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You are like the big sister of the internet. Thank you for being so brutally honest, funny, and lovely all in one whimsical and beautiful package. So happy to see how well you're doing xx
@jt2284. Well said. I watch some great UA-camrs, and as fabulous as Caroline’s design, declutterring, etc. advice is, I watch her for so much more. Her attitude and personality are a breath of fresh air for me. I never tire of her humour, honesty and personal sharing, it has such a positive impact on me. Life’s not perfect, and Caroline keeps it real and down to earth, while inspiring us to feel that not being perfect is totally okay. She’s definitely up there with my all time favourites, and I hope she continues to delight us until she’s old and grey.
you mentioning the Italian convent hotel immediately after your grandmas house was like joining dots in my brain about your apartment. I totally see that in your style.
Hi Caroline you are so wonderful. Give yourself a break girl you are so valuable. And you are so authentic. You're like me you appreciate so many things. It's okay to cry I'm a cryer too. Y0U ROCK SISTER✨✨✨🌹🌹 @Caroline_Winkler😮 @@Caroline_Winkler
Your vulnerability today in your vlog is allowing me to share this: I'm a mature woman, and I'm clinically depressed. Not looking for empathy, merely stating a fact. I'm walking through oatmeal these days and glimmers of positivity and light are few and far between. Your vids, dear Ms. Winkler are one of those rare gleams of illumination. Your upbeat, quirky personality, packaged together with intelligence, interesting themes, and hilarious references and anecdotes, presented in a beautiful, classy, articulate girl, gives me a brief respite from this cold, dull world. I'm grateful and appreciative of that elegant, cheery facade 😇 I wish you nothing but warmth and light, (and dark wood), high spirits and peace. You're very deserving, and you too, are powerful! *Much respect, young lady.* Don't EVER let yourself think you aren't out here, making a difference! "Sometimes I just cry. Sometimes I don't cry for a long time, and then sometimes I do." ✌️♥️🇨🇦
I wish I could give you a big hug and try to make you laugh. It sounds like you could really use it, and I’m sorry to hear you’re in that time right now 😔 “walking through oatmeal” is such an evocative image that really resonates. The other side of this is out there waiting for you. Connect with a friend. Hang in there ❤ thank you for these kind words
It's so fun to see Caroline's edits because she leaves in all these lil kooky speeches and stuff, and it's what makes me just love her. Also shout-out to Luke's handstand, it was a thing of beauty😂
You know what I love about this video (I'm at minute 9), is that all those guides and the concept of a north star can be so easily applied to other aspects of life. Clothing style, weekend plans, which friends to hang out with, what hobbies to spend time and money on, what creators to follow, which side hustle to focus on. That's maybe why my whole life looks like it was designed by a panicked squirrel and why none of the pieces fit together.
Style thoughts by Rita here on youtube has a fantastic system for finding your clothing style north star and your deepest motivations, I cannot recommend it enough! It boils down to two scales that cross in the middle so you get four basic quadrants: one scale is up (outer world) to down (inner world), and the other is left (self) to right (situation/others). It's a small channel but she's so empathic and understanding of different needs that I think a lot of people that haven't found her yet would really benefit from the guidance.
@@Caroline_Winkler look at what the moon was doing at the time - 'e'motion .... 'energy' in 'motion' it's just moving through you - better out than in !
You’re easily one of the best things about UA-cam. Inspiring, great advice and genuine. And we haven’t even gotten to the interior design part yet. Essentially, thank you for being.
Caroline, when you said you have been crying a lot it made me want to give you a big hug. So, here it it--a big hug from Ukraine)) I love your videos, your ideas, your sense of humor, your life wisdom, your sweet relationship with your brother! You are an inspiration to me, girl!
you guys are the best. i am happy to report that it was just a hard month or so, but i am already feeling so much better. (therapy helped!! also exercising, and just knowing the feelings come and go). thanks for all the love in these comments
After going through your Pinterest board I realized that I just never want to be far from some depiction of nature. Botanicals, fruits, animals, insects, whatever, I just never want to not see one of those things. My eyes just drifted towards those things only. I'm also pro-durability because I don't want to be tiptoeing around my life over precious fragile things. It's why I use cast iron over non-stick coated pans. And coziness is of utmost importance because I'm a sensitive person and home needs to serve the function of lowering my stress levels. I like traditional furniture shapes, nothing super modern or blobby. So... Natural Traditional Durable Cozy? And Artistic, of course, because art is vital. It makes sense why I love watching you for inspiration!
Oh Caroline, thank you. Its 5.30am in Melbourne, I lost a friend over the weekend and last night my Dad went into ICU. I'm about to fly interstate to see him. I woke up and thought, 'I want to go to a happy place before I have to start feeling all the feelings, I really hope theres a new Caroline Winkler video', and here you are. A new one on my favourite topic with a sneak peek of Luke's place. Can't wait to see that evolve. I hope you're hydrated and have processed all those tears and emotions and feeling better. You're the best. xx
So sorry to hear about your loss and your dad's condition. I hope you've had some time to be mindful and enjoy something small but significant. I hope your dad is doing better. xLouise in Sydney.
Caroline that analogy regarding never experimenting with any ,make up, hairstyles,clothing choices til your wedding day to just stone cold decorating your forever home" was brilliant!! ❤
It is always so incredibly heartwarming to see you and your brother bouncing y'alls goofy energy off of each other while also both being so beyond talented at what you do professionally #siblinggoals
@@Caroline_Winkler This video has convinced me that Caroline and all of her siblings need to have a interior design show together! Caroline would come up with the design vision, Luke does the construction and woodworking, your kid sister makes some custom art, all while Elizabeth is sarcastically criticizing everything from the sidelines!
Holy crap this is the most helpful “find your design style” video I’ve seen. Thanks for the tools and actual helpful and actionable tips. Begging you to launch a website that incorporates all of this and especially design tinder!
Aww I’m so glad to hear that! I find this is the system I just naturally use, and I was hoping it would translate for others. So soooo glad it was helpful!
I dabble in diy/home design as a hobby. I knew about the “North Star” but appreciate you talking about how exactly to do it! Btw I would LOVE to see a series of room makeovers of Luke’s house!
aw im so glad! i learned that term from Emily May - she's a great designer based in Kentucky, if you want to check her out. I used to design some of her remote projects for her boutique firm. She's brilliant. @hausbyemilymay and i would love to do a video making over luke's room! im hoping to get to it this fall!
I would just add one other thing…..don’t buy brand new furniture, especially trendy stuff from [insert brand name here]. Buy stuff off of Marketplace, thrift stores, or yard sales. Or even the throw-away stuff left over from a yard sale. My house doesn’t look like anyone else’s house. I can’t think of one brand new piece of furniture in my house. Virtually everything came from one of the places I mentioned and everyone who walks inside our home comments on how beautiful it is. And if I decide I don’t like something, I give it to a friend, donate it, or sell it on Marketplace. Even at a “financial loss,” I don’t feel bad about it because I am not going to spend the next 6 months finishing paying for it. Sending you love and hugs. (Say the word and I’ll come beat someone up for you, even if it’s just a tongue lashing.)❤️🩹♥️
The funny thing with this video is that I'm not really interested in the topic (cause I think I already have a style) but in you Caroline. I really love your entertaining way of teaching/showing us things. I even showed your videos to my boyfriend, who has definitely no interest in cleaning and fixing the chaos but now loves your videos too!! :)
From this (minimal and monochromatic) to that (rich colors, fabrics, and layering) are all dependent on the seasons. I’m in Summer now. I even took the curtains and rods down. Roll up the rugs, take art off the wall. MINIMAL! I need to feel like I can breathe in the heat. In the winter, I’m all about the cozy vibes. !
Which is also such important nuance that is currently lacking. We want to really pin down our style and it has to be "us" in a permanent neverchanging way which puts a lot of pressure on our purchases and keeps us from buying stuff that gives us joy because "we won't like it every day". But houses like our wardrobes can change with seasons. I want all the sun and breeziness in summer, and all the halloween and christmas decor in the ber months and all the flowers in spring. It's good to have a seasonal box you can get out and fall in love with again! Variety is fun❤️
Caroline, I've been in my first home for 3 years now, and I'm a mom of 2 under 4. I haven't decorated ✨ anything ✨ yet but I've been watching your videos for a year now and THANK GOD I did because now I know that when I'll finally have the time and energy to decorate, I won't just do what's trendy, popular or on my 15 year old Pinterest boards. Thank you for all your ideas, insight, tips and opinions. Love you 🥹
ah man you have your hands full! life is long, you got time. and im glad you're feeling motivated and inspired in the meantime! thank you for such a kind comment!
Start by decorating one of your children's rooms. If you haven't already done so, don't miss out on the fun and joy of decorating your own child's room. They'll delight in whatever you do, there are no rules other than safety first, and you can let your creativity and imagination run wild! The biggest challenge will be the time it takes to paint the walls and air the room out, so set up a "fun" temporary bed for your child in another room. Ask your partner or a creative friend to help you paint over a weekend to minimise time and upheaval, while someone else helps out with the kids. You could even just paint or wallpaper one feature wall. The rest of the decor eg. soft furnishings, pictures etc can be added little by little as time and budget allows. Being a Mom of small children is exhausting I know, but being in the creative headspace of planning it will inspire you even though it will require some time and energy to complete it. Have fun with it!
Caroline! It was so nice to hear the stories about why you like the decor you like. The story about staying in an Italian convent made me see your design taste in a whole new light! So sweet of you to share something so personal-that’s not lost on me, I truly appreciate your heart! ❤
It’s really awesome the way you tackled the “language” barrier, because to non-professionals, outside of the known vernacular, they have a very specific image in their heads that they can’t always elucidate despite them knowing what they are talking about - taking the time to decipher what styles your brother was talking about really helped nail those ideas, and that’s a beautiful thing.
I love the way you do your videos. I know this is a bit dramatic, but I get teary eyed at the end of all of your videos. You're so genuine and I appreciate so much that you're vulnerable and you expect people to be people. Nothing more, nothing less. You're easily my favorite creator on this platform. Every time I feel stuck on something in my home, I think of you. I feel incredibly grateful to be alive at the same time you are! 💕
Man that is amazing to read. I almost took the end out of this video bc it felt so random and disconnected to the rest of the video, but for some reason I wanted to leave it in. I’m glad that felt correct to you viewing. Thank you for leaving such an encouraging comment, I’m glad you like the videos!
@@Caroline_Winkler I'm always glad you leave in your genuine human moments, whether they are goofy or just straight going through it a bit. They are so relatable and are the biggest reason I watch your channel. Love your content, but most of all, love how real you are. It's so rare to see people on this platform leave in these kinds of moments.
I found your channel about a month ago with the "getting your life together in an hour" vid and then the "clean up your house or I'll spank you" and loved your stuff so much. I *do not* watch cleaning or vlog type stuff but man I had to comment and say, not only have I binged almost all of your vids from the last 2 years but something about them has got me off my ass and I've done more cleaning, organizing, and decorating than I have in my entire life over the last few weeks! Very particular story is when you mentioned living in college and having to de clutter because you felt like you were drowning in it. I swear I felt that so hard that I immediately went into my kitchen and just got rid of everything that was unnecessary, it was a problematic area for me and afterwards I was like okay let's do this thing and proceeded to put your stuff on in the background and start working on my entire apt. Thank you for being inspiring and funny and beautiful but modest. You're awesome and I'm being really truthful when I say you've literally changed my life. Love ya! ❤
Literally loled at your transition to the video sponsor - they definitely got their money's worth! Hoping for more content on Luke's renovation & decorating process.
Re the crying. So good to hear other women have done this. Such a release tho, once I figured it out I scheduled just the right film experience to let the flow begin. ❤
Currently going through something heavy and the “not going to wear a dress or do my hair ‘til my wedding” analogy works in more ways than you think. Thank you ❤
Thank you for your advice and guidance and efforts you put into these videos. Thank you for your vulnerability and not shying away from real things. Thank you for the laughs. Hope you have a peaceful week. 🌻
Thanks for being so open about your own vulnerability. We allh see a finished product and think" wow, she does it so effortlessly" which clearly isn't the case.
when i went back to check this, imagine my shock this was only posted 3 weeks ago. it feels like such a timelessly helpful resource and I'm glad I decided to look into video guides last night. this is my first video of yours, and i was surprised and delighted by how accessible you made it with the terms list + examples + even the pinterest board (absolutely amazing!). the methodology was so patiently put out. i definitely agree i was extremely roadblocked by the algorithim giving me similar things, but thanks to you even explaining your process with your brother (listening to the comments he would make about it about why he liked and didn't like it), i realized i had a lot more opinions about what i liked and didn't and needed without realizing it. the "you can use words not related to the stype, or you can even make it a phrase" thing rly helped click it all together thank you for putting this out there! i get the feeling i'll be inspired for more, so definitely subscribing
Oh, Caroline. First, I am sorry to hear that you have been crying because I don't like to see anyone be sad. On the other hand, crying is really good for you to get out those emotions that need to go away. When this video first popped up and I saw fourteen days free and twenty five off the first month, I got very excited, because I thought you were doing a design consultation business where you would do whatever and people would pay to be in that group. Then I found out it was for working out, which is also very good, but not as fun as designing. So in the future, if you have time and think you can do a design group like that, I would love it. I love your videos. I hope you can stop crying soon (when you are ready) and feel good for a while.
Hanging around your channel for a bit... One of my favorite things about you is that you don't discriminate over any style. You don't say one things is better than the other. You always focus on how personal a living space is for each person, and you make methods that help people understand how to find those things for themselves. Lastly, you always are so goofy and free-spirited. I saw another commenter say "kooky" and I couldn't' agree more. I love hearing you chatterbox your ideas!
I love the practice of "Design Tinder"! And using adjectives instead of defined styles is so smart, especially for beginners or those less familiar with interior design styles. One thing I had to learn when I worked with a designer almost 20 years ago was to make sure you're picking images where you like the actual elements and not just how clean and tidy the space looks! Aesthetically in a magazine or on a screen, I love the look of a spare, minimalist space, but in my 3D home, I want slightly messy bookshelves and chairs that are more comfortable than polished. But once I looked at enough images to hone down to the styles of things, the colors, the spatial arrangements, etc that I liked, it was easier to define what my specific likes were (instead of just picking all the spaces that looked the most clean and organized). Your space shows your skill at mixing different styles effectively, and this video does an excellent job of explaining how to do that well. Awesome job!
An absolute treasure is what you are. Your youtube super power, besides being the cutest, funniest thing ever, is that you consistently give us realistic, practical, actionable paths forward and pair it with inspiring imagery and ideas all whilst removing all the pressure from the process. You’re so right about those darn algorithms! I get why they design them the way they do, but darn it, there should be a “SURPRISE ME!!” mode.
Thank you for all the hard work you put into not just this video but the resources !! Also, that sponsorship transition, flawless! Seriously. You are incredible content creator, thank you
I am moving cross country in October, and I am so excited to plan my new space. Thank you for the planning ideas. Currently my style is cozy clutter core ikea. But I love the durable furniture. I have two kids so durable is important! Also thank you for being vulnerable. It’s nice to see real people being real.
"Sometimes I don't cry for a long time and then I do." Caroline, I relate to this statement so much. (you look lovely as always) Luke's new home is awesome. Can't wait to see how it will turn out in time. Be well xx
I started to collect things I loved as soon as I moved out of my childhood home. My stuff never really felt like it belonged in any of my rental apartments, but when (after about 10 years) my husband and I bought our very own house, all the random things I had collected fit right in. To me they looked like they had always been there and had been designed specifically for that space. ❤ It was such a great feeling and a perfect affirmation that both the house and all our seemingly random pieces were the right choice.
I’m usually disappointed by videos on how to find your personal design style, because there just isn’t enough detailed information on how to narrow it down. This one really helped me! I was finally able to nail down an aesthetic that I love and filter out all the inspiration I’ve used in the past that fell flat for me when executed. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
I hardly comment on UA-cam videos but I’m commenting on this one because it was incredibly helpful! Thank you for this even though it was difficult for you to film, we’re grateful for all the work you do to help make our homes more joyous *sending hugs*
It really spoke to me what you said about experimenting and collecting before my forever. I think this will finally unblock me from decorating the flat I'm renting so thank you
I constantly imagine meeting someone with your humor, intelligence, and love of life for my close friend. You have so many facets to your personality that you resemble a diamond when exposed to a bright light... priceless!
Just came back from a cross-country trip for a funeral that literally broke me. I think I slept 9 hours over the span of 4 days. I am dehydrated, cried-out, exhausted, and heartbroken but I thank you for this video as it was a fun watch (I love seeing a Luke appearance!) and the bit about crying was so real. xo
I love your videos so much. You sound exactly like a friend of mine that I miss, and your sense of humor is exactly like mine…but you’re cooler than me and kind of exactly who I want to be! You’re my new fave. Please never stop making content.
Woman, your vulnerability on this, and in general… I am so here for. I have been watching your videos for about a year or maybe more. I love watching your videos so much because, the way you talk, I get so wrapped up hearing and feeling what you say. The way that you design and teach others tips based on not just what’s cute or in style but also relate how to make things functional for how our individual brains work makes things make sense and become more intentional. Little shit like having drop zones, having dynamic heights and layering, not putting too much onto one wall, the list goes on what I’ve learned from you. Thank you for doing what you do. It’s fucking awesome and very inspiring.
How awesome awesome awesome it was to find this video and you just confirmed that my final decision on my own design style is just perfectly ok. I struggled for years to make choices just because I couldn't decide what my favourite style is. I liked a big variety of different things and then... AND THEN... I finally realised not being able to choose because of a non-existent-style-identity... I'm missing out on a lot of stuff because I never make choices. And I ain't getting younger... I finally settled on the idea of just buying whatever I like and love in the moment and being a combo-variety-style type of person. So right now I have modern vibes stuff. I have vintage stuff. I have light stuff, I have dark stuff, I have rustic stuff. I have farmstyle stuff. I have beach home vibes. Dark leather vibes. I have minimalistic lines. I have detailed lines. I have plain stuff. I have decorative stuff. I have EVERYTHING. And somehow... it works. My ultimate style name is... René-style!
Hi Caroline, Love your authenticity! Can’t get enough of your videos. Could you please do a video on how to implement your chosen colour palette? So you don’t saturate your space in the wrong colour, how to pick the dominate colours vs smaller accent pieces. Thanks!
I don’t personally feel the need to nail down my style because I don’t need to explain it to anyone I’m just living here, but this was actually so helpful for trying to explain the process to a friend who has never cared about “design” but just bought his first house and asked how I make it look nice. Totally going to go through the process with him using your board, can’t wait! Thanks for the resource!!
Another good way to define your style is to start off with your no-nos - anything you‘d absolutely not want in your space. For me, that’s shiny surfaces, chrome, round mirrors, anything plastic, the color yellow, new furniture, dark colors, 70s. Which results against my will in some kind of a muted shabby-chic style but I try to control myself.
You are unrelentingly brilliant and deeply inspiring. And such a stunningly helpful video, gave me exactly what I needed and it was pure delight to watch- the way you infuse everything you do with your own personality and spirit is so special and a reminder for all of us to do the same. Thank you for being exactly who you are Caroline ❤
I friggin LOVE you! As an only child, I’ve always wanted siblings and I’d like to adopt you and your siblings! LOL. I think my sides would ache from all the laughter being around you all. You’re such a delightful person and bring joy to others through your honesty and vulnerability.
Your videos are a mixture of good style, humor and psychoanalysis- all very good things… Caroline-you are the real thing in every sense- both your style and talent and trueness… the fact that you share so much is both shocking (because no one else comes close to that level of vulnerable exposure) and makes me want to give you a hug and make sure you’re doing top notch self care! (Do aromatherapy, reach out to friends & your amazing family, get good sleep etc) You are a star burning bright Carolyn.. thank you for the help to others you’re so generously sharing… don’t overload yourself. remember if a moment day or week feels tough, it won’t be forever and you’ll feel good again… the downs are temporary … you are loved
This is a BRILLIANT way of thinking about design language! Thanks so much for all of the effort that went into the Pinterest board and descriptor list. Game changing!
I love your videos not just because of the content but because of all your positive energy. At times I wish I meet you in person and tell you how much of a difference your energy makes for me when I feel down just cause of nothing. You have such positive vibes which is helping ppl like me. So hang in there. You are an awesome person. This youtube is just an extension but YOU are awesome person.
OMG When I tell you I was 100% feeling you at the end when you said you had been crying and kept putting off making the video I, first of all, was super proud of you for following through but also your adorable way of describing the way you were feeling was so completely relatable and I think the relationship between you and your Brother is too cute I relate because I too have a Brother who I am super close with. I especially love the way you allow him to be himself and give him the freedom to decide for himself what his style is!!! such a better Sister than me!!! I am so controlling and I 100% appreciate you are not !!!
Thank you for the great video. A thing I discovered is that on your pinterest page you have different styles but they have one thing in common: there is so much going on in these rooms. So much strong patterns, strong colors, contrasts and so much accessories. I can understand why you like it but it's the opposite of what I like and it helped me to understand this. I really like calm, straight and clean but comfy rooms. On the other side I don't want it to look boring and that's difficult. I think I'm getting closer in finding my style.
Caroline! I am so grateful for you. You are my favorite designer. You give me courage and insight. I have paused a room remodel because I just couldn't figure out where I was getting mentally stumped. I was reading through your list of design words and as "edited and classy" came into sight I had a eureka moment and said, "CALM! I WANT MY ROOM TO BE CALM!" Now, I know the direction I need to take. Thank you.
I really loved this one, Caroline! Design Tinder is so clever and practical in the age of everything "-core" and I can't wait to use it to set up my new place ☺
I love your videos! Your advice is so practical and your presentation style is so practical, down-to-earth and relatable. I love it! One thing I've never heard anyone talk about when talking about finding design style is allowing the architecture of the home (if prominent) to influence the decor. For example, I LOVE the airy pastels of Swedish farmhouse decor, but I live in an old Spanish Colonial in South America. Imposing Swedish farmhouse just wouldn't go, so I've learned a new way of decorating and it fits, because it blends well with my house. :) Just wanted to put that out there.
Ya! Thank you! Currently working through how to bring out my personal style in an architecturally boring, open concept, new build. There’s so much space, but no one’s lived in it before, and that indeed is a challenge!
Thank you Caroline for doing this. I owe you so much b/c after seeing and putting in practice much of your content I have to say my place is beginning to look like home. Kudos to your brother also. He is priceless. I can't wait to see both of you designing his place. Blessings! Abrazos! And grazie mille for the time you put into Pinterest for us.
Moving house soon and been looking for a singular ‘label’ for our style, the adjectives idea has been really useful and helped open up our design choices. A good reminder that, whilst cohesion is important in a space, it is equally important that the space represents your own personal tastes. Thanks!
In less than 5 minutes I was ROTF. your content never disappoint. I personally feel it's the "smack" in you that keep your videos on a high level. SMH on jumping around the living room, never saw that coming but hilarious to watch😂😂😂. The backdrop sitting at the table was beautiful 😍. Entire color palette was spot on. I had a gut feeling that was Luke's amazing craftsmanship. Stunning 💯. He is such a character.
I'm currently checking out your pinterest board because what you said about not knowing what you like if you hadn't been exposed to it yet made me want to get exposed to different styles. I have saved 12 pins and they're all cohesive but I don't like the overall style they show me, which is fine because I realized the board I already had is probably my timeless style I really do love and I don't need to branch out. I love your ideas and the board. At the same time I feel like your board, even if it is showing many different styles, is full of your own style in little ways. That also made me realize I hate wood for myself of any kind haha. Thank you again for the board and the video, I had a lot of fun!
This is such encouraging and excellent advice. As someone who feels rather clueless about implementing personal style and design in my spaces, I have come away with tangible ways to get started on this path of discovery. Thanks SO much!!!
You give the VERY BEST design advice!! Everyone should consult with you before doing a new space or re-doing an old space. I ve moving things around my home with excellent results. Haven’t spent a dime but things look new and interesting ❣️
Your brother is a wood worker, I'm not surprised be like Zen spaces. I was sanding my coffee table today and thinking about him, and also how Zen just sanding is. This is a great video and yes you can do stuff! Life is hard sometimes, frfr. The tip to think of spaces you've loved for a long time was so helpful. One of mine is a fancy high tea place called the Victoria Rooms, they had this blue velvet couch I loved so much I took a picture of it - 15 years ago! And just this week i finally got a blue velvet couch for my own home. I'm so happy. Getting that dark expensive vibe, dream come true
Honestly, all your tips/tricks/advices were the most useful I've ever seen on the internet. They are grounded on reality, and that's is so nice. Thank you for sharing yourself on the videos and for helping others find the answers we were looking for
You are amazing! I love your channel, your style, and your humor and comedic timing! You are so witty. When I watch your videos, I find myself smiling for the duration of the videos, AND I’m learning. Thank you!😊
Caroline, love, love, love!!! This is a great video that you have made! Thank you for overcoming your concerns over this and it is worth it! I love that wedding analogy and start experimenting now tip. I am slowly updating myself with your video releases as I was busy, and they are all quality ones as always! Big hug!!!
Thank you!! for the effort you've made putting this together, you are truly the internet's big sister 💞 I'm planning to move in with my partner again after 4 years of long distance and i have been bracing myself for the upcoming endless decor-related arguments. Now i'm actually SO EXCITED to use these tips and play design-tinder with him and find a style we both like and want to live in :))
Love your videos; these were really helpful tips. Also want to say, your brother has talent as well. Love the vase. Go ahead and cry, and know that we all do, and sometimes for no reason at all. It's just life. We don't judge our happy emotions, so why do we judge our sad ones so harshly? Nobody questions when I'm smiling or laughing. It could be I'm just covering up deep depression, but when I'm crying I'm honestly conveying an emotion.
So true. You made me think of the song; "Tears Of A Clown" since I will go about feeling deeply depressed and no one would notice, as I smile when engaging with a store clerk, the homeless Veteran in my neighborhood, petting pups; because life goes on, with or without us.😊
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Oh I came up with another name for your brother's room. 13:28 Earthy Bougie
Boho, modern,rustic-sporty wear😂😅😅 Can you design a room for that?
I’ve been using it for a while it’s great
Thank you for teaching us.
God bless you.
You are like the big sister of the internet. Thank you for being so brutally honest, funny, and lovely all in one whimsical and beautiful package. So happy to see how well you're doing xx
Wow, thank you!❤️
Her sister debated this 😂 Well that she’s already taken
@jt2284. Well said. I watch some great UA-camrs, and as fabulous as Caroline’s design, declutterring, etc. advice is, I watch her for so much more. Her attitude and personality are a breath of fresh air for me. I never tire of her humour, honesty and personal sharing, it has such a positive impact on me. Life’s not perfect, and Caroline keeps it real and down to earth, while inspiring us to feel that not being perfect is totally okay. She’s definitely up there with my all time favourites, and I hope she continues to delight us until she’s old and grey.
you mentioning the Italian convent hotel immediately after your grandmas house was like joining dots in my brain about your apartment. I totally see that in your style.
Aw im so glad! i realized i never really explained how they influenced my space, and i was wondering if that would be clear or not
I feel the same way! I could immediately see the connections between the beloved childhood spaces and the home you have curated for yourself!
@@Caroline_Winkler Yes! I remember seeing your first video and thought it looked like a cozy convent! It's worked.
Hi Caroline you are so wonderful. Give yourself a break girl you are so valuable. And you are so authentic. You're like me you appreciate so many things. It's okay to cry I'm a cryer too. Y0U ROCK SISTER✨✨✨🌹🌹 @Caroline_Winkler😮
@@Caroline_Winkler
Your vulnerability today in your vlog is allowing me to share this:
I'm a mature woman, and I'm clinically depressed. Not looking for empathy, merely stating a fact. I'm walking through oatmeal these days and glimmers of positivity and light are few and far between. Your vids, dear Ms. Winkler are one of those rare gleams of illumination.
Your upbeat, quirky personality, packaged together with intelligence, interesting themes, and hilarious references and anecdotes, presented in a beautiful, classy, articulate girl, gives me a brief respite from this cold, dull world.
I'm grateful and appreciative of that elegant, cheery facade 😇
I wish you nothing but warmth and light, (and dark wood), high spirits and peace.
You're very deserving, and you too, are powerful!
*Much respect, young lady.*
Don't EVER let yourself think you aren't out here, making a difference!
"Sometimes I just cry. Sometimes I don't cry for a long time, and then sometimes I do."
✌️♥️🇨🇦
🤗 beautifully said.
Wishing resilience as you tread through the oatmeal. Wishing you joyous sweet serenity and vitality.
💕 🌟
I need a cry regularly too, I watch emotional shows late at night from time to time and just cry.
I wish I could give you a big hug and try to make you laugh. It sounds like you could really use it, and I’m sorry to hear you’re in that time right now 😔 “walking through oatmeal” is such an evocative image that really resonates. The other side of this is out there waiting for you. Connect with a friend. Hang in there ❤ thank you for these kind words
I love you, Caroline, always have, but hmm, the one shoulder top is a bit distracting to the content of the video.
@@bonnieordonez7737 its not. if an exposed shoulder is distracting for you, see a therapist rather than blaming the woman.
It's so fun to see Caroline's edits because she leaves in all these lil kooky speeches and stuff, and it's what makes me just love her. Also shout-out to Luke's handstand, it was a thing of beauty😂
i really just ran out of steam editing and truly did not know what to do with that clip. so it remains in entirety haha
@@Caroline_Winkler Welp, keep doing it. I'm with @christinaavery7096...it's why we keep coming back and do so many re-watches.
You know what I love about this video (I'm at minute 9), is that all those guides and the concept of a north star can be so easily applied to other aspects of life. Clothing style, weekend plans, which friends to hang out with, what hobbies to spend time and money on, what creators to follow, which side hustle to focus on. That's maybe why my whole life looks like it was designed by a panicked squirrel and why none of the pieces fit together.
ugh, totally! i love the idea of a north star for weekend plans. i feel that way about trips esp - organizing your goals and intentions for that time
Panicked squirrel 😂😂 this perfectly describes my life too lol
Style thoughts by Rita here on youtube has a fantastic system for finding your clothing style north star and your deepest motivations, I cannot recommend it enough! It boils down to two scales that cross in the middle so you get four basic quadrants: one scale is up (outer world) to down (inner world), and the other is left (self) to right (situation/others). It's a small channel but she's so empathic and understanding of different needs that I think a lot of people that haven't found her yet would really benefit from the guidance.
Designed by a panicked squirrel 🤣🤣🤣
Trust me, you are not the only one!
Caroline, you literally make UA-cam a nicer and more enjoyable place! Lovely video! :)
the nicest feedback to hear. i am delighted :) and thank you
I agree wholeheartedly!
Couldn't agree more❤
The dehydration hangover from crying is so relatable, Caroline. Life's like that sometimes, but it will pass
You know exactly what things cheer me up :) happy to report that this week has been much better. All things pass❤
@@Caroline_Winkler look at what the moon was doing at the time - 'e'motion .... 'energy' in 'motion' it's just moving through you - better out than in !
“Sometimes I don’t cry for a long time, and then sometimes I do” - girl I am right there with you… ❤
You’re easily one of the best things about UA-cam. Inspiring, great advice and genuine. And we haven’t even gotten to the interior design part yet. Essentially, thank you for being.
Caroline, when you said you have been crying a lot it made me want to give you a big hug. So, here it it--a big hug from Ukraine)) I love your videos, your ideas, your sense of humor, your life wisdom, your sweet relationship with your brother! You are an inspiration to me, girl!
you guys are the best. i am happy to report that it was just a hard month or so, but i am already feeling so much better. (therapy helped!! also exercising, and just knowing the feelings come and go). thanks for all the love in these comments
biggest hug to you in Ukraine
Aww I wanna get in on the hug fest! Hugs from California 💞
Hugs to everyone from Finland! 🇫🇮
Hugs from the UK!!❤❤❤
After going through your Pinterest board I realized that I just never want to be far from some depiction of nature. Botanicals, fruits, animals, insects, whatever, I just never want to not see one of those things. My eyes just drifted towards those things only. I'm also pro-durability because I don't want to be tiptoeing around my life over precious fragile things. It's why I use cast iron over non-stick coated pans. And coziness is of utmost importance because I'm a sensitive person and home needs to serve the function of lowering my stress levels. I like traditional furniture shapes, nothing super modern or blobby. So... Natural Traditional Durable Cozy? And Artistic, of course, because art is vital. It makes sense why I love watching you for inspiration!
i love it can u pls have me over when it’s done 😭
Oh Caroline, thank you. Its 5.30am in Melbourne, I lost a friend over the weekend and last night my Dad went into ICU. I'm about to fly interstate to see him. I woke up and thought, 'I want to go to a happy place before I have to start feeling all the feelings, I really hope theres a new Caroline Winkler video', and here you are. A new one on my favourite topic with a sneak peek of Luke's place. Can't wait to see that evolve. I hope you're hydrated and have processed all those tears and emotions and feeling better. You're the best. xx
Sending much love and comforting energies. 💕 🕊 🌟
I wish you, your family and your friend’s family well at this time. ❤ Hello from the other side of Vic.
So sorry to hear about your loss and your dad's condition. I hope you've had some time to be mindful and enjoy something small but significant. I hope your dad is doing better. xLouise in Sydney.
Caroline that analogy regarding never experimenting with any ,make up, hairstyles,clothing choices til your wedding day to just stone cold decorating your forever home" was brilliant!! ❤
It is always so incredibly heartwarming to see you and your brother bouncing y'alls goofy energy off of each other while also both being so beyond talented at what you do professionally #siblinggoals
we've always been co-rascals :)
@@Caroline_Winkler The best way to be!
@@Caroline_Winkler This video has convinced me that Caroline and all of her siblings need to have a interior design show together! Caroline would come up with the design vision, Luke does the construction and woodworking, your kid sister makes some custom art, all while Elizabeth is sarcastically criticizing everything from the sidelines!
@@colinneagle4495 OMG!! That idea made me laugh out loud!!! That would be so awesome! I'd watch every single episode at least 5 times!!! 🤣🥰😈
@@colinneagle4495lol I was wondering what Elizabeth’s role would be 😄 I suspect that’s pretty much what their childhood home was like
Holy crap this is the most helpful “find your design style” video I’ve seen. Thanks for the tools and actual helpful and actionable tips. Begging you to launch a website that incorporates all of this and especially design tinder!
Aww I’m so glad to hear that! I find this is the system I just naturally use, and I was hoping it would translate for others. So soooo glad it was helpful!
I dabble in diy/home design as a hobby. I knew about the “North Star” but appreciate you talking about how exactly to do it! Btw I would LOVE to see a series of room makeovers of Luke’s house!
aw im so glad! i learned that term from Emily May - she's a great designer based in Kentucky, if you want to check her out. I used to design some of her remote projects for her boutique firm. She's brilliant. @hausbyemilymay
and i would love to do a video making over luke's room! im hoping to get to it this fall!
I second that. I’d love to see the progress in Luke’s house!
@@Caroline_Winkler thanks for the rec!
I would just add one other thing…..don’t buy brand new furniture, especially trendy stuff from [insert brand name here]. Buy stuff off of Marketplace, thrift stores, or yard sales. Or even the throw-away stuff left over from a yard sale. My house doesn’t look like anyone else’s house. I can’t think of one brand new piece of furniture in my house. Virtually everything came from one of the places I mentioned and everyone who walks inside our home comments on how beautiful it is. And if I decide I don’t like something, I give it to a friend, donate it, or sell it on Marketplace. Even at a “financial loss,” I don’t feel bad about it because I am not going to spend the next 6 months finishing paying for it. Sending you love and hugs. (Say the word and I’ll come beat someone up for you, even if it’s just a tongue lashing.)❤️🩹♥️
Love Luke's Ikebana tulip vase.❤
The funny thing with this video is that I'm not really interested in the topic (cause I think I already have a style) but in you Caroline. I really love your entertaining way of teaching/showing us things. I even showed your videos to my boyfriend, who has definitely no interest in cleaning and fixing the chaos but now loves your videos too!! :)
Incredibly sweet. Thank you :)
From this (minimal and monochromatic) to that (rich colors, fabrics, and layering) are all dependent on the seasons. I’m in Summer now. I even took the curtains and rods down. Roll up the rugs, take art off the wall. MINIMAL! I need to feel like I can breathe in the heat.
In the winter, I’m all about the cozy vibes.
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Which is also such important nuance that is currently lacking. We want to really pin down our style and it has to be "us" in a permanent neverchanging way which puts a lot of pressure on our purchases and keeps us from buying stuff that gives us joy because "we won't like it every day". But houses like our wardrobes can change with seasons. I want all the sun and breeziness in summer, and all the halloween and christmas decor in the ber months and all the flowers in spring. It's good to have a seasonal box you can get out and fall in love with again! Variety is fun❤️
Storms can screw up all out electrons around us and make us feel strange. Sorry you’ve been shedding tears…hope you are ok dear lady. ❤
Caroline, I've been in my first home for 3 years now, and I'm a mom of 2 under 4. I haven't decorated ✨ anything ✨ yet but I've been watching your videos for a year now and THANK GOD I did because now I know that when I'll finally have the time and energy to decorate, I won't just do what's trendy, popular or on my 15 year old Pinterest boards. Thank you for all your ideas, insight, tips and opinions. Love you 🥹
ah man you have your hands full! life is long, you got time. and im glad you're feeling motivated and inspired in the meantime! thank you for such a kind comment!
Start by decorating one of your children's rooms. If you haven't already done so, don't miss out on the fun and joy of decorating your own child's room. They'll delight in whatever you do, there are no rules other than safety first, and you can let your creativity and imagination run wild! The biggest challenge will be the time it takes to paint the walls and air the room out, so set up a "fun" temporary bed for your child in another room. Ask your partner or a creative friend to help you paint over a weekend to minimise time and upheaval, while someone else helps out with the kids. You could even just paint or wallpaper one feature wall. The rest of the decor eg. soft furnishings, pictures etc can be added little by little as time and budget allows. Being a Mom of small children is exhausting I know, but being in the creative headspace of planning it will inspire you even though it will require some time and energy to complete it. Have fun with it!
The only you tuber who makes any ‘sponsorship’ section amusing & worth watching! 😂 x
agreed! only ones worth watching imo
Yes! All the other UA-camrs’ sponsorship i skip fast forward! Only Caroline’s do I look forward to 😂
Caroline! It was so nice to hear the stories about why you like the decor you like. The story about staying in an Italian convent made me see your design taste in a whole new light! So sweet of you to share something so personal-that’s not lost on me, I truly appreciate your heart! ❤
Luke’s got good taste! Also, stay well Caroline. You’re many people’s virtual BFF. We love you.
It’s really awesome the way you tackled the “language” barrier, because to non-professionals, outside of the known vernacular, they have a very specific image in their heads that they can’t always elucidate despite them knowing what they are talking about - taking the time to decipher what styles your brother was talking about really helped nail those ideas, and that’s a beautiful thing.
I love the way you do your videos. I know this is a bit dramatic, but I get teary eyed at the end of all of your videos. You're so genuine and I appreciate so much that you're vulnerable and you expect people to be people. Nothing more, nothing less. You're easily my favorite creator on this platform. Every time I feel stuck on something in my home, I think of you. I feel incredibly grateful to be alive at the same time you are! 💕
Man that is amazing to read. I almost took the end out of this video bc it felt so random and disconnected to the rest of the video, but for some reason I wanted to leave it in. I’m glad that felt correct to you viewing. Thank you for leaving such an encouraging comment, I’m glad you like the videos!
@@Caroline_Winkler I'm always glad you leave in your genuine human moments, whether they are goofy or just straight going through it a bit. They are so relatable and are the biggest reason I watch your channel. Love your content, but most of all, love how real you are. It's so rare to see people on this platform leave in these kinds of moments.
I found your channel about a month ago with the "getting your life together in an hour" vid and then the "clean up your house or I'll spank you" and loved your stuff so much. I *do not* watch cleaning or vlog type stuff but man I had to comment and say, not only have I binged almost all of your vids from the last 2 years but something about them has got me off my ass and I've done more cleaning, organizing, and decorating than I have in my entire life over the last few weeks! Very particular story is when you mentioned living in college and having to de clutter because you felt like you were drowning in it. I swear I felt that so hard that I immediately went into my kitchen and just got rid of everything that was unnecessary, it was a problematic area for me and afterwards I was like okay let's do this thing and proceeded to put your stuff on in the background and start working on my entire apt. Thank you for being inspiring and funny and beautiful but modest. You're awesome and I'm being really truthful when I say you've literally changed my life. Love ya! ❤
Literally loled at your transition to the video sponsor - they definitely got their money's worth!
Hoping for more content on Luke's renovation & decorating process.
That transition was so out of left field that it felt almost like a dadaist reinterpretation of video sponsorships
You are a gem ❣ I started writing 8 million and 9 things and had to rewrite and rewrite, but in essence it comes down to: You are a GEM❣
Hahaha I accept this as a summary of all 8 million and 9. Ty
Re the crying. So good to hear other women have done this. Such a release tho, once I figured it out I scheduled just the right film experience to let the flow begin. ❤
Currently going through something heavy and the “not going to wear a dress or do my hair ‘til my wedding” analogy works in more ways than you think. Thank you ❤
Thank you for your advice and guidance and efforts you put into these videos. Thank you for your vulnerability and not shying away from real things. Thank you for the laughs. Hope you have a peaceful week. 🌻
Thanks for being so open about your own vulnerability. We allh see a finished product and think" wow, she does it so effortlessly" which clearly isn't the case.
when i went back to check this, imagine my shock this was only posted 3 weeks ago. it feels like such a timelessly helpful resource and I'm glad I decided to look into video guides last night.
this is my first video of yours, and i was surprised and delighted by how accessible you made it with the terms list + examples + even the pinterest board (absolutely amazing!). the methodology was so patiently put out. i definitely agree i was extremely roadblocked by the algorithim giving me similar things, but thanks to you even explaining your process with your brother (listening to the comments he would make about it about why he liked and didn't like it), i realized i had a lot more opinions about what i liked and didn't and needed without realizing it. the "you can use words not related to the stype, or you can even make it a phrase" thing rly helped click it all together
thank you for putting this out there! i get the feeling i'll be inspired for more, so definitely subscribing
Oh, Caroline. First, I am sorry to hear that you have been crying because I don't like to see anyone be sad. On the other hand, crying is really good for you to get out those emotions that need to go away. When this video first popped up and I saw fourteen days free and twenty five off the first month, I got very excited, because I thought you were doing a design consultation business where you would do whatever and people would pay to be in that group. Then I found out it was for working out, which is also very good, but not as fun as designing. So in the future, if you have time and think you can do a design group like that, I would love it. I love your videos. I hope you can stop crying soon (when you are ready) and feel good for a while.
Hanging around your channel for a bit... One of my favorite things about you is that you don't discriminate over any style. You don't say one things is better than the other. You always focus on how personal a living space is for each person, and you make methods that help people understand how to find those things for themselves. Lastly, you always are so goofy and free-spirited. I saw another commenter say "kooky" and I couldn't' agree more. I love hearing you chatterbox your ideas!
Welcome to the kook club! We might be smelly and depressed, but we have open hearts and open minds :)
It's okay to cry girl. I do it all the time. Recommend Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Changed my life
You’re so golden retriever in your life and job. That vibe is what the world needed. Thank you for you
That is an excellent way to sum Caroline up! Well done you!
I love the practice of "Design Tinder"! And using adjectives instead of defined styles is so smart, especially for beginners or those less familiar with interior design styles. One thing I had to learn when I worked with a designer almost 20 years ago was to make sure you're picking images where you like the actual elements and not just how clean and tidy the space looks! Aesthetically in a magazine or on a screen, I love the look of a spare, minimalist space, but in my 3D home, I want slightly messy bookshelves and chairs that are more comfortable than polished. But once I looked at enough images to hone down to the styles of things, the colors, the spatial arrangements, etc that I liked, it was easier to define what my specific likes were (instead of just picking all the spaces that looked the most clean and organized). Your space shows your skill at mixing different styles effectively, and this video does an excellent job of explaining how to do that well. Awesome job!
This might be the weirdest compliment I've ever given, but if my friend and I dress in drag, you're personality is my inspiration 😂😂😂
You just keep getting better, thank you
I love what you say about experimenting with getting things little by little when designing instead of going all out right away.
P.S. I am sorry to hear you cried so much. I hope everything is okay and gets better.
An absolute treasure is what you are.
Your youtube super power, besides being the cutest, funniest thing ever, is that you consistently give us realistic, practical, actionable paths forward and pair it with inspiring imagery and ideas all whilst removing all the pressure from the process. You’re so right about those darn algorithms! I get why they design them the way they do, but darn it, there should be a “SURPRISE ME!!” mode.
Thank you for all the hard work you put into not just this video but the resources !! Also, that sponsorship transition, flawless! Seriously. You are incredible content creator, thank you
I am moving cross country in October, and I am so excited to plan my new space. Thank you for the planning ideas. Currently my style is cozy clutter core ikea. But I love the durable furniture. I have two kids so durable is important!
Also thank you for being vulnerable. It’s nice to see real people being real.
"Sometimes I don't cry for a long time and then I do."
Caroline, I relate to this statement so much. (you look lovely as always)
Luke's new home is awesome. Can't wait to see how it will turn out in time.
Be well xx
I started to collect things I loved as soon as I moved out of my childhood home. My stuff never really felt like it belonged in any of my rental apartments, but when (after about 10 years) my husband and I bought our very own house, all the random things I had collected fit right in. To me they looked like they had always been there and had been designed specifically for that space. ❤ It was such a great feeling and a perfect affirmation that both the house and all our seemingly random pieces were the right choice.
I’m usually disappointed by videos on how to find your personal design style, because there just isn’t enough detailed information on how to narrow it down. This one really helped me! I was finally able to nail down an aesthetic that I love and filter out all the inspiration I’ve used in the past that fell flat for me when executed. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
I hardly comment on UA-cam videos but I’m commenting on this one because it was incredibly helpful! Thank you for this even though it was difficult for you to film, we’re grateful for all the work you do to help make our homes more joyous *sending hugs*
It really spoke to me what you said about experimenting and collecting before my forever. I think this will finally unblock me from decorating the flat I'm renting so thank you
I constantly imagine meeting someone with your humor, intelligence, and love of life for my close friend. You have so many facets to your personality that you resemble a diamond when exposed to a bright light... priceless!
Just came back from a cross-country trip for a funeral that literally broke me. I think I slept 9 hours over the span of 4 days. I am dehydrated, cried-out, exhausted, and heartbroken but I thank you for this video as it was a fun watch (I love seeing a Luke appearance!) and the bit about crying was so real. xo
I love your videos so much. You sound exactly like a friend of mine that I miss, and your sense of humor is exactly like mine…but you’re cooler than me and kind of exactly who I want to be! You’re my new fave. Please never stop making content.
Oh I feel absolutely the same.
I love moving and I've experienced a lot of different styles because of that. I'm really lucky because now, I know my style! 🎉❤
Oh so true. Being forced into making lots of different situations work is such a good way to experiment !
You and your brother crack me up. Always look forward to what you have to say and show. Thanks for being you!
Woman, your vulnerability on this, and in general… I am so here for. I have been watching your videos for about a year or maybe more. I love watching your videos so much because, the way you talk, I get so wrapped up hearing and feeling what you say. The way that you design and teach others tips based on not just what’s cute or in style but also relate how to make things functional for how our individual brains work makes things make sense and become more intentional. Little shit like having drop zones, having dynamic heights and layering, not putting too much onto one wall, the list goes on what I’ve learned from you. Thank you for doing what you do. It’s fucking awesome and very inspiring.
How awesome awesome awesome it was to find this video and you just confirmed that my final decision on my own design style is just perfectly ok. I struggled for years to make choices just because I couldn't decide what my favourite style is. I liked a big variety of different things and then... AND THEN... I finally realised not being able to choose because of a non-existent-style-identity... I'm missing out on a lot of stuff because I never make choices. And I ain't getting younger... I finally settled on the idea of just buying whatever I like and love in the moment and being a combo-variety-style type of person. So right now I have modern vibes stuff. I have vintage stuff. I have light stuff, I have dark stuff, I have rustic stuff. I have farmstyle stuff. I have beach home vibes. Dark leather vibes. I have minimalistic lines. I have detailed lines. I have plain stuff. I have decorative stuff. I have EVERYTHING. And somehow... it works. My ultimate style name is... René-style!
Hi Caroline,
Love your authenticity! Can’t get enough of your videos.
Could you please do a video on how to implement your chosen colour palette? So you don’t saturate your space in the wrong colour, how to pick the dominate colours vs smaller accent pieces. Thanks!
I don’t personally feel the need to nail down my style because I don’t need to explain it to anyone I’m just living here, but this was actually so helpful for trying to explain the process to a friend who has never cared about “design” but just bought his first house and asked how I make it look nice. Totally going to go through the process with him using your board, can’t wait! Thanks for the resource!!
RUNNING to do this with my husband. 100% need snacks, drinks, comfy blankets. Basically this will be a fun at home date. So thank you Caroline.
Another good way to define your style is to start off with your no-nos - anything you‘d absolutely not want in your space. For me, that’s shiny surfaces, chrome, round mirrors, anything plastic, the color yellow, new furniture, dark colors, 70s. Which results against my will in some kind of a muted shabby-chic style but I try to control myself.
Loveeeeee love. Wish I’d included this point. Great addition 🙌
You are unrelentingly brilliant and deeply inspiring. And such a stunningly helpful video, gave me exactly what I needed and it was pure delight to watch- the way you infuse everything you do with your own personality and spirit is so special and a reminder for all of us to do the same. Thank you for being exactly who you are Caroline ❤
I friggin LOVE you! As an only child, I’ve always wanted siblings and I’d like to adopt you and your siblings! LOL. I think my sides would ache from all the laughter being around you all. You’re such a delightful person and bring joy to others through your honesty and vulnerability.
You put things in such a clear and concise way and always answer the next thoughts I have in my head. All your videos are so helpful!!! And fun
I am moving into my first apartment next week so this video came at the perfect time!
Your videos are a mixture of good style, humor and psychoanalysis- all very good things… Caroline-you are the real thing in every sense- both your style and talent and trueness… the fact that you share so much is both shocking (because no one else comes close to that level of vulnerable exposure) and makes me want to give you a hug and make sure you’re doing top notch self care! (Do aromatherapy, reach out to friends & your amazing family, get good sleep etc)
You are a star burning bright Carolyn.. thank you for the help to others you’re so generously sharing… don’t overload yourself. remember if a moment day or week feels tough, it won’t be forever and you’ll feel good again… the downs are temporary … you are loved
This is the most useful approach to design I think I’ve ever watched! The bonus is Caroline’s funny but common sense approach to narration. Love it!
This is a BRILLIANT way of thinking about design language! Thanks so much for all of the effort that went into the Pinterest board and descriptor list. Game changing!
I love your videos not just because of the content but because of all your positive energy. At times I wish I meet you in person and tell you how much of a difference your energy makes for me when I feel down just cause of nothing. You have such positive vibes which is helping ppl like me. So hang in there. You are an awesome person. This youtube is just an extension but YOU are awesome person.
OMG When I tell you I was 100% feeling you at the end when you said you had been crying and kept putting off making the video I, first of all, was super proud of you for following through but also your adorable way of describing the way you were feeling was so completely relatable and I think the relationship between you and your Brother is too cute I relate because I too have a Brother who I am super close with. I especially love the way you allow him to be himself and give him the freedom to decide for himself what his style is!!! such a better Sister than me!!! I am so controlling and I 100% appreciate you are not !!!
Thank you for the great video. A thing I discovered is that on your pinterest page you have different styles but they have one thing in common: there is so much going on in these rooms. So much strong patterns, strong colors, contrasts and so much accessories. I can understand why you like it but it's the opposite of what I like and it helped me to understand this. I really like calm, straight and clean but comfy rooms. On the other side I don't want it to look boring and that's difficult. I think I'm getting closer in finding my style.
Caroline! I am so grateful for you. You are my favorite designer. You give me courage and insight. I have paused a room remodel because I just couldn't figure out where I was getting mentally stumped. I was reading through your list of design words and as "edited and classy" came into sight I had a eureka moment and said, "CALM! I WANT MY ROOM TO BE CALM!" Now, I know the direction I need to take. Thank you.
I really loved this one, Caroline! Design Tinder is so clever and practical in the age of everything "-core" and I can't wait to use it to set up my new place ☺
I love your videos! Your advice is so practical and your presentation style is so practical, down-to-earth and relatable. I love it!
One thing I've never heard anyone talk about when talking about finding design style is allowing the architecture of the home (if prominent) to influence the decor. For example, I LOVE the airy pastels of Swedish farmhouse decor, but I live in an old Spanish Colonial in South America. Imposing Swedish farmhouse just wouldn't go, so I've learned a new way of decorating and it fits, because it blends well with my house. :) Just wanted to put that out there.
The wedding day analogy make so much sense. I've actually been doing this and I need to stop thinking that way and start experimenting NOW!
Caroline, you're one of the most creative people-- ever! Thanks for the time and care you (and Paige) put into you videos. ❤
Ya! Thank you! Currently working through how to bring out my personal style in an architecturally boring, open concept, new build. There’s so much space, but no one’s lived in it before, and that indeed is a challenge!
Thank you Caroline for doing this. I owe you so much b/c after seeing and putting in practice much of your content I have to say my place is beginning to look like home. Kudos to your brother also. He is priceless. I can't wait to see both of you designing his place. Blessings! Abrazos! And grazie mille for the time you put into Pinterest for us.
I love how you let your personality shine through while still being very informational! Makes for really enjoyable content🤩
Moving house soon and been looking for a singular ‘label’ for our style, the adjectives idea has been really useful and helped open up our design choices. A good reminder that, whilst cohesion is important in a space, it is equally important that the space represents your own personal tastes. Thanks!
You are such a joy to watch. Thank you for the gift of your vulnerability! I’m feeling inspired to decorate and hydrate!
In less than 5 minutes I was ROTF. your content never disappoint. I personally feel it's the "smack" in you that keep your videos on a high level. SMH on jumping around the living room, never saw that coming but hilarious to watch😂😂😂. The backdrop sitting at the table was beautiful 😍. Entire color palette was spot on. I had a gut feeling that was Luke's amazing craftsmanship. Stunning 💯. He is such a character.
I'm currently checking out your pinterest board because what you said about not knowing what you like if you hadn't been exposed to it yet made me want to get exposed to different styles. I have saved 12 pins and they're all cohesive but I don't like the overall style they show me, which is fine because I realized the board I already had is probably my timeless style I really do love and I don't need to branch out. I love your ideas and the board. At the same time I feel like your board, even if it is showing many different styles, is full of your own style in little ways. That also made me realize I hate wood for myself of any kind haha. Thank you again for the board and the video, I had a lot of fun!
I love that you include your siblings in your videos. Your brother always makes me smile or laugh. You too of course. ❤
This is literally the most helpful guide on this that I’ve ever seen, and I’ve been trying to find videos on this subject for a while. Thank you!!
Caroline, thank you for doing this! Your blood, sweat, and tears didn't go to waste! We love you!
This is such encouraging and excellent advice. As someone who feels rather clueless about implementing personal style and design in my spaces, I have come away with tangible ways to get started on this path of discovery. Thanks SO much!!!
“Fine” is the F-word of feelings. Hope you’re hanging in there. Loved the content and the authenticity.
You give the VERY BEST design advice!! Everyone should consult with you before doing a new space or re-doing an old space. I ve moving things around my home with excellent results. Haven’t spent a dime but things look new and interesting ❣️
Your brother is a wood worker, I'm not surprised be like Zen spaces. I was sanding my coffee table today and thinking about him, and also how Zen just sanding is.
This is a great video and yes you can do stuff! Life is hard sometimes, frfr.
The tip to think of spaces you've loved for a long time was so helpful. One of mine is a fancy high tea place called the Victoria Rooms, they had this blue velvet couch I loved so much I took a picture of it - 15 years ago! And just this week i finally got a blue velvet couch for my own home. I'm so happy. Getting that dark expensive vibe, dream come true
Honestly, all your tips/tricks/advices were the most useful I've ever seen on the internet. They are grounded on reality, and that's is so nice. Thank you for sharing yourself on the videos and for helping others find the answers we were looking for
Your authenticity is the best
I just want you to know I am switching majors to study Archtecture and you have been part of this journey. I am So GRETEFUL❤Thank you❤
Your videos are a needed hug🥹 love you so much, Caroline! It’s been amazing to see how much you’ve grown on this platform💛
Thanks for this and also being vulnerable at the end. Sometimes you just wanna cry even if everything is going well.
You are amazing! I love your channel, your style, and your humor and comedic timing! You are so witty. When I watch your videos, I find myself smiling for the duration of the videos, AND I’m learning. Thank you!😊
The absolutely perfect video. The content, the heart, the brother, the vulnerability, the humor...even the ad was fun!
Caroline, love, love, love!!! This is a great video that you have made! Thank you for overcoming your concerns over this and it is worth it! I love that wedding analogy and start experimenting now tip. I am slowly updating myself with your video releases as I was busy, and they are all quality ones as always! Big hug!!!
Thank you!! for the effort you've made putting this together, you are truly the internet's big sister 💞
I'm planning to move in with my partner again after 4 years of long distance and i have been bracing myself for the upcoming endless decor-related arguments. Now i'm actually SO EXCITED to use these tips and play design-tinder with him and find a style we both like and want to live in :))
Love your videos; these were really helpful tips. Also want to say, your brother has talent as well. Love the vase. Go ahead and cry, and know that we all do, and sometimes for no reason at all. It's just life. We don't judge our happy emotions, so why do we judge our sad ones so harshly? Nobody questions when I'm smiling or laughing. It could be I'm just covering up deep depression, but when I'm crying I'm honestly conveying an emotion.
So true. You made me think of the song; "Tears Of A Clown" since I will go about feeling deeply depressed and no one would notice, as I smile when engaging with a store clerk, the homeless Veteran in my neighborhood, petting pups; because life goes on, with or without us.😊