Mark deserves a Nobel Prize. He has opened so many hearts to people who we normally just walk right past. He is really doing holy work, more than most churches.
@@schoomzerdont believe all those shit investigator channels .. alot of bs and no real substantial evidence .. there is always someone trying to tear someone down no matter what
I'm a middle-eastern muslim woman , never EVER get close to anything similar to the things that happened to people on his channel. But I make sure I watch every single video, listen carefully and learn with open heart & mind. He's helping me overcome my prejudice against certain carrer options .Mark Thank you so much for the channel
I feel like Mark is sacrificing a part of his soul for the rest of us to see this world most of us would never see . Incredible content he has put out there .
@@RiversBliss I realize you have probably not read any of his work but Huckleberry Fin is a story about a young boy and a runaway slave. The whole point is that the boy has be taught to be a racist and is internally struggling with right and wrong. A major point in the story he makes the distinction that if God would want him to turn in Jim, he is going to go to hell then because he won’t do it. So yes, coarse and offensive language, but more importantly it’s a message about how wrong slavery is and the fact that people can think past whatever poor teachings they grew up hearing.
Soft white underbelly is a really important channel. It has the ability to really move people and teach them to be more empathetic. I’ve shared it with many people. I even shared it with my therapist. 😂
Yes!! I’ve learned so much from Soft White Underbelly. I am always recommending it to people, because I’m a social worker and most people don’t come face to face with some of the stuff that the people on this channel deal with so they judge simply out of ignorance.
Soft White Underbelly is my all time favorite UA-cam channel. I’ve shared it with my entire family, my friends, even my doctors. Mark Laita does work like no one else on UA-cam, and probably some of the most important work ever. The fact that UA-cam demonetizes his every move is disgusting. They exploit the creators, yet they won’t allow the actual creators to make money to continue good work and bring awareness to the human condition. That’s why I try to find my favorite creators on patreon or their own sites to support them. UA-cam hq epitomizes hypocrisy, yet we can’t let go of it because there’s so much content that is important. Justice is a foreign concept in this world.
To me that’s what having a “platform” is about. Spread what you love while helping others. So many women I’ve related to in those videos. Some of the men too. You can’t change the world but you can make a change in someone’s world
@@meadowsmama94 Some people actually DO have such an impact that they do change/guide SOCIETY (which is always in flux). What is missing most in the lives of the broken is self-worth.
Up until this point i always assumed he was just another LA greaseball riding off on people but this showed a more human side of him as compared to his usual monotonous tone and approach.
This dude tearing up didn't make me feel awkward like most of the time you see grown men do that unexpectedly. Here you just get it. He's doing the lord's work. He saw the most evil, fucked-up, black-pilling side of this world, and he still believes in humanity and beauty in this world despite of it all.
we should all be so lucky to be born with the ability to forgive. True unconditional forgiveness!! This clip is a must watch. almost like a daily vitamin or a walk in the sun and fresh air. absolute beautiful. one those days when you are feeling shit....Remember to maybe watch this wonderful 17:40 @ch-yq5yn
@@Dawna-gp1zkfor profit? This dude had a like… Hollywood high paying career he got sick of because of his beliefs and decided to just cut ties and do his own thing…. This. Yes he profits, like anybody who puts in work on creating content, but I highly doubt his intentions were more “profit” motivated than everything else. And hey playing devils advocate, if he was all about profit, he really screwed up by quitting his high paying career he had 😅
He is a shining example of what we, as humans, seem to have lost. He sees who people really are, he loves them unconditionally and most of all he is just so fucking kind!
@4:00 Looks like Mark was about to cry. He is such a sweet guy. I love watching his interviews on Soft White Underbelly. I hope he continues doing those interviews for a long time.
He was def holding back tears. Thats why I don’t understand why ppl hate him. Hes such a wonderful person. The people he interviews he tries to help . He sees them as human beings
It's so strange to see Mark interviewed! And see his face. Handsome man and a good heart. Jerry's interviews were incredible. To have that kindness and depth after what he had gone through. Sad to hear of his passing. I won't forget his interview.
Especially when he pays every single person he interviews and tries his best to help those who ACCEPT said help. There’s people on skid row who don’t want to leave. They prefer that life because it’s all a lot of them have ever known. I know people take issue with the questions he asks, but he’s a photographer not a therapist. Sadly people forget that and automatically label him a “creep”.
Wonderful perspective from Mark. Im saddened by the passing of Jerry. He was the first contribution I made with go fund me thru marks page. Forgiveness is essential to love.
In an odd way, I feel bad for Mark. You can tell it’s in his nature to explore others and to want to understand human beings all while wanting the best for them. But by interviewing a set of broken souls, it exposes you to human frailty that inadvertently consumes you. I’m sure he gets a lot of positive experiences, but the negative ones, you can’t tell me this doesn’t play with his spirit. Not sure where Mark is spiritually, but his negative encounters with broken people has the potential of having the cumulative effect of something destructive. I am hopeful that he will continue to do what he does with a strong armored resolve.
Some people have the metaphorical equivalent of rain coats as a spirit. Stuff just slides right off. Those are the kind of people that make the best therapists or pediatric ICU nurses. They can see terrible things and it doesn't haunt them. Unfortunately, I'm not one of those people. I'm more of a sponge. It all stays with me, in my head.
Dogsalway SbarkAtbetamales, I will agree with you. I sometimes think Mark is a bit naive and is sometimes taken advantage of. It surprises me as he's been doing this for a while now. He might want to figure out the difference between helping and enabling. He seems like a super sensitive person and that's a beautiful thing, but like you said, I wonder how it all affects him in the end?
I’ve been a paramedic and er nurse since I was 19. Im close to having 20 years experience now. I can tell you it really takes a toll dealing with the bad part of life everyday. Even just taking and hearing the stories. Doesn’t take the trauma etc. it slowly warped my view of life and stole any positive thoughts or moments I had in my life.
In my experience you need encounters with people like that. If you go your whole life without ever knowing what that side of life is then how can you have a firm grasp on reality? It's like the story of the buddah when he first realized about old age and death.
I kind lf disagree. I think interviewing the people helps him to see all sides of life and also appreciate the positive things he has. He seems healthy by body and mind.
Mark Laita .... an extraordinary man who taught me a VERY valuable thing: do not hate. Do not resent. Forgive ... Mark, you are one of a kind great human being. God bless you.
Jerry's interviews were absolutely amazing, full of heartfelt wisdom & knowledge. Jerry was dealt a tragic hand in life. But kept faith until his passing. RIP Jerry. You touched so many people with your wisdom.
His channel has opened up my mind to the more unfortunate, what they go through, and how just a single unfortunate incident in a persons life has a compounding effect. It really does remind me that there are definitely people and personalities to the people I have been guilty of objectifying.
I've always wanted to hear from Mark.. what he must feel, listening to suffering people as much as he does. It has weigh heavy on ur heart but also make him so grateful.
Mark's videos has made me shed so many tears this year. Woo! The hurt and the pain emanates through the screen. It's so thick. I hope Mark gets his blessings for all he's done and when this life is over he goes to paradise.
Mark's body of work, is not only a creative goldmine, it's an anthropological masterpiece.....Peeling back the veneers, exposing the under-belly. #MASTERFUL
He’s documenting the negative effects of the invention of marriage on human kind. Family is everything. *When family is wrong, nothing is right.* Human beings evolved to live in matriarchal tribes, not marriages. Our families are structured incorrectly, and it’s the root cause of our human dysfunction.
I can't bring myself to watch his interviews. I know I should and I would learn a lot from him but I'm just not strong enough to hear his story. My heart goes out to him and I hope his soul is now resting in peace ❤
I mean, yeah he’s pretty amazing but let’s not glorify people we don’t know. He pointed out that he wasn’t a present husband or father. No one is perfect, we all carry our “sin”. What a tremendous gift he is giving us all, though, that is for certain.
@@aimeerebecca1 lets not take Lisas comment literal, its obvious she her intention is pertaining to the the GOOD qualities Mark seems to have along w his general outlook on life. Its obvious no one is perfect.
I grew up in a middle class neighbourhood, went to middle class schools. I didn't understand people in worse situations and always believed it was their own fault, whether it was opinions I'd borrowed from my mother or otherwise. I picked up a blue collar job and moved to a low socio-economic area when I became an adult and my understanding of these people totally changed. I'm much more understanding of the situations people find themselves in, and much more sympathetic. It's still a case by case basis, there are some people out there who just think the world owes them something for nothing, but I've met some very genuine people in my neighbourhood that have a story of their own to share.
Mark has such a beautiful soul. So selfless and empathetic and just his love for people and the connections he have for the people he interviews. I love watching the interviews he create as well as watching him being interviewed.
This was so powerful. I literally just took marks advice and didn't bitch at my boyfriend and it worked!!! I'm ashamed I've been so negative but im working on it. What a great teacher.
In 20 years of what is a very happy marriage, that had some rocky moments in the early years, we quickly learned that patient, clear communication, solves more than nagging, yelling, passive aggressive behavior. Luckily we always made a rule, of taking a few minutes, or hours, before talking, if we were angry, to cool down, and then talk about whatever, without the venom. It works! We rarely argue, and even when we have, its not toxic, and always ends in either understanding (from situations based in misunderstanding,) or some degree of compromise, where we are both good with the outcome. No one wins an actual fight, if you have to be mean to someone you love, who loves you too. But, to each their own! Although, there's a reason that we have outlast most of the relationships that our friends/family members have been in. I follow my calm down rule, on the rare occasions that I have conflicts with any loved ones. Because none of them have done anything to deserve how cruel I can be, in extreme anger! You can be forgiven, but you can't take words back!
I’m so sorry to hear that Jerry has gone but I’m pleased that he’s not suffering pain any more. He was a gentleman in the truest sense and and if everyone had just a pinch of his goodness then the world would be a lot better place to be. My kids know Jerry, he’s taught them what it is to be a decent human being. RIP Jerry.
I've learned soooo much from watching his channel. He brings a face and story to some of the most hurt and trauma filled people and makes them real. When you don't personally know someone who's a drug addict, gang member, prostitute, pimp, etc it's easy to condemn them for what they do and disassociate from thinking of them as being human, someone's mother, father, daughter, son, etc. His passion is helping others to learn to forgive others, have compassion for them and ultimately love them and wanting the best for them. Thank you Mark ❤️
Mark, I, like hundreds of thousands, if not millions of others are absolutely obsessed with SWU in a beautiful way. As soon as I open my eyes the first thing I do is look for a new video that hopefully was uploaded 2 hours earlier and then get my big dose of heavy reality to start my day. I struggle with anxiety and bipolar disorder yet my struggles and anxiety seem so shallow compared to the people who live and die daily on Skid Row and the Tenderloin. I’ve always been a happy go lucky person most of my life but then I can be completely empathetic towards poor people and especially the homeless. When I was a little girl I was raised baptist and I wanted to grow up and be a missionary to go to Haiti or any other really poverty stricken country and help build homes for the homeless. Today I’m 42, single mother and a happy atheist but I still have the heart inside that would love to find a way to help the poor. I love what you’re doing. I strongly dislike when people accuse you of exploiting the people you interview, I see that these people are almost desperate for someone to listen to their stories. I think the theme that I gather from your videos on how to have a happy life is to FORGIVE. Thanks for sharing your talent and their stories with the world!
I want to thank Mark for allowing me to become a better person. Every morning at5:45am I prepare myself to open my heart and allow myself to listen and become knowledgeable of how others move through their existence. I have learned so much about how others became who they are. I as a mother of adult children also have them watching these lovely(some) spirits. Some I have a harder time embracing them. You have enlightened our entire family to have outstanding conversations about the world, and human suffering. Mark, you absolutely were put here to teach! Bravo 💜👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🦓🦄💃🏾
In this interview Mark makes a lot of beautiful existential points regarding acting on our better instincts. In my own experience it is the difference between acting on our own sin nature and cooperating with God's grace. He remarks that he learned these lessons on forgiveness and generosity somewhere as a kid, but admits that he cannot recall when or where. I have learned very similar lessons regarding forgiveness, giving without expecting repayment and unconditional love, but for me the source has always been Jesus Christ. Thank you Mark for making the Gospel so tangible to present day. For me, the Gospel of Jesus is always timeless, relevant and poignant -- and it is nice to hear the tenants of Christ's teaching applied to what matters the most in our present age.
You can embrace the importance of generosity and forgiveness without being Christian just don’t forget that. Religion divides and spreads hate quite a lot.
I may not "like" or directly relate to the people in Mark's interviews, but I love these interviews because of just that. I get get a glimpse into the minds and lives of fellow humans from so many different backgrounds. But the beauty is we are all just the same just with little differences. They are humbling and real. Shout outs to Mark Laita.
Mark's depth of empathy and compassion is something we should all strive for and he's right about forgiveness. My friend's mother was murdered when he was a teenager by a neighbor - random act. The murderer was caught and sentenced to life. My friend had the opportunity to have his mother's murderer murdered in jail. Years later he was told if he said the word, his mother's murderer would be killed. He said no. He had the opportunity to get revenge but chose not to in the end. I'm not sure I could but I have always had so much respect for him that he could attain that amount of forgiveness. Hate works both ways. I hope love does too
Our first child was born 3 days ago. I'm about to bring back wife + kid in a few hours to start this new chapter in our life but it is great and enlightening to hear Mark talk about unconditional love, certainly something i will strive to give my child.
Mark, you deserve an Oscar for these hard hitting accounts from people on the edge of nowhere.. been watching you a while.. a year at least and my god!!! It’s been a rough one. U got me through my chemotherapy and made me realise how fortunate I am. Still trying to manage my own demons but thank you for this intricate insight. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Mark is one of the most empathetic man I’ve ever seen , the time he spends . He’s a beautiful soul , thank you so much for what you do , your a gift to humanity and all these tortured but most absolutely beautiful souls you that you are able to take a snapshot of their stories in so much detail and compassion . Bless you ❤
My favorite Mark Laita interviews were with a woman named, Frenchie. She had such great energy and was quite animated. Her two interviews were simply fun to watch!
Mark really is living his life like a saint on this earth. Forgiveness and unconditional love. I know I need to learn these, like so many others. When I first began watching his channel, it was very painful to see the challenges and struggles of society’s most vulnerable people. Your vibe attracts your tribe and for whatever reason growing up and as an adult, I’ve always been a person who stands up for the underdog, who is compassionate. Mark is a role model because he doesn’t let his talents and skills go to waste. He does work that actually makes a difference. I do hope he is okay because transference is real. I’m hoping he has enough social and emotional and psychological support to keep him healthy through doing this work. He reminds me of my favorite poem called “Bird Understander” by Craig Arnold.
What you said about someone giving you room when you mess up is true in my case. My wife had every reason to call it quits because of my drinking. I knew I was a mess. I got busted drinking at work and almost lost my job. She took a chance and gave me respect without hating me. We are still married 30 years later and I haven't drank since. I love her more every day.
I was already completely invested in Mark's storytelling, but I cannot believe he remembers dates and names as clearly as he does for individuals after interviewing THOUSANDS!!! Incredible... thank you!!!!
I mentioned wanting to know a update about Jerry about a month ago and never heard anything, when Mark spoke those words I instantly started balling my eyes out. I am so heartbroken over him passing. I really wished deep down in my heart that I could have met him in person. I would have been able to give him a hug and tell him how much he has touched my heart and truly made me believe that forgiveness is so important. And Mark, you are such a humble man....truly a gentleman. Not many left in this world.
Childhood unconditional love. Bottom line. Love love love. Uplift. Reassure. Protect. Allow children to FEEL and communicate in a safe environment with unconditional acceptance. This channel is beautiful. Big respect to you Mark, from A Boy's Mom Mother Bear. :)
*I lost track with Jerry's story, he was so interesting and so positive, may he rest in peace.* *Mark has a talent of getting those he interviews to really share in an environment they feel comfortable to share so deeply.* *There are far too many relationships that do a toxic emotional around and around of hurting each other for the drama as they remain together.*
@@johnpayne6196 Yeah every body praising Mark for festering the dude Rebecca. Hey Rebecca here's some money and a phone that I know you will lose but let's go get you some new panties and a bra or two and a room for you to spend the night. Now Rebecca don't you be thinking bout going and getting high with these dollar bills I give you. Now looky here. Come back in few days Rebecca and I'll give you another bone and film your naked aZZ for the world to see. Rebecca dude has made Mark lots of money. I hate seeing this guy Rebecca so screwed up. I wish this Rebecca could get ahold of himself and walk in Mark's studio all dressed like the man he can be and say ......mark! Look at me now mf! I don't need any more if your bones Mark! 😮
One of the wisest words ever spoken by a man here on UA-cam. This man encompasses whole of human endeavours in the most simple words. This is philosophy.
I’m so sad to hear Jerry died. My uncle died of COPD and it was very painful to watch him deteriorate. I’m soo happy Mark you were able to bless the world 🌎 with Jerry story.
Mark, your channel is insightful, eye opening, thought provoking, psychologically engaging as well as entertaining. It's what society needs to see, It is society. Thanks to both SWU and Konkrete.
I have watched many of Mark's videos and have been able to see life from other's perspectives. His work is very intriguing and enlightening. The videos have made me appreciate all of the blessings I've had in my life and to understand the awful and sad situations that some people have had to endure. Thank you, Mark.
For Jerry (1:49) to say, "I love you and I forgive you." Is SO amazing that I can't even find the words to describe Jerry's amazingness. Jerry, may he rest in power.
I've been a longtime fan of Mark and what he does for people. At 4:00 when he became emotional.... the man is a National Treasure. I love you Mark, thank you for being YOU 🥰
Watch more of Mark Laita here: ua-cam.com/play/PLfi9jV4NTGygfRfy02IZ10B-sekMKpTq_.html
ua-cam.com/video/ta-8xFg0L0w/v-deo.html you clown...
“If you wanna hurt yourself, go ahead and hate somebody.”
Choked me up.
I don't get it.
Yeah...I wrote this in my journal.
damn! deep!
@@alucardtepes8402 Hating others actually hurts yourself. Having hate in you’re heart eats you up.
Hit me hard too!
Mark deserves a Nobel Prize. He has opened so many hearts to people who we normally just walk right past. He is really doing holy work, more than most churches.
Sure, if you only knew the real Mark.
@@schoomzerdont believe all those shit investigator channels .. alot of bs and no real substantial evidence .. there is always someone trying to tear someone down no matter what
@schoomzeSo do you know him personally? If not, you're only guessing.
@@susankeith326 exploitation
@@schoomzermotivated by hate I see
I'm a middle-eastern muslim woman , never EVER get close to anything similar to the things that happened to people on his channel. But I make sure I watch every single video, listen carefully and learn with open heart & mind. He's helping me overcome my prejudice against certain carrer options .Mark Thank you so much for the channel
Do they even have a choice? No.
@@the_anxious_autistic We always have a choice
You need to turn to Jesus. Allah is the devil and will lead you to hell.
❤❤❤
none are options
I feel like Mark is sacrificing a part of his soul for the rest of us to see this world most of us would never see . Incredible content he has put out there .
It doesn't seem like a sacrifice, he loves these people.
@@christinaheagy4602 have you seen some of these pimps ?believe me he doesn’t love them
More like openly giving. I think he is showing love. And like hate, if you give it, you get it back of its own accord in some way.
That is really the basis of Alanon. It’s liberating being the one to walk away & give space
Forgiveness is truly the only way. Hatred will anchor you down & slowly DESTROY you.
Mark Twain once said, “Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.”
Mark Twain also used racial terms i.e. N word in his work.
@@RiversBliss Guess we gotta dig that fucker up and cancel him.
@@RiversBliss You must be fun at parties
@@RiversBliss I realize you have probably not read any of his work but Huckleberry Fin is a story about a young boy and a runaway slave. The whole point is that the boy has be taught to be a racist and is internally struggling with right and wrong. A major point in the story he makes the distinction that if God would want him to turn in Jim, he is going to go to hell then because he won’t do it. So yes, coarse and offensive language, but more importantly it’s a message about how wrong slavery is and the fact that people can think past whatever poor teachings they grew up hearing.
@@RiversBliss MEH MEH MEH MEEEH. yOUR A HUGE DORK!
Soft white underbelly is a really important channel. It has the ability to really move people and teach them to be more empathetic. I’ve shared it with many people. I even shared it with my therapist. 😂
Yes!! I’ve learned so much from Soft White Underbelly. I am always recommending it to people, because I’m a social worker and most people don’t come face to face with some of the stuff that the people on this channel deal with so they judge simply out of ignorance.
Soft White Underbelly is my all time favorite UA-cam channel. I’ve shared it with my entire family, my friends, even my doctors. Mark Laita does work like no one else on UA-cam, and probably some of the most important work ever. The fact that UA-cam demonetizes his every move is disgusting. They exploit the creators, yet they won’t allow the actual creators to make money to continue good work and bring awareness to the human condition. That’s why I try to find my favorite creators on patreon or their own sites to support them. UA-cam hq epitomizes hypocrisy, yet we can’t let go of it because there’s so much content that is important. Justice is a foreign concept in this world.
To me that’s what having a “platform” is about. Spread what you love while helping others. So many women I’ve related to in those videos. Some of the men too.
You can’t change the world but you can make a change in someone’s world
@@meadowsmama94 Some people actually DO have such an impact that they do change/guide SOCIETY (which is always in flux).
What is missing most in the lives of the broken is self-worth.
interesting how about 80% have a similar answer to one of the first questions he asks.
At 3:35, when he gets choked up, you know he's doing the work he's supposed to be doing. I love your videos Mark. Thank you.
interesting insight
Up until this point i always assumed he was just another LA greaseball riding off on people but this showed a more human side of him as compared to his usual monotonous tone and approach.
This dude tearing up didn't make me feel awkward like most of the time you see grown men do that unexpectedly. Here you just get it. He's doing the lord's work. He saw the most evil, fucked-up, black-pilling side of this world, and he still believes in humanity and beauty in this world despite of it all.
@@Ihavehadmanynames7779 he's a shill. Your initial assessment was correct.
He does create an income remember
Mark sees people the world doesn't see and he treats them with kindness
we should all be so lucky to be born with the ability to forgive. True unconditional forgiveness!! This clip is a must watch. almost like a daily vitamin or a walk in the sun and fresh air. absolute beautiful. one those days when you are feeling shit....Remember to maybe watch this wonderful 17:40
@ch-yq5yn
for profit
@@Dawna-gp1zkfor profit? This dude had a like… Hollywood high paying career he got sick of because of his beliefs and decided to just cut ties and do his own thing…. This. Yes he profits, like anybody who puts in work on creating content, but I highly doubt his intentions were more “profit” motivated than everything else. And hey playing devils advocate, if he was all about profit, he really screwed up by quitting his high paying career he had 😅
He is a shining example of what we, as humans, seem to have lost. He sees who people really are, he loves them unconditionally and most of all he is just so fucking kind!
like Jesus did.....
@4:00 Looks like Mark was about to cry. He is such a sweet guy. I love watching his interviews on Soft White Underbelly. I hope he continues doing those interviews for a long time.
He was def holding back tears. Thats why I don’t understand why ppl hate him. Hes such a wonderful person. The people he interviews he tries to help . He sees them as human beings
It's so strange to see Mark interviewed! And see his face. Handsome man and a good heart.
Jerry's interviews were incredible. To have that kindness and depth after what he had gone through. Sad to hear of his passing. I won't forget his interview.
Mark is a great human being
He has a blessed soul
So sad 😞 to hear Jerry died
"I love you"
Mark, you are jus awesome. I would love to follow mark around jus to feel and live in the interviews
Really handsome
I will travel to the ends of UA-cam to support Mark. I fuckin love him, the world needs a million Marks.
Right! I don't like seeing comments about him "taking advantage" of the ppl he films
Especially when he pays every single person he interviews and tries his best to help those who ACCEPT said help. There’s people on skid row who don’t want to leave. They prefer that life because it’s all a lot of them
have ever known. I know people take issue with the questions he asks, but he’s a photographer not a therapist. Sadly people forget that and automatically label him a “creep”.
Wonderful perspective from Mark. Im saddened by the passing of Jerry. He was the first contribution I made with go fund me thru marks page. Forgiveness is essential to love.
Deutsche Reich's Mark.
Why?
In an odd way, I feel bad for Mark. You can tell it’s in his nature to explore others and to want to understand human beings all while wanting the best for them. But by interviewing a set of broken souls, it exposes you to human frailty that inadvertently consumes you. I’m sure he gets a lot of positive experiences, but the negative ones, you can’t tell me this doesn’t play with his spirit. Not sure where Mark is spiritually, but his negative encounters with broken people has the potential of having the cumulative effect of something destructive. I am hopeful that he will continue to do what he does with a strong armored resolve.
Some people have the metaphorical equivalent of rain coats as a spirit. Stuff just slides right off. Those are the kind of people that make the best therapists or pediatric ICU nurses. They can see terrible things and it doesn't haunt them. Unfortunately, I'm not one of those people. I'm more of a sponge. It all stays with me, in my head.
Dogsalway SbarkAtbetamales, I will agree with you. I sometimes think Mark is a bit naive and is sometimes taken advantage of. It surprises me as he's been doing this for a while now. He might want to figure out the difference between helping and enabling. He seems like a super sensitive person and that's a beautiful thing, but like you said, I wonder how it all affects him in the end?
I’ve been a paramedic and er nurse since I was 19. Im close to having 20 years experience now.
I can tell you it really takes a toll dealing with the bad part of life everyday. Even just taking and hearing the stories. Doesn’t take the trauma etc.
it slowly warped my view of life and stole any positive thoughts or moments I had in my life.
In my experience you need encounters with people like that. If you go your whole life without ever knowing what that side of life is then how can you have a firm grasp on reality? It's like the story of the buddah when he first realized about old age and death.
I kind lf disagree. I think interviewing the people helps him to see all sides of life and also appreciate the positive things he has. He seems healthy by body and mind.
Mark Laita .... an extraordinary man who taught me a VERY valuable thing: do not hate. Do not resent. Forgive ... Mark, you are one of a kind great human being. God bless you.
Jerry's interviews were absolutely amazing, full of heartfelt wisdom & knowledge. Jerry was dealt a tragic hand in life. But kept faith until his passing. RIP Jerry. You touched so many people with your wisdom.
When Mark got emotional about what Jerry said I did too. It's so good to see Mark in front of the camera.
I got emotional about Jerry dying as well.
He radiates true humility and humanity in himself and for others
I always told my mom! "Mama Mark has been thru something himself, he has a story!" I knew it and this is just the beginning!! Bless You!!
Love the work Mark does, so many "invisible" people in society just want to be heard.
His channel has opened up my mind to the more unfortunate, what they go through, and how just a single unfortunate incident in a persons life has a compounding effect. It really does remind me that there are definitely people and personalities to the people I have been guilty of objectifying.
I've always wanted to hear from Mark.. what he must feel, listening to suffering people as much as he does. It has weigh heavy on ur heart but also make him so grateful.
Mark's videos has made me shed so many tears this year. Woo! The hurt and the pain emanates through the screen. It's so thick. I hope Mark gets his blessings for all he's done and when this life is over he goes to paradise.
A couple years ago a business partner took advantage of me being naive and stole $3,000. I needed to hear this. Mark is awesome.
@Zane Anthony You are right sir. I'm glad I learned my lesson with 3 grand rather than 30 grand.
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You live and learn.
3 grand is a cheap price to learn a valuable lesson. At least it wasn’t 300k.
My mother has always said never loan money unless you would be fine without it
You're a freaking saint Mark. More depth and understanding than most will ever achieve in their lifetime.
People like mark are a light to this sad world
Mark's body of work, is not only a creative goldmine, it's an anthropological masterpiece.....Peeling back the veneers, exposing the under-belly. #MASTERFUL
He’s documenting the negative effects of the invention of marriage on human kind.
Family is everything.
*When family is wrong, nothing is right.*
Human beings evolved to live in matriarchal tribes, not marriages. Our families are structured incorrectly, and it’s the root cause of our human dysfunction.
Mark put it perfectly there and also explained the reason why I have been watching his interviews: *Unconditional LOVE*
RIP Jerry his story is soo deep.
Man I’m so sad about Jerry !!
JERRY!??? Nooo!
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Jerry once said in an interview "I have all the reasons to be mad at the world. But I won't, my heart and mind won't let me."
I can't bring myself to watch his interviews. I know I should and I would learn a lot from him but I'm just not strong enough to hear his story. My heart goes out to him and I hope his soul is now resting in peace ❤
This is guy is so awesome! Every human needs to be like him!!!
Every human?
Would male for a very boring existence
Perfect Life Coach.
I mean, yeah he’s pretty amazing but let’s not glorify people we don’t know. He pointed out that he wasn’t a present husband or father. No one is perfect, we all carry our “sin”. What a tremendous gift he is giving us all, though, that is for certain.
@@aimeerebecca1 lets not take Lisas comment literal, its obvious she her intention is pertaining to the the GOOD qualities Mark seems to have along w his general outlook on life. Its obvious no one is perfect.
I grew up in a middle class neighbourhood, went to middle class schools. I didn't understand people in worse situations and always believed it was their own fault, whether it was opinions I'd borrowed from my mother or otherwise. I picked up a blue collar job and moved to a low socio-economic area when I became an adult and my understanding of these people totally changed. I'm much more understanding of the situations people find themselves in, and much more sympathetic. It's still a case by case basis, there are some people out there who just think the world owes them something for nothing, but I've met some very genuine people in my neighbourhood that have a story of their own to share.
and now you can be an ally to those you looked down on i like a good character arc
Mark has such a beautiful soul. So selfless and empathetic and just his love for people and the connections he have for the people he interviews. I love watching the interviews he create as well as watching him being interviewed.
This was so powerful. I literally just took marks advice and didn't bitch at my boyfriend and it worked!!! I'm ashamed I've been so negative but im working on it. What a great teacher.
That is So cool!!!👏👏👏
Well behaved women seldom make history. Never be afraid t speak your mind
@@unknownkingdom If you have to constantly yell, you're out of control & the person isn't worth your time.
In 20 years of what is a very happy marriage, that had some rocky moments in the early years, we quickly learned that patient, clear communication, solves more than nagging, yelling, passive aggressive behavior. Luckily we always made a rule, of taking a few minutes, or hours, before talking, if we were angry, to cool down, and then talk about whatever, without the venom. It works! We rarely argue, and even when we have, its not toxic, and always ends in either understanding (from situations based in misunderstanding,) or some degree of compromise, where we are both good with the outcome. No one wins an actual fight, if you have to be mean to someone you love, who loves you too. But, to each their own! Although, there's a reason that we have outlast most of the relationships that our friends/family members have been in. I follow my calm down rule, on the rare occasions that I have conflicts with any loved ones. Because none of them have done anything to deserve how cruel I can be, in extreme anger! You can be forgiven, but you can't take words back!
@@gabrieladerre2862 a man telling a woman not to sepak her mind is the definition of an abusive and controlling relationship
Oh no!! Not Jerry!! RIP. What a good man! Heaven gained another angel!!
Noooo he died ??? I would always think of him s😔
Man, I know 😔 He’s resting peacefully, now. Without so much pain
So sad to hear he's gone. He was an incredible person
God,s WARRIOR..JERRY.
I’d like to have the video someone help me get it tia
I’m so sorry to hear that Jerry has gone but I’m pleased that he’s not suffering pain any more. He was a gentleman in the truest sense and and if everyone had just a pinch of his goodness then the world would be a lot better place to be.
My kids know Jerry, he’s taught them what it is to be a decent human being. RIP Jerry.
I love Mark, you can see the weight of the world on his shoulders as he documents the atrocities of the world
Forgiveness is huge
I've learned soooo much from watching his channel. He brings a face and story to some of the most hurt and trauma filled people and makes them real. When you don't personally know someone who's a drug addict, gang member, prostitute, pimp, etc it's easy to condemn them for what they do and disassociate from thinking of them as being human, someone's mother, father, daughter, son, etc. His passion is helping others to learn to forgive others, have compassion for them and ultimately love them and wanting the best for them. Thank you Mark ❤️
I'm so sorry Jerry passed... 😭 his video is my favorite, his message was so clear and loving. Rest in Peace sweet prince...
Man I’m so devastated to hear about Jerry dying.
Mark, I, like hundreds of thousands, if not millions of others are absolutely obsessed with SWU in a beautiful way. As soon as I open my eyes the first thing I do is look for a new video that hopefully was uploaded 2 hours earlier and then get my big dose of heavy reality to start my day. I struggle with anxiety and bipolar disorder yet my struggles and anxiety seem so shallow compared to the people who live and die daily on Skid Row and the Tenderloin.
I’ve always been a happy go lucky person most of my life but then I can be completely empathetic towards poor people and especially the homeless. When I was a little girl I was raised baptist and I wanted to grow up and be a missionary to go to Haiti or any other really poverty stricken country and help build homes for the homeless.
Today I’m 42, single mother and a happy atheist but I still have the heart inside that would love to find a way to help the poor. I love what you’re doing. I strongly dislike when people accuse you of exploiting the people you interview, I see that these people are almost desperate for someone to listen to their stories. I think the theme that I gather from your videos on how to have a happy life is to FORGIVE. Thanks for sharing your talent and their stories with the world!
RIP Jerry, I was extremely touched by his story and interviews
Mark is such a great kind patient understanding human being. Definitely one of life's Earth Angels.
My favorite videos are the Whitakers. I love how they take care of each other and survive in spite of their circumstances.
Mark is an artist who puts his soul into his craft. Rare and beautiful.
Absolutely
I want to thank Mark for allowing me to become a better person. Every morning at5:45am I prepare myself to open my heart and allow myself to listen and become knowledgeable of how others move through their existence. I have learned so much about how others became who they are. I as a mother of adult children also have them watching these lovely(some) spirits. Some I have a harder time embracing them. You have enlightened our entire family to have outstanding conversations about the world, and human suffering. Mark, you absolutely were put here to teach! Bravo 💜👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🦓🦄💃🏾
Lovely comment!💕
Couldn't AGREE more ! Peace
I love your comment, you have a beautiful family.
In this interview Mark makes a lot of beautiful existential points regarding acting on our better instincts. In my own experience it is the difference between acting on our own sin nature and cooperating with God's grace. He remarks that he learned these lessons on forgiveness and generosity somewhere as a kid, but admits that he cannot recall when or where. I have learned very similar lessons regarding forgiveness, giving without expecting repayment and unconditional love, but for me the source has always been Jesus Christ. Thank you Mark for making the Gospel so tangible to present day. For me, the Gospel of Jesus is always timeless, relevant and poignant -- and it is nice to hear the tenants of Christ's teaching applied to what matters the most in our present age.
You can embrace the importance of generosity and forgiveness without being Christian just don’t forget that. Religion divides and spreads hate quite a lot.
I may not "like" or directly relate to the people in Mark's interviews, but I love these interviews because of just that. I get get a glimpse into the minds and lives of fellow humans from so many different backgrounds. But the beauty is we are all just the same just with little differences. They are humbling and real. Shout outs to Mark Laita.
When you speak of giving room to keep your dignity when you make mistakes, that's called giving grace.
Mark is doing a job that is amazing. He gives the people who society forgot about a voice. Its beautiful in a sad way
Mark has compassion and the ability to just listen. No judgement. RIP Jerry, beautiful spirit 🙏🏻
God Bless you Mark! I remember Jerry’s story and to learn of his passing made my heart really heavy.
Forgiveness is the greatest gift.
Mark's depth of empathy and compassion is something we should all strive for and he's right about forgiveness. My friend's mother was murdered when he was a teenager by a neighbor - random act. The murderer was caught and sentenced to life. My friend had the opportunity to have his mother's murderer murdered in jail. Years later he was told if he said the word, his mother's murderer would be killed. He said no. He had the opportunity to get revenge but chose not to in the end. I'm not sure I could but I have always had so much respect for him that he could attain that amount of forgiveness. Hate works both ways. I hope love does too
Our first child was born 3 days ago. I'm about to bring back wife + kid in a few hours to start this new chapter in our life but it is great and enlightening to hear Mark talk about unconditional love, certainly something i will strive to give my child.
Eye contact with them from day one , is my personal recommendation. That's how you speak to each other before they can talk.
I absolutely admire and feel love for Mark. His passion and compassion is out of this world. I’m thankful I saw this.
Mark, you deserve an Oscar for these hard hitting accounts from people on the edge of nowhere.. been watching you a while.. a year at least and my god!!! It’s been a rough one. U got me through my chemotherapy and made me realise how fortunate I am. Still trying to manage my own demons but thank you for this intricate insight. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Jerry was a nice soul. He was beautiful and will be missed. May God rest his soul.
Mark is one of the most empathetic man I’ve ever seen , the time he spends . He’s a beautiful soul , thank you so much for what you do , your a gift to humanity and all these tortured but most absolutely beautiful souls you that you are able to take a snapshot of their stories in so much detail and compassion . Bless you ❤
My favorite Mark Laita interviews were with a woman named, Frenchie. She had such great energy and was quite animated. Her two interviews were simply fun to watch!
Mark is a living , breathing Saint.
RIP Mr. Jerry. Thank you Mark for your wonderful touching videos.
Merry Christmas 🎄
Shit, :( sucks RIP Jerry he seemed like a nice soul.
Jerry was so inspirational. Such kindness within him.
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So sad jerry died :,((( such an amazing guy
Man I always worried about Jerry !!!!
This man (Mark Laita) has a good soul! Its easy to see! I love and look forward to his interviews.
Same. Life changer)))
i think Mark is incredibly brilliant and doing the hard work that no one knew they needed. more people should listen to his knowledge
Mark really is living his life like a saint on this earth. Forgiveness and unconditional love. I know I need to learn these, like so many others. When I first began watching his channel, it was very painful to see the challenges and struggles of society’s most vulnerable people. Your vibe attracts your tribe and for whatever reason growing up and as an adult, I’ve always been a person who stands up for the underdog, who is compassionate. Mark is a role model because he doesn’t let his talents and skills go to waste. He does work that actually makes a difference. I do hope he is okay because transference is real. I’m hoping he has enough social and emotional and psychological support to keep him healthy through doing this work. He reminds me of my favorite poem called “Bird Understander” by Craig Arnold.
This was incredible. How extraordinary the things that Mark says. Kindness, forgiveness, understanding.
Mark don't make me cry! oh my !! I'm so emotional today!!
I was tearing up with mark too, that was sad to hear Jerry passed away
Keep ur head up. Ur beautiful))
Great job making this about yourself.🙄
What you said about someone giving you room when you mess up is true in my case. My wife had every reason to call it quits because of my drinking. I knew I was a mess. I got busted drinking at work and almost lost my job. She took a chance and gave me respect without hating me. We are still married 30 years later and I haven't drank since. I love her more every day.
Im glad you made it dude
addiction isnt fun for anyone glad your living life again
@Herb Arndt You're a lucky guy
@@realcanadiangirl64 actually, his wife is lucky her gamble worked. It's usually really stupid to do what she did.
Have you ever cheated on her?
I was already completely invested in Mark's storytelling, but I cannot believe he remembers dates and names as clearly as he does for individuals after interviewing THOUSANDS!!! Incredible... thank you!!!!
He really compassionate about his job..
I’ve seen people accuse Mark of having less-than-noble motivations. I think this video, clearly shows him to be coming from a good place.
Happy someone finally interviewed mark
2nd one by Konkrete
He’s on Joe rogan
I mentioned wanting to know a update about Jerry about a month ago and never heard anything, when Mark spoke those words I instantly started balling my eyes out. I am so heartbroken over him passing. I really wished deep down in my heart that I could have met him in person. I would have been able to give him a hug and tell him how much he has touched my heart and truly made me believe that forgiveness is so important. And Mark, you are such a humble man....truly a gentleman. Not many left in this world.
Thank you for your comment. I feel exactly the same way. I really fell in love with him.
@@sarahalbers5555 🙏🏼
RIP Jerry! I am enlightened and enriched because I watched his videos.
Love this interview. Thank you for interviewing the man who is changing hearts and minds one video at a time.
He’s such an exceptional human being and role model!!!! He truly deserves recognition for what he’s trying and is doing!
RIP JERRY!! YOU WERE ONE SOLID MAN
I agree ☝🏽. Sad Jerry is gone
So sad hearing he passed 😢
Mark you are an angel sent to earth. You really spoke to me when you were talking about forgiveness. God bless you.
You’re so right…The Lord sent him and here we are learning from him. 🤎
Childhood unconditional love. Bottom line. Love love love. Uplift. Reassure. Protect. Allow children to FEEL and communicate in a safe environment with unconditional acceptance. This channel is beautiful. Big respect to you Mark, from A Boy's Mom Mother Bear. :)
A genuine lovely guy Mark you deserve all the success I have nothing but love and admiration for you
This man is the one. Very special he dug in. Thank you for sharing and for being aware.
Spot on about forgiveness! It's the only way to happy in this life!
Mark’s interviews are amazing, they teach me about my own attitudes and biases. So many injured people in the world. It’s heart breaking.
Every person who watches Mark’s channel & his videos needs to see this interview. Just a small peek into who he is - Thanks for this! 😉
Man I really admire Mark, forgiveness, unconditional love,and general positivity are things this world needs more of.
Always give with a giving heart - never give with the expectations of getting it back.
*I lost track with Jerry's story, he was so interesting and so positive, may he rest in peace.*
*Mark has a talent of getting those he interviews to really share in an environment they feel comfortable to share so deeply.*
*There are far too many relationships that do a toxic emotional around and around of hurting each other for the drama as they remain together.*
Mark is acknowledged and Jerry is remembered .. great interview.
Very valid point, holding a grudge or being angry will definitely hinder your physical and mental well being
Doing nothing is worse, surely? Festering in your own stupor is suicide inducing. Take care.
@@johnpayne6196
Yeah every body praising Mark for festering the dude Rebecca. Hey Rebecca here's some money and a phone that I know you will lose but let's go get you some new panties and a bra or two and a room for you to spend the night. Now Rebecca don't you be thinking bout going and getting high with these dollar bills I give you. Now looky here. Come back in few days Rebecca and I'll give you another bone and film your naked aZZ for the world to see. Rebecca dude has made Mark lots of money. I hate seeing this guy Rebecca so screwed up. I wish this Rebecca could get ahold of himself and walk in Mark's studio all dressed like the man he can be and say ......mark! Look at me now mf! I don't need any more if your bones Mark! 😮
One of the wisest words ever spoken by a man here on UA-cam. This man encompasses whole of human endeavours in the most simple words. This is philosophy.
Mark has a good heart. Bless.
I’m so sad to hear Jerry died. My uncle died of COPD and it was very painful to watch him deteriorate. I’m soo happy Mark you were able to bless the world 🌎 with Jerry story.
Thank you Mark! You are a Blessing to this world, a true humanitarian!
I am in awe of Mark. He is an outstanding artist and human being.
Wow mark is a great guy. No other words…just a beautiful kind soul ….God Bless his heart
Mark, your channel is insightful, eye opening, thought provoking, psychologically engaging as well as entertaining. It's what society needs to see, It is society. Thanks to both SWU and Konkrete.
I have watched many of Mark's videos and have been able to see life from other's perspectives. His work is very intriguing and enlightening. The videos have made me appreciate all of the blessings I've had in my life and to understand the awful and sad situations that some people have had to endure. Thank you, Mark.
Mark is such a genuine guy! Easy on the eyes too! God bless him for what he does!
I agree 💯😍
Mark is so easy on the eyes. Very nice looking.
@@lisasargent2841 🥰 💯
Mark most definitely one of those ones that deserves more than he receives ❤ Luv from Dallas Tx
For Jerry (1:49) to say, "I love you and I forgive you." Is SO amazing that I can't even find the words to describe Jerry's amazingness. Jerry, may he rest in power.
This is such a good dude. Soft white underbelly is such an incredible channel.
RIP Jerry 😇
Much love Mark , I think you are amazing!
I’m devastated to hear that Jerry died. But I’m so happy I was able to learn lessons from Jerry’s interviews.
I really appreciate being able to get this insight into Mark and what makes him do what he does. Great interview!
Mark you got a beautiful soul man. The world needs more people like you
I've been a longtime fan of Mark and what he does for people. At 4:00 when he became emotional.... the man is a National Treasure. I love you Mark, thank you for being YOU 🥰