By the way ... I am 77 + .... who says you can’t find happiness at my age? I was just about to “throw in the towel” when I met Edward, thought it was going to be my last date and then what happened .... it is incredible. So happy now. Now I see what you say makes sense. 💕
Thank you for sharing , Inga! Great to hear that yoe found love at the age of 77! I'm sure this will last until the end... Hopefully I too will be finding my 'Edvard' soon... I'm 71 now. Great to know that it is never too late 😀
Top 10 🥰😍 1. He accepts your flaws. 2. He is proactive to your needs. 3. He goes above and beyond to make you happy. 4. He will make time for you. 5. He is interested with your personal life. 6. He is protected over you, emotional and physical well being. 7. He is supportive to you when you are stress.He is responsive to your text. 8. He talks about you to his family. 9. He introduces you to his friends and family within 6 months. 10. He future build with you.
The guy I’m getting to know does all of these things, but I’ve been in so many toxic relationships that I’m afraid anything good that he does for me is either lovebombing or some other narcissistic behavior that will hurt me in the end. I hope I don’t mess this up. 😔
#4 is very true. I'm dating a man with two small children & whenever I'm free (which isn't often) he rearranges his whole schedule to see me. It's very sweet.
I'm 62 and have been through a lot of toxicity and abuse ... Married 3 terrible times and grew up with an abusive father and mother .... I've now gotten to know the most wonderful man... he is so kind and fun ... We really are doing well ... So much of what you talk about is actually the norm in this relationship ... He is 10 years older than me .... but that doesn't matter to me at all ... I can tell that we are both invested .... I feel so blessed ....
Thank you so much Mat. I am 71 and met the man of my dreams over 11 months ago. We are INCREDIBLY happy!!! He does all of these things and more!! I am VERY BLESSED!!!!
This makes me appreciate my husband even more because he did all those things when we were dating. He is my love and my best friend. Thank you for reminding me to take care of him better as we grow old together.
My mom & step dad were together for 40 years. They met when I was 19 y.o..Jack was an AMAZING husband for my mom, terrific dad To me & my sisters, à perfect grandfather & Great GrandPa To My grandchildren .He just passes away last year @ the age of 92& 1/2. We all Loved him dearly ! . THEY WERE TRULY A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN !!
Exactly! 🔑😊 The actions he takes are the true measure of how much you mean to him. Don’t settle for less than you deserve, ladies! If you’re interested in exploring this more, I’m running a FREE live coaching course next month where we’ll cover these topics. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
Brenda Marie the grace of God. I was about to delete my dating app and he appeared. He looked like he was from where I’m from (California) so I took a chance and I’m so glad I did.
I'm 40. I've never had such a man in my life. I can only hope for the future. I've never been in love....well, one sided, of course. I have a cat now. It's fills some of the void.
Do the things that make you happy, embrace your singleness, it will make you more attractive and the right one will come along. I found love again at the age of 56, 5 years after the end of my 25 year marriage. The Lord kept me and blessed me. Love 💘 you first.
Wow, I've been dating a guy for a little over 2 months and this is all so him. It's so refreshingly different from most of dating experiences I've had before, just so natural and comfortable and easy.
I remember dating my boyfriend last year and we move slowly. And when he started talking about his future with me I know where we were heading. He is amazing.
@@Wowyana we are talking like 6 months and we are in a relationship kind of slowly haha. Taking our time knowing each other. Just being friends. Getting comfortable. Being ourselves. Almost a year now 🥰
Ya, exactly. We went through a drive-thru recently and we were eating in my car and he randomly brought up "names we wouldn't use for our kids." Lol it's silly, but he has brought up kids/marriage a lot. All the time, he is certain of his intentions for me ❤
Thanks for this video I’m over 70, thought I’d never find someone as wonderful as my new man. Most all the points you gave are present in our relationship ❤️
1.) They embrace your flaws with a smile 2.) They are exceptionally present and proactive to your needs 3.) They go "above and beyond" to make you happy 4.) They make time for you (no matter how busy they are) 5.) They're genuinely curious about the details of your life 6.) They get a little protective over you (in a healthy way) 7.) Quick and thoughtful responses to texts 8.) He talks about you to friends and family 9.) He introduces you to his friends and family in a reasonable amount of time 10.) He future-builds with you Thanks again for an amazing video. Some of these were reassuring and some made me worry a little bit, because they were already points of contention in our relationship.(2 and 10 lol) Overall, your insight was helpful.
... when he couldn't stand seeing her so upset during their argument, that he comes close to her and hugs her lovingly, kisses her head, say "I love you", until the she calms down, making her feel secure and that no argument is more important than his woman to be peaceful again... Because her peace is his peace... That's my Man, and I am proud of him :)
The moment when you watch this video till the end and realize that you have been suffering in a relation for 10 years with a man that has not invested a dime emotionally into me. None of the 10 signs present......... I guess I need to take action now... @Mat: thank you so much for opening my eyes!
but not introduced to friends.... ever....!!! haven't meet him physically even... in our imagination everything you said is very well achieved... drag down to dismiss... he said.. he's watching me... yes love felt the vibs.. thanks💋but emotionally invested in me.... no doubt about that... he said I'm unique... etc.. 😜🐒🍌👻
what are you doing with the cam.... oh my! oh my! stop it pls.. good night love..!!! .saying good night to you is so hard for me to do.. you better sleep now... sleep tight... see in the morning.. 💋👩❤️💋👨
I met a man about a month ago...and he is already all of the points u mentioned in your video. He has caused me to experiences I havent had happen in several yrs. Its like we have known each other for a long time. We have many things in common and we have already had some serious discussions....getting to know each other. We have been talking about our future together. Idk if its the real thing, but it surely does seem like it! You are spot on and i love ur videos!!
Wow. Thanks to you, I just realized my best male friend is actually in love with me. I complained that my hot water heater was not working. He drove 300 miles to come fix it. We webt shopping and I saw a thing I liked and said I wish I could afford it. He went and got it for me as a gift. Among other things you mentioned. Now....I am digesting that. On the other hand I have been seeing someone that doesnt show as much investment, yet I hear from his co workers that he talks about me a lot in a positive way. But he isnt exactly clearing his schedule for me. Things to think about.
This is such great info. My man introduced me to his dad and step mom and his friend in a week. He also does most of the other 9 things on your list. Thank you!
I want to express my immense gratitude towards you Matt. You have helped me unlock my gifts and start sharing magic to help other women to step inti their true power. I was in the group coaching you did for light workers with Aaron Doughty and Victor Oddo and since July I have been sharing my voice loud and proud. I cant wait to help and inspire women like you do and to the extent that you do❤❤❤
My man does all of these with flying colors and more!! I think he is in Love with me already. It's been 2 months I think he's my soul mate he is me but in male form. We are congenial companions that met by devine intervention we weren't even looking for each other we we're just drawn together like magnets it was as if we had known each other our whole lives the moment we met. I didn't even know it was possible or that someone so perfect for me existed 😭🙌🏼💖. We even went through the same past life traumatic stories and we both have the same mental disability too! It's like he was created for me.
I've been in a relationship with the love of my life for 6 months, longest relationship I've EVER had because I just wasn't ready, but this man when I get acne or anything he's like "I don't care about that your beautiful." And I'm like I friggin love you. 😍
Not sure why this was recommended for me to watch today, but now I really miss my sweet man 🥰 he hits all these boxes and more, and really came out of nowhere.
He definitely accepts me despite of my flaws and my serious medical condition, he asks me how I'm feeling and what he can do to help if I'm not well, he's not good in reading indirect requests but that's fine, making time for me is okay but could be improved, he's very interested in my hobbies and my life and he remembers things even though his memory sucks, he's extremely protective in a healthy way and willing to fix my problems, he is a busy man but he still does respond within a reasonable amount of time and he did mention me to his family but I haven't met them because I haven't been to the state he lives, he includes me when talking about the future and is vulnerable with me. Pretty much showing all the signs, some could be better but nobody is perfect right?
Hello Mat. I have just enjoyed 3 of your interesting videos. I have met Edward and he fills all 10 of your mentioned requirements for a happy relationship. Since I lost my husband of over 50 years happy marriage to cancer, I had a number of dates and one which turned out to be an absolute nightmare. If I had seen your videos before, I would have never got devastated or hurt. I know now that I have made the right choice with Edward and I am so happy. I am sure your videos will help lots of listeners. Keep up the good work. A warm hug from Inga 😘 😘 💝
Very well said Atty Matt . I finally found a man who when looks at my face and knows how my day went. Embracing my flaws as well. And by the way he will wait for me until i get home so we can video chat every night for a goodnight. I prayed with him as well. We set our marriage on Nov 3, 2020 just hoping Covid will be over. God Bless you and your tribe
@@MsAnchovey here’s the engagement ring and our wedding ring he designed for our wedding. We are waiting for the International Flight to be open. We still talk every night and asked me how’s my day❤️ haven’t feel any change in my man♥️
The man I love is emotionallly unavailable. He is my good friend and lover, lost his wife of cancer 8 years ago. Why did I fell for him...My age is 52, I had a few long relationships, was happy to be single and I live alone just fine. I guess I'd better leave, but that feels so incredible heartbreaking. We've grown to one another, but I guess I just have to make up my mind...
He checked all these boxes and alottt more. Know him for over a decade and We’ve been together for 7 months.We just got married last month. He shows me so much respect and love and I’m literally so happy and proud to have him in my life. We are best friends and we have a very healthy relationship. God has been great to us
Thank you so much for this information I am 66 years old in a long-distance relationship with someone I knew from my childhood who is still across the country and all the signs that you just talked about our present in my relationship and thank you for reassuring me that he really does love me. We are waiting until after Covid to get together.
Thank you soo much for this! 1 minute in and you hit the number one thing that I’m trying so frantically to fix about myself just to learn that this one insecurity is something he appreciates so much more than I can even imagine
IKR after 12 yrs with a nightmare Narcisst and free for 4 yrs. I dated 2 guys for a VERY short time , they were NARC's ...same sh*t, different body. I met a guy a few weeks ago, I have learned to leave alot about those 12 yrs in the past.. yet keeping an eye on red flags, even the slightest. I do have a bit of a guard up, yet I dont let it show.. BUT< meanwhile, so far so good... I'm a young 63, hes 58.
Thank you for confirming my man’s investment in me and our future. I’m so happy to finally have my amazing soul mate in my life. He accepts all my possible deal breakers. He treats my like a precious Queen. He’s my sweet King. He does all of the things you mentioned. I’m moving from Hawaii to be closer to him in California. Yay! Thank you so much!
My dear boyfriend did all these 10 things the past 4 months. I loved him deeply. But he's schizophrenic and one voice in his head said that he's not enough for me, that he's a loser. He wants to love me, but he can't because of that voice. He left me: he can't fight successfully against this voice. It's breaking my heart. 😥😥😥😥😥
So interesting because my guy friend exhibits all of these traits. Currently we are long distance building a friendship, but this makes me think he is a good one!
Thank you Matt i needed someone to remind me how good an sweet, my boyfriend is to me. He just mention to me last night that we are going to build a house together in the near future. He is much younger than myself, am a African American, an he's an Italian. Will you please do a viedo on mix couples, or younger men with cougars.😌😌😌
I’m so glad to hear that! 😊 It sounds like you have a really sweet and special relationship-big plans like building a house together are a great sign! I love the idea of covering mixed couples and age-gap relationships in a video. If you’re interested in learning more relationship insights, I’m hosting a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and you’re more than welcome to join! masteryofconnection.com/ 💖
Thanks Mat , you are talking about being romantic ..Its a good feeling to be loved and be in love ...❤❤ Im 72 yrs old after my 1st hubby passed by I thought its over for me but then I met a special somebody , and I think its love ....Im happy ..and yes he is talking about vision ..
Love all your videos! Almost all of these things are so true of my boyfriend and I. Within the first two months he met my parents, I met his greatest best friend and his parents in the same day. Everyone who I have met in his friends and family have told me how amazing I am for him and how much time he has talked and still talks to them about me. We moved in together within the first 8 months. We have talked about marriage and kids and where we are going to live etc. We talked via text for 4 days before we met and by the second date I knew he was the one. We tease eachother all the time. He does take sometimes by texting me back but he works in a hospital so I know he will message me back when he can.
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Hi Mat! I sloshed my coffee trying to get to my keyboard to let you know how much I enjoyed this video. I really like your enthusiasm and your insight. Thank you very much!!
Men are tricky so depending on if the man is playing you, he too can do these things all the while still not invested. For example most men have huge egos so don't mistake him doing things for you as he's into you, he might just be doing it to build up his ego. For example if a man fixes something in your house he might be feeling only this and only this... "hey I fixed this im awesome." Another thing just because a man doesn't buy you something or take you out doesn't mean he's not invested but might mean he's not doing well financially so I believe its in his actions definitely if he asks how your Feeling? Trys to make you laugh when your down Maybe snuggle up to you, offers a back massage but only that not to just lead to sex. Another thing is a man whose trying to play you might want to know things about you not cause he cares but to find out how to trick you to find out your weaknesses and to learn you so he can take control and use you. So becareful and beware. From someone who has been there.
Hey thanks, my guy who broke with me recently after 6 months used to do most of all these things except two. He showed himself to be madly in Love, he cared, he asked about my day, he gave me a lovely saree. But he hid his residential address. He never introduced me to anyone. And he never talked about our future. When he broke up he asked me not to think he hadnt loved me. He had. And he had thought of our future coz he did say if I go abroad he will follow. Its just tjat his wife came back unexpectedly so he cant say no to her and he is going back to his marriage. I am devastated. I feel sometimes he had either studied his subject well or had been in some kind of love. He even called twice after breaking up to make sure I reached home.
This is the comment i've been searching for. The guy i've been in contact wd has all the signs of a player but at the same time done some things that seemed genuine. Which makes it hard for me to judge. I've already stopped contact tho.
A man can do all these and still cheat on you. Some men do all these to compensate for the cheating they do, due to their own self esteem issues. A telltale sign that he is really emotionally invested in you is if he walks with integrity. Not every man is loyal and faithful, only some are.
You are hilarious Mat! These all are truths and several things that were missing in past relationships. Im 57 now and everything is so different! (Mostly my tolerance of crap lol) Enjoyed your video, thank you!
Thank you, that really means a lot! 😊 I’m so happy the advice hit home for you. 🥰 If you’d like to explore more insights on love and relationships, I’m doing a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
Mat, your videos are getting more and more fun to see. God job, men! Besides that it's visible you're much more comfortable and open now. Really nice to watch your videos and your wisdom and knowledge. Thank you 🙏🌸
Actually, "emotions are divine feelings & strength for some people"... The more I get sentimental... the more strength & courage I get to fight for truth & justice... because "Love is Life" & "life is struggle "🙂
This video has helped me tremendously in remembering that I am female and he is male (thus I express too much and he too little) and that often you won’t get the validation you’re looking for from him verbally. Rather, you must pay attention to the other clues and cues. That is what this video made me realize!! also that I am now gonna give him a bit of a break lol!!
Thanks so much for the feedback my dear!!! Truly appreciate it and I am right there with you... it’s easier to harness my energy when I’m standing up with this new set up :)
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By the way ... I am 77 + .... who says you can’t find happiness at my age? I was just about to “throw in the towel” when I met Edward, thought it was going to be my last date and then what happened .... it is incredible. So happy now. Now I see what you say makes sense. 💕
Congrats to you &Edward. X
Awww lovely ❤🙏🏻 thank you fpr shared it with us❤
So happy for you Inga!! Thank you for the beautiful share, love is TRULY possible at any point in our lives ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing , Inga! Great to hear that yoe found love at the age of 77! I'm sure this will last until the end... Hopefully I too will be finding my 'Edvard' soon... I'm 71 now. Great to know that it is never too late 😀
Congratulations! It makes me so happy to know it's never too late to find love ❤
Top 10 🥰😍
1. He accepts your flaws.
2. He is proactive to your needs.
3. He goes above and beyond to make you happy.
4. He will make time for you.
5. He is interested with your personal life.
6. He is protected over you, emotional and physical well being.
7. He is supportive to you when you are stress.He is responsive to your text.
8. He talks about you to his family.
9. He introduces you to his friends and family within 6 months.
10. He future build with you.
well done my dear!!
TY~
Girl thx for the recap.
This deserves a screenshot
Thank you everyone! I just wrote it down too for my future reference :) I need to memorize and remember these important notes :)
This man knows his stuff. I'm impressed.
Thanks so much Karen M! 🙏❤️
Yes now its just trying to find these men lol.
@@makedafindlay9398 Right!
He definitely is invested
Ikr
"Emotional investment is the currency of love."
Way to break it down, man.
Thank you!
The guy I’m getting to know does all of these things, but I’ve been in so many toxic relationships that I’m afraid anything good that he does for me is either lovebombing or some other narcissistic behavior that will hurt me in the end. I hope I don’t mess this up. 😔
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new
#4 is very true. I'm dating a man with two small children & whenever I'm free (which isn't often) he rearranges his whole schedule to see me. It's very sweet.
You are so lucky
I’m so happy for you my dear!
I'm 62 and have been through a lot of toxicity and abuse ... Married 3 terrible times and grew up with an abusive father and mother .... I've now gotten to know the most wonderful man... he is so kind and fun ... We really are doing well ... So much of what you talk about is actually the norm in this relationship ... He is 10 years older than me .... but that doesn't matter to me at all ... I can tell that we are both invested .... I feel so blessed ....
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
Who would understand this than me 😢 but I am glad you are strong enough to break through! And able to build a health relationship! Remain blessed !
Thank you so much Mat.
I am 71 and met the man of my dreams over 11 months ago. We are INCREDIBLY happy!!! He does all of these things and more!! I am VERY BLESSED!!!!
Thank you so much for sharing!
My husband does these things! I am So happy :) I Thank God for him he is such a blessing to me!
Please pray4 me x my guy is asking abt God x its good
My guy does everything but sometimes takes several hours 2 reply2 my texts. Should I worry
Amen! ❤️🙏
That is awesome! Happy for you 😊
This makes me appreciate my husband even more because he did all those things when we were dating. He is my love and my best friend. Thank you for reminding me to take care of him better as we grow old together.
My mom & step dad were together for 40 years. They met when I was 19 y.o..Jack was an AMAZING husband for my mom, terrific dad To me & my sisters, à perfect grandfather & Great GrandPa To My grandchildren
.He just passes away last year @ the age of 92& 1/2. We all Loved him dearly ! . THEY WERE TRULY A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN !!
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
Yeah. And, did you need a “coach” to tell you those were the signs of love? I thought so…
Ladies he has given YOU the keys. Without these actions YOU mean very little to that man!!
Exactly! 🔑😊 The actions he takes are the true measure of how much you mean to him. Don’t settle for less than you deserve, ladies! If you’re interested in exploring this more, I’m running a FREE live coaching course next month where we’ll cover these topics. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
Wow! I’m super blessed! After a horrible year of dating unavailable men, I finally found the one!!
I need to go kiss my man now!! lol
How did you find him girl? Or rather how did he find you?
Brenda Marie the grace of God. I was about to delete my dating app and he appeared. He looked like he was from where I’m from (California) so I took a chance and I’m so glad I did.
i think i am dating an unavailable men right now and i am crying. i deserve a good relationship, i dont understand why everything happens
Same☺️
@@meliholland same story with me and my new person 😭hoping for the best
I'm 40. I've never had such a man in my life. I can only hope for the future. I've never been in love....well, one sided, of course. I have a cat now. It's fills some of the void.
I am 39 and it took this long for it to find me
Do the things that make you happy, embrace your singleness, it will make you more attractive and the right one will come along. I found love again at the age of 56, 5 years after the end of my 25 year marriage. The Lord kept me and blessed me. Love 💘 you first.
You sound so bitter shift your energy
@@sofialovinglife597 she didn’t sound bitter to me, she was merely stating her truth. Being kind is always cool.
Me too I have cats and dogs they’re much better than men they’re extremely loyal and loving they’re enough for me
Wow, I've been dating a guy for a little over 2 months and this is all so him. It's so refreshingly different from most of dating experiences I've had before, just so natural and comfortable and easy.
❤️
what’s his zodiac sign by the way??
Are you in love with him and are you still together?
@@hellomiss7177 Virgo!
@@lucyk2634 yes it's been 7 months now and I'm very happy! (:
I remember dating my boyfriend last year and we move slowly. And when he started talking about his future with me I know where we were heading. He is amazing.
@@Wowyana we are talking like 6 months and we are in a relationship kind of slowly haha. Taking our time knowing each other. Just being friends. Getting comfortable. Being ourselves. Almost a year now 🥰
Ya, exactly. We went through a drive-thru recently and we were eating in my car and he randomly brought up "names we wouldn't use for our kids." Lol it's silly, but he has brought up kids/marriage a lot. All the time, he is certain of his intentions for me ❤
After 9 yrs of being single and searching on and off I finally found an amazing man who yesssss does these things..
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Thanks for this video I’m over 70, thought I’d never find someone as wonderful as my new man. Most all the points you gave are present in our relationship ❤️
AMAZING love blossoms at all ages! Congratulations! And thank you
He's so cute with his positive messages and his kind delivery❤
Happy to hear that!
Oh gosh I was finding reasons to convince myself that he just cares as a friend but you make some good points here that I can’t deny lol
Awesome! Thank you ❤
1.) They embrace your flaws with a smile
2.) They are exceptionally present and proactive to your needs
3.) They go "above and beyond" to make you happy
4.) They make time for you (no matter how busy they are)
5.) They're genuinely curious about the details of your life
6.) They get a little protective over you (in a healthy way)
7.) Quick and thoughtful responses to texts
8.) He talks about you to friends and family
9.) He introduces you to his friends and family in a reasonable amount of time
10.) He future-builds with you
Thanks again for an amazing video. Some of these were reassuring and some made me worry a little bit, because they were already points of contention in our relationship.(2 and 10 lol)
Overall, your insight was helpful.
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
... when he couldn't stand seeing her so upset during their argument, that he comes close to her and hugs her lovingly, kisses her head, say "I love you", until the she calms down, making her feel secure and that no argument is more important than his woman to be peaceful again... Because her peace is his peace...
That's my Man, and I am proud of him :)
Hello 👋 Friend...How are you doing today?
@@tonyalexa1120 Good! Thanks!
@@sheila71072 You're most welcome🤗 Where are you from?
@@tonyalexa1120 Philippjnes :) what about you?
I’m so happy for you my dear!
The moment when you watch this video till the end and realize that you have been suffering in a relation for 10 years with a man that has not invested a dime emotionally into me. None of the 10 signs present......... I guess I need to take action now...
@Mat: thank you so much for opening my eyes!
Yep get ride of him.
Listen to a lady on UA-cam called Shera seven. She can change your life for the better.
That is how my ex was.. Good luck to you.
I know. Right?
Very sad. Hope you have better luck soon
I'm so blessed and overly grateful that my boyfriend does all those things you've talked about 💕🥰😍
aww thats fantastic Delanie!! you're a lucky woman
Wonder what planet he comes from? 😄
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but not introduced to friends.... ever....!!! haven't meet him physically even... in our imagination everything you said is very well achieved... drag down to dismiss... he said.. he's watching me... yes love felt the vibs.. thanks💋but emotionally invested in me.... no doubt about that... he said I'm unique... etc.. 😜🐒🍌👻
what are you doing with the cam.... oh my! oh my! stop it pls.. good night love..!!! .saying good night to you is so hard for me to do.. you better sleep now... sleep tight... see in the morning.. 💋👩❤️💋👨
As a man. I really appreciate the traits you exposed in this video.
Happy I could be of help!
Yeaaa.. he’s definitely emotionally invested in me 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you!!
So glad!
I met a man about a month ago...and he is already all of the points u mentioned in your video. He has caused me to experiences I havent had happen in several yrs. Its like we have known each other for a long time. We have many things in common and we have already had some serious discussions....getting to know each other. We have been talking about our future together. Idk if its the real thing, but it surely does seem like it! You are spot on and i love ur videos!!
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
Wow. Thanks to you, I just realized my best male friend is actually in love with me. I complained that my hot water heater was not working. He drove 300 miles to come fix it. We webt shopping and I saw a thing I liked and said I wish I could afford it. He went and got it for me as a gift. Among other things you mentioned. Now....I am digesting that.
On the other hand I have been seeing someone that doesnt show as much investment, yet I hear from his co workers that he talks about me a lot in a positive way. But he isnt exactly clearing his schedule for me.
Things to think about.
I’m glad to hear everything worked out well. But it doesn't end there as of yet, just keep the positivity going dear! ♥ :)
Nice to see a relatively short presentation filled with important and helpful information.
Glad it was helpful!
This is such great info. My man introduced me to his dad and step mom and his friend in a week. He also does most of the other 9 things on your list. Thank you!
That is awesome!
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@@Mat_ShafferI
I want to express my immense gratitude towards you Matt. You have helped me unlock my gifts and start sharing magic to help other women to step inti their true power. I was in the group coaching you did for light workers with Aaron Doughty and Victor Oddo and since July I have been sharing my voice loud and proud. I cant wait to help and inspire women like you do and to the extent that you do❤❤❤
My man does all of these with flying colors and more!! I think he is in Love with me already. It's been 2 months I think he's my soul mate he is me but in male form. We are congenial companions that met by devine intervention we weren't even looking for each other we we're just drawn together like magnets it was as if we had known each other our whole lives the moment we met. I didn't even know it was possible or that someone so perfect for me existed 😭🙌🏼💖. We even went through the same past life traumatic stories and we both have the same mental disability too! It's like he was created for me.
You are in the honey phase it’s only been two month men start switching up around 6th or 12th month if they are a player
True I guess I'll see won't I how she goes! 😊 lol
20days in & flash forward to now ! We'd love an Update 😊
Congratulations
I've experienced 8 out of 10 of these from the man I've been seeing for two months. Guess we're off to a good start! Thank you for the information!
Hope you’re still together?
Hope you two are still together
Amazing! love hearing that!
Loved that!
Favorite: Sharing his future dreams and plans.
Many thanks!
I've been in a relationship with the love of my life for 6 months, longest relationship I've EVER had because I just wasn't ready, but this man when I get acne or anything he's like "I don't care about that your beautiful." And I'm like I friggin love you. 😍
He is a con man of the heart
Heartless really
Move on with your life
Sounds like a great guy!
Hello 👋 Emily.. How are you doing today?
I’m glad to hear everything worked out well.
just have to say this; spending time on a date in the park is really nice, and not every guy has the kind of money to book a vacation *like that*!
Thanks for sharing
Now this video makes me understand that I'm the man in the relationship 😅
I was just thinking the same darn thing...
Masculine energy
Me tooo😂
I appreciate your opinion on this!
Not sure why this was recommended for me to watch today, but now I really miss my sweet man 🥰 he hits all these boxes and more, and really came out of nowhere.
Happy to hear that!
He definitely accepts me despite of my flaws and my serious medical condition, he asks me how I'm feeling and what he can do to help if I'm not well, he's not good in reading indirect requests but that's fine, making time for me is okay but could be improved, he's very interested in my hobbies and my life and he remembers things even though his memory sucks, he's extremely protective in a healthy way and willing to fix my problems, he is a busy man but he still does respond within a reasonable amount of time and he did mention me to his family but I haven't met them because I haven't been to the state he lives, he includes me when talking about the future and is vulnerable with me. Pretty much showing all the signs, some could be better but nobody is perfect right?
what a wonderful man! love that you are super grateful for who he is and how he shows up in your life
Yes you are amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for this!!!!!!
Happy to help! 🥰
Hello Mat. I have just enjoyed 3 of your interesting videos. I have met Edward and he fills all 10 of your mentioned requirements for a happy relationship. Since I lost my husband of over 50 years happy marriage to cancer, I had a number of dates and one which turned out to be an absolute nightmare. If I had seen your videos before, I would have never got devastated or hurt. I know now that I have made the right choice with Edward and I am so happy. I am sure your videos will help lots of listeners. Keep up the good work. A warm hug from Inga 😘 😘 💝
You are so right
I hope this isn't too bold but you are absolutely beautiful Inga, wow 😍
Thanks so much my dear!
Very well said Atty Matt . I finally found a man who when looks at my face and knows how my day went. Embracing my flaws as well. And by the way he will wait for me until i get home so we can video chat every night for a goodnight. I prayed with him as well. We set our marriage on Nov 3, 2020 just hoping Covid will be over. God Bless you and your tribe
Ohh, so lucky. Just give you blessings.
❤Today is Nov 3.❤ Happy wedding day!!❤ Let me know how it goes❤
@@MsAnchovey here’s the engagement ring and our wedding ring he designed for our wedding. We are waiting for the International Flight to be open. We still talk every night and asked me how’s my day❤️ haven’t feel any change in my man♥️
Thank You for remembering and asking AnnKleinman
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The man I love is emotionallly unavailable. He is my good friend and lover, lost his wife of cancer 8 years ago. Why did I fell for him...My age is 52, I had a few long relationships, was happy to be single and I live alone just fine. I guess I'd better leave, but that feels so incredible heartbreaking. We've grown to one another, but I guess I just have to make up my mind...
Don’t give up on love sister!
This is SO My Man.. I'm SO Blessed & Appreciate him🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️
Amazing! love hearing that!
@@Mat_Shaffer After years of searching loll..thank u though
He checked all these boxes and alottt more. Know him for over a decade and We’ve been together for 7 months.We just got married last month. He shows me so much respect and love and I’m literally so happy and proud to have him in my life. We are best friends and we have a very healthy relationship. God has been great to us
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
Thank you so much for this information I am 66 years old in a long-distance relationship with someone I knew from my childhood who is still across the country and all the signs that you just talked about our present in my relationship and thank you for reassuring me that he really does love me. We are waiting until after Covid to get together.
lori richards,you deserve better!
Your post gives me hope. Thanks! 😊
@@phoenixmode6909 you are welcome my dearest 🌹🌷🌷.I'm Oscar Williamson from the States.You?
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Thank you soo much for this! 1 minute in and you hit the number one thing that I’m trying so frantically to fix about myself just to learn that this one insecurity is something he appreciates so much more than I can even imagine
So glad my content supports you :)
IKR after 12 yrs with a nightmare Narcisst and free for 4 yrs. I dated 2 guys for a VERY short time , they were NARC's ...same sh*t, different body. I met a guy a few weeks ago, I have learned to leave alot about those 12 yrs in the past.. yet keeping an eye on red flags, even the slightest. I do have a bit of a guard up, yet I dont let it show.. BUT< meanwhile, so far so good... I'm a young 63, hes 58.
Oh yeah my guy is a pro at all of the those I'm the most blessed woman in the whole entire world!
Ahhhhhhh xxxxx
Found him 12 years ago and we’ve been married for 6 years with 2 beautiful kids. 🥰
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Well, 10 signs signalled me that he is not emotionally invested in me :/
Thanks so much for sharing!
Thank you so much for sharing and explaining how a man shows love and emotional attachment to a special woman in his life.
Hello 👋 Rachel...How are you doing today?
Amazing! love hearing that!
Thank you for confirming my man’s investment in me and our future. I’m so happy to finally have my amazing soul mate in my life. He accepts all my possible deal breakers. He treats my like a precious Queen. He’s my sweet King. He does all of the things you mentioned. I’m moving from Hawaii to be closer to him in California. Yay! Thank you so much!
Smile 😊
Hello 👋 Carolyn.. How are you doing today?
Awww! So happy for you, beautiful!
My dear boyfriend did all these 10 things the past 4 months.
I loved him deeply.
But he's schizophrenic and one voice in his head said that he's not enough for me, that he's a loser.
He wants to love me, but he can't because of that voice.
He left me: he can't fight successfully against this voice.
It's breaking my heart. 😥😥😥😥😥
He needs treatment but you need to get some counciling also from a psychologist. Living with a schizophrenic can be challenging for all envolved.
I promise there are good guys out there my dear!
So interesting because my guy friend exhibits all of these traits. Currently we are long distance building a friendship, but this makes me think he is a good one!
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Your eyes and shirt are beautiful together.
That's very sweet. ❤
Thank you Matt i needed someone to remind me how good an sweet, my boyfriend is to me. He just mention to me last night that we are going to build a house together in the near future. He is much younger than myself, am a African American, an he's an Italian. Will you please do a viedo on mix couples, or younger men with cougars.😌😌😌
I’m so glad to hear that! 😊 It sounds like you have a really sweet and special relationship-big plans like building a house together are a great sign! I love the idea of covering mixed couples and age-gap relationships in a video. If you’re interested in learning more relationship insights, I’m hosting a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and you’re more than welcome to join! masteryofconnection.com/ 💖
Love this man's personality, keep it up👍💯
Thanks, will do!
Thanks Mat , you are talking about being romantic ..Its a
good feeling to be loved and
be in love ...❤❤ Im 72 yrs old
after my 1st hubby passed by I
thought its over for me but then
I met a special somebody , and
I think its love ....Im happy ..and
yes he is talking about vision ..
Wonderful!
Great information. Still
have questions that I’d really love to discuss with you. Need more clarity! Please let me know! Thanks 🙏
Please do!
@@Mat_Shaffer waiting to hear back from you!!
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Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
Thank you Mat ❤️❤️❤️.. I hope to eventually share my life with someone eventually who meets all these steps!
I hope so too!
Thank you for these pointers, I spent to many years, waiting for the compliments, and not seeing the actions!
You're welcome!
Love all your videos! Almost all of these things are so true of my boyfriend and I. Within the first two months he met my parents, I met his greatest best friend and his parents in the same day. Everyone who I have met in his friends and family have told me how amazing I am for him and how much time he has talked and still talks to them about me. We moved in together within the first 8 months. We have talked about marriage and kids and where we are going to live etc. We talked via text for 4 days before we met and by the second date I knew he was the one. We tease eachother all the time. He does take sometimes by texting me back but he works in a hospital so I know he will message me back when he can.
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Thanks mat really helpful enjoyed the video ❤️😊
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This was right on!! Wish I had the opportunity to listen to this 10 years ago!
Thanks I hope still it helps:)
This is the reason why I never realized I was being manipulated by a narc. My ex did all 10 for me, but turned out to be a narc.
Same
I promise there are good guys out there my dear!
What a powerful quote, I love it! :)
Right?! so glad you liked it!!
Awesome! This is an eye opener!! Thank you Matt !!!
Glad you liked it!
Hi Mat! I sloshed my coffee trying to get to my keyboard to let you know how much I enjoyed this video. I really like your enthusiasm and your insight. Thank you very much!!
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
It's too open and easy guidance for women
I impressed!!!
I'm glad you found it impressive! Thanks much Sunanda🙏❤
I'm feeling pretty good about this my new guy does all of these things.
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Men are tricky so depending on if the man is playing you, he too can do these things all the while still not invested. For example most men have huge egos so don't mistake him doing things for you as he's into you, he might just be doing it to build up his ego. For example if a man fixes something in your house he might be feeling only this and only this... "hey I fixed this im awesome." Another thing just because a man doesn't buy you something or take you out doesn't mean he's not invested but might mean he's not doing well financially so I believe its in his actions definitely if he asks how your Feeling? Trys to make you laugh when your down Maybe snuggle up to you, offers a back massage but only that not to just lead to sex. Another thing is a man whose trying to play you might want to know things about you not cause he cares but to find out how to trick you to find out your weaknesses and to learn you so he can take control and use you. So becareful and beware. From someone who has been there.
Thanks for sharing!
Hey thanks, my guy who broke with me recently after 6 months used to do most of all these things except two. He showed himself to be madly in Love, he cared, he asked about my day, he gave me a lovely saree. But he hid his residential address. He never introduced me to anyone. And he never talked about our future. When he broke up he asked me not to think he hadnt loved me. He had. And he had thought of our future coz he did say if I go abroad he will follow. Its just tjat his wife came back unexpectedly so he cant say no to her and he is going back to his marriage. I am devastated. I feel sometimes he had either studied his subject well or had been in some kind of love. He even called twice after breaking up to make sure I reached home.
This is the comment i've been searching for. The guy i've been in contact wd has all the signs of a player but at the same time done some things that seemed genuine. Which makes it hard for me to judge. I've already stopped contact tho.
A man can do all these and still cheat on you. Some men do all these to compensate for the cheating they do, due to their own self esteem issues.
A telltale sign that he is really emotionally invested in you is if he walks with integrity.
Not every man is loyal and faithful, only some are.
Well done, Mat!
Room behind you shows fine taste! Nicely arranged decor. Glad your move has gone so well.
Stay safe!
Thank you.
Thanks, you too!
Awsome info. Thankyou
You’re making my heart smile with your kind words! Keep being amazing. 💖
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The man I’m dating less than 3 months he’s already have all that’s been mentioned, thank you 🙏
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
You are hilarious Mat! These all are truths and several things that were missing in past relationships. Im 57 now and everything is so different! (Mostly my tolerance of crap lol) Enjoyed your video, thank you!
Thanks for sharing!!
You alway's make learning fun Mat. Thank-you
Glad to hear that!
After years of dating and being in relationships I finally met one of these men it's really fulfilling
Yay! Happy for ya!
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
You got it, thankyou
Thanks so much my dear!
Thank you for some ideas 😉😉😉will follow this to find my future one 😍😍😍😍
My pleasure! Hopefully you'll find the one!
He does this everything to me even we’re in LDR, thanks😊👍
Happy to hear that!
You are just awesome Mat😀 Everything you just said are so true🥰 I really appreciate you 😇
Thank you, that really means a lot! 😊 I’m so happy the advice hit home for you. 🥰 If you’d like to explore more insights on love and relationships, I’m doing a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
Another amazing and helpful video. Thank you Mat for being a blessing to us all ❤
Tayma Rogers,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you for making me realize that no one has been totally emotionally invested in me. 😔
Dont give up on love sister!
Thanks for shedding 🕯️ on the cause mat 😘
You're very welcome. ♥
This is so true I'm blessed with my husband he does all of ths🙏🙏 thanks anyway
Thanks for watching
Mat, your videos are getting more and more fun to see. God job, men! Besides that it's visible you're much more comfortable and open now. Really nice to watch your videos and your wisdom and knowledge.
Thank you 🙏🌸
Thanks a ton!
Mat, very informative. Can you do a video on how this would look in a long-distance relationship?
I appreciate your opinion on this!
Wow very interesting
Thanks so much my dear!
My guy does all these...so glad for this video and getting to know my great new guy
Amazing! love hearing that!
I'm so happy I discovered your channel. Chapeau, Mat!
Awesome! Thank you!
You nailed it Mat! I liked your recap at the end, helpful
Glad you liked it!
Actually, "emotions are divine feelings & strength for some people"... The more I get sentimental... the more strength & courage I get to fight for truth & justice... because "Love is Life" & "life is struggle "🙂
I appreciate your opinion on this!
Act right for me love them true Story ❤️🤩
Thanks for sharing!
This is Jim's wife. Number 2 is insightful. I am glad there are these videos to help with knowing if a man is invested in you.
Thank you so much. 🙌❤️
This video has helped me tremendously in remembering that I am female and he is male (thus I express too much and he too little) and that often you won’t get the validation you’re looking for from him verbally. Rather, you must pay attention to the other clues and cues. That is what this video made me realize!! also that I am now gonna give him a bit of a break lol!!
Happy to help!
I am so grateful and blessed my boyfriend does everything you talked about
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Ive always loved your videos so much but this new format/and upgrade of quality makes me addicted. I love your passion how you talk!!! Thank you! :)
Thanks so much for the feedback my dear!!! Truly appreciate it and I am right there with you... it’s easier to harness my energy when I’m standing up with this new set up :)
I’m subscribing in this channel!
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Nice one
Thanks 🔥