HOW TO FULLY BELIEVE IN YOURSELF (100% Know Your Worth!) | Wu Wei Wisdom
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Many people suffer from low self-worth. They may appear successful and happy but inside they believe they are not enough and that they need to ‘earn’ value to be good enough, accepted and appreciated by others.
In this teaching, we explain why YOU may be undervaluing yourself right now, and the steps you can take to awaken to your amazing self-worth and potential.
Teaching highlights:
- What is ‘self-value’ and ‘self-worth’.
- Why you undervalue yourself: how your inner child’s ‘lies’ and ‘story’ undermine your self-belief.
- How to fully believe in yourself - the essential life lesson you MUST learn!
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Okay okay thanks for asking me to help wow
Most people do not realise that it is easy to bear a child physically or biologically, however very few people are aware of how much we need to be psychologically prepared or ready to raise a child. Often the parents themselves have their own inner child issues which are not resolved. 🙏
Absolutely true. Anybody can procreate but not every person is mature enough to raise a child.
Once we've come to understand and deal with our own inner child, the next thing is we notice we are surrounded by inner children in everyone we deal with in life. A video on strategies for dealing with other people's inner child would be very useful.
Yes I agree that would be helpful please
When the penny dropped and I fully understood that my unconscious is triggered in certain situations and made me feel less worthy, I fully accepted any emotion that came at me without any form of resistence. It s the hardest thing I ever had to do, but every moment I try to breath life into my healed self. Thank you for your videos
Hi George, I recall David avoiding the word 'healing' which may imply we are not well or whole when in fact we are. If any one remembers more accurately please feel free to amend.
Absolutely my saving grace! The most meaningful channel on UA-cam! I watch one video every night & listen to the podcasts every day while driving. You both have transformed a very unique time in my life of great introspection. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for blessing me with your wisdom! I read I’m OK, You’re OK many years ago & your teachings are crucial to my inner journey to love myself, heal my inner child wounds & look forward to a future of possibilities! I always thought I couldn’t get what I worked for & now believe that is just what i was told as a child, not reality! Thank You! You are both so wonderful & dig deep to make it understandable & easy to work towards a goal of inner peace w/ourselves.
We need to remember we are all children of God, so we are worthy simply because we are. 🙏 I thank the Lord Jesus Christ for leading me to these videos. ♥️
Hello Song Mozart, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Kind regards, David.
Thank you, I like to think of it as I don't want to be a "human doing," I want to be a " human being".
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Would like to thank you for your selfless therapeutics. I drop in now and again and always find gems of sobering self knowledge. Your sincerity is very encouraging.
I used to be a ppl pleaser.
Im unlearning that tendency. Self referral I think its called. Awesome video. I am free of others oponions of me, including my own...I am neither inferior nor superior to anyone.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
I sought out Wu Wei a few months ago and found you both. My life has changed in a drastic way and im genuinely and deeply grateful for your guidance. Thank you
Hello Stephanie, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Do a video on how to deal with narcissistic people
telling yourself you are worth something is easy. Really believing you are worth something when you spent most of your life believing otherwise... that's a whole different story. I still struggle with this immensely and it might take me a long time but now my logical adult brain knows its not a helpful habit and I can start catching myself doing it more often.
Good for you. The more you spot these silly thoughts, the easier it gets.
Thank you so much guys. I've been desperately struggling with this this week, and could feel I was losing my power in trying to live up to what I felt were other people's expectations of me. I was crucifying myself, unable to comply with my own wants and needs, and now I understand....I can never be that person they're expecting me to be, and that's ok. Their expectation of me has nothing to do with me!!!! At last!!! Peace. Thank you so much. Theres not enough money to pay for that. Bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
wwwooowww!!
I want to thank the Supreme Lord for making me come across this video❤
Thank you for this messages amen
THANK YOU BOTH SOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR WONDERFUL MAGNIFICENT TEACHING 🙏😊🍀EXCELLENT TEACHING!
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
This is a huge struggle for me. Not feeling valued and good enough.
Happy good saturday morning wu wei wisdom
This is such great teaching thank you 🙏🏻
Hi @Apocalyptiseptical,
You're welcome! I'm glad the teaching resonated with you. Thank you for being part of our community.
Kind Regards,
David
You two compliment each other so well, her probing questions are so good , and your answers are so insightful. Such a great Duo
Glad you enjoyed it! Kind regards, David.
Damn just what I needed it really broke limited generational beliefs
As a child it is sometimes indoctrinated bcoz the parents were not aware of the disservice they were doing because of their own emotional imbalance. 🙏 David all parents were not trained by Taoist monks.😒
Your latest video of self valuing offered a strong message of believing in oneself. Thank you for continuing to "hit the nail directly on the head". Great job 👍
I'm struggling within myself on this issue. Again the universe sends a video to help me understand my current thought patterns and associated feelings... I'm aware it comes from deep inside my mind and my inner child. This video helped me to understand what may be going on, especially as I do think I attach and can become codependent on people and situations... I need to connect and comfort my inner child when it feels empty, unloved and alone. Just like I would for my daughter....🙂.
Thank you for your time and energy creating this video...🙏
This video makes me want to cry...I am so so grateful to you...❤️...
Hello & happy Sutherday,
I still like your convisation!
Thank You & have a Great Dag
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Thank you .
You are welcome! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
Love your videos. They help me so much. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world
Your videos have helped me loads. Thank U. ☘️
So very helpful. Thank you for this teaching and the wisdom it contains.
Glad it was helpful Diane. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I have let my mind go into a very critical downward spiral of trying to keep with others comments. Wishing I could have their positive outlook. Their skills were more like them. My thoughts racing at the same time. Actually have a headache. Even putting on the video I thought "no point" but has inspired me now. Will have to watch again.
Angela
Omg first 2 minutes and AMAZING
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Love this! Thank you so much!
Tough Love😎
Just what I needed to hear.
Appreciated!
TYFS!
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Wow moments for me ❤💙
This is amazing!! Thank you very much for this😍💕
This is where I'm stuck and need to the inner work. Thanks for sharing! 👍❤️
You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.
I am struggling with forgiveness toward those who abused me. Could you please do a video covering this topic. Thank you so much for providing such valuable information to others! ( just found you recently & so grateful 😊)
I'm so glad I came across your channel. This is what I exactly needed for my life atm. Thank you!
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Great video x
Thank You so much.
These videos are always appreciated!! So much knowledge and newfound understanding in the negative paradigms and perceptions I live my life through
Glad you like them! Kind regards, David.
MAN‼ You guys have absolutely NO idea how much this new video and topic are kismet. Thank you and thank The Universe 🙏🏾.
So wonderful a teaching guys!❤️
Keep up the great work.
how to help this kind of person?
Hey David and Alex I watched many videos about this topic and I completely believe others don't define my value like you explained. But I still have three questions that I felt are never answered straight forward.
1. What is the exact definition of intrinsic self value? The only answer I've been able to find or come up with that was non religious was that intrinsic self value is "the potential ability/capacity of the consciousness to experience good"
2. Where does intrinsic self value comes from? I know we create it within. But where does it come from within, what part of us have a reason/justification to deserve meaning? Is it because our incredible opportunity that consciousness allow us to experience?
3. How to asses intrinsic self value? Can it even be assessed, is our intrinsic self value is infinite to us because it is all we know?
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
So happy to be enjoying Wu Wei. 💖
I have watched many, many videos on this subject, but not quite like this one. I just finished watching it for the second time and I feel like I’ve had this huge understanding that I just never got before! The idea we all have the same value at birth and that no one can give or take it away. Sounds so simple and something that should be understood by everyone, but it absolutely is not. Thank you so much for this!!
Thanks for this, some home truths in this video for me, with some good pointers to work with. 😁
Thank you so much for sharing
Thank you for sharing!
Simply outstanding!
there is so many moments in this video that had me struggling to access my inner childs thinking or connection. What about dissociation? Is that not knowing where the inner child is within the self? Is it more having ignored the inner child or being able to connect with it?
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Love the teaching. Thank you very much
Glad you enjoyed it! Kind regards, David.
Thank you for your video. I have this divide with romantic partners and friendships. When it comes to romantic relationships I feel very self reliant ... But in friendships... I totally shrink... I don't know why i can't hold onto that sense of worth...
Hello Doris, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Amazing video, lots of light bulb moments, listened on podcast, I can’t fathom out how to leave review after listening to each one, as I did about 4 one after the other to catch up 💗 xxx
I love you videos excellent work please
Hi I like your videos excellent work please tell us how we heal our inner child fears deeply I feel very happy if u reply
Thank you so much for this channel. You guys are amazing 👏🏼
Lots of love 💙💜🤍
Our pleasure! Kind regards, David.
I understand this perspective but/and it ignores the influence of evolutionary psychology on the mammalian brain. We are hardwired to rely on the feedback from the tribe on our usefulness within the social order. So it feels disingenuous to tell the Inner Child that the opinion of others doesn't matter. She knows that this isn't true. I think there is another way to acknowledge the necessity of navigating our place in relation to others and THEN adjust our Inner Child accordingly. Please do a video on this thanks!!!
how to help this kind of person who didn't value her Worth? even before i knew she is and now after 7 years she told me that she has no value at all?
I understand the teaching very well and I agree with it. But😅 how do I manage in practise? I can tell myself that I am good enough, worthy, loveable but I dont know how I am going to BELIEVE it! How do I make that shift?
Hi @arjaloggers4509,
It's great to hear that you resonate with the teachings! Shifting beliefs is a journey, and it begins with acknowledging your current thoughts, as you've done. Remember, belief is a choice, and changing it is a process. Start small, celebrate your successes, and be patient with yourself. Practicing mindfulness and affirmations consistently can gradually help reinforce your new beliefs. If you're looking for support and shared experiences, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ could be a valuable resource for you.
Understanding and accepting the root of your beliefs is crucial. It's like laying the foundation before building a house. Once you've identified and acknowledged why you hold your current beliefs, you can begin the process of transforming them. Remember, change starts with awareness, and from there, you can choose to cultivate beliefs that support and uplift you. You're on the right path by seeking to understand and accept-this is a powerful first step in choosing to believe in your worth and value.
Kind Regards,
David
Thank you so much for your support Alex en David❤
We are plugged into you because we are watching this vid 🤫.
The part with the teacher is classic ‘woke’ permissive parenthood
If you live with a negative and lazy person how do you keep yourself upbeat.. and still feel good about life? Seeing someone laying on the couch day in and day out. My husband; we own a business and without him I can not be successful alone. So it brings me down
Hello, Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
What you said about the plug thing sounds abit like narcissism, trying to get narc supply from others instead of connecting to source /god or your own energy sorta thing
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Isn’t that constant seeking for approval from our inner child also a subconscious program , so even when we know it’s not right we feel such an agonizing urge to seek approval anyway ? Shouldn’t we work on reprogramming the subs conscious through a modality like hypnosis , along with healing the inner child
How do I get a one on one session?
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Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
I think it would be better if I emphasized more practical work that people can implement to really bring about change. The common theme I see in most of your videos is "just stop it you're fine" but sadly that doesn't do much does it?
I would recommend you try some of the videos on the golden thread process and the inner child.
I've been through everything from Freud to Tony Robbins over the years, but nothing has brought about more real positive change in me than the epiphany that a 6 year old's reasoning was creating the emotions and frequently the actions of myself and those around me. The moment I saw it clearly, everything changed in an instant. I hope you have that moment of enlightenment, it's wonderful.
@@joeprimal2044 Thanks, Joe
Could all of the feelings be from underlying self-hate/loathing?
Emotional feelings arise from our beliefs. Painful or uncomfortable red-light emotional feelings most commonly (but not exclusively) arise from core beliefs such as I'm not good enough, I can't cope, I'm unlovable.
'self hate' who hates who? Or which part hates what? So interesting to actually pause and ask ourselves this. Thank you David and Alex
Thank you for this messages amen