3 Secrets to getting men to do whatever you want (How to be a female player)
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- A lot of women want to know how to be female players and get what they want from any guy. This video tells you how to do that and some of the pros and cons of this lifestyle.
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Also don't get emotionally attached to soon let them get attached
I was from the start. He puts in no effort lately. Well I'm not either. Not giving him big compliments or anything.
Yep🏈
Law of attraction and modern psychology weaponized.... I love this so much. You are golden
Agree agree agree
In order to "play the game" you have to "respect the game." 🔑🔑
Ladies is pimps too
Kristina B gon brush your shoulders off.
Yep...guys will give you more things when you are cool with them and don't act like you care much. I get plenty gifts by being super busy and nice...when you don't act right...they act right 😂
Facts. Did that too and it works. Men are so twisted.
How do u get the gifts what do u do?
True
Ima try this lol
I tried this and it works...
Lol you’re not really being a player, you’re being selective on who to keep, the right way.
Certain guys are just not going to do anything for you!
Dismiss them immediately! That was the message of the video.
The high value men lol
@@So_Fiyah 👏👏👏
To me being a "Player" means that I choose to be a "Queen" rather than a "Pawn" in the 'game of life'. In Chess, the Queen can move in any direction - in reality, that means that I can change my mind any time I want to and head off in a different direction. Some people enjoy living in the past and are just too lazy to come up with something better for themselves. I let those folks be and DO THEM ... Without me 😁💪🌟.
Love it!
this isnt being a “player” its being a high value woman.. like we’re SUPPOSED to be.. good video
Exactly! As a woman you should only date men who can do things for you. If I'm dating you and I ask you to do something and you can't do it for me than why are you here? I am not desperate to have anyone around me.I can be single if that's the case.
Elisabeth Krystele it’s like I am hearing myself talk. Preach 🙌🏾
MsBeautifulhoney19 It's disturbing that you think these tactics are what make a woman high value.
Narcissistic mentality, Mistreating people, Leading people on who should be giving their valuable time and attention to someone that is genuinely worth the effort. Not people who choose to be that way.
Disgusting.
@@LaBellaDonna I totally agree with u. I was dating a older guy, he wants to come by my house, doesn't ask about my schedule but he wants me to agree with his time. He wants sex but over the almost two months he hasn't offered me anything but he wants dinner at my house. When I asked him, what about me? He says I should give him more time, I had to curse him out and move on. Better to stay alone, God will provide.
Demanding material things doesn't make you high value. It just means you can be bought which is low standards for yourself.
Chazz, I like this video because you welcome and acknowledge women can be players too.
Good shit man
Don't try to bite his info. We can tell and it WILL make you look weak.
Hi Alex 🐒
Don't try to be a player...guys are not dumb...guys like when you are very kind but busy...brush your teeth a lot stay in shape and smell delicious 😋. Be fun and easy to be around and always have something cooking when they come over.Be a blessing and you will get blessed!🍀🕊️
Bang 💯 you just seperated yourself
Its not about dumb n smart. Women arent dumb either, theyre being played. There's a difference. The second means that ppl will fake being good not most ppl can see thro this n it doesnt make them dumb for believing, it makes them pure and good hearted. Most men are narcissistic n only care about themselfs, they use wmn all the time, better start using them. Whether ure good or not, its all games to get what u want.
I think I’m ready coach 🎯🤑🏆✌🏾💨
It's been this way ladies even more so today...Ive been living this way since 2004 and yes I've took some loses but I mostly got what i wanted..Also this "system" works better if your successful on your own; sometimes the game changes on you but like chaz said you have to keep it moving.
@queen q. Let's get em💪🏃🏃
I have dated so many fellas at one point I had to turn down offers. I remained truthful and would tell them my date book is filled for the next 8 months and if selected your number would be month 9, etc. The dude would laugh nervously and then say okay here's my number. I was traveling the world, never cooked, cleaned or laundered because I was always away from home. They bought my clothes, shoes, undies and jewelry. It was like they started competing with one another because I was always truthful about dating and not settling down. I am a plus sized woman now, as well as, during that time. I stopped multiple dating because I got tired, but it was a fun decade of my life. Several have been proposing for the past three years. It's rough out here. Lol
"i got tired" lol the wall is undefeated
Aiiiiie. Bout time ..👏👏👏👏👏👏✍️ signing check s ..burying debt. We need more WOMEN like you
Teach me queen
Ladies, I was actually fed up with the games the men were playing. I just flipped their script and used all of their lines on them. I gained confidence knowing there were women more beautiful, fit and wealthier than me and they couldn't keep a man. So, attraction was not physical. I held my head high and smiled and did me, which was whatever I wanted. The men started falling out of the sky. My first reply to whatever they asked was always no. Followed by, I'm not interested in dating another man right now or I just started seeing a man. Whatever, I could make up. Men love challenges, so I devised a challenge. They always knew there was someone else and they willingly climbed aboard. Keep reminding them you are going out with say Don this weekend, then he'll say let's go out this Friday and so on. They jusy want to one up the other man. Always tell them to call you back later! Never tell them you'll call them back. They are really very simple once you think about it. Best wishes!
Tell ME your secret. I'm SICK OF THESE MEN AND THEY'RE MESS. Lol
I’ve always been a female player and never even knew it.. this is just my code in how I have dealt with men throughout my life
So funny, it's in your DNA. I've been that way too.
Omg I naturally do this. Learn from stripper friends
I need stripper friends
Yooooo, you be coming with the FACTS I swear!! Solid advice, thanks Chazz 👍🏾☺
Good shit man
I watch you too lol
Father Alex
Reward and punish him
Walk away if he doesn't do what you like
Think about how robin givens did Eddie Murphy in boomerang she was the perfect female player and some how women missed that lesson sus was a savage
I love these lessons... Where is part two three four etc
“I let you know I need my deck built and you’re not doing it....” 😂😂😂 I’m definitely not built for this life but love the concept. Thank u for always giving quality info! ❤️
This is not being a player! It’s being strategic, wise and a lady. Period; point blank.
I want to be a player but the Lord would be upset with me.
*, God-fearing*
This made me laugh. Love this guy 😂
🤔 do what u want done 2u. If u don't mind being played, then play on, player! cuz one day u will meet ur match, so don't cry when u get played!!!!!!!!!! player!!!!!!!!
Have several men, one to meet each of your needs. One man is so 20th century.
A player is really a User. Correct???
Good shit man
I know!
This is my life already but this vid is gold. It does really have its ups and downs and it is not for that faint hearted. You cant do this and be sensitive or take things too personally
I showed a guy the receipt of a laptop I bought and he gave me 90 percent of the money to buy another one only ask for what you can afford.
You speak the truth, everything u mentioned is correct and I’ve lived somehow! Ur very talented, good points
I am not the female player type even if i tried.
#NEWDECK
The shit you talk about is SO REAL ❤️😂
Look I need some help what's your email 😩I don't want guys really I want my ex to do right he begging to come but I wanna put him through some tests!! In everyway!!! I still have my options open tho because I really hate going back to someone I cut off really.
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Damn. Where were you 15 years ago?
Wow, I cant believe I used to do this. But not really for money and I was honest that i dont want a boyfriend and I see other people that works too I didnt ask for nothing either.
Jo Anne Hall i’m about to start lol
lol ok girl!!!!!! play on playette, love it❤
What's up triple OG? True words!!! Leave feelings at the door.
These videos are my therapy lately I feel already pampered
😂😂😂 get your mindset right😂😂😂
Yessssss!!! ❤️❤️❤️
it sounds interesting to listen to, but exhausting to do...I know men and women who pay everybody in their lives..friends, family members, .everyone in their radius..some of the women have ended up more than once getting beaten up...one got beat up twice...by different guys, once in her 20's then again in her 40's...same game...I guess she shouldn't complain...that's just the game...
Great advice, thanks✨💫
Shhhh you can’t be giving out the secrets 🤣 #girlcode
I’m to grown to not be joining the game lol it’s time to switch it up
The truth has been spoken. I firmly believe this "player" mentality is the only one that truly gets you the results you want (unfortunately) in today's dating world. It s a bitter pill to swallow but it s just how it is.
It’s funny how this is true! Whenever in my 20 yrs of dating I didn’t truly love or want a man he fell in love with me and did everything! Those very very few ppl I did deeply love not only didn’t give me anything, they played me around for few yrs
True , the minute you turn vanurable and honest ... it blows up to your face .
Definitely true! U either playing or getting played!!
It's sad but very so true😂
DAMN!....you "spit" some knowledge😎
THANKS!
I wanna be a player 😂😂😂
Good shit man
#Truth
One time for the ladies
Great video, coming from an old school playa
Does it make me a player because I want people in my life to have a purpose in their own life and be serving a purpose in my life? I HAVE A HUGE purpose in this world...A HUGE mission...I don't use people. Everyone in my life is someone I CARE about...and im 100% honest about how I feel for them and that we are here to serve a purpose for each others...that's business minded. isn't the difference between a player" is that they're dishonest and they use people, Chazz? appreciate you!!
It’s ok to play the weak position to disarm your opponent to gain more power as well
Ask for nothing just letting know what you are working a job to get
Can you do a video on men and social media/electronics. Especially phones... why do men not want to let you go through their phone? (Of course there’s no need to do that. And i never have asked until recently.. but he won’t let me and he’s being very suspicious about it)
They are the qualities that a high value woman should have. Can't really name these as the tricks of a player.
Good shit man
Good shit man
so true. this was not easy to truly process and understand
Good shit man
Even if u choose to be a non player and be a give a take chick there would be also negative consequences
That's why I'm a player. The chances for things to be in my favor are a lot higher.
great video
Been there done this multiple times, like it or not, this Man’s on point
Good shit man
Oh wow! I have to listen to this Lol!
These men out here playing too many games gotta stay on top of things!💯👍✌🙏
I WAS JUST LOOKING FOR THE CLIP FROM THE SHOW WHERE THE GIRL IS LIKE "DO WHATEVER YOU WANT MAN YOU DON'T HAVE TO GIVE ME THE PLAY BY PLAY"
WHAT
THE ACTUAL FUCK
IS THIS SHIT
These are the women on Maury and Paternity Court. It must be that birth control and condoms get overlooked, when women start juggling men. All 5 of their current options are NOT the father, but she has been blocked and has had phone numbers changed on her by the other 5 possibilities. Stupid games have stupid prizes.
Immoral unethical nonsense. “Take and take”. Evil devil.
Good shit man
We know 😄😄😄
@@Utoober729 Right!!!!😁😄😃😀😂😁😜
Good shit man
Good shit man
Hey Alex
You opened my eyes! Thanks, Chaz! 👍🏻
Good shit man
The shit you talk about is SO REAL ❤️😂
Good shit man
you are too darn cute lol thanks for your honesty!!
Hmmmmm, I hear you loud & clear 😏
This was insightful. Thanks Chazz.
Is there a video link?
Lol! Very good video. Love it
Sooo right!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Great video, from
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Great advise thanks
Hard truths💯.
Please make more videos on this, this is like, changing my life lol
Also SUBSCRIBED LOL
😂😂😂
Chaz is looking buff!!! ❤❤❤
I love you chaz
I love this Chazz 😂
Good one
Luh you Chaz
You know... This whole thing sounds like a path I should've at least tried before trying to be settled down. Prolly wouldn't have had 3 marriages and all the pain that goes along with being faithful loyal old school woman. I'm tired. In my mid 30s...tired of constantly being on the toes walking egg shells so s/o eyes don't wander...🤦🤦 and they still do wrong repeatedly..ill never understand that
I'm getting into this series a bit...
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hitting pause, going to other video lol I'm literally studying this shit for my wife who's clueless. I'm not sure what it is about me, but all my gfs become strippers. I don't date strippers, I date wannabes
Great video!
love this video
Have the woman to get a job so she isn't so pissed off when you come home love doing nothing. My ex was like a pitbull with rabies standing at the front door waiting on me to get home so she could pitch about things that had nothing to do with me this went on for two hours after I got home there went my great day needless to say I fix my problem she's not around anymore