Pro tip expectant mothers: Witch hazel IS key, so you can also put some in your peri bottle with the warm water. So how i would do this is: 1. Pee 2. Witch hazel/water from peri bottle 3. You don't wipe but you can pat dry. Sort of. I at least gave things a min to air dry a bit. 4. Numbing spray. I liked the dermaplast from the hospital personally. 5. Then you have your pad, so I would line it with like 3 tucks pads. And from there you can just pull up your pants. However, there are numbing creams I've heard of hospitals giving moms so they can alternate that and the spray, so if you have a cream i would squeeze that into your tucks pads and then pull up your pants after that lol.
@@klaudia6429 it definitely can be. That was my experience after having my daughter and having tearing I learned something else recently after I had my son early December. I had no tearing and didn't use anything but the peri bottle. My junk didn't even really hurt. It was a night and day difference.
Mackenzie Cady Me too, girl. Me too. Giving birth and postpartum scare the poo out of me. It’s a lot to juggle especially with trying to navigate having a new human around. We’ve got this though!
I used the always discreet version of the adult diapers(same thing, just nude coloured)! They were amazing, very comfortable compared to the hospital pad and mesh undies, and I had no stress about leaking at all. I actually started wearing them when my water broke, I had small gushes every time I moved around/contracted/stood so it gave me the freedom to comfortably walk the halls and change my position without having to worry about my waters leaking anywhere. they also slip on and off really easy for cervical checks.
Also, the adult diapers, as weird as it sounds, are great for when you get your period again for at night time. So that way you don’t bleed through onto your bedsheets.
Honestly I was thinking the same thing, I know most people are like "ew adult diapers" but hey, in a new-mommie / mommie case, I think it's definitely worth a shot!
And i think it can be helpful in case of any mishaps while you're rushing to the bathroom and accidentally soil yourself.. I'm due May 2020 but I'm considering adult diapers for the first month post partum because to me they seem more practical
You're honestly the best! I found your channel recently and even though I'm only on week 23 it's so nice to finally have someone talk openly about these things and give useful advice. Thanks for helping us first time moms so much and for being so honest and showing the "less glamorous" parts of motherhood. 💗💗💗
I’m 18 weeks pregnant with my first baby and your videos have made child birth not so much of a night mare for me! And not scary like others have made it out to be. I take classes every Thursday for pregnancy education. And you taught me more than I have learned... no one talks about postpartum!
This is great!!! Haha love that you tried them on for us!!! I am 33 weeks and 5 days with my first and starting to watch all the “what I need videos” for postpartum and this was by far the best!!!
Those adult diapers are everything for the postpartum heavy bleeding! I felt comfortable in any position whether sitting, laying, etc. I loved this video and how honest you are. Most people don’t share this type of info which leaves new moms feeling embarrassed or alone with what’s going on. I’m pregnant with my 5th (and last!!!) baby so I was just looking for any new ideas. Good luck ❤️
I recently just started watching your videos, 38 weeks here and a first time mom. You are absolutely mom goals in my mind and wish I had found you sooner! Not to take away from your informative video but I must know what lipstick/stain you are wearing, love how you’re always so put together even with a toddler and a little one on the way. I hope I’m that put together as a first time mom. Thank you🤗
The diapers are awesome. I used them both times I miscarried and use them on my periods. I like them better then pads. I'm due with my first in February and will definitely use them diapers
Can’t thank you enough for your videos! It’s just like fool instructions of “what to do when you a first time mom”. I’m almost 33 weeks now and feel so much better and confident after your videos! Thank you so much! Wish you a millions of subscribers!! 🤰🏻💕
MomLifewithKay same here and i started to be really scared...the thing that labor can start any moment and all that process and after that coming back home with a human being...OMG
MomLifewithKay can you do a quick video about how many diapers you used . How many you prefer too buy too last at least 2-3 months ? Also which diapers you prefer and what’s the best brand or diaper brand test .
I can't thank you enough for your videos, watching them has been a big help. I'm actually almost due now, any day, and I was worried about what was going to happen afterwards, and boy I didn't even think about the post-partum... Well, anything! It helps me not be as afraid, though I am still anxious about it.
Girl, THANK YOU! As a first time mom, I am trying to read and understand postpartum care so I can try the best I can to have a positive experience, but it is SO TABOO OUT THERE! Nobody talks about HOW TO USE STUFF, WHERE TO PUT THEM, and I mean, I am sick of it! I couldn't understand the witch hazel thing, because people say "use this for down there" in videos and I am like 'WTH??' JUST CALL IT LIKE IT IS! A VAGINA! I am so frustrated that I could not find ONE single video that would tell me all the TMI's until I found you, so THANK YOU! THANK YOU for talking about the first poop, about the numbing spray and actually showing me how to do it! You rock!
only 14 weeks into our 1st pregnancy but i am making lists of all of your recommendations for labour and postpartum care ! I find they've been the most honesty amongst many videos i've watched where vloggers are trying to sell you on their endorsements. Thank you for how honest you are!
I'm nowhere near of getting pregnant, let alone giving birth, I don't know how I ended up here hahaha but you're really nice and friendly. Good luck with that second baby haha I can't believe I watched this video and I liked it.
Loved the adult diapers after my first baby and actually would put a pad in them so I just had that little bit of extra protection and if I wanted to could change just the pad and not waste the whole diaper if it was still clean.
Omg I laughed so much at ur comments and that laugh is to prevent me from crying 😭 ... oh GOD i am almost due and had no idea thing could get that bad and here I thought let’s get over the labor 😩
I had my daughter 8/4 and I used the adult diapers and LOVED them. I will make sure to have them on hand if I ever have another baby. It was a game changer for me
Kayla, you made a great choice with the Always diapers lol☺️ I gave birth in May 2019 and they gave me peace of mind! I also used the Earth Mama Pernial Spary since you talked about it. Your videos are so great I swear!
Kayla, just want to say you are an amazing woman!! I love your videos that show life as a woman is very real. Periods, post partum bleeding, vaginas & pooping used to be a "dirty secret" that wasn't talked about. You have shown us women that we can & should start a conversation with other women on being female. Thank you for sharing the wonderful, mysterious and joyful side of being a girl.
Hey, just want to tell you that you are super sweet and super relatable when you talk. I loved how forthcoming and honest you were while giving the glimpse of how those diapers would look. I wasn’t really sure if I wanted to buy those but thanks a lot for clearing my mind. Have a happy motherhood and don’t worry even if some douchebag clicks ur photo and puts it on the net they won’t be able to derive any satisfaction out of it. All the best!!
I’m due with number 2 in the end of April and have been watching SOOO many birth/postpartum videos (I did the same when pregnant with my son) and OMG I don’t know how I never thought to try adult diapers lol, I’m so stocking up before little miss is here!!
Thank you SO MUCH for making these videos. You seriously have helped me so much getting ready for our first due here in April. I feel so much more prepared thanks to you! 💜💜
Not pregnant right now, but this is such a helpful video! Thanks for being real, Kayla :) I have a 3 year old son (so I have oh-so-fond memories of post-partum, lol). I had a vaginal birth with epidural. I also had to get an episiotomy (sp?) because my little man was sunny-side up in my birth canal and I couldn't push him past my pubic bone. Tried for about 2 hours and the epidural was wearing off. I felt A LOT at the end of delivery. Can't wait to hear about your little guy's arrival in December! Gives me baby fever! I hope to get pregnant with my 2nd in 2020 sometime. Still trying to convince hubby :)
May sound weird but I highly suggest getting pads as well to put into the diaper.. if not you will have to constantly be removing your pants and the diaper to replace it :)
The bras are honestly the best!! I’m due in a few weeks and they’re comfortable while being pregnant!! Also really appreciate this video right now before baby comes. Thank you 😄
I’ll be getting induced in about 20 days and I’m scared,anxious and every other feeling you can feel with my first baby, I added some of those items to my list very helpful thank you 🙏🏽
You got this. Truthfully delivery was not that bad. I never took stool softeners, pain killers, used tucks, or used sitz bath 🤷♀️. The poop wasn't a big deal. I didn't know it was going to could be a big deal until I was leaving the hospital and the doctor asked me. The worst thing dealing with was the first 6 weeks at home was the sleepless nights.
thank you so much for your honesty and the detailed explanations! im due April 2020 with my first so I have no idea what im in for... like even you mentioning how the nursing bra unclips was new to me lol i was like “ohh so simple”. im definitely gonna buy that set of bras thru your link soon! i want you to get whatever commission comes from it bc your videos are so helpful!
I'm due with my second in April and a tip I'm giving a go is bathing your lady parts in an orange pokeo tea bath. Its suppose to help soothe and bring down swelling so much so I'm giving it a go.
I love your video and how helpful it was! Im due probably two weeks before u are! Im trying not to think about the postpartum recovery fears and the birth too... but this was a perfect list for me to be prepared or confirm that I have the right stuff available!! Im definitely going to follow ur advice for the adult diapers ... the thought of them itself is making me feel at ease about not worrying of leaking or moving pads! ❤️i hope ur delivery is smoooother than the previous one 😘lots of love and mamma energy!
A friend of mine, who gave birth to her 3rd baby a few months before I gave birth to my first, gave me some of her extra adult diapers and said try them and if you like just get some more. I was SO THANKFUL to have those, specially that first week, they feel like normal large underwear without having to worry about the pad moving around.
My daughter is 19 months old. When I had her I used the dermoplast, and I liked it at first until I started noticing I was getting extremely itchy and then my husband looked for me, and there were hives all over my downstairs. I’m not currently pregnant, but I am trying for baby number 2, and I’m so glad you shared a different option for the dermoplast! I’ll save it on amazon just so I can get it next time round.
The always discreet are a complete game changer!!! I recommend them to ANYONE that is pregnant!! They really absorb so much more blood and other stuff lol and they definitely feel more secure and comfortable than the mesh and giant pads!!
If you’re wanting to use pads instead of adult diapers try this Gonna sound weird but hear me out. When I was in marching band at 14/15yo my mom still wouldn’t let me use tampons but the pads were ALWAYS moving and I was a heavy bleeder... double up on your underwear. Idk how it works but it does. It helps hold everything in place
Everything you mentioned in this video is SOOO true!!! I remember telling my nurse like WTH why is butt hurting so much??? Like I had no idea that was normal 🥴🥴 and it was really painful like you said. I used the Always discreet diapers and I LOVED THEM!!! They’re super comfortable and “cute” compared to the ones you get from the hospital 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Best of luck with this 2nd childbirth and postpartum recovery!
I HIGHLY recommend kotex pads for postpartum not maternity ones, i don't know if you can get them where you live, they are really cheap here in the UK. they are so soft and they are quilted and the the blood doesn't sit on the surface like it does with the vast majority of pads aimed at postpartum. I had 67 stitches so a small snip sounds like bliss LOL! get black cheap big pants and black nightshirts rather than pj's so when you are examined it makes it easier, also you don't want the seam of the trousers sticking up your lady garden after childbirth lol! you can get black paper pants but they are aimed at bladder weakness so wear a pad with them x
I'm 27 weeks tomorrow with my first. Thank you for this video! I have no idea what I'm doing lol when do you reccomend getting these items? Like, same time we get hospital bag things?
Always discreet boutique are awesome and the mom washer is nice. Definitely take them to the hospital. Also Advil (the name brand liquid gels) really helped with pain. The other medication you mentioned did not help me with pain. I also used period panties with a regular pad once my bleeding got lighter for when I went to bed.
Oh heck yes to the always discreet 🙌🏻😂 they were a lifesaver after giving birth, I felt totally safe at night leakage wise and holding my pee after a vaginal delivery was...tough so I was very grateful for them for multiple reasons 😂😂😂
CatsCatsCats lmao girl I’m about to start using them right now bc I swear I’m gunna have an accident one of these days! Baby boy is legit dancing in my bladder 😂😂
Yes I used the adult diapers LOL. They were so useful. I didn't have to worry about pads shifting in my underwear or anything and it was just less layers to worry about and it seemed more convenient. I also used the mesh underwears with pads for a while and liked the diapers better. I would look at my little and be like "girl we match! diaper twins!" haha just make the best of it
im also due with baby boy in december and i have the same adult diapers for recovery... I had a miscarriage last year and it was the only thing i felt comfortable in after trying all the different pads and leaking everywhere. Plus they are just easier, no separate pieces to deal with and you just throw the whole thing away when your done.
This was super helpful!!! Thank you! Due in March with my first. So clueless and terrified, so this was very useful. Thumbs up on adult diapers, seems like ba no brainier honestly. I considered doing that myself.
Pro tip expectant mothers: Witch hazel IS key, so you can also put some in your peri bottle with the warm water.
So how i would do this is:
1. Pee
2. Witch hazel/water from peri bottle
3. You don't wipe but you can pat dry. Sort of. I at least gave things a min to air dry a bit.
4. Numbing spray. I liked the dermaplast from the hospital personally.
5. Then you have your pad, so I would line it with like 3 tucks pads. And from there you can just pull up your pants. However, there are numbing creams I've heard of hospitals giving moms so they can alternate that and the spray, so if you have a cream i would squeeze that into your tucks pads and then pull up your pants after that lol.
JackiLyn Chaplain thank you!
I just screenshot your comment so I have a guide for the future lol. I’m due in May, had no idea going to bathroom is a multi step process...
I took a screenshot of this lol thanks for sharing !
Thank you.. I highly needed this comment
@@klaudia6429 it definitely can be. That was my experience after having my daughter and having tearing
I learned something else recently after I had my son early December. I had no tearing and didn't use anything but the peri bottle. My junk didn't even really hurt. It was a night and day difference.
I love how honest and open you are about everything. I’m due with my first in April and I am TERRIFIED! Thank you for sharing!
Mackenzie Cady Me too, girl. Me too. Giving birth and postpartum scare the poo out of me. It’s a lot to juggle especially with trying to navigate having a new human around. We’ve got this though!
Danielle M when are you due?? I love your enthusiasm 😄 honest to God, I am wayyyy more terrified of the 4th trimester than I am of actual birth!
Mackenzie Cady Honestly, same lol I’m due April 4! You?
I’m due with my first in Feb. terrified as well!!
Danielle M I’m due April 12! Easter baby!
I used the always discreet version of the adult diapers(same thing, just nude coloured)! They were amazing, very comfortable compared to the hospital pad and mesh undies, and I had no stress about leaking at all.
I actually started wearing them when my water broke, I had small gushes every time I moved around/contracted/stood so it gave me the freedom to comfortably walk the halls and change my position without having to worry about my waters leaking anywhere. they also slip on and off really easy for cervical checks.
Also, the adult diapers, as weird as it sounds, are great for when you get your period again for at night time. So that way you don’t bleed through onto your bedsheets.
Honestly I was thinking the same thing, I know most people are like "ew adult diapers" but hey, in a new-mommie / mommie case, I think it's definitely worth a shot!
And i think it can be helpful in case of any mishaps while you're rushing to the bathroom and accidentally soil yourself.. I'm due May 2020 but I'm considering adult diapers for the first month post partum because to me they seem more practical
I’m using the adult diapers but after 6 days I changed to regular pads.
I am very thankful for you showing the real thing talking about real stuff. I am a soon to be mom and I really needed this. Thank you Ms. Kayla
You're honestly the best! I found your channel recently and even though I'm only on week 23 it's so nice to finally have someone talk openly about these things and give useful advice. Thanks for helping us first time moms so much and for being so honest and showing the "less glamorous" parts of motherhood. 💗💗💗
I’m 18 weeks pregnant with my first baby and your videos have made child birth not so much of a night mare for me! And not scary like others have made it out to be. I take classes every Thursday for pregnancy education. And you taught me more than I have learned... no one talks about postpartum!
This is great!!! Haha love that you tried them on for us!!! I am 33 weeks and 5 days with my first and starting to watch all the “what I need videos” for postpartum and this was by far the best!!!
Those adult diapers are everything for the postpartum heavy bleeding! I felt comfortable in any position whether sitting, laying, etc. I loved this video and how honest you are. Most people don’t share this type of info which leaves new moms feeling embarrassed or alone with what’s going on. I’m pregnant with my 5th (and last!!!) baby so I was just looking for any new ideas. Good luck ❤️
Subscribed when you put the adult diaper on! 🙈😅🤣 I’m 32 weeks with my first so this video is really helpful!
I have 5 weeks left and I’m so scared omg 😭 you help a lot tho
I recently just started watching your videos, 38 weeks here and a first time mom. You are absolutely mom goals in my mind and wish I had found you sooner! Not to take away from your informative video but I must know what lipstick/stain you are wearing, love how you’re always so put together even with a toddler and a little one on the way. I hope I’m that put together as a first time mom. Thank you🤗
Thank you !!! Currently 6 months! All your videos have helped me so much and have calm me down
Love how frank and to the point you are haha I learnt so much in this video! :) xx
The diapers are awesome. I used them both times I miscarried and use them on my periods. I like them better then pads. I'm due with my first in February and will definitely use them diapers
Best of luck mama!!! Rainbow baby😍😍
I'm due with baby number 2 in January. I've got a postpartum basket in both my bathrooms! I'm so ready for this!! :)
Can you make something for the daddy's too .. so that they can be prepared as well... Love your videos..
That would be nice, I'd like my fiance to be prepared but have no idea how he should!
I love puns I bought my husband a dad joke book to read while in labor. Its help 😆
Had fun with this video, very educational, specially the fitting of the diaper part. 😄
Can’t thank you enough for your videos! It’s just like fool instructions of “what to do when you a first time mom”. I’m almost 33 weeks now and feel so much better and confident after your videos! Thank you so much! Wish you a millions of subscribers!! 🤰🏻💕
I’m almost due so thank you for sharing your postpartum essentials 🥰💗💗💗
MomLifewithKay same here and i started to be really scared...the thing that labor can start any moment and all that process and after that coming back home with a human being...OMG
MomLifewithKay can you do a quick video about how many diapers you used . How many you prefer too buy too last at least 2-3 months ? Also which diapers you prefer and what’s the best brand or diaper brand test .
I used the depends diapers with my first and I loved them a lot more than the mesh panties and pads!
Best video I have watched. You say everything we need without going over board.
My first baby is due next week so this video was super helpful! 🙌🏻
Alison Dick awww yay!! Good luck mama!!! ❤️❤️❤️
me too! due nov 15th
Same! I’m due the 16th!!
17th for me! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
I hope labor and delivery went well for you all if baby came already ❤️
THANK YOU! I'm due in 2 weeks and wanted to make sure I did everything right and had everything ready! I appreciate this ❤❤❤
I can't thank you enough for your videos, watching them has been a big help. I'm actually almost due now, any day, and I was worried about what was going to happen afterwards, and boy I didn't even think about the post-partum... Well, anything! It helps me not be as afraid, though I am still anxious about it.
Girl, THANK YOU! As a first time mom, I am trying to read and understand postpartum care so I can try the best I can to have a positive experience, but it is SO TABOO OUT THERE! Nobody talks about HOW TO USE STUFF, WHERE TO PUT THEM, and I mean, I am sick of it! I couldn't understand the witch hazel thing, because people say "use this for down there" in videos and I am like 'WTH??' JUST CALL IT LIKE IT IS! A VAGINA! I am so frustrated that I could not find ONE single video that would tell me all the TMI's until I found you, so THANK YOU! THANK YOU for talking about the first poop, about the numbing spray and actually showing me how to do it! You rock!
I am 18 weeks and terrified of the butt hurt part... I feel so much more prepared now... Thanks for your honesty...
I am so thankful for these video 😭 you’re preparing this mama to be so well! Thank you!!
only 14 weeks into our 1st pregnancy but i am making lists of all of your recommendations for labour and postpartum care ! I find they've been the most honesty amongst many videos i've watched where vloggers are trying to sell you on their endorsements.
Thank you for how honest you are!
4 more months to go for me😲
I feel a little more prepared after this video lol
Thank you 💕
I'm nowhere near of getting pregnant, let alone giving birth, I don't know how I ended up here hahaha but you're really nice and friendly. Good luck with that second baby haha I can't believe I watched this video and I liked it.
Same here and I've been watching her videos since baby no 1
So awesome of you to try on the adult pants and nursing bra for us to get a visual idea! Thank you.
I've started watching all of your videos lately and you never fail to make me laugh! Can't wait for the arrival of baby #2!!
So happy I found your channel! I'm 9 weeks 4 days pregnant 😊
Amanda welcome lady! Wishing you an awesome pregnancy! ❤️❤️
Amanda welcome lady! Wishing you an awesome pregnancy! ❤️❤️
@@KaylaBuell thank you! 💕
Loved the adult diapers after my first baby and actually would put a pad in them so I just had that little bit of extra protection and if I wanted to could change just the pad and not waste the whole diaper if it was still clean.
The Wyler Life that’s what I’m doing!!!
Omg I laughed so much at ur comments and that laugh is to prevent me from crying 😭 ... oh GOD i am almost due and had no idea thing could get that bad and here I thought let’s get over the labor 😩
its not embarrassing at all!! all moms in the whole world are super heroes you shouldn't be embarrassed of what you went through 💜💜💜💜
I had my daughter 8/4 and I used the adult diapers and LOVED them. I will make sure to have them on hand if I ever have another baby. It was a game changer for me
Kayla, you made a great choice with the Always diapers lol☺️ I gave birth in May 2019 and they gave me peace of mind! I also used the Earth Mama Pernial Spary since you talked about it. Your videos are so great I swear!
33+1 and I'm so happy you posted this, I still have some time left but planning to get my post partum essentials ready and my hospital bag!
Hi Kayla, I’m too 33 weeks pregnant and your video help me a lot.
Kayla, just want to say you are an amazing woman!! I love your videos that show life as a woman is very real. Periods, post partum bleeding, vaginas & pooping used to be a "dirty secret" that wasn't talked about. You have shown us women that we can & should start a conversation with other women on being female. Thank you for sharing the wonderful, mysterious and joyful side of being a girl.
Hey, just want to tell you that you are super sweet and super relatable when you talk. I loved how forthcoming and honest you were while giving the glimpse of how those diapers would look. I wasn’t really sure if I wanted to buy those but thanks a lot for clearing my mind. Have a happy motherhood and don’t worry even if some douchebag clicks ur photo and puts it on the net they won’t be able to derive any satisfaction out of it. All the best!!
Thank you for making this video! I am 24 weeks with my first, and I so appreciate these TMI videos! 🙏 thank you thank you!
I’m due with number 2 in the end of April and have been watching SOOO many birth/postpartum videos (I did the same when pregnant with my son) and OMG I don’t know how I never thought to try adult diapers lol, I’m so stocking up before little miss is here!!
I had my baby on 10/22 the adult diapers were amazing. It just made me feel way more secure. And I'm gonna try those nursing bras
You just gained a new follower I love your personality and honesty! It's refreshing
Thanks for sharing this video definitely will be getting some of these items for my postpartum kit.
Natural Nasheka anytime! Thanks for watching 💕💕
sooo helpful. had no idea about a lot of this stuff. 15 weeks prego!
Thank you SO MUCH for making these videos. You seriously have helped me so much getting ready for our first due here in April. I feel so much more prepared thanks to you! 💜💜
I used the always adult diapers and they helped a lot
Thank you so much for this! I'm 32 weeks pregnant with my first and I love how straight forward you are
You forgot Ice packs for over the pads I loved those things!
k1026143 LoL I’m glad they worked for you! I got a legit brain freeze on my vagina when I used them so I’ll pass on those 😂
Not pregnant right now, but this is such a helpful video! Thanks for being real, Kayla :) I have a 3 year old son (so I have oh-so-fond memories of post-partum, lol). I had a vaginal birth with epidural. I also had to get an episiotomy (sp?) because my little man was sunny-side up in my birth canal and I couldn't push him past my pubic bone. Tried for about 2 hours and the epidural was wearing off. I felt A LOT at the end of delivery. Can't wait to hear about your little guy's arrival in December! Gives me baby fever! I hope to get pregnant with my 2nd in 2020 sometime. Still trying to convince hubby :)
May sound weird but I highly suggest getting pads as well to put into the diaper.. if not you will have to constantly be removing your pants and the diaper to replace it :)
I'm due at the start of June. Your videos are great for helping me somewhat prepare myself for the upcoming time
The bras are honestly the best!! I’m due in a few weeks and they’re comfortable while being pregnant!! Also really appreciate this video right now before baby comes. Thank you 😄
I’ll be getting induced in about 20 days and I’m scared,anxious and every other feeling you can feel with my first baby, I added some of those items to my list very helpful thank you 🙏🏽
You got this. Truthfully delivery was not that bad. I never took stool softeners, pain killers, used tucks, or used sitz bath 🤷♀️. The poop wasn't a big deal. I didn't know it was going to could be a big deal until I was leaving the hospital and the doctor asked me. The worst thing dealing with was the first 6 weeks at home was the sleepless nights.
I'm 25 weeks along with our first! This video is so helpful!! Gracias!
I'm due in one month and thank you for sharing what to prep for postpartum. >v
thank you so much for your honesty and the detailed explanations! im due April 2020 with my first so I have no idea what im in for... like even you mentioning how the nursing bra unclips was new to me lol i was like “ohh so simple”. im definitely gonna buy that set of bras thru your link soon! i want you to get whatever commission comes from it bc your videos are so helpful!
I'm due with my second in April and a tip I'm giving a go is bathing your lady parts in an orange pokeo tea bath. Its suppose to help soothe and bring down swelling so much so I'm giving it a go.
Didnt know you couldn't wipe after for awhile so thank you ive got 3 months left cant wait to get him out
Im sure you can but if you get stitches thats when you cannot. I would ask your ob to make sure
I love your video and how helpful it was! Im due probably two weeks before u are! Im trying not to think about the postpartum recovery fears and the birth too... but this was a perfect list for me to be prepared or confirm that I have the right stuff available!! Im definitely going to follow ur advice for the adult diapers ... the thought of them itself is making me feel at ease about not worrying of leaking or moving pads! ❤️i hope ur delivery is smoooother than the previous one 😘lots of love and mamma energy!
A friend of mine, who gave birth to her 3rd baby a few months before I gave birth to my first, gave me some of her extra adult diapers and said try them and if you like just get some more. I was SO THANKFUL to have those, specially that first week, they feel like normal large underwear without having to worry about the pad moving around.
thanks very detail and informative and great demos . Happy Life with the babies :)
Your literally the cutest!
24+4 and labor is starting to loom in my mind. I’m terrified 😬 thanks for these tips!
kaiiids815 anytime lady! Good luck! I’m 34+3 today and starting to really freak out lol 😂 🙈
My daughter is 19 months old. When I had her I used the dermoplast, and I liked it at first until I started noticing I was getting extremely itchy and then my husband looked for me, and there were hives all over my downstairs. I’m not currently pregnant, but I am trying for baby number 2, and I’m so glad you shared a different option for the dermoplast! I’ll save it on amazon just so I can get it next time round.
The always discreet are a complete game changer!!! I recommend them to ANYONE that is pregnant!! They really absorb so much more blood and other stuff lol and they definitely feel more secure and comfortable than the mesh and giant pads!!
Omg
Now im scared!! Loved this videos why nobody talks about it making it all about the baby when mom also needs to be taken care of
Loved how practical this video is!thank you❤️
I am 35 weeks trying to get anything I can get my hands on that might help!! This was so helpful!!! THANK YOU!!
It is super helpful, thank you!!!
If you’re wanting to use pads instead of adult diapers try this Gonna sound weird but hear me out. When I was in marching band at 14/15yo my mom still wouldn’t let me use tampons but the pads were ALWAYS moving and I was a heavy bleeder... double up on your underwear. Idk how it works but it does. It helps hold everything in place
I’m using the always discreet diapers now. Best thing ever!!
Thanks!! Very helpful! First time mom (March 2020)!!!!
I love your honesty and I live this channel 💗💗
Thanks for all your tips and your honesty
Everything you mentioned in this video is SOOO true!!! I remember telling my nurse like WTH why is butt hurting so much??? Like I had no idea that was normal 🥴🥴 and it was really painful like you said.
I used the Always discreet diapers and I LOVED THEM!!! They’re super comfortable and “cute” compared to the ones you get from the hospital 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Best of luck with this 2nd childbirth and postpartum recovery!
I would also recommend getting Chamomile & Anise tea. It helped me SO MUCH with gas 😣 gas + butt pain = no bueno
The tea was a life saver! 🙌🏻
I HIGHLY recommend kotex pads for postpartum not maternity ones, i don't know if you can get them where you live, they are really cheap here in the UK. they are so soft and they are quilted and the the blood doesn't sit on the surface like it does with the vast majority of pads aimed at postpartum. I had 67 stitches so a small snip sounds like bliss LOL! get black cheap big pants and black nightshirts rather than pj's so when you are examined it makes it easier, also you don't want the seam of the trousers sticking up your lady garden after childbirth lol! you can get black paper pants but they are aimed at bladder weakness so wear a pad with them x
The brand for the black bladder weakness pads are made by Tena.
I'm 27 weeks tomorrow with my first. Thank you for this video! I have no idea what I'm doing lol when do you reccomend getting these items? Like, same time we get hospital bag things?
Love love love these videos and Kayla!!❤❤
25 weeks first time mom. Thank you so much. New sub!
Sameee was in so much pain for weeks with my first and bleeding is no joke. Going to be so much more prepared for it this time.
Granny pants all the way after birth 👏🤣🤣
lemeseomar whoop whoop 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️
Great video can’t wait to see your baby #2 thanks for sharing ❤️
I'm 2 weeks PP with my 1st and I still wanna educate myself.. I'm goin to look into the nursing bras tho!!! :)
Congratulations 🥰
Always discreet boutique are awesome and the mom washer is nice. Definitely take them to the hospital. Also Advil (the name brand liquid gels) really helped with pain. The other medication you mentioned did not help me with pain. I also used period panties with a regular pad once my bleeding got lighter for when I went to bed.
Thank God UA-cam recommended this video! Haha I needed to know these things!
This is soooo helpful ❤️❤️❤️ thank you 🙏
Oh heck yes to the always discreet 🙌🏻😂 they were a lifesaver after giving birth, I felt totally safe at night leakage wise and holding my pee after a vaginal delivery was...tough so I was very grateful for them for multiple reasons 😂😂😂
CatsCatsCats lmao girl I’m about to start using them right now bc I swear I’m gunna have an accident one of these days! Baby boy is legit dancing in my bladder 😂😂
Yes I used the adult diapers LOL. They were so useful. I didn't have to worry about pads shifting in my underwear or anything and it was just less layers to worry about and it seemed more convenient. I also used the mesh underwears with pads for a while and liked the diapers better. I would look at my little and be like "girl we match! diaper twins!" haha just make the best of it
I love those bras used them last time and bought them again.
k1026143 so happy to hear that! A bunch of people told me they’re great!
It's really weird to me that bidets aren't a thing everywhere and you would need to buy something like a Soothic Sitz Bath ^^'
Patricia A I’m getting the Toto washlet for the postpartum for sure
im also due with baby boy in december and i have the same adult diapers for recovery... I had a miscarriage last year and it was the only thing i felt comfortable in after trying all the different pads and leaking everywhere. Plus they are just easier, no separate pieces to deal with and you just throw the whole thing away when your done.
I’ll be 33 weeks on Wednesday so this video helped so much❤️
I am due December 30th and this is so helpful!!!
This was super helpful!!! Thank you! Due in March with my first. So clueless and terrified, so this was very useful. Thumbs up on adult diapers, seems like ba no brainier honestly. I considered doing that myself.
I love your accent 😩😍