HOW TO HANDLE DISAPPOINTMENT & SETBACKS | Wu Wei Wisdom
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☯️ WU WEI WISDOM LIFE LESSONS EPISODE # 134
When things don’t go your way in life or your relationships, how do you react? Do you always blame yourself or other people or believe that the world is against you?
In this episode, we explain why being disappointed can be very self-destructive. You'll also discover a positive way to cope with setbacks in your life so that you can move on stronger and wiser.
*EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS*
- The origin of disappointment: understanding the power of expectations and why you blame yourself, others, or the world around you.
- How being disappointed affects your future potential and Law of Attraction.
- How your inner child is involved when you experience disappointment.
- An empowering alternative approach to coping with setbacks in life and your relationships.
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This is how I sum it up!
You make a choice about a situation and that choice you make has a consequence!
You take self responsibility for it. Following your Shen! Truth, honesty & integrity!
Choosing to take the green light emotional path is far better than the old path travelled. Far less painful.
Many thanks!
I came to WWW in my search to learn how to effectively parent my Inner Child after experiencing a deeply confusing (to my IC) disappointment in my life. It was very hard to live with the feeling of disappointment that I had created in response to someone important to me telling me one thing and then acting in the opposite way, but I am very very grateful for this experience now because it has led me to these teachings which are -- slowly but surely -- showing me the way to live my life in the Balance, Harmony, and Flow.
Great lesson. I wasn't disappointed one bit.
Thank you so much for posing these videos.
Hi Alex and David. A great amount of hearty gratitude for today's lesson. I have been grappling for many years with this on some situation issues and couldn't get over it. But today lesson just helped me to get over it by just listening to it intently. The teaching was so intense and relaxed me so much that I went to sleep immediately after listening it and slept deeply for more than hour. And after sleep it felt like I was somebody totally different person 😂. Love you. Thank you. God bless you 🙏
I had a longer comment but it should probably go in my journal ... Thank you David and Alex!!
Happy Saturday morning Wu Wei.
Happy good Saturday morning to you wu wei wisdom
Thanks 🙏 some good pointers !
Thank you , your teachings are life changing 🙏🏻
You are so welcome. Kind regards, David.
Great video so many thought provoking thoughts. Could you do a video on worry- especially with health issues you have or up and coming tests that those what if's that take over. How to live for today etc many thanks
So blessed and grateful for your help.
You are so welcome, Kind regards, David.
Yes and Yes spiritual life has saved me from myself!! When anxiety comes I pick my bible or watch TDJakes or Sarah Jakes here in UA-cam 👏💝
Thank you for this video. The job search is disappointing lately.
How do i handle others knowing their actions are innately wrong? For e.g selfishness - neglecting care for elderly parent i believe those people do not deserve love for being so heartless
Hi @PC-ds6zk,
It's challenging when we observe actions that don't align with our values, especially concerning care and compassion. It's important to remember that understanding and empathy can be powerful in addressing such issues. Everyone's journey is unique, and sometimes, understanding their perspective can open pathways for positive change. Encourage open dialogue and lead by example, demonstrating the values you cherish. If you're looking for a community to share and discuss experiences or seek advice, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Together, we can support each other in navigating these challenges.
Kind Regards,
David
Love it!!
THank you!
You're welcome! Kind regards, David.
Thank you so much for you help. I have learn to understand and heal my inner child. Now how you handle dissapointment with a long term illness? It has nothing to do with other people. Its the fact of being sick for a long period of time and you make your best to heal. Go to different doctors, follow all the instructions, and still your body doesn't improve. The person feels lost, doesn't know what to do anymore, feels frustrated, weak (body). Being thankful its key to heal but on this case when the body doesn't respond what do this person needs to do?
I struggle with the “you wouldn’t say that to your physical child” bc a lot of times my mom said exactly that…. So how am I supposed to know what is reasonable or not? The “you wouldn’t talk to a child that way” is a bit assumptive - a lot of us might not need this therapy if our parents had not spoken to us harshly.
I too struggled with this question bc I was taught perfectionism. But as I sit and think of how I want to parent my own children, I realize what I want to teach them is mastery not perfection. For me mastery includes basing expectations in reality and approaching life as a learning journey. I or my child will never be perfect but I can learn and integrate new information and lessons from a truthful approach. I can accept and deal with a problem by focusing on an honest solution. For me this builds toward mastery not having to be perfect or know something before it is reasonably expected. And also as the video explains, I can control creating unreasonable fantasy type outcomes in my own mind that lead to unnecessary disappointment. ❤️
you are awesome
Hello I had a lot of trauma around the age 7/8/9 years of age. I nearly died in a car crash. Now when trying something new I always fear the worst case scenario is there a reason for this ? Maybe related to the inner child ? And is there a video on this ? It would amazing if so. And I would be super greatful.
This is nonsense.
I agree with Alex " it's perfectly natural to feel disappointed. We haven't got hearts of stone David! The heart is stronger than the mind, however I understand congnitavly what your saying about giving your power away, still can't help it.
Hello Rosie, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. I guess you know i am going to disagree with you :-) Stop gining your power away! Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Would you please talk about ocd ?
How do I handle someone bringing up the past over and over again? And making me feel bad. I don't know how to feel okay. I don't know how to say "okay it's just their emotion". I don't know how to do that without feeling bad about myself🤷♀️ my husband doesn't believe me when I tell him that I'm trying to be a better person on the inside and speak to myself better so that we can fight less. We've been married for 18 years and he's been dealing with my issues for a long time and I know that it's two people in a relationship but I do feel like whenever we got together he knew way more (he's six years older than me) and so he had a better grasp on life on reality, especially the way I was brought up.It was not good, so I feel like he doesn't know how to give me leeway, he doesn't know how to forgive me for my past mistakes because he keeps bringing it up. We'll just be watching a movie and something on the movie will be similar to an argument or a fight we've had and it will just.... he'll just go into some tangent and it's something that happened 10-15 years ago and I'm sitting here like we were having a good time, why are you bringing this up right now??? and he'll say "you keep doing it, this is the kind of stuff you still do", and it's just like I don't know how to move on I don't know how to get past it if he keeps bringing it up to me when were not arguing and he'll say we have to talk about this stuff whenever you're Lucid, we have to talk about this stuff when we're not arguing. When we're not heated but I feel like "why are we getting so hostile whenever we were all just having a good time?" Any help would be greatly appreciated🙏
Danetta in addition to doing the Golden Thread, I also listen to affirmation tracks at night and as I ride in my car. The UA-cam channel Live the Life You Love has a affirmation track "Forgive Yourself". It is really helping me. 💕
@@davieogirl I can't sleep with earbuds in and my husband can't sleep with people talking. He's fine with music or sounds but he prefers not to have people talking for safety reasons. Thanks for your suggestions though ✌🙏