I definitely agree with you. Dean got worse over time, whereas Jess and Logan improved over time. But ultimately, Jess was the one she could count on time and again (even in a year in the life) to help get her back on track with her goals.
I'm not a fan of Dean but I feel like Rory brought out the worst in him.. I mean she couldn't just let him go and instead keeps going back to him whenever she feels confused etc. probably why Dean acted the way he did towards her too. I like Jess better in the revival but I feel like he's too good for Rory..
I think Jess is the best boyfriend for Rory ultimately but they weren't right when they were together as teens. It seemed to me that once they got together, they just made out like Rory used to with Dean, and no longer really had any meaningful connection like they did before they were dating. After Jess' character development and growth he's absolutely the best for Rory now, but I'm also glad Rory dated Logan for the Yale years because she needed to try that too. I think you're spot on with the Jess is Luke, Logan is Christopher theory.
@@veralance_ that’s the hope! Jess is definitely more certain of how he feels about Rory than Luke seemed to about Lorelai, but I’m not sure Rory is as clear on her feelings though. I can imagine it going either way.
I didn't really care about who Rory should be with. She clearly can't have relationships because she doesn't communicate well with her partners. She was better off figuring out herself first.
Logan was no doubt the best boyfriend for rory. I love Jess, but your reasons had a lot of inconsistencies. Jess was such an awful boyfriend to Rory while Logan was great throughout the course of their relationship.
I absolutley agree with you and not just because Jess is my favorite and I felt bad that he didn't get what he deserved. Your opinions were spot on and you did great evaulation on this subject. You also made it so fun to watch and listen to. 🙌🏻💕
Gosh, i’m saying this everytime Jess shows up, he’s just like christopher, come and go as he wants. When some people said he’s like Luke, i was like NOooo, Luke stays in stars hollow for life, and Jess is nomad, how can they’re same ??
I feel like the loyalty percentage for Logan is too low, he genuinely thought that had broken up due to lack of communication and past experiences, however he changed his entire life time and instantly ditched his other flings as soon as Rory said she couldn’t do this kind of relationship, and he sticked to it I guess I’d give Logan at least 12% for loyalty
even tho jess and rory did not work out as teenagers, if we’re going off of year in the life it’s gotta be jess. rory needs to stop being the other woman imo and dean and logan just enabled that in her, but to be fair maybe they all should take a step back and re evaluate themselves anyway luke and lorelai for life
I used to dislike all of them. But maybe Logan fit her best even though I'd never give him a thought 🤣 he told Rory what was what when she was being dumb.
My personal favourite is Logan as he was so sweet to Rory but he also put her in her place when he needed to. I agree Jess had the best development but if we were to only judge on how they were while they were dating Rory, he wouldn’t be the best as he constantly pushed her away and tried to pressure her to have s£x. They all have there bad moments but I feel like Logan and Rory balance each other out the most and fit the best together. Although Logan treated Jess terribly when they met, he had a reason, his girlfriend went behind his back to meet a guy and he only finds out as he got home early. Not to mention he was Rory’s ex. Not the biggest fan of teen Jess but adult Jess deserves so much. I’m pretty sure the whole fandom agrees that dean was not the best boyfriend as he was quite controlling and immature. He cheated on his wife for her but still never divorced Lindsey. My list goes: Logan, Jess, Dean.
Jess is a good friend for Rory, i think among all of guy friends rory has, Jess is one of a kind, but to be her boyfriend, NO. His action when he force himself to Rory and she told him no but he said “you come on your own” was really worse. That action might be forgiven but cannot be forgotten. And please, he once asked Rory to leave Yale and everything to come with him to live together, so later Rory comeback to Yale is not entire because of Jess call her out but progress of what happened with her since she left Yale. I’m not hating Jess but sometimes i feel like some people of team jess forget those things Logan the other hand asked her twice before they went to that step, he has flaws but he somehow acknowledge and apologize and communicate with Rory. He knows and observe Rory pretty well by telling her she’s a girlfriend material, a good debater, loves school. He’s a bit upset when she drops yale, but he didn’t lash out on Rory, and as he understand what she’s been through he said she could give one month before really dropping yale.
Jess is the best looking but I actually think Logan was very supportive when Rory’s grandfather ended up in the hospital. They also had a banter and compatibility with one another.
I loved the fact Dean had evolved and finally has a family and a good job as well as a good life that is not including Rory. Logan on the other hand was starting, because Rory declined Logans proposal. Jess seems like a good person, but I really don't know anything about Jess life.
The thing I never thought about before: what if subconsciously, Rory went to Philadelphia as a way to feel empowered about what happened at Kyle's party when they were young??
I think that Dean isn't as bad as you think he is. Hear me out, Dean was the 'Perfect First Boyfriend' that's the whole point, he was Rory's FIRST boyfriend. Dean was supposed to be possessive and make bad decisions and I felt you were a little harsh on him especially in loyalty like he was loyal to Rory completely, he wasn't loyal to Lindsay his later wife which didn't have any affect on his loyalty to Rory. Though I do agree on Jess being a match to Rory, especially in intelligence, I think Logan is superior to both Dean and Jess. Logan doesn't put Rory on that pedestal she's been on her whole life during their relationship and thinks of her as a equal. So my list would go Best - Logan, 2nd Best - Jess, 3rd Best - Dean.
I agree with you to a level, but like no one mentions ever that it takes two to dance so Dean cheating on Lindsay wasn't entirely his fault it was on Rory too. I don't have the energy to go in detail rn what I think because it's almost midnight were I live but if I remember I'll try to give my whole opinion on all of theese things when I wake up after I've slept for a while.
Dean literally love bombed her and gaslight her , he didn’t know privacy or personal space. Honestly I feel like the rating was too high for him… even tho I hate Rory dean was no where near the “perfect first boyfriend”
I have a hard time deciding between Logan and Jess. I know Dean is definitely a no. He doesn't have the same ambition that Rory has. I think Logan would be more open to traveling with Rory. I like that Logan never pressured Rory for sex like Jess did. I think if Rory were ready to be settled in one spot (not necessarily Stars Hollow, maybe somewhere in Cali), Jess would be good. If she wants to travel and have adventure, then Logan would be better. I'd like to see a GG spin-off that reflects on Rory, her baby, and baby daddy. Only, I'd like to see her actually marry the baby daddy and develop that relationship. Or...maybe something happens to baby daddy and Jess marries Rory and raises the baby as his own.
Logan was the best boyfriend overall in my opinion but unfortunately brought out the worst side of rory (tbf thats not his fault) jess was her soultie and they could have been endgame (right person, wrong timing kinda thing) and dean yeaah he was a good first boyfriend but its very clear that they didn’t match like that and he def got worse overtime
I just think that as teenagers Jess was bad for Rory and as adults Rory was bad for Jess, in a different way. Rory and Logan match each other at every point in their relationship, I just think the two of them work best. But hey, as muchch as team Jess and team Logan argue at least we can agree that Dean sucks
Jess was literally the BEST boyfriend for Rory and in real life they actually dated like Rory actually looked happy with Jess like Jess really cares about Rory ❤
You mean same guy who just left without a word? Who got into fights? Who attempted (important) SA? Who did not care at all for anyone in the town? Yeah - sounds like a keeper
Currently on season 2 and just saying my opinion Dean is a walking red flag with no personality than being hot and anger issues. Why did Lorelei side him when he said “I love you” to Rory still astounds me. I don’t like Jess… troublemaker and homewrecker. He knew Rory has a bf but he still did that. Idk he sucks to me. Haven’t met Logan yet. Hope he’s better than those two.
absolutely! jess literally screams trouble, but im guessing people love him is bc he had a character development and undeniable connection with rory. logan is great too! i’m good with either jess or logan 😌 dean is definitely not an option 🤣
Dean was good in the beginning and gets worse while jess only gets better and by the time they are in the year in the life Jess is a mature adult and I need the two to be together or i might die.
Oh a little update. On season 7 now and I think Jess grew up a lot so I like him much more than before. Logan is meh… I don’t like him at college, but a little better now when he’s working. Still like Jess more than him tho lol.
Thought I love Rory and Jess but I also love Rory and Logan I disagree Jess is not the perfect boyfriend they barely had anytime together as a couple and Logan got little bit of season 4 and then he got 5 6 7 and the revival sorry life not fair girl Logan is the perfect boyfriend he changed his whole life for her he became her boyfriend he let her stay his apartment and he asked her to marry him get it right girl or don’t get it right at all and I think she should have married Logan
Finally an objective viewpoint on yt! Personally I never get the hype about jess😂 I don’t like how he was mean towards everyone except rory and had constant anger issues. Also, the fact that he tried to r*pe rory is like???? I understand that he has grown a lot since their breakup but it kinda was none of rory’s business anymore, right? If the show didn’t write the new jess and rory together, i think we just couldn’t have assumed that they would work out this time😂 (considering rory was having an illegitimate child with logan)
1. if you’re going to count things only done while in a relationship, Logan made the rude Marty comments before they started dating. and 2. I DONT BLAME HIM ABOUT JESS. RORY WENT BEHIND HIS BACK TO MEET UP WITH JESS. she ghosted him & then accused him of cheating when he took her IGNORING HIM as them being broken up. Logan isn’t perfect but to put him below jess based on how he was DURING their relationship, i disagree 😭
it made me laugh because the worst boyfriend IMO was Logan and everyone was indifferent about him or loved him. Lorelai didn't really care, Emily and Richard loved him because he was rich. Jess, also IMO treated Rory like a normal person. Didn't put her on a pedestal like Dean and the rest of the town (and family), and he also treated her well, gave her the most meaningful gifts and conversations (mainly regarding their shared love of books and music), Jess was also the more grounded one in the relationship and was truly self-made. Considering that he ended up as a successful writer in the revival, it shows how mature and self-reliant he really was. The town and most especially Lorelai (which was so surprising to me because Jess and Lorelai had a lot of similarities), treated him horribly and drove him out of Stars Hollow Inevitably, I don't think Jess and Rory would've been good together for a long-term relationship. I think Jess deserved better than her. But out of all the boyfriends, they were the most compatible and I believe Jess had the best intentions. *p.s. Rory was a classic case of always wanting what you can't have. When Jess was with that girl, Rory was jealous and was really mean to her. When Dean was with Lindsey, Rory wanted Dean, even after breaking up with him to be with Jess. When she got back with Dean, she was falling in love with Logan and playing with Dean's emotions AGAIN. I think the common problematic denominator in these relationships was Rory's inability to stay faithful. She was very opportunistic.
Thank u for this video! I love it! I think Jess is the best option to Rory because he improve her to make her dreams come true and he knows really good who is the real rory. Also he grows with her and they have a beutiful relationship.
DEFINITELY JESS!!! He was crappy at the beginning but he got better and could see thru Rory’s bullshit and wasnt afraid to challenge her. He actually SAW her. Dean was insufferable even in the first season and Logan?!? Come on!! He is the type of partner that would cheat on you and then tell you it was your fault for letting yourself “go”. I never liked Dean nor Logan. Both so entitled and misogynistic in their own way.
I definitely agree with you. Dean got worse over time, whereas Jess and Logan improved over time. But ultimately, Jess was the one she could count on time and again (even in a year in the life) to help get her back on track with her goals.
i agree! Jess would definitely be a good influence on Rory
I'm not a fan of Dean but I feel like Rory brought out the worst in him.. I mean she couldn't just let him go and instead keeps going back to him whenever she feels confused etc. probably why Dean acted the way he did towards her too. I like Jess better in the revival but I feel like he's too good for Rory..
it’s logan he’s the best bf like they had the healthiest relationship so far throughout the show.
Logan was perfect for her!
I think Jess is the best boyfriend for Rory ultimately but they weren't right when they were together as teens. It seemed to me that once they got together, they just made out like Rory used to with Dean, and no longer really had any meaningful connection like they did before they were dating. After Jess' character development and growth he's absolutely the best for Rory now, but I'm also glad Rory dated Logan for the Yale years because she needed to try that too. I think you're spot on with the Jess is Luke, Logan is Christopher theory.
Yes! And if Jess were to be Luke, i hope he would get his act together immediately, and not wait for 20 something years like his uncle
@@veralance_ that’s the hope! Jess is definitely more certain of how he feels about Rory than Luke seemed to about Lorelai, but I’m not sure Rory is as clear on her feelings though. I can imagine it going either way.
I didn't really care about who Rory should be with. She clearly can't have relationships because she doesn't communicate well with her partners. She was better off figuring out herself first.
exactly 💯
I love loagan he always treated her so well and although he could be a jerk some times he got so kind and caring he was really funny and smart 😊😊😊
Logan was no doubt the best boyfriend for rory. I love Jess, but your reasons had a lot of inconsistencies. Jess was such an awful boyfriend to Rory while Logan was great throughout the course of their relationship.
I absolutley agree with you and not just because Jess is my favorite and I felt bad that he didn't get what he deserved. Your opinions were spot on and you did great evaulation on this subject. You also made it so fun to watch and listen to. 🙌🏻💕
thank you so much!
Jess reminds me if Christopher in loreai's life. He just left and traumatized her. Even though he came back. How are you supposed to trust him?
Gosh, i’m saying this everytime Jess shows up, he’s just like christopher, come and go as he wants.
When some people said he’s like Luke, i was like NOooo, Luke stays in stars hollow for life, and Jess is nomad, how can they’re same ??
@@lolitaglamours exactly 💯. I get you bestie 💪
I don’t Like Jess I never did I was in love with dean, but Logan is definitely better and is the best boyfriend in my opinion. Jess can just disappear
I feel like the loyalty percentage for Logan is too low, he genuinely thought that had broken up due to lack of communication and past experiences, however he changed his entire life time and instantly ditched his other flings as soon as Rory said she couldn’t do this kind of relationship, and he sticked to it
I guess I’d give Logan at least 12% for loyalty
even tho jess and rory did not work out as teenagers, if we’re going off of year in the life it’s gotta be jess. rory needs to stop being the other woman imo and dean and logan just enabled that in her, but to be fair maybe they all should take a step back and re evaluate themselves anyway luke and lorelai for life
I used to dislike all of them. But maybe Logan fit her best even though I'd never give him a thought 🤣 he told Rory what was what when she was being dumb.
for real! and i like how he calls out Rory too
Logan is the best boyfriend by far.
My personal favourite is Logan as he was so sweet to Rory but he also put her in her place when he needed to. I agree Jess had the best development but if we were to only judge on how they were while they were dating Rory, he wouldn’t be the best as he constantly pushed her away and tried to pressure her to have s£x. They all have there bad moments but I feel like Logan and Rory balance each other out the most and fit the best together. Although Logan treated Jess terribly when they met, he had a reason, his girlfriend went behind his back to meet a guy and he only finds out as he got home early. Not to mention he was Rory’s ex. Not the biggest fan of teen Jess but adult Jess deserves so much. I’m pretty sure the whole fandom agrees that dean was not the best boyfriend as he was quite controlling and immature. He cheated on his wife for her but still never divorced Lindsey. My list goes: Logan, Jess, Dean.
I love Logan but Jess and Rory’s personalities just go together
Jess is a good friend for Rory, i think among all of guy friends rory has, Jess is one of a kind, but to be her boyfriend, NO. His action when he force himself to Rory and she told him no but he said “you come on your own” was really worse. That action might be forgiven but cannot be forgotten. And please, he once asked Rory to leave Yale and everything to come with him to live together, so later Rory comeback to Yale is not entire because of Jess call her out but progress of what happened with her since she left Yale.
I’m not hating Jess but sometimes i feel like some people of team jess forget those things
Logan the other hand asked her twice before they went to that step, he has flaws but he somehow acknowledge and apologize and communicate with Rory. He knows and observe Rory pretty well by telling her she’s a girlfriend material, a good debater, loves school. He’s a bit upset when she drops yale, but he didn’t lash out on Rory, and as he understand what she’s been through he said she could give one month before really dropping yale.
And that is not even remembering him just leaving without a word. What kind of boyfriend does that?
The answer is Jess. Literally everyone agrees.
I've never even watched the show and even I agree
Yesss Jess is perfect for rory i hope they die together
I politely and respectfully don't agree
Hopefully they make a third season and they get together
Sorry not sorry Jess was not the best boyfriend they literally had 7 episodes together sorry life not fair
Jess is the best looking but I actually think Logan was very supportive when Rory’s grandfather ended up in the hospital. They also had a banter and compatibility with one another.
thank you so much for captions! your videos are so good! this is one of my favourite GG topics to think about
you’re so sweet! thank you 🫶
I loved the fact Dean had evolved and finally has a family and a good job as well as a good life that is not including Rory. Logan on the other hand was starting, because Rory declined Logans proposal. Jess seems like a good person, but I really don't know anything about Jess life.
logan no doubt
The thing I never thought about before: what if subconsciously, Rory went to Philadelphia as a way to feel empowered about what happened at Kyle's party when they were young??
I am team loagan
I think that Dean isn't as bad as you think he is. Hear me out, Dean was the 'Perfect First Boyfriend' that's the whole point, he was Rory's FIRST boyfriend. Dean was supposed to be possessive and make bad decisions and I felt you were a little harsh on him especially in loyalty like he was loyal to Rory completely, he wasn't loyal to Lindsay his later wife which didn't have any affect on his loyalty to Rory. Though I do agree on Jess being a match to Rory, especially in intelligence, I think Logan is superior to both Dean and Jess. Logan doesn't put Rory on that pedestal she's been on her whole life during their relationship and thinks of her as a equal. So my list would go Best - Logan, 2nd Best - Jess, 3rd Best - Dean.
I agree with you to a level, but like no one mentions ever that it takes two to dance so Dean cheating on Lindsay wasn't entirely his fault it was on Rory too. I don't have the energy to go in detail rn what I think because it's almost midnight were I live but if I remember I'll try to give my whole opinion on all of theese things when I wake up after I've slept for a while.
Es muy sencillo. Fue Dean, y la misma Rory se lo dijo en el A year in the life.
Dean literally love bombed her and gaslight her , he didn’t know privacy or personal space. Honestly I feel like the rating was too high for him… even tho I hate Rory dean was no where near the “perfect first boyfriend”
She cheated on him twice. Dean was too good for her.
I have a hard time deciding between Logan and Jess. I know Dean is definitely a no. He doesn't have the same ambition that Rory has. I think Logan would be more open to traveling with Rory. I like that Logan never pressured Rory for sex like Jess did. I think if Rory were ready to be settled in one spot (not necessarily Stars Hollow, maybe somewhere in Cali), Jess would be good. If she wants to travel and have adventure, then Logan would be better.
I'd like to see a GG spin-off that reflects on Rory, her baby, and baby daddy. Only, I'd like to see her actually marry the baby daddy and develop that relationship. Or...maybe something happens to baby daddy and Jess marries Rory and raises the baby as his own.
omg i loved your video! it's so great and well done ❤❤
Logan duh
Logan was the best boyfriend overall in my opinion but unfortunately brought out the worst side of rory (tbf thats not his fault) jess was her soultie and they could have been endgame (right person, wrong timing kinda thing) and dean yeaah he was a good first boyfriend but its very clear that they didn’t match like that and he def got worse overtime
I just think that as teenagers Jess was bad for Rory and as adults Rory was bad for Jess, in a different way. Rory and Logan match each other at every point in their relationship, I just think the two of them work best.
But hey, as muchch as team Jess and team Logan argue at least we can agree that Dean sucks
Logan
whoops you made a typo cause i think you meant to say Jess
Jess was literally the BEST boyfriend for Rory and in real life they actually dated like Rory actually looked happy with Jess like Jess really cares about Rory ❤
You mean same guy who just left without a word? Who got into fights? Who attempted (important) SA? Who did not care at all for anyone in the town? Yeah - sounds like a keeper
All 3 guys are not great boyfriends in my opinion.
so your saying jess right? cause i agree lol
Currently on season 2 and just saying my opinion
Dean is a walking red flag with no personality than being hot and anger issues. Why did Lorelei side him when he said “I love you” to Rory still astounds me.
I don’t like Jess… troublemaker and homewrecker. He knew Rory has a bf but he still did that. Idk he sucks to me.
Haven’t met Logan yet. Hope he’s better than those two.
absolutely! jess literally screams trouble, but im guessing people love him is bc he had a character development and undeniable connection with rory. logan is great too! i’m good with either jess or logan 😌 dean is definitely not an option 🤣
Dean was good in the beginning and gets worse while jess only gets better and by the time they are in the year in the life Jess is a mature adult and I need the two to be together or i might die.
Oh a little update.
On season 7 now and I think Jess grew up a lot so I like him much more than before. Logan is meh… I don’t like him at college, but a little better now when he’s working. Still like Jess more than him tho lol.
Money I mean Logan
love this comment! 🤣
I love Logan but Jess just… I feel like he deserves better than rory
I love logan but jess tho ❤
Haha, yup, Dave is the best! 😁
Thought I love Rory and Jess but I also love Rory and Logan I disagree Jess is not the perfect boyfriend they barely had anytime together as a couple and Logan got little bit of season 4 and then he got 5 6 7 and the revival sorry life not fair girl Logan is the perfect boyfriend he changed his whole life for her he became her boyfriend he let her stay his apartment and he asked her to marry him get it right girl or don’t get it right at all and I think she should have married Logan
TEAM LOGAN!!!!!
Finally an objective viewpoint on yt! Personally I never get the hype about jess😂 I don’t like how he was mean towards everyone except rory and had constant anger issues. Also, the fact that he tried to r*pe rory is like???? I understand that he has grown a lot since their breakup but it kinda was none of rory’s business anymore, right? If the show didn’t write the new jess and rory together, i think we just couldn’t have assumed that they would work out this time😂 (considering rory was having an illegitimate child with logan)
1. if you’re going to count things only done while in a relationship, Logan made the rude Marty comments before they started dating. and 2. I DONT BLAME HIM ABOUT JESS. RORY WENT BEHIND HIS BACK TO MEET UP WITH JESS. she ghosted him & then accused him of cheating when he took her IGNORING HIM as them being broken up. Logan isn’t perfect but to put him below jess based on how he was DURING their relationship, i disagree 😭
it made me laugh because the worst boyfriend IMO was Logan and everyone was indifferent about him or loved him. Lorelai didn't really care, Emily and Richard loved him because he was rich.
Jess, also IMO treated Rory like a normal person. Didn't put her on a pedestal like Dean and the rest of the town (and family), and he also treated her well, gave her the most meaningful gifts and conversations (mainly regarding their shared love of books and music), Jess was also the more grounded one in the relationship and was truly self-made. Considering that he ended up as a successful writer in the revival, it shows how mature and self-reliant he really was. The town and most especially Lorelai (which was so surprising to me because Jess and Lorelai had a lot of similarities), treated him horribly and drove him out of Stars Hollow
Inevitably, I don't think Jess and Rory would've been good together for a long-term relationship. I think Jess deserved better than her.
But out of all the boyfriends, they were the most compatible and I believe Jess had the best intentions.
*p.s. Rory was a classic case of always wanting what you can't have. When Jess was with that girl, Rory was jealous and was really mean to her. When Dean was with Lindsey, Rory wanted Dean, even after breaking up with him to be with Jess. When she got back with Dean, she was falling in love with Logan and playing with Dean's emotions AGAIN. I think the common problematic denominator in these relationships was Rory's inability to stay faithful. She was very opportunistic.
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Thank u for this video! I love it! I think Jess is the best option to Rory because he improve her to make her dreams come true and he knows really good who is the real rory. Also he grows with her and they have a beutiful relationship.
Not to mentioned Dean calls like 10 to 15 times a day
Was Rory was sneaking with Jess
DEFINITELY JESS!!! He was crappy at the beginning but he got better and could see thru Rory’s bullshit and wasnt afraid to challenge her. He actually SAW her. Dean was insufferable even in the first season and Logan?!? Come on!! He is the type of partner that would cheat on you and then tell you it was your fault for letting yourself “go”. I never liked Dean nor Logan. Both so entitled and misogynistic in their own way.