Keep up the good work people like this family needs some one like you seems like alot of people now a days got their nose stuck up in the air but you are a god sent to any one like this family keep up the good work thank you
If anyone has seen the follow ups as to how the money was used and not used by the family. This was a great educational and humbling series to show how very blessed some of us are.
Except the part where he forces Ray to come outside and be on camera when he's clearly in a lot of pain from the arthritis in his knee. That shit wasn't cool.
@@kittenspuppiespsychictarot3873 I was thinking the same thing.i agree with Ben Dovabich the man was in alot of pain he didn't feel like being messed with he needed a pain patch on his knee
So Mark, I’m amazed that your relationship with the Whittakers goes back 18 years! Ray has come such a long way from his first reaction of fear and anger. He loves you now. He lights up like a Christmas tree when you talk to him. Thank you for showing us the kindness, humanity and innocence of these folks. And thank you for raising money to get them a new roof, siding, kitchen cabinets and many other things they needed. I love that the Whittakers’ neighbors and community protect them. It hurts my heart that someone made fun of Ray at church so he stopped going.
I didn't know the church incident, it brought tears to my eyes to read your comment on that... How can people be so cruel ??? Ray seems to be such a lovely person !!! People can be such uneducated bastards sometimes
He is educating people on the consequences of incest. He got them a Go Fund Me page, so that was very loving of him to do. That came from his heart. Thank you for presenting this information.
@@hyzercreek It does, it increases the likelihood of the same genetic genes being shared. Why do you think this is a major problem in Muslim communities that allow the marrying of 1st cousins.
Yes it does what world do you live in? Incest increases the chances of genetic abnormalities including mental retardation.. dont have kids with your siblings, cousins, parents, uncles/aunts grandparents etc.. this is why this mans work is so important .. ppl just don’t know
I admire the fact that Mark deems everyone's life interesting and want to make people aware of lives that r not normally known. Lives that most of us don't see on a daily basis. Everyone has a story and everyone is a story of some kind in life.
Exactly! They're VICTIMS of inbreeding. Their parents were twice first cousins, their parents married in the 1930's, it was quite common to marry between first cousins back then, how could their parents possibly know the possible genetical defects? The father was 6-7 years older than the mother, so that was quite normal. I don't have any information further back in the family three, but they're all siblings, except for Timmy who is a nephew (I don't know which of the unseen/unnamed/deceased siblings is Timmy's parent).
I love that he is humanizing these people in ways that you wouldn't even believe would be possible. The depth and beauty of this project is remarkable.
@@vantastic9367 They are the victims here.... The product of incest.. And I don't think you have any way of knowing if rape was involved seeing how little we actually know about them.
@@alyssawitt2904 In the video montage there a recent picture of a young child with the adults, which has me concerned. Especially if these folks don't know that incest is wrong.
I agree his empathetic approach but honestly open filming and questions a really shined beautiful light on this family and how can you not love Timmy and the guy who barks. So sweet
He's always had a channel trailer on Soft White Underbelly where he sat infront of the camera and spoke about his goals with the channel. There was also once a video where he did a response sort of video with Kelly because everyone accused her of being a fraud and Mark being in on it but he took that one down it seems. So yea there has more or less always been a face.
@@cmft9358 he took it down but he put it back up with disclaimers explaining how there “accusations” because certain things she said were questionable. He did an update with her as well. He caught a lot of s*** for that interview. Idk why, because if someone lies then that should be on them. Or at least you’d think.
@@deidrestephens8255 that’s because people donated money for Kelly so he could help her get off of the street and miss Kelly is posting on IG like just made a bag today and then people called her out for living a fairly decent life and basically discrediting everything she said. I would be upset if I donated money to help someone and find out they were lying.
You and I have a very different idea of what not "removing pride" looks like! Because, as far as I'm concerned, if you want someone to maintain their dignity, you don't film them while they're out peeing in the yard, you don't film their clearly soiled pants and yell out "Hey, what happened to your pants!", you don't put them in a position to look impaired by asking them questions alluding to their genetic misfortunes that they're clearly not even able to answer, and so on and so on. I watched these videos and never thought "gracious kind heart", I watched them and thought "intrusive and phoney for the sake of views" because that's what I saw. I saw a man benefiting off of the misfortunes of people who don't even know they're being taken advantage of. Yes, I understand they're getting some financial assistance now, but it's not out of his pocket, it comes from a Go Fund Me. Which is not a difficult thing for anyone to set up, anyone can do it, and it's free. Establishing one for them was hardly a big gesture on his part, but he gets to be the altruistic hero with the "big heart" for doing it. He also gets to claim the brownie points and praise for any money they gain. He just shows up and films them and the worst parts of their lives, which is already his job, and he gets millions and millions of views (thus money) for doing it. With it all considered, he didn't sacrifice a thing and I wouldn't even say he made any real effort, yet he came out smelling like roses. That feels like exploitation to me.
@@lblincoe2094 . Oh, I'm so glad someone else sees what I saw! I agree with you. Mark isn't compassionate or caring. This is "a successful business" for him. He really ticked me off more than once with his inane questions that he'd repeat a few times. And with Timmy and Ray, if you actually listened you could make out their meaning and intent. Mark never really listened. Thank you for your comment because I thought it was just me.
@@hollowpoint16 if he wants to prove that he isn’t exploiting them he should give half the proceeds of his videos to them instead of coming up with the lame argument that a hotel exploits him because he decides to use their services.
Whatever Mark takes he gives back 10x. He’s spreading awareness, regaining trust in many and spreading love. It’s a win win situation for all thats involved. The Whitaker family have been introduced to kind and gifting people. They’ve learnt so much and gained so many. Thanks for the sacrifice Mark. Be well.
@@oldironsides4107 apparently you have never watched the Whites of WV??? They loved being filmed, and he actually interviewed the mother Mammie...and she will tell you that the best part of her poor life was filming!
@@michaelwalsh9145 not what I said, but he does interviews with all kinds of different people! "The whites of West Virginia" was filmed years ago not by him! But Mark did an interview with "Mammie White" a well known family in WV.
I would love for him to stay in touch with the Whitakers so we can see how everyone is doing. They are such a loving family and I didn't know they had other family members until the trip to Walmart! Thank you for sharing them with us. That outing to Walmart had me in tears. It was beautiful!!
It would be great if he was able to raise enough money to repair their little home a bit more or even a new trailer just so they could be warmer in the winter. Nothing over the top just enough to make life a little easier for them.
The Whitakers are part of hard reality. Respect is critical. Imagine the lives of those we never get a glimpse of. WV, NY or anywhere on this planet. Thanks Mark.
Am I the only one that expected to see the interview with this family when I clicked on it? SWUB is one of my favorite channels, so seeing Mark's face for the first time was pretty cool.
I felt that the portraits and video mentioned in this interview were a break-through. Mark has been showing the world that we are all different, yet the same, for years. It is incredible that Mark has the wherewithal to get these interviews on the fly. Mark has this unassuming demeanor, he is nonjudgemental and has the ability to get people to want to communicate with him. It is a gift. I also possess this gift and someday, I want to use it for the better of people.
@@CMMark-bv3jo she means that although we come from different places, backgrounds, and experiences, there are some experiences, emotions, or reactions to things we have in common. Some might call it where our humanity (those of us that have some) dwells
“It’s good to see that these things exist.” - This is exactly what I thought when I was watching the videos. It’s a new world to me and I feel so much more compassion and empathy for the unfortunate.
I live in Northern Ohio, I know first hand that West Virginia, parts of Kentucky, and Southern Ohio are some of the poorest places I’ve seen in America. People feel bad for other countries when their fellow countrymen live in squalor along roads nobody drives on.
Exactly theres so many people that are gullible enough to believe america has no 3rd world parts to it. As far as im concerned 1st and 3rd world doesn't even exist.
Best comment on here chester. This has always been my problem. Let's take care of our problems at home first. Then maybe we'll be in a better position to help the world. Same thing with our families, start at home first then give to your community as best you can. Better society.
Mark is amazing, but I have to disagree slightly. Providing a service isn't exploiting someone. That's simply a mutually beneficial agreement. It only becomes exploitation when one side is being taken advantage of.
@@rhondaquintero7369 I said... "it's exploitation when one side is being taken advantage of." With regard to prostitution, I would say that if a pimp is bullying a girl into working the streets and keeping her money then that is clearly exploitation. If it's a girl using her own initiative to work the streets, is her own boss, keeps all the money, then that isn't exploitation.
I just said the same message as you in a different comment but you said it so much better😂😂😂 Anyway, I completely agree with you. I hope that family receives some kind of compensation for their exposure. This apparently benefited this man who posted the pictures but I wonder how much the family got out of this deal....
Mark has a real way with people... He puts everyone in comfort mode and turns people in amazing storytellers. He documents people's lives, true stories, he helps break prejudice. He's work comes with expenses..we assume only our time and energy to be valuable. Mark's underbelly project is a true jem
I think it's amazing how he stumbled upon these people. How many people jump in a car and ride down roads without using a map then see something interesting and overcome an objection and make it work.
@@close7304 he was introduced to them by a local police officer who trusted him, and always drives there c a police escort, so as not to inflame their protective neighbours
FINALLY! i have a face to the voice!! swu is one of my favorite yt channels. i love how he does his interviews with class, never talks down to his interviewees and lets them tell their stories without judgement. sometimes you can see the enormous amount of weight lifted off these peoples shoulders after being able to tell their story. mark is a great man!
This story about the family in WV broke my heart! I was born and raised in WV and live here again, now. Call me naive but I had absolutely no idea the level of poverty and INCEST in my state! Obviously, the majority of West Virginians don't live this way! Thank you for opening my eyes to what was right beneath them!
Same here I was born in a city in WV called Bluefield and believe it or not it has one of the first black only colleges in America and still has to this day a very large black population. It’s nothing in bluefield like the stereotypes of WV
People act like because one family did this nasty stuff to one another that we are all inbred ,toothless, and poor. He could've picked a different family but chose to go with this one. Same thing with the white family from Boone County. Because of that wild ass bunch everyone thinks that we are drunken pillbillies. Smh. This dude is a creep.
He's very careful on how to speak about the Whittakers, and that's good, they deserve respect also, and it was a little painful to watch that video, and the questions for the mother, cause he knew they were an oddity. But Ray seems like such a good hearted man, tries his best to communicate ❤️
Thank you. That is how I feel but I made the mistake of commenting and his legions of fans got all up in my grill because they cannot decipher between what he DOES and how he DELIVERS what he does.
@@DontarrestmePLZ I do watch his channel. And I have formed my own opinion. As I mentioned in another comment, he is a better interviewer than interviewee. But again, that is simply my own opinion which I formed all by myself. Obviously not everyone agrees. Which is fine. But we are all entitled to our own opinions whether they jive with someone else's or not.
This is the first time I am seeing Mark in an interview, previously he was known to me as a great voice behind the camera. Its great to see you in front of the camera Mark and I truly enjoy your channel, the interesting people you interview and the heartfelt help you give them❤️🙏
I know I think it's cool I was thinking the same thing as you I was watching something this morning and I thought I wonder what this guy looks like because he is caring
I did some mission work in WV in college. Definitely met some people like this in the hollows they were the nicest, warmest, salt of the earth people I’ve ever met. The experiences I had there made a definite, positive imprint on my heart. 30 years later, I still feel warmth and love when I think of my brief time spent there. One older lady said one of my favorite lines, ever….she said her ex husband was as useless as the tits on a boar hog……. 😂😂😂😂
There truly are some lovely people in WV, and Appalachia in general, and the accepted bigotry around such skilled, kind people astounds me. Many are a living link to the old ways!
My former mother-in-law, who was from Arkansas, would say something is “as useless as tits on a boar hog.” I think it must be a southern saying. Whatever it is, I’ve used the term every so often up here in Washington state, it is a great expression of uselessness!
I love how expressive Mark is. When he tells the story you can see it in his eyes the feelings he felt when first driving up the road, up until meeting that interesting family. Great interview!
The video of the family is unbelievable. I've shown it to many people and no one has made fun of or degraded the family. They seem happy. It's not a sad video. Someone who makes fun of someone's life is actually the person with the problems. I wish the Whitaker family happiness.
Making fun of people isnt ok ..However, we're also not going to normalize this because "They seem happy " ..A bunch of things make ppl happy but you shouldn't do ..It seems every single day ppl are trying to normalize completely insane things & behavior ! Incestuous relationships are not ok and never will be !
@@lovenothate1558 correct - theres a reason its looked down upon, it causes genetic issues and health problems in the children, causes early death, deformation, etc.
Have given up watching television since I found Mark and and his photo documentaries and interviews. Interesting, profound and a whole emotional education... that consistently holds my attention.
I grew up in NW Pa, and there are many families in the rural areas similar to the ones mentioned here. I even knew a few. They tended to stay around their homes, not venturing out into the world ,where they are ridiculed and harassed. They grow their own food and hunt, and often have large families within the same gene pool. I used to hike a lot, and would run into some of the family members. We would say “Hi” and keep going our own way. My father would take my mom and I to auctions in these rural towns, and many of the families would attend as well. Women who were 40 looked to be 60, weathered by sun and hard work. Some had congenital anomalies and cognitive impairment. I was curious but not afraid of their children..they didn’t interact with me, and very quiet and serious.
Mark thank you for showing such kindness towards these people. I had heard from a girl that once lived in the holler (that’s what she called it) and she said you may go in, but you probably won’t make it out as these people don’t trust any outsiders. I love Ray and find him to be so interesting. I am glad to hear that some people do protect them. Thank you for al you have done for them. I believe you are a God sent to them.❤️🙏🏻
I’ve just found Mark’s channel and I’m hooked. Letting his subjects tell their stories is amazing. He seems kind compassionate and I can tell he truly cares.
Instead of some of you complaining about how awful his interview is, why don't you listen and observe the fact that this man is fighting his emotions and trying hard not to break down. We have all been there,.....doing a damn good job too as far as I'm concerned!!!
He is extremely intelligent and uses empathy with everyone he interviews. He interviews all walks of life. They speak with him because they can feel he is genuine. He talks to a lot of people on skid row and it is heartbreaking. He is an amazing human. His empathy comes through his voice. A kind person with intelligence and empathy is appreciated.
Amen , shame on all those haters . Mark shines light on these incredibly humans . I’m totally intrigued by this family , I’ve in fact talked lots about this family to my co workers and now their interest as well . It’s amazing how much Mark actually cares , and the emotions he is holding back . I’m happy he does what he does . Thank you ❤
What? He was telling us how he met those people from the beginning of the video. It was a very fascinating video also. Being from the Appalachians of Tennessee I’ve heard jokes about those types of inbred deliverance people, I’ve never seen or heard of it actually existing.
This is exactly how I answer questions....Trying to tell the story, and I leap ahead, then I try to fill in the leap with the interesting things I remember as they come to me. And it takes ages to get to the actual point -- if we remember the point at all by the time we fill in the details. It's ADHD. But it's frustrating for listeners. Even other ADHD folks. 😅
Nah....its how I tell stories as well and I dont have adhd at all ...it never bothers me when folks do this....I love when there are a ton of side stories...
Amazing stories he tells of these people and their lives.Sad, fascinating',sometimes so unbelievable yet 'real people' living lives that the majority of us never could imagine.Well done for your kindness and love x
Watching Mark with the Whittakers brought me to tears. I appreciate the dignity and respect you give them. You are tremendously compassionate and kind, leading by example. I am humbled and have nothing but respect for you.
Whats so unsettling is there are now “Karens” trying to report the family for abuse and neglect. When I read one particular comment made by an imbecile who claims to be a “social worker” I was furious! As we can surely see everything has broken down in America, that includes the health care system and all that goes along with it. Why is it that we can’t all just be kind and understanding? Ppl need to leave that family alone unless they have a heart like Mark…other wise back off!
Social workers are usually narcissistic busybodies out to feel virtuous and heroic by snitching on people they know can’t fight back. They were the teachers pet in school, the kid who always reminded them to give out homework and told on anyone over the smallest breaking of rules.
I don't he exploits people, I think he just let's people tell their stories! If had them fighting or preaching to them like Maury, Jerry Springer or Dr.Phil it would be a different story.
Mark Laita introduces us to people on the fringe, people we may not have firsthand experiences of/with, and he does it with total integrity and compassion. Love his work so I certainly don’t think he exploits people. I also think his work is important and makes a difference. It can’t be easy for him and some of his videos are rather difficult to watch but you come away with,if a little shaken, at least a better understanding of people’s struggles.
@@Booboonancy Of course he horribly exploited the Whitaker family. They do not have the ability to consent to an interview. He had to look hard to find them. All they want is to live in peace. They will be hounded forever now. Go to hell Mark!
@@avalondreaming1433 I dont think many people will hound them because its a somewhat remote location that is propably difficult to find and the neighbors look out for them. Moreover he used the publicity to start a gofund me page for them. It generated like 32,000 dollars (he hoped for more but donations stopped). That money sure is going to help them.
Good to see you! Thank you for helping so many people even when you know you are being taken for a ride by many of them. Your interaction with the Whittaker family was memorable on so many levels. I love the sincerity of how you treat all people with kindness and compassion.
As someone who has AdHd I can listen to Mark forever. His mind is so full of endless ideas and points. He definitely has AdHd. His philosophy is amazing.
I’ve seen the interview with this family and it was so amazing/bizarre how the one man who only barked, you could tell exactly what he was trying to communicate.
The life you have lived and the stories you have told are so amazing that you need to make a movie. Too completely convey all the lives you have touched. I’m amazed and awed.
You can tell her had so much respect for the people he take photos of/filming them. He knows where the boundaries are, he doesn't really exploit those people, there's a deeper purpose to that. So rare these days.
He actually has heart. He’s not exploiting them for profit. I can feel the genuineness in his voice. He actually made a connection with these people and helped them. Hats off to you sir. Please don’t let your genuine heart turn into a Jackass video.
@@mixedviews3536 That's exactly what I am doing. I'm listening to his hesitant, jerky way of speaking. It has nothing to do with the content. He starts a sentence, stops in the middle and starts over. He can't seem to get to the end of his thoughts and he pauses for an exceedingly long time while he's speaking. It may not be distracting to you, but I find it hard to listen to and it appears that I am not alone. It's his speech pattern, it has nothing to do with content. But thanks for the recommendation.
So many shy away from the ugly gritty side where there's nothing to monetize, there's no safety, there's nothing. These people are the true heart and soul of America the people society would rather not acknowledge. Thanks for taking the time to work at their speed. I think the level of respect in your presentation is fantastic. I'm sure the family can understand motives and intentions even if they cannot verbalize that.
I do not understand your comment. I was just about to watch this but at the last second, I stopped. I couldn’t watch. It’s making me sick. I really mean sick. Nauseated. How in the world can incest be ok? Why do you think it’s ok? Are you in an incestuous relationship? I have news for you. It isn’t ok. Incest is a father doing it with his child. IN WHAT UNIVERSE IS THIS NOW THOUGHT OF AS FINE? And happy? So it’s ok if the father is happy, or the mother is ok watching? Or maybe if the mother is ok screwing her son? So this is all ok now? I’m not the sick one. I know right from wrong.
@@AdrienneMint we now live a depraved culture where moral relativism rules and absolute standards of truth are cursed..the truth is once sam3 s3x maariagez were aloud, the door was opened for for this sort of stuff...its only the beginning
@@lil18thletterking77 I didn’t open the door to this, I even refused to watch this video. There are reasons you shouldn’t inbreed. Look it up. See what people look like when born thru inbreeding. Deformed and mentally retarded is just a start. This is not ok.
@@AdrienneMint Children are helpless initially and depend on their parents for a decent genetic chance, as well as a good enough early childhood environment. Life is tough enough for kids who are healthy. To have deficits from the get go is totally selfish and uncaring of the parents. Anyone can reproduce without asking themselves what sort of life they can give their kids.
@@evelynwaugh4053 well of course I agree with you. That’s why I went on a rant last night. I even refused to watch the video about those disgusting people. I found it by accident here and was going to watch but became sick to my stomach. There is a reason not to inbreed. Birth defects, mental retardation, and more. I became even more nauseated by the sick comments everyone was making, along the lines of “ oh, it’s fine as long as they are happy”. Well, I have news for them, it’s not fine, it’s disgusting. And that’s how I feel.
You have done amazing work giving a voice to people that didn't have one. Thank you for giving such a human connection to people that most people overlook.
Do you realize Ray's family member had just died? Ray was extremely upset! Without words to express himself Ray expressed his pain and misery by attacking the garbage can! He was very upset...angry with things he could not change...this loss was a heartbreak for him...with a loss of not being able to fix it...he expressed his feeling by kicking the garbage can! Ray is a sweetheart!
After watching this interview i now understand completely how Mark gets some of the what should be award winning interviews.This guys energy for what he does matches and meets the people who he talks to perfectly and seamlessly.How absolutely impressive
I have watched quite a few of Marks videos. The people he interviews are almost always comfortable with him. I trust their assessment of him. People develop a "skill" with reading people and the energy inside of them when they live to tell the tale of childhoods that flat out should not happen.
I subscribed to Mark's channel and watched many of his videos. this man is amazing. The Appalachia Playlist is one of my favorites.I watched the videos of the Whitaker family.I dont know how he did it. He is genuinely full of love and compassion for these people. Most of all, there are just no words for his patience and non judgement. He took this family in a shopping spree to Walmart, did a fundraiser so they could fix up their house. I really don't know how he did it. My first visit would have been my last.i could not deal with it, the mess, the poop pants, and not being able to communicate with these people. But somehow, Mark found a way. He is a human angel You have to watch his videos to understand. May God bless this man with whatever he needs. His videos not only help the people in them, but help countless who watch them in so many ways.
I’ll never forget the family he was talking about. I couldn’t believe my eyes or ears. Well maybe it was because I saw the actual interview stoned. It was magnified. In fact I saw them both. I love his style of interviews. The same questions I’m thinking about asking them like their age. Excellent work Mark.
Hey, I've watched just about all of Mark's vlogs. Mark, I would lay my life, is, AT LEAST, in the TOP 3 of the most COMPASSIONATE, HUMBLE, KIND, AND JUST GENUINELY NICEST GUYS on UA-cam today. And, personally, I've never, ever SEEN anyone AS kind, humble and compassionate as he!belly) is TRULY worth subscribing to, supporting, and watching. He has SO MANY interesting things on there, HOWEVER, it's NOT intended for children, so if you've never watched, don't sit down with your child for the very first time to watch. :) Mark's channel (Soft White Under
Mark you’re absolutely a Blessing for the Suffering Souls on your Channel I hope the man that’s interviewing you Understand You and Learn Something Your Subscribers we Love and Respect You
Mark your work is amazing. You give a voice to the marginalized, and that gives them humanity and that's why we're touched...keep doing you brother. Just keep doing you...💕
I struggle with the concept of exploitation. Him "shining a light" on this family's circumstances was not to assist or improve but to put on display. I don't think the intentions were malicious but the amusement is cringy.
The thing that made me uncomfortable with this one subject family in particular, is consent or lack thereof. I do not believe that they were able informed consent to have this video go up for people's entertainment. Unlike all Mark's other interviewees, who he would have been honest with about the nature of the interview. That's why this one felt like he was doing it behind their back and it's the only one if his I don't like.
@@carolanddaryl922 EXACTLY!!!! Who in that house could have made an INFORMED decision about this!!! Shame on the people of ODD, WV for not protecting them from strangers with camera equipment!
Mark's videos of the Whittakers are by far some of the most eye opening and genuine and KIND glimpses of life I've ever seen. He's incredibly kind and non patronizing and it's heartwarming how he lets them be themselves and communicate the way they do. Outstanding videos and they are a wonderful family. Oh, by the way and I know most people reading this already know, but he created a Go Fund Me page to help them out and it was successful. Mark is truly a giving and gifted person and they are a wonderfully sweet family.
@@ninebandedarmadillo9534 exactly what I though when I heard him say that... Are you really complaining that someone is mourning and it's inconvenient for you?!
I saw that video and have admiration on the way that Mark handled the whole scene,, as always very nice,polite and courteous and very respectful. The ppl to me was not understandable as easy as he made it seem by his perfect and on time questions.
I personally love his work! I haven’t studied much into the Why? I was consumed by all walks of life and the journeys Mark has taken me along with! I don’t feel he’s exploiting anyone or passing judgment. I feel he’s sharing the real raw & uncut truths around the world! It’s not about bashing or hate he doesn’t discriminate whatsoever he’s open minded compassionate and loving 🥰 We all have a different opinion of someone but in this case the interviewee creates the content and what they choose to share with the world! I believe Mark was just the one to capture it behind the lens!! What a rabbit hole he’s gotten himself into Is what I find myself thinking about! How does Mark feel?
I love this series and this family. I would hate to see a person actually going over there to bother them and make fun of them. That is so cruel. I love them and love how much you have helped them.
I really liked the way you presented this . I see families like this at a similar level as a travel nurse in very rural areas. It is done with class and respect as it is not these folks fault . There lives have been hard enough Really enjoy this beautiful presentation of life which isn’t always pretty
Hes been blown up. I've been a subscriber of his for well over a year..and probably a bit longer. Trust n believe that Mark is doing a phenomenal job, with or without this 'interview'.
He really does have a stilted way of talking. Watching him now I see what I only heard before in interviews. It's his own idiosyncratic way of speaking but it's a struggle to watch and listen to sometimes.
I just subbed bc of these interviews with Mark. They’re amazing. I absolutely think Mark is iconic, he’s true genius and exhibits the beauty of humanity, and he will be a legend. Meeting him would be a true gift.
I would love and support as I'm sure most of u other humans would, a nomination for an award for humanitarian acts for this man. I'm positive he would qualify.
@@jacobsjungle5676 ive seen enough to know that they would refuse. The documentary would probably be random townsfolks stories about the family. Only one of them speaks well enough to even relay information.
I’m learning more about myself than I ever thought possible since subscribing to this channel two days ago. I consider this channel such a wonderful gift to humanity 💝
Yes girl, he possesses emotion, empathy,understanding, compassion, love, concern and tenderness where its needed. It's hard to find a man with those qualities. I enjoy watching his channel so much.
I'm proposing to him next lol but I do love him and his documentaries on The Appalachia . Especially Ruby almost 90 she's a firecracker if you get a chance to watch her on the series of Living in Appalachia
Watch more of Mark Laita here: ua-cam.com/play/PLfi9jV4NTGygfRfy02IZ10B-sekMKpTq_.html
Read above my views ,you might or might not agree x
Keep up the good work people like this family needs some one like you seems like alot of people now a days got their nose stuck up in the air but you are a god sent to any one like this family keep up the good work thank you
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@@carolehudson8799, tnx. Deleted my comment in light of the Lima scandal.
Mark's films of the Whittakers are incredibly compassionate. He's helped them financially, taken them shopping and always treated them with respect.
If anyone has seen the follow ups as to how the money was used and not used by the family.
This was a great educational and humbling series to show how very blessed some of us are.
Except the part where he forces Ray to come outside and be on camera when he's clearly in a lot of pain from the arthritis in his knee. That shit wasn't cool.
@@kittenspuppiespsychictarot3873 stop fishing for problems.
@@kittenspuppiespsychictarot3873 I was thinking the same thing.i agree with Ben Dovabich the man was in alot of pain he didn't feel like being messed with he needed a pain patch on his knee
@@ingridgustavsson3012 ok troll
So Mark, I’m amazed that your relationship with the Whittakers goes back 18 years! Ray has come such a long way from his first reaction of fear and anger. He loves you now. He lights up like a Christmas tree when you talk to him. Thank you for showing us the kindness, humanity and innocence of these folks. And thank you for raising money to get them a new roof, siding, kitchen cabinets and many other things they needed. I love that the Whittakers’ neighbors and community protect them. It hurts my heart that someone made fun of Ray at church so he stopped going.
I thought it was Timmy that got picked on at church?
I didn't know the church incident, it brought tears to my eyes to read your comment on that... How can people be so cruel ??? Ray seems to be such a lovely person !!! People can be such uneducated bastards sometimes
Nothing is as cruel or vicious as a Christians love
Wow…Mark has know the Whittaker’s for 18 years?
@@wandajones5479 yep..
He is educating people on the consequences of incest. He got them a Go Fund Me page, so that was very loving of him to do. That came from his heart. Thank you for presenting this information.
Incest doesn't cause mental retardation, holy shit that is total ignorance.
@@hyzercreek It does, it increases the likelihood of the same genetic genes being shared. Why do you think this is a major problem in Muslim communities that allow the marrying of 1st cousins.
@@hyzercreek yes it does. Pakistani culture is like this also. Many issues in inbreeding
Yes it does what world do you live in? Incest increases the chances of genetic abnormalities including mental retardation.. dont have kids with your siblings, cousins, parents, uncles/aunts grandparents etc.. this is why this mans work is so important .. ppl just don’t know
@@nvmee8 Sorry, must have given the wrong impression here, I do NOT support incest in any form or manner. I probably should have re-worded that.
I admire the fact that Mark deems everyone's life interesting and want to make people aware of lives that r not normally known. Lives that most of us don't see on a daily basis. Everyone has a story and everyone is a story of some kind in life.
Yes! This! The world would be such a different place if more people had his view of people/life.
Very Very true. And it shows how BS Television has become.. People love Hard Reality.
@@ellemmenn2930 Yes definitely!!
@@fredthompson4568 Exactly. If u ask me television isn't even worth watching any more. Even the news media has failed.
You mean like putting in a zoo?
they're not an "incestuous family", they're the victims of an incestuous family. Their parents-grandparents are to blame for their condition
good point, my surname is steele too, where are you? I'm in NZ...
@@fifipips4553 USA California
Don’t get any ideas you two.
@@zachoryzervas5215 😆
Exactly! They're VICTIMS of inbreeding. Their parents were twice first cousins, their parents married in the 1930's, it was quite common to marry between first cousins back then, how could their parents possibly know the possible genetical defects? The father was 6-7 years older than the mother, so that was quite normal. I don't have any information further back in the family three, but they're all siblings, except for Timmy who is a nephew (I don't know which of the unseen/unnamed/deceased siblings is Timmy's parent).
Mark is the real deal. Listen to him talk. His respect and dignity for others is paramount.
Mark respects mark. I like it
Totally agree, beautiful kind soul x
I think he is too
I love that he is humanizing these people in ways that you wouldn't even believe would be possible. The depth and beauty of this project is remarkable.
People that rape their sisters and other family members shouldn't be humanized, they are filth.
@@vantastic9367 They are the victims here.... The product of incest.. And I don't think you have any way of knowing if rape was involved seeing how little we actually know about them.
@@alyssawitt2904 In the video montage there a recent picture of a young child with the adults, which has me concerned. Especially if these folks don't know that incest is wrong.
Yes it's beautiful. Incredible man of great dignity and respect.
@@vantastic9367 Wow that is so uncalled for.
This guy is the most respectful non judgmental person I've seen in a long time
A long time? I would say EVER! Maybe this is how Jesus walked this earth.
Mark is a very special man! He speaks to these people with such kindness and compassion.
You need to watch Joe Rogan interview with Mark lata , then come back and say non judgemental, respectful.
@@deneensanders4117 It's Laita, learn how to spell first 🙄
He made content for him and generated
$$$
Being a West Virginian..I really appreciate the compassion and respect you had for the Whittakers...Bless you...
I agree his empathetic approach but honestly open filming and questions a really shined beautiful light on this family and how can you not love Timmy and the guy who barks. So sweet
Finally a face to the voice.
He's always had a channel trailer on Soft White Underbelly where he sat infront of the camera and spoke about his goals with the channel. There was also once a video where he did a response sort of video with Kelly because everyone accused her of being a fraud and Mark being in on it but he took that one down it seems. So yea there has more or less always been a face.
@@cmft9358 he took it down but he put it back up with disclaimers explaining how there “accusations” because certain things she said were questionable. He did an update with her as well. He caught a lot of s*** for that interview. Idk why, because if someone lies then that should be on them. Or at least you’d think.
Handsome guy.
I pictured him a bit younger.
@@deidrestephens8255 that’s because people donated money for Kelly so he could help her get off of the street and miss Kelly is posting on IG like just made a bag today and then people called her out for living a fairly decent life and basically discrediting everything she said. I would be upset if I donated money to help someone and find out they were lying.
Honestly, it takes a very special type of person to be able to do what Mark does, & not remove what little pride, etc. any of those people still have.
You and I have a very different idea of what not "removing pride" looks like! Because, as far as I'm concerned, if you want someone to maintain their dignity, you don't film them while they're out peeing in the yard, you don't film their clearly soiled pants and yell out "Hey, what happened to your pants!", you don't put them in a position to look impaired by asking them questions alluding to their genetic misfortunes that they're clearly not even able to answer, and so on and so on.
I watched these videos and never thought "gracious kind heart", I watched them and thought "intrusive and phoney for the sake of views" because that's what I saw. I saw a man benefiting off of the misfortunes of people who don't even know they're being taken advantage of.
Yes, I understand they're getting some financial assistance now, but it's not out of his pocket, it comes from a Go Fund Me. Which is not a difficult thing for anyone to set up, anyone can do it, and it's free. Establishing one for them was hardly a big gesture on his part, but he gets to be the altruistic hero with the "big heart" for doing it. He also gets to claim the brownie points and praise for any money they gain.
He just shows up and films them and the worst parts of their lives, which is already his job, and he gets millions and millions of views (thus money) for doing it. With it all considered, he didn't sacrifice a thing and I wouldn't even say he made any real effort, yet he came out smelling like roses. That feels like exploitation to me.
@@lblincoe2094 spot on, amazing how people can’t see how he’s exploiting them.
@@lblincoe2094 . Oh, I'm so glad someone else sees what I saw! I agree with you. Mark isn't compassionate or caring. This is "a successful business" for him. He really ticked me off more than once with his inane questions that he'd repeat a few times. And with Timmy and Ray, if you actually listened you could make out their meaning and intent. Mark never really listened. Thank you for your comment because I thought it was just me.
@@hollowpoint16 if he wants to prove that he isn’t exploiting them he should give half the proceeds of his videos to them instead of coming up with the lame argument that a hotel exploits him because he decides to use their services.
Whatever Mark takes he gives back 10x. He’s spreading awareness, regaining trust in many and spreading love. It’s a win win situation for all thats involved. The Whitaker family have been introduced to kind and gifting people. They’ve learnt so much and gained so many. Thanks for the sacrifice Mark. Be well.
💯💯
Poor people in the mountains I would imagine the last thing they want to have is exposed to the world
@@oldironsides4107 apparently you have never watched the Whites of WV??? They loved being filmed, and he actually interviewed the mother Mammie...and she will tell you that the best part of her poor life was filming!
@@jenniechurch5337 you mean he’s exploiting more than one family?
@@michaelwalsh9145 not what I said, but he does interviews with all kinds of different people! "The whites of West Virginia" was filmed years ago not by him! But Mark did an interview with "Mammie White" a well known family in WV.
I would love for him to stay in touch with the Whitakers so we can see how everyone is doing. They are such a loving family and I didn't know they had other family members until the trip to Walmart! Thank you for sharing them with us. That outing to Walmart had me in tears. It was beautiful!!
It would be great if he was able to raise enough money to repair their little home a bit more or even a new trailer just so they could be warmer in the winter. Nothing over the top just enough to make life a little easier for them.
He made an update on them a few months back.
The Whitakers are part of hard reality. Respect is critical. Imagine the lives of those we never get a glimpse of. WV, NY or anywhere on this planet. Thanks Mark.
I love your comment. I feel the exact same way. This is just one that we get to see. Imagine all the ones that we don’t.
Hey there. I'm from Wv and the Whittakers are not the norm. Sure there are people like that but it's far and few between.
I love Marks voice! Thank God he found his calling
Am I the only one that expected to see the interview with this family when I clicked on it? SWUB is one of my favorite channels, so seeing Mark's face for the first time was pretty cool.
The interview is on his channel
No I expected to see it as well and I'm so tired of these misleading titles
@@lh3132 would you know the name of the video with this interview?? Cuz I've gone through a lot of them and I don't see it
😂same here!!!
ua-cam.com/video/nkGiFpJC9LM/v-deo.html
Found the link
I felt that the portraits and video mentioned in this interview were a break-through. Mark has been showing the world that we are all different, yet the same, for years. It is incredible that Mark has the wherewithal to get these interviews on the fly. Mark has this unassuming demeanor, he is nonjudgemental and has the ability to get people to want to communicate with him. It is a gift. I also possess this gift and someday, I want to use it for the better of people.
What do you mean we are different yet the same?
Ha yes wherewithal....that was one of his most inspiring interviews
WORD
@@CMMark-bv3jo she means that although we come from different places, backgrounds, and experiences, there are some experiences, emotions, or reactions to things we have in common. Some might call it where our humanity (those of us that have some) dwells
Whooooosh
“It’s good to see that these things exist.” - This is exactly what I thought when I was watching the videos. It’s a new world to me and I feel so much more compassion and empathy for the unfortunate.
I think its sweet that the town want to protect the Whittaker family
@Lib Warrior :0
@Lib Warrior 🤣
Unlike yourself 😂
@Lib Warrior I live in WV, so no not really. But if you have any questions about it, I’ll be happy to answer a few questions about WV
Sweet?
Have you seen how the family lives?
Squalor and fifth.
I live in Northern Ohio, I know first hand that West Virginia, parts of Kentucky, and Southern Ohio are some of the poorest places I’ve seen in America. People feel bad for other countries when their fellow countrymen live in squalor along roads nobody drives on.
I'd like to hear your take (since you live nearby) on how politics affect these places.
This horrible abuse that went on.now this people dont even think.differtly.sad
I vividly remember what l saw in Appalachia when l was nine. I had never seen poverty. I am 62 now.
Exactly theres so many people that are gullible enough to believe america has no 3rd world parts to it. As far as im concerned 1st and 3rd world doesn't even exist.
Best comment on here chester. This has always been my problem. Let's take care of our problems at home first. Then maybe we'll be in a better position to help the world. Same thing with our families, start at home first then give to your community as best you can. Better society.
I LOVE that Mark got interviewed because he always interviews and now we get to hear his side! I love it!
Mark is amazing, but I have to disagree slightly. Providing a service isn't exploiting someone. That's simply a mutually beneficial agreement. It only becomes exploitation when one side is being taken advantage of.
I agree totally. You took the words right out of my mouth.
But to use your analogy, prostitution is not exploitative.....when we know it clearly is.
Exactly.
@@rhondaquintero7369 I said... "it's exploitation when one side is being taken advantage of." With regard to prostitution, I would say that if a pimp is bullying a girl into working the streets and keeping her money then that is clearly exploitation. If it's a girl using her own initiative to work the streets, is her own boss, keeps all the money, then that isn't exploitation.
I just said the same message as you in a different comment but you said it so much better😂😂😂 Anyway, I completely agree with you. I hope that family receives some kind of compensation for their exposure. This apparently benefited this man who posted the pictures but I wonder how much the family got out of this deal....
Mark has a real way with people... He puts everyone in comfort mode and turns people in amazing storytellers. He documents people's lives, true stories, he helps break prejudice. He's work comes with expenses..we assume only our time and energy to be valuable. Mark's underbelly project is a true jem
So true..1st Yt video story I listen to each morning. No Tv No need
I think it's amazing how he stumbled upon these people. How many people jump in a car and ride down roads without using a map then see something interesting and overcome an objection and make it work.
@@close7304 he was introduced to them by a local police officer who trusted him, and always drives there c a police escort, so as not to inflame their protective neighbours
Mark is the best, he is one of a count on one hand of people that I watch that helps out people, I wish there are more people like him.
FINALLY! i have a face to the voice!! swu is one of my favorite yt channels. i love how he does his interviews with class, never talks down to his interviewees and lets them tell their stories without judgement. sometimes you can see the enormous amount of weight lifted off these peoples shoulders after being able to tell their story. mark is a great man!
This story about the family in WV broke my heart! I was born and raised in WV and live here again, now. Call me naive but I had absolutely no idea the level of poverty and INCEST in my state! Obviously, the majority of West Virginians don't live this way! Thank you for opening my eyes to what was right beneath them!
Incest was VERY common in all parts of the US in the early days. Especially the hard to get to places
Yo Kelly what part of WV are you from and are you single by any chance???😂😂
@@vittobutera3878 Dude. Fucking eeewwwwww
Same here I was born in a city in WV called Bluefield and believe it or not it has one of the first black only colleges in America and still has to this day a very large black population. It’s nothing in bluefield like the stereotypes of WV
People act like because one family did this nasty stuff to one another that we are all inbred ,toothless, and poor. He could've picked a different family but chose to go with this one. Same thing with the white family from Boone County. Because of that wild ass bunch everyone thinks that we are drunken pillbillies. Smh. This dude is a creep.
He's very careful on how to speak about the Whittakers, and that's good, they deserve respect also, and it was a little painful to watch that video, and the questions for the mother, cause he knew they were an oddity. But Ray seems like such a good hearted man, tries his best to communicate ❤️
You can't undo all the harm done to them. All the extras their enjoying now is a better life.
that's not their mother, it's their sister who takes care of them
I agree... He is one of the best interviewers I've ever seen.
I find it funny that they live in Odd, cuz they're odd
"An oddity"? They're people, man.
He said " it's a good story " more then actually telling the story .
This man talk about everything but the dam story !
Thank you. That is how I feel but I made the mistake of commenting and his legions of fans got all up in my grill because they cannot decipher between what he DOES and how he DELIVERS what he does.
@Chris Hartley *more THAN, not more then...those words are not interchangeable...
That’s the plan
@@rmonson5002 you could try watching his channel. Then you could form your own opinions on how he delivers.
@@DontarrestmePLZ I do watch his channel. And I have formed my own opinion. As I mentioned in another comment, he is a better interviewer than interviewee. But again, that is simply my own opinion which I formed all by myself. Obviously not everyone agrees. Which is fine. But we are all entitled to our own opinions whether they jive with someone else's or not.
This is the first time I am seeing Mark in an interview, previously he was known to me as a great voice behind the camera. Its great to see you in front of the camera Mark and I truly enjoy your channel, the interesting people you interview and the heartfelt help you give them❤️🙏
I know I think it's cool I was thinking the same thing as you I was watching something this morning and I thought I wonder what this guy looks like because he is caring
I did some mission work in WV in college. Definitely met some people like this in the hollows they were the nicest, warmest, salt of the earth people I’ve ever met. The experiences I had there made a definite, positive imprint on my heart. 30 years later, I still feel warmth and love when I think of my brief time spent there. One older lady said one of my favorite lines, ever….she said her ex husband was as useless as the tits on a boar hog……. 😂😂😂😂
There truly are some lovely people in WV, and Appalachia in general, and the accepted bigotry around such skilled, kind people astounds me. Many are a living link to the old ways!
My Father's phrase (lol, usually directed towards ME), "Boy", he'd say, You're as useless as tits on a boat hog", lol, he was from Arkansas.
My former mother-in-law, who was from Arkansas, would say something is “as useless as tits on a boar hog.” I think it must be a southern saying. Whatever it is, I’ve used the term every so often up here in Washington state, it is a great expression of uselessness!
My grandpa used to say that all the time!! South Ohio.
This line has always been a great one.
I love how expressive Mark is. When he tells the story you can see it in his eyes the feelings he felt when first driving up the road, up until meeting that interesting family. Great interview!
The video of the family is unbelievable. I've shown it to many people and no one has made fun of or degraded the family. They seem happy. It's not a sad video. Someone who makes fun of someone's life is actually the person with the problems. I wish the Whitaker family happiness.
Making fun of people isnt ok ..However, we're also not going to normalize this because "They seem happy " ..A bunch of things make ppl happy but you shouldn't do ..It seems every single day ppl are trying to normalize completely insane things & behavior ! Incestuous relationships are not ok and never will be !
@@lovenothate1558 correct - theres a reason its looked down upon, it causes genetic issues and health problems in the children, causes early death, deformation, etc.
Where can I watch the video?
@@honeypot8524 .
@@honeypot8524 ua-cam.com/video/nkGiFpJC9LM/v-deo.html
I have so much respect for this man. Especially in todays climate when people throw shade so quickly and are so very judgmental on almost everything.
He's being so careful as to what he's saying
That’s a good thing!
Everybody knows everything nowadays anyway...
@@sportsfix6975 true
He is telling his story and trying to think before he tells it ,,,, and being respectful.
@@beverlybalius9303 Right. It’s not everywhere people have rapid-fire speech, either.
Have given up watching television since I found Mark and and his photo documentaries and interviews.
Interesting, profound and a whole emotional education...
that consistently holds my attention.
Me too! No more tv since I found Marks channel. It’s changed my life and my perspective on so many issues.
Same
I love that Mark mentioned “where was I going with this?” and continued on. This happens to me all the time and fearful that I’m losing my memory.
He's just being careful of the words he chooses and not give away too much info of where they live,Also not say anything that sounds insulting
@@mpatrickthomas fair enough. I wish more ppl did the same.
You are a remarkable artist Mark, always a joy to see you and hear you talk
I grew up in NW Pa, and there are many families in the rural areas similar to the ones mentioned here. I even knew a few. They tended to stay around their homes, not venturing out into the world ,where they are ridiculed and harassed. They grow their own food and hunt, and often have large families within the same gene pool. I used to hike a lot, and would run into some of the family members. We would say “Hi” and keep going our own way. My father would take my mom and I to auctions in these rural towns, and many of the families would attend as well. Women who were 40 looked to be 60, weathered by sun and hard work. Some had congenital anomalies and cognitive impairment. I was curious but not afraid of their children..they didn’t interact with me, and very quiet and serious.
Altoona
Mark thank you for showing such kindness towards these people. I had heard from a girl that once lived in the holler (that’s what she called it) and she said you may go in, but you probably won’t make it out as these people don’t trust any outsiders. I love Ray and find him to be so interesting. I am glad to hear that some people do protect them. Thank you for al you have done for them. I believe you are a God sent to them.❤️🙏🏻
I’ve just found Mark’s channel and I’m hooked. Letting his subjects tell their stories is amazing. He seems kind compassionate and I can tell he truly cares.
Oh, he looks like he sounds lol.
No, I imagined him differently. Little chubby and bald.
@@StevieMichelle same
@@StevieMichelle instead of lean and acidic?
I imagined him pretty young and tall
@@StevieMichelle same 😂
Instead of some of you complaining about how awful his interview is, why don't you listen and observe the fact that this man is fighting his emotions and trying hard not to break down. We have all been there,.....doing a damn good job too as far as I'm concerned!!!
I agree! He's doing a great job! And helping people as well as awareness.♥️
He is extremely intelligent and uses empathy with everyone he interviews. He interviews all walks of life. They speak with him because they can feel he is genuine. He talks to a lot of people on skid row and it is heartbreaking. He is an amazing human. His empathy comes through his voice. A kind person with intelligence and empathy is appreciated.
Who said it was bad? And in what part is he visibly upset or emotional?
Amen , shame on all those haters . Mark shines light on these incredibly humans . I’m totally intrigued by this family , I’ve in fact talked lots about this family to my co workers and now their interest as well . It’s amazing how much Mark actually cares , and the emotions he is holding back . I’m happy he does what he does . Thank you ❤
Are you for real? Fighting his emotions, what a laugh.
He's no storyteller that's for sure.10 minutes later you're still waiting to find out what the heck the story was about
I've noticed that many people in the visual arts aren't real good verbal communicators. Might be why they express themselves through pictures.
And then to be running the people down and their family when they are victims themselves.
@@pamelamorris3148 he doesn’t run anyone down.
What? He was telling us how he met those people from the beginning of the video. It was a very fascinating video also. Being from the Appalachians of Tennessee I’ve heard jokes about those types of inbred deliverance people, I’ve never seen or heard of it actually existing.
I encourage you to find the interview video with the Whitaker’s. Because then this interview will make so much more sense.
Y’all acting like you’ve never seen his face before. It’s literally on his introductory video to his page.
People don’t look
never watched it
You are acting like everyone has watched every one of the video on his channel
😂
@@user-jy2sj4ed4i again, it's his INTRO video.
Mark is incredibly empathetic and truly cares.
This is exactly how I answer questions....Trying to tell the story, and I leap ahead, then I try to fill in the leap with the interesting things I remember as they come to me. And it takes ages to get to the actual point -- if we remember the point at all by the time we fill in the details. It's ADHD. But it's frustrating for listeners. Even other ADHD folks. 😅
Nah....its how I tell stories as well and I dont have adhd at all ...it never bothers me when folks do this....I love when there are a ton of side stories...
Amazing stories he tells of these people and their lives.Sad, fascinating',sometimes so unbelievable yet 'real people' living lives that the majority of us never could imagine.Well done for your kindness and love x
Watching Mark with the Whittakers brought me to tears. I appreciate the dignity and respect you give them. You are tremendously compassionate and kind, leading by example. I am humbled and have nothing but respect for you.
Mark. You give the voiceless and relegated a space to express how human they are. Thank you. 💖
I am in love with you ❣️
I'm gonna tell my kids this was tony hawk
😂😂😂🤣🤣😂 so funny cuz he looks like an older Tony Hawk
me too
Maybe his brother at best.
Lol
@@ComputerLearning0 Tony Falcon? Lol
Whats so unsettling is there are now “Karens” trying to report the family for abuse and neglect. When I read one particular comment made by an imbecile who claims to be a “social worker” I was furious! As we can surely see everything has broken down in America, that includes the health care system and all that goes along with it. Why is it that we can’t all just be kind and understanding? Ppl need to leave that family alone unless they have a heart like Mark…other wise back off!
I have my doubts about mark..
@@suemiller822 hmm what doubts do you have?
Social workers are usually narcissistic busybodies out to feel virtuous and heroic by snitching on people they know can’t fight back. They were the teachers pet in school, the kid who always reminded them to give out homework and told on anyone over the smallest breaking of rules.
@@suemiller822are you a conspiracy trumptard?
Hes making money off of other people's suffering and horror stories.
I don't he exploits people, I think he just let's people tell their stories! If had them fighting or preaching to them like Maury, Jerry Springer or Dr.Phil it would be a different story.
Mark Laita introduces us to people on the fringe, people we may not have firsthand experiences of/with, and he does it with total integrity and compassion. Love his work so I certainly don’t think he exploits people. I also think his work is important and makes a difference. It can’t be easy for him and some of his videos are rather difficult to watch but you come away with,if a little shaken, at least a better understanding of people’s struggles.
Oh please get real
@@Booboonancy Of course he horribly exploited the Whitaker family. They do not have the ability to consent to an interview. He had to look hard to find them. All they want is to live in peace. They will be hounded forever now. Go to hell Mark!
If he makes money from it, then yes, it is exploitation.
@@avalondreaming1433 I dont think many people will hound them because its a somewhat remote location that is propably difficult to find and the neighbors look out for them.
Moreover he used the publicity to start a gofund me page for them. It generated like 32,000 dollars (he hoped for more but donations stopped). That money sure is going to help them.
Good to see you! Thank you for helping so many people even when you know you are being taken for a ride by many of them. Your interaction with the Whittaker family was memorable on so many levels. I love the sincerity of how you treat all people with kindness and compassion.
Mark you’re truly awesome! I love the stories about the Whittakers. I actually love ALL your stories. 😊
As someone who has AdHd I can listen to Mark forever.
His mind is so full of endless ideas and points.
He definitely has AdHd.
His philosophy is amazing.
agreed. same.
Bro yes, didnt even realize it till I read your comment but it really is so easy to listen to him
I’ve seen the interview with this family and it was so amazing/bizarre how the one man who only barked, you could tell exactly what he was trying to communicate.
His emotional description of his encounter with the family… 😭 he’s incredible
The life you have lived and the stories you have told are so amazing that you need to make a movie. Too completely convey all the lives you have touched. I’m amazed and awed.
I totally agree it would be amazing!
You can tell her had so much respect for the people he take photos of/filming them.
He knows where the boundaries are, he doesn't really exploit those people, there's a deeper purpose to that. So rare these days.
He actually has heart. He’s not exploiting them for profit. I can feel the genuineness in his voice. He actually made a connection with these people and helped them. Hats off to you sir. Please don’t let your genuine heart turn into a Jackass video.
He takes forever to make a point.
I agree. It's his jerky hesitant way of speaking. I don't think he can help it, but it can be frustrating to listen to. What already!?
@@rmonson5002 I think you should just listen and not just search for content. Listening Pays by Rick Bommelje would do wonders for you.
@@mixedviews3536 That's exactly what I am doing. I'm listening to his hesitant, jerky way of speaking. It has nothing to do with the content. He starts a sentence, stops in the middle and starts over. He can't seem to get to the end of his thoughts and he pauses for an exceedingly long time while he's speaking. It may not be distracting to you, but I find it hard to listen to and it appears that I am not alone. It's his speech pattern, it has nothing to do with content. But thanks for the recommendation.
@@rmonson5002 I agree with your comment.
@@rmonson5002 a lot of people were not taught to listen. You seem like the type to finish the sentences of people who stutter. /:
What Mark does is admirable and amazing. He tells the stories that need to be told. This what being pro-life means.
Well said!
In his mind, I guess.
WTF?
Mark Laita is wonderful in letting us know these people exist and could use help. He is so compassionate. The world need more people like him!❤
So many shy away from the ugly gritty side where there's nothing to monetize, there's no safety, there's nothing. These people are the true heart and soul of America the people society would rather not acknowledge.
Thanks for taking the time to work at their speed. I think the level of respect in your presentation is fantastic. I'm sure the family can understand motives and intentions even if they cannot verbalize that.
I do not understand your comment. I was just about to watch this but at the last second, I stopped. I couldn’t watch. It’s making me sick. I really mean sick. Nauseated. How in the world can incest be ok? Why do you think it’s ok? Are you in an incestuous relationship? I have news for you. It isn’t ok. Incest is a father doing it with his child. IN WHAT UNIVERSE IS THIS NOW THOUGHT OF AS FINE? And happy? So it’s ok if the father is happy, or the mother is ok watching? Or maybe if the mother is ok screwing her son? So this is all ok now? I’m not the sick one. I know right from wrong.
@@AdrienneMint we now live a depraved culture where moral relativism rules and absolute standards of truth are cursed..the truth is once sam3 s3x maariagez were aloud, the door was opened for for this sort of stuff...its only the beginning
@@lil18thletterking77 I didn’t open the door to this, I even refused to watch this video. There are reasons you shouldn’t inbreed. Look it up. See what people look like when born thru inbreeding. Deformed and mentally retarded is just a start. This is not ok.
@@AdrienneMint Children are helpless initially and depend on their parents for a decent genetic chance, as well as a good enough early childhood environment. Life is tough enough for kids who are healthy. To have deficits from the get go is totally selfish and uncaring of the parents. Anyone can reproduce without asking themselves what sort of life they can give their kids.
@@evelynwaugh4053 well of course I agree with you. That’s why I went on a rant last night. I even refused to watch the video about those disgusting people. I found it by accident here and was going to watch but became sick to my stomach. There is a reason not to inbreed. Birth defects, mental retardation, and more. I became even more nauseated by the sick comments everyone was making, along the lines of “ oh, it’s fine as long as they are happy”. Well, I have news for them, it’s not fine, it’s disgusting. And that’s how I feel.
You have done amazing work giving a voice to people that didn't have one. Thank you for giving such a human connection to people that most people overlook.
What a great job he's doing. Thank you so much for all the people he's introducing to the world who would otherwise be forgotten.
One thing on my bucket list is to shake Mark's hand one day. And tell him that he does incredible work. What a great guy.
That Whitaker Interview KILLED Me!!! It CHANGED Me, FOREVER!! If that doesn't move you, NOTHING WILL!!!
Yeah it was something else
PeaceFan1 how do you think it changed you? Just wondering 💭
Do you realize Ray's family member had just died? Ray was extremely upset! Without words to express himself Ray expressed his pain and misery by attacking the garbage can! He was very upset...angry with things he could not change...this loss was a heartbreak for him...with a loss of not being able to fix it...he expressed his feeling by kicking the garbage can! Ray is a sweetheart!
After watching this interview i now understand completely how Mark gets some of the what should be award winning interviews.This guys energy for what he does matches and meets the people who he talks to perfectly and seamlessly.How absolutely impressive
This year has been a learning experience on sooooo many levels thankyu Mark for the opportunity.❤️
I have watched quite a few of Marks videos. The people he interviews are almost always comfortable with him. I trust their assessment of him. People develop a "skill" with reading people and the energy inside of them when they live to tell the tale of childhoods that flat out should not happen.
I subscribed to Mark's channel and watched many of his videos. this man is amazing. The Appalachia Playlist is one of my favorites.I watched the videos of the Whitaker family.I dont know how he did it. He is genuinely full of love and compassion for these people. Most of all, there are just no words for his patience and non judgement. He took this family in a shopping spree to Walmart, did a fundraiser so they could fix up their house. I really don't know how he did it. My first visit would have been my last.i could not deal with it, the mess, the poop pants, and not being able to communicate with these people. But somehow, Mark found a way. He is a human angel
You have to watch his videos to understand. May God bless this man with whatever he needs. His videos not only help the people in them, but help countless who watch them in so many ways.
I’ll never forget the family he was talking about. I couldn’t believe my eyes or ears. Well maybe it was because I saw the actual interview stoned. It was magnified. In fact I saw them both. I love his style of interviews. The same questions I’m thinking about asking them like their age. Excellent work Mark.
There's a whole series somewhere online of them if you want to watch more.
@@kevinknight777 Would love the link…
I've actually learned alot from Marks videos,,,,,,and hopefully it teaches people to have compassion for all people.
Hey, I've watched just about all of Mark's vlogs. Mark, I would lay my life, is, AT LEAST, in the TOP 3 of the most COMPASSIONATE, HUMBLE, KIND, AND JUST GENUINELY NICEST GUYS on UA-cam today. And, personally, I've never, ever SEEN anyone AS kind, humble and compassionate as he!belly) is TRULY worth subscribing to, supporting, and watching. He has SO MANY interesting things on there, HOWEVER, it's NOT intended for children, so if you've never watched, don't sit down with your child for the very first time to watch. :)
Mark's channel (Soft White Under
Mark you’re absolutely a Blessing for the Suffering Souls on your Channel I hope the man that’s interviewing you Understand You and Learn Something Your Subscribers we Love and Respect You
That dude opened my eyes to something I thought didn’t exist anymore.
This is the first time I’ve seen your stories of the Whittakers and I’m so impressed. I love your empathy, compassion and your kindness.
Mark your work is amazing. You give a voice to the marginalized, and that gives them humanity and that's why we're touched...keep doing you brother. Just keep doing you...💕
Laughing at them gives them humanity? I'd love to hear more about that.
I struggle with the concept of exploitation. Him "shining a light" on this family's circumstances was not to assist or improve but to put on display. I don't think the intentions were malicious but the amusement is cringy.
I agree.
The thing that made me uncomfortable with this one subject family in particular, is consent or lack thereof. I do not believe that they were able informed consent to have this video go up for people's entertainment. Unlike all Mark's other interviewees, who he would have been honest with about the nature of the interview. That's why this one felt like he was doing it behind their back and it's the only one if his I don't like.
@@carolanddaryl922 EXACTLY!!!! Who in that house could have made an INFORMED decision about this!!! Shame on the people of ODD, WV for not protecting them from strangers with camera equipment!
I didn't find the interview cringeworthy or amusing, but instead learning about other people.
He paid them handsomely and bought them lunch. I would say that’s an improvement.
Mark's videos of the Whittakers are by far some of the most eye opening and genuine and KIND glimpses of life I've ever seen. He's incredibly kind and non patronizing and it's heartwarming how he lets them be themselves and communicate the way they do. Outstanding videos and they are a wonderful family. Oh, by the way and I know most people reading this already know, but he created a Go Fund Me page to help them out and it was successful. Mark is truly a giving and gifted person and they are a wonderfully sweet family.
The amount of respect he has for people is rare
He's talking about how the death of a family member for Whitakers inconvenienced him for taking pictures for his work..
@@ninebandedarmadillo9534 so how exactly did he not show respect to them?
@@ninebandedarmadillo9534 exactly what I though when I heard him say that... Are you really complaining that someone is mourning and it's inconvenient for you?!
@@magubi this dude gives me off vibes.
I saw that video and have admiration on the way that Mark handled the whole scene,, as always very nice,polite and courteous and very respectful. The ppl to me was not understandable as easy as he made it seem by his perfect and on time questions.
I personally love his work! I haven’t studied much into the Why? I was consumed by all walks of life and the journeys Mark has taken me along with! I don’t feel he’s exploiting anyone or passing judgment. I feel he’s sharing the real raw & uncut truths around the world! It’s not about bashing or hate he doesn’t discriminate whatsoever he’s open minded compassionate and loving 🥰 We all have a different opinion of someone but in this case the interviewee creates the content and what they choose to share with the world! I believe Mark was just the one to capture it behind the lens!! What a rabbit hole he’s gotten himself into Is what I find myself thinking about! How does Mark feel?
I believe you've figured Mark out, Nikki
Wait this is the guy who interviews everyone in skid row ?? Wow putting a face to the voice 🥰
That’s him!
Go to the main Concrete channel and watch the whole podcast, it's great. And BTW his channel is White Underbelly"
Soft white underbelly
Mark laita ❤️
Mark from soft white underbelly
I love this series and this family. I would hate to see a person actually going over there to bother them and make fun of them. That is so cruel. I love them and love how much you have helped them.
Mark has a very kind, loving and caring heart. I love his check in videos with the Whitakers and how he helps them in so many ways.
I really liked the way you presented this . I see families like this at a similar level as a travel nurse in very rural areas. It is done with class and respect as it is not these folks fault . There lives have been hard enough
Really enjoy this beautiful presentation of life which isn’t always pretty
Glad you do such work, travel safe and stay well.
Same here as a former home health nurse now retired.
Mark you're gonna blow up big & your channel is gonna do numbers brother! Keep up the awesome work!
He’s honestly already starting to blow up! He has like over a million subscribers!!
He will be a household name and do something big
Hes been blown up. I've been a subscriber of his for well over a year..and probably a bit longer. Trust n believe that Mark is doing a phenomenal job, with or without this 'interview'.
13 million+ views on the Whitaker family and 1 and a half million subscribers to his channel. He's been pulling big numbers for a long time now.
He was already a well-known, successful photograper with several best-selling books.
He takes a LONGGGGGG to make his point or get to a point. I hope he takes note from this interviewers that didn’t interrupt him every chance he got.
Shut up
He really does have a stilted way of talking. Watching him now I see what I only heard before in interviews. It's his own idiosyncratic way of speaking but it's a struggle to watch and listen to sometimes.
Its a podcast.
Isn't the point to talk?
Explain, go into detail, express emotions, views...
He’s trying to be respectful of the family. They are different from what most if not all of us know.
You clearly haven't seen his interviews on his channel
I just subbed bc of these interviews with Mark. They’re amazing. I absolutely think Mark is iconic, he’s true genius and exhibits the beauty of humanity, and he will be a legend. Meeting him would be a true gift.
I would love and support as I'm sure most of u other humans would, a nomination for an award for humanitarian acts for this man.
I'm positive he would qualify.
@@elizabethgondek603 Yes, I agree! Also, I would love to meet Mark in person, I think he’s beyond great!
I love his humanity and the way he doesn’t judge. He just observes.
I feel like they should make a biopic about this guy’s life.
I mean he has done 2k+ interviews with broken people. It would be so interesting to get his synopsis on life.
Hillbilly Elegy?
Im certain they will some day.
Have you seen that family!!! They need a documentary
@@jacobsjungle5676 ive seen enough to know that they would refuse. The documentary would probably be random townsfolks stories about the family. Only one of them speaks well enough to even relay information.
Nice to put a face with the voice. Thank you for who you are Mark 🖤
You never seen Mark?
I’m learning more about myself than I ever thought possible since subscribing to this channel two days ago. I consider this channel such a wonderful gift to humanity 💝
I think I proposed to Mark on one of his interviews. :) But seriously, I love this man. He is a true epitome of empathy.
Yes girl, he possesses emotion, empathy,understanding, compassion, love, concern and tenderness where its needed. It's hard to find a man with those qualities. I enjoy watching his channel so much.
I may have beat you to it 😂
You’re right - he’s respectful of people who have had difficult lives, never unkind.
I don't even know if it is empathy. I just think he might be the most unjudgemental person ever.
I'm proposing to him next lol but I do love him and his documentaries on The Appalachia . Especially Ruby almost 90 she's a firecracker if you get a chance to watch her on the series of Living in Appalachia
Soft White Underbelly. Artist, photographer, interviewer, philanthropist, author. An amazing man.
Thanks for being so nice to the Whitakers. It's nice to finally see your face. I hope they are doing well. Love Ray!
Soft White Underbelly is Mark's UA-cam channel.
Elaine Walls that's the name of blue oyster cult
so true