves those 14cm
Please put graphic description in the video
It hurts my heart every time somebody gets some kind of surgery because they don't like the way they look. but going through pain like this, is another level!!! it is so sad that society makes people torture themselves in order to fit in........ The emotional pain is so great, that they willingly go through these procedures. Lots of people die because they go into a country where they can afford the surgeries the world we live in has so many areas it needs to be fixed I don't see a chance for humanity anymore.
Such a educated man with a very bright future has been rejected because of his height? If I was him I would outsource and find a different continent that can accept him or would not care for his height. As short man myself. Never let your insecurity block you from achieving your goals and happiness.
Sadly being a genius in academics does not give people the aptitude to discern the type of people to listen to and the type of people who are meaningless and thus should be avoided and ignored at all cost.
"Do you still feel that once you gain height, the problems that existed for you will disappear?"
"I hope so."
"It was always the height that most people had an issue with."
"There was never anything else."
It's like his mindset is fixed on being validated by the very people who brought him down and that's just sad.
I've seen people who are literal dwarfs and short people the same height as him or even less who are happy because they hang out with a great crowd. I'm pretty sure I don't want to live in that place either because out of all your talents they still find a way to bring him down? Bunch of envious bitter people I am glad I'm not associated nor introduced to.
He doesn't seems much educated to me
Anyone can brag or lie about degrees they didn't show his degrees
@JPREET Dhillon Just because it’s cheap doesn’t mean it’s easy lmao. You still have to study and put in the time and work.
He should just keep looking or accept life as a single man. Marriage is not always the answer for happiness.
@JPREET Dhillon Tu jake truck chalana
The pain 9/10 is true. I was involved in a vehicular accident before which caused my tibia to have infections. My ilizarov is now 6 months with me. The first two months were so painful that everytime i adjust the screws (1mm a day) i can feel my skin being torn. My 3rd month was where i started walking without the aide of crutch or anything to hold on. Now in my 5-7th month i can now do basic exercises such as squats, knee strengthening etc. The challenging part of having this ilizarov is the inability to walk for a long time after the surgery. My doctors suspected me having knee contractions due to movement restraints before. Life with ilizarov is really not easy.
I hope that your recovery continues quickly with the least amount of suffering for you
@@VeggieRice amen
Wow are you the guy in the film? I have been thinking of having this done myself and would love to talk to you about it all. There's nothing more in this world I want more then to be taller. Please respond
@@james2479 I know you didn’t ask me but do gather as much information as you can before you do the procedure, talk to people and be conscious of the risks. Even if it’s in accidents or for cosmetics the Ilizarov can cause problems. I’ve used a Ilizarov apparatus for broken bones but I wouldn’t put my feet on the floor for a long time, which I think is why seeing the man on the documentary walking after his operation gave me chills, but I understand those are probably different things with different instructions post-operative. Read about what you can do to increase your chance of not having any kind of complications and do them like your life depends on it. I know some cases of infections can happen to even the most careful post operative patient, but if you do the procedure take every step of the post operative procedure like religion. Like cleaning the wounds to reduce chance of infection, and follow your doctors orders on what you should and should not do. The dude on the documentary from what I saw tried to tightening the screws more than he should, so you’ll have to come in terms that you’ll have to follow everything strictly, and for a long time. Get a good doctor with lots of experience as well. The best you can. I say, do it, bro, if that’s what you want. But be careful with recovery please. If not, maybe cognitive behavioral therapy could help you also to accept yourself and be happy with who you are - but this also takes months, lots and lots of therapy and find one therapist that you bond with, which is always beneficial. Whatever you do, be safe dude. Wish you the best. Just really do everything you can and more with tips and how you can prevent infections and subsequent pain, and even other complications, but know that even if you do everything right you still can get one, but you’re lowering your risks considerably. But never to 0. Find a doctor who will instruct you how to rest your leg correctly, how much complete resting/walking you should do exactly, what you should and should not, on details. Cleaning routine, everything. One doctor that passes you confidence and seem to care about your well-being as they should (but not all do). Be safe.
@@james2479 wish you the best
bro you are really brave keep it up
People should learn to accept that each one of us is unique. Some pple always make fun of others just accept your self and be confident.being tall won’t solve your problems
I am a "short" man myself and I have felt many of the same things that he's going through especially in the marriage market. It's really sad that a man's intellect, his ability, honesty, and ability to provide means little unless he's absolutely within the top 1% of society. I cannot say what he's doing is wrong as it's his life and his body. All I can hope for is that he recovers completely and speedily and get's the respect and attention that he was denied for so long. Best of luck brother!
I honestly don't get women's obsession with men's height. Both of my very serious relationships were with men pretty much the same height as me. Move to Portugal, because at 5ft 5 I'm taller than most the women I come across!
Same things with women as well
that's why there are surgeries and make up
@@nataliem9667 I'm thinking of moving to Portugal. You are an open hearted lady. İ hope there are many like you. I'm 169.5 cm
@Ingoc Huh?
@@universalsoldier811 There are my friend, it's your heart not your height.
I feel for him. He sounds like a brilliant man. I can’t imagine the mental torment he has had to suffer all his life. Too bad he does not know he is enough the way he was created.
He's funny too 14:22. As well as educated & accomplished in many other ways. It's sad that he did it bc of others' issue with his height. He said people have more problem with his height than he does. Hope he feels better now.
This is a perfect example for how silly jokes and verbal abuse can destroy someone's life, i have gone through this and still suffering i know how it feels 🙂
My teacher once said, half of the joke was true. I also received a lot of Jokes from friends but its fine, sometimes we really have to encounter people who are straight forward and insensitive. Maybe we can just look on these things as trials, the training stage in order to become stronger.
@@lorrainelara347 You are really a sensitive and caring person.... God bless you always 😍
@@vibhavshukla1008 Thank you. God bless you too🌱
It's more than silly jokes, heightism is an actual thing and there's an actual Halo Effect when it comes to height.
I‘m a woman with pectus excavatum, which basically means my ribs are kinda carved inward. Looks like a „hole“ in my chest. Was ridiculed a lot for my body and already had lots of bullying going on anyways. So I decided to try to fix it surgically. Got a metal bar put into my chest, fixated with screws on my ribs for three years. I could hear the metal bar every time I moved and feel it rubbing against my bones. Still feel it while writing this even though it‘s been taken out this year.
The trauma is real
My cousin has the same thing! I remember changing in her room without moms there. I asked her what that was and my aunt said it was her “posito” and I was like oh I’ve never seen one of those before and then they told me I was the WEIRD ONE FOR NOT HAVING ONE! 😅 I took it to heart.
Lol my ex had a pescal excavation that shits hot show me 😝
I hope you're fine now!
Have a metal bar in my back because of my scoliosis (and I'm little too 153cm) just by reading you text, it hurts me and I can sense the pain. 😭 Sadly it can't be removed..
Wish you the best recovery ❤️👍🏻
Have confidence and self respect 🙏 , you are what you are .
I'm only 5 ft 3 inches but I'm a self made millionaire , self driven , happy , positive, and most importantly healthy . Who cares about height 🤷♂️
I remember seeing this when it first came out and I'm still just as shocked seeing it a yr later pop up on my recommended
5 degrees, Engineer, can speak 9 languages, just wow! This guys has a whole success in life but we have toxic society. Sad
He is just in a wrong country
@@hr5581 same country provided him education ,it's not about country it's about toxicity of humans
Guys like him are very common in India. It may be a bid deal for foreigners.
@@hr5581 Really? Which country would you think is better for short people, esp. men?
@@6abhisekbackup9 i think south east Asian countries
This surgery is a commendable masterpiece in medical field. Not just this case, but we have handicapped patients who have one limb shorter and need support for life. Surgeries like these have helped them lengthen both limbs to equal and helped them change from handicap to normal
Kudos to healthcare professionals 👏🏻👏🏻
666th comment here!
@@kelseyclarkson506 hi devil!😅
Simp.
Years ago, I had the llizarov external fixator applied. Fortunately today it is a much simpler procedure and brace
My father was 157cm as well. Although in life he never let that hold him back nor allowed insults to be thrown at him. Neither a surgery nor high academic skills will fix the remarks you take for your height but it is your character that determines it. Never had he let anybody belittle him nor was he afraid to get his hands dirty to protect his honor, that form of character cannot be gained by surgery. One must first tend to their honor, virtue and beliefs before they worry about their height. That is why I never will understand people who complain about their height for I have yet to see a man well versed in honor and discipline be reprimanded for that
Being 19 and 5’4 in the US, I can’t say it doesn’t bother me sometimes but these past few years I barely notice it anymore. Everything else in life has been amazing. I have perfect health, I hit the gym 4 days week, attend a flight school to become an airline pilot, have an amazing girlfriend, a loving and supportive family, a great group of friends, etc. I’ve learned to not care as much as I did when I was younger. I actually enjoy joking around about it now(not too self deprecating, that’s cringe and uncomfortable) because my friends will make equally funny and deep jokes about themselves. I’m at a point in life where no one disrespects me because of my height and anyone that does I find kinda cringey and tryhard. Usually the people that try to make fun of my height I judge too. They’re obese, high school drop outs, bitchless, jobless, homeless, druggies, etc. Anyone that disrespects me because of my height I naturally see them as insecure themselves. It’s hard to be insulted by someone who treats others like trash in general.
The secret is to judge others before they judge you, lol
Because America has much more logical people than India
Hey i am almost same height as yours and i kinda felt like this while i was in my teenage. Now growing up i have so many challenges, i workout and eat clean.
I don't have to bother about what others think of me. I have my family and a loving partner as well.
Life in not about how people treat you. Its about how you treat yourself.
I wish you a happy and healthy life ahead.
#gymbros
Finding reasonable people and friends with common sense is one of the steps. Remember, people on their teens: choose your friends carefully. If they throw insensitive comments, tell them to fuck off and build your own confidence. Don’t let anyone push your boundaries. Those are not friends and you’ll soon figure out that once you leave college (unless you have authentic friends), you’ll mostly likely never hear from anyone ever again and you’ll forget their names quickly. Go to college. Work. Party. Start your business. Whatever you wanna do. Live your life and have fun. Respect yourself first. The world is yours. Where I live tho I’ve never seen people being bullied for their height, but I do live in Brazil. Never had in my 26 years a bro come to me and say people are bullying them for their height or that girls won’t date them because of that. One of my friends in college was way shorter than me (I’m a woman, 1.63), and that dude got all the pussy one could get. Way more than me and prob more than the all the students of our course combined. He was pretty self-confident tho. An amazing guy also. Go for it guys, and if becomes too hard get the help you need, wether it’s therapy or surgery - it’s your call and your call only - just do it safely.
dude same i ended up doing mma and people who would make fun of my height wouldnt even dare to make fun of me because i fight people and get beat up every day, each day i get better and better. trust me dude do it and life will change im 21 and joined at 20 focus on muay thai and jiu jistu.
@@masonbain7098 But don't rich people decide the match?
Me as a 161 cm boy in Indonesia can understand his feelings. My own biological family is always comparing me with random boy who's got more heights than me, even when we're in vacation
@tsuki so glad he found such a wonderful woman like you. Same with me, I've been in a few relationships lately, and none of 'em have a problem about my height, even though most of 'em were taller than me. It is a BS if we support equality but still discriminate against people based on their natural physique.
@tsuki is this a first sight love or gradual
I am asking bcz many girls reject guys due to height after first meeting
I've had to go through this as well. But I take it as what it is, a challenge. If all humans were equal it would be so boring. This is my challenge, if i decide to cry about it, its a shame to the thousands of years of solving challenges that led to me. You have to accept it and use it just as any other feature that can define you.
@tsuki Everyone needs a girl like you inspire everyone to make this decision
Bro I'm 5'5 and Im 16 my mother is 5 and my father is 5'6 and my parents always insult me on the basis of height I can feel u bro:(
@beingrahees- Exactly what I wanted to say ❤ I am short as well n have been bullied all my life. One of my closest friends sent me a link to this kind of operation and I was utterly disgusted by the mere thot of my own close frnd. Fortunately I chose a field where height isn't a necessity but mind is, as I was topper this profession suit me very well. I do not care much about what other people think about my height. I have perfectly good leg with calves and good thighs I wouldn't ruin it for any stupid person that sees height as a hindrance! I am thankful to God to have given me a healthy body that I can live a healthy life with, a few inches and a 1000 mockers can't change/ruin what I alredy have. We all are beautiful in our own way, some lack a few inches (like me) and some lack a lot of brain cells (like mockers) 😂
I would love to have him as uncle in vicinity to gain experiment knowledge 😮 like that of mad scientific uncle
I bet all those who bullied him for his height are just jealous at his other achievement. I really wish someone told him to not compare his weakness to someone's strength. I wish he travelled more before the surgery to see that there are more than one 'correct' ways of doing life, and marriage
would you date someone 5'0 feet tall you know you wouldn't this man's life is hell and his trying his to fix it
@@t64madness It's not hell. He is doing well. He should have cut out those toxic people from his life.
@@mahalak4383 stop virtue signaling there's no toxic people in his life its everyone he meets that has no respect for him and ask yourself would you ever date 5'0 man exactly my point life never began for this poor man
@@mahalak4383 how does one cut out society?
@@somebody2214 By not interacting with people who make fun of you or by keep your foot down and telling specifically what you don't like. If you don't have confidence in yourself, everyone else will have a go at you.
"A man who has it all still wanders for nothing."
Its heartbreaking
Its sad that people for no reason will mock someone to the point they have to do this. I wish this man a succesful surgery and full recovery ❤
This story breaks my heart. Sometimes people do this kind of like making fun of someone's height, weight and complexity just because they can feel superior.
2 years back I gained weight and people were constantly around me pin-pointing me every time, constantly telling me that I needed to loose weight or else I will be fat. Then I started working due to work pressure I lost weight then again "The same people" started telling me I need to gain weight as I look like a stick. Recently a boy told me I need to gain weight as boys prefer "MASS" on the body. My entire life people have commented on my body, weight, color or something or other. This is not going to stop.
This whole scenario made me realise nothing can make people around us happy we just need to be strong and happy and that will be our revenge on them. I still have insecurities but that doesn't mean I will let people get on my mind and ruin me. I am perfect and I am strong.
I pray to god that Mukesh has a speedy recovery and lives happier life.
the story of my life too ! people are so mean :( stay strong !
People tend to critique people that are slim because they suffer from insecurity and jealousy themselves. Its not easy to maintain a figure like that.
You can reduce your weight. There are no excuses for being obese.
But you can't change your height.
@@aditya-ml6km l totally agree with you hands down. It was just an example that l shared.
Edit - Also, for some people due to medical conditions it's tough to change their weight. Doesn't matter how much they try.
@@gothrough123mm No that's totally false. What do you mean by a medical condition?
Thyroid disorder can slow down metabolism and the body consumes fewer calories for base operations. But this effect is not as bad as some fat people want others to believe.
Let's say you are a fit person who eats 2400 calories/day. But suddenly you develop thyroid issues and due to your slower metabolism, your body requires only 2000 calories/day. That means you are eating 400 calories more each day.
It will take you approximately 3 months to gain 5 kilograms with your otherwise "healthy eating". Note that a difference of 400 calories is on the upper end. Most people would have a small change in their metabolism rate. For a difference of 200 calories, it will take you 6 months to gain 5 kilograms of weight.
It will take you "years" to become extremely obese. Approximately 3 years to gain 25 kilograms.
Now my questions to you are.....
Why did you allow yourself to become obese? We are talking about years.
Why didn't you exercise and try to burn an extra 200 calories? Just 25 minutes of daily cycling at a moderate pace.
This is an example of a person with a thyroid issue, who eats healthy, who eats only 200 calories more than a regular fit person. This is the ideal medical condition you are talking about. And this condition is manageable with just 25 minutes of daily cycling.
Most obese people eat like pigs. They eat 2x or 3x more than the daily intake. And that's why they gain weight so quickly. A person eating 2000 calories more than required would need 4 hours of daily cycling at a moderate pace to burn those extra 2000 calories. Do you think that an obese person can ride a bicycle for 4 hours? No, because they eat like pigs, otherwise, Peter Sagan would have been a fat person.
Those extra 2000 calories are stored as fat every single day. Who is to blame? oh YEAH....."I HAVE A MEDICAL CONDITION....."
You said "Also, for some people due to medical conditions it's tough to change their weight. Doesn't matter how much they try......"
Your comment is very ignorant. They just need to do 20 - 30 minutes of cycling. They just need to manage their daily intake of calories.
If you are eating 3000 calories then you must burn 3000 calories by doing physical activity to achieve a net zero. This is physics 101. LOL
He didn't need surgery, just therapy and some positive natured friends. His achievements command respect. Tallness doesn't (by default). $0.02
Feeble mind makes whole body suffer.
Imagine being discriminated against and verbally abused your whole life and then be told that you have a feeble mind and you need therapy. 😶
@@gg.youlubeatube6249 where is the lie
he just needed to leave india
@@fckSashka it's even worst in the West
Great video but that apart
Mannn KUDOS to you for watching the entire procedure ❤
Nice tutorial, easy to follow up, I went to the store, bought everything and did it myself at home. 9/10.
good...keep it up
being an 19 year old and 5 feet tall guy, I fully relate to all his past traumas that have led him to this point. No matter where I go, I am always getting taunted by the people through these pathetic jokes and beatings that put you down. No matter what people say, we humans tend to judge people on the basis of their physical appearance, choose to talk to them on the basis of their physical appearance, form relationships on the basis of their physical appearance. And it's alright to have such standards, what's not alright is the hypocrisy people go around saying that things like height, skin, beauty, doesn't matter, while going on having a preference to select potential partners on the basis of all those factors. That and the gradual bullying and rejection that accumulates to a level that it leads to such painful procedures. Even the mundane things in life don't leave mocking you - not able to grab the hand supports hanging above on the trains and busses to stand amidst the crowd, not able to reach things, not able to get pass the physical exams for exams and what not. This is the hypocrisy of the world
Same bro
What country are you in? I know people who are 5 feet men in the USA and people don’t give them crap after like middle or high school
@@turkey4957 India, am in university right now, and it has all been the same as it was in during the middle school for me.
I mean, this world is not made for left handed people. They either learn to be somewhat ambidextrous and adapt. People with SpEd needs are not always accommodated and they learn to deal with it. I understand that it is tough, this is a cruel plane. Many do not even have the accese to go this extreme and I truly question the long term issues of doing this crap. I understand those with dwarfism doing this because they face many complications by not doing it. Your confidence in yourself also goes into how others treat you as well. There have been plenty of short warriors in their time. The world will reject you for one reason or another, you don't have to agree.
Give me your insta i will tell you how to grow even after 20.
He needed therapy he had everything
Same as “ nonbinary “ people. 😂
I cant tell you how bad getting bullied for height is. I was in elementary and the whole grade targeted my eight. It genuinely broke me, but im good rn
Just by watching the video, I am in pain. We're living in such a pathetic society, where we downgrade other people and hurting them for no reason.
I'm a 37yo woman, I'm 5'1" (154.5cm). My height has always been an issue for me, I was also bullied (as an adult) by colleagues, friends,... I was planning on getting this surgery but after watching this I realize that I must heal from the trauma and learn to love myself just the way I am.
Height is absolutely no factor for marriage of women atleast in asia..but for men ....damnn
Almost all men in the world I think like you height for a woman it's attractive to be honest 👍
How is height for women even an issue?
@@samratsaha9826 it's an issue for then in terms of finding work and for confidence but in attracting opposite sex most of the time it's not
Girl please don't
Way too risky
Thanks for covering this. Many people talk about body shaming but fail to touch upon harassment caused by discriminatory and distasteful comments on height. Many people still think it’s funny to call someone short and continue mocking them. Height, race, color of skin cannot be changed!!
My heart goes out to this lovely man, I hope he will find his happiness within himself, what a touching and innocent soul he is lol
I'm 4'9 and I can relate. I once heard a cousin who is much taller talked about my family (my parents are short so I and my siblings are all much shorter than them) that we are "dwarf", in school teachers teased us too... I once considered doing this surgery, but not any more. I realize that I shouldn't let the way other ppl talk about me change the way I feel about myself and what I can achieve in my life. And besides that, for a woman, shorter = younger, cuter, more choices (men usually like women who are shorter than them). So I learn to live happily with myself. I'm also a business woman and doing very well.
But I understand it is much harder for men, especially in Asian, where body-shaming is normal and anyone can talk about that, freely and loudly. That's why ppl should never body shaming others for things that they can't control, it can litterally destroys their lives.
Just go and watch lord of the rings you will understand the power of the dwarf rule of durin
Don't go for surgeries.
Eat height increasing pills .
@@kaliamalia2242 those aren't real
@@divinrth5187 Why do you think so ?
@@kaliamalia2242 because there isn’t any evidence whatsoever that pills can increase your height. it’s not a why don’t i think so, it’s a why would i think so.
I don't understand why we always blame these men, and never point the fingers to the people that have bullied them their whole life for something they have no control over. We all know how families can be, how they wear us down for everything we "failed" to be, and how society can be cruel and all. He deserved a better treatment by other people, and if this is the only thing that for him at the moment will give he happiness I hope he will find it. I'm sorry it went like this for him but I blame the others, not him. How the heck can you "build confidence" when everything and everyone keep bully you for the same thing over and over.
Because almost everyone is responsible for it, especially women.
because society has no sympathy for men.
@@gj9157 well aren't you daring or just stupid pointing it at women!!
@@gj9157 Have you gotten the surgery yet? I’m 5’5 and considering the surgery
@@chadzahirshah2588 please don't , it definitely doesn't seem worth it
He is having the surgery i am feeling pain in my a*#
always be happy with what you have
I’m sad for anyone who experiences such anxiety and insecurity about an aspect of their appearance that they feel the need to resort to extreme surgeries or procedures to try and “fix” their perceived flaw.
After he go through the hell of surgery and realize that nothing changed in his life, he will just be depressed.
@@eduardochavacano
Yep. It ain't his height, it's the people around him
@@FoxyBoxery its also his perception.
@@visaeryon
For me, it's mine
Many people are commenting here that he shouldn't let other's opinion affect him but its India where people don't mind there business and most racist to their own. Indians rarely give importance to their self & individuality and whole society structure conspire to shame others. You cannot say how he felt until you put yourself in his shoes. Despite having good height it took me long time to accept my self and feel happy about it and to not let others decide.
Yes India is a society where a person is conditioned to stand up if ur society says u to stand up and sit down if u r ordered to sit down , if u go opposite , ur beaten up , shamed, disowned , singled out, and they have a preetty dialogue to defend this discrimination "Log Kya Kahenge Gar Khud Ke Choices Se Jeena Chahte Ho!"
Implicating that u should never build opinions of ur own and just nod to what societal trends wants you to do in life
IT'S A CULTURAL TEACHING OF DON'T STAND OUT DIFFERENT FROM ALREADY EXISTING STEREOTYPES AND TRADITIONS
And even if u don't want to do something , ur elders will emotionally pressure u to do it anyways e.g. pressure to use whitening creams, prressure to force depilate pubic hair, They will consider u rude for not wanting to meet an arranged marriage suitor at the same time not consider their own behaviour of not asking u 'Whether u r prepared financially or mentally to marry' before parents creating ur matrimonial profile without asking their child's consent
what is this? your anti-Indian vomit?
you think racism and height is not an issue in every country.
is there history of enslaving and capturing foreigners in India like America? A history of imperialism in India? How about killing en mass genocide like Germany did in India?
@@chatgpt4135 "prressure to force depilate pubic hair"
Now I know you are just talking rubbish.Anything below waist is not talked about.
Indian elders expect you are a sexless person until marriage , and then ask how long until babies .
Damn bro I m 5 feet 4 inches 😂😂😂 ugly as fck and bald too . And I don't give a flying fuck to others opinions. Kabhi kabhi apne aap se lagta hai ki thod alag hota to acha hota but still i have self confidence to do whatever i want except girls and other social image impacts( without vocal conversations one ).
good character is more important than height
Really appreciate the mental strength of this person.
More power to him 🙏
I'm 5ft 0 and I want to be tall ,that is as far as it goes, I am just grateful for my body because some people don't have fully functioning bodies like I do for example the handicap, those who are on dialysis, some with botched bodies, I live in appreciation of my body to honour and respect those people.
It's different for men
I realized taller people can be more exposed to more joint problems because essentially they have more body. I’m short but I function just fine so being short isn’t even bad
@@veggiedisease123 No, it's the same. I saw some program with women in China putting themselves through this same surgery to make themselves taller, and one in England who did the same. Not everybody wants to wear heels.
@@tainanking Same. And taller people can't catch their weight as well as short people could, so it's true that the bigger you are, the harder you fall. I'm only 162 cm (5'4") and wish I were taller, at least because it's difficult to reach things myself, but I'm fine with it otherwise because at least my health is okay. However, we do tend to have cardiovascular issues compared to tall people, but aside from that issue, tall people are likelier to suffer from heart arrhythmias than we are, and shorter peopletend to live longer than tall people in general, for some reason, too. Same applies to dogs. I had a medium-size dog and a large-size dog, with the big dog being younger, but the older dog outlived our younger one, who also suffered from hip dysplasia when he got older.
Copium
When he said
Mujhe apna height se utna problem nahi hai jitna dusron ko hai..
Then that's it, he was happy with himself but he was not happy with people having problems with his height..
Acceptance is the last option
thats the whole point of this video.
Wow 9 languages and has multiple masters degrees, who cares about height, you are awesome! I wish I was able to speak 9 languages, I barely know 3 and I have just 1 undergraduate degree. You don't need to be taller, that's just superficial. I wish I have as many masters degrees like you and be able to speak multiple languages. That's just amazing, not everyone can accomplish that. You know what, everytime someone critizes me for something so useless, I just start laughing at their faces, because inside of my mind, I imagine them wearing a clown custom with paint on their face. They usually get mad and frustrated but the more I see them, I start laughing uncontrollably, and use their words and logic against them.
I'm also 154 but happy and good!