Your talk has made me see self sabotage in a different way. I always thought it was my fears sabotaging things. In which it could be but I'm seeing it now as things still unhealed or things I need to look at about myself. Which gives a better direction, that feels better " to heal" Again, another great topic.Thank you! 😊❤
This was such a deep and truly deeply insightful talk. I had aha moments, and you guys brought up things that I have never thought of! What you said, Elise about self sabotage being an act of potentially rewriting our childhood trauma was something I’ve never thought of before! And yeah, why do we beat ourselves up over it? It really does nothing but perpetuate the act. And Lisa, I am so glad you shared that piece about freedom, self sabotage in giving up and feeling like you’re a quitter! I used to get myself involved actually I shouldn’t say used to. I still do get myself involved with too many projects and then I find myself quitting and getting this strange high from the freedom of release and I think that one of my reasons for being here is freedom too. I also think there’s a part of me that quits before I can disappoint anyone. Wow, this was really good stuff. Thank you all for what you shared! Self sabotage and why we do it is something that has been strongly on my mind lately and this help me think about it in a totally different way! I love you guys! ❤
Thank you so much, ladies, for such a beautiful and important message. This message absolutely resonates super deep with me. Sending so much love, light, and gratitude.❤❤❤❤
You ladies have no idea how much I needed to hear this after experiencing a very hard tower moment not long before I clicked on this video - I was headed into the shame spiral and this gave me pause to see/remember the underlying reasons for past behaviours (self protection - a behaviour deeply ingrained from childhood traumas). Thank you so much 🙏🏼❤
Omg someone is cutting onions around here….🧅😭! Whoa Nellie! Elyse when you said “oh I trust her” that did me in. Once you get to that place, and you can turn to YOU when muddy-shoe-peeps enter your zone, that is true freedom & peace. Challenging and ongoing work to get there, but it’s so worth it. Thank you Elyse, Lisa and Ginette so much!! You are really helping this world one vulnerable, authentic podcast at a time. 🩵🙏🏻🌞☀️🌤️💛🌻✨💫🌟🩵
Lisa, I am also one who loves freedom! I recently realized this myself and have started to embrace it, along with my love of exploration, curiosity, and love of new experiences. In childhood, my mom continously called me a "quitter." I had never made that connection until you said what you did. It really helps to have this insight, especially now as I embark on my next big adventure. Thank you!
I started to think about what I do to self sabotage and then mentally chastise myself for. There are two in particular, but they both represent “home”. Hmmmm…. Thank you for delving into this topic 🤗🤗🤗
Maybe it is a sort of battle between you and ’the others’ (collective). A matter of being or feeling ’normal’. Just follow your excitement and know that ’ normal’ does not exist, it is a false beliefsystem. People need also to understand that the process is more important than the result and it can even improve the result. If you climb a mountain and arrive at the viewpoint, it will be more satisfying than riding up the hill and stop at the viewpoint. The view is the same, but the experience is not. Look also to the message from archangel jophiel channeled by Mel Lawson on 1/18/2025. ’Be at ease with yourself ’...I saw it right after the spirit coffee talk. It proves again, there are no coincidences.
Your talk has made me see self sabotage in a different way. I always thought it was my fears sabotaging things. In which it could be but I'm seeing it now as things still unhealed or things I need to look at about myself. Which gives a better direction, that feels better " to heal" Again, another great topic.Thank you! 😊❤
This was such a deep and truly deeply insightful talk. I had aha moments, and you guys brought up things that I have never thought of! What you said, Elise about self sabotage being an act of potentially rewriting our childhood trauma was something I’ve never thought of before! And yeah, why do we beat ourselves up over it? It really does nothing but perpetuate the act. And Lisa, I am so glad you shared that piece about freedom, self sabotage in giving up and feeling like you’re a quitter! I used to get myself involved actually I shouldn’t say used to. I still do get myself involved with too many projects and then I find myself quitting and getting this strange high from the freedom of release and I think that one of my reasons for being here is freedom too. I also think there’s a part of me that quits before I can disappoint anyone. Wow, this was really good stuff. Thank you all for what you shared! Self sabotage and why we do it is something that has been strongly on my mind lately and this help me think about it in a totally different way! I love you guys! ❤
Thank you so much, ladies, for such a beautiful and important message. This message absolutely resonates super deep with me. Sending so much love, light, and gratitude.❤❤❤❤
You ladies have no idea how much I needed to hear this after experiencing a very hard tower moment not long before I clicked on this video - I was headed into the shame spiral and this gave me pause to see/remember the underlying reasons for past behaviours (self protection - a behaviour deeply ingrained from childhood traumas). Thank you so much 🙏🏼❤
Talk about timely!!! Such AMAZING pearls of absolute wisdom and truth!!! This Really hit home for me THANK YOU ALL!!! 🌼
A wonderful episode ladies! So much food for thought! Thank you!❤
Omg someone is cutting onions around here….🧅😭! Whoa Nellie! Elyse when you said “oh I trust her” that did me in. Once you get to that place, and you can turn to YOU when muddy-shoe-peeps enter your zone, that is true freedom & peace. Challenging and ongoing work to get there, but it’s so worth it. Thank you Elyse, Lisa and Ginette so much!! You are really helping this world one vulnerable, authentic podcast at a time. 🩵🙏🏻🌞☀️🌤️💛🌻✨💫🌟🩵
Lisa, I am also one who loves freedom! I recently realized this myself and have started to embrace it, along with my love of exploration, curiosity, and love of new experiences. In childhood, my mom continously called me a "quitter." I had never made that connection until you said what you did. It really helps to have this insight, especially now as I embark on my next big adventure. Thank you!
I started to think about what I do to self sabotage and then mentally chastise myself for. There are two in particular, but they both represent “home”. Hmmmm…. Thank you for delving into this topic 🤗🤗🤗
Maybe it is a sort of battle between you and ’the others’ (collective). A matter of being or feeling ’normal’. Just follow your excitement and know that ’ normal’ does not exist, it is a false beliefsystem.
People need also to understand that the process is more important than the result and it can even improve the result. If you climb a mountain and arrive at the viewpoint, it will be more satisfying than riding up the hill and stop at the viewpoint. The view is the same, but the experience is not.
Look also to the message from archangel jophiel channeled by Mel Lawson on 1/18/2025.
’Be at ease with yourself ’...I saw it right after the spirit coffee talk. It proves again, there are no coincidences.