@@Enas-_-neither are ‘better’ or ‘worse’, they’re just different Some people look better with straight hair, some look better with curls…some people love curly hair, others don’t like it. It’s all just a matter of taste really 🤷♀️
У меня подружка пользуется «кудрявым методом» укладки, и волосы здоровые, завиток классный. Долго, конечно, но здоровые красивые волосы того стоят. Цените то, что подарила природа❤️
I experienced all phases except for the unbothered phase, I was always bothered lol but now I fully understand my hair and I let it curl naturally with minimal products and I love it! Still straighten it for a change once in a while.
Yeah I do braids with my curly hair all the time all my friends ask me to leave it open it will Look better yeah it will Look beter for 5 Min then the Wind will Ruin it and i will Look like that dude from Harry Potter that guy with curly hair 😅 Edit: his name is Rubeus Hagrid ;) Edit2: tysm for the likes
@@Lets.kidnap.sunjae 2 of my kids have curls that would make Shirley temple jealous, long eyelashes and green eyes. all of their friends moms were jealous of them when they were young lol
@@cupidsunrequitedlove oh yes! That’s probably why I loved it so much haha. Cause you clearly don’t see the definition of the braids because the hair is so curly
i’m the same as you the if it rains i’m ruined and the crunchy hair phase but i get a silk press and it actually has some benefits and it’s not damaging and it stays straight for like a month
Same here. My mom didn’t know I had curly hair. My sisters’ is straight so she’d get us the same hair products and brush our hair the same way. When mine turned out all poofy she didn’t understand why. 😂
Same. I have big curls so when it's long it can pass as straight, but the moment I brushed it, it was triangle lion. My mom would still complain every morning that I didn't brush my hair, when I clearly did. Her stupidity is something
One adult forcing us to brush our hair then getting punished by another adult 10 minutes later for “looking like a bird’s nest” and “not brushing our hair”.
yup--you apply your hair products post-shower, and then there's not enough time for your hair to dry properly before you need to get dressed and get on with your day
Thr crunch worked best with wet hair and a gel followed up with moose once the excet moisture was scrunched out. Shoulders and back took longer to dry... unless you got gel water on your clothes...
@jazmorgann a lot of trial and error. I like glam belle and manes by Mel on YT. I look at their "easy/ quick" routines. Don't feel like you have to buy expensive products - I love tresseme gel and mousse. My current routine is wash, use a curl cream in the shower, put a LOT of mousse, then a LOT of gel, diffuse, and then scrunch if it's too crunchy when dry. I wash about 1x/ week. You'll find what works for you!! 🥰 good luck!
Me too. Now I want my curls. Will never get short hair again because my curls went wild phase instead. I slowly got curly hair. I originally had straight straight straight hair. Now I get the bell curls. I don’t even mind the frazzled lion floof that I get when it gets humid or brushed out.
I've hit on just straightening it once a week because it is SO much easier than dousing my hair with water and five products every day. I miss my curls, but it's convenient.
Also, am I the only one with curly hair that when you try to curl it with a curling iron or flat iron, it it doesn't hold a curl? My hair is crazy naturally curly, but if I want curling iron curls, that has to be a wet to dry, old-school foam rollers while you sleep situation.
@@j68715 so my hair is kinda like that, Def doesn't hold curling iron curls well and starts to tangle and look weird/frizzy after an hour if I try to curl my whole head with curling iron. Idk why but crazy!
Your profile picture is so beautiful! I really really like it ☆-☆ if you want to share: did you take it yourself? Have you sailed yourself? I ask because im looking for people who got to sailing cause cause im really curious how that went for you/them 😊
Only like an inch or two off the ends though…it’s not like she shaved her head just for the video 😅 She probably needed a trim anyway or something 🤷♀️
@@diariesofdaeja I don’t think so..? She has really curly hair which she pulled straight and cut only about an inch-ish off the bottom. By the time her hair springs up and settles again the amount she cut off would’ve been practically invisible so I really don’t think there would be any need to fake it with a wig 😅 Lots of people trim their hair like this regularly between proper hair cuts, especially those with curly hair 🤷♀️
Okok I literally could not get my curls to look right and I hated them soo so much but here’s what I did to actually make them look like they didn’t js get coughed up by a cat: 1: You need to have soaking wet hair 2. Add some leave in to your hair (I use the not your mothers one) and brush it straight 3: take some curl cream about the size of penny and glide it through your hair using prayer hands from root to end 4: Take some hair mousse (not too much) and evenly distribute it to your hair not really including roots(not your mothers again what can i say their good) 5: take a bit more mousses and like evenly put a bit on your scalp then flip your hair over with your face to the ground and all your hair in front of you and like really get it into the roots with your fingers 6: scrunch in the same position you were last step 7:scrunch with curl gel (not your mothers again help) 8: take one of those hair wrappy cloths or a cotton t shirt and in the same position and the last few steps scrunch and hold to scalp 9: diffuse: hover it over your hair and always dry roots first then section and do rest of hair 10: I like to flip my hair a few times and mess with it a bit for more volume and I forgot to include this but if you want extra top volume then before you diffuse your hair take a claw clip and close it on the hair on top of your head and instant volume Okay all done I’m not sure if it’ll work for you but worth a try fs
@@mayy06-t9i oh my god imma have to try this, I have pretty short hair so my curls are not it rn Also I understand the obsession with not your mother's, I use my mother's not your mother's sometimes
Can confirm. I have thyroid issues and my hair had spent the post 30 years trying and failing to decide if it wants to be curly out straight@@ukchanak
Yeah I have to do that too. I used the straighten that one overly puffy part of my hair so much that now it’s heat damaged but I don’t feel like cutting it
The "I suddenly developed wicked natural curls for no apparent reason in my late twenties and have been completely overwhelmed with how to care for these locks ever since" phase 😄
@@monse.MP3 Extremely straight as a kid up to the the age of about 14/15, then sliiiiightly wavy but not really - more of an "I know I look like I didn't comb my hair in two weeks but I swear I did" look. 😅
That's so cool!! My hair was also pin straight as a kid, now I'm a teenager and its somehow wavier, the roots of my hair curl a bit, and it's odd to me because it makes it seem like if i have frizz and i hate it
💯 I relate so bad. I'm only now discovering that the terrible frizz I have might be because my hair texture has changed completely. I wasn't used to this frizz or dryness much, but it's getting more and more wavy in my 20s. So I'm looking into starting a wavy hair routine, but it's soooo much effort. Gosh 😔
Omg like im reading about my hair. Untill like 15 i had straight hair, after that they started to puff a little and curl on end. Now 25 and from like 3 years struggling with curls. 2 years of doing keratin straightening, now for last year im struggling with products, drying and washing. I noticed my hair now is the same as my mother. Dry, puffy, thick and curls like hell- if its raining my bf calls me a poodle xD nothing protects me from Rainy wet weather
same. I hit ever single phase lol, almost in the exact order it happened except I'm slightly in the letting it rock/its just hair phase now because I haven't used heat on my hair in years. did we all live the same life?!?! probs.
at 59 I have finally found a hairdresser that knows how to cut curly hair..it sure has taken time..and she converses with me..I'm sorry if this comes across rude, but a lot of the hair salons are run by asian women who will only converse with each other and not the client, other than the initial "what do you want done"..Aussie here.
Amen to that! Majority of hairdressers I find either cut it likes it's straight and then are surprised when the dried version is way shorter than they imagined, or they just straighten it within an inch of it;s own life and then cut it, and the curls still destroy the "cut" when it comes back because it's not designed to stay that way with curls.
All of them! You named every phase I went through, but recently I started using higher quality products and just let the curls do their thing. Even if they're crazy, their at least healthy and soft.
The, "only asked for a trim" was serious trauma recall. I had it down to my waist when this genius washed my hair by piling all on my head and made a foamy spaghetti with my very fine yet very curly hair!!😮😮 We had no choice but chop it out. She literally made one solid dog-hair matted mess. When I see these poor dogs whose fur is one solid mass, I know how they feel. I don't know what she was thinking.🙄
My current phase is accepting my curly hair and wearing it natural for the first time in my life since I was 35 years old. It's never too late to accept and love yourself!
I used to be insecure about my curly hair as it is always soooo frizzy and tangled . I had this phase where I literally loaded my hair with hair products which then damaged my hair :(
Same😭 during my 5th grade year (it was online learning) I never really did my hair since I just had my camera off. Which then 6th grade came and I had to do my hair myself, which pretty sure I damaged it😅 it was until my 8th grade year it got a lil better
Still stuck in that one. And get the “do you straighten just the bangs or just curl everything else?” Asked a lot. So I’ve settled into the unbothered phase now…sorta.
Those little ‘unbothered’ plaits were SO CUTE if I had curly hair that is exactly how I’d wear it. Gorgeous. You look like the cool councillor in a summer camp movie.
As a girl with extremely thick wavy curly hair I went through the brushes out phase as a child, the crunchy phase and the if it rains im ruined in middle school...now I'm in my unbothered phase and I feel so comfortable
I have gone through every single one of these phases multiple times 😂 I’m currently in the “hair care” phase, where I’m just accepting and loving my hair as it is, and focusing on keeping it healthy rather than worrying about how it looks right now. Trying to wear it naturally curly as much as I can.
The slapping of the brush😂😂 Someone tried to give me a comb once I politely declined as i wondered why NO ONE cared to identify that the maybe tiny combs are NEVER the answer HERE. I DIDNT ASK YOU FOR ONE, MY HAIR LOOKS GREAT, ...is this joke er?🧐✔️👀
I honestly love it but even people who like it stay away from that because it gives you a lot of split ends You have brush it when it's dry and that's damaging to curly hair. We brush our hair when it's wet That being said, Ive always thought it has a very editorial look it
Finding a hairdresser that is skilled at cutting curly hair was such a game changer for me. I wear my hair curly every day now and it looks amazing compared to before I found this stylist! I’d travel to her if I ever moved
I literally just have weird wavy poofy hair and yet ive gone through half of these phases... im the straighten bangs one rn haha... still dont know how to take care of my hair :[
Crunchy hair is actually so pretty Edit: tysm for the likes 👍 💓 Edit: There is also a phase where u put your hair in a bun and put 20lbs of hair jell on top of ur head lol. (Learned that from my friend who has curly hair.)
Same and my hair is mostly straight it's just thick and gets tangled like 5 seconds after brushing it. Though it gets curly when it's drying. I air dry it.
I'm kinda on that phase to, sometimes I just stare at the mirror watching my hair 'cause I can't believe how beautiful it became when I learn how to take care of it
My hair is straight, but my sister who's hair is curly can relate to this, she's gone trough every phase, she even had buzz cut phase when she was bored with constantly fixing hairstyles, me having straight hair, my only phase was finding a way how to keep my hair curly for longer than half an hour.😆
I’m a curly curly hair girl that used to have an emo phase with my hair ALWAYS ON ONE SIDE OF MY FACE before I straight up transformed into an Afro girly, still works
All of them for the most part I felt but I mostly felt if it rains I’m ruined phase and I only asked for a trim Phase bc rn my hair is at my shoulders🥲
the “unbothered, it‘s just hair phase“ looked the best in my opinion
Frrrrrr
My phase rn
It’s so cute 😍😍😍😍
Came to the same thought. People's appearance is always at its best when they own it. Workout all our teenage shame.
just a trim is very me i got it cut short so i didn't have to deal with it now im loving it and taking care of it
The "unbothered phase" is so beautiful 😊
I love that look with the hat❤
Same
Can someone tell me is straight hair better or curly hair
@@Enas-_-neither are ‘better’ or ‘worse’, they’re just different
Some people look better with straight hair, some look better with curls…some people love curly hair, others don’t like it. It’s all just a matter of taste really 🤷♀️
@@Enas-_-If you have curly hair, own it! 😁😁😁
I think curly hair is beautiful!
@@InspiringMist thanks I do have curly hair ✨
Are we gonna ignore the fact she ACTUALLY CUT HER HAIR??? 😭
the crunchy one is so cute dude !!
I grew up with the slick back and gel "style" that my mom made😭
Scared to show this to my curly hair fiancée.
I have curly hair
Straighten it to curl it phase was the best in my opinion
My nest friend was all the stages. Except the first one. The side straightened bang is the most rememberable. Good times
the braids and the hat were adorable!!
FIRST ONE IS MY NATURAL THEN THE ONE IF IT RAINS IM RUINED YEP THATS ME WHEN I STRAIGHTENED MY HAR
У меня подружка пользуется «кудрявым методом» укладки, и волосы здоровые, завиток классный. Долго, конечно, но здоровые красивые волосы того стоят.
Цените то, что подарила природа❤️
I experienced all phases except for the unbothered phase, I was always bothered lol but now I fully understand my hair and I let it curl naturally with minimal products and I love it! Still straighten it for a change once in a while.
all especially rain and brush phase
I always brush my curls 😭
Ok, did anyone else think that she was Hermione in the first one???
I had every phase lol
I’m in my crunchy hair phase😂😂
I was the unbothered
Is no one gonna talk about her cutting her hair for a vid
Im the crunchy on 😂❤
“If it rains, I'm ruined.” 😂😂 FELT THAT ONE
I live in florida so mine was always frizzy 😢
Same 😂
Same😊
I'm your 1000th like
sooo true
Those braids with the curly hair were actually so adorable. If I had that hair I’d do that all the time!!
Yeah I do braids with my curly hair all the time all my friends ask me to leave it open it will Look better yeah it will Look beter for 5 Min then the Wind will Ruin it and i will Look like that dude from Harry Potter that guy with curly hair 😅
Edit: his name is Rubeus Hagrid ;)
Edit2: tysm for the likes
@@Lets.kidnap.sunjae Hagrid? 😅
Reminds me of Clementine from the Walking Dead games for some reason even though I think she just has pigtails
@@Lets.kidnap.sunjae 2 of my kids have curls that would make Shirley temple jealous, long eyelashes and green eyes. all of their friends moms were jealous of them when they were young lol
@@cupidsunrequitedlove oh yes! That’s probably why I loved it so much haha. Cause you clearly don’t see the definition of the braids because the hair is so curly
I literally went through all of these, you are insane for contextualizing and verbalizing all of them in one video!!
Either if it rains I'm ruined or the crunchy phase. I do brush my hair dry as well 😭
🤯😱🫣
@@hollyfoster3575 Lol which one are you?
@SarahCase-ig5pv All but straightening. Been at this a long time!
@@hollyfoster3575 Well at least you're not frying your hair off
i’m the same as you the if it rains i’m ruined and the crunchy hair phase but i get a silk press and it actually has some benefits and it’s not damaging and it stays straight for like a month
The brushed out phase 😂 my straight haired mum wouldn’t let me leave the house unless my hair was brushed, I got so teased in school 😆
Same here. My mom didn’t know I had curly hair. My sisters’ is straight so she’d get us the same hair products and brush our hair the same way. When mine turned out all poofy she didn’t understand why. 😂
Exactly!!
Sorry you had to go through that
Same. I have big curls so when it's long it can pass as straight, but the moment I brushed it, it was triangle lion. My mom would still complain every morning that I didn't brush my hair, when I clearly did. Her stupidity is something
One adult forcing us to brush our hair then getting punished by another adult 10 minutes later for “looking like a bird’s nest” and “not brushing our hair”.
Okay the detail of the soaking wet shoulders in the crunchy hair phase cannot go unnoticed lol
I don't think it was on purpose lol it's just the consequences of playing the part
@@ArmaMynnwell its real asf 😭
no fr that so me
yup--you apply your hair products post-shower, and then there's not enough time for your hair to dry properly before you need to get dressed and get on with your day
Thr crunch worked best with wet hair and a gel followed up with moose once the excet moisture was scrunched out. Shoulders and back took longer to dry... unless you got gel water on your clothes...
Yes, all of these!! 😢😂
I'm now in my "gorgeous curls" phase, where i finally learned how to care for them. ❤
Yes this!
howwww????? I still don't know how X(
@jazmorgann a lot of trial and error. I like glam belle and manes by Mel on YT. I look at their "easy/ quick" routines. Don't feel like you have to buy expensive products - I love tresseme gel and mousse. My current routine is wash, use a curl cream in the shower, put a LOT of mousse, then a LOT of gel, diffuse, and then scrunch if it's too crunchy when dry. I wash about 1x/ week. You'll find what works for you!! 🥰 good luck!
lol I'm somewhere between your phase and the crunchy hair phase. I'm finding my right curl routine but damn it's a journey
Me too. Now I want my curls. Will never get short hair again because my curls went wild phase instead. I slowly got curly hair. I originally had straight straight straight hair. Now I get the bell curls. I don’t even mind the frazzled lion floof that I get when it gets humid or brushed out.
"unbothered, it's just hair" was definitely sooooo cute
Agreed!❤
I think I've been stuck on this phase for quite a few years now 😂❤
The brushed out phase
Right?! I wish my hair looks like that when I don't bother.😂
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Girl.......!!!!!!!!!! I am a curly girl. ALL of them. Literally done every one at different points 👉👆 in my life.
You nailed it. 👏
Same😂
Omg same do...✋️😂
I've hit on just straightening it once a week because it is SO much easier than dousing my hair with water and five products every day. I miss my curls, but it's convenient.
Also, am I the only one with curly hair that when you try to curl it with a curling iron or flat iron, it it doesn't hold a curl? My hair is crazy naturally curly, but if I want curling iron curls, that has to be a wet to dry, old-school foam rollers while you sleep situation.
@@j68715 so my hair is kinda like that, Def doesn't hold curling iron curls well and starts to tangle and look weird/frizzy after an hour if I try to curl my whole head with curling iron. Idk why but crazy!
"If it rains im ruined" is so real😭
That's why I no longer straighten bangs or hair anymore, I'm tired of fighting with nature
@@TheCreativeCommonerfighting with nature😭😭😭😭😭
Omg, I tried to go to a party with straight hair last month. Took me 4 hours and a bunch of product. Guess what happened on the way
The "umbothered" one looked so good
I know! I lowkey wanna replicate it
Your profile picture is so beautiful! I really really like it ☆-☆ if you want to share: did you take it yourself? Have you sailed yourself? I ask because im looking for people who got to sailing cause cause im really curious how that went for you/them 😊
Right?? What i was thinking
@@pia5543hii! I didnt take it myself and I only sailed a bit but would definitely recommend it :) Do you plan on sailing on the ocean?
Fr
The crunchy phase looked so good
that's why we did it--for the Defined Curls
It’s giving princess diaries for the first one 😭
And Hermione from Harry Potter!
FRR
Or the girl from legally blonde with the perm
Facts!
Or legally blonde
“if it rains, i’m done”
OH MY GOD. THAT IS SO FRICKING TRUE.
Im clearly the "Just put it in a bun" phase 😂
that's a very long phase
Almost my whole life, my entire day 😅
same 😭😭😭
same😂
Same! Been there the past couple of years LMAO
"If it rains I'm ruined" truer words have never been spoken. Rain and humidity was my arch enemy.
Exactly 😂
Story of my life right there!
Going from Sleek to Poodle 😂 I got pics to prove it with poodle barrettes in my hair😂😂😂😂
And I live in Florida. It’s not an “if” on the rain….ever. 😂
Dave is that you?
The curly braids with the hat was the cutest thing ever!!
Okay but the braid hairstyle was actually so cute
IK RIGHT
I resonate with every. Single. One. Now I love my hair and accept it in all forms.
I FEEL SEEN.
Lol my only phase was wishing my hair was curly
@@Hayden-y7uI wish I had straight hair were the opposite lol
IS NOBODY TALKING ABOUT HOW SHE ACTUALLY CUT HER HAIR WITH THE UNBOTHERED PHASE?!
Only like an inch or two off the ends though…it’s not like she shaved her head just for the video 😅
She probably needed a trim anyway or something 🤷♀️
ive been looking for this comment 😭
it was a wig lol it looks natural tho!
@@diariesofdaeja I don’t think so..?
She has really curly hair which she pulled straight and cut only about an inch-ish off the bottom. By the time her hair springs up and settles again the amount she cut off would’ve been practically invisible so I really don’t think there would be any need to fake it with a wig 😅
Lots of people trim their hair like this regularly between proper hair cuts, especially those with curly hair 🤷♀️
EXACTLY OMG
All of the above 😭
I'm right now in "try ethnic braiding because it's your only hope" phase
Try brushing it while you have conditioner and then scrunching it with a curl cream and a diffuser
Hope it helps ❤❤
This 👆 but try a pick vs. A brush. Less curl separation!
Okok I literally could not get my curls to look right and I hated them soo so much but here’s what I did to actually make them look like they didn’t js get coughed up by a cat:
1: You need to have soaking wet hair
2. Add some leave in to your hair (I use the not your mothers one) and brush it straight
3: take some curl cream about the size of penny and glide it through your hair using prayer hands from root to end
4: Take some hair mousse (not too much) and evenly distribute it to your hair not really including roots(not your mothers again what can i say their good)
5: take a bit more mousses and like evenly put a bit on your scalp then flip your hair over with your face to the ground and all your hair in front of you and like really get it into the roots with your fingers
6: scrunch in the same position you were last step
7:scrunch with curl gel (not your mothers again help)
8: take one of those hair wrappy cloths or a cotton t shirt and in the same position and the last few steps scrunch and hold to scalp
9: diffuse: hover it over your hair and always dry roots first then section and do rest of hair
10: I like to flip my hair a few times and mess with it a bit for more volume and I forgot to include this but if you want extra top volume then before you diffuse your hair take a claw clip and close it on the hair on top of your head and instant volume
Okay all done I’m not sure if it’ll work for you but worth a try fs
@@mayy06-t9i oh my god imma have to try this, I have pretty short hair so my curls are not it rn
Also I understand the obsession with not your mother's, I use my mother's not your mother's sometimes
Me too
I'm currently in the "finally accepting my curls and taking care of them, only for my hair to start slowly turning straight" phase 🙃
Ugh, I relate, like seriously hair!!!
When you buy a full proper routine and do everything right, with a bonnet even, and your hair suddenly prefers being straight
If it's turning straight that could be a sign that your hormones are off. A lot of people who take testosterone end up with really curly hair
omg me too currently in the ugly wavy to straight hair phase🙃
Can confirm. I have thyroid issues and my hair had spent the post 30 years trying and failing to decide if it wants to be curly out straight@@ukchanak
Ok but those curly braids were so cute omg.
Why did she cut them tho??? I was so confused
@@EternalGalaxies 🤷🏽♀️
@@EternalGalaxies "Unbothered, it's just hair phase".
Those braids were the prettiest thing I've ever seen
I'm in the phase "I've straightened my fringe so much that now I have to curl it so it looks uniform with my hair' 😂😂
Yeah I have to do that too. I used the straighten that one overly puffy part of my hair so much that now it’s heat damaged but I don’t feel like cutting it
The "I suddenly developed wicked natural curls for no apparent reason in my late twenties and have been completely overwhelmed with how to care for these locks ever since" phase 😄
Did you have straight hair before?
@@monse.MP3 Extremely straight as a kid up to the the age of about 14/15, then sliiiiightly wavy but not really - more of an "I know I look like I didn't comb my hair in two weeks but I swear I did" look. 😅
That's so cool!! My hair was also pin straight as a kid, now I'm a teenager and its somehow wavier, the roots of my hair curl a bit, and it's odd to me because it makes it seem like if i have frizz and i hate it
💯 I relate so bad. I'm only now discovering that the terrible frizz I have might be because my hair texture has changed completely. I wasn't used to this frizz or dryness much, but it's getting more and more wavy in my 20s. So I'm looking into starting a wavy hair routine, but it's soooo much effort. Gosh 😔
Omg like im reading about my hair. Untill like 15 i had straight hair, after that they started to puff a little and curl on end. Now 25 and from like 3 years struggling with curls. 2 years of doing keratin straightening, now for last year im struggling with products, drying and washing. I noticed my hair now is the same as my mother. Dry, puffy, thick and curls like hell- if its raining my bf calls me a poodle xD nothing protects me from Rainy wet weather
Curly braids were honestly so cute!
Yes!
I think curly hair is beautiful for everyone!!
U missed the "im going to take care of my curls" phase
@miaK864 Well that's not a phase, that's the final version. When all the phases have gone by, that's where you end up 😂
all of them 😭
Sameee😅❤️
Same 😭 I grew up as the only curly girl in the family so it’s been a long journey of discovery 😅
same. I hit ever single phase lol, almost in the exact order it happened except I'm slightly in the letting it rock/its just hair phase now because I haven't used heat on my hair in years. did we all live the same life?!?! probs.
Same for me every single one ! 😂
literally was just about to say all of them 😂
IVE GONE THROUGH ALL OF THESE-
the memories that have resurfaced 💀💀💀
Same 🥲
Girl finding someone who knows how to cut super curly hair is so very very hard. I’ve shed more tears over that then I want to admit
Yep. As a ginger I can confirm this to be true. I cried during more than one haircut from hairdressers with straight hair.
at 59 I have finally found a hairdresser that knows how to cut curly hair..it sure has taken time..and she converses with me..I'm sorry if this comes across rude, but a lot of the hair salons are run by asian women who will only converse with each other and not the client, other than the initial "what do you want done"..Aussie here.
Amen to that! Majority of hairdressers I find either cut it likes it's straight and then are surprised when the dried version is way shorter than they imagined, or they just straighten it within an inch of it;s own life and then cut it, and the curls still destroy the "cut" when it comes back because it's not designed to stay that way with curls.
All of them! You named every phase I went through, but recently I started using higher quality products and just let the curls do their thing. Even if they're crazy, their at least healthy and soft.
Same, but I still need help knowing what I'm doing 😭
Me too! Better products make a huge dif
The, "only asked for a trim" was serious trauma recall. I had it down to my waist when this genius washed my hair by piling all on my head and made a foamy spaghetti with my very fine yet very curly hair!!😮😮
We had no choice but chop it out. She literally made one solid dog-hair matted mess. When I see these poor dogs whose fur is one solid mass, I know how they feel.
I don't know what she was thinking.🙄
Girrrrrl the flat-ironed bang crunchy curls combo had me in a chokehold from 2007-2010
Haha same!!
Hahaha... I'm still there! 😂😂😂
@@kreationsbykim9105 me too
@@kreationsbykim9105 we’ll be here waiting for you whenever you’re ready to crossover sis
@@jessicacortez9087 couldn’t tell us NOTHING back then
This is actually the most relatable thing I've seen all day😂❤
My current phase is accepting my curly hair and wearing it natural for the first time in my life since I was 35 years old. It's never too late to accept and love yourself!
Please for your own sake just go read a book please!! I’m not trying to be rude!!
I used to be insecure about my curly hair as it is always soooo frizzy and tangled . I had this phase where I literally loaded my hair with hair products which then damaged my hair :(
Same😭 during my 5th grade year (it was online learning) I never really did my hair since I just had my camera off. Which then 6th grade came and I had to do my hair myself, which pretty sure I damaged it😅 it was until my 8th grade year it got a lil better
Yo the straightened bangs was so on point!!!!!
Still stuck in that one. And get the “do you straighten just the bangs or just curl everything else?” Asked a lot. So I’ve settled into the unbothered phase now…sorta.
@@rgoodfellowliterally me too 😭😭
Why did we do that?! 😂
"I only asked for a trim" so true - so many hairdressers have no interest in learning about curly hair.
I was the "never knew i had curly hair, because of how hard our water was" phase
Omgggg so truueeee
The “straighten it to curl it” phase ❤
Why u do it😭😭
This 😅
Or the "it went straight after I had kids" phase.
❤️
@@buyffgvhvf idk why wdym?
The crunchy hair was so cute thoo
not when it dries it gonna be rock solid and gross it makes ur hair look greasy and have to wash it straight after
@@Juliaxo12 oh really? I had no idea
@@Winniizabearr yes but its still possible to put moose in
Those little ‘unbothered’ plaits were SO CUTE if I had curly hair that is exactly how I’d wear it. Gorgeous. You look like the cool councillor in a summer camp movie.
Yes I loved how her hair looked there!!
YES
She’s a real one for cutting her hair 🙏😭
i was digging in the comments to see if anyone noticed 😭
Can someone tell me is straight hair better or curly hair??!!!!😊
@@Enas-_-both are equally great nd they both have their pros and cons. Neither is better or worse yk?
@@Enas-_- whatever you naturally have
@@perla5465 ❤️❤️❤️✨ in Ur opinion I mean
As a girl with extremely thick wavy curly hair I went through the brushes out phase as a child, the crunchy phase and the if it rains im ruined in middle school...now I'm in my unbothered phase and I feel so comfortable
I had the oil in wet hair phase once and never left. It works
I have gone through every single one of these phases multiple times 😂 I’m currently in the “hair care” phase, where I’m just accepting and loving my hair as it is, and focusing on keeping it healthy rather than worrying about how it looks right now. Trying to wear it naturally curly as much as I can.
I’m in this phase too
dont forget the "i dont know how to do my hair" with flat/super drawn out curls at the top and frizzy/loose curls all at the ends
Oh my gods this is literally my hair like 90% of the time because I don't know how to take care of my own hair types (curly/wavy mix, rah) 😭😭
Crunchy hair phase was just stunning! Get it, girl!!
The slapping of the brush😂😂
Someone tried to give me a comb once
I politely declined as i wondered why NO ONE cared to identify that the maybe tiny combs are NEVER the answer HERE. I DIDNT ASK YOU FOR ONE, MY HAIR LOOKS GREAT, ...is this joke er?🧐✔️👀
The cut half of it off ✨✨
Am i the only one who thinks the brushed out look is really cool?? like it looks so fluffy and with the right outfit would be lowkey majestic
People wears it with pride. I think brushed out is nice when the person fils good in it :)
I honestly love it but even people who like it stay away from that because it gives you a lot of split ends
You have brush it when it's dry and that's damaging to curly hair. We brush our hair when it's wet
That being said, Ive always thought it has a very editorial look it
Finding a hairdresser that is skilled at cutting curly hair was such a game changer for me. I wear my hair curly every day now and it looks amazing compared to before I found this stylist! I’d travel to her if I ever moved
I literally just have weird wavy poofy hair and yet ive gone through half of these phases... im the straighten bangs one rn haha... still dont know how to take care of my hair :[
Crunchy hair is actually so pretty
Edit: tysm for the likes 👍 💓
Edit: There is also a phase where u put your hair in a bun and put 20lbs of hair jell on top of ur head lol. (Learned that from my friend who has curly hair.)
I used to get made fun of with the crunchy hair always being asked why it looked wet 😂
@@shaunadohertymusicsame lmao
@@shaunadohertymusic Same here
The unbothered is actually so nice 😮
As someone who has curly hair this is the most relatable thing I have ever seen 😂❤
Everyone is talking about how the unbothered is cute DID YOU NTI SEE HER CHT TWO CHUCKS OFF
I dont have curly hair, but "Unbothered, it's just hair" phase is my favorite! Its so cool!
“If it rains, I’m ruined” was so REALL😭😮😢
Okay but why is no one taking about how she literally just cut her hair so casually
I'm "I'm not changing my hair style no matter what because Jesus loves me this way" phase.
The crunchy hair and straight bangs happened at the same time for me 😂
SAME!!! 😂😂
who else grew up hearing *after brushing your hair* "BRUSH YOUR HAIR".....I just did
Same 🥲
Same and my hair is mostly straight it's just thick and gets tangled like 5 seconds after brushing it. Though it gets curly when it's drying. I air dry it.
That light brown hair color looks so good on you!! It makes your eyes pop even more 💜💜
I was in my brushed out face also the completely dead hair phase, and now I’m in my reviving phase
Personally, I think crunchy curly hair has always been a cute look!
Same it’s so pretty ❤❤
All. My favorite was the straightening ofc but as all middle schoolers would--- only the parts I could see *frizz in the back*
The 'what I have is the best and im gonna own my curls like theyre the most amazing hair anybody could have' phase.
I'm kinda on that phase to, sometimes I just stare at the mirror watching my hair 'cause I can't believe how beautiful it became when I learn how to take care of it
Hahah that phase requires so much work and time that you end up giving up half way or it gets messed up when you went to sleep. 😂😂😂
The “If it rains, I’m ruined” phase. Which was pretty much most of my childhood.😂
The fact that she actually cut her hair for this video is insane
Its a wig
@@dazzinq_no
Ohhhhhh😂😂
the brushed out phase was so me, but now i am more crunchy phase or unbothered ♡
i want to be unbothered, but i am forced to brush out ;-;
My hair is straight, but my sister who's hair is curly can relate to this, she's gone trough every phase, she even had buzz cut phase when she was bored with constantly fixing hairstyles, me having straight hair, my only phase was finding a way how to keep my hair curly for longer than half an hour.😆
“if it rains i’m ruined.” i felt that with all my heart. and overall im all. ty for 100 likes!
The "it's just hair phase is cute on you" your beautifully soft curly hair peaking through.
“Only asked for a trim” I had a thick fringe and a pixie cut
I’m a curly curly hair girl that used to have an emo phase with my hair ALWAYS ON ONE SIDE OF MY FACE before I straight up transformed into an Afro girly, still works
THE CRUNCHY ONE>>
I LOVVVEEEE the "crunchy hair phase" IT LOOKS SO CUTE IN EVERY GIRL😭 and they look so clean and perfect idk, i js love it
There's also the final phase when you finally accept your curly hair and show it off and that's the best phase😂
All of them for the most part I felt but I mostly felt if it rains I’m ruined phase and I only asked for a trim Phase bc rn my hair is at my shoulders🥲