Homicidal Babysitter Pretends Victim is Alive and Returns Him to Mother | Marissa Tietsort Analysis
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- Опубліковано 4 сер 2023
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She ate dinner at McDonald's while sitting next to a child's corpse. This is the stuff of nightmares.
Worse than horrible. It is pure evil.
Agree.
Stone cold sociopath
@@FredCarpenter-pm8bf Yea. Your head on a plate?
I worked at Subway restaurants when I was a teen. It is hard to imagine how I would have felt and reacted if I later learned that during one of my work shifts that a customer had brought a dead child into the restaurant and then ate a sandwich I made for them while they sat with the dead child. It honestly would probably have been about as traumatizing as if someone came into the restaurant to rob the place and shot my coworkers to death in front of me.
I firmly believe some children are screwed from the beginning simply because their parents are trash. Thats why I have a deep respect for people that give their kids up for adoption knowing they'll have a fair chance at life that way. Its sad af man, kids are defenseless.
Absolutely
Don't kid yourself, adoption has its horror stories on both sides of the equation - no one helps these women grieve after they've given up their babies and not all children go to happy/healthy homes.
The end result would be different because different choices were made but don't fool yourself that different magically makes it better.
*Mum (bio&foster) and career Nanny
My biological mother was not a good mother. She knew she couldn't care for me so she gave me to my grandparents, then spent her entire life alleging that they kidnapped me. she's a raging alcoholic/druggie. Giving me up was the only mature decision she ever made in her entire life.
so are animals.. see it as karma maybe.
amazing how people can feel so sorry for the innocence of a child (and rightly so. don't get me wrong) but .. the same people who care so much about the innocence of a child.. will pay others to abuse torture enslave oppress and rape. and mutilate innocent baby animals..
bacon for example.. is no grown pig who had a full life.. it's a baby.
so when these things happen.. people should ask themselves.. why does this occur? is it simply the evil of a sick human?
OR does it go far deeper? karma perhaps?
A lot of kids are abused in the system too. We need better forms of birth control and access to reproductive healthcare.
This monster injures a 3 month old, then an 8 month old, leaves her own kids in a hot car, has 4 out of 5 kids taken away from her and her friend STILL gets her to babysit?
😵💫🥴
I cannot find the last name of the child or this supposed mother, "Heather". I wanted to get a look at the piece of work I am sure she is.
The friend didn't know about any of this. None of it. She trusted her friend, who babysat for her kids before.
@@LDiamondzShe sent her a link to an article about the previous charges and asked her to keep quiet about babysitting Benson
Beyond idiocy…
It makes my skin crawl knowing that people like this exist on our planet.
Yep, it makes one wonder who spawns these things. It's a cycle that gets worse with each generation they spawn.
Thing is a lot of us have experience with someone like this growing up, we just normalize it/brush it off because we are too poor for our parents to be bothered
What a cowardly monstrous woman.
They don't have to.
Yes, and unfortunately there are MANY of them out there...
I know some people are in desperate situations and have little choice - but I'm shocked that her friend opted to leave her two sons with someone who had lost custody of four of their children. She proved time after time that she was not someone who was trustworthy or responsible or safe for kids to be around. So tragic. RIP Benson
You took the words out of my mouth. Who in their right mind would leave their children with someone who was in trouble for abusing children?
Surely she lied and minimized that to the poor victim's mother
Oh she did know she was child abuser holy mole. She was laughing about that also. That is the killer.
I have neighbours who have lost custody of their children, who are every now and then offering to babysit my son...I politely decline because frankly I don't know how they lost custody nor do I want to find out and regret it later.
@@texasrefugee7888didn’t dr. Grande say Marissa sent the mom a link to an article about her charge? I would’ve floored it over there at that second
When I was a kid I had a seasoned homicide detective tell me something that I’ve since observed throughout my life to be really very true, he said, the guilty always sleep.
Damn. That's right, but it feels wrong. Life is crazy.
So true.
People try to hide it or suppress it, but no matter what, guilt is an exhausting burden to carry, and sleep is a form of escapism.
@@leobabe72 exactly, that and if you’re in the interrogation room and you know that you’re innocent, you’re not sleeping, you’re either freaking out because they think you might’ve done something that you know you didn’t do and or you’re actively thinking about exactly how you’re gonna explain yourself and get yourself out of this and you’re genuinely worried about the outcome. And then I also think that the guilty often think something along the lines of “I’m in here being questioned about committing a murder and I wanna appear innocent, so I’m just gonna act so relaxed and not worried about them thinking I did it that I could just go to sleep”
Don't the innocent sometimes sleep, too?
Wonderful, so we can stop investigating anything ans save so much of the taxpayer's money 🤡
I always wonder why some children are taken away by social services while the other children remain with the parents.
I was wondering the same thing.
In my experience working in community mental health it’s sadly subjective and depends on the social worker assigned to investigate.
I looked it up because I was wondering the same thing. It looks like the four children were removed from her custody before the fifth one was born; social services did not know about the youngest child.
Sometimes taking the child away will mess the child up cause they are trauma bonded .. it takes time to get a kid into a healthier mindspace to then remove the child with the least amount of damage. its traumatizing to be separated from parents at some ages for life.
Yes me too. I cant understand that!!!!!!!!!!
05:38 This image of her carrying her own child while handcuffed for murdering someone else's is sick beyond words.
was she pregnant again? unbelievable were all her kids in foster care now?
Some people should never be allowed near children. Especially those who abuse drugs and alcohol. Psycho psychology should immediately be established before any prengnancy is allowed. Sounds cruel but it might save a lot of people from abusing children. 😢
@@annettemoolman6504lol unhinged and unfeasible
@annettemoolman6504 she isn't allowed near them when she gets out of prison she will be supervised she is a piece of poop
She “put him down too hard”. With all those injuries, she would’ve had to have thrown him. Disgusting.
I watched this case on another channel and in her interview with the detective when they first tell her all of Benson’s injuries she blurts out ,” I didn’t throw him!” The detective is like 😳😳 “ Excuse me ? “ Why would you bring up that word , throw ?”
After she admitted she did indeed throw him.
This a tragic case. I don’t know why Benson’s mother would leave her baby with this dangerous woman.
Dope heads do dumb thing duh
Yes. It wasn't a flaw in reporting child abusers so that the public could be on guard that led to this sad situation. The mother knew but disregarded critical information.
Imo mother is just as guilty!!!!
Maybe she trusts her
She has five kids, you’d think she must live children, c’ mon that’s deep!
my mother was like that. She had little tolerance for the children though she always claimed that she was the best caregiver ever. Not as violent as Maryssa but still beatings out of anger were part of our daily lives. Over 85 now she is still wondering why her children are not fond of her. I think the word tolerance is the key. The perception of children being so intolerable creatures only skilled people like herself can put up with them, therefore they are supposed to be admired and appreciated for having so much "tolerance".
The black and brown community advocates for whoopings and “spare the rod spoil the child mentality “ the lines are blurred when it comes to beatings versus discipline by spanking. I truly believe it’s time to get rid of it in our community altogether so there’s no question. Hitting a child is wrong PERIOD. There are many ways to discipline without force Or creating trauma. I’m sorry for what you went through growing up. ❤
@@love_reka_777 And we treat that trauma like a joke. It's so sad. I'm encouraged that more of us are rejecting it. When I was younger, NO ONE voiced what you and I are posting here. So, I have hope for the future.
Oh Honey, My heart is broken for you. ♥️😢♥️.
My mom was cruel verbally, so I know a little of what you went through.
I'm completely sure that when you go to Heaven, you will be in an especially high level. ♥️♥️
Yes my mom was very loving but then at same time very brutal… confusing. She kept us fed well and clean but I still remember the switchings. It was extremely painful and left me with stripes everywhere because you instinctively writhe around furiously and put your arm out but she’d be holding one arm and swinging that switch ( bush branch without leaves) which was just bendy enough to feel like a stinging whip. It was nightmare fuel.
And this woman had five children and was expecting another!
My heart aches for Benson
At least in prison she wont be able to get a 7th one... (as long as there is no new Demi Minor who impregnated several female inmates).
I feel bad for all the children she had and and came into contact with.🙁
Wait. Bensons mother finds out that the woman she left him with has a charge for child abuse and she leaves the child there??
I wonder if she knew, the babysitter was her sister's friend
She did NOT kno until THAT DAY her son was killed 😔
the baby passed around 4:30 the babysitter told her about the abuse after the baby was already dead
why was she NOT CHARGED so many times ? Judges who let people go who later KILL need to be held accountable
I watched this on a crime show and she was nuts! She laughed when talking about the child dying!
Hope she’s tortured in jail
She knew she was a child abuser and didn't leave right then to get her kids. She even kept the baby in the car seat, went to the laundry mat and it took her that long to check on her baby. Sorry parent too
Right!!!!! This is why I have never left my kids with anybody besides my mother. She's the only person I trust. These "mothers" didn't seem to mind leaving their NEW baby with this VERY clearly unstable girl. Wtf is wrong with ppl? 🤦♀️🙄
Agreed. That struck me as odd how long it took her to find her baby like that.
@@NorthernGreenEyes I have to think that the mother was either high or drunk. It's just unimaginable.
@@KimberlyLetsGoSeems odd to me, I’m just another old lady who has raised 8 children, but 🤷♀️. From the comments that I’ve read, not many people mention the mothers strange behavior.
Right. What kind of mom leaves her child with someone who tells they "I'm not suppose to be around children."
She ate fast food with a dead baby in her vehicle sitting in a car seat. Then later she disguised the fact that he was dead so that the mother would have to stumble onto this fact at some point that evening. How could a human being be that de-personalized? This story sickens me, literally. And my heart breaks for that poor child being tortured to death.
How traumatizing for the mom and her sister to know they carried around the baby for hours without even realizing he was gone. Poor family.
How could they not notice???
@elgordo687 probably just thought he was sleeping. I'm sure death is the last thing anyone thinks when the nanny drops them off. They were at the laundry mat, so I'm guessing they didn't disturb him so they can get their errands finished. It's not their fault...
Why are you saying hours?
It was barely 25 minutes. They picked him up and drove to the laundromat.
@@OneBadAssMoMoEvery mother I know checks their baby upon getting them. Readjust them, embrace them, something…. I just don’t understand this
I recognized very early on that I didn’t like children and got myself a tubal ligation. Too bad she couldn’t realize the same thing.
At least you’re honest
In my country they make you wait until something like 5 kids or 35 years old.
@@Boss-Possum same here for a lot of places. I was 37 when I had it done after years of begging
That's very sad to hear. Can I assume your own mother was not very loving to you or kids in general?
@@onelonelypickle No, my mom is awesome. I’ve just never liked being around kids, even as one. I just don’t know how to interact with them or really care to. There are plenty of people out there that don’t. It’s not a big deal.
I watched this abhorrant individual talk with detectives in the hotel she ran to, after she killed baby Benson. Such a sad case.. RIP Benson. Thanks Dr.Grande..
There are no words. Some people shouldn't be breathing air. Condolences to Benson's family.
Or reproducing...
Agree😩
That's for darn sure, they shouldn't! 😠
So scary there’s people out there like this among us.
I dont care if she had a bad childhood, herself! Law abiding people need to be protected from people like that and heather should have rescued her children immediately! She was just as guilty!
Maybe if someone cares she was being abused as a child when she was a child and intervened then Benson would still be alive.
Imagine substance abuse common denominater amongst self absorbed peaple leading to peaple taking lives of other vulnerable peaple impulsive desires lead to destructive behavior victims ultimately of selfish desire to flee reality consume mind altering substances. Do drugs shake hands with the devil .
Heather was not guilty.
Me either. There is only so much society can be expected to forgive based on the perpetrator’s childhood. Either way she is a menace who shouldn’t be among us.
What a terrible case. Obviously, some people should not take care of children, or anyone else. Thanks for your content, Dr. Grande!
A parent must be pretty oblivious to hand their child over to a sitter that has had their children taken away from them.
What a sad case.
The average parent is too poor and overworked and under educated
@@phoenixmerridian9119 True, and it seems like the more dumb and poor they are the more kids they crap out.
Yeah, that baby is better off for sure. Sad how he had to go
Not only oblivious, the baby killer texted the mother to tell her not to tell anyone she was watching the kids because she wasn't supposed to be around kids because of her previous reckless behavior. I mean how much warning do you need? 🤦🏾♀️
@@melistasy maybe the mother might have thought that if there is this situation, it may be actually safer - like if you are suspect of something, you don't immediately go and do it again...
But I think she simply had no better option where to get babysitting when she needed to work.
So sad 😞. So grateful I had a kind trustworthy day care for my boys.
You were blessed to find good people. I’m a grandma who would love to care for a working mom’s kids in my home, but the hoops to jump through on both sides are hard on the wallet.
I only ever trusted my mom thank Goodness she was able to. I trust NO ONE!
@@NorthernGreenEyesI was also lucky with my second son. He never had to go to daycare like my oldest. By the time he was born my mom was able to baby sit. 🙏🏽 and in the summer she watched my oldest also. She loved having them.
Hiring a babysitter who has had 4 of her 5 children taken away from her by the courts or child protective services is insane.
I used to have a neighbor who has 8 kids at the age of 27 with 5 different fathers between them. Her first pregnancy occurred when she was 13 and she dropped out of school in 9th grade. She has no job and no driver's license, but she still has a car and drives it anyway. They live in a disgusting mobile home and her last ex-boyfriend is in jail for molesting her six year old daughter. Can we please start sterilizing these people? They only cause pain and chaos for everyone they come in contact with. Her kids will probably be just like she is too.
Yes! Those men should be given vasectomies!
Do you mean the 13yo being sexually abused or the sexual abuser for sterilisation because it matters which one you think deserves to have their right to have kids taken away. Insane if you could possibly for a second consider the child who was repeatedly raped and impregnated.
@KayosHybrid We could do both and fix two problems! She had the majority of her kids as an adult.
What a beautiful baby. Its tragic that all the adults around him were so unconcered about protecting his precious life.
He was so beautiful 😢❤
I'm glad Dr. Grande covered this story. I watched story/ interrogation about a month ago. I find myself on this channel trying to see what Dr. Grande has to say about these stories I find on UA-cam.
Ditto!
Her kids were riding around in a car with a dead baby and didn’t even know it. That’s so creepy!
It’s very hard to hear stories of cruelty against children. This woman is a monster, so callousness has no bounds.
Great analysis, Dr. Grande.❤
Some of the videos with kids I gotta skip especially being a parent.
And she has five kids!!!!
So many lives destroyed by this cold-hearted and callous woman, including her own children. Hopefully they are able to find loving homes.
She has 6 kids! Oh man.. I wonder what those kids have gone through..
these types always pop them out like rabbits. They are not thinking about whether they can provide for their children or care for them. The children are just an irritating means to an end.
This is sickening! Benson was so cute. This is very upsetting! Marissa laughed during the reenactment? What an evil woman. She had no business having children of her own let alone watching anyone else's. Parents need to be so careful when entrusting their children's care to babysitters.
Completely agree with every word.
He was very beautiful 😍 poor baby boy
I know. So very sad. @@karinababy6557
What do you think the chances are that a person such as Marissa would have the insight to seek out counseling to deal with her traumatic childhood and what messaging would actually reach her to get her to go into counseling? Where would she go for treatment? What kind of success rate can be expected? Or, does counseling/treatment typically come as a result of a criminal charge? I'm personally overwhelmed with the number of horrific murders happening in the world.
Ok at some point the parents bear responsibility for not looking into the person they hire to babysit
That Poor Little Baby!🥀🥀🥀🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🙏🙏
Completely agree. What a sad case. I couldn't even smile at Dr. Grande's dry wit on this one because it is just too sad of a case. RIP Benson, and I hope all the other children associated with these two mothers are doing fine. Makes me sad. :(
@@Viewer92136 hello. Isn't she just Heartless?
@@renee1961 Yes, I wonder what happened to her own children? I hope they are with someone that truly loves them and is taking care of them. This entire case is so sad. Also, I can not even imagine the trauma this caused for Benson's brother that was in her care and witnessed the events at the laundromat.
A couple weeks back, I watched Marissa's interrogation footage regarding this incident. It was akin to watching the police interrogate a toddler. Suffice it to say, it was extremely hard to watch. This woman has and/or had no business being near ANY children considering her mental capacity appears to be on par with a 4-year-old.
Thank you Dr Grande, these stories are so difficult to hear as these women make my blood run cold, I couldn't even watch movie's if a child was hurt after having my first baby. My Mum was a troubled alcoholic and it NEVER made me anything but the total opposite as a mother.❤
This dear little baby 😢, I just can't get these awful monster's 😪🙏🇭🇲
Also, was truly lovely seeing you and your wife 💕
Long time listener first time caller. LOVE THE SHOW!
So... she's unfit to keep her own kids. However, people trust her to keep their children... Make it make sense, Dr. Grande.. What is wrong with people? Lordt...
This woman was 28 & pregnant with her 6th child by the time she came to court. The only good thing about this horrible story is that she won't be able to babysit, make anymore babies and raise her kids.
We appreciate your analysis. Keep up the good work as always.
So happy to have a new Dr.Grande video:) you just made my day ❤ your the best!!!
Thanks for consistently uploading Dr! You should look into doing a video on Debra Jeter. She took her two daughters to an abandoned house and cut their throats but one of them was still alive and begging for help so she called 911. The 911 call is insane.
Just finished watching the explore with us video on her and then 2 minutes later dr. Grande uploads this 😂
Oh, my God! Babies aren't Safe around her!! How did she avoid Charges??
Yes, I think she should never get out of jail.
I can't even. I am crying and searching for answers. Why does stuff like this happen? It's so not fair.
The parents are at fault also
They looked at her and thought "yeah my baby is in good hands" 🙄
Yooo, the title of this alone is unbelievable!
What a beautiful baby! Rest in peace, Sweet Angel!
This case is new to me. Thanks, Dr. Grande.
People who harm kids, elderly or those who cannot defend themselves, should get the capital penalty.
Here’s to 2 million subs in your near future. I first watched you when you were under 100k. Such a delight!
A very concerning being, no matter what happened in your past there is no excuse for harming our innocent children, she seems very calculated and very aware of her actions, she’s disgusting😠 unfortunately the domino effect of her dysfunctional family, this is just so sad but there is no excuse for this…. Prison is where she belongs !
The last thing she seems is calculating.
She had 5 children. How may different fathers?
Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande!
I love your videos! You put so much work into it and we get so much more out of each video bc you are a doc..i love how you have the best jokes to make the videos not so dark.
Excellent and thought provoking analysis!
So many stories, so little time.🎉 Thanks for offering your pov and analysis, Dr. Grande. We appreciate your work.❤
Excellent as always
Thankyou for your perspective Dr Grande. I watched the footage of Benson's Mum discovering him dead, the 911 call, the police body cam video & subsequent police interviews with her. I found it so harrowing. Your take on what could have been happening Dr Grande was good, it helped explain her behaviour & possible reasons for it. Thankyou.
Good evening, Dr. Grande! How are you doing? Great, I like to think! Thank You!
Dr. Grande I look forward to your content and value your opinion. I believe that you not only help viewers understand the psychological aspect of these crimes but the way you describe it is useful.
I think I’m most confused on why anyone would leave their child with someone who had kids of their own removed from their care. Yes, I realize sometimes there are not many options but ……. This seems outrageous.
Dr. Grande always offers his analysis and I always accept. Thank you! ❤ great video. Love hearing your thoughts 💭 on crime stories. 😘
every now and then I hit the back button on one of these videos. This is one of them
How dumb are the friends though? She's lost custody of 4 kids (that's an amazing, almost impossible feat for a woman), and injured every kid she's seen. What would make you let her watch your kid?
The most dangerous people we encounter are the ones with zero empathy and zero impulsivity control like Marissa Tietsort .
WHY would a judge remove four children from her custody and leave one behind?
2 months old. I can't even imagine the state of mind you'd have to be in to have homicidal rage toward someone so innocent and defenseless. People can be so monstrous.
The “justice system” failed all of those kids who where ever in her care.
Great analysis. Thank you!
Great analysis
The body cam footage of the police talking to Marissa is absolutely stomach turning. She jokes and laughs... it's awful. That poor baby deserved so much better.
As an Abuse Victem myself i still can find no empathy for someone who continous the Circle of Abuse.
I could never do to someone else what has been done to me and i can not understand how this is even possible.
I still feel helpless, how can someone forgett this feeling and become the same that once broke them?
She lived just down the road from me. Thank God I never met this person so filled with evil.
Always Appreciate your videos and psychological analysis Dr. Grande....your Trinidadian Supporter !🇹🇹
How you let someone who lost custody of 4/5 kids babysit? ON MULTIPLE OCCASIONS
This is so heartbreaking and horrifying. This person carrying another child makes my skin crawl. She should never be anywhere near a child. Appreciate you doing a video on these subjects.
She is in jail currently using her baby, whom she is pregnant with as collateral. She is vile may the guards constantly give her a hard time. No compassion to her ever. 💔 she is evil
Some folks do not belong in society.
Boy oh boy,. As a parent of a larger than average family, it's astounding these serial abusers still try to use the "oh the kid fell off the chair, the couch, or down the stairs" excuse. Kids are pretty durable against normal knocks, bumps, and trips. Not so much when they are attacked by a maniac. More likely Benson was colicky, hungry, may have been fed something that upset his tummy, was uncomfortable, or just needed to be changed and the murder-sitter decided her previously well-established habit of beating children's heads would resolve the situation. And who allows a brain damaged woman, who lost custody of her own children, to become the neighborhood daycare?!? This whole story is a symphony of horrible decisions.
Benson's mother equally responsible; she allowed Marisha to continue to care for Benson fully aware of danger and compromising situation he was in.
Thank you so much for your analysis and insight on this case! I’d only heard of it a couple weeks ago and was completely shocked by this crime. I was going back and forth on whether she was intentionally murdering every child in her care or whether this was impulsive behavior r/t her own hx of abuse and cognitive disabilities (perhaps FASD- she does have some physical features indicative of FASD). Your analysis and the additional background information you provided clarified this issue and made sense of the events leading up to this horrific crime.
Bravo, Doctor.
As Dr. Hibbert once said, "Diagnosis, bad babysitting!"
Wtf would the mom leave a 2 month old baby with a woman who'd lost custody of her kids for being negligent? Why? Seriously what the actual fuxk! She's just as guilty in my opinion.
OMG, I totally watched this as it was happening via the body cam videos. She is so messed up!!!!
Hi Dr. Grande
I cannot overstate how genuinely creepy and unnerving it is watching the footage of her during her arrest and interrogation. Her presentation and affect, to get clinical, just lack any ability to conform to the situation around her
I watched that entire interrogation/bodycam footage and she seems slow or something. Her behavior is bizarre.
So sad, poor family having to suffer this and by a 'human' who takes no responsibility, she doesn't care because of her upbringing sadly.
Parents are at fault too
Her behavior is Very Disturbing!!
So the mom didn't notice her baby was deceased for all that time? She doesn't sound like she was a very attentive mother... besides why would you leave your child in the care of someone who told you they had been in trouble for mistreating a child? That should have been her sign!!! Poor baby 😥😢😭😭😭
I'm sure the mom is on something, either way she's at fault also
It was only 25 minutes.
There’s video footage of when they discovered the baby. The mom and her sister took the kids to the laundromat after picking up the kids. It’s very sad to see the footage and the 911 call.
Poor baby Benson 😢💔 rest in peace, sweet little boy.
I just saw video about her the other day and wow, she shouldn't have been in the same zip code as any children. Crazy *******
Thank you for explaining this. This case is horrifying, but now I understand how something like this could happen.
This is one of the saddest stories ive ever heard. Shes só mean.