5 Ways to Challenge a Man and Make him Obsessed

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  • @ten25.
    @ten25. 4 роки тому +422

    I’m not doing anything for a man. I’ve done things for a boyfriend in the past and he took advantage of it. I bring nothing to the table, I am the table.

    • @portiasT123
      @portiasT123 4 роки тому +33

      No you not a sis a relationship is a two way street if you can’t offer anything stay single. Good conversation and cooking and a nice time is bountiful he can get that anytime anywhere.

    • @sylviasylvia8551
      @sylviasylvia8551 4 роки тому +61

      @@portiasT123 I have 3 brothers and all a fairly successful. I listen to them wholeheartedly; because of their advice about men, in general, is on point. When a man is truly interested in a woman; her lifestyle is more of a interest to them (meaning she could be in school; working full/part-time; she could have a child (or two); as well; but she is getting her personal life together; taking care of herself (appearance); she is respectful when she speaks; even though there is a lot going on in her life that she is 'handling' properly. (A good man who knows what he is seeking (in the long term; engagement; marriage)) would take mental notes as to what value(s)she already possesses and what 'HE' could improve for her. She possibly does not (material things to bring to the table); but what she is endowed with are her honesty, her clear focus (meaning she is making positive selections on who and whom she brings into her life); because those decisions also affect your children as well). I am a single person without children; but I know of many women who believe that their education; job, where they live; the labels they buy (clothing and accessories); the car they drive are the products to bring to a table dealing with an interested working male (educated, business owner; etc,); but they forget that their focus and how they interact with people, in general, is extremely important. There are loads of men who bring nothing to the table at all, yet they are seeking someone who helps them make the table right. It should be a shared 'table setting' (both male and female should be bringing something useful and positive) to a relationship. Too many people (male and female) rely on one person to make the 'table' balanced....not so.

    • @heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj
      @heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj 4 роки тому +11

      Sylvia SYLVIA I love ur post! I’m also single/no kids; I have the nice apt, car, educated etc but I treat ppl right humble etc, but men I find automatically put those labels on me when I’m opposite or I’m too nice and I never get anywhere. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @shekinahfire5936
      @shekinahfire5936 4 роки тому +16

      @@heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj hey hunz; set up strict and healthy boundaries w/ men you meet. Either they're gonna respect them or flee. Respect for yourself will take you a long ways. People will have high regards for you or avoid you if they have ulterior motives. Do nothing for a man but just date him (have fun) and build yourself a healthy dating rotation 💪. May the best man win! 💅🏌️

    • @The_torero
      @The_torero 4 роки тому +16

      Lol @ "I am the table"😂😃

  • @ravenfrankmiles8399
    @ravenfrankmiles8399 3 роки тому +49

    1. Heal yourself. 2. Set goals. 3. Be kind. 4. Be honest. 5. Stand up for yourself.

  • @BernishaDumas
    @BernishaDumas 4 роки тому +170

    Ladies don’t listen to anything but 1. You match a mans energy SIMPLE. you don’t spoil a guy who isn’t doing for you. 5. Let it flow is him telling you to waste your time. Don’t be desperate but also have a standard.

    • @LashayneHampton
      @LashayneHampton 4 роки тому +6

      Bernisha Dumas 💯💯🙌🏾❤️

    • @lashaeleaf8842
      @lashaeleaf8842 4 роки тому +3

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @prettytina3066
      @prettytina3066 4 роки тому

      Agreed

    • @kalilah5560
      @kalilah5560 4 роки тому +1

      What you mean??? If he cant reach the standards, then im gonna complain 😂

    • @marionweaver8385
      @marionweaver8385 4 роки тому

      Im not sure but ,if anyone else wants to discover how to get a guy to like you try t.co/MTPSR5qOxf ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.?

  • @atyourbestyouareloved9106
    @atyourbestyouareloved9106 4 роки тому +159

    #6 do not give husband benifits to a boyfriend. Let's me see you allow your daughter to do these 5 things for a man.🤷

    • @JustCoCoB
      @JustCoCoB 4 роки тому +1

      Which ones of the 5 were husband benefits? 🤔

    • @atyourbestyouareloved9106
      @atyourbestyouareloved9106 4 роки тому +9

      @@JustCoCoB none he said five only so I added the #6 I wonder if he realizes his Mom is a queen that birthed him. The energy it took to birth him and he spitting out that advice like no don't give any benefits that are reserved to and for a husband to a man just because you want him to be into you um no.

    • @portiasT123
      @portiasT123 4 роки тому +7

      Make sure he generally wants to be married otherwise you doing it for nothing if you actually wan to get married. I don’t suggest anyone get married to someone else if they not showing you husband/ wife qualities.i always tell men the only thing that changes is taxes address and least name marriage doesn’t change the people.

    • @JustCoCoB
      @JustCoCoB 4 роки тому +4

      @@atyourbestyouareloved9106 I am so confused by your statements ... which ones should a man not allow his daughter to do? Have standards, take care of herself, reciprocate, be positive and keep her options open ... starting to think you didn't even watch the video 🙄

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 4 роки тому +1

      @@portiasT123 dont ask for marriage. Just make sure he isnt against it. After 2 years youll know

  • @Pinkpanda811
    @Pinkpanda811 4 роки тому +55

    Remain high value!

  • @askchazzellis
    @askchazzellis  4 роки тому +55

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    • @wandasconci426
      @wandasconci426 3 роки тому +1

      You are so smart,sweet and dope its unreal. Thank you.

  • @slaybae777
    @slaybae777 4 роки тому +36

    I made sure I clicked on the play button as soon as I seen this pop in my email 🤣🔥🙏🏽

  • @heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj
    @heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj 4 роки тому +29

    All of these rules on all of ur videos r so easy to apply with the guys I DONT like; and it def works every time ! With the guy I’m crazy about, I forget/break the rules and do everything u tell us women not to do!!! Instead he applies ur rules and I look like “that girl”!
    VIDEO REQUEST: With that said, can u plz make a standard “recovery” video for women who know/broke the rules (by not applying them to the guy she likes, resulting in finding herself as the chaser) and how to recover the narrative to get him back chasing!!!
    Don’t judge me, I know sooooo many ladies can relate! Lol

    • @LoveLife-ho3rg
      @LoveLife-ho3rg 3 роки тому +4

      You just described my whole life

    • @aditi1729
      @aditi1729 3 роки тому +2

      This is me every time! Probably why all the guys I don’t like keep chasing, while the ones I do like don’t stay. :(

  • @tjones2550
    @tjones2550 4 роки тому +60

    Do not give Men gifts! I've tried that approach because I'm am a giving person but, that trait will get you used big time!! In my experiences, when I have given, of course the dude will take and then be like don't call me no more! Don't give a Man gifts. Invest your money in yourself or your children or parents.

    • @CEEEFFF
      @CEEEFFF 4 роки тому +4

      Agreed!!! Women need to start letting the MEN gift them. Men value things that they've invested time and money in. So, let him give you the gifts and let him cancel HIS plans to spend time with YOU.

    • @estherben348
      @estherben348 3 роки тому +2

      I agree. I used to gift my man, cook, wash... but he ended up cheating on me.

    • @manvichhabra796
      @manvichhabra796 3 роки тому

      not even on birthdays?

    • @tjones2550
      @tjones2550 3 роки тому +4

      @@manvichhabra796 If it's in your heart to give him a gift 🎁 on his birthday; go ahead and do so. Just be cautious not to over give.

  • @cdale211989
    @cdale211989 4 роки тому +20

    I just realized that you weren’t Derrick Jackson. I like your advice it seems , real , genuine, and straightforward. I’ve heard some of the things you talk about from my big brothers. #new Subbie

  • @portiasT123
    @portiasT123 4 роки тому +13

    5 is definitely a major fact today. Also women needs to start being realistic about relationship and stop with this I am the prize mindset because most of them are single and will be for years is. The man has a choice to be with you so if you not showing him why your worth it don’t expect him to take you seriously

  • @butterflyangel2669
    @butterflyangel2669 4 роки тому +153

    I cooked you a meal when are we gonna get married 🤣🤣😂😂

    • @ijeBeauty
      @ijeBeauty 4 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣

    • @enadine6405
      @enadine6405 4 роки тому +1

      😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rubi6597
      @rubi6597 3 роки тому +1

      Meeeeeeee as heck 😂😂😂

  • @Lovley11649
    @Lovley11649 3 роки тому +1

    First few seconds I heard focus on yourself I’m good on u nigggassss✌🏾

  • @kenyabutts3592
    @kenyabutts3592 4 роки тому +61

    Yesssss. pressuring someone into marriage or nagging them about it is definitely a no-no. A man knows if he wants to marry you /spend the rest of his life with you or not.

    • @quarentinedlove2903
      @quarentinedlove2903 4 роки тому +2

      I think it’s not good to pressure I agree but it’s good to ask whether they plan to do you don’t waste your time

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 3 роки тому +1

      @@quarentinedlove2903 Don't even ask, let HIM come to you. You can mention marriage, but be careful with that. Asking a man if he plans on marrying you is a big no-no. You'll know when HE asks you.

  • @sophiaandre139
    @sophiaandre139 4 роки тому +47

    I don't mind "doing" for my man. I'm of a giving nature. But after always "giving" and not getting anything in return (in months), I start wondering if he is not just using me.

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 4 роки тому +5

      Now we know...a woman should never have to wonder...only the man should if anyone. Stop playing mom and/or wife with no formal commitment or assets paid in full given.

    • @stewartforeal1079
      @stewartforeal1079 2 роки тому +1

      My ex-husband is a taker. He took took took and gave less less less.I am naturally a giver but now I am very conscious of that behavior.

  • @ChasingCarson
    @ChasingCarson 3 роки тому +5

    I did 3. I called and woke him up randomly and told him to go get something to eat and I sent him the money for it. He tried to pay for my food the next day. I sent it back. ⏩ fast forward I got hurt at work and I’m out all week and he said “ Since you out of work I guess I’m getting your food all week “ ☺️ so far I’m a happy camper. I wouldn’t say go all out, but maybe just pay for his lunch one day at random. Think about how much they spend on a date etc. One lunch isn’t going to kill you ladies.

  • @SUNSHINE-ji7lj
    @SUNSHINE-ji7lj 4 роки тому +36

    Chazz Loving the new hair cut...Lookin Mm Mmm Good 😉

  • @slaybae777
    @slaybae777 4 роки тому +17

    Thank you for putting us on game 💓😘🥰🙏🏽

  • @arilevelsup
    @arilevelsup 4 роки тому +2

    “Yayyy that’s what I wanted to hear!” 😂😂😂😂 you crack me up! Thanks for the videos!

  • @Knowledgeovergrades
    @Knowledgeovergrades 4 роки тому +10

    I didnt realize how much of a positive impact talking GOOD about your past is to the relationship. It didnt click until you said that he won't want you to go back to that good relationship from the past. Another aha moment was about keeping the idea of being in a relationship an option from the woman instead of a requirement. We shouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone just because they are nice or took us on one date. They need to actually be someone we can tolerate being around and be proud of calling him our boyfriend. Women have a say in the whole process too and if it's a no in our heads, we should say no and keep it moving. Can you talk more about giving to the man, please? Thanks Chazz!😉

  • @CEEEFFF
    @CEEEFFF 4 роки тому +22

    Oh, I already took the trip to Vegas with the NEXT dude 💅🏽

  • @fredishabanks4601
    @fredishabanks4601 4 роки тому +7

    It's not financially and emotionally possible for a woman to peruse a man and maintain our confidence and value at the same time. It's our job to be/have what it is that they want and need, but his job to earn it

  • @lesliegonzales8556
    @lesliegonzales8556 4 роки тому +63

    HE DOESNT HAVE ANYTHING!!! he cant accept the challenge 😅😅😅

  • @athanasiatzr385
    @athanasiatzr385 4 роки тому +15

    Hello Chazz. ..❤️
    If I go to Vegas without him do you think I want to come back to this liar again ? It is game over for me...

  • @aaliyahforney9414
    @aaliyahforney9414 4 роки тому +10

    I love your channel you keep 100 all the time.

  • @savelikeaprowithleah5157
    @savelikeaprowithleah5157 4 роки тому +6

    You are very entertaining & informative! Thanks for sharing!

  • @imspecial2286
    @imspecial2286 4 роки тому +4

    Chazz, you're so hilarious and informative.
    You are💯 absolutely right.😎🙂

  • @mzslone162
    @mzslone162 4 роки тому +8

    U snapped with this one. I agree

  • @dianaruiz9
    @dianaruiz9 3 роки тому

    this video made so much sense the people who was talking about how to never give a man nothing or do wife stuff for a guy didn't understand when he said don't do it for men who don't have it together you be doing all that for broke men and have way less than then you ..

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story 3 роки тому +1

    I agree that’s why I just focus on goals now

  • @ladymariej4156
    @ladymariej4156 3 роки тому +3

    This info is like gold 🙌🏾🏆 thank you for this!!

    • @askchazzellis
      @askchazzellis  3 роки тому +2

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @MacMinhKhang236
      @MacMinhKhang236 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

    • @MacMinhKhang236
      @MacMinhKhang236 2 роки тому

      Message him can help you in all your problems
      💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
      ±18188561768⏯️⏯⏯⏯⏯⏯⏯

  • @michelet3857
    @michelet3857 4 роки тому +1

    You are funny as heck Chazz!!!! And your advice is spot on! Love the purple!! 💃❤

  • @gina72916
    @gina72916 4 роки тому +9

    "Here is the bar, reach it!"

  • @ronnietoni819
    @ronnietoni819 4 роки тому +5

    @ Maya I totally agree with you but I don’t agree with keeping him away from his child. The way he treated you have nothing to do with the relationship of his child but each is own. Blessing and healing to you

    • @---nj7hl
      @---nj7hl 4 роки тому

      Ty Lioness Narcissists will do more harm than good even to their own child. My child's Narcissitic father is a bad influence so much so he even hurt her because if its not about them...Narcissitic mentality...there will be trouble..physical, mental, and spiritual abuse.

  • @msjohnson1036
    @msjohnson1036 4 роки тому

    I work with guys in my profession.
    I have a Home Improvement Company.
    Your so right!
    Whts funny is I always used these rules, drop the ball once and got a experience I wouldn't wish on anyone, no violence involved, just everything you said frfr...💅💖

    • @msjohnson1036
      @msjohnson1036 4 роки тому

      I looked at it like a Explorer(Normal females experience), felt different, I hadn't came across this type of person, personally and I couldn't relate to friends! Doing the opposite of what I would normally do, just be free, put not to much thought and Showing my true emotions!
      I almost lost my hold understand of life, felt a deeper pain for females been going threw this, a understanding this was not needed to be known personally!
      If it wasn't for my long life standards, could have easily been completely lost! So for young females, training on Standards is a must! Set the bar🏆💖

  • @gabbj89
    @gabbj89 4 роки тому +70

    Did he say 20 dollars a week lmao he can’t even meet his own needs lmao

  • @Libbybrown5
    @Libbybrown5 4 роки тому

    Loving the new look . you keep on giving us good advise. Thank you

  • @sarahbeauvais8573
    @sarahbeauvais8573 4 роки тому +2

    Chazz cracked me up with the BUUUUUTTTTT!!! 😂

  • @fapollock7523
    @fapollock7523 4 роки тому +3

    When you have sweet potato pie you don't wanna give anybody any...I felt that

  • @sacredspacesllc5260
    @sacredspacesllc5260 4 роки тому +2

    Great advice, Chazz.

  • @patriciastewart2537
    @patriciastewart2537 4 роки тому +2

    I did 'do for him' a week after we met, and his car was stolen from our laundromat. He knows how to Throw Down', I love that!

  • @authentic_servant
    @authentic_servant 4 роки тому +2

    I so love all your videos ❤️❤️❤️ very informative

  • @chronicles6065
    @chronicles6065 4 роки тому +6

    Great video.

  • @mcort29
    @mcort29 4 роки тому +19

    Take the fruit cake, take the fruit cake 😂😂

  • @Abena_Goddess87
    @Abena_Goddess87 4 роки тому +6

    Somebody has been working out

  • @vedabrown8217
    @vedabrown8217 4 роки тому +15

    Is it just me or is Chazz fine as HELLS!

    • @DreamyTee123
      @DreamyTee123 4 роки тому +1

      Veda Cobbs it’s just u.. stop manstroking basic black men.. if Chazz has a twin sister, she would be considered ugly..let’s judge men by those same beauty standards

    • @vedabrown8217
      @vedabrown8217 4 роки тому +6

      @@DreamyTee123 handsomeness is in the eye of the beholder. Besides it's nice to spread love, positivity and compliments in the world. Keeping it "real" is NOT a fruit of the Spirit. Find me scripture and verse to be occasionally Nasty and I will follow your example.

    • @adabekeethefirst8705
      @adabekeethefirst8705 4 роки тому +2

      Tia BoBia
      If he had a twin sister, hopefully she wouldn’t look like a man.
      Chaz looks like a man, a fine man.

    • @sheretahughes5308
      @sheretahughes5308 3 роки тому

      It’s just you!! I’m joking 🙃 😂😂

  • @e.turn.ot.e9850
    @e.turn.ot.e9850 4 роки тому +3

    Trust me. You do not want him obsessed.

  • @lalalala3274
    @lalalala3274 4 роки тому +51

    SheraSeven is that u 😂

    • @ascendingneet2263
      @ascendingneet2263 4 роки тому

      I’ve been watching Chaz waaaaaaay before I knew who she was

    • @ascendingneet2263
      @ascendingneet2263 4 роки тому +1

      I really don’t like shera. I watch her sometimes but ugh I hate her golddiggy attitude

    • @ascendingneet2263
      @ascendingneet2263 4 роки тому

      Not surprised, I hesitate to say this because I personally DON’T use this word lightly as I know a lot of people do, but she does seem like a narc. Since I DO struggle with hyperempathy, I do benefit from watching her a bit as she inspires me to ground my root chakra, but other than for planned, calculated Novocain dating advice I prefer Chaz

    • @Flylikahhg6x3
      @Flylikahhg6x3 4 роки тому +4

      Sun in Cancer omg I love her videos a queen 👑

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 4 роки тому +1

      @@sylviasylvia8551 her daughter is 12. Why would she look like a bad bitch?

  • @COSMIXA
    @COSMIXA 4 роки тому +4

    "Scooter-type-of-girl"
    Hahaha.

  • @shedaboss9054
    @shedaboss9054 4 роки тому +5

    "it's the same ring"😂😂😂😂

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 4 роки тому +2

    👍🏿 great advice and funny too 🤣

  • @eazyduzitttt
    @eazyduzitttt 4 роки тому +7

    So why is it that I naturally do all of these things & I’m still single as a dollar bill?

  • @anikaalam3830
    @anikaalam3830 3 роки тому

    Thanks for putting us on game 😆😝🥰

  • @Mymy__Butterfly22
    @Mymy__Butterfly22 4 роки тому +6

    Humorous but facts 😂💯

  • @me-meluv6921
    @me-meluv6921 4 роки тому

    Damn Chazz your killin it again. I here you talking but I can't stay focused 😂😂 😂. You look fine as HELL.

  • @HallmarkRocks
    @HallmarkRocks 4 роки тому +19

    Be sweet potato pie not fruitcake

  • @bossingupwithparis
    @bossingupwithparis 3 роки тому

    This happened today your video popped out dude I been dating 3 months no dinner told me we were going to dinner blew me off one mistake then I forgave him ok fine then said we’d go tonight then does it again I told him I’m done ✅ I don’t except less period that’s how real women need to treat someone

    • @MacMinhKhang236
      @MacMinhKhang236 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

  • @brookebenton8192
    @brookebenton8192 4 роки тому +4

    Aside from not talking directly about bad past relationships, is it also better to avoid talking about your past life? I stripped at a nude club for a couple years when I was younger...about 8 years ago. I don't want to lie about it but also don't want to ruin things by being too honest and tarnishing their opinion of me.. What should I do??

    • @adabekeethefirst8705
      @adabekeethefirst8705 4 роки тому +9

      You shouldn’t tell anyone about that until you’re sure he has earned a consistent spot in your life whether as friend or lover.

    • @BeccaMariee15
      @BeccaMariee15 4 роки тому +5

      Keep it to yourself

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 4 роки тому

      Lol it still is... maybe not a big deal to someone not seeking anything exclusive and long term!

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 4 роки тому +1

      I’d move out of the city or out of state or only date men new to your area.

  • @lushuslibra1980
    @lushuslibra1980 4 роки тому

    Noted and thanks for sharing 🙏

  • @LittleMissDeeDee
    @LittleMissDeeDee 3 роки тому +1

    6:30 is so true.

  • @MirandaLee312
    @MirandaLee312 4 роки тому +9

    Chazzz u the business my dude💯💯💯

  • @mugekalaycioglu3671
    @mugekalaycioglu3671 3 роки тому

    Great video😎

  • @thekingsdaughter5510
    @thekingsdaughter5510 4 роки тому +6

    Helpful👍

  • @strawberryjpeg6000
    @strawberryjpeg6000 4 роки тому +1

    We both walked away and gave each other space but I broke the no contact and so did he almost like we did it together but now I wanna be a challenge what shall I do?

  • @gurlycash7394
    @gurlycash7394 4 роки тому

    Love your advice. Looking great

  • @bebecitan
    @bebecitan 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you 👏👏👏

  • @taliyafaith
    @taliyafaith 4 роки тому

    Wheeew 🤭
    The positive past one.. good lord 🤭😬😬😬

  • @ActionJacklyn
    @ActionJacklyn 4 роки тому +2

    "It's the same ring!" 🤣😂😥

  • @mostthegames3723
    @mostthegames3723 4 роки тому

    Very good. Thank you.

  • @strawberriesblueberries2258
    @strawberriesblueberries2258 4 роки тому +1

    Word of wisdom

  • @lindybright1938
    @lindybright1938 4 роки тому +2

    This is awesome!!!!! 😂

  • @tashamonasha7580
    @tashamonasha7580 4 роки тому

    I’m sharing this!

  • @lavernf9204
    @lavernf9204 4 роки тому +3

    Hi Chaz, are you an actor? Were u in an episode of Fatal ATTRACTION!??🤔

  • @paigeliller9998
    @paigeliller9998 4 роки тому +1

    20 dollars a week in allowance 😂😂😂 I’m fucking done

  • @iamamywalker
    @iamamywalker 4 роки тому +1

    how do you bring out a guys emotions about you? Like I compliment him here and there but idk

  • @daniellerenee6682
    @daniellerenee6682 4 роки тому +6

    Its the same ring 🤔🤣

  • @StarSixtySeavenPOV
    @StarSixtySeavenPOV 4 роки тому +4

    It’s the same ring😂😂😂

  • @MarianaRochap
    @MarianaRochap 2 роки тому

    Ok, where are those man? Buying all those stuff, I am not getting any of it 😂😆😂

  • @kimmichaud4064
    @kimmichaud4064 4 роки тому +11

    My man said he's getting me a Burberry scarf for Xmas after he gave me a bracelet and Burberry perfume for my birthday how do I make sure I get the scarf without asking outright ? I told him I love Burberry when he gave me the perfume by coincidence and said I wanted the scarf he's kind of wealthy and I'm poor I'd like a Burberry purse too

    • @Rajasthanigurl
      @Rajasthanigurl 4 роки тому +5

      sarah jenkins if he’s rich then marry him 😅😂

    • @kisha904
      @kisha904 4 роки тому +1

      😕😕😕

    • @fayesmith4751
      @fayesmith4751 4 роки тому +7

      Try Sheraseven1 you tube channel for more advice on your situation

    • @cherienikole2588
      @cherienikole2588 4 роки тому +9

      Sarah,
      If you ask for a scarf and you received perfume, curve that guy. If he is wealthy, he can afford it. He didn’t want to afford it for YOU. Didn’t want to buy it for YOU.
      Look for your purse on consignment or eBay. Get a fake one until you save money and buy your own.
      He heard what you wanted. He breadcrumbing you. Good luck

    • @cherienikole2588
      @cherienikole2588 4 роки тому +2

      Additionally Sarah, HE said He was getting you a scarf?!
      Begin the fade to black clearly he is not a man of his word!
      Or not. You teach people how to treat you on what behavior you accept. Ok I’m done.

  • @xomiautra
    @xomiautra 4 роки тому +1

    Love it!

  • @janaemonae9472
    @janaemonae9472 4 роки тому

    Would doing #4 be considered as messing with fate ?

  • @sososanchez3512
    @sososanchez3512 4 роки тому +2

    Take people that can spend their own money ,not eat off ya plate
    I'll send you a postcard..

  • @eulaguider21
    @eulaguider21 3 роки тому

    Entertaining as usual.🤣

  • @meralisv.
    @meralisv. 4 роки тому

    How can I get that consultation 😂

  • @legendarymstee
    @legendarymstee 4 роки тому

    Spot on

  • @leahgannon8838
    @leahgannon8838 4 роки тому

    Keep'n it real 👍🏼🙂✌🏼️

  • @loreenmatukuanotherchance8245
    @loreenmatukuanotherchance8245 4 роки тому +1

    If he promised a car and gets you a scooter
    Muudze I'm not a scooter kinda of girl.
    If he promised a trip to Vegas and takes you to a park ....do you
    .....take your friends
    To Vegas.
    3. Do for him
    It's setting a standard for your self......show them..... successful man will feel challenged . If you buy a watch he will buy you a car.
    5. Stop talking about your x..... present only a positive past. Your x is a looser so don't. How would you feel if your x tells you that this ring I have 5 ladies vakairamba but will put it on your finger.no one want to feel that they have leftovers

    • @Vimbaiwacho
      @Vimbaiwacho 3 роки тому

      Lol it’s the Shona words for mr

  • @MirandaLee312
    @MirandaLee312 4 роки тому

    Say yo shxt Chazz💯💯💯

  • @sylviasylvia8551
    @sylviasylvia8551 4 роки тому

    Take the FRUITCAKE...TAKE THE FRUITCAKE!!!!!!! LOL LOL LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @30beyonce
    @30beyonce 4 роки тому +1

    This is good

  • @jigsmom98
    @jigsmom98 4 роки тому

    Bwaaaahaaa take the fruitcake! Man you are going places.

  • @truvy_5544
    @truvy_5544 4 роки тому +3

    Ooo im early ❤️

  • @yasminem9990
    @yasminem9990 3 роки тому

    you are so likeable 😂

  • @soulqueen3819
    @soulqueen3819 4 роки тому +3

    Hell Naw I don't give men shit 🤨 if a man can't do for me and provide he is not the one for me!

  • @hollymorelli8715
    @hollymorelli8715 3 роки тому

    Take the fruitcake lmfaoo yassss

  • @princessroyal7059
    @princessroyal7059 4 роки тому

    😂😂🤣 take the fruit cake take the fruit cake 😂😂🤣 jokes

  • @beckyoso
    @beckyoso 3 роки тому

    Actually, you can have all of my sweet potato pie.

  • @patriciastewart2537
    @patriciastewart2537 4 роки тому +1

    Oh!
    But, I love his mom.
    "Living in his mom's basement" as a bad thing!
    I am so crushing on this Superman who has jobs in the area of Mom's Chicken Coop 'apartment'..... that I didn't see this red flag?
    Nah!
    I don't hold that against him.
    He has genius talents.

  • @freshreserve2503
    @freshreserve2503 4 роки тому +8

    Tell her too break bread! A man will never leave a woman who breaking bread. A go getter gone keep her 💯

    • @sexychocolate3616
      @sexychocolate3616 4 роки тому +20

      That don't help either. I have done for men and they only used me.

    • @portiasithole4574
      @portiasithole4574 4 роки тому +2

      @@sexychocolate3616 True

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 4 роки тому +2

      Your Dishonesty is disgusting

    • @freshreserve2503
      @freshreserve2503 4 роки тому +3

      @@sexychocolate3616 you did some for the wrong men. Im talking bout team players you make sure im str8t im gone make sure you good. You will know when u encounter one

    • @freshreserve2503
      @freshreserve2503 4 роки тому

      @@portiasithole4574 only true when you choose a loser to begin with. Dont take long to realize its a dud

  • @vekywitdagudhair1708
    @vekywitdagudhair1708 3 роки тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 take the fruitcake!!!