I am so disappointed in myself! Every year I have less energy and less passion for anything! This year I’m completely like a shallow doll! Nothing left in me
I completely get where you're coming from because I felt the same way but just know that we always have the power to turn things around. Your past does not need to define you any longer!! Use that disappointment and frustration with yourself to create CHANGE in your life. I posted a video all about starting over & that one might help you ❤ sending you love, don't be so hard on yourself!
HEAVY on the not going ghost and needing connection- too many people are using this as an excuse to cut everyone off and be a weird friend, and then wonder why they’re so alone on the way to the top. Connection is necessary
Thank you SO MUCH for the questions to ask ChatGPT! I worked on the answers for two days then asked it to create a story. I was near tears because it was so beautiful and I can’t wait to start taking action to make it come true!
I am so honored to have met you. This is definitely your calling! My nervous system is at such ease listening to you. You’re so relatable and you give realistic advice!
this is so helpful... i tried to find the best video for reinventing myself. it was always the same and after watching the videos i still didnt know where to start and how to start. Your video helps so much to even figure out what i rlly want. Thank you and I hope everyone who reads this, will achieve their goals and live their dream life soon!
Wow! This actually works! I couldn't even imagine what my dream life would look like, because I didn't even know what I wanted, but answering the questions, and then having A.I. create a story of my dream life based on what I wrote, is amazing and what a beautiful story! Thank you for this
It was so tempting to feel regrets but I did what I could. I still failed and I am going to tell myself that it's okay and that we can keep moving forward inspite of it. And that there were times I was so terrified to take actions because I was protecting myself. I hope you too can move forward from the regret and make the best of the time given to you❤
Beautifully said! Moving forward takes so much strength, and reminding yourself that you did what you could is a huge step. Thank you for sharing this!! Wishing you all the best on your journey forward. ❤
Thank you for this, for your time, your experience, all your videos I’ve watched so far. Obviously people end up on these kind of videos because they feel lost, and not everyone needs the same kind of guide. But you really resonate with me (29 year old first year mom who’s realizing she needs to BE the woman who inspires her daughter) and I didn’t realize until I had her and turned 29 that I had been coasting in a depressive state since about 24 (I could blame the pandemic, but honestly the pandemic probably kept me from being more of a menace to society with my unbalanced emotions) I feel like I’m coming back to life, but I feel very alone in the journey. I have a support system but no one is where I’m at specifically and has opinions of what I should do, but no guidance on how. Thank you for sorting the thoughts, for sharing, for being here for the rest of us in cocoons ❤ shall we all find the metamorphosis we’re seeking.
One simple solution whenever a certain task is rigorous is to just allow ourselves to Slow Down, and reduce the Tempo. I just tell my self "This Needs To Be Done". More often than not it Works most of the time - I don't feel frustrated or miserable for not accomplishing that for the day. Not only did it encourage me to Feel Present and enjoy the process but it also helped boost my Focus. Building a solid foundation on your habits is VERY REWARDING in the long run. Now, I couldn't let go of that Routine. Also, the idea for Utilizing a prompt/tool in visualizing your future is absolutely Smart. That was intelligent of you for using AI to their great potential. I REALLY Like that! ❤🔥
I've been following you for a couple of months now and I absolutely love your contents, especially this one. Do you think you can do contents about hygiene and any personal maintenance because I really admire how you look so poised, clean, and just overly put together!
thank you so much for this video, i am currently facing one of those season where everything is kind of blurry. You brought so much clarity to it so thank you! Keep going you are going to go far trust yourself ❤
The thought on comparing starts with ones attempt to connect with someone. Try to navigate back to the feeling of finding relation and if you don’t feel you can compete try instead to compare yourself to yesterday.
This was so good :) your right i didn’t think about it when im dwelling on my past a lot it’s bc i don’t have a set goal or thinking about my future. my body gets in survival mode sometimes. Thanks for the motivation!!
This has been the best “winter arc” video I’ve found! So helpful! I’m an early October birthday girlie and always strive to do something to better myself this time of year. I look forward to seeing watching future videos!🙏
I didnt even finish your video before i tried that Chat Gpt thng....omg, it did make me well up and i felt so much happiness in my soul reading it out loud.
Such outstanding advice Natalia!! Thank you! I do a lot of the things you do and have the same passion for self-improvement! Your journal questions and chat prompts are incredibly awesome!! I am in the season of going ALL-IN on myself and my dreams! I subscribed and loved your video, look forward to more from you! Cheering you on girl, YOU are such an inspiration and positive example of what's possible!! Thank you!!! xoxox
Natalia this was such a helpful video and Day By Day you are looking beautiful you are my truly truly inspiration and I will always be your biggest supportive🌸💖💫
Ive seen so many videos like this and i didnt feel like they were really helpful until i came across your video ! I usually dont comment but I really enjoyed this video and thank you for the info !
That means so much to me-thank you for taking the time to comment! I’m really glad this video felt different and helpful for you. 😊 Thanks for watching!
Thank you I will be a new subscriber. I really needed this type of content today and it was something that uplifted me, especially the first part of the video thank you so much!
No cuz I have many goals I organize them I just don’t have any discipline no matter what I just started watching the video I like your videos I like your change 💗
notes: 1. self reflection- described in description box 2. visualize dream life 3. list- to don't list 4. non negotiables list-maybe top 5 things to do no matter what, keep it achievable and realistic 5. show up and be consistent: it's not cute, it's not aesthetic-it's HARD, we need to be adaptable, need to pivot when sth is not working and learn and plan according to your mistakes try getting comfortable with uncertainity- you don't have to get the full picture, and to overcome anxiety, you can try developing a structured routine keep a watch on what you are consuming-both content and food being healthy and fit should be no.1 priority-your goals might be sth else but always keep movement a part of your life 6. lean on support- if you find like minded people who resonate with you or understand your vision and don't project their limiting beliefs on you- lean on them-you don't need to go ghost. you have to believe in yourself, if you confide to people who tell you that your goal is not achievable and you won't be able to do it-cut them off. bdw hats off to Natalia, and this video is a gem.
I think it’s important not to attach so much to the details and instead focus on the feelings you want to feel in your ideal life. It may not happen exactly the way you envision it but it is possible to create a life that you feel good about 💖
But the good news is you have the power to incorporate habits that will lead to you not feeling this way 😄 It’ll take some time, but things will work out in the end!
Same here. But from now on I'll do better actually I will do excellent. I have planners, I have a collection of perfumes I just went shopping so I have beautiful clothes ,I feel ready and I want to start to read self help and grow&glow books and get a job.
New subscriber. Love the chat GPT tips. And don't list. This is new content. My only suggestion is to train your voice to drop low at the end of a sentence instead of picking up like a question mark. It gives valley girl instead of intelligent woman.
@@FitnessYogawithSarah thank you, glad you liked it! And I know it’s something I’m working on, I’m spanish so it’s common in my language but working on it :)
Kudos to you for working on it! My mentor at work gave me the same advice and at first I was defensive and felt like my language was being micromanaged because I’m a woman. Then I got other that and worked on it - I notice a big difference in how people respond to me at work.
Hey there Bonita 💕 you are so so pretty and you inspire me so so much 💞 I'm dreaming of being a content creator yet after decades of rejection and biegn labeled falsely I Refuse to be a victim of haters labelers Ever Again!! I think I'll figure out a way to create a private membership where I chose who sees me and not broadcast to the whole entire world, look at me, see me, No!! I have learned to be Very selective of my audience, this much pain taught me very very hard won very be painful agonizing lessons of the flakey vain empty minds of Most people,sadd sadd.. the truth has to be known acknowledged and dealt with according. I was once naive and it costs me everything. Never Ever Again!! No!! So yah,I'm researching how to use you tube for money and my privacy is still private, including my face and body. Thank God!!❤❤❤😂😂😂
hello, sis! i love how you talk (i subscribed just now). i'm kinda distracted by your eyebrow. i think it's carved higher than the other one :( i don't mean to be rude.... i just hope someone tells you they're not even so you can maybe fix them idk T.T BUT you're still gorgeous!!!!!
this is so fascinating! you gave us such a clearly explanation and it makes sense. girll, how u amazed me of always prioritizing ur healty even tho u have a main goal🤎🤎
thank you so much omg this was so helpful and made it achievable for me 😭🤍 i was so lost and overwhelmed and confused about what the hell am i supposed to do this helped me sm
I am so disappointed in myself! Every year I have less energy and less passion for anything! This year I’m completely like a shallow doll! Nothing left in me
I completely get where you're coming from because I felt the same way but just know that we always have the power to turn things around. Your past does not need to define you any longer!! Use that disappointment and frustration with yourself to create CHANGE in your life. I posted a video all about starting over & that one might help you ❤ sending you love, don't be so hard on yourself!
I admire the way she speaks. You are validating yet not excusing. Motivational for sure love this video!
Thank you sm, I appreciate that! Glad you liked it :)
HEAVY on the not going ghost and needing connection- too many people are using this as an excuse to cut everyone off and be a weird friend, and then wonder why they’re so alone on the way to the top. Connection is necessary
YES! Exactly. It's just about being mindful who you're surrounding yourself with rather than ghosting everyone.
Thank you SO MUCH for the questions to ask ChatGPT! I worked on the answers for two days then asked it to create a story. I was near tears because it was so beautiful and I can’t wait to start taking action to make it come true!
Yay I'm so happy to hear that! I’m cheering you on as you start bringing it to life! Thank you for sharing 💖✨
I am so honored to have met you. This is definitely your calling! My nervous system is at such ease listening to you. You’re so relatable and you give realistic advice!
Omg thank you so much, that truly means a lot to me. I’m so grateful we connected, and I’m glad my content resonates with you!! 🥺
I needed this so badly - especially the reminder to be compassionate and to show up for ourselves. Thank you!
Yess we could all use some more compassion. Thank you for watching ❤
this is so helpful... i tried to find the best video for reinventing myself. it was always the same and after watching the videos i still didnt know where to start and how to start. Your video helps so much to even figure out what i rlly want. Thank you and I hope everyone who reads this, will achieve their goals and live their dream life soon!
Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m so glad the video helped you find clarity and a starting point. 😊✨
Wow! This actually works! I couldn't even imagine what my dream life would look like, because I didn't even know what I wanted, but answering the questions, and then having A.I. create a story of my dream life based on what I wrote, is amazing and what a beautiful story! Thank you for this
So down to earth, relatable and helpful in every which way :) x
It was so tempting to feel regrets but I did what I could. I still failed and I am going to tell myself that it's okay and that we can keep moving forward inspite of it. And that there were times I was so terrified to take actions because I was protecting myself. I hope you too can move forward from the regret and make the best of the time given to you❤
Beautifully said! Moving forward takes so much strength, and reminding yourself that you did what you could is a huge step. Thank you for sharing this!! Wishing you all the best on your journey forward. ❤
@natbelina Thank you, I really appreciate your response
Thank you for this, for your time, your experience, all your videos I’ve watched so far. Obviously people end up on these kind of videos because they feel lost, and not everyone needs the same kind of guide. But you really resonate with me (29 year old first year mom who’s realizing she needs to BE the woman who inspires her daughter) and I didn’t realize until I had her and turned 29 that I had been coasting in a depressive state since about 24 (I could blame the pandemic, but honestly the pandemic probably kept me from being more of a menace to society with my unbalanced emotions)
I feel like I’m coming back to life, but I feel very alone in the journey. I have a support system but no one is where I’m at specifically and has opinions of what I should do, but no guidance on how. Thank you for sorting the thoughts, for sharing, for being here for the rest of us in cocoons ❤ shall we all find the metamorphosis we’re seeking.
One simple solution whenever a certain task is rigorous is to just allow ourselves to Slow Down, and reduce the Tempo. I just tell my self "This Needs To Be Done". More often than not it Works most of the time - I don't feel frustrated or miserable for not accomplishing that for the day. Not only did it encourage me to Feel Present and enjoy the process but it also helped boost my Focus. Building a solid foundation on your habits is VERY REWARDING in the long run. Now, I couldn't let go of that Routine.
Also, the idea for Utilizing a prompt/tool in visualizing your future is absolutely Smart. That was intelligent of you for using AI to their great potential. I REALLY Like that! ❤🔥
Great idea, thanks for sharing!
Holy crap. That ChatGPT dream life is SUCH a good idea. I can’t wait to do it.
I tried the Chatgpt... Makes me so emotional and motivated.
I agree!
@@engie26.4 🥹🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻
it's seriously the best, lmk how it is for you!
I rarely comment on youtube videos but this video was soooo helpful, so much more than the videos I usually watch on goals and self improvement
I've been following you for a couple of months now and I absolutely love your contents, especially this one. Do you think you can do contents about hygiene and any personal maintenance because I really admire how you look so poised, clean, and just overly put together!
I wish I could give this a hundred heart likes. This is the best self growth video I have watched in quite some time. The use of A I. is genius
Thank you!! Yess Chat GPT is such a game-changer!
You gained a subscriber this was one of the most helpful videos I’ve watched and I’ve watched like 1000s at this point ! Thank you ❤
Ahh yay thank you, so glad you're here!! ❤
I love this. This feels actually achievable and real, love it❤
thank you so much for this video, i am currently facing one of those season where everything is kind of blurry. You brought so much clarity to it so thank you! Keep going you are going to go far trust yourself ❤
The thought on comparing starts with ones attempt to connect with someone. Try to navigate back to the feeling of finding relation and if you don’t feel you can compete try instead to compare yourself to yesterday.
This is like listening to a motivational bestie. Thank you SOOOO much ❤
I love also how you starting making these videos in the middle of your journey so we can work together! 💖✨💖
Yesss I'm right there with you!! ❤
Had to sub as soon you said 'in my cocoon phase' because that's exactly want I've been saying to myself!!
I love how grounded the advice in this video is!
Yay I'm so glad, thank you! 😊
This was so good :) your right i didn’t think about it when im dwelling on my past a lot it’s bc i don’t have a set goal or thinking about my future. my body gets in survival mode sometimes. Thanks for the motivation!!
Yes! I get the same way but it's such a great reminder to focus on what we're working towards ❤
This has been the best “winter arc” video I’ve found! So helpful! I’m an early October birthday girlie and always strive to do something to better myself this time of year. I look forward to seeing watching future videos!🙏
14:44 This is what I need to fit in now. It’s always been about business for me.
YEPP same! This was a HUGE shift for me
You give out such calm energy! I am listening to you during my daily walk. Cheers to all the best to come ✨️
Thank you for your great suggestions.
I didnt even finish your video before i tried that Chat Gpt thng....omg, it did make me well up and i felt so much happiness in my soul reading it out loud.
RIGHT, isn't it the best 🥺🥺
oh i love this! what a great idea
Such outstanding advice Natalia!! Thank you! I do a lot of the things you do and have the same passion for self-improvement! Your journal questions and chat prompts are incredibly awesome!! I am in the season of going ALL-IN on myself and my dreams! I subscribed and loved your video, look forward to more from you! Cheering you on girl, YOU are such an inspiration and positive example of what's possible!! Thank you!!! xoxox
Thank you so, so much! 💖 YES to going all in yourself too, we got this!
this video was so valuable. Thank you so much for sharing.
I found you at a perfect time. I can't wait to use these prompts and see more of your content, thank you for sharing!
Yay, lmk how it goes!! thank you sm ❤
Natalia this was such a helpful video and Day By Day you are looking beautiful you are my truly truly inspiration and I will always be your biggest supportive🌸💖💫
Ive seen so many videos like this and i didnt feel like they were really helpful until i came across your video ! I usually dont comment but I really enjoyed this video and thank you for the info !
That means so much to me-thank you for taking the time to comment! I’m really glad this video felt different and helpful for you. 😊 Thanks for watching!
Lovely Video ♡♡♡
I love your approach to this topic
you are so real!! love the way you talk thanks queen this was so helpful and authentic help
Aw thank you sm!!
Omg! Our color palette is nearly the same!!!!!! Subscribed!🩵
I've only just learnt about the Winter Arc. I'm so inspired. X
Yes i love this video! Your advice so practical and actionable. Plus, your voice is really relaxing. Thank you 💕
Thank you sm for watching!! ❤
Finally a helpful video about this topic, well done 💪
Thank you! I’m so glad you found it helpful! 😊
This is a video i needed. Thanks love! I love how relatable this is. Soft but direct approach. Us girlies need gentleness. ❤ Subscribed 💖
Yes we do! Thank you sm ❤
you have such an incredible voice! It was purely a pleasure to listen to this video and on top of that such a great value! love it
Aw thank you sm 🥺🫶🏼
Thank you I will be a new subscriber. I really needed this type of content today and it was something that uplifted me, especially the first part of the video thank you so much!
Yay I'm so glad it found you, thank you sm for watching!! ❤
Appreciate this video more than you know :) thank you!
OMG your video popped up on my youtube! so good to see youu and i hope you're doing well!
Omg hi!! So good to hear from you! 😊 I'm so glad the video popped up for you! Hope you’re doing well too! 💖
This is what I need now. Thank you for the reminder and suggestions
Of course, thank you sm for watching!! ❤
Thank you💗 this video was so helpful
You're so welcome! 💗 I'm really glad it was helpful for you! 😊
Such great advice! Thank you ❤
You're so welcome!
Loved this video so much!!😭🎀
subscribed
No cuz I have many goals I organize them I just don’t have any discipline no matter what I just started watching the video I like your videos I like your change 💗
Next week I'm posting a video all about discipline!! & thank you sm ❤
I am Best Me. Day 1.
thanks for this videos, i need it
Glad it found you 🫶🏼
Loved this video! Subscribed
Thank you!! Welcome ☺️
notes:
1. self reflection- described in description box
2. visualize dream life
3. list- to don't list
4. non negotiables list-maybe top 5 things to do no matter what, keep it achievable and realistic
5. show up and be consistent:
it's not cute, it's not aesthetic-it's HARD,
we need to be adaptable, need to pivot when sth is not working and learn and plan according to your mistakes
try getting comfortable with uncertainity- you don't have to get the full picture, and to overcome anxiety, you can try developing a structured routine
keep a watch on what you are consuming-both content and food
being healthy and fit should be no.1 priority-your goals might be sth else but always keep movement a part of your life
6. lean on support- if you find like minded people who resonate with you or understand your vision and don't project their limiting beliefs on you- lean on them-you don't need to go ghost. you have to believe in yourself, if you confide to people who tell you that your goal is not achievable and you won't be able to do it-cut them off.
bdw hats off to Natalia, and this video is a gem.
I am just starting today.😢 Am I late?
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what if you come up with a vision of your ideal life and you never achieve it ? I think it's better not to plan too much..
I think it’s important not to attach so much to the details and instead focus on the feelings you want to feel in your ideal life. It may not happen exactly the way you envision it but it is possible to create a life that you feel good about 💖
Same here😞🥹
What is the name of the group for ambitious, entrepreneurial women in FL?!
It’s called @socialclublf on Instagram!
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I hate myself. Another year with full of regrets. 😑
But the good news is you have the power to incorporate habits that will lead to you not feeling this way 😄 It’ll take some time, but things will work out in the end!
@@sjqx-98 Thanks ♥
Same here. But from now on I'll do better actually I will do excellent. I have planners, I have a collection of perfumes I just went shopping so I have beautiful clothes ,I feel ready and I want to start to read self help and grow&glow books and get a job.
It's not the end of the world, I know you'll be better and proud of yourself soon insh'allah ❤❤
The year isn't over yet. More than 80 days still left to change that... even a little bit ❤
Ur a babe!
New subscriber. Love the chat GPT tips. And don't list. This is new content. My only suggestion is to train your voice to drop low at the end of a sentence instead of picking up like a question mark. It gives valley girl instead of intelligent woman.
@@FitnessYogawithSarah thank you, glad you liked it! And I know it’s something I’m working on, I’m spanish so it’s common in my language but working on it :)
Kudos to you for working on it! My mentor at work gave me the same advice and at first I was defensive and felt like my language was being micromanaged because I’m a woman. Then I got other that and worked on it - I notice a big difference in how people respond to me at work.
Hey there Bonita 💕 you are so so pretty and you inspire me so so much 💞 I'm dreaming of being a content creator yet after decades of rejection and biegn labeled falsely I Refuse to be a victim of haters labelers Ever Again!! I think I'll figure out a way to create a private membership where I chose who sees me and not broadcast to the whole entire world, look at me, see me, No!! I have learned to be Very selective of my audience, this much pain taught me very very hard won very be painful agonizing lessons of the flakey vain empty minds of Most people,sadd sadd.. the truth has to be known acknowledged and dealt with according. I was once naive and it costs me everything. Never Ever Again!! No!! So yah,I'm researching how to use you tube for money and my privacy is still private, including my face and body. Thank God!!❤❤❤😂😂😂
hello, sis! i love how you talk (i subscribed just now).
i'm kinda distracted by your eyebrow. i think it's carved higher than the other one :( i don't mean to be rude.... i just hope someone tells you they're not even so you can maybe fix them idk T.T BUT you're still gorgeous!!!!!
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this is so fascinating! you gave us such a clearly explanation and it makes sense. girll, how u amazed me of always prioritizing ur healty even tho u have a main goal🤎🤎
thank you so much omg this was so helpful and made it achievable for me 😭🤍 i was so lost and overwhelmed and confused about what the hell am i supposed to do this helped me sm
Yay I'm so glad it helped!! You got this! ❤
I admire the way she speaks. You are validating yet not excusing. Motivational for sure love this video!
i LOVE this video. every other “winter arc” video all say the same thing, but this video is so unique and helpful!
YAY that means so much to me! So glad you found it helpful! 😊✨