1. Decide who you want to be. 2. Set boundaries. Cut out what doesn't serve you. 3. Write down as you want to appear in the future. 4. Take actions everyday to achieve that. 5. Gratitude. 6. Abundance. 7. Master your mind. 8. Keep your promises. Treat yourself like someone you love. 9. Learn new skills.
I have been so stuck and depressed because I’m 33 no kids and no man & not in a career I love. I’m no longer stuck, I am that girl my man is on his way and children coming too. Thank God for you. Thank you for showing up and sharing. I appreciate you
Girl, I'm 34 and in the same boat as you but I celebrate myself everyday and I take care of myself. I'm not a 100% perfect as I still want approval but I try to stop those approval needing behaviors and remind myself that I ONLY need my own approval and need to be happy alone without anyone. Everything you ever wanted will come to you for sure, believe it and trust that it's coming to you in the best way possible but you need to be prepared to HANDLE more people.
@@gillchesterton8614 so you get where I’m coming from, but you’re right! I am her. You are her. All the things we desire are coming. Have an lovely birthday and an amazing year ahead!
@@LoveHarryStyles89 thank you! I too am working so motivated to work on me, loving myself more. Love that you celebrate yourself more. I haven’t been great at that. How do celebrate yourself? We for sure need to pour into ourselves before we pour into others. All good things are coming our way!
Yep… am here I am, 34, no kids, no partner, working on the job I don’t like… but you know what, it can get better and better, because we are here and working on it! Sending you love ❤ Indi :)
I was so confident when I was young. I believed that I am beautiful, smart, interesting person. But every man I met in my life tried to prove the opposite about me. Now I don’t have no success in life, I am insecure, depressed. But I am working on myself. I want to bring back the best version of myself!
Margarita is the women we should hear from in our early teens!!!!! Sometimes our relationships with our mothers aren’t really about advice and lessons. It’s more about survival and getting through the day. We miss so much information and we learn the hard way!
You are brilliant and at 82 I absolutely believe all of us need to follow your suggestions. We would all be better for it. Thank you. I've forwarded your video/podcast to friends. Even those of us who have confidence could take these steps to improve our lives. Yes, even at 82! :).
Thank you, Margarita, for these steps: 1. Decide what you want/who you want to be. 2. Set boundaries that protect the person you want to be. Cut out things that don’t serve you. 3. Write down the type of person you want to be as if you already are …even if you aren’t AND the daily action you are going to take to achieve it. 4. At the end of every day write down three things you are grateful for. 5. Adopt an abundance mindset. You are enough and there are enough opportunities for you. 6. Identify the core negative beliefs that don’t serve you and ask your brain to show you evidence that contradicts those core beliefs. 7. Develop your confidence by keeping your promises to yourself and others. Push through it. 8. Learn new skills… get excited about life by keeping yourself busy with these new skills/activities you enjoy.
I don’t know if you read all of these Margarita, but your video on anxious attachment changed my life. In conjunction with therapy, you literally helped me change my mindset on my actions and cure myself of codependency. Thank you so much for your invaluable work.
I don’t usually comment on videos but I’ve seen a lot of these “change your life in 90 days” in my algorithm this past week and this by far is the best video yet. I needed to hear this after feeling the victim mentality lately. You’re such a breath of fresh air and your delivery is impeccable! LOVE your content. Thank you ❤
Your content is the best thing that has come into my life, after being cheated on and left in the dust by my ex after seven years together. I found you right away and am healing so much faster than from previous break ups. I look forward to continuing in your master classes and being her. You are effecting so many lives in such great ways. The more women who watch, we might actually effect the way men view women and value us.
Great final thought! You can make it to the good side of that pain. It may be the best thing going that ever happened to you. I know it did me. Be worthy to yourself. You'll love the outcome!
I don’t know i just feel so safe here she’s like a mother to me. Everytime I go back after watching her videos I feel like a better person I learned so much from her! Grateful❤
A good quote that goes along with this video: Perhaps, you are not becoming who you want to be, but you are unbecoming who you're not to step into who you truly are.
I remember I have once stopped following you because some things you were saying were hurtful, but now I can see that you totally make sense and your speech is really empowering
Spot on! After the last relationship I realised how shattered and reliant my confidence was, so now I’m on a mission to rebuild that! Thanks for the motivation!
I noticed that deep down i already know everything you’re saying in this video. It just makes so much sense to me. It’s just that I‘ve forgotten it and needed to be reminded again that I already know who I am and what I want. I always knew it I have just been influenced by other people, social media etc which made me doubt myself. So thank you for this reminder.
This is on a private playlist I have of things I listen to once a month Nearly a year out since this vid dropped Things have improved SO much it is unreal
I am so thankful I found you. I’ve been in this journey about 1,5 years now since my spiritual awakening and now I’m fully getting to understand my goals and soulpurpose. Getting closer to my desires everyday. It’s so funny how things switch when you truly listen to yourself, be honest and stick in to your boundaries and values. It can be a lonely road at first, since I cut all the people who didn’t serve my future. Now 1 year later and after all these lonely nights I’ve found myself a best friends who truly loves me and trough her other people who have same type of mindsets. I hope that who ever is reading this and you feel stuck and don’t know what to do, just let go of the things in your life what you feel like you need to hold on tightly. You shouldn’t have feel that way about anything that belongs to your life. Sending you all love, and specially to you Margarita helping people to return home to themselves again.
Dear Margarita, you’re a light in so many of our lives. I appreciate you taking the time to make us such a life altering video. You took the time to write this all down and your effort is clearly shown. Thank you so so much. I am eternally grateful for you and everything you share with the world. 💜
I really appreciate this perspective because I always believed that staying grounded would get me through life and surely it has. Being grateful and immersing into who you really want to be is truly life changing. I used to always be in survival mode, people pleasing, and surrounded by the wrong people😢 Life-changing really when you let go of everything that no longer serves you. Like a new butterfly was born 😊 now Im discovering myself and about to start my own business, hitting my fitness goals, got my own apartment, and living life slower appreciating everything around me. It really works in your favor😎
You made me cry with the parent thing. I became burnt out but I do still try. That was major because now I can have the belief I am am progress in that way. Thank you Margarita! You’re out here changing lives!
I've been feeling lost between loving myself enough to take action and thinking about when and how I've failed in my perspective. This video popped up to me just in the right time and you explained everything in a way that I needed to hear and get the message. Thank you for your work and thoughts, this is so valuable ❤
Ahahaha that one made me chuckle, but also the “….depleted well that everyone has drunk from and is now dirty, hungry, angry raccoon in the corner….” That one got me 😂😂😂
LOVE YOU AND LOVE THAT YOU'RE BRINGING A CHILD INTO THIS EARTH! Amen to all of this. Exactly what i needed. 'I did not go gentle into that good night. I made something happen' Applause
You have helped me so much in just the past few weeks. I’m trying to find myself after losing my son’s father and remarrying. I’ve felt so lost for years and I am so ready to be myself again without a man.
This is the best video and it totally found me. I've been doing yoga for years and tonight I was able to do my own internal flow. I felt so empowered. Felt every movement and breathe. I chose myself and my peace. You're so right. Points that got to me: tantrums to realize boundaries and trusting yourself. Abundance mindset, positive self talk as well. Telling yourself as well as writing about the person you are. The constant positive chimp instead of the ego chimp.
Ahh this helped me SO much today, I watched it first thing this morning & it’s now 6.30pm, I had the best day I’ve had in ages. I spent 5 hours cleaning & decluttering my house, I thought “I am someone who loves my house clean & tidy” and it made it so effortless!! I also ate really healthy which can be hit & miss for me, I’ve lost a lot of weight but struggling to lose the last 10kgs. It’s the identity change I need to get me going again. All your videos are amazing but this is one of your best for me. Thank you Margarita 💖
You truly are wonderful. Thank you 🙏 I’ve come to a cross roads again and after years of battling with myself and others I’m stepping in to my true path. No more excuses no more chaos and no more distractions. Lots of love ❤
I'm a Leo/Virgo as well (August 22nd). I also grew my hair very long by stopping washing it so much and no heat tools at all. The journal list is so key. And you are so right the go to is pets and family.
Congratulations on your pregnancy , I’m so excited for you 🎉. Thank you, thank you, thank you for this priceless information. I know deep down it to be true however to have it presented to me like this makes it real and attainable. This is true quality content ❤
Margarita, this year has been a great journey for me. And you were present throughout my evolution process. It went from learning to let go of a relationship that was no longer good for me, learning to direct my energy towards myself, and now, healed, using my strength to design the life I want for myself. Thanks for the guidance! ❤
I appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable at the expense of helping others.. Your self confidence and deep understanding of yourself is inspiring ❤
There was a time in my life where i used to see food like this, everything i ate had to be nutritious and healthy, i had 2 roommates who had my old eating habits so the fridge was full of things i used to like, but my mentality was so strong that those things were not even an option, i didn’t crave them, to me it was just like, there is not proteins or vitamins in that so i better make myself an oatmeal. Even sometimes i would rather not eat than eat the processed foods.
I would like firstly to thank you for your channel and all the thoughts you share! Really, it’s life changing. I’m a woman, 29y/o, and I am/was going through a confusing phase in life where I’m learning to create boundaries and respect myself, it’s being painful to stop being a people pleaser. I’m currently healing from a heartbreak, growing my own business and moving to live alone for the first time, it’s being hard to not break down, and your channel is the main one which is helping me with reframing my perspective and myself. I’ve decided this will be the last video on the matter I will watch, from now on I’m taking action and letting things flow and working on being my dream self. So Im using this comment section as a landmark on my story and a motivation so will update it in three months from now… ❤🤝🏼
The past months weren’t easy but definitely I’ve improved a lot of things. I feel way better and confident about my boundaries and myself in general. My work has improved, I’ve been doing martial arts as I promised myself I would do it again, I’ve made new friends and been dating a really nice and beautiful guy. I still need to improve some things regarding my work and finances to live alone due to bureaucracy, but I’m still deciding cuz I’m thinking about going on a long trip again. We got this! ❤️🙌🏼
This helped me so much. Im going to start my day with this I am struggling with letting a man go that constantly ghost me I have trouble saying no and being confrontational I also go through a lot of depressive episodes & I needed this!
I must say, some of your videos, like this one, I do relisten multiple times whilst hanging on to every word, ensuring it imprints in my mind and seeps into my subconscious mind. Thank you for practical and life transforming wisdom ❤
This food example just clicked something in my brain I don’t identify as a dog or a baby I don’t identify as someone who throws rubbish into my body! Thank you! You are beautiful beyond beyond BEYOND!
It's the very first time of my life I post a comment on the video of someone after years of watching things on UA-cam. But here I need to say it : you are an absolute amazing mind blowing QUEEN
Wow I have just had such a wake up call! For a year now I have been struggling with all the questions about who I’m and so on just really struggling emotionally trying to address my traumas but not quite sure how you heal from it and then I came across your videos and and it all starting to make sense now. So thank you! The next 3 months that are going to be amazing!
Just found you and love the talk. I have been living the Law of Attraction and over the last 25 years have needed a reboot. That is ok and from those updates I grow and mature into the better version of ME. All that you said is true, ask the univerrse to provide and then make some effort to make it come true. It wil happen! Give gratitude in the AM and in the PM before bed. We are blessed people! Three mos I am signed on for a new transformation, thanks!
Wow, so happy I found you, will be implementing these steps to change my reality, which has developed immensely over this year already, thanks to wonderful teachings like your podcast, but growth is continually happening for me and I am already the girl I am meant to be. ❤ much love, Thank you xx
I swear I love her! I bumped into a short yesterday and was glued and immediately subscribed. This is my first actual video I'm watching from start to finish and I feel a breeze of fresh air in my heart.. she left me feeling so light and refreshed gosh! Guuurll where have you been all my life?
The only thing which makes me sad is…how come I didn’t listen to such useful videos when I was in my early twenties…but I thankfully receive this informations now with 30ty ❤
I've been in a funk for over a year and now I'm feeling incredibly inspired to make the change. I watched your "how to inspire masculine energy" video with my boyfriend and we used it like couples therapy - needless to say, it was effective and we are feeling more unified and seen via one another than ever. So grateful for you. I can tell that you genuinely care about people and are doing this from a place of love for humanity.
I've discovered your channel yesterday and I must say you are now officially my favourite UA-camr! Thank you for all of these motivational and inspirational videos!❤❤❤
I am 63 and learning so much from your videos. I’ve watched your videos for about 6 hours straight. My mind has been shifted to reality and being my best self. Detaching and letting go of what does not serve me. Becoming the strong relaxed sexy lioness. Thank you so much!
I think l saw your channel a week ago😢😢,and when l first listened to your "anxious attachment " it was exactly me and from that day l never looked back it shifted my perspective and l realized l needed to heal myself and am now doing that and am happy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
I switched on You Tube and let the first video play… this video. And I managed to imagine that I am sitting in front of you und you are sitting wright in front of me and telling me all the things you are talking on this video as you were my elder sister, my best friend, my mother, my mentor … you name it… because those people would wish me all the best… and you sitting in front of me telling me what I should do to get better in everything I do, but most of all, to be best version of myself… normally I am the best fiend, mother, elder sister and kind of mentor to my best friend, sister, mother ❤… I needed it today! Thank you, Margarita ❤
I felt a bit sulky today so I was flipping through my fav creators here on the tube and I clicked on your awesome content and watched this one for the third time over six months, more or less, AND i already feel somewhat better and I'm not even half way through. You really are a top notch producer, thank you 🎉😊✨🤗
Margarita, lady love!❤️ You’re simply the best. You empower women and are so vulnerable and honest it’s just beautiful. This message solidified everything for me. That I need to show up for myself. You spoke it so eloquently if we can show up for everybody else why can’t we show up for ourselves girl you are a rockstar I love you.
Thank you for the tips dear. And I can totally see you being either a Virgo or Leo (Virgo in the way you ruthlessly, but lovingly analyze and critique) and Leo in your appearance and how you show up- regally.
I thought this was your absolute best video!! I´ve been feeling so apathetic and stuck for the last couple of months, I really needed this coaching today! I cried when you made me realise nevertheless how far I have come the last 2 years. I DID manifest HER, step by step, by believing and having trust and have seen amazing changes in myself and my surroundings. From feeling depressed, old and chubby and hating my looks since my 45th, I´ve managed to make my hair look great, my body look sexy and a lot of times I feel absolutely radiant and beautiful at 50. People on the street are actually noticing me more and some look or smile at me!. The next 3 months I will show up for myself to finally step in the shoes of who I´m supposed to be! It is never too late!!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
Thank you so much, I also have absent father (although he's here physically, he doesn't care much about me) so I can relate on the lovable things you said. Currently rebuilding my life and honestly, lately life has been pretty fun, I found few things that I enjoy doing and makes me excited that I couldn't sleep. And before, I hated life so much. A few months recently I watch so many great mentors talks in UA-cam, like you, Marissa Peer, Bob Proctor, Joe Dispenza, etc.. there are so, so many beautiful people that uplifts others who came from challenging childhood. These videos basically changed how I think and now I am so, so thankful for you all. Lots of love, and stay happy and healthy :)
Dear Margarita, You truly, really did inspire me to change my life completely and now I am about to start this new lifelong journey :) Will keep you guys updated, starting from today, LOVE YOU MARGARITA THANK YOU SO SO MUCH !!!!!!
You have helped me in my daily life so much! I can't possibly thank you enough! I bought your book on my Kindle last night. I can't wait to start it and apply your ways to life further! My life has shifted for the better. Thank you for the encouragement to be a better woman to myself!
Many thanks Magreeta. I have lived out all of this experiences before now, but I missed it somehow. Consciously going to back to the state of being. Thank you for the reminder.
i wish i could like this video a thousand times 😭😂 your videos are always so informative, intelligent and witty! this one especially evoked so many emotions within me, i didn’t know whether to laugh or cry :’)❤
This has been my best so far❤ I listen to you on Spotify every morning to start my day. I actually listened to this on Spotify before coming to UA-cam and I can say I really enjoyed this episode. I also have a journal where I take down points from your podcast ❤ What really stood out for me in this episode is point number 6 and trust me I am going to put it into practice ❤ Thank you ❤
First video I watched from you Margarita and I really enjoyed it. Very poignant to where I am in life. Looking forward to coming back after 3 months and living as “her” 💖
Wow thank you Margarita. I was meant to find your message here at this very moment. I’ve got some thinking then acting to do. This sooooo resonated with me. You are teaching and inspiring so many women. 🌹 what I like best is that your energy is so authentic and real.
Your content Margarita, I can’t even tell you. Your video on Black Cat energy, and this one. I cannot say enough. I’ve forwarded it to my niece, my bestie and my spirit animal. So, so good I’m pre-ordering your book ❤❤❤
I usually listen to your podcasts or videos on the hardest days. They give me such a huge relief!!!😊 Margarita, of course, you say very wise things, but there is something more about it, I mean your energy is so balanced and peaceful😊 I am pretty sure, I could just listen to the sound of your voice without understanding any word, and I would probably start calming down and getting in peace with myself😊 You are absolutely incredible ❤❤❤️ I LOVE YOUR PRECIOUS WORK THAT YOU DO TO EMPOWER WOMEN ALL OVER THE W🌎 RLD❤
Your content has made me feel so confident. I can't thank you enough and God for sending your content on my feed because I had been not in a good place lately and because of you I want to be the best possible me. Again, Thank you for all the hard work you put in and share this content. Love you lots❤❤❤
Can’t put into words just how much I love your content and how it’s helped me. Thank you so much for taking the time out to make these, you’re changing a lot of people’s lives❤
1. Decide who you want to be.
2. Set boundaries. Cut out what doesn't serve you.
3. Write down as you want to appear in the future.
4. Take actions everyday to achieve that.
5. Gratitude.
6. Abundance.
7. Master your mind.
8. Keep your promises. Treat yourself like someone you love.
9. Learn new skills.
I Love Number 8 ❤
Thank you I M!
@@loudadjikahina3529 who is?
Thank you!
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I have been so stuck and depressed because I’m 33 no kids and no man & not in a career I love. I’m no longer stuck, I am that girl my man is on his way and children coming too. Thank God for you. Thank you for showing up and sharing. I appreciate you
I’m in the exact same boat, 33rd bday coming up and I’m single and child free. You’re not alone and we will become her (s)
Girl, I'm 34 and in the same boat as you but I celebrate myself everyday and I take care of myself. I'm not a 100% perfect as I still want approval but I try to stop those approval needing behaviors and remind myself that I ONLY need my own approval and need to be happy alone without anyone. Everything you ever wanted will come to you for sure, believe it and trust that it's coming to you in the best way possible but you need to be prepared to HANDLE more people.
@@gillchesterton8614 so you get where I’m coming from, but you’re right! I am her. You are her. All the things we desire are coming. Have an lovely birthday and an amazing year ahead!
@@LoveHarryStyles89 thank you! I too am working so motivated to work on me, loving myself more. Love that you celebrate yourself more. I haven’t been great at that. How do celebrate yourself? We for sure need to pour into ourselves before we pour into others. All good things are coming our way!
Yep… am here I am, 34, no kids, no partner, working on the job I don’t like… but you know what, it can get better and better, because we are here and working on it! Sending you love ❤ Indi :)
I was so confident when I was young. I believed that I am beautiful, smart, interesting person. But every man I met in my life tried to prove the opposite about me. Now I don’t have no success in life, I am insecure, depressed. But I am working on myself. I want to bring back the best version of myself!
just realise it is already there, peel the other people layers off
Yes me too!! Choosing myself 🎉
Margarita is the women we should hear from in our early teens!!!!! Sometimes our relationships with our mothers aren’t really about advice and lessons. It’s more about survival and getting through the day. We miss so much information and we learn the hard way!
I've been consuming feminine energy contents for too long. Now i feel like i need some actions and direction. This is such a good channel
You are brilliant and at 82 I absolutely believe all of us need to follow your suggestions. We would all be better for it. Thank you. I've forwarded your video/podcast to friends. Even those of us who have confidence could take these steps to improve our lives. Yes, even at 82! :).
Send you love and all the very best! I am 73. Love from South of France
Thank you, Margarita, for these steps:
1. Decide what you want/who you want to be.
2. Set boundaries that protect the person you want to be. Cut out things that don’t serve you.
3. Write down the type of person you want to be as if you already are …even if you aren’t AND the daily action you are going to take to achieve it.
4. At the end of every day write down three things you are grateful for.
5. Adopt an abundance mindset. You are enough and there are enough opportunities for you.
6. Identify the core negative beliefs that don’t serve you and ask your brain to show you evidence that contradicts those core beliefs.
7. Develop your confidence by keeping your promises to yourself and others. Push through it.
8. Learn new skills… get excited about life by keeping yourself busy with these new skills/activities you enjoy.
Thank you
Where is #8? lol
Thank you ❤
@@trisham22333abundance. I think the commenter missed that one.
Thank you!
28:34 ‘Because feminine energy is about giving from a well of abundance, not from a dry crusty well of depletion where everyone has drunk from’ 👏🏼🙌🏼
My jaw was on the floor
I literally laughed but its so real. I'm done with allowing losers to deplete my well
I don’t know if you read all of these Margarita, but your video on anxious attachment changed my life. In conjunction with therapy, you literally helped me change my mindset on my actions and cure myself of codependency. Thank you so much for your invaluable work.
Thank you x
Hey my 3 months starts today. In sha Allah i can already see how phenomenal it is. 😊 i am ready
How did it go?
🕋 *#ALHaMDuLLiLaH**.!!* 🙏
I don’t usually comment on videos but I’ve seen a lot of these “change your life in 90 days” in my algorithm this past week and this by far is the best video yet. I needed to hear this after feeling the victim mentality lately. You’re such a breath of fresh air and your delivery is impeccable! LOVE your content. Thank you ❤
Your content is the best thing that has come into my life, after being cheated on and left in the dust by my ex after seven years together.
I found you right away and am healing so much faster than from previous break ups.
I look forward to continuing in your master classes and being her. You are effecting so many lives in such great ways.
The more women who watch, we might actually effect the way men view women and value us.
Great final thought! You can make it to the good side of that pain. It may be the best thing going that ever happened to you. I know it did me. Be worthy to yourself. You'll love the outcome!
Why is it feel like youre amy timmerman . Anyway, keep going sis life is just getting better and better after them😉
I don’t know i just feel so safe here she’s like a mother to me. Everytime I go back after watching her videos I feel like a better person I learned so much from her! Grateful❤
A good quote that goes along with this video:
Perhaps, you are not becoming who you want to be, but you are unbecoming who you're not to step into who you truly are.
I remember I have once stopped following you because some things you were saying were hurtful, but now I can see that you totally make sense and your speech is really empowering
I’m sorry they hurt you. Welcome back. X
Spot on! After the last relationship I realised how shattered and reliant my confidence was, so now I’m on a mission to rebuild that! Thanks for the motivation!
I noticed that deep down i already know everything you’re saying in this video. It just makes so much sense to me. It’s just that I‘ve forgotten it and needed to be reminded again that I already know who I am and what I want. I always knew it I have just been influenced by other people, social media etc which made me doubt myself. So thank you for this reminder.
Incredible! Noted. Will do everything in my power to have a beautiful life and banish the energy of "racoon in the corner fighting for its live"
This is on a private playlist I have of things I listen to once a month
Nearly a year out since this vid dropped
Things have improved SO much it is unreal
I am so thankful I found you. I’ve been in this journey about 1,5 years now since my spiritual awakening and now I’m fully getting to understand my goals and soulpurpose. Getting closer to my desires everyday.
It’s so funny how things switch when you truly listen to yourself, be honest and stick in to your boundaries and values.
It can be a lonely road at first, since I cut all the people who didn’t serve my future. Now 1 year later and after all these lonely nights I’ve found myself a best friends who truly loves me and trough her other people who have same type of mindsets.
I hope that who ever is reading this and you feel stuck and don’t know what to do, just let go of the things in your life what you feel like you need to hold on tightly. You shouldn’t have feel that way about anything that belongs to your life.
Sending you all love, and specially to you Margarita helping people to return home to themselves again.
Dear Margarita, you’re a light in so many of our lives. I appreciate you taking the time to make us such a life altering video. You took the time to write this all down and your effort is clearly shown. Thank you so so much. I am eternally grateful for you and everything you share with the world. 💜
I really appreciate this perspective because I always believed that staying grounded would get me through life and surely it has. Being grateful and immersing into who you really want to be is truly life changing. I used to always be in survival mode, people pleasing, and surrounded by the wrong people😢 Life-changing really when you let go of everything that no longer serves you. Like a new butterfly was born 😊 now Im discovering myself and about to start my own business, hitting my fitness goals, got my own apartment, and living life slower appreciating everything around me. It really works in your favor😎
You made me cry with the parent thing. I became burnt out but I do still try. That was major because now I can have the belief I am am progress in that way. Thank you Margarita! You’re out here changing lives!
I've been feeling lost between loving myself enough to take action and thinking about when and how I've failed in my perspective. This video popped up to me just in the right time and you explained everything in a way that I needed to hear and get the message. Thank you for your work and thoughts, this is so valuable ❤
“If you write down my dog, my cat, my husband, I will rip that journal out of your hand” 💀😭😭
Ahahaha that one made me chuckle, but also the “….depleted well that everyone has drunk from and is now dirty, hungry, angry raccoon in the corner….” That one got me 😂😂😂
💯😭🤣😂🤣😂😂😂I hollered so loud when she said that!!!😂🤣🩷
That is what I would say!
I love you
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Omg, you are truly spoiling us. The podcast and then this😭😭❤❤❤love youuu
LOVE YOU AND LOVE THAT YOU'RE BRINGING A CHILD INTO THIS EARTH! Amen to all of this. Exactly what i needed. 'I did not go gentle into that good night. I made something happen' Applause
my new me. This is my new year mantra I am a healthy,wealthy high value woman. ❤😊
I want to hug her so much. She gives the strongest big sister/ mother vibes. I love her so much.
You have helped me so much in just the past few weeks. I’m trying to find myself after losing my son’s father and remarrying. I’ve felt so lost for years and I am so ready to be myself again without a man.
This is the best video and it totally found me. I've been doing yoga for years and tonight I was able to do my own internal flow. I felt so empowered. Felt every movement and breathe. I chose myself and my peace. You're so right. Points that got to me: tantrums to realize boundaries and trusting yourself. Abundance mindset, positive self talk as well. Telling yourself as well as writing about the person you are. The constant positive chimp instead of the ego chimp.
Ahh this helped me SO much today, I watched it first thing this morning & it’s now 6.30pm, I had the best day I’ve had in ages. I spent 5 hours cleaning & decluttering my house, I thought “I am someone who loves my house clean & tidy” and it made it so effortless!!
I also ate really healthy which can be hit & miss for me, I’ve lost a lot of weight but struggling to lose the last 10kgs. It’s the identity change I need to get me going again.
All your videos are amazing but this is one of your best for me.
Thank you Margarita 💖
From now, I’m going to be the best version of myself
You go girl, literally life saving right now! 💜
Hi Margarita. I am a psychology PhD student. I just discovered you yesterday and I cant stop watching you. Just what I needed. Keep up the good work.
Ever since I found you and your advice, my life has been changed. Thank you Margarita, your wisdom is invaluable!
You truly are wonderful. Thank you 🙏 I’ve come to a cross roads again and after years of battling with myself and others I’m stepping in to my true path. No more excuses no more chaos and no more distractions. Lots of love ❤
I'm a Leo/Virgo as well (August 22nd). I also grew my hair very long by stopping washing it so much and no heat tools at all.
The journal list is so key. And you are so right the go to is pets and family.
I am from this exact Day too!
I love when you say “my love”- it’s truly so endearing❤
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Congratulations on your pregnancy , I’m so excited for you 🎉.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this priceless information. I know deep down it to be true however to have it presented to me like this makes it real and attainable.
This is true quality content ❤
Margarita, this year has been a great journey for me. And you were present throughout my evolution process. It went from learning to let go of a relationship that was no longer good for me, learning to direct my energy towards myself, and now, healed, using my strength to design the life I want for myself. Thanks for the guidance! ❤
I appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable at the expense of helping others.. Your self confidence and deep understanding of yourself is inspiring ❤
There was a time in my life where i used to see food like this, everything i ate had to be nutritious and healthy, i had 2 roommates who had my old eating habits so the fridge was full of things i used to like, but my mentality was so strong that those things were not even an option, i didn’t crave them, to me it was just like, there is not proteins or vitamins in that so i better make myself an oatmeal. Even sometimes i would rather not eat than eat the processed foods.
I would like firstly to thank you for your channel and all the thoughts you share! Really, it’s life changing.
I’m a woman, 29y/o, and I am/was going through a confusing phase in life where I’m learning to create boundaries and respect myself, it’s being painful to stop being a people pleaser.
I’m currently healing from a heartbreak, growing my own business and moving to live alone for the first time, it’s being hard to not break down, and your channel is the main one which is helping me with reframing my perspective and myself.
I’ve decided this will be the last video on the matter I will watch, from now on I’m taking action and letting things flow and working on being my dream self. So Im using this comment section as a landmark on my story and a motivation so will update it in three months from now…
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Love this! You got this. ❤
I am also 29 and going through the same situation, we got this! 🥹
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The past months weren’t easy but definitely I’ve improved a lot of things. I feel way better and confident about my boundaries and myself in general. My work has improved, I’ve been doing martial arts as I promised myself I would do it again, I’ve made new friends and been dating a really nice and beautiful guy. I still need to improve some things regarding my work and finances to live alone due to bureaucracy, but I’m still deciding cuz I’m thinking about going on a long trip again. We got this! ❤️🙌🏼
This helped me so much. Im going to start my day with this I am struggling with letting a man go that constantly ghost me I have trouble saying no and being confrontational I also go through a lot of depressive episodes & I needed this!
I’m so grateful I came across your TikTok which led me to your UA-cam channel
Margarita, you have such a unique and powerful style of coaching! Thank you for the motivation 💪🏻🙏🏻
I must say, some of your videos, like this one, I do relisten multiple times whilst hanging on to every word, ensuring it imprints in my mind and seeps into my subconscious mind. Thank you for practical and life transforming wisdom ❤
This food example just clicked something in my brain I don’t identify as a dog or a baby I don’t identify as someone who throws rubbish into my body! Thank you! You are beautiful beyond beyond BEYOND!
It's the very first time of my life I post a comment on the video of someone after years of watching things on UA-cam. But here I need to say it : you are an absolute amazing mind blowing QUEEN
Wow I have just had such a wake up call! For a year now I have been struggling with all the questions about who I’m and so on just really struggling emotionally trying to address my traumas but not quite sure how you heal from it and then I came across your videos and and it all starting to make sense now. So thank you! The next 3 months that are going to be amazing!
Just found you and love the talk. I have been living the Law of Attraction and over the last 25 years have needed a reboot. That is ok and from those updates I grow and mature into the better version of ME. All that you said is true, ask the univerrse to provide and then make some effort to make it come true. It wil happen! Give gratitude in the AM and in the PM before bed. We are blessed people! Three mos I am signed on for a new transformation, thanks!
Oh girl love the way you speak ! You made me tear up a couple times and its because everything you’re saying rings so true to my ears
Wow, so happy I found you, will be implementing these steps to change my reality, which has developed immensely over this year already, thanks to wonderful teachings like your podcast, but growth is continually happening for me and I am already the girl I am meant to be. ❤ much love, Thank you xx
I don't know how to thank you enough. Your insight and wisdom are SO appreciated Margarita.
I needed this so badly. Thank you
I swear I love her! I bumped into a short yesterday and was glued and immediately subscribed. This is my first actual video I'm watching from start to finish and I feel a breeze of fresh air in my heart.. she left me feeling so light and refreshed gosh! Guuurll where have you been all my life?
Thanks for the comedy.. this video is a great source of hilarious material..
The only thing which makes me sad is…how come I didn’t listen to such useful videos when I was in my early twenties…but I thankfully receive this informations now with 30ty ❤
I've been in a funk for over a year and now I'm feeling incredibly inspired to make the change. I watched your "how to inspire masculine energy" video with my boyfriend and we used it like couples therapy - needless to say, it was effective and we are feeling more unified and seen via one another than ever. So grateful for you. I can tell that you genuinely care about people and are doing this from a place of love for humanity.
I've discovered your channel yesterday and I must say you are now officially my favourite UA-camr!
Thank you for all of these motivational and inspirational videos!❤❤❤
As always you lead with an honest and direct approach 💗 I always appreciate learning from you!
I am 63 and learning so much from your videos. I’ve watched your videos for about 6 hours straight. My mind has been shifted to reality and being my best self. Detaching and letting go of what does not serve me. Becoming the strong relaxed sexy lioness.
Thank you so much!
I think l saw your channel a week ago😢😢,and when l first listened to your "anxious attachment " it was exactly me and from that day l never looked back it shifted my perspective and l realized l needed to heal myself and am now doing that and am happy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
Every time I watch your videos I feel like I'm being lectured 😅 and I'm here for it!! I love this podcast
I switched on You Tube and let the first video play… this video. And I managed to imagine that I am sitting in front of you und you are sitting wright in front of me and telling me all the things you are talking on this video as you were my elder sister, my best friend, my mother, my mentor … you name it… because those people would wish me all the best… and you sitting in front of me telling me what I should do to get better in everything I do, but most of all, to be best version of myself… normally I am the best fiend, mother, elder sister and kind of mentor to my best friend, sister, mother ❤… I needed it today! Thank you, Margarita ❤
I have just recently come across your videos yesterday, I wanna thank you so much... this video has truly changed my life
you're the only one that just gets it!!!! today I'm grateful for you!!!!
I felt a bit sulky today so I was flipping through my fav creators here on the tube and I clicked on your awesome content and watched this one for the third time over six months, more or less, AND i already feel somewhat better and I'm not even half way through. You really are a top notch producer, thank you
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Margarita, lady love!❤️ You’re simply the best. You empower women and are so vulnerable and honest it’s just beautiful. This message solidified everything for me. That I need to show up for myself. You spoke it so eloquently if we can show up for everybody else why can’t we show up for ourselves girl you are a rockstar I love you.
Thankyou for this angel! My manifestations are already mine!❤
Thank you for the tips dear. And I can totally see you being either a Virgo or Leo (Virgo in the way you ruthlessly, but lovingly analyze and critique) and Leo in your appearance and how you show up- regally.
I've recently become a fan of your videos these last few weeks and I already feel a huge shift. ❤
Thank you, thank you, thank you! We love your energy!
I thought this was your absolute best video!! I´ve been feeling so apathetic and stuck for the last couple of months, I really needed this coaching today! I cried when you made me realise nevertheless how far I have come the last 2 years. I DID manifest HER, step by step, by believing and having trust and have seen amazing changes in myself and my surroundings. From feeling depressed, old and chubby and hating my looks since my 45th, I´ve managed to make my hair look great, my body look sexy and a lot of times I feel absolutely radiant and beautiful at 50. People on the street are actually noticing me more and some look or smile at me!. The next 3 months I will show up for myself to finally step in the shoes of who I´m supposed to be! It is never too late!!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Thank you so much, I also have absent father (although he's here physically, he doesn't care much about me) so I can relate on the lovable things you said. Currently rebuilding my life and honestly, lately life has been pretty fun, I found few things that I enjoy doing and makes me excited that I couldn't sleep. And before, I hated life so much.
A few months recently I watch so many great mentors talks in UA-cam, like you, Marissa Peer, Bob Proctor, Joe Dispenza, etc.. there are so, so many beautiful people that uplifts others who came from challenging childhood. These videos basically changed how I think and now I am so, so thankful for you all. Lots of love, and stay happy and healthy :)
Dear Margarita, You truly, really did inspire me to change my life completely and now I am about to start this new lifelong journey :) Will keep you guys updated, starting from today, LOVE YOU MARGARITA THANK YOU SO SO MUCH !!!!!!
You are so welcome
You have helped me in my daily life so much! I can't possibly thank you enough! I bought your book on my Kindle last night. I can't wait to start it and apply your ways to life further! My life has shifted for the better. Thank you for the encouragement to be a better woman to myself!
This is just what I needed, actionable steps to become the best version of me. I love your content ❤
Congratulations on your pregnancy and much love to you❤🎉😊
Many thanks Magreeta. I have lived out all of this experiences before now, but I missed it somehow. Consciously going to back to the state of being. Thank you for the reminder.
i wish i could like this video a thousand times 😭😂 your videos are always so informative, intelligent and witty! this one especially evoked so many emotions within me, i didn’t know whether to laugh or cry :’)❤
This has been my best so far❤ I listen to you on Spotify every morning to start my day. I actually listened to this on Spotify before coming to UA-cam and I can say I really enjoyed this episode. I also have a journal where I take down points from your podcast ❤
What really stood out for me in this episode is point number 6 and trust me I am going to put it into practice ❤
Thank you ❤
And you’re a beautiful soul and I love you and you help me in many different chords. You are blessed.❤
First video I watched from you Margarita and I really enjoyed it. Very poignant to where I am in life. Looking forward to coming back after 3 months and living as “her” 💖
Wow thank you Margarita. I was meant to find your message here at this very moment. I’ve got some thinking then acting to do. This sooooo resonated with me. You are teaching and inspiring so many women. 🌹 what I like best is that your energy is so authentic and real.
Your content Margarita, I can’t even tell you.
Your video on Black Cat energy, and this one.
I cannot say enough.
I’ve forwarded it to my niece, my bestie and my spirit animal.
So, so good
I’m pre-ordering your book
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This video gives me so much energy! I feel like I could move mountains, change my life around.
Deciding on something is very powerful, releasing and a road to healing and confidence. Just deciding on something
Thanks
I am amazed by the level of knowledge and help is astonishing. Be blessed.
This is one of the best inspirational “ how to be the you - you want to be” videos ! Bravo ❤ inspired me to also order your book 📕
Thank you, Margarita ❤️🩹
the evidence part is so incredibly smart. so helpful.
I be sending your videos to my friends cause thats how much I love you !
I love that
Oh my god, this is such a strong video. Thank you! This was exactly what I needed to hear!
I usually listen to your podcasts or videos on the hardest days. They give me such a huge relief!!!😊 Margarita, of course, you say very wise things, but there is something more about it, I mean your energy is so balanced and peaceful😊 I am pretty sure, I could just listen to the sound of your voice without understanding any word, and I would probably start calming down and getting in peace with myself😊 You are absolutely incredible ❤❤❤️ I LOVE YOUR PRECIOUS WORK THAT YOU DO TO EMPOWER WOMEN ALL OVER THE W🌎 RLD❤
Your content has made me feel so confident. I can't thank you enough and God for sending your content on my feed because I had been not in a good place lately and because of you I want to be the best possible me. Again, Thank you for all the hard work you put in and share this content. Love you lots❤❤❤
Can’t put into words just how much I love your content and how it’s helped me. Thank you so much for taking the time out to make these, you’re changing a lot of people’s lives❤
I love how natural you talk and direct! A new subscriber here!