Thank you Lisa for bringing -Dr Laura Berman on and giving us the beauty of being allowed to have a 'sensual love' without guilt... regardless of our childhood trauma's. And for referencing the interview where Sting said about 'love making' as against 'making love'
When a month ago a friend recommended the book Women's Magic Truths on Borlest, I couldn't believe how much one book can contribute to self-confidence, it's the best thing I've ever read! Lisa is the queen!
00:00 🌟 Self-worth is the cornerstone of seduction. Feeling worth it and confident is more attractive and elegant than vulgarity. 00:30 🛡️ Mastering seduction leads to self-confidence, which in turn leads to success in various aspects of life. 02:30 🔄 Seduction is about giving, not taking. It leaves the seduced feeling fuller and better, not depleted. 04:51 🔥 Rejection resilience is key in seduction. It's the ability to persist, softening rejections and turning them into maybes. 08:16 🪄 Seduction doesn't always imply sexuality; it's about attraction and creating desire, even in business. 12:06 💃 Body language plays a crucial role in seduction. Maintaining elegance, confidence, and a relaxed jaw are important elements. 14:05 🎭 Seduction involves a play of "yes" and "no," giving just enough to create a desire for more. 16:25 💼 Seduction in business doesn't have to be sexual. It can be using social charm, a unique blend of personality traits. 20:56 🧠 Trauma can hinder seduction and confidence. It's essential to address and heal these underlying issues for personal growth. 21:10 🪞 Childhood experiences can lead to feeling inadequate or not "enough." This may stem from parental expectations or other sources of pressure. 21:51 🩹 Childhood trauma can contribute to emotional wounds in adulthood. Exploring the root causes of emotional struggles is crucial for healing. 22:45 🪞 Society's beauty standards and societal pressure can impact self-worth and body image. Accepting and appreciating one's own body is essential. 24:11 🧳 Five elements essential for seduction: Elegance (self-worth), Intention (focused pursuit), Tempo (rhythm of enjoyment), Sabrosura (sensuality rooted in self-love), Mystery (where seduction and charm reside). 27:23 🔄 Sharing personal stories and traumas can be transformative, allowing others to understand and empathize with your journey. 30:57 🤝 Being present and feeling with someone through their pain or trauma is a powerful way to provide support and healing. 36:57 🌱 Healing from trauma is a layered process, and it's important to acknowledge and address each layer with patience and compassion. 39:56 💄 Engaging in sensory experiences, like applying lotion with intention, can be a simple yet effective way to tap into sensuality and self-worth. 41:44 💪 Embrace seduction as a form of self-discovery and confidence-building. Practice in front of a mirror or poster to boost self-worth and inner power. 42:51 🛑 Acknowledge the importance of consent and respect in seduction. Understand the difference between playful pursuit and crossing boundaries. Prioritize safety and elegance in interactions. 46:56 🗣️ When expressing a clear 'no', ensure it is conveyed firmly and gracefully. Respectful communication is crucial in maintaining healthy boundaries. 50:37 💖 Differentiate between lust and love. Butterflies and intense feelings may stem from past traumas and familiar wounds. Building a healthy relationship starts with inner healing. 57:06 🤔 Move slowly and consciously in new relationships. Stay grounded in your body and pay attention to the signals it sends. Don't rush into intense emotions; be curious and aware. 01:02:55 💡 Trauma healing often lies in facing the parts of ourselves we've pushed away, hidden in a "basement of shame" filled with feelings of unworthiness and unlovability. 01:05:40 💪 Inviting your wounds to tea, making friends with them, and understanding them is a powerful way to heal. Viewing them with the consciousness of your present self is key. 01:06:08 🌟 Identifying the feelings you want to experience is crucial in any endeavor, including relationships. This becomes your compass for decision-making. 01:07:57 🗝️ Separating the gift from the wound allows you to call on the gift consciously, rather than it controlling you. 01:10:16 🔮 Cultivating the feelings you desire through imagination and visualization is a powerful way to manifest your goals and attract situations that resonate with those feelings. 01:19:44 🚫 Relying on someone else to "complete" you is not sustainable. Sourcing your fulfillment from within is essential for lasting happiness and healthy relationships. 01:20:36 ⚖️ Staying in a relationship out of fear is common, but the pain of staying must eventually outweigh the fear of leaving for true growth and happiness. 01:23:09 🔄 Changing yourself can positively influence your relationship. When you raise your frequency, it has a ripple effect on your partner and your shared dynamic. 01:24:03 👁️🗨️ When partners connect deeply, their frequencies align, creating a powerful bond. 01:24:18 🤯 Raising one's frequency can lead their partner to automatically sync, akin to a Jedi mind trick in relationships. 01:24:32 🔄 As you grow and heal, fears that held you in a relationship may dissipate, granting you more agency in it. 01:24:44 🗝️ Having agency in a relationship is crucial for getting your needs met and finding contentment within. 01:24:59 🪑 While a breakup may bring initial devastation, knowing your happiness is rooted in self-relationship empowers you. 01:25:14 💞 Every external relationship is ultimately a reflection of your relationship with yourself. 01:25:25 🛤️ Choosing to be in a relationship and setting boundaries leads to positive transformations. 01:25:41 🤝 Emotional closeness and intimacy can lead to hormonal synchronicity among friends and partners. 01:25:54 🧠 Understanding how frequencies align can enhance your relationships and interactions. 01:26:08 🤔 Stepping into a deeper connection with a partner can lead to setting healthier boundaries. 01:26:22 👩❤️👨 The natural progression of a relationship involves evolving towards deeper intimacy and shared responsibilities. 01:26:37 🧪 Providing scientific evidence can be helpful in engaging skeptics in understanding relationship dynamics. 01:26:51 🧠 Our conscious minds process only a fraction of the vast information around us, limited by memories and senses. 01:27:04 🌌 There's an entire universe of experiences beyond our conscious perception. 01:27:19 ⚡ Developing your own relationship with your sexuality is key to unlocking pleasure and connection. 01:27:33 🌬️ The act of self-stimulation is essential for understanding and enhancing one's own sexual experience. 01:27:46 🕊️ Women possess unique abilities for multitasking and intuitive understanding due to neural connections. 01:28:01 👩❤️👨 Recognizing and valuing gender differences can lead to a more harmonious understanding in relationships. 01:28:14 💑 The fundamental desires of men and women in relationships are often expressed differently, understanding this can lead to better connection. 01:28:28 🔄 Men and women may have distinct needs, and comprehending these differences fosters healthier relationships. 01:28:42 💗 Emotional closeness is a vital component for both partners in a relationship. 01:28:55 🕊️ Understanding and respecting each other's desires can lead to a more satisfying and harmonious relationship. 01:29:10 🧬 Evolutionary and societal factors contribute to the differences in how men and women perceive intimacy and connection. 01:29:25 👩❤️👨 Recognizing and appreciating these differences can lead to deeper mutual understanding and harmony in relationships. 01:29:40 💞 Emotional closeness plays a crucial role in a woman's sexual satisfaction in a relationship. 01:29:54 🌟 Emotional intimacy is a powerful factor in a woman's overall satisfaction and fulfillment in a relationship. 01:30:08 🌿 A strong emotional connection is the foundation of a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship for women. 01:30:22 💔 A lack of emotional intimacy can lead to a breakdown in both sexual and overall relationship satisfaction. 01:30:37 🛠️ Men can enhance their partner's sexual desire through acts of support and partnership, such as sharing household responsibilities. 01:30:50 💗 Acts of partnership, support, and understanding can lead to a deeper emotional connection and increased sexual intimacy in a relationship. 01:31:04 🌸 Engaging in acts of support and partnership can create a stronger emotional bond, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling sexual relationship. 01:31:17 🤝 Balancing responsibilities and demonstrating care for the relationship contributes to a deeper emotional connection and greater intimacy. 01:31:29 📜 Understanding the societal and evolutionary influences on libido can provide insights into maintaining a healthy sexual connection in long-term relationships. 01:44:54 📆 Scheduling intimate moments can remove guesswork and create openness in a relationship. 01:46:04 💑 Spending non-sexual time together, like kissing and cuddling, strengthens intimacy. 01:47:29 🗝️ Removing the pressure for sex at all times can lead to more freedom and fun in intimate moments. 01:47:58 🪒 Preparing for intimacy together can create a sense of togetherness and anticipation.
I can't get enough of this amazing and incredible woman. Lisa, please,more of her okay. You just have to bring her back on the show, again and again and again! Thanks Lisa.
Lisa is so adorable how excited she gets with what the guests are saying. I bet she knows some of this already but she just is so amazed and enthusiastic with them!
Thank you for this. I can relate to what Chen had said... I would like to face the world once again with elegance and confidence, despite the pain and trauma I have endured over the years. It's incredibly challenging to show up every day as if you were a radiant ball of sunshine, full of confidence and spreading love to everyone despite being enveloped by the weight of past traumas - "adulting". I genuinely appreciate this reminder that it is still possible, and recognizing this is my first step forward.
You articulated this beautifully, I completely relate to what you just said. I've found it so difficult to exude confidence whilst carrying the weight and burden of past traumas/experiences that have stripped me of my self worth. But consistency is key is self development and we all have the power to develop self love and confidence.
Men will desire you when you don’t care about them being your everything. I’m happier being alone, happier away from the crowd & happier taking care of my own needs & wants. I think that men feel less stressed to cover all of that when it’s already covered… Then they’ll want to do something to impress you…
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
The security piece is important here. If a guy is organizing the evening but they are not in touch with what you enjoy, get excited about etc, it can turn into feeling invisiblized and bored for the evening. But if a partner is in tune with you AND THEN organizing everything and pampers you then that makes the person on the receiving end feel seen. That is what’s charming.
Why do you put full responsibility for your 'enjoyment' exclusively on a guy!? Why, in this age of information, women still stupidly believe that men are mind readers!? They are not! If you want your evening or date to be 'special' to be 'as you wish' then communicate your wants to your guy. Otherwise your life will be an endless serie of disappointing relationships. And it's not men's fail.
@@zettcompact8586and if they wanna organise you a surprise event/party? 😂 no, if your partner knows you well enough, they'll know what you like and not like and take it from there.
Finalmente qualcuno lo dice!!! Personalmente trovo ridicole certe impostazioni pose atteggiamenti studiati ad arte per sedurre e provocare. L autenticità la naturalezza quando estate l autostima sono la chiave giusta per sedurre!
In the discussion about "to feel with" someone at 39:45, I want to add that the German word for sympathy is "Mitgefühl" which literally translates to "with feeling" or "to feel with".
I love the way she says “Hello!” like she’s inviting life itself to seduce her and give her its best… It’s like she’s biting her lip at a possibility, at the unknown, at the sensation of intrigue, and I am LIVING for it! It goes to show that being seduction truly comes from within-it’s a mindset, and a mental state of being, rather than a behavior. To see something potentially beautiful and exciting in the world and decline the initial urge to chase it, to instead meet it with a greeting of open invitation… is so grounded in feminine power. That’s lovely. 🥰
Also this literally motivated me and has hit so many nerves this morning...in a good way. When she said that you have to rebuild and start over and you think something is wrong withh you and to share your story... geez... I would like to join one of these shows! Or even sit in the audience
Honestly - I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!! Seduction is so subtle and can encompass so much. AND it seems that this art has been lost in our oh-so-busy lives. This talk reminded me of a book I read many years ago called "I flirt therefore I date" haha. I had to hide it cuz as a guy, my guy friends used to find it and laugh about it but it was a great book on the topic. Well done Lisa and Chen......thanks for this episode!!
@@ChenLizra For me I've always admired so many things about women and it's usually always different. For some it might be their figure, their poise, their walk, their eyes or hands or whatever. But one thing that always gets me is when a woman will stay with the energy. It's sort of like when you were showing Lisa how different the energy was when you squared off your shoulders to her as opposed to the offset and turning away. Sultriness, sensuality, femininity, flirting and all that are so damned sexy to me but it seems that so few women appreciate this. I mean in this age of swipe left or right it all seems to be based on looks only. No energy, no connection, no mystery, no sensuality, no flirtation....nothing. It's just if I find you attractive it's on, if not, go away creep.
@@ChenLizra Its not about sexual harassment. If you approach a women and she finds you attractive you can almost say anything if not you can right away see her almost roll her eyes infront of you and now you’re a creep. the reason men are terrified to flirt with women now is because of feminism along with the metoo movement that came with so many false allegations and continue to happen without any punishment to false accusers.
Damn. This was a good one. I would love to see Teal Swan on the show on the subject of seduction and selflove. She is such a Siren. But she has also overcome great great suffering
Lisa! You are the feminine counterpart to Lewis Howes! You're such an incredibly effective interviewer who makes it effortless for viewers to be able to extract the most out of the information that is being presented by your interesting and eloquent and knowledgeable guests. Thank you for always choosing compelling and relevant subject matter and bringing it to the general public in a powerful way that resonates and makes it possible to apply that information, and in turn, to live in a more elevated, positive, and knowledgeable way that leads to a life of true abundance, self-love, and happiness❤❤😊😊
This is extremely powerful I have been battaling with trauma for over 26+ years and just tried to ignore it forgive them pretend it never happened tried to block it everything you can imagine I have tried but it still haunts me. I'm not playing the victim I'm just relating to what your saying. Thank you for sharing.
There's some great stuff in these interviews, and I find it quite dangerous when people talk about the differences between men and women at emotional and sexual levels as biological issues. We can't forget a few things: (1) society only makes certain expressions acceptable for certain genders (e.g., men's sexual desires are ok to express but their emotional needs for connection are not as welcome), (2) gender is a spectrum, (3) sexual orientation is a spectrum, (4) the way people do relationships is a spectrum. Thank you for creating a space to explore these things. I love your desire for everyone to have a fulfilling and fun life.
Love, love, love this talk ❤️❤️❤️. I love that you equate seduction with wholeness and self love. We're able to be more playfull when we're accept ourselves. Omg and the part about connectedness ❤️
This was such a fun conversation!! I truly enjoyed Lisa and Chen, and their interactions together. Thank you ladies!! 🥰 My healthy and humble Self Love, Personality, and Character/Well Being, which includes self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, self-consideration, etc., radiates from the inside out, so no extra work is needed to influence, seduce (sexual and non-sexual), attract, etc. in the environment around me. Being Humble is key. Arrogance is a huge turn-off. As an Empath, everything I do has to be real and authentic since anything fake is abrasive and has no place in my realm. One thing I have experienced is that being my own self - friendly, outgoing, engage in conversation, etc. can be taken as being flirty and seductive. I am particular where I apply my time and energy for flirting and seducing, so it is very selective. ❤
Chen just taught me what seduction is for the first time!!! I love her analogies, and her contextual examples just made it all make so much sense. Dudes have been teaching seduction all wrong for a decade. Seduction should make the other person enthusiastic, excited, and intrigued not diminished, needy, and insecure. This was so good, AND HER "NO" WAS POWERFUL! I felt that shit, her body language was very cutting, but she was polite. Damn, women really need to learn that "NO" because I have never seen a no like that before, I usually see the polite "maybe no". But I'm the type that if it's not a yes, im not into it at all. I don't like mixed signals so when I get them I lose interest. There was no denying Chen's No😅, love that. She is really good, I like the advice about feeling into the body language you are presenting, that is a MAJOR KEY. It really takes the ambiguity out of the experience. 💯❤️💯 I am going to use a lot of what she said and try it, I'm a strait male, but I have zero idea how to flirt, but I am charming, so she really opened my mind to learning now. I'm going to follow her to see what else she has to say on the matter for guys.
Hell yeah! Super stoked you were able to learn from the conversation. Thank you for your support and for your comment. Have a wonderful day! Best, Impact Theory Community Manager
Oh my God! I didn't want to comment but the second guest FORCED me to comment. I used to feel butterflies but I have just been in a relationship but there were no butterflies. I was so calm and myself on the first date. I enjoyed being with him. I connected to well with him. But he was all those physical attractions that I listed for my ideal man. but he is everything I NEED, compassionate, caring, ambitious, family-conscious. I fell in love with him but this love was a more relaxed feeling. not like when I was young and I was even worried that maybe I didn't love him enough but I know I want to be with him for the rest of my life. I was forcing myself to bring those butterflies, doing research on why I do not feel the butterflies. and this second guest's first remark just answered my question.
Carefull about the body language when trying to convince others about 'being worthy':) Chen was shaking her head from one side to another which could show to her embedded disbelief that she really is worthy.
That's exactly what I think. If you feel worthy you don"t need to tecnically seduce anywone your personality and how you feel will inmediately attracts the right person. In Spain that "sabrosura" does not work as it shows as you are desperate to attract a person, Spanish men would run away unless they look for casual sex in which case is excellent.
@@mercuri919 Yes, that's true. I used to only look in a normal way, maybe more than those proverbial 3 seconds, at men I was interested in and they understood...They were usually very intelligent, thus they didnt need many clues. I particulary dislike seduction, I would say it's meant for the type of women who don't know any other smarter way how to "convey the message". And surprising finding about the Spanish man. I would have thought they will incline to seduction as they are used to show feelings more than, for instance, here, in Czech republic:) Btw, in 9th grade I slapped a boy I really wanted to get to know, on his behind...and...it worked, too:)
It's very fascinating to listen to her because watching her make's it easy listening. Lizra Lizra Lizra... such a powerful woman. Her hand gestures show's that gay men,are more sensual than most feminine women. Thanks Lisa, for you are a great impact on women. Love.
Lisa your smile is the most seductive feature about you The second one is definitely the child we see in you, when you react, when you talk, you're transparent Not to mention your natural beauty is very seductive, your face is so natural ❤
Love This... Thank You for bringing this to all of us.... I actually was Fully Loving of my husband, the pain of staying in... too great, and I know my Love is Pure... it is sad - even though we believe we were a Divinely Connected Heart... it's difficult for some people to actually be okay with the Work a Relationship of Value Is - all the High Frequency Stuff Is Where I was working, and that's when my husband fully acted up... we Loved genuinely, sad he couldn't 'run with the ball of our Love'....
It would be great if i could always have this type of confidence. Not just in the beginning of a relationship but keeping this type of seductive confidence throughout life and throughout the entirety of my relationship(s). I find throughout time I get a bit too comfortable and kind of shlumpy as the relationship goes on. Like ok I’m bored. The seductive lady in me that had that fire in the beginning seems to fade out as time goes by. How to keep that fire alive?? Maybe that’s another topic but I knowww I’m not the only one 😅
I think this conversation is absolutely paramount! I’m so glad you’ve brought these sex issues to light. Equating the males need for love and the women need to feel love. This gift of sexuality has been equally displaced by both men and women for so many decades, it astounds me that once Brought to light in conversation because the need to feel. Loved is the birthright of both in. 5he relationship. “Women need to feel loved to want sex, and men need to have sex to feel loved”. . This awakened truth should really be continually explored and used as tools to keep the beautiful flame of sex alive in long term committed relationships. There is some great nuggets of golden wisdoms toward deeper connection and zesty health and deeper authentic happiness. It gives me a wonderful Seneca of hope and self care and empowerment. Excellent presentation! Thank you Cat
Se ti poni in questo modo (10:00 minuti video) in Italia con quel sorriso ammiccante guardando un uomo non lo stai seducendo, gli stai dicendo che sei disponibile sessualmente che è tutt’altra cosa e per inciso per niente positiva nella nostra cultura se escludiamo coloro che cercano “one shot” … ma in questo caso non si potrebbe parlare di seduzione ma di uso promiscuo del proprio corpo. La seduzione e’ un fatto primariamente mentale come l erotismo, da lì parte e li deve arrivare … per essere tale deve essere autentica, sottile, discreta, mai forzata, elegante ovvero mai volgare, almeno a mio parere e per la cultura in cui sono cresciuta che riconosco essere molto ma molto diversa per esempio da quella Centro Americana ( cubana) a cui fa riferimento l’ospite in studio
Sono Cubana e sono vivo in italia da molti anni La differenza è abissale dal mio paese al vostro, un sorriso è un sorriso e basta, un complimento o ballare insieme non ha nulla piu di questo. Invece in italia c'è molta malizia, anche un semplice gesto di gentilezza od un saluto è già troppo. Ogni tanto sembra, e non lo dico con cattiveria, ma che il vostro popolo sia stato un pelino malizioso o "costretto" (religione, forse?) e questo genera una forza reattiva estremamente contrario. Un sorriso od un gesto gentile non dev'essere per forza interpretato come volgare, penso sia un poco un peccato. Ma come si dice, la malizia sta negli occhi di chi guarda, no? Specifico che cio che ho scritto non ha scopo offensivo ma giusto un confronto, ed una piccola chiave di lettura da chi viene da fuori, spero di non aver arrecato offesa in alcun modo.
Wooohooooooo thank you for this interview!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I allow from now on my seductive side to lead my life. I always shut it down at a certain point. I love you! ;)
@@ChenLizra I reflected on that. Since I came as a refugee with nothing and it's struggles to fit in in society and to be accepted as a "normal human being" I fought to get my university degree in Germany (which is not that easy) and took all the responsibility for my whole family and parents, since they relied on everything on me. I am a very feminine looking, sexy, strong woman on the outside. And also can be very seductive in a ladylike way. But on the inside I struggle so much with self worth. I can't see how a man would choose me and value me as a woman in his life. I have so much shame. I still feel as a human of second class and I can't have the normal and good things in life. But I also know that I am very powerful, intelligent and seductive when healing that. You reminded me of that ❤️ I saw me in you! :) do you have any suggestions on how I can turn this internal struggle around? Thank you very much. Greetings, Rajmonda
It has to be said, Chen is incredibly outwardly attractive so the charm aspect is very much helped by this fact. The same for men, certainly helps to be generally attractive.
I looooved the insight behind her coming around to speaking on her story ❤ I’m learning this is the key to connection with others for the best value in whatever you are called to do in this life. Great podcast episode!!
WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!
These two interviews were amazing 🤩 thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you Lisa for bringing -Dr Laura Berman on and giving us the beauty of being allowed to have a 'sensual love' without guilt... regardless of our childhood trauma's. And for referencing the interview where Sting said about 'love making' as against 'making love'
Omg someone got my info
Lisa is killing me 😂 her facial expressions while listening are priceless - she's so attentive, all tuned and tapped in - I'm lovin' it 🥰
Haha thanks!!! 🥰🤣
😊5b5b😅
5😅😅
😂😂
How can i get arms like yours lisa💯 please share with us 🤗💜💪🏼
When a month ago a friend recommended the book Women's Magic Truths on Borlest, I couldn't believe how much one book can contribute to self-confidence, it's the best thing I've ever read!
Lisa is the queen!
00:00 🌟 Self-worth is the cornerstone of seduction. Feeling worth it and confident is more attractive and elegant than vulgarity.
00:30 🛡️ Mastering seduction leads to self-confidence, which in turn leads to success in various aspects of life.
02:30 🔄 Seduction is about giving, not taking. It leaves the seduced feeling fuller and better, not depleted.
04:51 🔥 Rejection resilience is key in seduction. It's the ability to persist, softening rejections and turning them into maybes.
08:16 🪄 Seduction doesn't always imply sexuality; it's about attraction and creating desire, even in business.
12:06 💃 Body language plays a crucial role in seduction. Maintaining elegance, confidence, and a relaxed jaw are important elements.
14:05 🎭 Seduction involves a play of "yes" and "no," giving just enough to create a desire for more.
16:25 💼 Seduction in business doesn't have to be sexual. It can be using social charm, a unique blend of personality traits.
20:56 🧠 Trauma can hinder seduction and confidence. It's essential to address and heal these underlying issues for personal growth.
21:10 🪞 Childhood experiences can lead to feeling inadequate or not "enough." This may stem from parental expectations or other sources of pressure.
21:51 🩹 Childhood trauma can contribute to emotional wounds in adulthood. Exploring the root causes of emotional struggles is crucial for healing.
22:45 🪞 Society's beauty standards and societal pressure can impact self-worth and body image. Accepting and appreciating one's own body is essential.
24:11 🧳 Five elements essential for seduction: Elegance (self-worth), Intention (focused pursuit), Tempo (rhythm of enjoyment), Sabrosura (sensuality rooted in self-love), Mystery (where seduction and charm reside).
27:23 🔄 Sharing personal stories and traumas can be transformative, allowing others to understand and empathize with your journey.
30:57 🤝 Being present and feeling with someone through their pain or trauma is a powerful way to provide support and healing.
36:57 🌱 Healing from trauma is a layered process, and it's important to acknowledge and address each layer with patience and compassion.
39:56 💄 Engaging in sensory experiences, like applying lotion with intention, can be a simple yet effective way to tap into sensuality and self-worth.
41:44 💪 Embrace seduction as a form of self-discovery and confidence-building. Practice in front of a mirror or poster to boost self-worth and inner power.
42:51 🛑 Acknowledge the importance of consent and respect in seduction. Understand the difference between playful pursuit and crossing boundaries. Prioritize safety and elegance in interactions.
46:56 🗣️ When expressing a clear 'no', ensure it is conveyed firmly and gracefully. Respectful communication is crucial in maintaining healthy boundaries.
50:37 💖 Differentiate between lust and love. Butterflies and intense feelings may stem from past traumas and familiar wounds. Building a healthy relationship starts with inner healing.
57:06 🤔 Move slowly and consciously in new relationships. Stay grounded in your body and pay attention to the signals it sends. Don't rush into intense emotions; be curious and aware.
01:02:55 💡 Trauma healing often lies in facing the parts of ourselves we've pushed away, hidden in a "basement of shame" filled with feelings of unworthiness and unlovability.
01:05:40 💪 Inviting your wounds to tea, making friends with them, and understanding them is a powerful way to heal. Viewing them with the consciousness of your present self is key.
01:06:08 🌟 Identifying the feelings you want to experience is crucial in any endeavor, including relationships. This becomes your compass for decision-making.
01:07:57 🗝️ Separating the gift from the wound allows you to call on the gift consciously, rather than it controlling you.
01:10:16 🔮 Cultivating the feelings you desire through imagination and visualization is a powerful way to manifest your goals and attract situations that resonate with those feelings.
01:19:44 🚫 Relying on someone else to "complete" you is not sustainable. Sourcing your fulfillment from within is essential for lasting happiness and healthy relationships.
01:20:36 ⚖️ Staying in a relationship out of fear is common, but the pain of staying must eventually outweigh the fear of leaving for true growth and happiness.
01:23:09 🔄 Changing yourself can positively influence your relationship. When you raise your frequency, it has a ripple effect on your partner and your shared dynamic.
01:24:03 👁️🗨️ When partners connect deeply, their frequencies align, creating a powerful bond.
01:24:18 🤯 Raising one's frequency can lead their partner to automatically sync, akin to a Jedi mind trick in relationships.
01:24:32 🔄 As you grow and heal, fears that held you in a relationship may dissipate, granting you more agency in it.
01:24:44 🗝️ Having agency in a relationship is crucial for getting your needs met and finding contentment within.
01:24:59 🪑 While a breakup may bring initial devastation, knowing your happiness is rooted in self-relationship empowers you.
01:25:14 💞 Every external relationship is ultimately a reflection of your relationship with yourself.
01:25:25 🛤️ Choosing to be in a relationship and setting boundaries leads to positive transformations.
01:25:41 🤝 Emotional closeness and intimacy can lead to hormonal synchronicity among friends and partners.
01:25:54 🧠 Understanding how frequencies align can enhance your relationships and interactions.
01:26:08 🤔 Stepping into a deeper connection with a partner can lead to setting healthier boundaries.
01:26:22 👩❤️👨 The natural progression of a relationship involves evolving towards deeper intimacy and shared responsibilities.
01:26:37 🧪 Providing scientific evidence can be helpful in engaging skeptics in understanding relationship dynamics.
01:26:51 🧠 Our conscious minds process only a fraction of the vast information around us, limited by memories and senses.
01:27:04 🌌 There's an entire universe of experiences beyond our conscious perception.
01:27:19 ⚡ Developing your own relationship with your sexuality is key to unlocking pleasure and connection.
01:27:33 🌬️ The act of self-stimulation is essential for understanding and enhancing one's own sexual experience.
01:27:46 🕊️ Women possess unique abilities for multitasking and intuitive understanding due to neural connections.
01:28:01 👩❤️👨 Recognizing and valuing gender differences can lead to a more harmonious understanding in relationships.
01:28:14 💑 The fundamental desires of men and women in relationships are often expressed differently, understanding this can lead to better connection.
01:28:28 🔄 Men and women may have distinct needs, and comprehending these differences fosters healthier relationships.
01:28:42 💗 Emotional closeness is a vital component for both partners in a relationship.
01:28:55 🕊️ Understanding and respecting each other's desires can lead to a more satisfying and harmonious relationship.
01:29:10 🧬 Evolutionary and societal factors contribute to the differences in how men and women perceive intimacy and connection.
01:29:25 👩❤️👨 Recognizing and appreciating these differences can lead to deeper mutual understanding and harmony in relationships.
01:29:40 💞 Emotional closeness plays a crucial role in a woman's sexual satisfaction in a relationship.
01:29:54 🌟 Emotional intimacy is a powerful factor in a woman's overall satisfaction and fulfillment in a relationship.
01:30:08 🌿 A strong emotional connection is the foundation of a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship for women.
01:30:22 💔 A lack of emotional intimacy can lead to a breakdown in both sexual and overall relationship satisfaction.
01:30:37 🛠️ Men can enhance their partner's sexual desire through acts of support and partnership, such as sharing household responsibilities.
01:30:50 💗 Acts of partnership, support, and understanding can lead to a deeper emotional connection and increased sexual intimacy in a relationship.
01:31:04 🌸 Engaging in acts of support and partnership can create a stronger emotional bond, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling sexual relationship.
01:31:17 🤝 Balancing responsibilities and demonstrating care for the relationship contributes to a deeper emotional connection and greater intimacy.
01:31:29 📜 Understanding the societal and evolutionary influences on libido can provide insights into maintaining a healthy sexual connection in long-term relationships.
01:44:54 📆 Scheduling intimate moments can remove guesswork and create openness in a relationship.
01:46:04 💑 Spending non-sexual time together, like kissing and cuddling, strengthens intimacy.
01:47:29 🗝️ Removing the pressure for sex at all times can lead to more freedom and fun in intimate moments.
01:47:58 🪒 Preparing for intimacy together can create a sense of togetherness and anticipation.
omg thank u so much
Thanks very much 🔥😍😍
Thank youuuu
you're doing God's work
Thank you very much
I feel like we are at a slumber party and she’s teaching us the secrets ❤
Yes ❤😂 I’ll bring the popcorn 🍿 ladies :)
😂😂 nah flirting is an art and eveyone should have lessons from early age! ❤
I can't get enough of this amazing and incredible woman. Lisa, please,more of her okay. You just have to bring her back on the show, again and again and again! Thanks Lisa.
Lisa is so adorable how excited she gets with what the guests are saying. I bet she knows some of this already but she just is so amazed and enthusiastic with them!
Thank you for this. I can relate to what Chen had said... I would like to face the world once again with elegance and confidence, despite the pain and trauma I have endured over the years. It's incredibly challenging to show up every day as if you were a radiant ball of sunshine, full of confidence and spreading love to everyone despite being enveloped by the weight of past traumas - "adulting". I genuinely appreciate this reminder that it is still possible, and recognizing this is my first step forward.
It is absolutely possible. We can heal and come back to a mentally healthy place of rediance.
You articulated this beautifully, I completely relate to what you just said. I've found it so difficult to exude confidence whilst carrying the weight and burden of past traumas/experiences that have stripped me of my self worth. But consistency is key is self development and we all have the power to develop self love and confidence.
Men will desire you when you don’t care about them being your everything. I’m happier being alone, happier away from the crowd & happier taking care of my own needs & wants. I think that men feel less stressed to cover all of that when it’s already covered… Then they’ll want to do something to impress you…
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
I love Lisa’s face😂 at the beginning she like riiiiiiioooooooggghttttttt
Ha ha ha good one 😂
I caught that look too.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it’s like she’s saying Ohhhhh……………..
heauxzzzzzs like you that I gotta keep away from my man😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 I came to say this too! Look of absolute disgust on Lisa's face is priceless loll
The security piece is important here. If a guy is organizing the evening but they are not in touch with what you enjoy, get excited about etc, it can turn into feeling invisiblized and bored for the evening. But if a partner is in tune with you AND THEN organizing everything and pampers you then that makes the person on the receiving end feel seen. That is what’s charming.
Hell ya'! That's darn sexy. And we do not accept the first type 😊
Why do you put full responsibility for your 'enjoyment' exclusively on a guy!? Why, in this age of information, women still stupidly believe that men are mind readers!? They are not!
If you want your evening or date to be 'special' to be 'as you wish' then communicate your wants to your guy. Otherwise your life will be an endless serie of disappointing relationships. And it's not men's fail.
@@zettcompact8586and if they wanna organise you a surprise event/party? 😂 no, if your partner knows you well enough, they'll know what you like and not like and take it from there.
For a woman, it's ALL about confidence and self-love. You don't need anything more to attract people.
Finalmente qualcuno lo dice!!! Personalmente trovo ridicole certe impostazioni pose atteggiamenti studiati ad arte per sedurre e provocare. L autenticità la naturalezza quando estate l autostima sono la chiave giusta per sedurre!
Loved this interview, feminity is so powerful.
Amazing! What did you realize about Femininity that you didn't before?
Indeed
In the discussion about "to feel with" someone at 39:45, I want to add that the German word for sympathy is "Mitgefühl" which literally translates to "with feeling" or "to feel with".
That one struck me!!!
I love the way she says “Hello!” like she’s inviting life itself to seduce her and give her its best… It’s like she’s biting her lip at a possibility, at the unknown, at the sensation of intrigue, and I am LIVING for it! It goes to show that being seduction truly comes from within-it’s a mindset, and a mental state of being, rather than a behavior. To see something potentially beautiful and exciting in the world and decline the initial urge to chase it, to instead meet it with a greeting of open invitation… is so grounded in feminine power. That’s lovely. 🥰
Also this literally motivated me and has hit so many nerves this morning...in a good way. When she said that you have to rebuild and start over and you think something is wrong withh you and to share your story... geez... I would like to join one of these shows! Or even sit in the audience
Honestly - I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!! Seduction is so subtle and can encompass so much. AND it seems that this art has been lost in our oh-so-busy lives. This talk reminded me of a book I read many years ago called "I flirt therefore I date" haha. I had to hide it cuz as a guy, my guy friends used to find it and laugh about it but it was a great book on the topic. Well done Lisa and Chen......thanks for this episode!!
You are soooo welcome. What were the things that really landed for you with AHA where your perception shifted? Would live to hear it
@@ChenLizra For me I've always admired so many things about women and it's usually always different. For some it might be their figure, their poise, their walk, their eyes or hands or whatever. But one thing that always gets me is when a woman will stay with the energy. It's sort of like when you were showing Lisa how different the energy was when you squared off your shoulders to her as opposed to the offset and turning away. Sultriness, sensuality, femininity, flirting and all that are so damned sexy to me but it seems that so few women appreciate this. I mean in this age of swipe left or right it all seems to be based on looks only. No energy, no connection, no mystery, no sensuality, no flirtation....nothing. It's just if I find you attractive it's on, if not, go away creep.
Yes, that part where Lisa asked about the sexual harassment, where we unpacked this a bit... it tells you a bit of the why. ❤❤
@@ChenLizra Its not about sexual harassment. If you approach a women and she finds you attractive you can almost say anything if not you can right away see her almost roll her eyes infront of you and now you’re a creep. the reason men are terrified to flirt with women now is because of feminism along with the metoo movement that came with so many false allegations and continue to happen without any punishment to false accusers.
Damn. This was a good one. I would love to see Teal Swan on the show on the subject of seduction and selflove. She is such a Siren. But she has also overcome great great suffering
What did you love about it Melissa?
The Jedi mind trick makes so much sense, just think about how many times your partner's sour mood has ruined yours, it's just the opposite.
Lisa! You are the feminine counterpart to Lewis Howes! You're such an incredibly effective interviewer who makes it effortless for viewers to be able to extract the most out of the information that is being presented by your interesting and eloquent and knowledgeable guests. Thank you for always choosing compelling and relevant subject matter and bringing it to the general public in a powerful way that resonates and makes it possible to apply that information, and in turn, to live in a more elevated, positive, and knowledgeable way that leads to a life of true abundance, self-love, and happiness❤❤😊😊
A plethora of awareness and permission to thrive as one was, is now, and potentially will be. Brava.
I am really glad that this spoke to you.
This is one of those rare videos that you tell yourself you need to listen to every day!
This was a GREAT conversation ladies! Thank you!
Lol Lisa's expression always crack me up she is so tuned in I love it. Thank you Lisaaaaaa ❤❤
Omg! Her Ted talk is so great, good to see her again 💜💜💜
Glad you liked both
This is extremely powerful I have been battaling with trauma for over 26+ years and just tried to ignore it forgive them pretend it never happened tried to block it everything you can imagine I have tried but it still haunts me. I'm not playing the victim I'm just relating to what your saying. Thank you for sharing.
That needs to be healed from your body
@@ChenLizraty for commenting, I am absorbing these ❤
There's some great stuff in these interviews, and I find it quite dangerous when people talk about the differences between men and women at emotional and sexual levels as biological issues. We can't forget a few things: (1) society only makes certain expressions acceptable for certain genders (e.g., men's sexual desires are ok to express but their emotional needs for connection are not as welcome), (2) gender is a spectrum, (3) sexual orientation is a spectrum, (4) the way people do relationships is a spectrum. Thank you for creating a space to explore these things. I love your desire for everyone to have a fulfilling and fun life.
Love, love, love this talk ❤️❤️❤️. I love that you equate seduction with wholeness and self love. We're able to be more playfull when we're accept ourselves. Omg and the part about connectedness ❤️
This was such a fun conversation!! I truly enjoyed Lisa and Chen, and their interactions together. Thank you ladies!! 🥰
My healthy and humble Self Love, Personality, and Character/Well Being, which includes self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, self-consideration, etc., radiates from the inside out, so no extra work is needed to influence, seduce (sexual and non-sexual), attract, etc. in the environment around me. Being Humble is key. Arrogance is a huge turn-off. As an Empath, everything I do has to be real and authentic since anything fake is abrasive and has no place in my realm. One thing I have experienced is that being my own self - friendly, outgoing, engage in conversation, etc. can be taken as being flirty and seductive. I am particular where I apply my time and energy for flirting and seducing, so it is very selective. ❤
The concept of an emotional anchor (12mins in) just blew my mind!!!
Chen just taught me what seduction is for the first time!!! I love her analogies, and her contextual examples just made it all make so much sense. Dudes have been teaching seduction all wrong for a decade. Seduction should make the other person enthusiastic, excited, and intrigued not diminished, needy, and insecure. This was so good, AND HER "NO" WAS POWERFUL! I felt that shit, her body language was very cutting, but she was polite. Damn, women really need to learn that "NO" because I have never seen a no like that before, I usually see the polite "maybe no". But I'm the type that if it's not a yes, im not into it at all. I don't like mixed signals so when I get them I lose interest. There was no denying Chen's No😅, love that. She is really good, I like the advice about feeling into the body language you are presenting, that is a MAJOR KEY. It really takes the ambiguity out of the experience. 💯❤️💯 I am going to use a lot of what she said and try it, I'm a strait male, but I have zero idea how to flirt, but I am charming, so she really opened my mind to learning now. I'm going to follow her to see what else she has to say on the matter for guys.
This type of talks are really needed ! Thank you team !
OMG!!!’ How much can one person learn in 1 day!!!! Thank you!
You are welcome ❤❤ what did you learn from this?
I appreciate you so Much Lisa, your channel has been one of my favorites on UA-cam for years. Thank you so much for sharing your light with the world!
Omg!!! Chen Lizra is amazing!! 😮👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love this so much!! 😆💕
Why thank you 😊 what do you love so much about it?
This was one of the best conversations I have EVER HEARD .thank you both
It is so awesome to see Lisa really into this interview... soaking it all up, babe!!!!
This is so helpful as a woman who has “autistic” tendencies. Thank you.
I’m so happy I woke up and am owning my femininity. It’s your power!
I've never heard that the butterfly feeling was negative, but this is the second time this week, that I heard its your body warning you! Must be true!
Love this interview! Learned so much about seduction and love the part about using your charm! Thank Lisa and Chen!
You are welcome. With lots of ❤
Hell yeah! Super stoked you were able to learn from the conversation. Thank you for your support and for your comment.
Have a wonderful day!
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
This is fabulous! Refreshing and useful. Thank you!
Tell me more Tania - what did you,realize for yourself?
Lisa is such a greater listener!! Great talk! #proud of women
One of the best podcast conversations I've listen to, Thank you both♥
Sitting up straight also makes you appear to be confident. Love this video!!!!❤❤❤
Ty Lisa for all these amazing positive pod casts❤❤❤❤
Both interviews were soo good! I have learned a lot, thank you.😉❤
I like her hand gestures.i did learn that. And when Lisa is asking her a question,she locks her hands
This was SO GOOD.
Oh my God! I didn't want to comment but the second guest FORCED me to comment. I used to feel butterflies but I have just been in a relationship but there were no butterflies. I was so calm and myself on the first date. I enjoyed being with him. I connected to well with him. But he was all those physical attractions that I listed for my ideal man. but he is everything I NEED, compassionate, caring, ambitious, family-conscious. I fell in love with him but this love was a more relaxed feeling. not like when I was young and I was even worried that maybe I didn't love him enough but I know I want to be with him for the rest of my life. I was forcing myself to bring those butterflies, doing research on why I do not feel the butterflies. and this second guest's first remark just answered my question.
OMG ty Love 💜
This has braught my Elegance BACK 💃
Lisa , recently have found your videos. You have a wonderful assortment of speakers.
Dear Lisa, thank you so much for your amazing work. I am enjoying each and every interview with the greatest Women on the Planet.
❤❤❤This was a great podcast!!!Just listening help me feel more confident!!! Loved it!!
So amazing!!! What specifically gave you the confidence? If you can unpack it, you can repeat it.
You're a badass! Own your confidence and be the hero of your own story!
Get out there and CRUSH!
Best,
Impact Theory Community Manager
Carefull about the body language when trying to convince others about 'being worthy':) Chen was shaking her head from one side to another which could show to her embedded disbelief that she really is worthy.
That's exactly what I think. If you feel worthy you don"t need to tecnically seduce anywone your personality and how you feel will inmediately attracts the right person. In Spain that "sabrosura" does not work as it shows as you are desperate to attract a person, Spanish men would run away unless they look for casual sex in which case is excellent.
@@mercuri919 Yes, that's true. I used to only look in a normal way, maybe more than those proverbial 3 seconds, at men I was interested in and they understood...They were usually very intelligent, thus they didnt need many clues.
I particulary dislike seduction, I would say it's meant for the type of women who don't know any other smarter way how to "convey the message".
And surprising finding about the Spanish man. I would have thought they will incline to seduction as they are used to show feelings more than, for instance, here, in Czech republic:) Btw, in 9th grade I slapped a boy I really wanted to get to know, on his behind...and...it worked, too:)
It's very fascinating to listen to her because watching her make's it easy listening. Lizra Lizra Lizra... such a powerful woman. Her hand gestures show's that gay men,are more sensual than most feminine women. Thanks Lisa, for you are a great impact on women. Love.
Lisa your smile is the most seductive feature about you
The second one is definitely the child we see in you, when you react, when you talk, you're transparent
Not to mention your natural beauty is very seductive, your face is so natural ❤
10:5 10:55 5
10:55
Love This... Thank You for bringing this to all of us.... I actually was Fully Loving of my husband, the pain of staying in... too great, and I know my Love is Pure... it is sad - even though we believe we were a Divinely Connected Heart... it's difficult for some people to actually be okay with the Work a Relationship of Value Is - all the High Frequency Stuff Is Where I was working, and that's when my husband fully acted up... we Loved genuinely, sad he couldn't 'run with the ball of our Love'....
What an episode. Absolutely loved it❤
Mmmmm.... ❤❤❤
such a great episode ! loved it
3 needs everyone has ….to be seen, to be heard and to be valued or validated!!!
Yes
Nice interviews. Thank you very much. Blessings 👋🏽✨️
This is amazing. I like it very much. Will give it a try ❤🎉
It would be great if i could always have this type of confidence. Not just in the beginning of a relationship but keeping this type of seductive confidence throughout life and throughout the entirety of my relationship(s). I find throughout time I get a bit too comfortable and kind of shlumpy as the relationship goes on. Like ok I’m bored. The seductive lady in me that had that fire in the beginning seems to fade out as time goes by. How to keep that fire alive?? Maybe that’s another topic but I knowww I’m not the only one 😅
You are definitely not alone on this one. And the same happens to men.
dump the guy and seduce another,
yessss
I enjoyed this episode amazing and informative. ❤
I like this lady, she is so right! I am in medical sales and yes i have to seduce everyday…both men and women…it’s not sexual it’s an energy!
This is amazing!! Profound and supportive.
Love it! What landed for you? What did you take away?
Listening to you, I believe I can find my old self again. I forgot about. Thx so much for this, what an eye opener
Hi Marlyin, let me suggest that you find a new version of yourself, not the old one - a better one. What in this is helping you find yourself?
Awesome interviews ❤❤❤
God Bless this Woman. She is giving me so many epiphanies ❤️
Thank you for every episode Lisa
You are great helping me alot in my self development journey
Wow. After a long time not watching this is really something i needed. Thank you
This one is in the top 5 talks in this Chanel ❤
Eeek !! This seems like so much work .
What ever happened to being yourself and trusting that’s enough .
And whomever it is - will love that ❤
I think this conversation is absolutely paramount! I’m so glad you’ve brought these sex issues to light. Equating the males need for love and the women need to feel love. This gift of sexuality has been equally displaced by both men and women for so many decades, it astounds me that once Brought to light in conversation because the need to feel. Loved is the birthright of both in. 5he relationship. “Women need to feel loved to want sex, and men need to have sex to feel loved”. . This awakened truth should really be continually explored and used as tools to keep the beautiful flame of sex alive in long term committed relationships.
There is some great nuggets of golden wisdoms toward deeper connection and zesty health and deeper authentic happiness.
It gives me a wonderful Seneca of hope and self care and empowerment.
Excellent presentation!
Thank you
Cat
❤My teen self feels answered through this video. I desperately used to look for the answers about myself.
Chena Lizra you are well received ❤ Thanks Lisa B 😊
Fantastic!!!
@@ChenLizraYou're such a phenomenal woman
Lisa😂 your facial expressions, your enthusiastic listening 🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊
Time is so precious
So awesome to watch. It blew my mind :-) I know what i m trying to figure out. ❤
What blew your mind? ❤❤
Se ti poni in questo modo (10:00 minuti video) in Italia con quel sorriso ammiccante guardando un uomo non lo stai seducendo, gli stai dicendo che sei disponibile sessualmente che è tutt’altra cosa e per inciso per niente positiva nella nostra cultura se escludiamo coloro che cercano “one shot” … ma in questo caso non si potrebbe parlare di seduzione ma di uso promiscuo del proprio corpo. La seduzione e’ un fatto primariamente mentale come l erotismo, da lì parte e li deve arrivare … per essere tale deve essere autentica, sottile, discreta, mai forzata, elegante ovvero mai volgare, almeno a mio parere e per la cultura in cui sono cresciuta che riconosco essere molto ma molto diversa per esempio da quella Centro Americana ( cubana) a cui fa riferimento l’ospite in studio
Sono Cubana e sono vivo in italia da molti anni
La differenza è abissale dal mio paese al vostro, un sorriso è un sorriso e basta, un complimento o ballare insieme non ha nulla piu di questo. Invece in italia c'è molta malizia, anche un semplice gesto di gentilezza od un saluto è già troppo.
Ogni tanto sembra, e non lo dico con cattiveria, ma che il vostro popolo sia stato un pelino malizioso o "costretto" (religione, forse?) e questo genera una forza reattiva estremamente contrario.
Un sorriso od un gesto gentile non dev'essere per forza interpretato come volgare, penso sia un poco un peccato. Ma come si dice, la malizia sta negli occhi di chi guarda, no?
Specifico che cio che ho scritto non ha scopo offensivo ma giusto un confronto, ed una piccola chiave di lettura da chi viene da fuori, spero di non aver arrecato offesa in alcun modo.
Wooohooooooo thank you for this interview!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I allow from now on my seductive side to lead my life. I always shut it down at a certain point. I love you! ;)
Powerful realization! What made you shut it down?
@@ChenLizra I reflected on that. Since I came as a refugee with nothing and it's struggles to fit in in society and to be accepted as a "normal human being" I fought to get my university degree in Germany (which is not that easy) and took all the responsibility for my whole family and parents, since they relied on everything on me. I am a very feminine looking, sexy, strong woman on the outside. And also can be very seductive in a ladylike way. But on the inside I struggle so much with self worth. I can't see how a man would choose me and value me as a woman in his life. I have so much shame. I still feel as a human of second class and I can't have the normal and good things in life. But I also know that I am very powerful, intelligent and seductive when healing that. You reminded me of that ❤️ I saw me in you! :) do you have any suggestions on how I can turn this internal struggle around? Thank you very much. Greetings, Rajmonda
So good 💗💗💗 Two strong women! Thank you
I have watched many ep of this show, but this one is prob by far my fave😊
Amazing interview with real examples
It has to be said, Chen is incredibly outwardly attractive so the charm aspect is very much helped by this fact.
The same for men, certainly helps to be generally attractive.
So many good tips from Dr Laura - totally agree on the transactional piece and will have to reevaluate how I think about it.
Oh I love her.. she got that va va voom and je nais se quois 😂
Well hello!!! 😂😂😂
Its so many layers of this
Love your show I share it with all my friends
Amazing video 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Wow your videos are getting better and better each day 🍿😊❤🔥
Love your guest.
Great content 🫶
Thank you ❤
Wow!!! Amazing! Simply amazing!
I can't even thank you enough
I really appreciate it
I like Her hair 😍
I looooved the insight behind her coming around to speaking on her story ❤ I’m learning this is the key to connection with others for the best value in whatever you are called to do in this life. Great podcast episode!!
Oh wow I was not expecting this to be so powerful. Thank you so much for this
This woman is brilliant
I get what she says. i am Cuban😁. Thank you for this amazing and valuable episode❤❤❤
I always felt that attraction was chemical. You look into someones eyes and it's an immediate attraction. That attraction turns into seduction.
Lisa’s facial expressions are so cute and funny 😂