7 Things You Should NEVER Say to Your Spouse no Matter What
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
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I have a documented contract with myself to not say certain things like using absolutes in any relationship and I signed it. I love the idea of making explicit written couples contracts or even a contract with myself with these rules. Thank you Monika for providing this type of content💖
I love the idea of contracts with ourselves! Well done and you are welcome!
Absolute statement - "We will NEVER have sex again." That's a relationship killer - no discussion, just a decision. Followed by #3 - "If you loved me, you will accept it." Than followed by #5 : - "It's just sex, it's no big deal!" Then by #6: - "You need to stop being so needy, we don't need sex to have a good marriage." , followed up by #7 calling me ridiculous because I said my need is physical touch. I am not kidding. Either it's a challenge to get me to walk away, or Perimenopause hormone changes have done their damage on her thinking and feelings. Completely out of character for someone I thought I knew for 23 years
there are no relationships without rules.
Do this go both ways?
yes and no, there are no absolutes