TMI Birth & Sex Q&A! Scars, First Time Being Intimate After Baby, Tearing w/Natural Birth?

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  • @ChelseaandNick
    @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +68

    if you're seeing this video again, I had to reupload lol. See the description for chapters in the video!
    if you're reading this, would love to know where in the world you are!!

    • @celinem.3847
      @celinem.3847 3 роки тому +2

      Coming from Cali here 😊

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +3

      @@celinem.3847 how is the weather there? 😍

    • @celinem.3847
      @celinem.3847 3 роки тому +2

      @@ChelseaandNick It's wonderful today; clear skies and a small breeze! The big fires have significantly reduced in size so the air is finally starting to clear up 🥰🥳

    • @celinem.3847
      @celinem.3847 3 роки тому +1

      @@ChelseaandNick How's the weather in SC? 😊

    • @lizziebethh
      @lizziebethh 3 роки тому +1

      England, nearby to Oxford 😁

  • @Aaaaaaaaaaaa126
    @Aaaaaaaaaaaa126 3 роки тому +60

    The part with body positivity: YES. It was eye opening to think that even body positivity can be obsessive or toxic. Something that is supposed to be positive can still be too much. Good for you! Bearing in mind that you have a bigger purpose than felling good about yourself, as good as that is, is crazy. Having confidence in the fact that your body carried a life is amazing. Love that and thank you. ❤️

  • @iuliaturcas4348
    @iuliaturcas4348 3 роки тому +102

    I love that you are so open and vulnerable about this “tabu subjects”! Your honesty is such a breath of fresh air! Thanks you for choosing to talk about topics that are less talked about! Also, your family is the sweetest 🤍

  • @beckers7601
    @beckers7601 3 роки тому +36

    This is so helpful. I’m not having kids anytime soon, but it’s so important to hear Christian woman talk about these things.

  • @ems4915
    @ems4915 3 роки тому +40

    He’s the cutest!! Thanks for this video Chelsea, these things are so important to talk about 😌

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you!! And I agree, more people need to talk about them!

  • @JuliannaMaePaull
    @JuliannaMaePaull 3 роки тому +35

    Post partum is hard , you’re killing it mamas 🤍 sending much love, praying for your precious family

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you Julianna! ♥️♥️ Do you have kids?

    • @JuliannaMaePaull
      @JuliannaMaePaull 3 роки тому +4

      @@ChelseaandNick I do, I have a 2 and half year old son💘 enjoy every single moment of hudson’s baby days , they’re so so short and sweet !

  • @karleebird03
    @karleebird03 3 роки тому +7

    Being a mom is hard work! I loved what you said about taking care of him being productive work. I need to remind myself sometimes that if all I did one day is take care of my boy, then I had a productive day ☺️❤️

  • @gabbygirl9600
    @gabbygirl9600 3 роки тому +11

    Our due date is in November and I’ve been getting more anxious about everything (trying and praying for a natural birth as well,) so I really appreciate you being so honest about everything. Thank you for that even though it’s awkward sometimes. 😭❤️

  • @rebekahingles2638
    @rebekahingles2638 3 роки тому +20

    Due any day now and super thankful to hear a positive story and thoughts from a new Christian moms perspective. ❤️

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому

      Ahh yay!! So excited for you. You are made for this ☺️

  • @celinem.3847
    @celinem.3847 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you so much for being open and honest about your postpartum experience! I love how you take such care of your mindset. It's so important to be positive and have faith. I truly believe that life is so much better when you keep a positive mindset, regardless of what you're going through. May God bless you, Nick, and Hudson ❤️🙏 XOXO

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +1

      Can’t agree more!! It’s so helpful ♥️

  • @cristinam.5554
    @cristinam.5554 3 роки тому +47

    Hudson looks so much like Nick!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +12

      They’re twins and i see it more and more every day 😂

  • @greenshp
    @greenshp 2 роки тому

    As someone old enough to be your grandmother (LOL) I really love your attitude about not expecting too much of yourself. It reminds me of years ago when I heard some thoughts from a woman who was like a grandmother to ME, and had raised and homeschooled 4 kids of her own. She said she had the attitude at the beginning - taught to her by her mother - that a baby needs to fit into your family, instead of a family rearranging to accommodate a baby. So they took their babies camping, church, shopping, just as they did with no kids. She said if you expect them to fit your lifestyle, they learn to, and plus you aren't teaching them to be a little tyrant by believing everyone has to revolve around them. I think that was a great attitude both for keeping mom and dad sane, and for raising a baby who grows up to think about the needs of others... God bless all of you, and keep up the great videos.

  • @mlmj1994
    @mlmj1994 3 роки тому +8

    With the different seasons of life, my prayer and Bible reading time often looks different and the time span is different. I just talk to God throughout the day because it’s not always possible for me to have 2 hour journal, Bible, prayer session lol

  • @nevebrown9206
    @nevebrown9206 2 роки тому +1

    It really is important to wait the 6 weeks post birth to avoid infection unless cleared by a doctor! It’s not just about how you feel, it’s also whether it’s safe to.

  • @aubreyidleman
    @aubreyidleman 3 роки тому +6

    And I love your perspective on all of this.
    Thank you for defending the Truth that we don’t need to look perfect.
    We can focus on the real joys of life!!!

  • @KristinNTravis
    @KristinNTravis 3 роки тому +17

    I love this video 🤍thank you for telling it to us straight! Haha. I am pregnant with my second and am planning for a home water birth. I would love a video on everything you did to prepare physically, mentally, and spiritually. And what did Nick do to prepare?

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +4

      That’s such a great idea!! Will do a video all on that for sure. ♥️♥️

  • @Mrs.rodela
    @Mrs.rodela 2 роки тому

    Hi I'm sammar ❤️ I have been watching you since I was 12 years old. I am 22 now and I am married and have 2 babies and currently trying for our rainbow baby. Your answer on body image made my heart so happy. Thank you so much you helped me so much ❤️❤️

  • @sunshinez6685
    @sunshinez6685 2 роки тому

    Thank you for your utter honesty, it makes this subject clean and full of clarity; I think all the taboo actually subconsciously creates more dirt feeling around it. Also love your approach with mindsets in everything, that's how I've felt much of my life, and it explains how you're so mentally healthy and intuitive about so much.

  • @sandrashanly9557
    @sandrashanly9557 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so grateful for you Chelsea!! You're such a big sister to me and praise God for your mindset and maturity!

  • @UsernameSaraWithNoH
    @UsernameSaraWithNoH 3 роки тому +1

    I feel the same way about my postpartum body, I am so proud of my body for what it's capable of doing for my baby!

  • @meg3428
    @meg3428 3 роки тому

    I love that Chelsea is so open and vulnerable! She is such a help to all those who are going through/about to go through/ or wish to be more educated on something. Also her midwife seems so nice and supportive! I pray God blesses them both and touches them and their families. I pray God wraps them and their families/loved ones in a hedge of protection. I pray God touches and blesses Hudson as well! And Nick! God has big plans in store for them! I pray God puts His Mighty Hand over their family and their lives! They are such an amazing Christian example for people to watch on UA-cam. As a person who really loves to watch other Christians who are closer to their age they are so encouraging! They are such an encouragement to me and to my walk with God! Also Hudson is such a cute and precious name! ❤️ God bless you all❤️ I pray that your (and anyone else who may be reading this) family, friends, loved ones, and most importantly yourself are all wrapped in a hedge of protection from any and all illnesses whether they be mental or physical. Including Covid or cancer. I pray God touches your life and gives you peace and strength. I hope you know you are loved, valid, and worthy. You are special. YOU MATTER! Remember that. YOU in fact MATTER! Trust me on that. God would not have created you if you didn’t. You have a purpose. You have a purpose in God. To serve Him and spread His Word and Love. You do MATTER. God thinks of us CONSTANTLY. We are fearfully and wonderfully made. Please know that. Especially if you feel you don’t and feel you should take your life or if you feel you shouldn’t live because you don’t matter or you feel you aren’t loved. I want you to know YOU DO MATTER! YOU ARE LOVED! I don’t know you but I love you are LOVED by Jesus Christ our Lord and King. Even if there aren’t many people on this earth that you think LOVES you know the most important person THE creator of the universe and of all life LOVES YOU so much. Although I may not know you but I love you as well. So please know there are people out there who do love and care for you. If you feel you don’t have many friends know that Jesus is ALWAYS there. He is our best and closest friend. He sticks closer than a brother. I am your friend now as well! I pray your life is filled with happiness, success, love, peace, and joy. Have a great rest of your year. I hope you had of had a wonderful 2021 thus far. I pray you have a great day and night. I pray God may use you and touch you and your life. Spread love, peace, and kindness whenever you can. If you are ever going through a difficult time know that it is temporary and God is always there. No matter how dark of a time you may be going through no matter how unimaginably painful it is there IS a light at the end of the tunnel and it WILL get better. If you need to talk about anything once again God is always there and feel free to respond to this and we can talk about it if you need. Or if you want to be friends. I mean none of this by harm. I simply wish to bring joy to your life and a smile to your face. Remember YOU ARE LOVED. If not by many you’re loved by Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. You’re loved by me although I may not know you well. God wouldn’t have created us if we didn’t matter. He thinks of us constantly. We are fearfully and wonderfully made. YOU have a purpose. You can find it in God. He can help you to know what you should do in life! He can give you the worlds greatest purpose! We each have a calling in God! He can turn your life around for the better or we just choose Him! I pray if you don’t have Him that you find Him before it’s everlasting too late! Once again I mean NONE of this by harm. I hope I brought some joy and peace to your life and maybe a smile to your face. I pray you have a GREAT rest of your life. I am praying for you. Remember this is a safe space. God bless you❤️ #GodSavesAndLovesAll😭🙌💗❤️

  • @babytriin
    @babytriin 3 роки тому

    He’s absolutely adorable. It’s so amazing seeing my favorite childhood UA-camr becoming SUCH an amazing momma and wife 🥺♥️ I’m so proud

  • @keepingupwithkennedy2663
    @keepingupwithkennedy2663 3 роки тому +1

    The reason medical standard is to wait 6 weeks before having penetrative intercourse is to give your body time to heal from the internal wounds such as closing the big open wound from where your placenta was. Even if you “feel comfortable” you should wait until your provider gives you the green light to have sex. You don’t want a terrible infection. Just sharing my knowledge for anyone interested! Thanks for sharing the video!

  • @boo-hh3jr
    @boo-hh3jr 3 роки тому +1

    omg i used to watch u when i was 7 and now i’m literally 16💀💀 u were my whole childhood!!

  • @girlandgameletsplays
    @girlandgameletsplays 3 роки тому +1

    Chelsea, I absolutely respect you for making this video. I am also Christian, but definitely not as traditional as maybe you or other Christian youtubers , but there’s a difference. I know you wouldn’t judge me and would respect me regardless. You are a Christian youtuber who i know would respect anyone even if they didn’t have the same religious beliefs as you! Thank you for existing! God Bless!

  • @russpeters4467
    @russpeters4467 3 роки тому +1

    Hey I just want to thank you for being so open about stuff that people don't really want to get into in the Christian Life. There's so much stigma and so much hate toward these kind of topics and so I just want to thank you for being open and as a guy I just want to confirm you in talking about these things and encourage you and your husband to be more open about guy stuff as well because guys are dealing with a lot of stuff as well that there's a lot of stigma around regarding pornography. And so I just want to bless you and your ministry cuz I believe your videos are a Ministry and God is blessing it

  • @joymanzano4197
    @joymanzano4197 3 роки тому

    CHELSEAA I've watched u since u were in hs and.i haven't seen any of u in a while and now u have a BABY?? omggg

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 3 роки тому +2

    You have a whole new, mature, motherly type of beauty! Congrats on your little one!:)

  • @JesusIsKing-109
    @JesusIsKing-109 3 роки тому +1

    Great video!!! Love how honest you are, from someone who wants to have babies one day thank you!!!

  • @gabs0149
    @gabs0149 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you SOOO much for your openness & honesty! This is so helpful! You inspired me to have a home birth (due in April) and all of these questions I was curious about as well. God bless your family ❤️

  • @katierood
    @katierood 3 роки тому +1

    Hudson is the cutest 🥺 fitting name and he looks more and more like Nick.

  • @sylviedabee
    @sylviedabee 3 роки тому +2

    Definitely would love a part two

  • @brittropson9717
    @brittropson9717 3 роки тому +4

    The poop comment is 1000000% lol I laughed out loud bc I was JUST talking about this!!! Idk why but that first poop was scarier than birthing the baby 🤣🤣

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +1

      I felt on guard the whole time, holding onto the wall and all 😂😂😝

  • @lorenacristiano6484
    @lorenacristiano6484 3 роки тому

    You are amazing little hudson is adorable I'm due in January and really scared of birth but you helped me kinda focus more on the positive things

  • @nianjugu1787
    @nianjugu1787 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing! Thankful for your vulnerability and it's been so encouraging, and thanks for being realistic and positive!

  • @ItzAbbey
    @ItzAbbey 3 роки тому +4

    Hudson looks exactly like my nephew, Calvin when he was around Hudson’s age.

  • @tamarashepherd1123
    @tamarashepherd1123 3 роки тому

    OMG... Hudson is Nick's 'Mini-Me'!!! Not sure if he is a Momma's Boy or Daddy's Boy right now, but I would guess Daddy's boy. If he isn't now, probably as he gets older they will bond and be super-close. Sooooo adorable, Chelsea, you will have to have a girl next.... I'll bet she ends up looking JUST like YOU!!! You both did so good! Beautiful baby boy!

  • @ravencouch
    @ravencouch 3 роки тому +8

    Sounds like you are talking about “body neutrality”. Love the idea that your body is neither good looking or bad, it just is!

  • @EvaMazu
    @EvaMazu 3 роки тому

    I am currently 33weeks Pregnant and I find your videos so helpful and reasuring. Thank you for sharing your journey.🤍

    • @ryanisaturtlepyc7140
      @ryanisaturtlepyc7140 3 роки тому

      How was ur kids birth?

    • @EvaMazu
      @EvaMazu 3 роки тому

      @@ryanisaturtlepyc7140 we are still waiting for our little boy to come. We are almost 39 weeks so anytime now.😌

    • @ryanisaturtlepyc7140
      @ryanisaturtlepyc7140 3 роки тому +1

      @@EvaMazu omg!! I wish you the best luck with your baby boy and your family. 😊

    • @EvaMazu
      @EvaMazu 3 роки тому

      @@ryanisaturtlepyc7140 thank you😌

  • @popchinesemusic2023
    @popchinesemusic2023 3 роки тому

    Praying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake uPraying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake up happy and well restedp happy and well rested

  • @harmoneygreen7584
    @harmoneygreen7584 3 роки тому

    He’s so cute love his little yawn thank you for the talk

  • @maleah44
    @maleah44 3 роки тому +6

    Hudson is the cutest!

  • @brittneykissinger3530
    @brittneykissinger3530 3 роки тому +1

    Love this video Chelsea :) ❤️❤️

  • @monica-jardim
    @monica-jardim 3 роки тому +1

    Omg I can’t he is absolutely gorgeous

  • @tonyagaines3511
    @tonyagaines3511 3 роки тому +2

    Watching from Kentucky. Thanks for uploading again. Appreciate it.....

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому

      Of course! Hopefully you learned or related to something! ❤️

    • @tonyagaines3511
      @tonyagaines3511 3 роки тому

      @@ChelseaandNickI always enjoy your videos on here, gives me something to look forward to. I can't follow you on other social medias cause I don't use them . I only have you-tube... you guys are always uplifting ,encouraging, and inspiring to me...

  • @Curlybeauty15
    @Curlybeauty15 3 роки тому

    That is one of the cutest babies I’ve ever seen

  • @jennabouman8602
    @jennabouman8602 3 роки тому +2

    Hudson is the most cute thing ever!! Congrats!

  • @suzannenelson42
    @suzannenelson42 3 роки тому

    Thank You So much for sharing with us sweetie. You are So Beautiful and your baby is precious. Congratulations to you all.

  • @Mo-dp8og
    @Mo-dp8og 3 роки тому +1

    Help! I'm 10 weeks pregnant today. My husband and I are dealing with a lot of fear. He's afraid that after I have the baby I won't be taking the time or effort to have you know what of taking care of him. Ever since we found out every thing has been trying to tear us down. We've had so many things going on in our lives so many household necessities are breaking, he had a job lined up and still haven't gotten it, so many things. How do I help my husband when i don't feel taken care of myself?

  • @savannahperry8280
    @savannahperry8280 3 роки тому +4

    Hudson is so cute 🥰 thank you for the video

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому +1

      Of course! Lemme know what you think when you finish ☺️

    • @savannahperry8280
      @savannahperry8280 3 роки тому

      @@ChelseaandNick I love how open you are! Thank you so much for everything

  • @nikitadas.8795
    @nikitadas.8795 3 роки тому

    Hey! The baby is so cute ❤❤ i love this video ❤❤

  • @aubreyidleman
    @aubreyidleman 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much lovely Lady🤍
    So helpful!!!
    And such a blessing! Thank you for making this and resembling Christ in the fact of opening up and being real.
    Thank you!!

  • @unda2147
    @unda2147 3 роки тому +6

    Just us girls. And Zac

  • @atheer7245
    @atheer7245 3 роки тому +1

    I love you so much I follow you from Saudi Arabia🇸🇦❤️

  • @crazymumlife8735
    @crazymumlife8735 3 роки тому +1

    I have 4 kids and I can't do anything except cry and clean. 😞 it's stressful

  • @assyassumpta957
    @assyassumpta957 3 роки тому +1

    I love you guys 💞💝 may God bless you

  • @madisonreynolds9243
    @madisonreynolds9243 3 роки тому +2

    I look up to you so much! So kind and God fearing, so motivating.

  • @raeesahhnaz6625
    @raeesahhnaz6625 3 роки тому +8

    He is just so gorgeous

  • @kruesibarker7374
    @kruesibarker7374 3 роки тому +2

    He is so sweet

  • @night_owl_sadness
    @night_owl_sadness 3 роки тому

    He is so adorable 🥰🥰🥰

  • @milenabara8238
    @milenabara8238 3 роки тому +1

    I've followed you for years now, and I love how you grow and how happy you look. Saludos from Argentina❤❤🥰

  • @sadiebermejo3744
    @sadiebermejo3744 2 роки тому

    Michigan!

  • @bridgetteblueeyesandgoodvi3853
    @bridgetteblueeyesandgoodvi3853 3 роки тому

    Hey did they make a video about there way of making there faith stronger in God. Also what do you both do when things get hard in life and how do you keep your faith in God still

  • @russpeters4467
    @russpeters4467 2 роки тому

    I am 38 years old, and I have something to say in regards to the sexualization of children at such a young age. Due to what is happening now in the world, I feel it is necessary to lend my voice and experinece to this current issue so that anyone not concerned by what the leftists want to do in our school systems and what our media systems are also trying to do, can hear first hand the damaging effects of children being exposed to sex too young.
    My first experience happened when it shouldn't have, much before puberty. I cannot explain all the things that led up to the experience but understand this, it was not rape by an adult. We were two kids of the same age and it happened together. The details don't matter, and no one needs to hear them anyways. What does is this. One experience at such a young age led to another, then another. To this day I struggle with identity, sexual and personal, and often feel at a complete loss of how to fit into society. I want desperatly to be normal, but I am aware that the start I had is not normal and not healthy. It is likely why I have struggled so much since and I would not wish other innocent child to be subject to the same insecurities and lack of identity that I had suffered with and still do.
    Please gaurd your children. Be sensitive to what they see, hear and are exposed to. They will not think of these things if someone doesnt introduce them to it. Be proactive. If my pain can help any parent activate and be more cautious, then my suffering was for a purpose.

  • @christinecordova13
    @christinecordova13 3 роки тому

    I love your lipstick, what are you wearing?

  • @missymai
    @missymai 3 роки тому

    My mom have natural birth with all of her 10 kids

  • @1mikeydude1
    @1mikeydude1 3 роки тому

    @27:00 sure Jan

  • @brendamasonakagrandma6412
    @brendamasonakagrandma6412 2 роки тому

    I'm new to your channel you have a beautiful family I do have a question if somebody can answer me on HelloFresh? I'm a single woman that is handicapped I'm an amputee so I am looking for someone to tell me what's an average cost per week and can you order very low carb meals? Thank you

  • @justine-wf6iv
    @justine-wf6iv 3 роки тому

    Ok i def missed a chapter

  • @keshiyasikdar-ei7xg
    @keshiyasikdar-ei7xg 7 місяців тому

    How old are you chelsea?

  • @aleanabarrett4223
    @aleanabarrett4223 3 роки тому

    Looks like his dad

  • @royalpriesthood02
    @royalpriesthood02 3 роки тому +1

    👋

  • @megandelli1
    @megandelli1 3 роки тому

    You only bled for a week?????? 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 they did tell me I almost hemorrhaged but I definitely bled for 3 weeks with all my 3 babies and now idk if that is normal lol

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  3 роки тому

      No that is totally normal! I feel like a lot of my blood was lost right away at birth and it just dwindled after a week. I still had a tiny bit but it was barely anything

    • @annarocha3254
      @annarocha3254 3 роки тому

      I was bleeding for around 5. You're good. ;)

  • @carmin9550
    @carmin9550 3 роки тому

    Jesus saves ❤️

  • @BountifulHarvestAbby
    @BountifulHarvestAbby 3 роки тому +1

    2nd person

  • @zozolala6215
    @zozolala6215 3 роки тому

    I want to see here teezer