3 signs you're in a toxic relationship
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Step 1: If you think you might be in a toxic relationship, you probably are
OMG !!
well damn, that's accurate.
POV me rn
Sure ... if you are in a relationship that makes you uncomfortable
It's a toxic one ....
Peace of mind matters
Truth
Extreme highs and lows
Is a killer to our relationship
This happens on a weekly basis
me too
I'm worried abt this I think so too.... how are you now friend
@@aurora_boketto7746 still in it it’s a consistent pattern of good good good then the worst damage afterward
Wooh is this me? Often times I think if it's me the one imagining things. He kinda told me once it was just me because "I pay too much attention to little details", but when I pay too much attention to details to make him feel special it doesn't seem to bother him. Also the other time I played his own cards and he noticed and he was the one paying attention to "little details".
@@meistlazer7188 that's gaslighting dear. I've had the same done to me as well. Thankfully I ran away.
Gaslightling isnt denying your truth it is denying the truth.
And turning it back on you.
You read my mind!
You read my mind!
It can hurt to leave, but life's short we gotta move on.
Ya ❤️
:) its okay we can do this
@@aurora_boketto7746 🎉🎉 I've been divorced for 13 months after 16 years of marriage. You can do it!! I have two kids and no job and I still did it
@@LeahBreHappy oh my gosh girl wow. It was so hard for me to leave after only abt 2 Im sooooo proud of u 💜 please tell me more ❤️ yes we can absoLUTELY do THIS 🥰☺️🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@aurora_boketto7746 I literally just sent prayers to the universe to get me out. Help came! I moved out and everything
#3 is a bitch, especially when you have anxiety.
OMG YES
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Yeah 😭😭😭
😮💨😮💨😮💨 yes yes so true
If inconsistent it aint true
Also, when they trap you emotionally, mentally and sometimes physically because of their jealousy and paranoia.
If the person is loyal j can deal with paranoia better that then then being a flat out cheater and a lier
Cheating. .
Yep totally been there
Im in that right now.
@@Combat-Mindsetthe worst thing is when they think they're right for doing the things they do and no-one around you believes you.
All of the above.
This is why I've been single since 2006.
I'm not going through this again for anyone
Same here
Amen
one minute she's telling me she never wants to speak to me again, then the next she wants to get married to me
That's called SPLITTING
Used to be in a toxic relationship it’s not worth it they will only cause pain
It is important to remember that there is nothing wrong with leaving a harmful relationship. Don't let yourself get caught up just for fear of yourself or feeling bound.
Thanks for explaining the gaslighting.
You're very welcome, thanks for watching!
This is so helpful to people in toxic relationships!
tysm im getting out of a toxic relationship after 6 months i finally decided to end it today and i have no regrets
I don't know.. it's just that I love him too much.. I wish it was easy to move on even from a toxic relation
Girl, I feel ya. The hold they have is so strong.
I feel in you. It took me 4 years to leave him after we have been living together as well. But is the best choice for ourselves
Yes its not easy to move on when u r so invested in relationship 😢😢
Your wellbeing and happiness is way more important. You're worth a partner that really cherishes you, not a toxic person.
Same girl 😔
I’m not even with my baby mom anymore and she still tries to do all 3 of these things to me on a regular basis
Helped ALOT. ..SHES SO RIGHT....love bombed aftet not being TOUCHED for over a month at a time...
My gf always ignores me and my texts but when she doesn't ignore me she's all lovey dovey..
My ex boyfriend was doing all that from day 1 but as you said when he was not doing all this manipulation and gashlighting he was the best man in the world. After 4 years i was able to broke up with him to save myself.
My partner forced me into a relationship last year even though they know I was with somebody already by crying and saying “am I not good enough?” And they knew I’m a person who can’t help it but help when people cry because it makes me sad and I’m scared that they’re going to do that again if I try to break up with them
Break up with them it's best thing to do
@@junior5100 We’ve been broken up for a while, thank you for the advice though ☺️
@@IloveDrPepper445 he is such a , BASTARD
Thank you for making me see thats probably my current relationship right now....
Third one is so relatable! So how do we get such a person off our mind?
I’m done single it is!! Better than dealing with that mess
Very helpful... Gaslighting was well explained...
I’ve always been confused about what “gaslighting” was. This was a good explanation.
I’ve been in a toxic marriage for 13 years 😅 it’s not easy at all every day its a battle of controlling my emotions and hiding 😶🌫️ my feelings he thinks I may be too affectionate or to in touch with my feelings and see things they way they’re not but for an example yesterday we we’re outside with our neighbors across the street and I had gone inside to use the restroom and my friend too and so only the men and kids were outside when we came back down my man was talking to a stopped car and I would normally mind my own business but it was this girl he knew because of his ex best friend that passed away and we’ve been seeing 👀 her drive by and breaking her neck looking for him and I guess she seen he was basically alone no girl around and decided to stop and approach him so I came outside and stood fright next to my husband and introduced myself and my man had already gave her his number 😮 I was looking at her with a dog face like bitch u better know better like they weren’t friends they just seen each other around whatever so I asked him who approached who here cuz that is mad suspicious 🤨 to me why give her ur number like she’s a long time friend or sum 🙄😒 he was like there’s nothing wrong with that I was like if it were me even just talking without handing out my number he wouldn’t have liked that at all it’s just common sense to not do to others what u wouldn’t want being done to u 🧐 but he thinks I was over reacting for that and that I just not fear anything like why should I even trust that or be ok with that 🤯🤬😤 he the male version of a feminist I don’t know what it’s called for a man but man he gets in my nerves 😳🤦🏻♀️ I wish I could leave the man but it’s not that easy like I mentioned I’ve been married for 13 years we have two beautiful children and one on the way it’s not about not being able to support or being a single mother because that’s what I’ll be if I ever leave him he always says I know you’ll be running 🏃🏻♀️ to the next nigga when he’s no longer around but little does he know he has ran my energy low and I no longer wish to learn to get to know another significant other I really do not have the time for that especially with a baby on the way I would turn gay before I start dating another man sometimes I thinks to myself if we’re even compatible and we’ve been together for so long 😢 it’s sad it’s very toxic up in here 😶🌫️🫣😮💨😪😷😓😰
This shorts described my recently ended relationship.
I was gaslit and only realised now. My ex pretended to have bad memory. But I now realise he gaslit me. We weren't having proper sex and I said I wanted babies and he said something along the line of "well it can't be me" (implying I was infertile at 30?? Even though he was the one who never wanted intimacy. When I told him about this later and how much this had hurt me, he said he couldn't remember saying that, but I think he apoligised, because he knew that was a horrible thing to say. The lack of progress in that toxic relationship neckex us and I am glad he apoligised because his remarck had drove me insane from hurt, frustration and loneliness and now he gave me recognition. I am dating a much better man now.
I can see all these 3 signs in my marriage ohh my God.
The point gaslighting happens all the time.
Please don't break up o....just try work on it.....seek counseling from a professional or older couple
Same here
Move on
A toxic relationship might also include where they are super controlling and want to know where you are at all times who you are with suspecting you of cheating. At times going as far as forcing you to stay at home and having you cut off friendships
Last one is crucial
Thank you. I recently met someone exactly like that. Glad I made the right choice.
Sometimes true love is found in toxic relationship
She likes to spend time with other boys and avoids me every time. So i think your words are helpful for me 😄😔
My girlfriend gaslights me, whenever I try to bring up an issue or when shes rude to me. She tells me I’m overreacting and should treat her like a princess 😬😶, I’m starting to see how we won’t work out
Thats me and my girl but we still always get back together
Thats also toxic btw
My ex had all of these and still posts stuff saying things that hasn’t happened.
BOG TAIM TOXIC RELATIONSHIP. How do we fix this tho… we would talk about it on Saturday but I have no idea what to say or how to fix it. He always gaslights me and I’m always the one that ends up apologising for the way I feel ( because he makes me think that I guilt Tripp him when I feel bad about whatever he is doing)
Thank you for your words they help to understand Mark Camero in SA.
It’s the third for me now I see. It took me long to realize.
What if I'm the toxic one? I dont wanna be the toxic one,but am I toxic for getting upset at my wife for calling someone else darling?
My God help me the woman I love does exactly this to me I would have walked away but I truly love her.
A true cluster B personality disorder description here! Great video
Wow I'm toxic 😒
Third one always happens to me
I'm in a relationship and he gets mad at me for the smallest things and says he doesn't love me but then comes back and I'm suddenly the love of his life. He accuses me of cheating when he has no proof and I never have cheated on him. I'm not sure if I should break up with him or not.
I realized I’m toxic 😮
I've been in this relationship for 5 years
Hot and cold is really hurtful
I see all 3 signs. That means it's not toxic 😊
Why are people like this in relationships....what's the point? I've been with this women for 1.5 years.....hate that I can't break it
That’s not gaslighting!!
I’ve been going through these videos and my “best friend” is acting like this
I told her all my problems with her, i told her whatever i didnt like her doint, i told her id help her change, i told her ill always be here, she didnt bother caring about whatever i said she didnt bother confirming if shes done with me she used to always be "Hot and cold" it was so annoying like she wouldnt even tell me whats wrong,just left she still texts me like normal like nothing happend like all those moment's spent together ment nothing. I always think was it my fault everything lead to this was it my fault theres this distancd between us both was it my fault were strangers now?.
me and my partner both do this subconsciously it’s ducking sickening and i’m tired of ti
Just ended up a relationship with my toxic friends-classmates 🙂 Gave them a message but they still misunderstood and gaslighted me as if I'm wrong... Realized that toxic people are really hard to change, becoz its a matter of choice for them if they keep gaslighting themselves that they're never been wrong and their actions should be tolerated by people 💀 or change themselves for the better (not just for other people's peace but rather for their own good) 🙂
That sound like My Sister 💀
Toxic relationship I never ever have a relationship rejected 14 times
Wauw it really helped thank you so much
Its my first relationship and its very obvious to me that its a toxic relationship but i feel like if i break up with her she might try and attack me or smth so idk what to do
Dude my gf is constantly hot & cold. One minute she’s essentially telling me I’m stupid and she’s giving me snarky comments and then when I get in bed she’s all over me and wants to kiss and cuddle. It makes me not even want to touch her.
This helped more Than hours of reading on the internet ❤
I am in one right now and I'm so sick of crying.
Leave. It took me 4 years to do so.
Awesome humans, their psychologies & their complex brains...🤷🏻
Thanks
MY FRIEND IS IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
Cycle of abuse is real
The hot cold thing is so relative to what he does to me. We used to be together 24/7 and meet up throughout the week, but then he’ll drop off the planet without notice. Afterwards he’ll have a whole story that perfectly fills in the gaps and explains his actions. Weird cuz he’s still very attached to me but he so clearly doesn’t want a relationship just yet. We started off as coworkers/fwb but now he and I are more like lovers when we meet up and total strangers when we don’t see each other. Since we found out we both had to move for work, his hot cold has been so much more intense.
TYSM
My ex gave me silence treatment for days which caused me sleepless and then almost had a car accident,so I asked him to talk and have a healthy way to communicate.
He said it was me that put myself in a mess which I was staring my phone for whole night which caused the car accident,it was not his responsibility.
Tell me u gave up on him please
@@Apsa97i did .we broke up for 2 months now .he is love bombing other girls now
@@xuemma-pb7ys His loss and you did a great job sending you lots of love and please love urself and manifest a worthy relationship to seek you 💝
What happens if ur in a toxic relationship with yourself?
But what to do if one is in a toxic relationship 😭
Get out of it
You have to leave to save yourself. It took me 4 years.
I hate being treated badly and then they love bomb me, so I question if they really meant to hurt me… it’s so hard. I know I must leave but idk what I simply haven’t built up the courage 😔
Last night my husband told me he doesn’t care about me “right now,” but that can change “tomorrow or the next day.” After I told him he’s been treating me like I’m a bad wife and bad person
Also what if you brought a new person into the friend group and now they all ignore you
just got out one
I did number 3 to my ex, wishing she'd come back daily but realizing yeah that shit aunt happening. See here's the thing for all you out there who are unfortunately with someone toxic: we dont know why tf we do it.
Three checks here lol
I cannot deal with 3 ever, happened to me (being the one ignoring the other tbh) and it was not fun for me too just the anger and boredom was too much. It was just weird
Your right
All of them ..
Yeh plus guilt always making you feel guilty and keep on about the same thing till you give in!. So all of these signs plus lot more. I just want a normal minded hot girlfriend who ain't toxic. Bet it wont happen tho.
Yes!!!! I hv a toxic relationship 🙃 itz happening to me 😔
All three u listed my bf is like tht what r some things I can do to get out of a toxic relationship with the same person
suddenly i remember that i was never been in relationship and still single :)
Lucky of you to know all of this now without having had the painful experience of a toxic relationship before. Congratulations. I hope the best for you 🙏😘
Yes my spouse is only kind to me when he wants his caffeine fix
Great one!
the signs are in my mother
It was wonderful,I appreciate ❤
Exactly my bf 😢
Wow sounds just like my mom
This helped me a lot yeah I am in a toxic relationship
Thank you so much
I think I am in one..ik im in one but im terrified to leave cuz he is physically abusive too..
Leave dawg
I just realised am toxic
I cry everyday , can’t leave
I get anxiety attacks he laughs and scolds me , he beats me controls me , I need help plz
Wtf I didn’t think that’s what guest lighting was
Here's 3 signs you're not smart! 1. You're This person... 2. Anyone that has contol over how you think and feel. You're this person. 3. Do not be hard headed and you wont get ignored
Does avoiding accountability count they say or do something wrong then ignore you to avoid the problem they caused
My boyfriend and I had an argument
He was arguing about me not making money online and that he wants me to get a regular job.
I told him to stop asking me about my money because he is my boyfriend.
We haven’t had sex yet.
He was my friend for 6 months before he was my boyfriend.
My boyfriend is showing me he has a demanding and controlling personality.
omg so my ex got this new job and i clearly wasn’t upset at HIM but like i got a lil upset cuz i found out his boss would be flirting with him and shit and so i just told him how it made me pretty uncomfortable and he was like “you’re being dramatic over nothing” so i was like whatever didn’t make a big deal out of it until i realized ANYTIME i talked about my feelings this man would call me dramatic every single time, i said i was sad that he hasn’t seen me for literally 5 months after starting the job and like always “making a big deal out of nothing” 🤨🤨🤨 so broke up with him focused on myself and ended up moving on with someone who actually would ask about how i feel and try to fix it if im sad or mad and only ever wants me happy, apparently forgot to block this man’s number and i just never answered cuz didn’t have notifications on for it and he really got upset i wasn’t answering when he said he wanted to get back together so he switched up real fast saying i get passed around like a basketball and being an absolute jerk. i can’t even
All three are true
Thank you
Today after getting drunk my husband just told that he doesn’t find me attractive or doesn’t feel like having sex with me if he is not drunk just right to my face where am sober😂