I dont want to judge anyone, but if you are seriously considering to live in some country permanently, and you chose it as residence, I think you need to learn their language, culture, traditions, even if you both are foreigners. It's just respect to this country and the only way for you to be accepted and respected. And i'm certain the most important is not if people are treating you as foreigner or not, but if they are friendly to you. And as i can see, most people in China are friendly to foreigners even in small places where they rarely see such.
Yes, you are completely right! I am german, moved to UK and learnt english, then I lived in Paris and learned french, went to work in Italy and learnt italian and my last step was to go to Brazil where I learned portughese! As I am passioned about China and would like to visit, I am learning chinese on youtube to be able to communicate with people! Each language is an expression of the mentallity of a nation and to know the people you must be able to interact in their own language!
@fatisummer9106 I think everyone has ability to learn. Just for some people it may take longer time. And I can say from my own experience it's really not easy to move to another country, and it took me about a year to start to understand and speak well. And it's truth, "Interest is the best teacher".
@fatisummer9106 Don't you want not to be treated as a foreigner on each corner in France, and you want to be treated equally and with Love? And French just Love people who want to learn their language. Moving somewhere is not just choosing a better place to live, it's respecting their culture, language, laws and their way of life. And language is a big part of it, without it you can't immerse in their culture. So we have to learn no matter how long it takes... even though it's not easy sometimes... And language learning improves significantly cognitive functions and memory. So it's not just fun, or interest... it's also healthy and useful. : ) 🌸
do people literally watch all the screen live, or is it used after the fact? Example, would a live watcher call their dispatch if they see an accident, or are their records reviewed hours/days later when authorities ask?
@@darwinjina ??? Watching live, do you know how many people are in China? How much human resources do you think it takes to do a job like watching a live broadcast? For example, if you drive and someone has a traffic accident, and you have a dispute about the determination of responsibility for the accident, you can choose to call the police, the police will come and ask the parties involved about how long ago the accident happened, and then retrieve the footage of the vicinity of the time period, and then determine the responsibility of both parties involved in the accident.
@@cool-0501 it wouldn't be so much of the number of people but where are the cameras located, and the technology used. for example, is it only in the urban areas or is it suburbs too? do you know?
@cool-0501 was the German lady doing satire on the cameras watching her? (Especially considering they are probably not watched live, x% will be fake, and maybe she confused with UK).
As a Chinese guy married to an Indian woman, definitely agree with the Ukrainian lady on how great it is if your wife cannot fluently communicate with your mum. It makes your life so much easier and both your mum and your wife will actually care more about each other than starting any fights.
Great advice Ben, marriage life should stay in between the couple, less parents involves, at least for my preference. Some parents really like to tell their children what to do
Parents should have the freedom of speech. They are usually more experienced and care for their children. Unfortunately they do not always realize that they have raised adults. Everybody should be free to decide. Traditionally the children, especially the boys, were supposed to take care of their parents during old age. With changing financial conditions, especially pensions, this is no more a life or death situation. So there is no more a need to have many children and especially boys, in the hope that one of them would look at you at old age. There is a crucial role for the grand parents in taking care of their grand children, especially when both parents go to work. In Greece and many other countries a grand child often gets the name of a grand parent.
Yes and No, Your mom and Wife will have a very superficial relationship. For me it's better that my wife and parents have a relationship, and they hopefully understand each other no matter. There will be a time your wife will not agree with something, maybe the house decoration or an opinion. She have to pass your the communication and vise-versa.
I lived in China for almost one year, in my opinion the main dificulty in a relationship between a chinese person and a foreigner one in China is the foreigner one must know Chinese Language (if the chinese person only knows mandarin ), he/she must know how to express feelings, emotions, thoughts. The other point is there are cultural differences, so there must be respect and understanding about that, what implies good communication. In general, Chinese people are very friendly, unfotunately my mandarin was not very good. I hope go back to China with a better mandarin.
As a white guy married to a Chinese woman, I can relate to the girl from Ukraine. You definitely have to get along with the family and sometimes it can be exhausting. I also cannot communicate much with my in-laws, but I actually don't see that as a very good thing. Im still trying very hard to improve my Chinese so I can communicate better with them in the future.
@@jungk0081 Sometimes I need to, but using a translator to communicate with somebody is not ideal, it’s better to learn the language if you really care
I'm married to a Chinese too but I speak Chinese because I am doing postgraduate studies here. If you're not already, enrole in a Chinese language program at a university in your city. It is intensive , and in addition to language, you also learn culture and some extracurricular activities and by the end of one year you should be advanced enough, or have the needed foundation to do independent study of the language. You'll meet other foreigners too from all backgrounds and all over the world. I am still friends with people I met in my class, (including a fellow foreigner-chinese couple). The key to thriving in China is to stop comparing it to your country, and also make friends of your own outside of family and family friends.
@@emi62507 unfortunately I’m too busy with my current college courses to also be taking Chinese, but I have been studying on my own for a year and have a solid foundation already. I can communicate basics, but really it’s gonna take me many years before I can communicate my thoughts effectively in Chinese without some language barrier. I don’t need to use Chinese for my relationship, but I do need to use it to communicate with my wife’s family. Given that we are deciding to live in the US, and my wife’s family is in China, it’s not too big of an issue at the moment. It was just challenging and a bit awkward at times when I was in China visiting them and celebrating our marriage.
@@aidanschram9652 You could take a Mandarin Course, if you are planning for rapid progress in conversation. Other and easier way, you already has the Mandarin Teacher in your home, which is Your local wife. Try to communicate in Mandarin often in home with your love ones. It will make you, more fluent in Mandarin conversation.
Someone from Brazil! How cool! This shows that Brazil is diverse. I have to go to Ukraine to find a beautiful woman like that.I have the greatest admiration for the Chinese language, culture and people!
Haha you have no idea - China is still just a country of new money racist farmers pretty much. Look how they treat ethnic minorities - Still low class simple racists in China mostly
It is true that in chinese culture, generally we show love and care through gestures, the husband taking care of the wife financially and always being there for her and their family...overall very family oriented. Family time is super important. Traditional chinese don't show much affection or say the i love you's but through actions
Often in western culture if the husband, no matter how good he is being the family provider, does not cater to the wife's romantic fantasy such as dinner out together (kids not allowed), spending a weekend in hotel (the more expensive the better), flowers on multiple occasions within one year time frame....etc... he may end up divorced or cheated on. The lies he say to her about how much he loves her in many instances are more important than the actual deeds he does all year long for the family, which might have been appreciated in the beginning but after awhile it is taken as a given.....a sense of entitlement. This is also a reason why many western males look for Asian women (not American born and westernized) after multiple divorces. A good friend of mine is an airline pilot. He spent 3 weeks out of a month on his job all over the world. He has only one week off with family. He went through three divorces in the span of 10 years and paid heftily for child support. He finally settles down with an Asian bride. He said after ten years with her he so much appreciated her for not cheating on him despite of the "lack of romantic time together" and half of his income being garnished for child support.
geezes, this channel should go viral. It's down-to-earth and informative. We visited China on a 2.5-week trip ( Guangzhou->Shanghai->Beijing->Chongqing). It's an amazing country! We were drunk every night and walked back to the hotel without any fear of getting robbed, shot, etc. Excellent beer food on the way to the hotel tool. As a foreigner, watch out for the following: The squat toilet, the silent moped zipping through on the pedestrian walkway, dudes coming up to you asking "Do you want massage" girl, angry taxi driver because your VPN is slow as fuk and you're trying to pay him/her via Alipay. For Chongqing, the "hotpot" was not for me. The "real" street food tastes much better. Otherwise, the architecture in Chongqing is simply amazing!
So from this comment I assume that people should visit the country, when they want to be drunk every day and not beeing robbed, where you can't wire money for service, otherwise you will get yelled, where men harasse women on streets with inappropriate proposals and other man says that is the best comment.
Bro your will channel will become viral gradually and eventually. You are doing the street interview in the right way, informative and down-to-earth without politics bs. Best of luck luck!
This whole "you will never be accepted as Chinese but as a foreigner in China.", well, that's exactly what Chinese people experience in Anglosphere or other European countries.
True. So this isn't a one way street since Asians are never accepted as Americans. We get made fun of so much that we are basically outsiders. I laugh at the fact that people try to nail China for this when they also do it. Like "USA is not decent example of human rights buddy, let alone a good example."
there are many western cities that are surveilled as heavily or even more than chinese cities. but it has not much effect of crime rates. maybe it's something else. like socioeconomic, cultural and collective awareness stuff.
Bingo. I was going to come comment precisely this. It’s not just the cameras. The cameras is perhaps 1/10 the reason. Biggest reasons likely include improved basic standards of living; guns banned; and digital payment (therefore almost nobody carries cash etc). And maybe Confucianism if we start looking into less materialistic factors.
@@cogniktive1147 yes. it's good country management. the chinese people are also very capable of many bad things. but the current state of affair of the country does not force them to do any of it. everybody can live prosperously and harmoniously. no need for crimes.
It's cultural difference. In China being men is very difficult. Men have to prove that he can take care of you. He has stable income. Let's look at this way. Animal bird insects everywhere male has to impress female. That's exactly in China. Men has to impress women.
Unless if the man is WHITE, then the stupid family and Chinese wh0re will roll the red carpet for immediate marriage. No need to prove your worth, you can be a homeless white guy she will be offered as cheap wife. WHITE worship & self hate is a Chinese traditional value.
Wrong. It's never been that way on Earth. Men prefer tan women, women prefer white men. In Japan, reverse colorism has acted against white women, whose complexions are stigmatized as too pale or "spotted" in comparison to local Asian women.[25] In Southeast Asia, beauty ideals created by Dutch white male colonists placed brown-skinned Asian women above white women in the female beauty standard, leading to the lower socioeconomic status of blond, light-skinned women in Indonesia.[85] Bonnie Adrian writes that American culture makes white women feel inferior for having pale complexions and reddish features, and that she risked skin cancer and wrinkles trying to darken her pale skin.[22] According to 21st-century research, women in China have recently asserted tan skin as the new female beauty ideal, which they view as healthier and more attractive. According to Tai Wei Lim, Chinese women in the media now sport bronze complexions, and this is viewed as a reclamation of women's autonomy from the fading Chinese patriarchy.[23] According to a 2014 study of Swedish women in Singapore, white women are not fetishized in East Asia, but placed beneath Asian women in the beauty hierarchy. European racial characteristics such as blond hair desexualized Swedish women in Singapore, and made them feel less feminine. Furthermore, their Swedish husbands found local Taiwanese women highly attractive, contributing to the low self esteem of the Swedish women.[75] According to Erica Lorraine Williams, White women in Brazil are considered less attractive than women of color.[76] White Brazilian women have complained that foreign male sex tourists are not interested in them, and that these men prefer brown and black women over White Brazilian women.[76] For this reason, White Brazilian women struggle to compete for the money of male sex tourists.[76]
@Systems_70 LOL dude where are you getting this info from? East Asian media is all pale skin, especially China and Korea. Pale skin has always been the ideal. It's o lying until very recently in the west that it has changed. Out of curiosity, are you a dark skinned and female?
@@shino8854 And what's worse is that their sense of superiority isn't usually as simple as the "I am better than them" kind, it's actually waaay more subtle and pervasive than that... Deep down they have this feeling that their sense of humor, their values and ethical views are somewhat universal (and they don't believe this because of arrogance trust me, but as a byproduct of centuries of western world domination. And you will likely find that in countries who have had major cultural influence from the west, people there have developed this sort of "realist", almost immutable conception of the world, because after all this is how it is, and how it's ever been). So after several interactions with the locals, and them not understanding their jokes or finding them particularly amusing / thought provoking, or maybe they have different views on how certain things should be, etc. etc. it's like their minds go puff.... they simply cannot conceive how a vast group of people can have such different world views and at such a fundamental level. So in the end they cannot help but develop this belief that the locals must all be very basic, uninteresting or not cultured enough about the world. Sorry about the long rant, I'm just a westerner who's had enough of this. (btw, I'm not particularly refering to HK's case, in fact I don't even know how well or not westerners integrate in HK's culture to tell you the truth, I'm just trying to dissect the mind of the average westerner in general as I've seen this type of attitude countless, countless times)
@@thug4lyfe a braaibroodjie? It literally means small bbq bread - pronounced bry (to rhyme with dry) brood-ky (it’s Afrikaans, and the word-ending “tjie” is pronounced almost like “ky” and usually is a diminutive, it changes the meaning of the word it’s attached to, to mean a smaller or small version - usually…You can put whatever you like in it, usually cheese, with maybe onion, chutney or sweet pickles, then it’s toasted on the braai (bbq, usually a charcoal fire, sometimes wood, more rarely is it gas here). I am just editing this in case all the Afrikaner’s come after me for butchering their language - I am originally from Ireland and I don’t speak very good Afrikaans, so this is my basic understanding of the word and I apologize for any inaccuracies 🙈🙏🌺
Very dangerous line of reasoning. Surely you see the implications of this? Anything can be spun positively, but as a whole, this level of surveillence is against people«s freedom. Do you trust the authorities that are watching? The governments? I'm not chinese, but I'd prefer if foreigners didn't enable this sort of thing in my country. Of course there is pressure in China to see it as good or ok.........but that's why we as foreigners need to be honest, beyond just diplomatic.
It’s true what the girl at the end said most of the world used parents as a marriage and courting process. Some odd reason the Western countries are so against their own traditions especially in America.
What a difference between China and South Korea. When I was in China, I saw only white men/chinese women interracial couples but in South Korea I saw mainly Korean men/white women couples. I mean they're both Asian countries
That's the effect of Korean Hallyu...Korean men getting more famous because their persona and coolness that showed in Many Korean Dramas / K-drama. Not only white females, but also in many Asia, America, Europe countries, their women are big fans of Korean men or something that related to Korea (South Korea).
Thanks for the video. Could you do a video talking to older women and older chinese men and ask about dating say in your 40's? How common is it for the older men to want to date and get married but not have children? I am interested what dating is like for that age group vs the western countries
Lool I can make a video about that. if you looking for more adventure, tinder or bumble is good, but many people look for fun tho. If look for more Chinese who never travel or been abroad, Tan tan is cool. Overall I don't recommend any of these lmao
As an ethnic Chinese with a western education, I think men should have his own opinion and independent thinking, and not be a mama's boy. If I really like someone regardless of whether she's a foreigner or not, my parents would have no say in whom I should date or marry. It's my life, not theirs. Having said that, respect is mutual, and has to be earned.
I think you have a very misunderstood perception of Chinese men looking through most of it using western lenses. Like you I also grew up in the west but I lived in China for many years as an adult and really integrated myself with the locals. For one, the Chinese men that are only looking for sex on dating sites is no different than the men from western countries on dating sites. Dating sites are not an ideal solution for finding a real relationship. Most of my Chinese local friends are actually quite respectful towards western women and are serious about dating them. Also in response to your perception of most Chinese men all being super shy, that is far from the truth. When you have a population of over 1 billion people, you are going to meet all sorts of different people if you integrate yourself with them. Some of the Chinese men that I befriended are actually no different than western men when it comes to being confident and assertive.
I think is quite interesting hearing some of these. I’m a brown skinned woman. I know it’s not for all but a lot of Chinese men won’t date because of their parent’s preferences. When I move there it’ll just be for peace and comfortability not to date lol
I am a brown skinned man with a Chinese wife and my sister is going to marry a (American born) Chinese guy. Not every man is the same! China has many cool and handsome guys who might like you, so don’t give up!
You always have shitty guy in any culture. That being said, in my humble opinion as a Chinese living abroad, i think for long term relationships…it’s more easy for foreign girls to date Chinese men. As China is a patriarchal culture, men will provide care and financial security after marriage. Sometimes it could a bot little overwhelming for the foreign girl if she use to be autonomous. But in the other hand, a Chinese girl who date a foreign guy from country where gender equity if very strong…it won’t work at all. He will split restaurants bills, will expect her to contribute to the family income,etc. When the values set are too different…it won’t work.
Actually the relationship between the foreign daughter in law with the husband's parents would be good for both as seen with mixed marriages on UA-cam.
19:21 "You lose social credit." Is this sarcasm or not? The woman responds as if it is but there are lots of videos on China's social credit system. Is social credit program pervasive across the country?
The social credit stuff pushed by the West is nonsense. It just the usual China bashing from the West. The West has something called credit score that can affect if you can get a loan. How's that for hypocrisy.
Social Credit is a meme, but the closest analogy to reality is a Criminal Record. If you are a convicted felon then you have certain privileges restricted. Hence why the crime rate is so low.
@@jimbi-j don't marriage to foreigners... china 🇨🇳 culture different from others country.. specially language.. foreign girls always fake attitude..fake promise.. india 🇮🇳 boy know foreign girls only 3 years good and your money down..they go other china boy..so marry to china girls... pakistani girls good they never forget you easily...as a india boy.. india girls follow USA girls type now
I am a foreigner - if you see foreign person having a difficulty (for example cannot read a menu, looking lost), ask in English if they need help. Where I come from, and also in America where I live now, it is common for strangers to offer helping people but I notice this is uncommon in China. Since you seem to have good English, maybe you can try to offer to help foreigners you meet on the street (if they seem to need help, don’t just bother random people 😂)
my personal experience, as a mixed race European and Asian mature and single lady is that Japanese, Korean and Chinese men in general are difficult to converse with and date. In my experience, i never met anyone who was actually serious about finding a life partner, like i was. So i think that the brazilian-Chinese interpreter was absolutely right when she mentioned that most chinese men will actively pursue and marry Chinese ladies, but they will not demonstrate the same behaviour towards foreign women, it is very rare. Interacial marriages in the world, are, still very rare to be honest, not just in China.
Interracial marriage between asian and other countries is very rare, hope to see more soon.For women is harder to date, because boys will always be boys
How is that rare, Asian ladies with Caucasians guys are everywhere. I find the issue with most western girls are that they have no intention to date seriously but looking for fun and attention, almost emotionally absence as well. They mostly call themself expats, though they are actually western migrants looking out for opportunities, in search for real rich expats or locals, similarly materialistic. I chatted with a lady from Russia recently and she told me she's Russian and Russian prefer rich and she doesn't date locals. So don't blame locals, they are just playing victims here.
Things may have change as the stats in 2024 show that 80% of foreign marriages registered that year in China are Chinese men to foreign women (mainly Ukrainian & Russian women).
@@Touyoujinthings changed a lot since 2022 and 2022 stats show that in China now 80% of foreign registered marriages is Chinese men to foreign women, mainly Ukrainian & Russian women while 20% is foreign men to Chinese women.
Disagree. You don't have the data to back it up and I'm too lazy to look it up. But there are many videos showing chinese men are marrying foreign wives due to gender imbalance, high requirements by chinese women: bride price, car, house, salary, height, personality, basically the modern prince charming like ceo of a large company, family empire like those asian drama. Come on ladies how many of those tall, ceo, sons, uncles from those asian dramas are single and available but these ladies and their girlfriends insist they won't settle for less than an asian drama ceo, or son of a rich family empire so the ladies age out to like 50s-60s and still single waiting for samsung ceo lol.
One of the girls talk like western girls do not care about the financial situation of guys at all. Does anyone really believe that? I have lived in a western country for over 30 years and I can say for sure that it's not true.
Yeah you’re right, I don’t believe that either, but than again the states is very diverse is term of culture and being westernize. It’s more or less depending of the individual person of caring to the extreme or less about the financial status of the male partner. Regarding in China it’s typical that Chinese woman are looking for a strong/wealthy male partner. They are concern and uptight about a men financially status. One of the woman in the video mention that it’s common the guys comes approach and introducing their CV/ family financial situation.
@@Drew-po6ju I agree with you. So it's a specturm. From degrees of 1 to 10, perhaps most women in China is a 8 and most women in the West is a 5. But it's still just wrong and a plain lie to make it out like all women in China go after finance and all women in the West do not care about finance. I am sure everyone with a brain can understand what I am trying to point out.
Господи я ответила наверное в каждой ветке. Мне очень любопытен китай. Лол. Чтож я попробую объяснить как я это вижу. Деньги важны да. Важны с двух сторон парень не должен быть бедным (ну тут гибко. Если он умный, заботливый и красивый с этим можно жить) и не должен быть слишком богатым (не стоит ходить с ножом на перестрелку) . НО помимо денег он еще должен быть интересным человеком, с ним должно быть приятно общаться. Он должен быть умным и видеть во мне человека, а не красивую куклу. Грубо говоря с ним должно быть лучше чем него, а когда я вижу что человек настойчиво предлагает деньги я делаю вывод что это все что у него есть и жить с ним будет трудно. Ну как-то так.
I didn’t say girls don’t care about money at all, but money is not the only thing that matters in a relationship. In China, guys think if they have money they can date anyone. But it doesn’t work for me. I don’t care how much money you have. I look at the personality, humor, intellect, and the way the guy treats me at first, and money is not the most important part. I don’t care how much the guy earns, his salary has nothing to do with me, he should just have enough for the necessities (I said it but it was cut from the video). Btw I’m proudly married to a Chinese person 😅
Well I know also in Hungary no one cares at the BEGINNING of dating how poor or rich you are. It's just not a thing. You can get women to bed no problem doesn't matter if you even have a bank account. With marriage and starting a family also Hungarians care more about money. But like if you're introducing yourself with eg. how much money you make (in Hungary) all you will get is people laughing at you, and fellow men forcing you to buy them drinks.
4:08 that’s definitely true that you need the parents approval! Maybe it is both positive and negative, but you aren’t marrying your parents! But also maybe, the parent are judgements, bc they want to find a good partner for their kid?
Нет но на западе если ты будешь слишком прислушаться к своим родителям - это плохо. Потому что чувак у тебя будет своя семья и мы ожидаем что она будет на первом месте. Это не значит что надо разлюбить родителей, это значит что мое мнение такое же важное или лаже важнее.
*Aiden, welcome to Guangzhou. I am a foreigner who has lived in China for 7 years and has extensive experience dating Chinese girls. It would be nice to talk with you and answer your questions.*
*I did some interviews like you 3 years ago, but I gave it up, because I think that most Chinese girls are not honest with me and most of them just cared to save their faces in front of the camera.*
18:40 She contrasting her views of so many cameras to other Westerners. She doesn't feel spied on but at the same time there's a very nosey woman in the background trying to figure out what going on. 😂
I 100% agree I'm a Mexican American married to a chinese woman, she values more on her independence than her family values. However, her and I are giving as much respect as possible to the culture and values. Learning chinese is a fun challenge. Hopefully I'll be able to communicate effectively in a year from now.
Aiden, you should interview matchmaking agencies rather these girls. Interview the foreign women that agencies match with chinese men, then your data would be better.
Ok why I'm watching this , 😂 I don't know. But why our (India-China) relationship is not that good😢. Feeling really sad🥹 we love Chinese boys🥹 ok just chill babe . Maybe in another life.❤
@@x01021 but mai toh apne Himachal se bahr kabhi nhi gyi toh china kb pahunchungi , isi dukh se zindagi jiyenge bhai,🤣😂 I hope aap mujhe kisi chinese ldke se jrur milayenge ,🤣😂🙈
It's okay 👍.. I'm obsessed with china.. maybe one day I will go to China and explore china 😊. It's my dream country.. but idk why India-China relationship is not good 😢😢.
As an overseas China I would agree it's the same about getting the approval of my parents. I mean, if only my parents like the girl and I don't like her then it's a no no, but if I like her but my parents don't like her then it will probably not work out either. Because in racist Anglosphere countries you and your parents are usually a lonelysphere and they are truly the people that supported you there, hence you cannot marry someone that will make them feel bad because it's not fair for them.
Девочка с украины. Я могу тебе сказать что она подумала. Мужчины которые слишком слушаются родителей непопулярны, так как считается что они не способны сами принимать решения и еще не сепарировались от семьи. Это однозначно плохо и для своей семьи я хочу быть на первом месте, а не быть второй после родителей. В конце концов не они женятся.
You should have asked me. 😄I have lived in China (Shanghai, Shenzhen) for more than 6 years and I have a large account. There were so many different men who wrote to me. I believe that it doesn't matter which country a man is in - they are all different, but most of them are not smart enough and do not perceive a woman as a person. It is very difficult to find a diamond everywhere.
Chinese guy here, the Ukrainian woman has got it figured out, just copy what she does, deep connection especially with in-laws is totally overrated and possibly double edged
all these people and answers only scrape the surface. ask some that actually know, they will tell you about real cultural differences. because the 1st 5% is just talking about "apartment, salary, which school" etc. is still the "nice stuff". but life gets pretty real after dating or marriage and then western women realize they have noting in common with Chinese men. not even topics to talk about. and that can be eye opening. ok, some are different but if you see the majority it's still pretty traditional. Guy is the head of the family and he only wants his wife to adore him, not be equal or even challenge him. Many girls saw this at first date and said no to the guy. they mostly said there are no common topics to talk about.
What's with the bashing of Chinese men? Sounds like you're trying to push an agenda. Are you even Chinese? Firstly, there are more Slavic women than Western women in Chìna. They tend to be interested and open minded to the culture and learn the language. It's very arrogant and ignorant of you to automatically assume a Chinese man and Western women have no common ground. Do individuals not have different taste in movies, music, interests, and hobbies? Many Chinese men have lived in the West or Europe, so are familiar with the cultural differences anyway. As for your "head of the family" hogwash, you have clearly not heard of the Chinese saying: Women hold up half the sky. If you are implying China is male dominated, then go and compare American politicians Chinese ones. America is dominated by males in the lesdership roles, while China has a split of men and women. Your comment is full of generalisations.
I dont want to judge anyone, but if you are seriously considering to live in some country permanently, and you chose it as residence, I think you need to learn their language, culture, traditions, even if you both are foreigners. It's just respect to this country and the only way for you to be accepted and respected. And i'm certain the most important is not if people are treating you as foreigner or not, but if they are friendly to you. And as i can see, most people in China are friendly to foreigners even in small places where they rarely see such.
soft low pounding white boys: I dont give a shit about learning eastern lanuages, I am white I am superior in human history
Yes, you are completely right! I am german, moved to UK and learnt english, then I lived in Paris and learned french, went to work in Italy and learnt italian and my last step was to go to Brazil where I learned portughese! As I am passioned about China and would like to visit, I am learning chinese on youtube to be able to communicate with people! Each language is an expression of the mentallity of a nation and to know the people you must be able to interact in their own language!
@fatisummer9106
I think everyone has ability to learn. Just for some people it may take longer time. And I can say from my own experience it's really not easy to move to another country, and it took me about a year to start to understand and speak well. And it's truth, "Interest is the best teacher".
@eulescholz8530 Sure to live there and learn, : That's the best way to learn a new language and to immerse in a different culture. : ) 🌸
@fatisummer9106 Don't you want not to be treated as a foreigner on each corner in France, and you want to be treated equally and with Love? And French just Love people who want to learn their language. Moving somewhere is not just choosing a better place to live, it's respecting their culture, language, laws and their way of life. And language is a big part of it, without it you can't immerse in their culture. So we have to learn no matter how long it takes... even though it's not easy sometimes...
And language learning improves significantly cognitive functions and memory. So it's not just fun, or interest... it's also healthy and useful. : ) 🌸
❤ the German lady said that the CCTV on the street is like a "Guardian Angel watching over me", that is so well put ❤
do people literally watch all the screen live, or is it used after the fact? Example, would a live watcher call their dispatch if they see an accident, or are their records reviewed hours/days later when authorities ask?
@@darwinjina ??? Watching live, do you know how many people are in China? How much human resources do you think it takes to do a job like watching a live broadcast? For example, if you drive and someone has a traffic accident, and you have a dispute about the determination of responsibility for the accident, you can choose to call the police, the police will come and ask the parties involved about how long ago the accident happened, and then retrieve the footage of the vicinity of the time period, and then determine the responsibility of both parties involved in the accident.
@@cool-0501 it wouldn't be so much of the number of people but where are the cameras located, and the technology used. for example, is it only in the urban areas or is it suburbs too? do you know?
@cool-0501 was the German lady doing satire on the cameras watching her? (Especially considering they are probably not watched live, x% will be fake, and maybe she confused with UK).
I like it. I have been living and working in China for 2 years and I like the life in China. Nice content.
As a Chinese guy married to an Indian woman, definitely agree with the Ukrainian lady on how great it is if your wife cannot fluently communicate with your mum. It makes your life so much easier and both your mum and your wife will actually care more about each other than starting any fights.
Great advice Ben, marriage life should stay in between the couple, less parents involves, at least for my preference. Some parents really like to tell their children what to do
Parents should have the freedom of speech. They are usually more experienced and care for their children. Unfortunately they do not always realize that they have raised adults. Everybody should be free to decide. Traditionally the children, especially the boys, were supposed to take care of their parents during old age. With changing financial conditions, especially pensions, this is no more a life or death situation. So there is no more a need to have many children and especially boys, in the hope that one of them would look at you at old age. There is a crucial role for the grand parents in taking care of their grand children, especially when both parents go to work. In Greece and many other countries a grand child often gets the name of a grand parent.
Yes and No, Your mom and Wife will have a very superficial relationship. For me it's better that my wife and parents have a relationship, and they hopefully understand each other no matter. There will be a time your wife will not agree with something, maybe the house decoration or an opinion. She have to pass your the communication and vise-versa.
@@capp1306 You're just a weak mama's boy.
兄弟厉害😢😂
I lived in China for almost one year, in my opinion the main dificulty in a relationship between a chinese person and a foreigner one in China is the foreigner one must know Chinese Language (if the chinese person only knows mandarin ), he/she must know how to express feelings, emotions, thoughts. The other point is there are cultural differences, so there must be respect and understanding about that, what implies good communication. In general, Chinese people are very friendly, unfotunately my mandarin was not very good. I hope go back to China with a better mandarin.
As a white guy married to a Chinese woman, I can relate to the girl from Ukraine. You definitely have to get along with the family and sometimes it can be exhausting. I also cannot communicate much with my in-laws, but I actually don't see that as a very good thing. Im still trying very hard to improve my Chinese so I can communicate better with them in the future.
Why don't you use app translator ?
@@jungk0081 Sometimes I need to, but using a translator to communicate with somebody is not ideal, it’s better to learn the language if you really care
I'm married to a Chinese too but I speak Chinese because I am doing postgraduate studies here. If you're not already, enrole in a Chinese language program at a university in your city. It is intensive , and in addition to language, you also learn culture and some extracurricular activities and by the end of one year you should be advanced enough, or have the needed foundation to do independent study of the language. You'll meet other foreigners too from all backgrounds and all over the world. I am still friends with people I met in my class, (including a fellow foreigner-chinese couple). The key to thriving in China is to stop comparing it to your country, and also make friends of your own outside of family and family friends.
@@emi62507 unfortunately I’m too busy with my current college courses to also be taking Chinese, but I have been studying on my own for a year and have a solid foundation already. I can communicate basics, but really it’s gonna take me many years before I can communicate my thoughts effectively in Chinese without some language barrier. I don’t need to use Chinese for my relationship, but I do need to use it to communicate with my wife’s family. Given that we are deciding to live in the US, and my wife’s family is in China, it’s not too big of an issue at the moment. It was just challenging and a bit awkward at times when I was in China visiting them and celebrating our marriage.
@@aidanschram9652 You could take a Mandarin Course, if you are planning for rapid progress in conversation. Other and easier way, you already has the Mandarin Teacher in your home, which is Your local wife. Try to communicate in Mandarin often in home with your love ones. It will make you, more fluent in Mandarin conversation.
Someone from Brazil! How cool! This shows that Brazil is diverse. I have to go to Ukraine to find a beautiful woman like that.I have the greatest admiration for the Chinese language, culture and people!
the best advice was from the host, Aiden Qiu, great show!
The girl from New York got really good pronunciation for Mandarin and Cantonese for an ABC. Most ABCs I know only speaks English.
Half Korean, half Chinese, grew up in Korea, studied in America, now back to China ahaha
Haha you have no idea - China is still just a country of new money racist farmers pretty much. Look how they treat ethnic minorities - Still low class simple racists in China mostly
Wow, her Cantonese is really good. 🤗
It is true that in chinese culture, generally we show love and care through gestures, the husband taking care of the wife financially and always being there for her and their family...overall very family oriented. Family time is super important. Traditional chinese don't show much affection or say the i love you's but through actions
Often in western culture if the husband, no matter how good he is being the family provider, does not cater to the wife's romantic fantasy such as dinner out together (kids not allowed), spending a weekend in hotel (the more expensive the better), flowers on multiple occasions within one year time frame....etc... he may end up divorced or cheated on. The lies he say to her about how much he loves her in many instances are more important than the actual deeds he does all year long for the family, which might have been appreciated in the beginning but after awhile it is taken as a given.....a sense of entitlement. This is also a reason why many western males look for Asian women (not American born and westernized) after multiple divorces. A good friend of mine is an airline pilot. He spent 3 weeks out of a month on his job all over the world. He has only one week off with family. He went through three divorces in the span of 10 years and paid heftily for child support. He finally settles down with an Asian bride. He said after ten years with her he so much appreciated her for not cheating on him despite of the "lack of romantic time together" and half of his income being garnished for child support.
geezes, this channel should go viral. It's down-to-earth and informative. We visited China on a 2.5-week trip ( Guangzhou->Shanghai->Beijing->Chongqing). It's an amazing country! We were drunk every night and walked back to the hotel without any fear of getting robbed, shot, etc. Excellent beer food on the way to the hotel tool. As a foreigner, watch out for the following: The squat toilet, the silent moped zipping through on the pedestrian walkway, dudes coming up to you asking "Do you want massage" girl, angry taxi driver because your VPN is slow as fuk and you're trying to pay him/her via Alipay. For Chongqing, the "hotpot" was not for me. The "real" street food tastes much better. Otherwise, the architecture in Chongqing is simply amazing!
Damn dude, best comment ever and encouraging 🙌🏼
I liked the Alipay payment with VPN story, that’s true! 😂😂😂
So from this comment I assume that people should visit the country, when they want to be drunk every day and not beeing robbed, where you can't wire money for service, otherwise you will get yelled, where men harasse women on streets with inappropriate proposals and other man says that is the best comment.
所以一个好的VPN很重要，还有支付的时候最好关闭VPN，会影响支付速度！
Good advice
Bro your will channel will become viral gradually and eventually. You are doing the street interview in the right way, informative and down-to-earth without politics bs. Best of luck luck!
Thank you! 💪🏼
It’s interesting to see how different people will answer the same question. You did a great job!
This whole "you will never be accepted as Chinese but as a foreigner in China.", well, that's exactly what Chinese people experience in Anglosphere or other European countries.
Even when you’re born there
True. So this isn't a one way street since Asians are never accepted as Americans. We get made fun of so much that we are basically outsiders. I laugh at the fact that people try to nail China for this when they also do it. Like "USA is not decent example of human rights buddy, let alone a good example."
You clearly have never been to America.
In the Anglosphere it is worser for Chinese in terms of dating, working and especially safety!
@@shaquanjamison8161I am in America right now,I must say she is right 😂😂😂😂😂so many racists 😅还是说你超绝钝感力完全体会不到？？？
there are many western cities that are surveilled as heavily or even more than chinese cities. but it has not much effect of crime rates. maybe it's something else. like socioeconomic, cultural and collective awareness stuff.
like a hive
True, London has the highest density of cameras to population but crime is still high!
Bingo. I was going to come comment precisely this. It’s not just the cameras. The cameras is perhaps 1/10 the reason. Biggest reasons likely include improved basic standards of living; guns banned; and digital payment (therefore almost nobody carries cash etc). And maybe Confucianism if we start looking into less materialistic factors.
@@cogniktive1147 yes. it's good country management. the chinese people are also very capable of many bad things. but the current state of affair of the country does not force them to do any of it. everybody can live prosperously and harmoniously. no need for crimes.
It's cultural difference. In China being men is very difficult. Men have to prove that he can take care of you. He has stable income. Let's look at this way. Animal bird insects everywhere male has to impress female. That's exactly in China. Men has to impress women.
No one should get married without a stable income
Unless if the man is WHITE, then the stupid family and Chinese wh0re will roll the red carpet for immediate marriage. No need to prove your worth, you can be a homeless white guy she will be offered as cheap wife. WHITE worship & self hate is a Chinese traditional value.
Isabelle was very graceful and charming and a sensitive kind person.
Interesting vlog. Nice having the perspective of a foreign woman in China.
hungarian wife and chinese husband👁️👄👁️
and that's on globalization
BRI: belt road initiative :)
China and Chinese men are the world’s no.1! 🇨🇳😎
I like this type of contents, thanks and nice work
*content
If you white girl or fair skin then Chinese boyfriend parents will like you
its been like that for us since men walked the earth.
Wrong. It's never been that way on Earth. Men prefer tan women, women prefer white men.
In Japan, reverse colorism has acted against white women, whose complexions are stigmatized as too pale or "spotted" in comparison to local Asian women.[25] In Southeast Asia, beauty ideals created by Dutch white male colonists placed brown-skinned Asian women above white women in the female beauty standard, leading to the lower socioeconomic status of blond, light-skinned women in Indonesia.[85]
Bonnie Adrian writes that American culture makes white women feel inferior for having pale complexions and reddish features, and that she risked skin cancer and wrinkles trying to darken her pale skin.[22] According to 21st-century research, women in China have recently asserted tan skin as the new female beauty ideal, which they view as healthier and more attractive. According to Tai Wei Lim, Chinese women in the media now sport bronze complexions, and this is viewed as a reclamation of women's autonomy from the fading Chinese patriarchy.[23]
According to a 2014 study of Swedish women in Singapore, white women are not fetishized in East Asia, but placed beneath Asian women in the beauty hierarchy. European racial characteristics such as blond hair desexualized Swedish women in Singapore, and made them feel less feminine. Furthermore, their Swedish husbands found local Taiwanese women highly attractive, contributing to the low self esteem of the Swedish women.[75] According to Erica Lorraine Williams, White women in Brazil are considered less attractive than women of color.[76] White Brazilian women have complained that foreign male sex tourists are not interested in them, and that these men prefer brown and black women over White Brazilian women.[76] For this reason, White Brazilian women struggle to compete for the money of male sex tourists.[76]
@@TheOne_isGOD really?Then first man and women are from Africa then?! You guys become black to white!😂🥺
@@TheOne_isGOD women have a fetish for white skinned men
@Systems_70 LOL dude where are you getting this info from? East Asian media is all pale skin, especially China and Korea. Pale skin has always been the ideal. It's o lying until very recently in the west that it has changed. Out of curiosity, are you a dark skinned and female?
I visited HK awhile ago. I noticed the foreigners are stand offish, they socialize among themselves. Almost unapproachable. Maybe it's changed since.
Nah, they still think they are better than the locals....that's why they are percieved as arrogant.
@@shino8854 And what's worse is that their sense of superiority isn't usually as simple as the "I am better than them" kind, it's actually waaay more subtle and pervasive than that... Deep down they have this feeling that their sense of humor, their values and ethical views are somewhat universal (and they don't believe this because of arrogance trust me, but as a byproduct of centuries of western world domination. And you will likely find that in countries who have had major cultural influence from the west, people there have developed this sort of "realist", almost immutable conception of the world, because after all this is how it is, and how it's ever been).
So after several interactions with the locals, and them not understanding their jokes or finding them particularly amusing / thought provoking, or maybe they have different views on how certain things should be, etc. etc. it's like their minds go puff.... they simply cannot conceive how a vast group of people can have such different world views and at such a fundamental level. So in the end they cannot help but develop this belief that the locals must all be very basic, uninteresting or not cultured enough about the world. Sorry about the long rant, I'm just a westerner who's had enough of this. (btw, I'm not particularly refering to HK's case, in fact I don't even know how well or not westerners integrate in HK's culture to tell you the truth, I'm just trying to dissect the mind of the average westerner in general as I've seen this type of attitude countless, countless times)
Hong Kong doesn’t have the same vibe as Mainland China
Awesome video, looking forward for more this type of videos
Great interviews! I’m a new sub from South Africa 🇿🇦 - looking forward to more videos from you Aiden ❤️🌺
Whats that cheese and onion sandwich thing yall eat there called shawty?!!! braybriae or something?
South Africa was racist just like China against blacks, etc.
@@thug4lyfe a braaibroodjie? It literally means small bbq bread - pronounced bry (to rhyme with dry) brood-ky (it’s Afrikaans, and the word-ending “tjie” is pronounced almost like “ky” and usually is a diminutive, it changes the meaning of the word it’s attached to, to mean a smaller or small version - usually…You can put whatever you like in it, usually cheese, with maybe onion, chutney or sweet pickles, then it’s toasted on the braai (bbq, usually a charcoal fire, sometimes wood, more rarely is it gas here). I am just editing this in case all the Afrikaner’s come after me for butchering their language - I am originally from Ireland and I don’t speak very good Afrikaans, so this is my basic understanding of the word and I apologize for any inaccuracies 🙈🙏🌺
I agree this the statement that if you do nothing illegal you do not mind about the cameras 😊and it makes your whereabouts safer !
Very dangerous line of reasoning. Surely you see the implications of this? Anything can be spun positively, but as a whole, this level of surveillence is against people«s freedom. Do you trust the authorities that are watching? The governments?
I'm not chinese, but I'd prefer if foreigners didn't enable this sort of thing in my country. Of course there is pressure in China to see it as good or ok.........but that's why we as foreigners need to be honest, beyond just diplomatic.
@@jeanjacqueslundi3502i am Chinese i totally agree with u. Such a ridiculous reason if u don't do things not legal why u mind cameras! Ridiculous.
@@jeanjacqueslundi3502 我认为有摄像头是好事，因为有摄像头的地方是公共场合，又不是你家，我在国外，上班附近有枪击案，家附近也有枪击案，我所需要的是治安要好，社会的治安都不好了整天提心吊胆的，我估计你哪天被人爆头了都不知道尸体在哪里
It’s true what the girl at the end said most of the world used parents as a marriage and courting process. Some odd reason the Western countries are so against their own traditions especially in America.
What a difference between China and South Korea. When I was in China, I saw only white men/chinese women interracial couples but in South Korea I saw mainly Korean men/white women couples. I mean they're both Asian countries
That's the effect of Korean Hallyu...Korean men getting more famous because their persona and coolness that showed in Many Korean Dramas / K-drama. Not only white females, but also in many Asia, America, Europe countries, their women are big fans of Korean men or something that related to Korea (South Korea).
In Korea that's because of kpop kdrama foreign women search their dream rich korean chairman in the end they meet just a simple man 😂😂😂
Bro in 2023, 10+ million foreign women visited South Korea vs only 3 million foreign men🤔
In North China, there's a lot more foreign women with the men compared to the South.
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Thanks for the video. Could you do a video talking to older women and older chinese men and ask about dating say in your 40's? How common is it for the older men to want to date and get married but not have children? I am interested what dating is like for that age group vs the western countries
Yes, basically need to find people who are single in their 40s. What else are some questions could be interesting to ask?
Hello! What's the best international dating app!!! I'm looking for a chinese husband.
Lool I can make a video about that. if you looking for more adventure, tinder or bumble is good, but many people look for fun tho. If look for more Chinese who never travel or been abroad, Tan tan is cool. Overall I don't recommend any of these lmao
Tantan is the Chinese dating app you are looking for.
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@ADgu-c从此，网络上又多了一个被骗的😂b6tx
Need more video like these!!!!
all of the people interviewed seemed really nice
The 1/2 Brazilian / Chinese girl is definitely Brazilian - look at the constant hand gestures lol - I’m also Brazilian we talk with our hands
Now try to interview those that speak Chinese.
Nah f them - Why no Chinese UA-cam lol scared racists
As an ethnic Chinese with a western education, I think men should have his own opinion and independent thinking, and not be a mama's boy. If I really like someone regardless of whether she's a foreigner or not, my parents would have no say in whom I should date or marry. It's my life, not theirs. Having said that, respect is mutual, and has to be earned.
it's not all true, many Chinese men do choose who they want to marry without parents agree
its still the same, if a chinese guy go to Ukraine, he/she is still a foreigner!
Если проживёт достаточно долго и пример культуру сможет говорить что он украинец. Это будет нормально воспринято.
I think you have a very misunderstood perception of Chinese men looking through most of it using western lenses.
Like you I also grew up in the west but I lived in China for many years as an adult and really integrated myself with the locals.
For one, the Chinese men that are only looking for sex on dating sites is no different than the men from western countries on dating sites. Dating sites are not an ideal solution for finding a real relationship.
Most of my Chinese local friends are actually quite respectful towards western women and are serious about dating them.
Also in response to your perception of most Chinese men all being super shy, that is far from the truth. When you have a population of over 1 billion people, you are going to meet all sorts of different people if you integrate yourself with them.
Some of the Chinese men that I befriended are actually no different than western men when it comes to being confident and assertive.
Thank you for sharing, I grow up in China until 16, and returned at 21. I didn’t grow up in the west
@@aiden_qiuu how came you sound so west
@@zheng5724 I traveled a lot and studied abroad before
I think is quite interesting hearing some of these. I’m a brown skinned woman. I know it’s not for all but a lot of Chinese men won’t date because of their parent’s preferences. When I move there it’ll just be for peace and comfortability not to date lol
Honestly not easy for black female to date Chinese, majority Chinese guys are too conservative about that...but at least you got the good Chinese food
@@aiden_qiuu haha 😂 very true
I am a brown skinned man with a Chinese wife and my sister is going to marry a (American born) Chinese guy. Not every man is the same! China has many cool and handsome guys who might like you, so don’t give up!
Chinese men working in Africa have married local black women.
@@Q_QQ_Q You know what dry spells do to a man...
You always have shitty guy in any culture. That being said, in my humble opinion as a Chinese living abroad, i think for long term relationships…it’s more easy for foreign girls to date Chinese men. As China is a patriarchal culture, men will provide care and financial security after marriage. Sometimes it could a bot little overwhelming for the foreign girl if she use to be autonomous. But in the other hand, a Chinese girl who date a foreign guy from country where gender equity if very strong…it won’t work at all. He will split restaurants bills, will expect her to contribute to the family income,etc. When the values set are too different…it won’t work.
LMAO best way to avoid conflicts with your in-laws is to NOT speak their language, just smile. Thanks
Честно это звучит очень плохо.
Actually the relationship between the foreign daughter in law with the husband's parents would be good for both as seen with mixed marriages on UA-cam.
Korean-Hong-Kong couple is beautiful, modest and both speak very good English
Love the channel! You will have many many subscribers soon. Great content
Thank you for sharing! 🙏
19:21 "You lose social credit." Is this sarcasm or not? The woman responds as if it is but there are lots of videos on China's social credit system. Is social credit program pervasive across the country?
No, in real life, I have never heard about the social credit thing.
@@caijunxu3300 Thank you.
The social credit stuff pushed by the West is nonsense. It just the usual China bashing from the West. The West has something called credit score that can affect if you can get a loan. How's that for hypocrisy.
Social Credit is a meme, but the closest analogy to reality is a Criminal Record. If you are a convicted felon then you have certain privileges restricted. Hence why the crime rate is so low.
@@GalianMode @caijunxu3300, I was told to ask you two about how the term 积分制 is used in your personal experience?
Language of love is all you need
Hello, I'm a Chinese living Guangzhou. How can make friends with foreigners in China? T_T
I guess go to a bar
@@aiden_qiuu It's really a pity that I don't drink alcohol. Thank you for your advice. hhh
@@jimbi-j don't marriage to foreigners... china 🇨🇳 culture different from others country.. specially language.. foreign girls always fake attitude..fake promise.. india 🇮🇳 boy know foreign girls only 3 years good and your money down..they go other china boy..so marry to china girls... pakistani girls good they never forget you easily...as a india boy.. india girls follow USA girls type now
I am a foreigner - if you see foreign person having a difficulty (for example cannot read a menu, looking lost), ask in English if they need help. Where I come from, and also in America where I live now, it is common for strangers to offer helping people but I notice this is uncommon in China. Since you seem to have good English, maybe you can try to offer to help foreigners you meet on the street (if they seem to need help, don’t just bother random people 😂)
@@x01021 many thanks. it's so kind of you. haha
Solid content! I liked it!
my personal experience, as a mixed race European and Asian mature and single lady is that Japanese, Korean and Chinese men in general are difficult to converse with and date. In my experience, i never met anyone who was actually serious about finding a life partner, like i was. So i think that the brazilian-Chinese interpreter was absolutely right when she mentioned that most chinese men will actively pursue and marry Chinese ladies, but they will not demonstrate the same behaviour towards foreign women, it is very rare. Interacial marriages in the world, are, still very rare to be honest, not just in China.
Interracial marriage between asian and other countries is very rare, hope to see more soon.For women is harder to date, because boys will always be boys
How is that rare, Asian ladies with Caucasians guys are everywhere. I find the issue with most western girls are that they have no intention to date seriously but looking for fun and attention, almost emotionally absence as well. They mostly call themself expats, though they are actually western migrants looking out for opportunities, in search for real rich expats or locals, similarly materialistic. I chatted with a lady from Russia recently and she told me she's Russian and Russian prefer rich and she doesn't date locals. So don't blame locals, they are just playing victims here.
Things may have change as the stats in 2024 show that 80% of foreign marriages registered that year in China are Chinese men to foreign women (mainly Ukrainian & Russian women).
@@Touyoujinthings changed a lot since 2022 and 2022 stats show that in China now 80% of foreign registered marriages is Chinese men to foreign women, mainly Ukrainian & Russian women while 20% is foreign men to Chinese women.
Disagree. You don't have the data to back it up and I'm too lazy to look it up. But there are many videos showing chinese men are marrying foreign wives due to gender imbalance, high requirements by chinese women: bride price, car, house, salary, height, personality, basically the modern prince charming like ceo of a large company, family empire like those asian drama. Come on ladies how many of those tall, ceo, sons, uncles from those asian dramas are single and available but these ladies and their girlfriends insist they won't settle for less than an asian drama ceo, or son of a rich family empire so the ladies age out to like 50s-60s and still single waiting for samsung ceo lol.
One of the girls talk like western girls do not care about the financial situation of guys at all. Does anyone really believe that? I have lived in a western country for over 30 years and I can say for sure that it's not true.
Yeah you’re right, I don’t believe that either, but than again the states is very diverse is term of culture and being westernize. It’s more or less depending of the individual person of caring to the extreme or less about the financial status of the male partner.
Regarding in China it’s typical that Chinese woman are looking for a strong/wealthy male partner. They are concern and uptight about a men financially status. One of the woman in the video mention that it’s common the guys comes approach and introducing their CV/ family financial situation.
@@Drew-po6ju I agree with you. So it's a specturm. From degrees of 1 to 10, perhaps most women in China is a 8 and most women in the West is a 5. But it's still just wrong and a plain lie to make it out like all women in China go after finance and all women in the West do not care about finance. I am sure everyone with a brain can understand what I am trying to point out.
Господи я ответила наверное в каждой ветке. Мне очень любопытен китай. Лол. Чтож я попробую объяснить как я это вижу. Деньги важны да. Важны с двух сторон парень не должен быть бедным (ну тут гибко. Если он умный, заботливый и красивый с этим можно жить) и не должен быть слишком богатым (не стоит ходить с ножом на перестрелку) . НО помимо денег он еще должен быть интересным человеком, с ним должно быть приятно общаться. Он должен быть умным и видеть во мне человека, а не красивую куклу. Грубо говоря с ним должно быть лучше чем него, а когда я вижу что человек настойчиво предлагает деньги я делаю вывод что это все что у него есть и жить с ним будет трудно. Ну как-то так.
I didn’t say girls don’t care about money at all, but money is not the only thing that matters in a relationship. In China, guys think if they have money they can date anyone. But it doesn’t work for me. I don’t care how much money you have. I look at the personality, humor, intellect, and the way the guy treats me at first, and money is not the most important part. I don’t care how much the guy earns, his salary has nothing to do with me, he should just have enough for the necessities (I said it but it was cut from the video). Btw I’m proudly married to a Chinese person 😅
Well I know also in Hungary no one cares at the BEGINNING of dating how poor or rich you are. It's just not a thing. You can get women to bed no problem doesn't matter if you even have a bank account.
With marriage and starting a family also Hungarians care more about money.
But like if you're introducing yourself with eg. how much money you make (in Hungary) all you will get is people laughing at you, and fellow men forcing you to buy them drinks.
4:08 that’s definitely true that you need the parents approval!
Maybe it is both positive and negative, but you aren’t marrying your parents!
But also maybe, the parent are judgements, bc they want to find a good partner for their kid?
Нет но на западе если ты будешь слишком прислушаться к своим родителям - это плохо. Потому что чувак у тебя будет своя семья и мы ожидаем что она будет на первом месте. Это не значит что надо разлюбить родителей, это значит что мое мнение такое же важное или лаже важнее.
*Aiden, welcome to Guangzhou. I am a foreigner who has lived in China for 7 years and has extensive experience dating Chinese girls. It would be nice to talk with you and answer your questions.*
*I did some interviews like you 3 years ago, but I gave it up, because I think that most Chinese girls are not honest with me and most of them just cared to save their faces in front of the camera.*
lol 😂I think people are quiet honest so far…let’s get in touch, if you have instagram, mine is aiden_qiuu. I might come to GZ soon in Nov
@@aiden_qiuu I texted you, you didn't reply.
Foreign girls are pretty ❤
Whites look down at Asians while Asians look up at whites, what is this? How is it fair?
For about 20years
Black as well so cute
@@alanc457 Black girls as well so cute
Where is this “Foreign” located? 😂
Generalization is fun 🎉
12:56 🤔What was that look for? Then in the next few seconds, "I don't really have any preference of race..."
That Aiden is such a cool guy.
Chaina has old culture and wisdom with modern technology 🙏 🙌 ✨️!!
18:40 She contrasting her views of so many cameras to other Westerners. She doesn't feel spied on but at the same time there's a very nosey woman in the background trying to figure out what going on. 😂
Listen to parents while choosing partner is a asian thing but now it's changing a bit.
I 100% agree
I'm a Mexican American married to a chinese woman, she values more on her independence than her family values. However, her and I are giving as much respect as possible to the culture and values. Learning chinese is a fun challenge. Hopefully I'll be able to communicate effectively in a year from now.
It's a every healthy people.. need this
nice interview, great job!
Aiden, you should interview matchmaking agencies rather these girls. Interview the foreign women that agencies match with chinese men, then your data would be better.
whoa korean chinese chick can speak 4 languages.
200000 RMB a month???? omg! that's a lot of money, you earn more then an executive in Germany
underrated video
underrated comment
Ok why I'm watching this , 😂 I don't know. But why our (India-China) relationship is not that good😢. Feeling really sad🥹 we love Chinese boys🥹 ok just chill babe . Maybe in another life.❤
There are Chinese boys who will like you. I’m a Desi man with Chinese wife and my younger sister is a Desi girl with Chinese fiancé!!
@@x01021 but mai toh apne Himachal se bahr kabhi nhi gyi toh china kb pahunchungi , isi dukh se zindagi jiyenge bhai,🤣😂 I hope aap mujhe kisi chinese ldke se jrur milayenge ,🤣😂🙈
It's okay 👍.. I'm obsessed with china.. maybe one day I will go to China and explore china 😊. It's my dream country.. but idk why India-China relationship is not good 😢😢.
@@renukaraj8300 1962.
Very interesting 👌
Informative......good job 👍
So interesting video ❤
Ukraine model wife. Lucky guy
What lucky..what purpose they not billionaire or millionaire 900 million wife are ready to married in across the globe
哥们，请开放中文字幕，谢谢❤🎉
Informative
This was a good video. You have a new subscriber.
What does it mean '' I am 100'' or ''I am 75''?
The height, because here people really care about height
@@aiden_qiuu So how many centimeters is 100 and how many is a 75?
@@dimitriosraptis8046 she means 175cm
Next video... 😊😊😊
it was nice video.
Very interesting video! Thank you
As an overseas China I would agree it's the same about getting the approval of my parents. I mean, if only my parents like the girl and I don't like her then it's a no no, but if I like her but my parents don't like her then it will probably not work out either. Because in racist Anglosphere countries you and your parents are usually a lonelysphere and they are truly the people that supported you there, hence you cannot marry someone that will make them feel bad because it's not fair for them.
Девочка с украины. Я могу тебе сказать что она подумала. Мужчины которые слишком слушаются родителей непопулярны, так как считается что они не способны сами принимать решения и еще не сепарировались от семьи. Это однозначно плохо и для своей семьи я хочу быть на первом месте, а не быть второй после родителей. В конце концов не они женятся.
@@greenduck72553 Once the foreign girl is accepted the inlaws actually are quite helpful especially if you give them grand kids.
You should have asked me. 😄I have lived in China (Shanghai, Shenzhen) for more than 6 years and I have a large account. There were so many different men who wrote to me. I believe that it doesn't matter which country a man is in - they are all different, but most of them are not smart enough and do not perceive a woman as a person. It is very difficult to find a diamond everywhere.
Lol shoot me a dm on instas, when I come back to Gunagdong will hit you up!
@Aiden_qiuu
What about for foreign men?
No one give af about them
An eye opener 😊
开眼看世界
Nice interview
Aiden, would you marry a Chinese or Foreign women?
Mostly likely non Chinese
@@aiden_qiuu Can you expand on the reason?
@@capp1306 lol I’ve been loving Latina for my whole life 😂thanks god for Latina
@@aiden_qiuu I hope it's not only for the reason I'm thinking 😂
@@aiden_qiuu Ass and Beautiful bodies.
男的网上放飞自我了，online dating环境确实差，可能和男多女少有关
That Korean girl, i had a girl friend in the Usa 15 years ago she dressed exactly the same. Same haircut same style.
Chinese guy here, the Ukrainian woman has got it figured out, just copy what she does, deep connection especially with in-laws is totally overrated and possibly double edged
the lady from Ukraine talked the true
Good video
all these people and answers only scrape the surface.
ask some that actually know, they will tell you about real cultural differences. because the 1st 5% is just talking about "apartment, salary, which school" etc. is still the "nice stuff".
but life gets pretty real after dating or marriage and then western women realize they have noting in common with Chinese men. not even topics to talk about. and that can be eye opening.
ok, some are different but if you see the majority it's still pretty traditional. Guy is the head of the family and he only wants his wife to adore him, not be equal or even challenge him. Many girls saw this at first date and said no to the guy. they mostly said there are no common topics to talk about.
The girl who’s married to her Chinese husband seems very content.
What's with the bashing of Chinese men? Sounds like you're trying to push an agenda. Are you even Chinese? Firstly, there are more Slavic women than Western women in Chìna. They tend to be interested and open minded to the culture and learn the language. It's very arrogant and ignorant of you to automatically assume a Chinese man and Western women have no common ground. Do individuals not have different taste in movies, music, interests, and hobbies? Many Chinese men have lived in the West or Europe, so are familiar with the cultural differences anyway. As for your "head of the family" hogwash, you have clearly not heard of the Chinese saying: Women hold up half the sky. If you are implying China is male dominated, then go and compare American politicians Chinese ones. America is dominated by males in the lesdership roles, while China has a split of men and women. Your comment is full of generalisations.
@@thomast.9191 because she's a hot blonde housewife
The Asian girl is so cute
This how they make money lol - also cooking rice
What's the insta id of that Portugese speaking Chinese lady?
Nice vid
Great channel
这哪儿个城市？
one said 东莞市
8:22 this guy is the gold. hopefull lady taking good care of him :)
6:25 this guy so insecure. but I wanna say that you look great and have your own style! more confidence!
The stare because she is a foreigner in China @18:30 so funny. They watch you like you're some animal.
Why Karina (using Valenciaga T-shirt) didn't said she is from Russia? Shame?
Why would she say she is from Russia? she is from Ukraine 😊 and it was not necessary to say where you came from
Im amazed how close to my own values china is
All the women he interviewed were white he needed to mix up the pot Thank you for reading my comment
Will do it, thank you
Very interesting 👍
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Nice video +1000000 Social credits👍👍
That's the way to go🙌🏼