@@joshuataylor3550 Actually we don't have good numbers for what the actual suicide number is or what the actual de transition number is. The "studies" often quoted are small, poorly followed up, and only focus on the U.S. One study just notes when people don't respond to calls for follow up. It does not look into what happened to the don't respond category - such as death. The Cass Report. From the UK. Which is one of the more extensive and better researched suggests that for a good many children medical transition likely does not improve outcome. It is fascinating that trans people are telling you something isn't working well and you are arguing,
Joshua, there’s no way to track those numbers in any reliable way, because there are so many issues swimming around the affliction of gender dysphoria that it’s impossible to tell what causes what. Sure, there are people out there who spin numbers and use stats to shape a certain narrative, but the best we can tell is that there’s a correlation between gender dysphoria and mental illness and suicide. Causality is much more difficult to nail down.
@@joshuataylor3550 Even if the trans identifying community has a higher rate of suicide we do not know if that is from transitioning or not transitioning. The high suicide rate could be from other variables. There is a notably high rate of trans identified folks with high ACES scores. And the fast track to transition means most are not getting good therapy to make sure things like trauma are being addressed. Folks with high ACES (adverse childhood events) are statistically proven to have higher rates of early death, poverty, incarceration, and the list goes on. And once again, the Cass report shows that medical transition for young children does not really improve outcome. So no, it is not reasonable to say that disaffirming trans identity causes suicide.
@@joshuataylor3550 Statistically, the medical community's thumb may be on the scale. Lots of money to made, and the cost of occasional lawsuits is still an acceptable cost of doing business. This is changing all across Europe already. The truth is coming out.
Glory to Him Forever! 🙏 May you find comfort in our Blessed Theotokos. Beneath your compassion we take refuge, O Virgin Theotokos. Despise not our petitions in our time of need, but deliver us from dangers, for you alone are pure and blessed.
Praying for you. Just see yourself through the eyes of Jesus everytime you have doubts about your place in this world. Everything about your body is a gift. A gift you have to be grateful for and take care of, it's what we do after receiving a gift after all.
Jesus loves you, he called you by name. You are his. May the angels and archangels watch over you and remind you of his perfect love for you. Peace be upon you, in Jesus holy name
@@joshuataylor3550You are describing “gender”, which does exist, and which is the social and cultural elements related to sex. “Gender identity” is not a coherent concept though, and it should be rejected
Transitioned at 28. De-transitioning at 38. Stopped the medication three weeks ago. It feels really lonely. I don't think even my church, Episcopal, is going to be very supportive. I'm just trying to trust God and clean up my mess.
De-transitioning isnt easy and there is a lot of stigma attached to it. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going to. Things might look bleak now but God will see you through. Do find a church where people will support you as you take a stand for your truth. Praying for you ...for strength on your journey and hope to keep believing and joy to uplift you.
Fight the fight. God always fights for you. It is good to stop what is against God. It will not be easy, but it will make you great. Trust God, ask the Virgin Mary for her intercession.
Will be praying for you jnkelley42. Watch this episode of PWA. I'm sure they will refer people who are struggling with this issue to help groups. If not contact PWA and ask for referrals for help. Remember that everyone has their issues, it is a broken world. Take care. God Bless you!
Chloe Cole was one of the people who helped me realize at 18 why I wanted to transition and why it was so harmful. I'm grateful to her for sharing her story, especially the gruesome details. We share many of the same reasons that drove us to want to transition.
Former transgender here. My story is very similar to Chloe's, albeit I was a male "transitioning" to female. Rough childhood, unstable home, sexual abuse, minimal social life. I was also encouraged by doctors and mental health professionals to continue with the transition. I thank the Lord that He shielded me from the medical side of things and healing me of my gender dysphoria. I was Protestant for a few years, but am now fully received into the Catholic Church since Easter. God loves you, He will heal you and save from this darkness. Glory to the Triune God ❤✝️
@@ThunderingG it was honestly watching my love for a friend be corrupted and distorted and the lost of that friendship that convinced me I was doing something wrong.
I lived as a transman ages 14-28. I detransitioned a year ago. Medical complications made detransition extremely difficult, but I am endlessly grateful that I was healed in a very deep way and liberated from a disorder that makes your life absolute hell. For those of us who actually had this condition, transgenderism, it was the worst physical torture and I would not wish it on my worst enemies. It's absolutely delusional and CRUEL to try pushing people into this condition- which will either be totally artificial because they don't legitimately have transgenderism, or will be a deeper hell by entrenching them in a disorder that did not happen naturally.
I read your comment, but don't seem to fully understand your take on the issue now. Are you saying people should be able to transition at teenage years or not..or maybe never?
Chloe is so articulate in revealing how our current culture has created a perfect storm for gender dysphoria to arise. What a beautiful and brilliant person.
@joshuataylor3550 imagine if you showed compassion to anyone who disagrees with you. May God guide you out of your hate and bigotry. Yes, I've seen you've invested a whole lot of time in commenting negatively in most the comments here. Peace brother or sister, no one wishes you harm here but your well being in this world and that you reach salvation.
@@joshuataylor3550 You are such an angry, bitter, resentful person. And you're trying to spread your poison. It doesn't surprise me because everyone on the woke side seems to be like you. But what always surprises me is how Christians like @anaclararodas4833 choose to pray for you. No one would be positively influenced by your behaviour. But there's a high probability they'll be influenced and impacted by the bheaviour of the Christians here.
Gosh she’s really blossomed and is so beautiful and bright! I remember her very first interviews - she never smiled. She seemed to have a lot of heavy sadness and was perhaps tentative about putting her story out there back then that I really felt for her but she’s looking so positive and uplifted here - very happy for her journey and happy to see her laughing and smiling so wide!
She brought up all of the factors we should be talking about - history of abuse, broken families, autism, social media fixation, overconsumption of anime and manga. It's crazy how 99.9% of the time you'll find some form of this cocktail in transgender people. And of course P, especially with men.
@@slimynaut So long as you stay in the PG straight genre you're fine. But once you get into lgbt/R rated comics then that's a pit to hell. Unfortunately the pipe line to those things is high because the overconsumption leads to a person looking anywhere to find their fix.
@@sophiagomez5619yeah I suppose it’s like anything that is pleasurable, eventually the tame stuff isn’t stimulating enough so you end up going towards more and more depraved stuff
Chloe seems like such a sweet and kind young woman with such a big heart, which only makes her story even more tragic and sad. I'm so glad that she's speaking out about her experience and I really appreciate her boldness in doing so.
Great interview. Whatch the one with Chloe and Jordan Peterson too! That was such an interesting interview with her. Jordan's questions were from the stance of a clinical psychologist. Matt is doing a credible job too. Both interviews are so enlightening to average society to try and wrap our head around this topic which is so confusing to many of us.
I find that Matt listens genuinely even when he interrupts quite a bit, so to see him so non-interruptive throughout this whole interview, I wonder if that was difficult 😅 not a dig against Matt, I too have a really easy time interjecting in conversation quite a bit, yet still be genuinely listening, so to try not to do that as frequently takes effort on my part. What really impressed me, was how little Matt addressed her pronunciation of "transition" - Chloe, if you read this, you're awesome, and I hope this is read in a pleasant tone of voice - it throws me off when I hear you pronounce that word, lol.
So happy for her. She seems so much more vibrant and self-assured than in previous interviews. Hope she is healing spiritually, physically and emotionally. 🙏
I pray that this gets 10 million views. God bless her for telling her story and being so vulnerable. Please pray for every young woman who suffered what she did.
It's so sad and frustrating that Chloe was failed at every single stage of her adolescence. By her parents, peers, doctors, teachers, etc... God bless her.
From other interviews, her parents didn't really supported it, other than being told by the so-called professionals that she might kill herself so they have to 'support' her. So it feels a bit disingenuous for you to put blame on the parents as in the first place. There's also many other parents who suffer because their kids transition and they have no say in it, they're so bullied by the whole system.
That was very painful remembering the sexual vulnerability of being a young teen. I would definitely have transitioned if I'd been born in this era. Not just because I was a tomboy, desperate for the attention I saw my brother get, but as an escape from suddenly feeling like prey to men and boys. Probably the best interview of Chloe I've heard. God bless her and Matt for such a good interview ❤
Not just children but adults are susceptible to social media!! Chloe is captivating, and it's such a pleasure hearing her explain her her life. Matt is so kind and thoughtful. God bless!!
Hello from the rustic utopia of Montana 😎 Great episode. Awesome to see how much she's grown and gotten stronger since the Peterson episode. God bless her. 🤍
Matt, the pained expressions and your compassion shines thru. I have followed Chloe for a couple years and find her so compelling but today was the most gut wrenching interview I’ve listened too. Thank you for giving her the time and extending God love and grace!!
Praying for any person that is struggling with their identity. It is very hard. Thank you Chloe Chole my prayers for you and thank you Matt for this interview. We keep using our weapons, The Rosary, Amen! 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️🕊✝️ Love, love, love. 💕
Hello! Blessings! Please, I am profound prayers for my youngest daughter, she's 18 years of age and she struggles with the spirit of confusion! She had some things happen to her when she was a very young child and she's been having some battles with thinking it's ok to feel like a boy! I've had talks with her and I have her always in my prayers, etc. I beg God for Mercy upon and within her! And I ask mama Mary for her Great Intercesion for my youngest child. And the rest of my children of course. Please, pray for her conversion and forgiveness, physically and spiritually. Amen! Thank you! I pray for ya'll as well! Lord have mercy! Christ have mercy!
Hi, I'll pray. I know some one in a similar state, her father walked the Paris Chartres pilgrimage with me and gave away these prayer cards: "Holy Saint Joan, compassionate to the sick and wounded, who, while on earth, nurses so many back to health, hear me. Daughter of God, wounded many times in battle, who wished to see no one injured or in discomfort, I petition you for healing those who fell prey to transgenderism so that they can overcome - and live to fight against - this great evil. Help them to value their God given bodies. Help them and their families to unite in truth. Intercede for them. It may not be in God's will for their bodies to be healed, for their suffering may help another or their own soul. If my request for physical recovery is not granted, let them be healed emotionally and spiritually THAT THEIR MARK OF SHAME MAY HEAL AS WOUNDS OF WAR IN THIS BATTLE FOR GODS KINGDOM. AMEN ... ST JOAN OF ARC, PRAY FOR US (ORA PRO NOBIS)...
Matt, thank you for having Chloe on. As a new father of a baby girl, I can't say any PWA episode has made me more angry than this one. I'm angry that our society has allowed this to become the norm, and I now have to worry about my daughter growing up to be poisoned by this ideology. The doctors who push these medical interventions on kids and their parents deserve to have their medical licenses revoked and be put in prison. It's child abuse of the worst kind, and is a direct violation of their vow to "do no harm."
There was something really touching how she spoke of fearing womanhood based on the very real traumatic experiences that her fellow female friends went through and general social discourse It reminds me to be careful with my words, and world outlook Not to hide from the truth or just to be overly optimistic but to be sober minded. And to remind myself that even without meeting the social standards that God has a plan for me and that I was wonderfully made
Powerful interview. Such trauma. Parents, adults, wake up and act like Adults, not friends, protect our children. Great final outcome. God bless her. Matt, you are soo compassionate!
@@joshuataylor3550 we are praying for you Joshua! Thank you for caring so much about all of our comments. May the Sacred heart of Jesus become known to you and touch your heart
@@joshuataylor3550um... No. The patriarchy, in it's Christian form, is a great thing. Through Christianity women have gained rights. The poor have gained rights. Ms. Cole has grown and seen how great God's gift to her was.
It's got to the point that I wasn't aware a person could actually object to trans culture without being called hateful. A friend of my son was told to leave the classroom a few years back because he maintained that men could not have babies and that it wouldn't be in his interest as a future parent to date a transwoman.
It sad that happened to that boy for speaking the truth. May he do so in love continually. Where do you live? It not the same throughout the world much less in the US. Many areas in the US are still standing well against the lgbtetc movement. It seems to me the political left and some on the right would love for people not to know this is the case. I do not know why but a large part of the wealthier areas plus many colleges and universities have fully embraced this in the US. There are people unfortunately in some areas that may go too far the other way and hate them which would be equally as wrong as embrace it. There are many locations out of the West that are still well opposed to these ideas, often too far potentially. There are many typical allies of the West who over this issue and over West's rejection of fossil fuels are starting to look more favorably towards the China and Russia bloc.
This young woman is so brave and intelligent. I hope she receives justice for what was done to her. Matt is also very admirable. He showcased true Christian compassion. ❤
I just burst into tears when Chloe started talking about how she entered menopause at 13. I’m a grown woman struggling with premature menopause and I have been in agony. I feel like I don’t live any more I just manage my symptoms. But I’m an adult and I understand what is happening- if this was happening to me at 13…. I’m not sure I’d make it.
Currently listening to this on Spotify. Loving it so far! I was also a tomboy growing up (still am honestly) who played tons of sports and worked out, was on Xbox Live every second day, mostly had male friends and had no interest in makeup or pink, which I still don't really care for. I'm so happy I grew up with my Catholic parents who believe in two genders and that this "trans kid" nonsense didn't exist when I was young. Now, despite being a tomboy, I would love to get married and have kids real soon. Thank God He made me a woman, even if I don't feel like the stereotypical one sometimes. God bless you both!
Matt this was one of your best interviews .. u were so so kind , loving and such a wonderful interviewer . Chloe … is truly a martyr for this cause .. she’s blown me away with her courage and strength .. keeping you both in big fat prayers from Ireland 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️💕💓
This was such a heavy testimony. Looking from the outside in to those that are transitioning it’s so easy to call them crazy, that we forget that these are individual human beings going through hell and trying to find a solution which is transgenderism. I cried many times listening to Chole, many times I wanted to be able to give her a hug, she was just a child when all of this happened to her. I also felt so frustrated to all the adults who took advantage of her and her parents, her classmates and the media. I definitely want to pray for all those that suffer through this and especially for Chole, that our Lord continues to heal her and help her as she speaks for justice. Thank you for sharing with us Chole. And Matt, you are an incredible host and listener.
I wish all the best for you Chloe! So glad to see your smile on this side of your journey. Matt, you have a such genuine look of care, love, and empathy throughout the interview.
Thank you, I just subscribed to her channel. Please pray for my family, I have a sister who is currently transitioning and asking us to call her something different. (She turns 30 this year so she can do whatever she wants, I guess) It’s difficult because I am significantly older than her and remember the pregnancy, Mom and Dad letting my brother and I help with the name, and I changed a few diapers. I love the girl and worry about her. I don’t know how to talk to her anymore because she struggles with the faith now. Please pray for.
My younger brother is gay. Not quite the same, but there's certain similarities. Let her know you love her however she'll let you. My brother and I know there are certain things we will never see eye to eye on, but he also knows he can call me when he's sick or needs help and I'll be there. We try to talk about things that we share in common, and leave the rest. If there's interests/hobbies outside of her "rainbow" status, share things with her about them. Text her "thinking of you" with no strings attached. Hope some of this helps. Courage has a family support group (think of it as LBGTQ Al-Anon) that might be helpful too. I'm part of their Slack group.
My husband hit puberty a bit earlier than his peers and he had a hard time being so much bigger than everyone (he was 6' in middle school...6'3 now). His mom had to bring his birth certificate to his games because coaches on the other team would insist he was older and cheating. Our son will be 1 in a few weeks and he's off the charts in height and weight (about to grow out of 18 mo clothes). We go to the park and he still doesn't walk so he's crawling around, cruising, etc visibly bigger than many of the toddlers running around. I remember at church so many people commenting how well behaved he was at like 3/4 months old in the baby carrier then my mom was like they probably think he's 6/8 months old. I think it's hard to be different regardless but feel for Chloe who didn't have the support needed. I tell my son daily he is a precious child of God and as he was made in His Image he's perfect as he is.
Can't believe she didn't cry once in the interview. What an authentic witness to the evil of child mutilation when you hear the false hopes and dreams she had.
God Bless you both, Matt and Chloe! What a powerful testimony on the first day of the Month of the Sacred Heart! For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world 🙏🏻
Thank you for letting this lady tell her story. No interruptions. It is so raw and important. Praying for this lady and all those struggling in this ideology. ❤
Unrelated, Mr. Fradd, but you have been a great help to my conversion. I thank you dearly. I keep you in my prayers. May Our Lady cease never to pray for us! God bless you, your marriage and your family.
I am from Africa I can not comprehend how deep was her pain but there is no any advocate of justice for a kid like this. It is injustice that happen to a 15 years old girl or minor . This crime is more than rape and murder. Pls bring this kind of crime to justice.
I understand the anger wholeheartedly- I used to think I was trans as well. For clarity, I am still pro-trans, but I just happened to lean into a state where I do not think transition is a necessity for me. However, attempting to criminalize transition will only make it worse. The upcoming generation is more pro-trans, and will only be enraged by the fact that you are denying people what is, in their eyes, a medical necessity. Obviously no one is gonna want peoppe to be denied medically necessary procedures, and since they do have an argument for that (regardless of how well it holds), their anger is going to very easily turn into pro-trans legislation, and if you go too far, legislation against anti-trans ideals as well (such as further hate speech laws). Tldr; be very careful on how you approach trying to get rid of transitioning.
Porn is a huge factor in the trans movement as well. A lot of men who get involved with it are influenced by porn. Cutting porn out of my life made the remains of my gender dysphoria disappear
@@joshuataylor3550 As someone who is detransitioning it is helpful to know there are others out there. I don't care what day it is on. And the LGBTQ community that supported me when I transitioned? Now acts like I am a villain. I guess the support was upon the condition that I act in an "approved" way.
@@jnkelley42 you're doing something really, really hard, and others can see that. I'm sorry you don't have the in-person support you deserve, but you aren't alone. ❤
So.. I’m ex trans… I lived 2 years as a woman and was on hormones… I realized I made a horrible mistake. I ruined my body… I ruined relationships with friends and family… I’m now looking into suing my former doctor… since re embracing my manhood I embraced being an Orthodox Jew and I couldn’t be happier.
I'm replying so you know that someone is praying for you and your healing. If you don't know already there's a detrans subreddit you can ask for advice and help. I hope you grow close to God and remember his love for you. Cheers! :D
❤Thank you Professor Matt Fradd! You are by far my favorite interviewer! Your compassion and empathy are palpable. Your line of questioning flows with profound goodwill never having to avoid the most difficult and relevant aspects of the subject on the table. BTW, you were utterly amazing in your interview of J Peterson; it appeared extremely difficult yet you emanated grace and chose not to dominate but rather facilitated and drew out ideas to examine. Your skills to achieve the highest value in an interview are nothing less than stellar! Today, May God bless beautiful Cloe Cole! She offers very helpful insights into a wide range of issues related to the main subject. Telling bravely her personal story, she sheds light on the horror that gender dysphoria causes the sufferer only to be exacerbated by doctors and their fast moving proces. Their methods lead a patient into so called "therapies" which often change a child's life permanently--and not for the best. Children seem to be treated as the new lab rat without any humanity applied to the real struggle they are facing clinically and personally. This was the best and most informative interview of this young lady to date. Thank you! ❤
God bless. The devil is the father of lies, and I too fell for the transgender trick before I was saved by good friends and the love of Jesus Christ. Never be afraid to speak out against this evil.
The strength and hope she demonstrates in recounting her struggle are profound. I admire her a great deal for shedding light on her experiences. I pray that she blesses many with her insights and helps to turn the tide against the evil perpetrated on so many children. I am so grateful for this interview.
Wow just a few minutes in and I never thought that the "Kardashian effect" would have that impact on a young girl...I am about ten years older than Chloe and grew up hating my curvy body because the Kate Mosses of the world ruled the media at the time...I never would have thought that seeing a Kardashian figure as trendy in media would make other women feel like they don't measure up somehow. If she had grown up in my era she would have felt so differently about herself, and vice versa for me. Constant attacks on the female body in all its shapes and forms. Truly the devil hates us. Look forward to hearing the rest!!
Good point. I was homeschooled and my parents couldn't afford wifi or phones. We had dial-up while the rest of the world had wifi😂 But I was completely, unintentionally maybe, shielded from all this. My mom always used to emphasize that I am beautifully and wonderfully made. It wasn't until I was older and started seeing things out in the world and I had to get wifi for college that I started feeling bad about my body and figure. I'm very small and have a small chest. Everything is just small on me. So no elegant curves or figure for me lol. I just kept circling back to, "I am fearfully and wonderfully made."
@@mistybrass3719 I think it’s so important that your mother especially enforced that you are beautiful in her eyes and in God’s eyes. My experience was that my mom reinforced the media’s scrutiny of my body and she constantly wanted me to lose weight. The underlying message was that I wasn’t good enough as I was. I’m so glad to hear you were shielded from a lot of it!!
That's a really important story, testimony about detransitioning and not doing the game of puberty blockers & all this presumptive stuff, whilst such people suffer a lot inside.
Thank you for this talk. May God bless you and guide you Chloe. Thank God for you persevering over your hardships and adversity and may God bless you for choosing to help others through that. I will keep you in my prayers.
I think she is a Brave person to be as Honest with herself And the Public. To let people in and admit that she had misunderstandings and made mistakes---Like we All do in so many ways.
This was one of the hardest... but most important... interviews to watch. My heart broke so many times for Chloe, as she shared her painful journey & I just wanted to reach out and give her the biggest hug ever! She is such a beautiful woman & God has blessed her with an amazingly powerful spirit! Do not ever stop telling your story, Chloe & may God continue to Bless you!! Thank you, Matt & Chloe for having the courage to share this witness & testimony ❤🙏
Chloe, you are such an amazing, courage woman!! Thank you for all you are doing to save lives. Blessings and healing to you and all those struggling with gender disphoria
@@rosecorcoran Agreed! I cried when I first learned about Billboard Chris. He's a modern-day knight. Chloe is pretty special too. She is so calm in the face of all that has happened to her.
I had a friend of mine at university and we would talk on this issue 247 bc not only do I struggle with this very deeply but she always told me you might become a saint for this issue now that a stretch of a statement but my goal as someone who was born and raised catholic with struggling with this it is extremely hard to get rid of this the numerous of priest I talked to they all said the same thing it won't leave me I gotta deal with ext which is odd bc I talked to friars I talked to regular church priest ext and they all said the same thing for some reason
As usual, a thoughtful and respectful interview. Chloe, I wish you so much happiness and continued healing. I hope that this journey of advocacy you have undertaken with integrity and raw honesty helps both you and young lives make life affirming choices.
Chloe is honest enough to admit she made a huge mistake. Will it cut through all the hype and BS? Her parents aren't totally to blame. They were out of their depth. Chloe had too many different therapists who lost the thread of her feedback, the psychological profile that she was trying to present to them. The therapists weren't successful in unravelling Chloe's self deception. The therapists, her family and doctors were too eager to "please" Chloe, to support the false narrative from all quarters: media, LGBTQ community, school, peer group, medical profession. Difficult to resist that onslaught.
Thank you so much, Chloe, for sharing your story. Not many people can fully understand the courage it takes. I am so sorry for what you were put through and made to live with, and I wish you all the best things in life!
I am so happy at how blessed you have been through such an immense struggle. You learned the hard way, I’m weeping for your younger self, blockers…immediate menopause, some 50 year old women with life experience can barely get through it alive, it is a thing. I had breast cancer with surgery, a double mastectomy at that age, I cannot even…you are amazing!!!! God bless you with strength, courage and perseverance.
Chloe Cole is such an awesome person - to go through this and be confident enough to talk about it openly, and with a smile on her face. Hope we get to see her continue into this next phase of her life knowing that she has the support of millions.
This interview is such a gift ! Thank you Chloe thank you Matt! I have a transgender child and this interview is so helpful to try to understand what is happening! God Bless you both! ❤🙏🏽
5:42 why a parent would talk about this in the car with other siblings around when she was only 9? Children deserve privacy and alone time with their parents to talk about puberty, changing bodies, wo/manhood, etc. It's (imo) similar to sharing small things a child told you in secret at family gatherings for some laughs - especially if the child is also present
IDK, my mom talked to all of us--brothers and sisters--about periods and ovulation pain. And even, to some extent, sympto-thermal NFP (the symptom being vaginal mucus). It was just something women's bodies go through, and thus natural and not something feel weird about. It may depend on the family, though.
@@rosecorcoran It might also be different with the direction of the conversation. I think it's good to talk about ovulation and menstruation and all the other cycle related stuff in more general terms (woman have a period, have breasts, etc.), but it sounds really awkward, at the least, to direct the conversation toward a specific daughter with other siblings around (YOU'RE going to have a period, YOUR breasts are coming in and it will feel x, y, or z). I never went through that, but I just imagine that speaking generally is good in a more general audience, but speaking particularly about one child should be done with just that one child
I really feel for Chloe's parents. I had a trans friend in high school, and their mom was at a loss and she just wanted to love her kid. She was firm that even with a social transition, my friend wouldn't have surgery before 18. Even though my friend eventually had surgery, I'm so glad that their mom did what she could as long as she could to protect her kid from a situation like this. My friend's mom never wanted to have her kid go through this struggle, but she would do anything for her kid.
Tragic story of our day. Breaks my heart over and over. Every time they pan to you Matt, I am so daunted by your expression of sorrow. Dear Lord help us all.
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@@joshuataylor3550 Actually we don't have good numbers for what the actual suicide number is or what the actual de transition number is. The "studies" often quoted are small, poorly followed up, and only focus on the U.S. One study just notes when people don't respond to calls for follow up. It does not look into what happened to the don't respond category - such as death. The Cass Report. From the UK. Which is one of the more extensive and better researched suggests that for a good many children medical transition likely does not improve outcome. It is fascinating that trans people are telling you something isn't working well and you are arguing,
Joshua, there’s no way to track those numbers in any reliable way, because there are so many issues swimming around the affliction of gender dysphoria that it’s impossible to tell what causes what. Sure, there are people out there who spin numbers and use stats to shape a certain narrative, but the best we can tell is that there’s a correlation between gender dysphoria and mental illness and suicide. Causality is much more difficult to nail down.
@@joshuataylor3550 Even if the trans identifying community has a higher rate of suicide we do not know if that is from transitioning or not transitioning. The high suicide rate could be from other variables. There is a notably high rate of trans identified folks with high ACES scores. And the fast track to transition means most are not getting good therapy to make sure things like trauma are being addressed. Folks with high ACES (adverse childhood events) are statistically proven to have higher rates of early death, poverty, incarceration, and the list goes on. And once again, the Cass report shows that medical transition for young children does not really improve outcome. So no, it is not reasonable to say that disaffirming trans identity causes suicide.
@@joshuataylor3550 Statistically, the medical community's thumb may be on the scale. Lots of money to made, and the cost of occasional lawsuits is still an acceptable cost of doing business. This is changing all across Europe already. The truth is coming out.
@@sharondelaney8572life long patient if you will. 🫠
Eastern Orthodox ex transgender person here, if anyone wants to pray for me that would be great. It’s been really tough lately. Glory to Jesus Christ!
Glory to Him Forever! 🙏
May you find comfort in our Blessed Theotokos.
Beneath your compassion we take refuge, O Virgin Theotokos. Despise not our petitions in our time of need, but deliver us from dangers, for you alone are pure and blessed.
To this beloved child of yours Lord, may the saints and angels and the blessed mother intercede.
Praying for you. Just see yourself through the eyes of Jesus everytime you have doubts about your place in this world. Everything about your body is a gift. A gift you have to be grateful for and take care of, it's what we do after receiving a gift after all.
Jesus loves you, he called you by name. You are his. May the angels and archangels watch over you and remind you of his perfect love for you. Peace be upon you, in Jesus holy name
I will pray for you. Blessings! ♥️
If you’re someone who struggles with your sexual identity. We love you, and we’re so glad you’re here!
@@joshuataylor3550there is no such thing as gender. Sex is the right term.
But you celebrate the word f*ggotry… maybe one day you’ll figure out basic messaging😂
Thanks. Still afraid to go to mass tho. I’d probably sit near the back by the doors. I’ve been watching mass on the Shrine of Divine Mercy page.
@@joshuataylor3550 Then why do trans people feel the urge to change their sexual characteristics?
@@joshuataylor3550You are describing “gender”, which does exist, and which is the social and cultural elements related to sex.
“Gender identity” is not a coherent concept though, and it should be rejected
Transitioned at 28. De-transitioning at 38. Stopped the medication three weeks ago. It feels really lonely. I don't think even my church, Episcopal, is going to be very supportive. I'm just trying to trust God and clean up my mess.
Prayers for you. That must be so difficult. You are loved.
De-transitioning isnt easy and there is a lot of stigma attached to it. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going to. Things might look bleak now but God will see you through. Do find a church where people will support you as you take a stand for your truth. Praying for you ...for strength on your journey and hope to keep believing and joy to uplift you.
Fight the fight. God always fights for you. It is good to stop what is against God. It will not be easy, but it will make you great. Trust God, ask the Virgin Mary for her intercession.
Will be praying for you jnkelley42. Watch this episode of PWA. I'm sure they will refer people who are struggling with this issue to help groups. If not contact PWA and ask for referrals for help. Remember that everyone has their issues, it is a broken world. Take care. God Bless you!
Best advice - get away from the Episcopal church, shop a Catholic parish. God Bless✌️
I love it when she says she realized, “”There’s nothing I could ever be but a woman. And it’s not easy. But it’s not about easy. It’s a gift.”
That brought tears to my eyes! So much truth and wisdom in those words.
🥹, great to hear those words. It’s not easy to accept but it’s true from a guy that had gender dysphoria.
@@loganw1232 same
You can never be anything but the child of God He created you to be, and His love is unchanging and never-ending. May God bless you, Chloe.
AMEN!
Happy Sacred Heart of Jesus month everyone ❤
Amen🙏
Reclaim the Month 🔥❤️🔥🔥
There is no one else like Jesus.
I've started to pray the prayer to His shoulder wound.
❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sacred heart of Jesus, I trust in you ❤
Chloe Cole was one of the people who helped me realize at 18 why I wanted to transition and why it was so harmful. I'm grateful to her for sharing her story, especially the gruesome details. We share many of the same reasons that drove us to want to transition.
You mean "when*"
@@Lerian_VI do mean “why.” She helped me realize why I wanted to transition, because it was for the same reason she did.
@@henry2912 Oh ok. Thank God you didn't.
Former transgender here. My story is very similar to Chloe's, albeit I was a male "transitioning" to female. Rough childhood, unstable home, sexual abuse, minimal social life. I was also encouraged by doctors and mental health professionals to continue with the transition. I thank the Lord that He shielded me from the medical side of things and healing me of my gender dysphoria. I was Protestant for a few years, but am now fully received into the Catholic Church since Easter. God loves you, He will heal you and save from this darkness. Glory to the Triune God ❤✝️
Glad you are here. May the Lord bless you and keep you 🙏
Welcome home, glory to God for the healing in you life, I pray it continues 🙏🏻
Based! God bless.
Welcome home you have my prayers and I am a new convert as well
God bless you. You give me hope. Please pray for my daughter.
As a former lgbt community member myself, I'm so proud that we are rallying together to support each other in this month. Prayers for Chloe Cole!!!
What were some things which convinced you that you needed to change if you don’t mind me asking?
@@ThunderingG it was honestly watching my love for a friend be corrupted and distorted and the lost of that friendship that convinced me I was doing something wrong.
God bless you for speaking out, for the bravery to go back.
@@joshuataylor3550Not according to them. Doesn't that count for anything?
Praise God :) Praying for you, God bless!
I lived as a transman ages 14-28. I detransitioned a year ago. Medical complications made detransition extremely difficult, but I am endlessly grateful that I was healed in a very deep way and liberated from a disorder that makes your life absolute hell. For those of us who actually had this condition, transgenderism, it was the worst physical torture and I would not wish it on my worst enemies. It's absolutely delusional and CRUEL to try pushing people into this condition- which will either be totally artificial because they don't legitimately have transgenderism, or will be a deeper hell by entrenching them in a disorder that did not happen naturally.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that.. hope you heal and gain your life back
God bless you.
I read your comment, but don't seem to fully understand your take on the issue now. Are you saying people should be able to transition at teenage years or not..or maybe never?
Thank you for sharing…I pray more & more ppl speak out for the children’s sake
Chloe is so articulate in revealing how our current culture has created a perfect storm for gender dysphoria to arise. What a beautiful and brilliant person.
Matt is always a great interviewer, but he especially shines with compassion and wisdom in this conversation. I appreciate his openness and humility.
@@joshuataylor355063 comments on this channel and you're probably not even subscribed
@joshuataylor3550 imagine if you showed compassion to anyone who disagrees with you. May God guide you out of your hate and bigotry. Yes, I've seen you've invested a whole lot of time in commenting negatively in most the comments here. Peace brother or sister, no one wishes you harm here but your well being in this world and that you reach salvation.
@@joshuataylor3550 You are such an angry, bitter, resentful person. And you're trying to spread your poison. It doesn't surprise me because everyone on the woke side seems to be like you. But what always surprises me is how Christians like @anaclararodas4833 choose to pray for you. No one would be positively influenced by your behaviour. But there's a high probability they'll be influenced and impacted by the bheaviour of the Christians here.
@@joshuataylor3550I think he seems extremely compassionate towards people who identify as trans.
Chloe’s courage in the face of the Trans-activists backlash and vilification is truly astounding. What a woman 💪🏻🩷
Gosh she’s really blossomed and is so beautiful and bright! I remember her very first interviews - she never smiled. She seemed to have a lot of heavy sadness and was perhaps tentative about putting her story out there back then that I really felt for her but she’s looking so positive and uplifted here - very happy for her journey and happy to see her laughing and smiling so wide!
She brought up all of the factors we should be talking about - history of abuse, broken families, autism, social media fixation, overconsumption of anime and manga. It's crazy how 99.9% of the time you'll find some form of this cocktail in transgender people. And of course P, especially with men.
Hey dont bring the korean cartoons into it
@@slimynaut So long as you stay in the PG straight genre you're fine. But once you get into lgbt/R rated comics then that's a pit to hell. Unfortunately the pipe line to those things is high because the overconsumption leads to a person looking anywhere to find their fix.
@@sophiagomez5619yeah I suppose it’s like anything that is pleasurable, eventually the tame stuff isn’t stimulating enough so you end up going towards more and more depraved stuff
This is the best evidence to ban phones from kids.
Thank you Chloe. May God continue to heal you and bless your mission. 🙏
Chloe seems like such a sweet and kind young woman with such a big heart, which only makes her story even more tragic and sad. I'm so glad that she's speaking out about her experience and I really appreciate her boldness in doing so.
Chloe is beautiful, brave person. Thank you for talking about this. Props to Matt for listening compassionately and respectively, as always.
Matt gets huge props for having her on and tackling a very difficult but important topic
This is possibly my third time seeing her speak and I love it everytime.
Great interview. Whatch the one with Chloe and Jordan Peterson too! That was such an interesting interview with her. Jordan's questions were from the stance of a clinical psychologist. Matt is doing a credible job too. Both interviews are so enlightening to average society to try and wrap our head around this topic which is so confusing to many of us.
I find that Matt listens genuinely even when he interrupts quite a bit, so to see him so non-interruptive throughout this whole interview, I wonder if that was difficult 😅 not a dig against Matt, I too have a really easy time interjecting in conversation quite a bit, yet still be genuinely listening, so to try not to do that as frequently takes effort on my part.
What really impressed me, was how little Matt addressed her pronunciation of "transition" - Chloe, if you read this, you're awesome, and I hope this is read in a pleasant tone of voice - it throws me off when I hear you pronounce that word, lol.
Prayers for anyone struggling with their identity. May God heal them 🙏🏽
@@joshuataylor3550he didn’t. 🙏
@@joshuataylor3550he didn’t 🙏
@@joshuataylor3550 🙃
@JustinaSadikova Or we were made by a doofus god.
@@joshuataylor3550 So that we could see what evil incarnate looks like. And then turn to God.
So happy for her. She seems so much more vibrant and self-assured than in previous interviews. Hope she is healing spiritually, physically and emotionally. 🙏
I pray that this gets 10 million views. God bless her for telling her story and being so vulnerable. Please pray for every young woman who suffered what she did.
It's so sad and frustrating that Chloe was failed at every single stage of her adolescence. By her parents, peers, doctors, teachers, etc... God bless her.
From other interviews, her parents didn't really supported it, other than being told by the so-called professionals that she might kill herself so they have to 'support' her. So it feels a bit disingenuous for you to put blame on the parents as in the first place. There's also many other parents who suffer because their kids transition and they have no say in it, they're so bullied by the whole system.
@@joshuataylor3550Do
You know the difference between Active Will and Permissive Will?
Tragic
@@joshuataylor3550could you please enlighten me? I genuinely would like to know
That was very painful remembering the sexual vulnerability of being a young teen. I would definitely have transitioned if I'd been born in this era. Not just because I was a tomboy, desperate for the attention I saw my brother get, but as an escape from suddenly feeling like prey to men and boys. Probably the best interview of Chloe I've heard. God bless her and Matt for such a good interview ❤
Not just children but adults are susceptible to social media!! Chloe is captivating, and it's such a pleasure hearing her explain her her life. Matt is so kind and thoughtful. God bless!!
Beautifully conducted interview. So sensitively and delicately handled Matt 10/10
Hello from the rustic utopia of Montana 😎
Great episode. Awesome to see how much she's grown and gotten stronger since the Peterson episode. God bless her. 🤍
Matt, the pained expressions and your compassion shines thru. I have followed Chloe for a couple years and find her so compelling but today was the most gut wrenching interview I’ve listened too. Thank you for giving her the time and extending God love and grace!!
Love her, “thank you sir” at the end. What a lovely young lady. Prayers for her as she continues speaking out!
Chloe seems really relaxed at this interview. Good job Matt!
Praying for any person that is struggling with their identity. It is very hard. Thank you Chloe Chole my prayers for you and thank you Matt for this interview. We keep using our weapons, The Rosary, Amen! 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️🕊✝️ Love, love, love. 💕
She seems so much happier now - God Bless you Chloe and thank you for your courage in speaking out!! ❤️ and cheers Matt for this interview!
Hello! Blessings! Please, I am profound prayers for my youngest daughter, she's 18 years of age and she struggles with the spirit of confusion! She had some things happen to her when she was a very young child and she's been having some battles with thinking it's ok to feel like a boy! I've had talks with her and I have her always in my prayers, etc. I beg God for Mercy upon and within her! And I ask mama Mary for her Great Intercesion for my youngest child. And the rest of my children of course.
Please, pray for her conversion and forgiveness, physically and spiritually. Amen! Thank you! I pray for ya'll as well!
Lord have mercy! Christ have mercy!
Hi, I'll pray. I know some one in a similar state, her father walked the Paris Chartres pilgrimage with me and gave away these prayer cards:
"Holy Saint Joan, compassionate to the sick and wounded, who, while on earth, nurses so many back to health,
hear me.
Daughter of God, wounded many times in battle, who wished to see no one injured or in discomfort, I petition you for healing those who fell prey to transgenderism
so that they can overcome - and live to fight against - this great evil. Help them to value their God given bodies.
Help them and their families to unite in truth.
Intercede for them.
It may not be in God's will for their bodies to be healed, for their suffering may help another or their own soul.
If my request for physical recovery is not granted, let them be healed emotionally and spiritually
THAT THEIR MARK OF SHAME MAY HEAL AS WOUNDS OF WAR IN THIS BATTLE FOR GODS KINGDOM. AMEN
... ST JOAN OF ARC, PRAY FOR US (ORA PRO NOBIS)...
Matt, thank you for having Chloe on. As a new father of a baby girl, I can't say any PWA episode has made me more angry than this one. I'm angry that our society has allowed this to become the norm, and I now have to worry about my daughter growing up to be poisoned by this ideology. The doctors who push these medical interventions on kids and their parents deserve to have their medical licenses revoked and be put in prison. It's child abuse of the worst kind, and is a direct violation of their vow to "do no harm."
There was something really touching how she spoke of fearing womanhood based on the very real traumatic experiences that her fellow female friends went through and general social discourse
It reminds me to be careful with my words, and world outlook
Not to hide from the truth or just to be overly optimistic but to be sober minded. And to remind myself that even without meeting the social standards that God has a plan for me and that I was wonderfully made
Powerful interview.
Such trauma.
Parents, adults, wake up and act like Adults, not friends, protect our children.
Great final outcome.
God bless her.
Matt, you are soo compassionate!
Reclaim the Month! 🔥❤️🔥🔥
@@joshuataylor3550 we are praying for you Joshua! Thank you for caring so much about all of our comments. May the Sacred heart of Jesus become known to you and touch your heart
@@joshuataylor3550🤏🏻🍆 happy jesus life to you. 🥰🥰🥰
@@jeffreyl1354you have so much more charity than I do ;-;
Please pray for me too...
This is an important message. ❤ Thank you both.
@@joshuataylor3550um... No. The patriarchy, in it's Christian form, is a great thing. Through Christianity women have gained rights. The poor have gained rights. Ms. Cole has grown and seen how great God's gift to her was.
@@joshuataylor3550how can you be a victim of something that's objectively good?
It's got to the point that I wasn't aware a person could actually object to trans culture without being called hateful. A friend of my son was told to leave the classroom a few years back because he maintained that men could not have babies and that it wouldn't be in his interest as a future parent to date a transwoman.
Based
Hope he never returned to that school!!
It sad that happened to that boy for speaking the truth. May he do so in love continually.
Where do you live? It not the same throughout the world much less in the US. Many areas in the US are still standing well against the lgbtetc movement. It seems to me the political left and some on the right would love for people not to know this is the case. I do not know why but a large part of the wealthier areas plus many colleges and universities have fully embraced this in the US. There are people unfortunately in some areas that may go too far the other way and hate them which would be equally as wrong as embrace it. There are many locations out of the West that are still well opposed to these ideas, often too far potentially. There are many typical allies of the West who over this issue and over West's rejection of fossil fuels are starting to look more favorably towards the China and Russia bloc.
This young woman is so brave and intelligent. I hope she receives justice for what was done to her. Matt is also very admirable. He showcased true Christian compassion. ❤
I just burst into tears when Chloe started talking about how she entered menopause at 13. I’m a grown woman struggling with premature menopause and I have been in agony. I feel like I don’t live any more I just manage my symptoms. But I’m an adult and I understand what is happening- if this was happening to me at 13…. I’m not sure I’d make it.
try the carnivore diet, high fat. It heals hormone imbalances.
Currently listening to this on Spotify. Loving it so far! I was also a tomboy growing up (still am honestly) who played tons of sports and worked out, was on Xbox Live every second day, mostly had male friends and had no interest in makeup or pink, which I still don't really care for. I'm so happy I grew up with my Catholic parents who believe in two genders and that this "trans kid" nonsense didn't exist when I was young. Now, despite being a tomboy, I would love to get married and have kids real soon. Thank God He made me a woman, even if I don't feel like the stereotypical one sometimes. God bless you both!
Matt this was one of your best interviews .. u were so so kind , loving and such a wonderful interviewer . Chloe … is truly a martyr for this cause .. she’s blown me away with her courage and strength .. keeping you both in big fat prayers from Ireland 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️💕💓
This was such a heavy testimony. Looking from the outside in to those that are transitioning it’s so easy to call them crazy, that we forget that these are individual human beings going through hell and trying to find a solution which is transgenderism. I cried many times listening to Chole, many times I wanted to be able to give her a hug, she was just a child when all of this happened to her. I also felt so frustrated to all the adults who took advantage of her and her parents, her classmates and the media. I definitely want to pray for all those that suffer through this and especially for Chole, that our Lord continues to heal her and help her as she speaks for justice.
Thank you for sharing with us Chole. And Matt, you are an incredible host and listener.
What an intelligent, well spoken, beautiful girl Chloe Cole is. God Bless and Keep you as you continue on your journey (aka life).
Truly. She seems so sweet and kindhearted.
Chloe’s joy and peace is so palpable, even when discussing such horrific experiences. May God continue to bless and keep her!
Thanks cloe, your voice is unbelievably important! What an honest and brave woman!
I wish all the best for you Chloe! So glad to see your smile on this side of your journey. Matt, you have a such genuine look of care, love, and empathy throughout the interview.
God bless you Chloe! You are strong and courageous for sharing your story. Onward and upward!
Thank you, I just subscribed to her channel.
Please pray for my family, I have a sister who is currently transitioning and asking us to call her something different. (She turns 30 this year so she can do whatever she wants, I guess) It’s difficult because I am significantly older than her and remember the pregnancy, Mom and Dad letting my brother and I help with the name, and I changed a few diapers. I love the girl and worry about her.
I don’t know how to talk to her anymore because she struggles with the faith now. Please pray for.
My younger brother is gay. Not quite the same, but there's certain similarities.
Let her know you love her however she'll let you. My brother and I know there are certain things we will never see eye to eye on, but he also knows he can call me when he's sick or needs help and I'll be there. We try to talk about things that we share in common, and leave the rest.
If there's interests/hobbies outside of her "rainbow" status, share things with her about them. Text her "thinking of you" with no strings attached.
Hope some of this helps. Courage has a family support group (think of it as LBGTQ Al-Anon) that might be helpful too. I'm part of their Slack group.
@@joshuataylor3550 very tasteful.
Obviously, God didn’t do anything.
@@joshuataylor3550 Dude, you're such a troll.
@@user-71435 yeah, troll doesn’t even begin to describe this guy.
@@user-71435 I wonder how sad a person’s life must be that they have to get their jollies that way.
My husband hit puberty a bit earlier than his peers and he had a hard time being so much bigger than everyone (he was 6' in middle school...6'3 now). His mom had to bring his birth certificate to his games because coaches on the other team would insist he was older and cheating. Our son will be 1 in a few weeks and he's off the charts in height and weight (about to grow out of 18 mo clothes). We go to the park and he still doesn't walk so he's crawling around, cruising, etc visibly bigger than many of the toddlers running around. I remember at church so many people commenting how well behaved he was at like 3/4 months old in the baby carrier then my mom was like they probably think he's 6/8 months old. I think it's hard to be different regardless but feel for Chloe who didn't have the support needed. I tell my son daily he is a precious child of God and as he was made in His Image he's perfect as he is.
Can't believe she didn't cry once in the interview. What an authentic witness to the evil of child mutilation when you hear the false hopes and dreams she had.
Chloe is a beautiful woman and a beautiful person
The grotesque Kardashians have done so much harm. Especially to the lower income children.
Agrees I never cared for them
Yep they have. I don’t have cable tv, not a indoors/tv person but the effective seen on kids isn’t healthy. Unreasonable expectations.
God Bless you both, Matt and Chloe! What a powerful testimony on the first day of the Month of the Sacred Heart! For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world 🙏🏻
Thank you for letting this lady tell her story. No interruptions. It is so raw and important. Praying for this lady and all those struggling in this ideology. ❤
Unrelated, Mr. Fradd, but you have been a great help to my conversion. I thank you dearly. I keep you in my prayers. May Our Lady cease never to pray for us! God bless you, your marriage and your family.
Wow! SO informative, enlightening, and so so important!!!
I am from Africa I can not comprehend how deep was her pain but there is no any advocate of justice for a kid like this. It is injustice that happen to a 15 years old girl or minor . This crime is more than rape and murder. Pls bring this kind of crime to justice.
Pray for us. Things are very dark here. I'll pray for you too
I understand the anger wholeheartedly- I used to think I was trans as well. For clarity, I am still pro-trans, but I just happened to lean into a state where I do not think transition is a necessity for me.
However, attempting to criminalize transition will only make it worse. The upcoming generation is more pro-trans, and will only be enraged by the fact that you are denying people what is, in their eyes, a medical necessity. Obviously no one is gonna want peoppe to be denied medically necessary procedures, and since they do have an argument for that (regardless of how well it holds), their anger is going to very easily turn into pro-trans legislation, and if you go too far, legislation against anti-trans ideals as well (such as further hate speech laws).
Tldr; be very careful on how you approach trying to get rid of transitioning.
My anger is for Justice. This is not hate speech but It is support for human dignity.
@@መለኮታዊምህረት I understand your anger over this evil. Remember James 2:13 though.
@@darselam yes. This is a crime against humanity.
Porn is a huge factor in the trans movement as well. A lot of men who get involved with it are influenced by porn.
Cutting porn out of my life made the remains of my gender dysphoria disappear
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Drugs, porn, and autism. The unholy trinity of gender ideology.
I’ve listened to beautiful Chloe several times and her voice is beginning to sound more feminine ❤
God bless you, Chloe. Thank you for sharing your story. I think this will help alot of people in our generation.
Lovely lovely girl. Intelligent and courageous. Thanks so much for sharing this Chloe! ❤
This is definitely an interesting way to start what is often called Pride Month.
It’s called taking back “Pride Month” for the Sacred Heart of Jesus❤️
@@joshuataylor3550 As someone who is detransitioning it is helpful to know there are others out there. I don't care what day it is on. And the LGBTQ community that supported me when I transitioned? Now acts like I am a villain. I guess the support was upon the condition that I act in an "approved" way.
@@jnkelley42 you are awesome
@@jnkelley42 you're doing something really, really hard, and others can see that. I'm sorry you don't have the in-person support you deserve, but you aren't alone. ❤
@@joshuataylor3550it is indeed a sad indictment on our society that we have dedicated a whole month to celebrating sexual depravity
So.. I’m ex trans… I lived 2 years as a woman and was on hormones… I realized I made a horrible mistake. I ruined my body… I ruined relationships with friends and family… I’m now looking into suing my former doctor… since re embracing my manhood I embraced being an Orthodox Jew and I couldn’t be happier.
I'm replying so you know that someone is praying for you and your healing. If you don't know already there's a detrans subreddit you can ask for advice and help. I hope you grow close to God and remember his love for you. Cheers! :D
❤Thank you Professor Matt Fradd! You are by far my favorite interviewer! Your compassion and empathy are palpable. Your line of questioning flows with profound goodwill never having to avoid the most difficult and relevant aspects of the subject on the table. BTW, you were utterly amazing in your interview of J Peterson; it appeared extremely difficult yet you emanated grace and chose not to dominate but rather facilitated and drew out ideas to examine. Your skills to achieve the highest value in an interview are nothing less than stellar!
Today, May God bless beautiful Cloe Cole! She offers very helpful insights into a wide range of issues related to the main subject. Telling bravely her personal story, she sheds light on the horror that gender dysphoria causes the sufferer only to be exacerbated by doctors and their fast moving proces. Their methods lead a patient into so called "therapies" which often change a child's life permanently--and not for the best. Children seem to be treated as the new lab rat without any humanity applied to the real struggle they are facing clinically and personally. This was the best and most informative interview of this young lady to date. Thank you! ❤
Chloe Cole is beautiful! God bless her loving and truthful heart!
God bless. The devil is the father of lies, and I too fell for the transgender trick before I was saved by good friends and the love of Jesus Christ. Never be afraid to speak out against this evil.
The strength and hope she demonstrates in recounting her struggle are profound. I admire her a great deal for shedding light on her experiences. I pray that she blesses many with her insights and helps to turn the tide against the evil perpetrated on so many children. I am so grateful for this interview.
Wow just a few minutes in and I never thought that the "Kardashian effect" would have that impact on a young girl...I am about ten years older than Chloe and grew up hating my curvy body because the Kate Mosses of the world ruled the media at the time...I never would have thought that seeing a Kardashian figure as trendy in media would make other women feel like they don't measure up somehow. If she had grown up in my era she would have felt so differently about herself, and vice versa for me. Constant attacks on the female body in all its shapes and forms. Truly the devil hates us. Look forward to hearing the rest!!
Good point. I was homeschooled and my parents couldn't afford wifi or phones. We had dial-up while the rest of the world had wifi😂 But I was completely, unintentionally maybe, shielded from all this. My mom always used to emphasize that I am beautifully and wonderfully made.
It wasn't until I was older and started seeing things out in the world and I had to get wifi for college that I started feeling bad about my body and figure. I'm very small and have a small chest. Everything is just small on me. So no elegant curves or figure for me lol.
I just kept circling back to, "I am fearfully and wonderfully made."
@@mistybrass3719 I think it’s so important that your mother especially enforced that you are beautiful in her eyes and in God’s eyes. My experience was that my mom reinforced the media’s scrutiny of my body and she constantly wanted me to lose weight. The underlying message was that I wasn’t good enough as I was. I’m so glad to hear you were shielded from a lot of it!!
That's a really important story, testimony about detransitioning and not doing the game of puberty blockers & all this presumptive stuff, whilst such people suffer a lot inside.
I am so glad she is able to have platforms to talk about what happened to her. I see a gentle, articulate, genuine, intelligent, beautiful woman
Thank you for this talk. May God bless you and guide you Chloe. Thank God for you persevering over your hardships and adversity and may God bless you for choosing to help others through that. I will keep you in my prayers.
My Prayers for you and those going through this.
Chloe is so pretty it’s crazy so sad what social media does to girls
I know 😭
Eastern Orthodox here! So happy for you! ☦️❤️
I think she is a Brave person to be as Honest with herself And the Public. To let people in and admit that she had misunderstandings and made mistakes---Like we All do in so many ways.
God bless you, Chloe! It is horrific what was done to you. I am so sorry for what you are suffering. Thank you for speaking out!!
This was one of the hardest... but most important... interviews to watch. My heart broke so many times for Chloe, as she shared her painful journey & I just wanted to reach out and give her the biggest hug ever! She is such a beautiful woman & God has blessed her with an amazingly powerful spirit! Do not ever stop telling your story, Chloe & may God continue to Bless you!!
Thank you, Matt & Chloe for having the courage to share this witness & testimony ❤🙏
Chloe, you are such an amazing, courage woman!! Thank you for all you are doing to save lives. Blessings and healing to you and all those struggling with gender disphoria
If she becomes. Catholic, she may wind up being a Saint for coming back from such despair
No joke, I've been praying for a "St Paul" to lead people away from gender ideology. Between Chloe Cole and Billboard Chris, my prayers are answered.
@@rosecorcoran Agreed! I cried when I first learned about Billboard Chris. He's a modern-day knight. Chloe is pretty special too. She is so calm in the face of all that has happened to her.
I had a friend of mine at university and we would talk on this issue 247 bc not only do I struggle with this very deeply but she always told me you might become a saint for this issue now that a stretch of a statement but my goal as someone who was born and raised catholic with struggling with this it is extremely hard to get rid of this the numerous of priest I talked to they all said the same thing it won't leave me I gotta deal with ext which is odd bc I talked to friars I talked to regular church priest ext and they all said the same thing for some reason
As usual, a thoughtful and respectful interview. Chloe, I wish you so much happiness and continued healing. I hope that this journey of advocacy you have undertaken with integrity and raw honesty helps both you and young lives make life affirming choices.
Chloe is honest enough to admit she made a huge mistake. Will it cut through all the hype and BS? Her parents aren't totally to blame. They were out of their depth. Chloe had too many different therapists who lost the thread of her feedback, the psychological profile that she was trying to present to them. The therapists weren't successful in unravelling Chloe's self deception. The therapists, her family and doctors were too eager to "please" Chloe, to support the false narrative from all quarters: media, LGBTQ community, school, peer group, medical profession. Difficult to resist that onslaught.
What an outstanding & courageous woman you are Chloe!! Thank you for sharing your story & fighting this fight. God bless you!!! 🙏🏼
Thank you so much, Chloe, for sharing your story. Not many people can fully understand the courage it takes. I am so sorry for what you were put through and made to live with, and I wish you all the best things in life!
I am so happy at how blessed you have been through such an immense struggle. You learned the hard way, I’m weeping for your younger self, blockers…immediate menopause, some 50 year old women with life experience can barely get through it alive, it is a thing. I had breast cancer with surgery, a double mastectomy at that age, I cannot even…you are amazing!!!! God bless you with strength, courage and perseverance.
Heartbreaking when she said that she thought she was not worthy being call a woman anymore
Massive respect to Chloe for speaking about her experience xx
Love seeing Chloe so healthy, strong and grown up. ❤
We went from normalizing just accepting people that don't fit gender norms to saying the only solution was to change your gender.
Chloe Cole is such an awesome person - to go through this and be confident enough to talk about it openly, and with a smile on her face. Hope we get to see her continue into this next phase of her life knowing that she has the support of millions.
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
This hurt my heart man...
@@joshuataylor3550may God open your eyes in a powerful way.
@@joshuataylor3550 i will pray for you bro, don't worry
Wonderful interview
Thank you Matt for this great interview!
This interview is such a gift ! Thank you Chloe thank you Matt! I have a transgender child and this interview is so helpful to try to understand what is happening! God Bless you both! ❤🙏🏽
5:42 why a parent would talk about this in the car with other siblings around when she was only 9? Children deserve privacy and alone time with their parents to talk about puberty, changing bodies, wo/manhood, etc. It's (imo) similar to sharing small things a child told you in secret at family gatherings for some laughs - especially if the child is also present
IDK, my mom talked to all of us--brothers and sisters--about periods and ovulation pain. And even, to some extent, sympto-thermal NFP (the symptom being vaginal mucus). It was just something women's bodies go through, and thus natural and not something feel weird about.
It may depend on the family, though.
@@rosecorcoran It might also be different with the direction of the conversation. I think it's good to talk about ovulation and menstruation and all the other cycle related stuff in more general terms (woman have a period, have breasts, etc.), but it sounds really awkward, at the least, to direct the conversation toward a specific daughter with other siblings around (YOU'RE going to have a period, YOUR breasts are coming in and it will feel x, y, or z). I never went through that, but I just imagine that speaking generally is good in a more general audience, but speaking particularly about one child should be done with just that one child
Chloe - you are so beautiful...and brave! I love your smile and your laugh. God bless you.
Thank you for doing the work of getting the word out. The level of crazy in this society is off the charts
Truth always wins in the end.
I really feel for Chloe's parents. I had a trans friend in high school, and their mom was at a loss and she just wanted to love her kid. She was firm that even with a social transition, my friend wouldn't have surgery before 18. Even though my friend eventually had surgery, I'm so glad that their mom did what she could as long as she could to protect her kid from a situation like this. My friend's mom never wanted to have her kid go through this struggle, but she would do anything for her kid.
Tragic story of our day. Breaks my heart over and over. Every time they pan to you Matt, I am so daunted by your expression of sorrow. Dear Lord help us all.