Women only care about one thing. That is love, but they spell it MONEY. They don't care about the size of a man. It could be 3 inches to a foot. It's the size of his bank account or his 401k that they get excited about. So size doesn't matter to a woman when it comes to love ( money) 😅
That's an old carpenter joke: Why are women such bad carpenters? Because they've been told too many times that this *holds fingers 3 inches apart* is 6 inches.
Well, to be honest, most of the women I have heard talking about the subject amongst themselves at the office (they tend to get louder the longer they chat amongst each other, making it easy to overhear almost everything they talk about), tend to say they like long and thick ones. And I have 5 different offices I work at, and have heard similar things. Very few, as in less that 10% I would estimate indicated they didn't mind the size. I suspect a lot of the studies don't account for people answering questions based on what they expect to be socially appropriate as opposed to what they really think about a topic.
if this is a true story - then it pretty much seals the deal for me for the question - and I also suspect that every man knows the answer also - slightly bigger is almost always preferred by women. I just find it almost IMPOSSIBLE to believe otherwise.....but it is actually very strange that very few women can admit it
@@fivebooks8498 This is the real truth .. !!!!!!!!!!! It matters from a visual perspective and use. I've been married for awhile and fully understand the lack of size impact. --- In the past there was a time when people could talk about certain subjects and not feel threatened at work. 99.999% of all women liked the idea and look of a large (LONG and THICK) one. Not that other sizes couldn't please .. just that right about 8'x6' is ideal. This is from women who've had partners and/or weren't young. Face to face they said they would never talk about "it" directly.
I will preface this by saying I do understand that some have physical limitations and I recognize that they are very real. But I believe one thing that really matters when it comes to sex is the desire to please the other person. That’s probably why we’re so obsessed with size and technique and are we doing it right. It’s pretty cool. That we as a species are smart enough to explore these topics. Thanks for helping people understand this stuff. I appreciate the path you took in your life to do that. Thank you Rena. I say your name for a reason. It feels good to hear your self recognized by someone and That’s why I believe that even just saying someone’s name during sex means something. It shows them that you appreciate them. My saying your name is just me showing you the appreciation for the time you took to make these videos. And Speaking about these anxieties can at least eliminate some of the pressures that we put ourselves under. We can do more to focus on the other person now.
It depends on the woman. I’ve met a couple women who had very very endowed male partners. These women admitted it skewed their perspectives and needs, and they wanted/needed overly endowed guys. Therefore, this average guy had no chance.
None of these videos ever really acknowledge sizes that are below average. We always hear that the average size is in the 5" range, and question whether bigger is better. But the very nature of averages means that there are plenty of measurements that come in below as well, and that's never really addressed. There are plenty of men out there who have legitimate concerns because they come in below that number, and these videos don't really help them.
5 inches is too small for all woman.. The key size they prefer is 7 inches ... I know because I'm 5 inches and been thrown away because they all said I was to small..
Porn and some other shows or movies play a role in this thinking the size matters. The majority of us know this to be true, and yet some people still allow it to affect our thinking.
@@richarde1355 there are certainly women who need a larger than normal size cause they are larger than normal. There are also just women who psychologically want bigger not because it brings more pleasure but because they like how it looks better.
That alone is no easy task, especially in the West. Most have been pretty well carved up by age 30 - not to mention the oral implications. Shop around, guys! Do background checks. Do CREDIT checks. Find an honest one with a nice smile who hasn't been ridden like the "town bicycle."
I've seen '80s adult material and all the men were surprisingly, stunningly average; and, all the women were in on the deal - riding the waves. Thanks for your so helpful support, Dr. Malik.
I'm a grower, not a shower. I can go from really small, which can be very embarrassing when NOT aroused, up to about 7 inches in no time flat, which is nothing to be ashamed of. So, it just depends upon what you see at the time, if I'm aroused or not.
The evidence is now abundant - there is no corelation between flaccid length and erect length. None whatsover. I too, I'm small flaccid but top out at 7.1
Don't measure from b-hole up. Only joking you are supposed to measure from front pelvis bone out to end(>. I've never measured since I insert into toilet paper cardboard center. Yea see you insert soft and proceeded to break it with hard. Great exercise I do it at least once a week. Yeaaaaaa! Sure!!
The reason society tells you that is because they're trying to trigger you. They don't care about facts. They just know it will hurt your feelings, like telling you your forehead is too big, so that's why they do it.
Thanks for creating contents like this❤ I know that size is not everything, It depends on what the woman wants, but if having a few extra inches can help boost your confidence, look for Baseem's videos.
Men are always worried about size. Thing is no matter what size you are it’s not going to change. We have what we have…,being preoccupied about it won’t change anything.
If size matters to a man then size matters. It's not always about what women want. The average male size is small, not impressive, and men know this. Some men don't like fake breasts, but that doesn't stop how implants make a woman feel about herself.
Im exactly 6 inches, and I've been told by 2 girls that i was big. I thought i wasn't big enough 😅 i really think us as men worry more than women we are trying to please, do.
Yes you have good sense. Girth is where it's at not a member small girth but long too much cervix Banging and not friction at the Hole. Yea fold it double and put c Ring on it! That help.
Not to make anyone feel bad, but size absolutely matters! Length less so than girth as it can become painful if too long, but it definitely adds way more pleasure and is so much more attractive to look at! ♥️
@rebclout I used to work for a company that designed, made and sold devices for OB/GYN care. There are reasons why OB/GYN have to keep a variety of vagina speculum sizes on hand starting at JR/Teen (rather small) going up all the way to Womens XXL(starting to approach veterinary size) with the blades varying in length and width. It is an indisputable fact that vaginas come in a wide variety of sizes and varying degrees of elasisty whether women want to own these facts or not. At the end of the day a woman's vagina size dimensions and their vaginal elasticity are 50% of any sexual fit equation and real women know this and they own this. Then we get into vulva aesthetics. Vulvas vary considerably in size from woman to woman and while this often makes women very uncomfortable and often angry, men have the right to have vulva aesthetic preferences and not all vulvas are equally attractive-- far from it. Sadly few women have the self confidence, are sufficiently secure and sufficiently self aware or self accountable to own these facts and to hold themselves to the same genital size and genital aesthetic standards that they hold men to. This is one area where women have proven that they do not want gender equality
Most women want something slightly larger than average but not huge. There are size queens but they’re definitely the minority. If you’re smaller than average then she’s just sparing your feelings if she tells you it doesn’t matter. There are things a lot more important to most women than size and everyone makes compromises but it does matter.
Please keep in mind - also depends on the physical body size of the women. What was the average female size who where surveyed?? 5' 90 lb asian or a 6' 6" 240 Female Russian shot putter ? Lets be honest. You must take the car for a test drive before purchase. Size of EACH person matters.
Yes, size and skill are both important, but the MOST important thing is whether or not she's attracted to the man. The man could have all the skills in the world but if he looks at him like George from Seinfeld or Howard from Big Bang Theory, women are going to find him creepy and not enjoy it no matter what. The man could be Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt and all he has to do is a quick pump and dump and she'll claim it was the most incredible thing ever.
Rule of thumb: never pay attention to what women say what they want and pay attention to what they respond to. People in general don’t really know what they want until they find it.
I haven't watched it yet but I would have to say that yes size absolutely does matter. It just doesn't matter as much as a lot of guys make it out to be. Stamina plays a bigger part then size. You could literally have an elephant trunk but if you're a one pump chump it isn't going to matter how big you are.
For years, I’ve been wondering every time I see something like this video, where all these measurements and averages come from? Who are these people, male and female, that actually volunteer to have their genitalia measured? And then assuming that’s achieved somehow, how can a small sample be generalized so easily? One wonders how serious these “studies” are.
Of course size matters whether the woman prefers Very big, average or Very small it all depends on her comfort level; hence size Does matter. If she isn't used to a large one and finds out her partner is large she will feel uncomfortable hence SIZE will always matter, vice versa if it's Small and she's only used to a large one.
Indeed .. I have been told that many would rather adjust up for size because it would grantee the "full" filling vs small where there is little feeling.
My life experience tough me that size maters. In my case it would be better that it was longe, my girlfriends said. So apparently it is about who do you fined to appreciate you!
We are groomed from early childhood that big or tall is more attractive. For many people, being tall is appealing, even though being a few inches short does not prevent that person from doing things in daily life that a tall person can. For some women, a big penis is visually more attractive even though that big penis may not give them orgasms. Same with men, some prefer women with big breasts, and some prefer big asses. Some prefer skinny women, and some prefer curvy women.
@@leobradley6222 look at female friend groups, there are alot of girls who get guys that can impress their friend group. Not ones they are actually attracted too
It was described to me by one woman that her current partner unlike the previous 'fit like a glove' and that it was like a puzzle piece and just worked properly in satisfying her. So unfortunately it does matter in that it would be best to be above a certain minimum measurements, however if not, find a woman who doesnt care, as they exist.
It's about the attitude you have, the expectation, safety, confidence, trust. Sex is more than going back and forth. Size matters purely psychologically, if she liked it - you're enough
Such a foolish saying…..an equally skilled captain with a bigger boat…. Well, which do YOU THINK she’d prefer? Saying is only to make smaller guys feel better!
@69CamaroSS what guy have to remember is that it isn't only about the size and skills it's also about the stamina. You need all 3 because If you just have size and skill without stamina then you can't finish the race. Women can go longer than most men so they need a man that can go as long as them.
We guys have heard right from the start that "size matters." I always believed that until I met an unbelievable woman who never ever lies, and she's been with a lot of men, told me that it's not true. I asked her "how so?" She answered, "it's not how much you have to use, it's how you use what you've got." The icing on the cake if you will, is she told me that she always enjoyed sex, but never had an orgasm and I was her first partner to give her that. Her comment made my day, made my year and made my decade! But . . . . yup, there's always a "But." We communicate. We're a team and that's a first for me.
You lost me at "I met an unbelievable woman who never ever lies"....that's as mythical as Bigfoot and Sasquatch. Of course, size matters. It may not be the most important factor, but, of course, it matters. Your female friend lied to you, and from what it sounds like in the rest of your comment.....about quite a few things!
I think people get a warped perception of what women want because of, for lack of a better word, "undateable" women who get stuck in the dating pool because they don't last in relationships, and become overrepresented. People with a long list of requirements tend not to be great people overall. I'm sure women can relate, there are certain kinds of guys that become overrepresented in the dating pool too, where it's obvious extremely early why they're single
It's funny how much more open discussion of this topic is nowadays. When I was a teen in the 90s, real data was hard to come by. I'm quite a bit larger than average, but I grew up insecure and uncertain about my size. It was all so unnecessary.
As always another excellent topic Doc!!!! I hope that you are enjoying your holiday weekend and that this was pre-recorded. Enjoy the rest of your week Doc!!!!!❤❤❤
Size definitely matters, every single girl I've been with or talked to about it candidly admits it. Whenever studies get referenced about this, I raff because you know they're just telling you what you want to hear. Too big could be a problem, but if you're 7-10" with good girth, I think you're golden.
A study was done with 3D models of penises and found: Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners.
I don't know how this cake up but I was talking to my friend's wife and she says "yes pretty well endowed for his height". That was TMI about my friend.
Great video. I've always told people that women are different sizes as well it's just no one talks about it. I have had partners that just couldn't ever get used to me and others that want it all.
Women today don't want to tell you what you're doing right or wrong...if you're not, she just moves on without a word to the next. They have more sexual options than men do, so it's easy to not teach but to move on and find better.
I have seen a study that found that the average anglosphere womens ideal size for a long term partner is 6-9/16" (easy to remember because that is pretty much exactly my size) and for a short term partner was something like 7.25". I have occasionally had a complaint of feeling a little bit too large for comfort but never bad enough to preclude future engagement, but my younger brother, who is definitely a decent bit bigger than me (probably around 7.5") has been turned down over it before. I will say that at my size regular condoms don't work, while they technically fit they cut off circulation preventing completion and leaving a dark red ring that persists for hours. Magnums do fit fine but i ultimately stopped using them as well, preferring coutus interruptis instead (duh).
Size is psychological, just like physical attraction. Debating whether a larger penis is better is a moot point. It is and will always be, just like an attractive partner.
Great video!. I believe and know its not size or skill, its when skill and size are used interchangeably. Foreplay becomes a lot more playful and experimental. It can do wonders for a women if its used properly.
80% say size doesn't matter. So what this translates into is: with 80% of women, you're going to "bottom out" if your equipment is on the bigger side. Just keep that in mind.
Kama Sutra: Kam kria which takes between man & woman is "Sadhana". For those have not acquired this skill can have "Santan Sukh" but they can't have "Kam Sukh". Rajnishji: If it was not for sex, Men, Women would not know "LOVE".
For those of us who are well endowed, trust me size matters. I have heard women say things like "thank god you are so big" and "yeah, women lie for sure, I don't think I know one friend who doesn't want a thick 8 inches" Sad but true. If you are average, I am sure you will do just fine, but if you are small, you are screwed, sucks bigtime because there is nothing you can do about how well endowed you are.
Why does it have to be one or the other? Size and skill would seem to be the best combination. But the women I have known have said that skill can be taught, size cannot. Besides, even without skill, a woman can take charge and make sure she gets what she likes.
IMHO, the increased access to and prevalence of pornography is a a significant driver of questioning (esp. by men ) of the adequacy of their own phallus size. I have a teenage son (with whom I have very open communication) and who, while not yet having had his first sexual experience, has indeed watched quite a bit of porn on his smartphone. He regularly gets out a ruler to see how many inches he estimates are the phalluses that he sees in porn videos. Often 10-12 inches, which, I remind him, is NOT the average. Great video !
@@Bucephalus84 How? The majority of teens are watching porn on their smartphones (despite parental controls like the one I put on my son's phone!) Rather than have him sneaking around, it's better to have open communication. Like about the deleterious effect of drugs. He knows 2 kids in his class who are taking drugs,and have proposed them to him and he doesn't even want to go near them, thanks to the talks we've had.THAT's good parenting. 💪🏻
For starters, he's wrong in his size estimations. Verrrrry few male performers are 10"-12". The overwhelming majority of male performers these days are only 6.5"-8"
@franchic9565 You give a very one sided perspective to what men/boys are going through and dealing with and why. First off, porn use by women is constantly increasing, and this is especially true in women 30 and younger (estimated at 76% porn use rate). Girls/women see these very large penises in porn and they come to view those sizes as the norm and average. Men/boys are constantly blasted for thinking that what they see in porn is real and normal in terms of womens bodies and often times rightfully so. But girls, young women and women in general are not equally chastised in terms of how they view men and male sexual performance as a result of their porn and romance novel porn usage. Young women are being programmed to see men/boys who are not at least 9 inches in length and approaching coke can girth as being sub par human beings Then we add the constant barrage of penis size shaming by women/girls in every aspect of mainstream culture and mainstream entertainment. In women under 30 years old you are going to find it hard to find a woman/girl who has not penis size shamed a boy or a man whether that be directly, indirectly, overtly or covertly. Penis size shaming is common place in, fully acceptable and seen as fun and a women's right on social media. However vaginal and vulva size shaming is not a part of mainstream culture. At the end of the day a woman's vagina dimensions and vaginal elasticity are always going to be 50% of any sexual fit equation, and real women know this and they own this. Boys and Men need to be taught this axiom of truth about does size matter whether women want to own this truth or not.
I don't let myself worry about this. Are all women into my size? No, but plenty enough are. Once a man stops worrying about his size, he is free from all manner of nonsense. No more need for the giant trucks or overpowered cars or excessive interest in firearms or extreme sports.
Message for all the people here, men and women please don't be so...... Yes size absolutely matters. I don't matters of we were only talking about biology, and how body rules. But the reality it's that women like big big size because of the visual and because it gives them much more want to have the titanic than the little boat beside x)
Honestly I don't think size matters as much as type of sexual preference. Everything doesn't come down to penetrative sex. Most men and women truly don't know how to openly discuss what gets them to orgasm effectively.
The question is : are women really honest when it comes to sex? Everything I have read suggests they are not. Also women with a lot of experience would tell very different story to ones who lack. And bottom line - there are very very big differences from one gal to another. Some women can handle and enjoy huge size, some do not.
throughout the video, you skimmed over the fact that women preferred a longer or thicker member because it was "just an inch" only to later say that women think a 6 inch member, "just an inch" bigger than average, was perceived as significantly larger.
I had a girlfriend who told me I'm just about the right size compared to all the other guys in our neighborhood.
How did she know tho 🤣🤣
Lol
I wanted to introduce myself to you but she asked me not to lol
😂😂😂🎉🎉
@@AidanAdega
She's Not 🙅♀️ His Girl . . . It's just his turn . 😂
Size definitely matters. Make sure you have 7 figures on hand at all times.
Hey, baby, wanna see my Credit Score?!😂
😂😂
Women only care about one thing. That is love, but they spell it MONEY. They don't care about the size of a man. It could be 3 inches to a foot. It's the size of his bank account or his 401k that they get excited about. So size doesn't matter to a woman when it comes to love ( money) 😅
@@apachie3895 Yeah because you can speak for all women
Why ? Western female already rich and have access to good healthcare and living in safe country and will never die from starvation
Even a tractor trailer looks small when parked in the Grand Canyon.
lol dude.
Spoken words by HHH to Stephanie McMahon in the ring. 😂 😂
Omg 😂
@@wearethehaunted3831 how about a 747? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Women have been told over the years that 6” was a foot so I can see them over estimating length .
That's an old carpenter joke:
Why are women such bad carpenters?
Because they've been told too many times that this *holds fingers 3 inches apart* is 6 inches.
Well, to be honest, most of the women I have heard talking about the subject amongst themselves at the office (they tend to get louder the longer they chat amongst each other, making it easy to overhear almost everything they talk about), tend to say they like long and thick ones. And I have 5 different offices I work at, and have heard similar things.
Very few, as in less that 10% I would estimate indicated they didn't mind the size.
I suspect a lot of the studies don't account for people answering questions based on what they expect to be socially appropriate as opposed to what they really think about a topic.
if this is a true story - then it pretty much seals the deal for me for the question - and I also suspect that every man knows the answer also - slightly bigger is almost always preferred by women. I just find it almost IMPOSSIBLE to believe otherwise.....but it is actually very strange that very few women can admit it
Every woman I’ve been with has told me it matters. They just don’t want to hurt a guys feelings or appear to be a slut.
@@fivebooks8498 This is the real truth .. !!!!!!!!!!! It matters from a visual perspective and use. I've been married for awhile and fully understand the lack of size impact. --- In the past there was a time when people could talk about certain subjects and not feel threatened at work. 99.999% of all women liked the idea and look of a large (LONG and THICK) one. Not that other sizes couldn't please .. just that right about 8'x6' is ideal. This is from women who've had partners and/or weren't young. Face to face they said they would never talk about "it" directly.
I will preface this by saying I do understand that some have physical limitations and I recognize that they are very real. But I believe one thing that really matters when it comes to sex is the desire to please the other person. That’s probably why we’re so obsessed with size and technique and are we doing it right. It’s pretty cool. That we as a species are smart enough to explore these topics. Thanks for helping people understand this stuff. I appreciate the path you took in your life to do that. Thank you Rena. I say your name for a reason. It feels good to hear your self recognized by someone and That’s why I believe that even just saying someone’s name during sex means something. It shows them that you appreciate them. My saying your name is just me showing you the appreciation for the time you took to make these videos.
And Speaking about these anxieties can at least eliminate some of the pressures that we put ourselves under. We can do more to focus on the other person now.
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@@colintwigger529 That estimation error was really hilarious :D
It depends on the woman. I’ve met a couple women who had very very endowed male partners. These women admitted it skewed their perspectives and needs, and they wanted/needed overly endowed guys. Therefore, this average guy had no chance.
Yeah but it's like a guy saying he "needs" big boobs just because his previous partners had them. It's false either way.
@80s_Boombox_Collector breast's do not not affect sex tho. There is literally no female equivalent to p size
I think I’ve ruined a few women.
@@80s_Boombox_Collectornope, it was real.
@@fivebooks8498
Because they laughed so hard????
None of these videos ever really acknowledge sizes that are below average. We always hear that the average size is in the 5" range, and question whether bigger is better. But the very nature of averages means that there are plenty of measurements that come in below as well, and that's never really addressed. There are plenty of men out there who have legitimate concerns because they come in below that number, and these videos don't really help them.
Yes, half of all men, in fact.
This political correctness everywhere
@@rexwave4624 Not half of all men, more like 33%. Learn about bell curves and standard deviations, friend.
@@mylesleggette7520 assuming a symmetrical normal distribution
5 inches is too small for all woman.. The key size they prefer is 7 inches ... I know because I'm 5 inches and been thrown away because they all said I was to small..
Porn and some other shows or movies play a role in this thinking the size matters. The majority of us know this to be true, and yet some people still allow it to affect our thinking.
I’ve known women to whom size mattered.
@@richarde1355 there are certainly women who need a larger than normal size cause they are larger than normal. There are also just women who psychologically want bigger not because it brings more pleasure but because they like how it looks better.
You are so correct!
Size preference is probably more of a visual thing than a performance thing
This is correct, it's great to look at a big one but not confortable when its inside!
Its both,length and girth are important to hit and stretch the 🐱
@@Sharan-y9p not for all women, girth is more important then length
But length allows you to get to the fornix
@@bdaddy503 yup thats what im saying
Longer size enables a couple of positions that are not achievable with a shorter size though
Ive wonder if the larger size also might help better prepare a women for child labor? Just curious
@@manzchello4752 absolutely not
@@manzchello4752LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO
@@manzchello4752 NOOOOOOOO
Facts
Fellas, just find a woman who isn’t blown out and has realistic expectations. You’ll be fine
That alone is no easy task, especially in the West. Most have been pretty well carved up by age 30 - not to mention the oral implications.
Shop around, guys! Do background checks. Do CREDIT checks. Find an honest one with a nice smile who hasn't been ridden like the "town bicycle."
@@ScooterOnHisWay2024 go find a woman from Asia then
@@DesiMinnesotanAbsolutely, this is the way!
Desi, Apparently you’re making an assumption without actual sampling.
@@MrGoodaches western women have unrealistic expectations in my experience
I've seen '80s adult material and all the men were surprisingly, stunningly average; and, all the women were in on the deal - riding the waves. Thanks for your so helpful support, Dr. Malik.
I'm a grower, not a shower. I can go from really small, which can be very embarrassing when NOT aroused, up to about 7 inches in no time flat, which is nothing to be ashamed of. So, it just depends upon what you see at the time, if I'm aroused or not.
The evidence is now abundant - there is no corelation between flaccid length and erect length. None whatsover. I too, I'm small flaccid but top out at 7.1
Don't measure from b-hole up. Only joking you are supposed to measure from front pelvis bone out to end(>. I've never measured since I insert into toilet paper cardboard center. Yea see you insert soft and proceeded to break it with hard. Great exercise I do it at least once a week. Yeaaaaaa! Sure!!
Similar, except I can go from very embarrassing to only mildly embarrassing. So I got that going for me, which is nice.
I had a girlfriend who told me one time. It’s not how big it is when it’s soft. It’s how many wrinkles are in it. I thought that was funny.
Highly doubt that. You don't go from very small to 7. For a 7 you're look at 5 or 5.5 flaccid
Kinda hard to believe size doesn't matter when society so often tells us otherwise
The reason society tells you that is because they're trying to trigger you. They don't care about facts. They just know it will hurt your feelings, like telling you your forehead is too big, so that's why they do it.
Thank you, Dr, Rena Malik. I always enjoy your videos. They are always truthful, insightful, and educational.
Thanks for creating contents like this❤ I know that size is not everything, It depends on what the woman wants, but if having a few extra inches can help boost your confidence, look for Baseem's videos.
Men are always worried about size. Thing is no matter what size you are it’s not going to change. We have what we have…,being preoccupied about it won’t change anything.
Yet, we still do obsess.
You can increase your size …
Easy talk when you haven't lost someone over size
@@jomorrow1 easier said than done
They sell those pills on late night TV !!!@@rnapol3266
My wife tells me she does not care what size men are.
😂
That's what she told me too 😂
She don’t care if it’s 10”
She’s telling you what you want to hear. In a positive way
You wild! 😂
If size matters to a man then size matters. It's not always about what women want. The average male size is small, not impressive, and men know this. Some men don't like fake breasts, but that doesn't stop how implants make a woman feel about herself.
Im exactly 6 inches, and I've been told by 2 girls that i was big. I thought i wasn't big enough 😅 i really think us as men worry more than women we are trying to please, do.
I got a-1.5 inch tool that can last a full 30 seconds. I pay well so every woman says 'no, size doesn't matter'. I am so satisfied.
That funny.
Size can only get you so far, same applies to skill. The combination of both trumps the former and blows them out of the water. Truth hurts gentlemen.
Yes you have good sense. Girth is where it's at not a member small girth but long too much cervix Banging and not friction at the Hole. Yea fold it double and put c Ring on it! That help.
Mine is below 5
Everyone laughed at me, everyone
Thank god i somehow got over it and now live a peaceful single life
😂😅
brutal
Haha
Not to make anyone feel bad, but size absolutely matters! Length less so than girth as it can become painful if too long, but it definitely adds way more pleasure and is so much more attractive to look at! ♥️
What's your favourite size and what's too big that's painful for you?
@@rebclout now I feel bad
Tightness matters too
@@Gundice_the_cryomancerno videos ever go into depth about that… women seem to think all their 🐱 feel the same.. so far from the truth
@rebclout I used to work for a company that designed, made and sold devices for OB/GYN care. There are reasons why OB/GYN have to keep a variety of vagina speculum sizes on hand starting at JR/Teen (rather small) going up all the way to Womens XXL(starting to approach veterinary size) with the blades varying in length and width. It is an indisputable fact that vaginas come in a wide variety of sizes and varying degrees of elasisty whether women want to own these facts or not. At the end of the day a woman's vagina size dimensions and their vaginal elasticity are 50% of any sexual fit equation and real women know this and they own this. Then we get into vulva aesthetics. Vulvas vary considerably in size from woman to woman and while this often makes women very uncomfortable and often angry, men have the right to have vulva aesthetic preferences and not all vulvas are equally attractive-- far from it. Sadly few women have the self confidence, are sufficiently secure and sufficiently self aware or self accountable to own these facts and to hold themselves to the same genital size and genital aesthetic standards that they hold men to. This is one area where women have proven that they do not want gender equality
Most women want something slightly larger than average but not huge. There are size queens but they’re definitely the minority. If you’re smaller than average then she’s just sparing your feelings if she tells you it doesn’t matter. There are things a lot more important to most women than size and everyone makes compromises but it does matter.
This is probably one of the only true comments in this whole entire thread.
Please keep in mind - also depends on the physical body size of the women. What was the average female size who where surveyed?? 5' 90 lb asian or a 6' 6" 240 Female Russian shot putter ? Lets be honest. You must take the car for a test drive before purchase. Size of EACH person matters.
Russian girls age not that tall
t. fellow russian guy
@@redpanda2657 just an example my friend, but there are some huge Russian girls. Seen them in person : ). Never said they were all that size.
Yes, size and skill are both important, but the MOST important thing is whether or not she's attracted to the man. The man could have all the skills in the world but if he looks at him like George from Seinfeld or Howard from Big Bang Theory, women are going to find him creepy and not enjoy it no matter what. The man could be Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt and all he has to do is a quick pump and dump and she'll claim it was the most incredible thing ever.
Quality Overrides Quantity
Yes, but a larger quantity has more potential for quality.
That’s what shorty claims.
@franklinj1038: Keep telling yourself that, Stubby 🤣
@@DonRood-fx3dt🥶🥶🥶
Said the guy with the micro penis 😂
Rule of thumb: never pay attention to what women say what they want and pay attention to what they respond to. People in general don’t really know what they want until they find it.
I haven't watched it yet but I would have to say that yes size absolutely does matter. It just doesn't matter as much as a lot of guys make it out to be. Stamina plays a bigger part then size. You could literally have an elephant trunk but if you're a one pump chump it isn't going to matter how big you are.
And if you’re above average and go too long it isn’t very good for her either.
For years, I’ve been wondering every time I see something like this video, where all these measurements and averages come from? Who are these people, male and female, that actually volunteer to have their genitalia measured? And then assuming that’s achieved somehow, how can a small sample be generalized so easily? One wonders how serious these “studies” are.
Of course size matters whether the woman prefers Very big, average or Very small it all depends on her comfort level; hence size Does matter.
If she isn't used to a large one and finds out her partner is large she will feel uncomfortable hence SIZE will always matter, vice versa if it's Small and she's only used to a large one.
Indeed .. I have been told that many would rather adjust up for size because it would grantee the "full" filling vs small where there is little feeling.
Having more is always better
My life experience tough me that size maters. In my case it would be better that it was longe, my girlfriends said. So apparently it is about who do you fined to appreciate you!
If your gf actually told you that, she needs more maturity. If it's really such a big issue to her, she should have just left without saying why.
We are groomed from early childhood that big or tall is more attractive. For many people, being tall is appealing, even though being a few inches short does not prevent that person from doing things in daily life that a tall person can. For some women, a big penis is visually more attractive even though that big penis may not give them orgasms. Same with men, some prefer women with big breasts, and some prefer big asses. Some prefer skinny women, and some prefer curvy women.
well theres a difference between actual preference and societal preference.
Not true, most preferences are genetic in nature. I.E. big breasts/hips are good indicators of motherhood fitness.
@@leobradley6222 look at female friend groups, there are alot of girls who get guys that can impress their friend group. Not ones they are actually attracted too
I am a bit larger than average, 6" X1.75" and it is uncomfortable for my partner, as she is rather petite. So, bigger is not better.
she must be tiny 😅
What is 1.75? You should use circumference
It was described to me by one woman that her current partner unlike the previous 'fit like a glove' and that it was like a puzzle piece and just worked properly in satisfying her. So unfortunately it does matter in that it would be best to be above a certain minimum measurements, however if not, find a woman who doesnt care, as they exist.
It's about the attitude you have, the expectation, safety, confidence, trust. Sex is more than going back and forth. Size matters purely psychologically, if she liked it - you're enough
You are such a good reference. Thank you for what you do.
“The size of the boat” vs. “the motion of the ocean” 😂😂😂
Ouch bruh 😅
Such a generic and false response these days lol. Imma block her account tired of the generic surface level responses
Such a foolish saying…..an equally skilled captain with a bigger boat…. Well, which do YOU THINK she’d prefer?
Saying is only to make smaller guys feel better!
@69CamaroSS what guy have to remember is that it isn't only about the size and skills it's also about the stamina. You need all 3 because If you just have size and skill without stamina then you can't finish the race. Women can go longer than most men so they need a man that can go as long as them.
Its not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean; and this ship can sail the seven seas...! 😶🤣
In front of you it's skill, In your back it's always a size.
We guys have heard right from the start that "size matters." I always believed that until I met an unbelievable woman who never ever lies, and she's been with a lot of men, told me that it's not true. I asked her "how so?" She answered, "it's not how much you have to use, it's how you use what you've got." The icing on the cake if you will, is she told me that she always enjoyed sex, but never had an orgasm and I was her first partner to give her that. Her comment made my day, made my year and made my decade! But . . . . yup, there's always a "But." We communicate. We're a team and that's a first for me.
You lost me at "I met an unbelievable woman who never ever lies"....that's as mythical as Bigfoot and Sasquatch. Of course, size matters. It may not be the most important factor, but, of course, it matters. Your female friend lied to you, and from what it sounds like in the rest of your comment.....about quite a few things!
stop larping
That BS bruv ain't no way
. . . and then everyone clapped!
I think people get a warped perception of what women want because of, for lack of a better word, "undateable" women who get stuck in the dating pool because they don't last in relationships, and become overrepresented. People with a long list of requirements tend not to be great people overall. I'm sure women can relate, there are certain kinds of guys that become overrepresented in the dating pool too, where it's obvious extremely early why they're single
It's funny how much more open discussion of this topic is nowadays. When I was a teen in the 90s, real data was hard to come by. I'm quite a bit larger than average, but I grew up insecure and uncertain about my size. It was all so unnecessary.
For women matters how big is the bank acount, and then nothing else matters
As always another excellent topic Doc!!!! I hope that you are enjoying your holiday weekend and that this was pre-recorded. Enjoy the rest of your week Doc!!!!!❤❤❤
Size definitely matters, every single girl I've been with or talked to about it candidly admits it. Whenever studies get referenced about this, I raff because you know they're just telling you what you want to hear. Too big could be a problem, but if you're 7-10" with good girth, I think you're golden.
10 inches? 😂
A study was done with 3D models of penises and found: Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners.
Brutal
what a nice statement at the end !
I don't know how this cake up but I was talking to my friend's wife and she says "yes pretty well endowed for his height". That was TMI about my friend.
It’s neither size nor skill, it’s how much wealth, comfort and prestige a man brings a woman.
Great video. I've always told people that women are different sizes as well it's just no one talks about it. I have had partners that just couldn't ever get used to me and others that want it all.
Thank you for your input Miss Rena
Women today don't want to tell you what you're doing right or wrong...if you're not, she just moves on without a word to the next. They have more sexual options than men do, so it's easy to not teach but to move on and find better.
Great post Dr Rena. Thanks.
Thanks, Dr. Rena Malik!
I think it goes like this:
Hardness>Angle>Girth>Length>Skills>Chemistry
Staying power has kept me rolling for over 40 years through age 60.That and size, of course.
This is great stuff who else on the Internet talks about this of the real facts.
I have seen a study that found that the average anglosphere womens ideal size for a long term partner is 6-9/16" (easy to remember because that is pretty much exactly my size) and for a short term partner was something like 7.25". I have occasionally had a complaint of feeling a little bit too large for comfort but never bad enough to preclude future engagement, but my younger brother, who is definitely a decent bit bigger than me (probably around 7.5") has been turned down over it before.
I will say that at my size regular condoms don't work, while they technically fit they cut off circulation preventing completion and leaving a dark red ring that persists for hours. Magnums do fit fine but i ultimately stopped using them as well, preferring coutus interruptis instead (duh).
Remember, a sex toy may need to be longer for a "handle", somewhere for your hand to go.
Size really does matter. She'll always hit up her biggest/most skilled ex in between boyfriends. Sometimes, not even in between.
Yes this woman is lying. Never trust a woman when it comes to datint advice
Thats a hard pill to swallow for a lot of mfs.
You and your girl need to talk.
@@mamasnightmare1 the girl I'm seeing has a bf lol
@@ThereBeGoldInThemTharHills you're the ex in between? Kuddos
Size is psychological, just like physical attraction. Debating whether a larger penis is better is a moot point. It is and will always be, just like an attractive partner.
Awesome content
Great video!. I believe and know its not size or skill, its when skill and size are used interchangeably. Foreplay becomes a lot more playful and experimental. It can do wonders for a women if its used properly.
Honesty, just be very enthusiastic and remember to use your hips.
80% say size doesn't matter. So what this translates into is: with 80% of women, you're going to "bottom out" if your equipment is on the bigger side.
Just keep that in mind.
Today is my birthday therefore I will watch this video today in my birthday suit seems appropriate 😅 thanks Dr. Rena Malik ✅
@@justinmartin1666 happy birthday. Yesterday was mine
So we have the same bday??
Happy birthday ✅
@@leetaiming64 Thank you 😊
@@paoloorate2265 yes 😅☺️
Maybe so, but the videos online tend to prove bigger guys please much much more. They aren’t all faking…
Survey: "Say nice body positive things"
IRL: "OMFG it's so big just like that ughhhhhh I'm c***ing again!!"
5 inches in length but about 8 inches in girth. I've had zero complaints.
That's seems impossible
Kama Sutra:
Kam kria which takes between man & woman is "Sadhana". For those have not acquired this skill
can have "Santan Sukh" but they can't have "Kam Sukh".
Rajnishji:
If it was not for sex, Men, Women would not know "LOVE".
This would be less of an issue if the women who prefer average, prefer smaller than average, prefer thinner, would speak out.
Plenty do.
good info. nice to know the facts
BLOWN OUT LOL 😂
Thanks Dr Rena!!!!
For those of us who are well endowed, trust me size matters. I have heard women say things like "thank god you are so big" and "yeah, women lie for sure, I don't think I know one friend who doesn't want a thick 8 inches" Sad but true. If you are average, I am sure you will do just fine, but if you are small, you are screwed, sucks bigtime because there is nothing you can do about how well endowed you are.
Size is important but hardness is the key!
Quick question please...Are these measurements from the floor ? Thank you.
Dude 💀
“It’s not the size of the wave. It’s the grace of your base, and spasm in her chasm”. - Prince - Big Mouth
No matter what your size is... Learn to use your fingers and tongue fellas. Master all of the tools available to you.
Why does it have to be one or the other? Size and skill would seem to be the best combination. But the women I have known have said that skill can be taught, size cannot. Besides, even without skill, a woman can take charge and make sure she gets what she likes.
I was told that 6.5” is just okay
Bro. Some girl called me average and mine is 7”. 😂
The only thing thicc about me is my beer belly and my ass😢
I am working on it
Helpful & thank you.
IMHO, the increased access to and prevalence of pornography is a a significant driver of questioning (esp. by men ) of the adequacy of their own phallus size. I have a teenage son (with whom I have very open communication) and who, while not yet having had his first sexual experience, has indeed watched quite a bit of porn on his smartphone. He regularly gets out a ruler to see how many inches he estimates are the phalluses that he sees in porn videos. Often 10-12 inches, which, I remind him, is NOT the average. Great video !
That isn't normal. Be a better parent.
@@Bucephalus84 How? The majority of teens are watching porn on their smartphones (despite parental controls like the one I put on my son's phone!) Rather than have him sneaking around, it's better to have open communication. Like about the deleterious effect of drugs. He knows 2 kids in his class who are taking drugs,and have proposed them to him and he doesn't even want to go near them, thanks to the talks we've had.THAT's good parenting. 💪🏻
@franchic9565 you don't think porn is a drug? Haha
For starters, he's wrong in his size estimations. Verrrrry few male performers are 10"-12". The overwhelming majority of male performers these days are only 6.5"-8"
@franchic9565 You give a very one sided perspective to what men/boys are going through and dealing with and why. First off, porn use by women is constantly increasing, and this is especially true in women 30 and younger (estimated at 76% porn use rate). Girls/women see these very large penises in porn and they come to view those sizes as the norm and average. Men/boys are constantly blasted for thinking that what they see in porn is real and normal in terms of womens bodies and often times rightfully so. But girls, young women and women in general are not equally chastised in terms of how they view men and male sexual performance as a result of their porn and romance novel porn usage. Young women are being programmed to see men/boys who are not at least 9 inches in length and approaching coke can girth as being sub par human beings Then we add the constant barrage of penis size shaming by women/girls in every aspect of mainstream culture and mainstream entertainment. In women under 30 years old you are going to find it hard to find a woman/girl who has not penis size shamed a boy or a man whether that be directly, indirectly, overtly or covertly. Penis size shaming is common place in, fully acceptable and seen as fun and a women's right on social media. However vaginal and vulva size shaming is not a part of mainstream culture. At the end of the day a woman's vagina dimensions and vaginal elasticity are always going to be 50% of any sexual fit equation, and real women know this and they own this. Boys and Men need to be taught this axiom of truth about does size matter whether women want to own this truth or not.
I don't let myself worry about this. Are all women into my size? No, but plenty enough are.
Once a man stops worrying about his size, he is free from all manner of nonsense. No more need for the giant trucks or overpowered cars or excessive interest in firearms or extreme sports.
Message for all the people here, men and women please don't be so......
Yes size absolutely matters.
I don't matters of we were only talking about biology, and how body rules.
But the reality it's that women like big big size because of the visual and because it gives them much more want to have the titanic than the little boat beside x)
There’s women out here that are 8-10 deep and will say they will only take a man that’s the same 8-10 deep
Good for them. 99.9 percent of guys aren't that. So they are capping
That's every woman out there
@@carterhaynes8703
Not even close
I would not fold mine in half to meet their requirement. I fold it for no one.
My erect size is 4.0" L × 4.1" Girth.
My wife prefers 8" L × 6.5" Girth, which coincidentally is the exact size of her current boyfriend.
Respect yourself...
Honestly I don't think size matters as much as type of sexual preference. Everything doesn't come down to penetrative sex. Most men and women truly don't know how to openly discuss what gets them to orgasm effectively.
The question is : are women really honest when it comes to sex? Everything I have read suggests they are not. Also women with a lot of experience would tell very different story to ones who lack. And bottom line - there are very very big differences from one gal to another. Some women can handle and enjoy huge size, some do not.
Th thing with size is men don’t have control over it. Women who judge men based on something they can’t change are shallow.
Good video. Thank you
The truth is it depends on the woman as they all different
If I'm into her and she's into me, then whatever she brings is perfect (because it's hers and I get to play with it).
Recycled topics for the win. Good for the environment, absolutely necessary for some UA-cam channels.
What's with the negativity?
I'd say these days there's way more psychological issues between men & women then physical
Stretched length just isn't the same as erect length
throughout the video, you skimmed over the fact that women preferred a longer or thicker member because it was "just an inch" only to later say that women think a 6 inch member, "just an inch" bigger than average, was perceived as significantly larger.