I am Autistic. I was born in 1994. I am 29 years old. I am an Adult Human Male. I'm a Man. Eye contact was difficult for me until maybe I was 19 to 22 And I only really felt like I KNEW what I liked and who I was. I finally formed my opinions on alot of topics I felt the confidence. I felt a mental barrier break of being an adult. I'm now going to be 30 this year and I Finally feel like I'm Done growing. Which to me sounds weird but I'm autistic and that's how it feels. It terrifies me to NO END that If I was born in this last decade or so that I would have been a PRIME target for the medical Industry and the woke climate. I could have had drugs pumped into my body. I could have had surgeries. I could have been rushed through this entire process and I could have been manipulated into this entire ordeal. Thank God I was born when I was and I was allowed to grow. I only NOW feel like I know who I am. At 30 I know I'm gonna feel like How I should. A Child CANNOT consent to this stuff. They don't know what they want. They don't understand the risks. They don't have informed consent because they Do Not Understand It. Period. I'm sorry Chloe truly. I'm sorry to Layla Jane who was even younger. This is a terrifying reality we live in. Social media has spread this Plague of wokeness. it's spread this trans agenda to people who are already compromised mentally. This is Experimentation on Autistic people and it's Disgusting.
Yes, excellent. There is certainly a link between being autistic and rapid onset gender dysphoria. We need to train people on this better! If Chloe had got her autism diagnosis and proper support this may not have happened. Yes, I absolutely agree with you about age. If I had anything to do with policy I'd classify this as body modification and push for the minimum age for this to be somewhere between 26-30.
Funny how many detransitioners dont come out because theres not many of them. Theres very very few. Most trans people are happy. I do believe she started her transition too early though. For a real trans person it wouldnt have mattered but for people like her who dont know herself it would have prevented this problem. In the UK its hormone blockers at 15, hormones at 18 and surgeries at 18+ which is ideal. Its not ridiculously long for a trans person, theyre not waiting till theyre 30 for example and all the fake trans people will hopefully come to their senses about what they want. And if they dont by 18, well quite frankly theyre idiots
Funny how many detransitioners dont come out because theres not many of them. Theres very very few. Most trans people are happy. I do believe she started her transition too early though. For a real trans person it wouldnt have mattered but for people like her who dont know herself it would have prevented this problem. In the UK its hormone blockers at 15, hormones at 18 and surgeries at 18+ which is ideal. Its not ridiculously long for a trans person, theyre not waiting till theyre 30 for example and all the fake trans people will hopefully come to their senses about what they want. And if they dont by 18, well quite frankly theyre idiots
Funny how many detransitioners dont come out because theres not many of them. Theres very very few. Most trans people are happy. I do believe she started her transition too early though. For a real trans person it wouldnt have mattered but for people like her who dont know herself it would have prevented this problem. In the UK its hormone blockers at 15/16, hormones at 18 and surgeries usually at like 20+ which is ideal. Its hard but not ridiculously long for a trans person, theyre not waiting till theyre 30 for example and all the fake trans people will hopefully come to their senses about what they want. And if they dont by 18, well quite frankly theyre idiots
Chloe has my prayers and admiration. I am so sorry that us women have failed her in sharing what real womanhood and femininity actually feels like in contrast to what tv, mags, media TELLS us it should be.
She did mention not having good female role models growing up and in her community. Also some of the experiences of being SA’d can really have a mentally damaging effect on any individual to want to pose as an opposite gender to be perceived differently.
I think it is very hard to get someone out of a “trans” state of mind. Sometimes they will not listen to anyone who denies/ignores their desires and will find their own ways to affirm themselves, even if they are being distracted by goals/sports. In some ways it is similar to drug addicts where they need to reach their lowest point to snap out of the situation. I think the only way to curb this is not allow these types of procedures to even be on the radar for most people.
Chloe you should be woman of the year you are telling a story that while hard can help millions of people who are confused and not sure that they are doing the right thing my prayers are with you I hope you can help others god bless you
Solid stuff, Jason. also your book really helped me make sense of all the stuff my small group was wrestling with surrounding gender and sexuality, thanks
Sweet sweet Chloe! Your heart longs for the love of the Father! I pray you find your identity, worth, and mission in the arms of your Creator through the community waiting for you in the Church.
I would be interested to hear how Chloe's parents reacted to her detransition. Did they support her detransition? How do they feel about her activism on this issue? How do they view her transition and detransition now, with the benefit of hindsight? Do they have advice for other parents who find themselves in a similar situation, with a child experiencing gender dysphoria? (But having said all that, I understand that her parents probably prefer their privacy and anonymity, and that Chloe may not feel comfortable speaking for them, and that's certainly fair.)
My older sister says that part of the reason why she trans is because all the abuse and whatever that men has put us through, and well i can kind of believe that, because well, me and her have gone through alot of abuse and whatever by men, mostly by our dad, and our moms other boyfriends, there were women who were also abusive to but, definitely gone through more from men, so that kind of makes me think that most trans people have been through trauma, and for alot, trauma often even causes someone to want to transition.
1:13:47 wet gracious on Chloe’s part. I was thinking about parents who love their kids and want to do what’s right for them but don’t have the tools, knowledge, or support to properly parent their kids through gender-related concerns.
This interview was a joy to listen to. I wish I had heard it a month ago. Chloe, you are wise far beyond your 19 years. You will make a huge impact on the world. Glad you are here on this earth at this time.😁🫡
Chloe is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story so bravely and truthfully. A testimony to how light brings truth to the surface and the truth is good to know , especially where so many people are uncertain or uneducated . Its good to know
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I came across Chloe's story a couple of weeks ago. I'm still trying to follow along, in an attempt to educate myself. Being a "Gen Xer", I'm trying not to get stuck on the "Dude, that's crazy" attitude. I'd like to learn more about the entire subject. These videos (and many others) are helping me to do that, so... Thank you.
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She was a child and that's the biggest problem. She can be very intelligent and articulate today, but back then she didn't have maturity and any actual MEDICAL KNOWLEDGE to know better. I can't even process this, how can anybody claim that being a kid you can consent to any medical consequences of major life altering treatment and operation. Personal experience of mine. I was 16 when I got an operation for my back. My mother consented and I thought I knew what I was agreeing to, as I was in hospital for weeks beforehand and I saw people go through it. I woke up in excruciating pain. It lasted for another 2 weeks at least. Recovery was long. Then year after year other problems started to pile on. Constant pain, that I didn't have any before, stiffness, loss of sensation or unscratchable 'itching' that could last 2-3 days at a time, the inserted rods started to poke out to the skin surface and quickly any temporary cosmetic outcome receded. 10 years later I needed next operation solely for problems the first one caused. Cycle of pain described above was repeated 😢 More scarring and sensation problems accumulated. I have areas on my back that are completely numb to any touch. I can scratch myself bloody because I have the persistent sensation of itching somewhere under the skin but I don't have any feeling in the area I'm touching. This operation was only performed for cosmetic/looks related reasons as far as I'm concerned. I had no physical problems or complaints before. Today I look like I did before the operation but I have additional side effects and chronic pain now caused by the operation alone. I was 16, never had any medical procedures done before and I had no idea about any consequence medically. None. Today I'm in my 30s and with the knowledge and experience I would have never consented knowing any of this. Never. In fact I will never consent to any elective medical intervention even if some fantastic clinic offered it to me for free. Cutting into the body has consequences. Always. They give you consent forms with pages of possible problems, of which not many people actually understand what even half of means. Then when YOU get them it's YOUR problem and YOURS to keep. The doctor who told you how simple and helpful it was gonna be will not carry the burden of complications for you. And the complications do come... Human brain grows and develops until at least age 30, and so does emotional and psychological maturity and awareness. Ask anybody in their 30s and they will tell you how today they are a different person to who they were at 18 and how stupid and reckless they were back then.... In this case Chloe is only 19 now. The treatments she's talking about span somewhere around 12-13 to around 16 years of age, if I'm correct. That is just plainly shocking 😮 I have loss of sensation and pain and strange itches from cutting open my back and insertion of rods. Can we even imagine the butchery of manipulating and rearranging body parts in the most sensitive area on the body??? Carving some holes in the pelvic floor, trying to lengthen the urethra and saw some arm skin to fashion a p*nis. What kind of function do these things have? 😮 Nobody and I mean nobody, not a top surgeon, not a t*ans activist after full transition, is ever gonna convince me that they have sensation and full use of the created 'organs'. They just have some appendage/ hole mildly resembling that of the opposite sex, that requires constant attention and upkeep to not cause problems, get infected, etc. Normal person doesn't even think what they have in their pants on daily basis. These people need to give those parts constant attention multiple times a day. But hey, dysphoria cured!!!
So often, there is a finger pointing at the parents of these kids, claiming that the parents must be evil, or somehow completely maligned in thinking or secretly wanting the opposite sex of this child in question. I don't believe that. It is reallly looking like these institutions just scare the sheete out of the parents so badly, that the parents actually believe that its like they are killing their child if they didn't just cave and go along with the treatment. I'd be totally scared to death too, of being responsible for driving my kid to suicide. That is such a terrible thing. The parents are groomed every bit as much as the kid.
There are a lot of theories that the government is using it as a form of control over population. Because once kids go through this the ability to reproduce is slim to none. It’s so sad and I feel sorry for the children and parents that go through this..
guess what, science tells us that gender affirming care does decrease suicide, self harm, and substance use. Yes there's people who detransition (for multiple reasons that aren't just realizing its not for them, such as the fear of being hurt for being trans), but its a very small percentage of people who do transition. We have doctors to help people through the process and give the best care possible, that's why they're there
@@arshuando2466 These doctors are like the butchers and Nazi Germany experimenting on people. Thinking that they gods. God almighty does not make mistakes. the whole idea of transitioning this from the pit of hell designed to destroy
chole cole is in my books a real wonder woman and is a champion for the kids out there.this should never have happened whatever happened to the word tomboy without messing up your body with drugs .as a much older queer person i respect her so very much the lgbq has been hijacked with these very woke and in my books these dr frankenstiens who call themselves as doctors and in there oath as a dr it says do no harm
I have watched many videos of Chloe Cole. No child should ever have to be subject to what she has been through. I'm so thankful she's speaking out and I hope that she takes breaks and enjoys her young life. That couch looks incredibly uncomfortable for an interview. 😟
I'm sorry for what you had to go through. I realize it's a complex life story, but I think you should sue your parents. Parents are there to protect their children.
As a parent, I never trusted pseudo doctors (shrinks, psychologist and so on). My experience with few of them suggested that they needed more help then I. In this situation parents are more responsible than these charlatans.
If a young boy was given puberty blockers without their knowledge would it influence their sexual orientation. Are we making people what they become with science instead of them growing through the the confusing period of puberty after which they know their true sexuality
High quantities of testosterone in a female body will cause damage, like atrophying the uterus. Lower qualities of testosterone in a boy might cause him to have stunned development in his male parts. So, they probably would go from being straight/gay/bi to "ace"
@@arshuando2466 If they are blocking certain hormones or worse still increasing other hormones that generally don't normally belong in that gender then I can't see how it doesn't influence sexuality thought and emotion as hormones are the pillar of our sexuality and through puberty and adolescence has got to be the time they would have the biggest effect. Before you say anything I am fully aware that men can have testosterone coming out of their ears and be gay etc etc I am referring to the sexuality they identify as because that time in life is confusing enough without Dr Frankenstein messing about with nature.
@@m4rkscott upon looking deeper into the topic, I've found evidence that hormones may actually be linked to sexual orientation. Only problem is that it appears to only really be a factor during the prenatal (in the womb) and early postnatal (shortly after birth) stages of development. Even then, hormones don't explain the full picture of why different sexual orientations occur. It's a massive puzzle which we are still putting together. There's also the fact that sexual orientation works on a spectrum, meaning that everyone experiences attractions differently to each other. Personally I, as a cisgender male, identify as bisexual with more attraction to feminine features, but other cisgender bisexual males may have more attraction to masculine features. All of this to say that it doesn't seem that there's much evidence to conclude that puberty blockers or hormone replacement therapy during later stages in life change someone's sexual orientation. Also, I just want to add in the fact that gender affirming care has indeed been found to decrease rates of self harm, suicide, and substance use. I'm personally going to keep looking into it, and if you want to read one of the sources I used then go to psypost .org and search up "Prenatal hormones play a major role in sexual orientation development, according to new research"
Yeap, I as a trans myself would have to agree. It would have been nice if they told her no and then by informed consent age maybe she would have realized it wasn't for her. Instead the rest of us transses get to hear and feel the tread push. Parents need to take some responsibility for this. They took "their kid" to the clinic and they the parents had to sit in that clinic to sign bunches of consent forms for months of therapy sessions to even get their kid diagnosed with dysphoria. There also needs to be examinations by a licensed doctor to be prescribed any medication or any anything. You need to have dysphoria and this really isn't taken lightly, if a kid is faking it or something and gets through all the steps I have to still ask, where were the parents if they turn out to be a detransitioner?
The only way to end this sick treatment is to be able to sue those involved in this lie, doctors, psychologists, social workers etc. Sue them and perhaps prosecute them for CHILD ABUSE. How much more "abuse" could there be?
Make sure not to miss our next episode, with Marcella Burke, who is an attorney handling several multi-million dollar lawsuits against three hospitals for these crimes.
I honestly think trans surgery shouldn’t be a thing. First it doesn’t work, you won’t suddenly be able to get pregnant(or make someone pregnant). I don’t see the point you can’t truly change your biology instead why not accept it. The only other reason I can think of is appearance. I honestly think is easier to do without surgery(I’m saying it’s easy). Can there be any other reason other than those. Tell me comments. I don’t want anything vague.
What you forget is how society in general treats men and women differently and this can be a big problem especially for gay and gender non conforming people.
@@carinagomezfernandez7473 You didn't argue about trans surgery. So you basically want entire society to treat you opposite to your gender, I personally think we should be striving towards treating men and women equally but hey you do you.
Is it the truth though? I'm not going to waste my time because this person has caused us a world of influenced hate. Informed consent exists and it is only available for 18 and older so therefore don't tread on us. If you transitioned before Informed consent age you had to involve your parents. Your parents took you to the clinic. You needed your parents to sign off on bunches of paper work and consent forms for months of therapy sessions to even be diagnosed with dysphoria and then the examinations for the whole thing by a licensed doctor before you can even get any prescription or anything. You knew what you were getting in to and surgery you also knew. Even for your chest you would need to be on HRT for awhile and have referrals done from a licensed doctor for a surgeon to even talk to you about surgery. This stuff isn't taken lightly by the medical professionals and it is disgusting and disrespectful to have you tread against others that really have dysphoria and didn't fake it at the therapy sessions.
Wow. She takes no responsibility for her part in any of this and can't seem to stop trying to speak for others. Her experience is just that. Hers. It is not the global representation of what trans people go through she is trying to portray it as.
The bottom line is that she’s acknowledging that whether you’re born as male or female it is NOT a mistake! AND any Doctor Who starts butchering the body of a child has no right to even be called a doctor. They are butchers. Such decisions about doing anything to your body like that should be done as an adult. No such decision should be made as a child and no adult should be making any such decision for a child!
here we goagain . lets play the blame-game."its every body elses fault ..except mine" its not societys fault that u regret ur transition. its ultimately because ur parrents suck. it was their descision
@@sayitlikeyoumeanit-w1q it would be nice if you could stop complaining all the time, jesus christ...you're like a toddler...perhaps take your own advice??
Feelings feelings feelings feelings. Those can be changed without all the twisted mutilation. All children are confused to a point about the crotch. Feelings feelings. This child has done what most this age do get famous online. Feelings feelings feelings as a child....? The parents should be charged. I would be so ashamed to sit there discussing this as a child in total control. Social media!!!! How about those feelings now. 😢 all of this is sad.
Thank you, Chloe for adamantly stating that men cannot become women, and women cannot become men. Because that is the absolute truth.
Yep. Women becoming "men" will not father any children, men becoming "women" will not get pregnant and give birth.
THAT IS RIGHT
You can feminise a male but that doesn’t make them female
Chloe is a remarkable young woman, and I’m amazed at her ability to articulate her journey.
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I am Autistic. I was born in 1994. I am 29 years old. I am an Adult Human Male.
I'm a Man.
Eye contact was difficult for me until maybe I was 19 to 22 And I only really felt like I KNEW what I liked and who I was. I finally formed my opinions on alot of topics I felt the confidence. I felt a mental barrier break of being an adult. I'm now going to be 30 this year and I Finally feel like I'm Done growing. Which to me sounds weird but I'm autistic and that's how it feels.
It terrifies me to NO END that If I was born in this last decade or so that I would have been a PRIME target for the medical Industry and the woke climate. I could have had drugs pumped into my body. I could have had surgeries. I could have been rushed through this entire process and I could have been manipulated into this entire ordeal.
Thank God I was born when I was and I was allowed to grow. I only NOW feel like I know who I am. At 30 I know I'm gonna feel like How I should.
A Child CANNOT consent to this stuff. They don't know what they want. They don't understand the risks. They don't have informed consent because they Do Not Understand It. Period. I'm sorry Chloe truly. I'm sorry to Layla Jane who was even younger. This is a terrifying reality we live in. Social media has spread this Plague of wokeness. it's spread this trans agenda to people who are already compromised mentally. This is Experimentation on Autistic people and it's Disgusting.
Excellent post
Yes, excellent. There is certainly a link between being autistic and rapid onset gender dysphoria. We need to train people on this better! If Chloe had got her autism diagnosis and proper support this may not have happened. Yes, I absolutely agree with you about age. If I had anything to do with policy I'd classify this as body modification and push for the minimum age for this to be somewhere between 26-30.
This is so great you did this interview with her. If more deteansitioners came out, more people would sew how harmful this is!
Well. If people would stop referring to transgender as a ‘movement’ maybe they would.
Funny how many detransitioners dont come out because theres not many of them. Theres very very few. Most trans people are happy. I do believe she started her transition too early though. For a real trans person it wouldnt have mattered but for people like her who dont know herself it would have prevented this problem. In the UK its hormone blockers at 15, hormones at 18 and surgeries at 18+ which is ideal. Its not ridiculously long for a trans person, theyre not waiting till theyre 30 for example and all the fake trans people will hopefully come to their senses about what they want. And if they dont by 18, well quite frankly theyre idiots
Funny how many detransitioners dont come out because theres not many of them. Theres very very few. Most trans people are happy. I do believe she started her transition too early though. For a real trans person it wouldnt have mattered but for people like her who dont know herself it would have prevented this problem. In the UK its hormone blockers at 15, hormones at 18 and surgeries at 18+ which is ideal. Its not ridiculously long for a trans person, theyre not waiting till theyre 30 for example and all the fake trans people will hopefully come to their senses about what they want. And if they dont by 18, well quite frankly theyre idiots
Funny how many detransitioners dont come out because theres not many of them. Theres very very few. Most trans people are happy. I do believe she started her transition too early though. For a real trans person it wouldnt have mattered but for people like her who dont know herself it would have prevented this problem. In the UK its hormone blockers at 15/16, hormones at 18 and surgeries usually at like 20+ which is ideal. Its hard but not ridiculously long for a trans person, theyre not waiting till theyre 30 for example and all the fake trans people will hopefully come to their senses about what they want. And if they dont by 18, well quite frankly theyre idiots
Chloe has my prayers and admiration. I am so sorry that us women have failed her in sharing what real womanhood and femininity actually feels like in contrast to what tv, mags, media TELLS us it should be.
That is right
She did mention not having good female role models growing up and in her community. Also some of the experiences of being SA’d can really have a mentally damaging effect on any individual to want to pose as an opposite gender to be perceived differently.
You keep going Chloe, we believe you’ll be successful in your mission. You’re a brave young Woman!
That is right
Chloe, God bless you! Thank you for your brave mission. Be a woman, be beautiful as you are! ❤
Great interview, she is such an inspiration! May God bless her always!
Ms. Cole is a giant. Please let her know that she's beautiful.
Yes she’s a beautiful young Woman!
I think it is very hard to get someone out of a “trans” state of mind. Sometimes they will not listen to anyone who denies/ignores their desires and will find their own ways to affirm themselves, even if they are being distracted by goals/sports. In some ways it is similar to drug addicts where they need to reach their lowest point to snap out of the situation. I think the only way to curb this is not allow these types of procedures to even be on the radar for most people.
That is right
Chloe you should be woman of the year you are telling a story that while hard can help millions of people who are confused and not sure that they are doing the right thing my prayers are with you I hope you can help others god bless you
I’m very impressed with your insight. You must be helping many people by sharing your story!
I agree 100%
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Praise God for this truly "brave" woman. God bless her. Hopefully many more will be given strength to speak out.
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Praise God? Where was God when all this was happening to her?
Chloe’s testimonies are so sad but so important for everyone to hear and understand how sick and insane trans surgeries are for children.
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Im so glad you guys got to chat and share it with us!!
Solid stuff, Jason. also your book really helped me make sense of all the stuff my small group was wrestling with surrounding gender and sexuality, thanks
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Thank you for this interview
Sweet sweet Chloe! Your heart longs for the love of the Father! I pray you find your identity, worth, and mission in the arms of your Creator through the community waiting for you in the Church.
I would be interested to hear how Chloe's parents reacted to her detransition. Did they support her detransition? How do they feel about her activism on this issue? How do they view her transition and detransition now, with the benefit of hindsight? Do they have advice for other parents who find themselves in a similar situation, with a child experiencing gender dysphoria?
(But having said all that, I understand that her parents probably prefer their privacy and anonymity, and that Chloe may not feel comfortable speaking for them, and that's certainly fair.)
You are so amazing Chloe, may God bless and keep you and may you always know how loved you are and how you inspire so many!
My older sister says that part of the reason why she trans is because all the abuse and whatever that men has put us through, and well i can kind of believe that, because well, me and her have gone through alot of abuse and whatever by men, mostly by our dad, and our moms other boyfriends, there were women who were also abusive to but, definitely gone through more from men, so that kind of makes me think that most trans people have been through trauma, and for alot, trauma often even causes someone to want to transition.
1:13:47 wet gracious on Chloe’s part. I was thinking about parents who love their kids and want to do what’s right for them but don’t have the tools, knowledge, or support to properly parent their kids through gender-related concerns.
Thanks!
Thank you!!
May God bless Chloe and Mr. Jason 🙏
This interview was a joy to listen to. I wish I had heard it a month ago. Chloe, you are wise far beyond your 19 years. You will make a huge impact on the world. Glad you are here on this earth at this time.😁🫡
Chloe is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story so bravely and truthfully. A testimony to how light brings truth to the surface and the truth is good to know , especially where so many people are uncertain or uneducated . Its good to know
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Thank You Chloe. You are doing something Very Important. I am very grateful for You. 🐩❤️
Well done Chloe for speaking up in court that took guts!!! 👏
Thank you ! A much needed conversation!
Sounds like her voice is coming back to normal a bit.
chole cole is an amazing young lady, and an inspiration for telling the truth. God Bless her and her family!
Chloe your so beautiful inside & out. Bless you both
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It’s a known fact, and quite common, for elderly women to experience excruciating urinary tract infections due to losing estrogen. It’s also a common cause of death in elderly women. The fact that doctors willingly place these women in physical danger is astounding,
It’s also important to note that women not having estrogen is damaging to their skeletal system.
I came across Chloe's story a couple of weeks ago. I'm still trying to follow along, in an attempt to educate myself. Being a "Gen Xer", I'm trying not to get stuck on the "Dude, that's crazy" attitude. I'd like to learn more about the entire subject. These videos (and many others) are helping me to do that, so... Thank you.
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She is such a talented speaker ! And she is so intelligent And beautiful
how can someone so adorable have been brainwashed into trans? I think this ideology is a much bigger problem than we can know
She was a child and that's the biggest problem. She can be very intelligent and articulate today, but back then she didn't have maturity and any actual MEDICAL KNOWLEDGE to know better. I can't even process this, how can anybody claim that being a kid you can consent to any medical consequences of major life altering treatment and operation.
Personal experience of mine. I was 16 when I got an operation for my back. My mother consented and I thought I knew what I was agreeing to, as I was in hospital for weeks beforehand and I saw people go through it.
I woke up in excruciating pain. It lasted for another 2 weeks at least. Recovery was long. Then year after year other problems started to pile on. Constant pain, that I didn't have any before, stiffness, loss of sensation or unscratchable 'itching' that could last 2-3 days at a time, the inserted rods started to poke out to the skin surface and quickly any temporary cosmetic outcome receded. 10 years later I needed next operation solely for problems the first one caused. Cycle of pain described above was repeated 😢 More scarring and sensation problems accumulated. I have areas on my back that are completely numb to any touch. I can scratch myself bloody because I have the persistent sensation of itching somewhere under the skin but I don't have any feeling in the area I'm touching.
This operation was only performed for cosmetic/looks related reasons as far as I'm concerned. I had no physical problems or complaints before. Today I look like I did before the operation but I have additional side effects and chronic pain now caused by the operation alone.
I was 16, never had any medical procedures done before and I had no idea about any consequence medically. None.
Today I'm in my 30s and with the knowledge and experience I would have never consented knowing any of this. Never. In fact I will never consent to any elective medical intervention even if some fantastic clinic offered it to me for free.
Cutting into the body has consequences. Always. They give you consent forms with pages of possible problems, of which not many people actually understand what even half of means. Then when YOU get them it's YOUR problem and YOURS to keep. The doctor who told you how simple and helpful it was gonna be will not carry the burden of complications for you. And the complications do come...
Human brain grows and develops until at least age 30, and so does emotional and psychological maturity and awareness. Ask anybody in their 30s and they will tell you how today they are a different person to who they were at 18 and how stupid and reckless they were back then....
In this case Chloe is only 19 now. The treatments she's talking about span somewhere around 12-13 to around 16 years of age, if I'm correct. That is just plainly shocking 😮
I have loss of sensation and pain and strange itches from cutting open my back and insertion of rods. Can we even imagine the butchery of manipulating and rearranging body parts in the most sensitive area on the body??? Carving some holes in the pelvic floor, trying to lengthen the urethra and saw some arm skin to fashion a p*nis. What kind of function do these things have? 😮
Nobody and I mean nobody, not a top surgeon, not a t*ans activist after full transition, is ever gonna convince me that they have sensation and full use of the created 'organs'. They just have some appendage/ hole mildly resembling that of the opposite sex, that requires constant attention and upkeep to not cause problems, get infected, etc. Normal person doesn't even think what they have in their pants on daily basis. These people need to give those parts constant attention multiple times a day. But hey, dysphoria cured!!!
It’s a very pervasive problem.
CONSIDERING WHAT SHES BEEN THROUGH WHAT BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN 🎉
So often, there is a finger pointing at the parents of these kids, claiming that the parents must be evil, or somehow completely maligned in thinking or secretly wanting the opposite sex of this child in question. I don't believe that. It is reallly looking like these institutions just scare the sheete out of the parents so badly, that the parents actually believe that its like they are killing their child if they didn't just cave and go along with the treatment. I'd be totally scared to death too, of being responsible for driving my kid to suicide. That is such a terrible thing. The parents are groomed every bit as much as the kid.
Totally agree
There are a lot of theories that the government is using it as a form of control over population. Because once kids go through this the ability to reproduce is slim to none. It’s so sad and I feel sorry for the children and parents that go through this..
guess what, science tells us that gender affirming care does decrease suicide, self harm, and substance use. Yes there's people who detransition (for multiple reasons that aren't just realizing its not for them, such as the fear of being hurt for being trans), but its a very small percentage of people who do transition. We have doctors to help people through the process and give the best care possible, that's why they're there
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These doctors are like the butchers and Nazi Germany experimenting on people. Thinking that they gods. God almighty does not make mistakes. the whole idea of transitioning this from the pit of hell designed to destroy
This is not the best care possible, which is why so many others have a similar story to Chloe's. @@arshuando2466
chole cole is in my books a real wonder woman and is a champion for the kids out there.this should never have happened whatever happened to the word tomboy without messing up your body with drugs .as a much older queer person i respect her so very much the lgbq has been hijacked with these very woke and in my books these dr frankenstiens who call themselves as doctors and in there oath as a dr it says do no harm
I have watched many videos of Chloe Cole. No child should ever have to be subject to what she has been through.
I'm so thankful she's speaking out and I hope that she takes breaks and enjoys her young life.
That couch looks incredibly uncomfortable for an interview. 😟
anyone else with ocd distracted by the damaged camera sensor?
The truth is you are what you are.
I'm sorry for what you had to go through. I realize it's a complex life story, but I think you should sue your parents. Parents are there to protect their children.
That is right
Proud of her. She has become the beautiful swan she was born to be. 🙂 Glad she keeps sharing her testimony.
Yes
oh I've seen this girl before speaking in court and or a public hearing on transman in women's sports ❤ I love her
She's brilliant
She’s a HERO. ❤
Eu não entendi a história dela 😳
As a parent, I never trusted pseudo doctors (shrinks, psychologist and so on). My experience with few of them suggested that they needed more help then I. In this situation parents are more responsible than these charlatans.
Amazing interview.
Thanks Chloe ❤
If a young boy was given puberty blockers without their knowledge would it influence their sexual orientation. Are we making people what they become with science instead of them growing through the the confusing period of puberty after which they know their true sexuality
High quantities of testosterone in a female body will cause damage, like atrophying the uterus.
Lower qualities of testosterone in a boy might cause him to have stunned development in his male parts.
So, they probably would go from being straight/gay/bi to "ace"
@@tarnw3301 puberty blockers have nothing to do with sexual orientation
puberty blockers have nothing to do with sexual orientation
@@arshuando2466 If they are blocking certain hormones or worse still increasing other hormones that generally don't normally belong in that gender then I can't see how it doesn't influence sexuality thought and emotion as hormones are the pillar of our sexuality and through puberty and adolescence has got to be the time they would have the biggest effect. Before you say anything I am fully aware that men can have testosterone coming out of their ears and be gay etc etc I am referring to the sexuality they identify as because that time in life is confusing enough without Dr Frankenstein messing about with nature.
@@m4rkscott upon looking deeper into the topic, I've found evidence that hormones may actually be linked to sexual orientation. Only problem is that it appears to only really be a factor during the prenatal (in the womb) and early postnatal (shortly after birth) stages of development. Even then, hormones don't explain the full picture of why different sexual orientations occur. It's a massive puzzle which we are still putting together. There's also the fact that sexual orientation works on a spectrum, meaning that everyone experiences attractions differently to each other. Personally I, as a cisgender male, identify as bisexual with more attraction to feminine features, but other cisgender bisexual males may have more attraction to masculine features. All of this to say that it doesn't seem that there's much evidence to conclude that puberty blockers or hormone replacement therapy during later stages in life change someone's sexual orientation. Also, I just want to add in the fact that gender affirming care has indeed been found to decrease rates of self harm, suicide, and substance use. I'm personally going to keep looking into it, and if you want to read one of the sources I used then go to psypost .org and search up "Prenatal hormones play a major role in sexual orientation development, according to new research"
Have they stopped transitioning people?
Your parents should have just told you know you are not getting any damn surgeries of any kind
Yeap, I as a trans myself would have to agree. It would have been nice if they told her no and then by informed consent age maybe she would have realized it wasn't for her. Instead the rest of us transses get to hear and feel the tread push. Parents need to take some responsibility for this. They took "their kid" to the clinic and they the parents had to sit in that clinic to sign bunches of consent forms for months of therapy sessions to even get their kid diagnosed with dysphoria. There also needs to be examinations by a licensed doctor to be prescribed any medication or any anything. You need to have dysphoria and this really isn't taken lightly, if a kid is faking it or something and gets through all the steps I have to still ask, where were the parents if they turn out to be a detransitioner?
The only way to end this sick treatment is to be able to sue those involved in this lie, doctors, psychologists, social workers etc. Sue them and perhaps prosecute them for CHILD ABUSE. How much more "abuse" could there be?
Make sure not to miss our next episode, with Marcella Burke, who is an attorney handling several multi-million dollar lawsuits against three hospitals for these crimes.
Man, those dead pixels are driving me nuts, I can’t keep my eyes off of them.
why is she saying constantly "transion" instead of "transition" .. I don't get it
I honestly think trans surgery shouldn’t be a thing. First it doesn’t work, you won’t suddenly be able to get pregnant(or make someone pregnant). I don’t see the point you can’t truly change your biology instead why not accept it. The only other reason I can think of is appearance. I honestly think is easier to do without surgery(I’m saying it’s easy). Can there be any other reason other than those. Tell me comments. I don’t want anything vague.
What you forget is how society in general treats men and women differently and this can be a big problem especially for gay and gender non conforming people.
@@carinagomezfernandez7473 You didn't argue about trans surgery. So you basically want entire society to treat you opposite to your gender, I personally think we should be striving towards treating men and women equally but hey you do you.
The background music does not help me to hear what Chloe is saying.
Pretty young lady
She's a pretty girl 👧 young lady 🇻🇦
I know a man who said drugs prescribed as a little boy, ADHD, had the same effect as Crack as an adult
The truth is you can't.
Is it the truth though? I'm not going to waste my time because this person has caused us a world of influenced hate. Informed consent exists and it is only available for 18 and older so therefore don't tread on us. If you transitioned before Informed consent age you had to involve your parents. Your parents took you to the clinic. You needed your parents to sign off on bunches of paper work and consent forms for months of therapy sessions to even be diagnosed with dysphoria and then the examinations for the whole thing by a licensed doctor before you can even get any prescription or anything. You knew what you were getting in to and surgery you also knew. Even for your chest you would need to be on HRT for awhile and have referrals done from a licensed doctor for a surgeon to even talk to you about surgery. This stuff isn't taken lightly by the medical professionals and it is disgusting and disrespectful to have you tread against others that really have dysphoria and didn't fake it at the therapy sessions.
Bravo❤️👌
Wow. She takes no responsibility for her part in any of this and can't seem to stop trying to speak for others.
Her experience is just that. Hers. It is not the global representation of what trans people go through she is trying to portray it as.
The bottom line is that she’s acknowledging that whether you’re born as male or female it is NOT a mistake! AND any Doctor Who starts butchering the body of a child has no right to even be called a doctor. They are butchers. Such decisions about doing anything to your body like that should be done as an adult. No such decision should be made as a child and no adult should be making any such decision for a child!
WHAT? She TOTALLY takes responsibility for this. Did you listen to the interview???
here we goagain . lets play the blame-game."its every body elses fault ..except mine" its not societys fault that u regret ur transition. its ultimately because ur parrents suck. it was their descision
What a useful comment you have made...this really helps address the issue and will definitely make people's lives better... 😐
@@pixiedragon83 maby people will stop complaining alll the time
@@sayitlikeyoumeanit-w1q it would be nice if you could stop complaining all the time, jesus christ...you're like a toddler...perhaps take your own advice??
Feelings feelings feelings feelings. Those can be changed without all the twisted mutilation. All children are confused to a point about the crotch. Feelings feelings. This child has done what most this age do get famous online. Feelings feelings feelings as a child....? The parents should be charged. I would be so ashamed to sit there discussing this as a child in total control. Social media!!!! How about those feelings now. 😢 all of this is sad.