Do these Things to Instantly Kill ANY Narcissistic Conversation

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  • @narcabusecoach
    @narcabusecoach  14 днів тому +15

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    • @itxshona340
      @itxshona340 12 днів тому +1

      i really like you and your vedios you have a sense how to teach the people i am really surprise to see you you have a strong mind set Ma sha ALLAH BLESS YOU

  • @TinaJose-vx8lf
    @TinaJose-vx8lf 10 днів тому +10

    Thank you!! Here I was thinking how do I outsmart the Narcissist. Your 2 new holiday videos are brginning prayers answered ❤!
    God is answering me 🙏🙏🤞

  • @fluffytimes100
    @fluffytimes100 День тому +2

    This is some of the most helpful, specific, and applicable narc advice I’ve ever heard. Thank you so much! ❤✌️

  • @monicarai1497
    @monicarai1497 14 днів тому +62

    For me it works best when you don't respond. Of course there are situations where you may feel like not responding is not in your best interest and they can be really sneaky to instill thoughts in your mind too. But trust me on one thing....they are not as smart as they want you to believe they are. The "Are you alright" always works. Plus,they hate it when they are doing crazy making and you're not taking the bait and making it about THEM instead by asking "Are you alright". Politely but firmly state what you need and leave it at that. Do not expect anything from them. Always use neutral language and limit engagement. If possible don't communicate with them AT ALL. THAT would be the best.

  • @SENSEF
    @SENSEF 14 днів тому +29

    Perfect timing! 🕒 Sooo needed with the holidays and obligatory visits. Not everyone is in position to go no contact.

  • @shelleyletts7959
    @shelleyletts7959 13 днів тому +10

    Thank you. I love your videos so much and find them very helpful. You really understand this complicated situation. It is exhausting to deal with these people. You never know it the ground you stand on is stable. They can turn on you in a second. I find these responses very helpful. One thing to watch out for. Narcissists have no sense of humor. Unless they are telling the joke. If you try to use humor they become confused and hostile. If you laugh they think you are laughing at them and look out, they hate being laughed at! A smile is a smirk to a narcissist. There is no p,easing them if they are looking for a fight they usually keep pushing. I will try these responses. I hope they work. I am so tired.

  • @vanyimartinez4506
    @vanyimartinez4506 14 днів тому +24

    Loved the video! Its very practical! But talking to them is like an art... and sooooo exhausting,

  • @maevemaiden
    @maevemaiden 14 днів тому +27

    This came at the very perfect moment. I needed this desperately this morning thank you so much Danish❤

  • @Unknown-sn8px
    @Unknown-sn8px 13 днів тому +7

    Thank you Danish! You are a true blessing 😊 Thank you for another excellent video especially so close to Christmas. My husband is a covert narc and my mother in-law is a full blown narcissist - she hates me with passion and my brother in-law is a psychopath and my sister in-law's are covert narcs just like my husband. Every year Christmas is ruined because it's always about them 🙄 and they take away the true meaning of Christmas 😒 Honestly it's like having Christmas lunch with Satan himself and his minions. What a mockery it is to spend Christmas and Easter celebrations with these evil monsters 😐 My daughter and I can't stand attending these special occasions because they are absolutely toxic. They can't stand me because I won't do what they say. They have no respect for boundaries or people. And they can't stand it when I say 'No' to them.
    Now that I've informed my myself about Narcissist's / narcissism, I feel so empowered and I am now able to get through every tortuous moment with these lunatics.
    Thank you Danish for all the videos you've posted throughout the years they are truly Heavenly sent 🙏 God knows victims of narcissistic abuse need all the help they can get especially when children are involved which is true in my case.

  • @Lifembracer
    @Lifembracer 14 днів тому +12

    You are amazing. Being a retired therapist, i really am grateful for you passion on this subject. Youre the best! Ty!

  • @monicarai1497
    @monicarai1497 14 днів тому +26

    If you have lawyers,tell your lawyer you do not wish to talk to this person directly as he drains your energy and wastes your time. Mostly lawyers would agree. I was a lil naive at that time and wanted the divorce to end quickly

  • @almaalma2876
    @almaalma2876 14 днів тому +6

    Brilliant, Clever, and demoralizing to the narcissist. I do need to watch this again to get it down pat. Thank you.

  • @annjohnson8437
    @annjohnson8437 14 днів тому +18

    I would like to see a video about when a narcissist physically intimidates you. What should you do?

    • @CamCam-mq6ji
      @CamCam-mq6ji 14 днів тому

      This would be a good one.
      These strategies disappear when I'm scared

    • @allieeverett9017
      @allieeverett9017 14 днів тому

      Run.

    • @Ana-yt7yi
      @Ana-yt7yi 12 днів тому

      Make the suitcases in silence.

    • @Ana-yt7yi
      @Ana-yt7yi 12 днів тому

      Make the suitcases in silence!.
      Meanwhile, use body language, not verbal language. Avoid looking at him, stand up to your full height, lift your chin, and move as if you were another alpha lion. Slowly but surely, walk away as if busy with something else.
      That person with his aggressiveness tries to confirm: I am the lion king and they must fear me in my kingdom. And just like animals, they detect with body language if they have another lion in front of them that is not going to bow its head or has a servant to whom to submit.
      Be careful, some escalate the aggressiveness if they do not achieve the effect of fear and paralysis, submission, that they want in you. If your physical integrity is in danger, it is better to show submission and get out of there as soon as possible.
      The problem is that it is addictive for them to submit, so if you show submission to their aggressiveness, they will repeat the Lion King Show because it makes them feel good.
      I did that with my psychopath father, if I saw that he was trying to intimidate me with passive aggressive gestures, I was the one who to pass nearby him and with my body language I sent him a message: I am not as weak or vulnerable as you think, and if there is a 'battle' here there is no Bambi, there is another lion. It disoriented him...temporarily, and It was so exhausting for me.
      For example, sometimes when I passed him in the hallway he would make a gesture as if he had a gxn in his hand and was going to shxxt me while smiling. The next time he did it I also smiled at him and pretended also to shxxt him.
      Crazy.. make the suitcases!!

  • @muniakhan6283
    @muniakhan6283 14 днів тому +10

    Jazakallah khair brother.
    Respect for your tremendously helpful informations & guidelines.

  • @anishadahiya5362
    @anishadahiya5362 14 днів тому +6

    Your videos are always super helpful, lots of love and respect to you ❤

  • @THEPRO_ind
    @THEPRO_ind 14 днів тому +55

    the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored

  • @Colorado_Arise_4_Corners
    @Colorado_Arise_4_Corners 14 днів тому +18

    I have chosen NOT to become like them. I will not play their games. I want to be genuine (they never are). I think they can't figure out why I don't become like them (their tactics are designed to fit their world, the way they think, and make me into what they want me to be -ultimate control). Sometimes I realize later that I fell for their tactic and regret it. I come to realize that it's okay. I did the nice thing, which is genuine. They will stand before God with their tactics and evil. Sadly several things you mention in this video seem narcissistic and manipulative. Boundries are important, but not manipulation.
    I do like most the videos you put put Danesh.

    • @vikingsister
      @vikingsister 13 днів тому +1

      I agree with this. Most of the time I like your advice Danesh, and this is just my opinion, we don't always have to agree. I recognize in this video behavior of my narcissistic ex towards me and I don't want to be like that. I'm glad I've always been honest and well-meaning. I didn't want to lower myself to his level.

    • @remhk6672
      @remhk6672 9 днів тому

      We're talking narcissists here. They are evil in the flesh. Empty vessels. No soul. No light, just darkness. I've been happily applying these tactics against them, and my life has been a tad less stressful. But, I will NEVER act this way towards normal people. And, I tend to act as a mirror around people anyhow. I'm polite, considerate, generous, compassionate, kind, and warm-hearted towards anybody except narcissists. Simple as that.

    • @daylenestaneart775
      @daylenestaneart775 8 днів тому

      I had to start using these tactics with narcs in my life because they were pumping me for information about family members so they could use the information to shame the family members. It was a horrible rock and a hard place, to be in.

  • @MiRiAmetje
    @MiRiAmetje 13 днів тому +4

    Thank you for a very helpful video, happy holidays! 🌲💐🎁❤️

  • @orisabwater
    @orisabwater 13 днів тому +7

    Danish's advice is great, but there is a higher level then this. This is still at the level of engagement in manipulation and power struggle. Live and speak from the level of your awakening. 1. Know that not all people are supposed to be in your space or life. Given this, do not engage. These beings need energy. They are coming after your energy. Do not be available. 2. Grey rock but don't try to get the upper hand. You will become like them if you are trying to frustrate them.

    • @Sadi-oh1jh
      @Sadi-oh1jh 8 днів тому

      Exactly i try to not hate/despite him when the narcissique is being himself, because negatives vibes destroy us in the long term and drain our energy also.
      This is what i do:
      1/ i make it i didn't hear/understand your point...
      2/ i'm in hurry! Can we talk about this important /urgent matters now?
      3/ i bring a complete différent subject
      4/Sorry i have to go/call someone/complete a work
      Almighty Allah AZ Zawajel guide us all, patience is key when dealing with narcs, do not surrender to negatives vibes. Stay your loving true self!

    • @orisabwater
      @orisabwater 8 днів тому

      @@Sadi-oh1jh Beautiful. Ultimately, we have to decrease duality. This plane of existence creates lots of us versus them, but "fighting" at the same level doesn't led to growth/soul evolution. Your responses don't respond to the narcissist, but to the human trapped in narcissistic patterns. These people are operating out of profound spiritual scarcity. Profound! You can exit their games without becoming what they are.

    • @growingandlearning164
      @growingandlearning164 7 днів тому

      Totally agree.

  • @sincity.stardust
    @sincity.stardust 14 днів тому +5

    Do you have a video on how to respond to a narcissist’s love bombing?

  • @freedomforusa1658
    @freedomforusa1658 12 днів тому +1

    That is exactly what the secriaries do when I call to get exemption forms to fill out, they do not want me to lower my bill. They want that money in full even when I dont have income to meet it.

  • @deekshaspreadingfitness6536
    @deekshaspreadingfitness6536 14 днів тому +12

    V.good video.. please make these videos in Hindi also

  • @preetsomal9483
    @preetsomal9483 13 днів тому +1

    Hi bro make it in Hindi to help more people God bless

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 8 днів тому +1

    Can you do a video of when they criticise everything .you do your hair oh this style doesn't suit you your buy a dress this colour is not good on you 😮

  • @AsanAnsar
    @AsanAnsar 14 днів тому

    the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real

  • @A1ANUJZ
    @A1ANUJZ 14 днів тому

    everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki

  • @jitendrabhansingh
    @jitendrabhansingh 14 днів тому

    society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki

  • @ionutzxpo
    @ionutzxpo 14 днів тому +11

    hi Danish, i like your hayrcut :D you look very fresh :)